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Men's "preferences " basically shame women for simply living. Men's "preferences " also usually put women at a disadvantage in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:34 AM
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She has the right to make an informed decision about his character which includes sexual activities
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:01 AM
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And if you haven't told her explicitly that you have other fwb then it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:23 AM
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Sorry dude, but casual sex and hookup culture (which includes fwb) is hoeing. Same as if a women came on here and asked why she's not getting wifed up when people know she has 2 current fwbs. If you treat sex casually like something you "have to get from somewhere" then it already goes to show that it's not intimate for you and you're less of a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:49 AM
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He's in fwb with 2 other women. That's hoeing. She's not making him pay for anything. Just has a reasonable moral that sex isn't for someone she's casually seeing. It's for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:23 AM
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What are you talking about? Your response doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:22 AM
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She's not. She's trying to ensure that she doesn't get pumped and dumped. She has sexual desires too (they're desires not needs) but she's choosing to make good choices and not hoe around like OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:07 AM
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He literally made most of his money being a Webcam pimp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:50 PM
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OK but that's not a fault to the women? I think that mostly applies to age gap relationships. Two 20 year olds getting married is fine but you do have to account for growth. Even at 25, most men aren't seeking marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:47 PM
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Then why bash women for getting married later in life? We can't force men to marry by 25. Sometimes you just don't meet your person by 30
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:45 PM
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You need to disclose to her that you are having sex with others so she can make an informed decision about your character
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:43 PM
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Where do I find one? Are they actually good partners though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:35 AM
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How does being a tech guy make him a good bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:10 AM
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1 and #2: This doesn't apply to most women but if it bothers you so much then you(the guy) need to marry in your early 20s. Women can't get married in their "young prime virgin days" if men in their "young prime virgin days" don't want to marry. If men are trying to "sow their wild oats" during their youth before they're "forced" to settle down then what are women supposed to do during that same time? We can't marry men who aren't open to marriage at that time. 3: While I understand not everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:26 PM
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It's not. You can work on liking yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:00 AM
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Body positivity is not about making others find you attractive. It's about not hating yourself and the way you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 01:10 AM
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1.) The health of children isn't affected to that much of a significant degree between women in their 30s and 20s. There is some but given modern Healthcare, you're fine. And age gaps actually increase break up rates. 2.) I personally don't. But the immature mindset is still there with guys who have kids or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 10:36 PM
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This is the past and even during 2020 after lockdown. I'm on bumble but I find old to not go anywhere. I don't put much faith or effort in it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:34 PM
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Eh I'll just tell the truth I guess. If it even comes up. I only engage in ons when there's something wrong with me. And for the record, I didn't know that guy was married. But we clicked so well and it already felt like we were together. Now I know the term is love bombing and that it's a red flag. I didn't know that then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:33 PM
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LOL. The exact incel rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:26 PM
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He's not a whore. Point blank. There is not full price or discount bullshit. I want a guy who isn't promiscous because he does not want to be promiscoius
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:26 PM
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College, meet up group, student housing, club, friend of friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:06 PM
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My problem is that I don't find men who are seeking relationships. You asked if I had ever had a specific experience, don't take it as the norm. No, why would I put out on the first date? Even for a non promiscuous man? If he's a good man, he's not trying to fuck on the first date either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 08:04 PM
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I already don't so... yea
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:54 PM
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Ons? Once. Totally bad decision cause I had just moved to a new city and the loneliness hit way too hard. First date sex? Once. We actually dated for a bit but turns out he was cheating on his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:06 PM
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I like sex within a relationship. I just want the relationship first. I want the relationships to be genuine. Too many guys are "casual only"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:05 PM
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Like I said, it's not good roi to go all the way to the city just to hang out at a park or bookstore for a small hope of meeting someone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:04 PM
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I am not near the city and it's a big effort and often waste of time to go to the city to do what exactly? Sit in a Cafe? Join a club that's too far away? It's just not a good roi to go all the way to Dallas for slim chance of meeting someone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:57 PM
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I really struggle with meeting people my age. I've always been the youngest at work. No places to hang out near me. The few that are are catered towards an older crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:44 PM
