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Nurture and take active part in creating your own female social circle/support network. Help other women, be their ally, vet them to avoid pick-me’s. I started a book club during the pandemic and we have teams calls to discuss, drink wine and eat cheese. Highly recommend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:13 AM
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My baby brother told me this! When he used to live with me he would cook, clean, pay his share of bills, he’d fold or hang up my clothes if I left them in the dryer. He told me, in person and in action. If a person cares about you, they’ll help you out or be available when you need it. When I worked long hours, he’d go to the library closest to my work place so he could walk me to my car and we’d go home. He always does the groceries shopping for my mom, and I think most of all, he doesn’t profe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:54 AM
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Don’t forget the boat! The best thing about boat ownership is other people owning it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:17 AM
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It’s why you should never give a chance to a man who won’t wait before sex. Last year my so and I had an abstained relationship. No sex for 3 months, still plenty of dates, kisses, hugs and cuddles but no sex at all. Masturbation was ok, but not mutual masturbation. Just fix it on your own. Our relationship became so much stronger and it increased our passion level. Ymmv, but I suggest having a sexless period of time just to see how it goes ⭐️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:44 AM
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Trigger warning! This article is extremely distressing and deals with the sexual coercion and rape that goes on after childbirth for some women. https://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/sex-too-soon-after-childbirth-this-problem-is-bigger-than-we-realise/S3VQ765RLJ43BQLPYHDSPATDFM/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:40 AM
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Wise choice sis, hope you have a great rest of the day ⭐️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:31 AM
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Seconding, do you remember the title of that episode?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:28 AM
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That reminds me of when I was in quarantine last year. My SO (whom I’m still vetting) ordered me groceries and no-contact take out for us both and we FaceTimed while eating. This was over several days as I my quarantine lasted almost 2 weeks. If he’s not spending that hard work to make your life easier, he doesn’t care about you. If he’s not anticipating your needs, he doesn’t care about you. If he’s not your nr 1 fan/cheerleader, he doesn’t care about you. As women we do all those things for ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:01 AM
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Males fuck chicken sandwiches on camera for no pay, they stick their dicks in car exhaust pipes. “Any hole is a goal” in their locker room talks. Of course it’s a bad idea to be most guys type. I 100% agree with you btw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:08 AM
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It reminds me of the all female villages in Kenya. They’re attacked by males to such a degree that one village had to hire male guards/police to patrol them to PREVENT males from accessing these areas. Those villages were built and maintained by women who escaped male violence and now they were being subjected to even more violence because they actually went WGTOW. No purely female space is safe so long as males exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:58 AM
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Learn how to drop your weight if someone grabs you. I learned this from (cliche alert) my brothers, that and women are generally more flexible than males, and we have better balance, drop your weight and use your legs to kick knees, back of knees, don’t be afraid of headbutts a well placed one on the bridge of the nose will break it, eye gouging etc. NB. My brothers only taught me about the back of knee kicking and dropping weight, plus the ground and pound, where you take your opponent to the f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:36 AM
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Wow, you’re so much more fierce than I expected! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:08 PM
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No, take it to a jeweler first. Get it appraised, insured and then lose his number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:58 PM
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They ARE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:56 PM
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Yup! I don’t care though, making a new account is free and I regularly retire old accounts because internet is not safe. So many deranged people who just try to snoop and dox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:16 AM
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Not sure, but the last one I remember was FDS showing the comments of guys who said they were fathers and secretly lusting after their teenager daughters friends. Like over 1000 upvotes for men admitting they were checking out 14 year olds but “nah, just for spank wank, I won’t rape them lol, just wait until they’re 18 lol, it’s ok and bIOlOGicAl lol” etc. Fucking predators were having a field day and FDS users were shamed for saying “eww, disgusting, how can men think this way? Those are childr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:12 AM
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It’s because a lot of feminist spaces are modded by men. The original non-porn lesbian sub was modded by a guy who just signed it up. Askfeminism has an MRA as a mod. So I’ll let you draw your own conclusions as why you were banned. Women organizations and women conversations are “misandrist” we can’t talk or say anything about the physical hurt we receive irl by males because male feelings are more important than a woman’s safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:01 AM
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Saaaaaaame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:53 AM
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Oh shit, forgot you were a doormat. Get back in a kitchen somewhere. RPW shouldn’t be on the internet anyways. It’ll corrupt your delicate female hypergamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:10 PM
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lol, in my world women are not blameless victims. It’s like you don’t understand that I can point to a flaw in men without it being a complete absolvement of women. In any case, don’t you have a ditch to dig?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:07 PM
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Humans? You mean males.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:53 PM
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Then stop whining about it. Plus, I’d like to see those stats. The ones I’ve found do not separate between genders that assaulted the victim. Lesbians abused by males are still counted as a lesbian abused, you just infer it was abuse by a woman. Bring me them stats boyo. In any case, stop killing yourself and each other so often. Gosh