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Oh ok. It's the black pill by a different name
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:34 PM
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Lol. Negative. Nothing out here. I don't even live in the city. It's so hard to meet people that's why when I ask questions like these I'm trying to find specific places since "just look around" doesn't work here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:28 PM
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I don't like hookup culture/promiscuity because.. 1.It's gross. 2.I don't like people who don't care about me using my body as a masturbation tool. 3.Hookup culture treats people disposably and I value the people I spend my time with and engage in sex with. I'm not religious and I do like sex. Just not with randos, strangers, and people who don't value me. I just want someone who's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:20 PM
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Dallas
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:15 PM
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Why do you assume I'm a lying whore (your words in your first reply)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:53 PM
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Why is it so hard for yall to believe that non promiscuous men are desired?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:37 PM
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Makes an effort to and seeks out casual sex. Avoids relationships in lieu of casual sex. High body count (idk 10+?) Sex with multiple people at one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:37 PM
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Like all of the above. I still like parties and clubs but that doesn't mean I hookup. I like nature stuff if I can find the right person. But I'd still like to go party and clubbing with my right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:29 PM
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Those type of women are in abundance. What's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:13 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:50 PM
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Quiet isn't my style. I like confident outgoing men. I try to mold myself to be the same way. Nerdy doesn't bother me if nerdy means liking books, video games, etc. But I don't like boring dudes who don't like to go out. I like to go out and do things so I want someone who matches me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:24 PM
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Should I just start bothering random men in the grocery store? The mall? The sneaker store? Hang out in cabelas?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:22 PM
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30 is my absolute max. I prefer no older than 28. I want someone in the same life stage as me so we can grow our lives together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:00 PM
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With older men I typically see... 1.) They are controlling. They specifically seek out younger women to mold into what they want. Especially if they can use money and financial stability as leverage. They pretty much want a daughter they can fuck. 2.) Immaturity and trying to use younger women to stay young. I'm going forward with my life. I don't want a guy scared to get older trying to keep me and himself as perpetual 20 year olds. Extra creepy when they have kids my age. "Having a gf my kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:59 PM
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With older men I typically see... 1.) They are controlling. They specifically seek out younger women to mold into what they want. Especially if they can use money and financial stability as leverage. They pretty much want a daughter they can fuck. 2.) Immaturity and trying to use younger women to stay young. I'm going forward with my life. I don't want a guy scared to get older trying to keep me and himself as perpetual 20 year olds. Extra creepy when they have kids my age. "Having a gf my kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:59 PM
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With older men I typically see... 1.) They are controlling. They specifically seek out younger women to mold into what they want. Especially if they can use money and financial stability as leverage. They pretty much want a daughter they can fuck. 2.) Immaturity and trying to use younger women to stay young. I'm going forward with my life. I don't want a guy scared to get older trying to keep me and himself as perpetual 20 year olds. Extra creepy when they have kids my age. "Having a gf my kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:59 PM
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With older men I typically see... 1.) They are controlling. They specifically seek out younger women to mold into what they want. Especially if they can use money and financial stability as leverage. They pretty much want a daughter they can fuck. 2.) Immaturity and trying to use younger women to stay young. I'm going forward with my life. I don't want a guy scared to get older trying to keep me and himself as perpetual 20 year olds. Extra creepy when they have kids my age. "Having a gf my kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:57 PM
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I'm totally fine with late 20s. Semi religious, I guess. He probably shouldn't be a practicing religious man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:55 PM
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exactly. I don't think these are unreasonable standards if i hold them myself too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:54 PM
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With older men I typically see... 1.) They are controlling. They specifically seek out younger women to mold into what they want. Especially if they can use money and financial stability as leverage. They pretty much want a daughter they can fuck. 2.) Immaturity and trying to use younger women to stay young. I'm going forward with my life. I don't want a guy scared to get older trying to keep me and himself as perpetual 20 year olds. Extra creepy when they have kids my age. "Having a gf my kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:53 PM
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I have no problem moving away from men who are bad. I'm having trouble finding good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:42 PM
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Idk what any of that means
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:41 PM
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1.It's gross. 2.I don't like people who dont care about me using my body as a masturbation tool. 3.Hookup culture treats people disposably and I value the people I spend my time with and engage in sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:41 PM
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Thank you for the insight username sexy420slutwhore. I trust your guidance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:37 PM
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I tried it yo make sure I wasn't being a hater about hookup culture. I did it like 1.75 times and decided nah hooking up really is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:27 PM
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the suggestions here have mostly been to try trad or religious men. I am not religious myself so it doesn't make sense to go that route. The only decent suggestion was to try grad school. From this thread it just says that men are incapable of being moral. If they can be a slut, then they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:10 PM
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So do men just lack morals? Just because you can be a slut doesn't mean you should or should even want to. Sorry but mutual attraction is necessary for a good relationship. Otherwise I'd pair up with an unattractive guy, not have sex with him, then he'd hate me for feeling so undesired.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:07 PM
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I'm unreasonable for wanting a non promiscous man? One that I'm mutually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:03 PM
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I'd rather someone who wasn't a man whore in the first place. Just because you have options doesn't mean fuck through them all. It's the same morals and standards I hold myself to so I don't think I'm being unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:56 PM
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Y are you getting mad at me for using the definition of beta I see presented. I didn't create the term beta, but if you ask me what it means then I'll say it means a lose because thats how I always see it defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:49 PM
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I'm not sure what SMP means. I'm not unattracted to a man because he's non promiscuous. I'm looking for a man that I like (mutual physical and emotional attraction) that's not promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:46 PM
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I'm not a promiscuous women and I'm not worried about being perceived as such. If all non promiscuous men are ugly, how's that supposed to be solved? Get into a relationship with him but never have sex with him because you're not attracted to him? Mutual attraction is necessary for a good relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:26 PM
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I wasn't ugly in hs. Idk where you're getting that from. But guys at my hs were shitty ppl. Now outside of hs, I'd expect to find more better men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:20 PM
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Ok, but a non-promiscuous "alpha"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:14 PM
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I'm not asking for a virign or to wait til marriage. Just not someone promiscuous who is into hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:51 AM
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Yea. That's the general definition when people use these words
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:41 AM
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This just seems like a waste of time with guys who are shit. It seems very hard to focus on finding your person when you're dating multiples
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:30 AM
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The incentive is that he would want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:06 AM
1

And what caused this if women aren't even riding the cock carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:51 AM
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Men weren't shit back them either. So what's a girl to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:45 AM
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Depends on what you consider beta. But generally I take it to mean a loser and probably ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:44 AM
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I'm a women who has options. But also enough morals and common sense not to fuck any and everything. Is that too much to ask in a non religious man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:42 AM
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Yea I'm not religious. And he doesn't have to be virgin. Just not a hookup culture whore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:40 AM
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Oh. Yea. Well. I don't like promiscuity. In either gender so. I'm a non whore seeking another non whore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:39 AM
0

Huh. It just seems weird though. That logic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:36 AM
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A relationship seeking woman is rare? I thought that's the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:35 AM
2

I appreciate it, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:32 AM
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Most religious people want a religious spouse so they can live a religious life together. That's how religion works
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:30 AM
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OK. But in order for us to meet, there has to be a place that focuses on that to meet. If there's not enough to just bump into randomly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:29 AM
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Quiet men are not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:28 AM
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Stalk some grad schools, got it. 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:26 AM
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And how does someone being a loser make them marriage minded or a good partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:26 AM
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Why would I date someone I don't even like?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:25 AM
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Oh well, I didn't know any good people in hs let alone good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:24 AM
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Hey twin! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:24 AM
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If they're in church then they probably practice their religion. Why would go to religious place, marry a religious man, then not want a to live a religious life?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:23 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:22 AM
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I'm attractive (generally obviously I won't be everyone's type). But attractiveness doesn't make a man whore want a gf. Nor do I want a man whore in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:22 AM
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Not if you're not a religious person, it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:10 AM
2

That's not very focused though. We need a place focused on dating (not hooking up). So people there have a focused intention and similar interest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:10 AM
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Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:09 AM
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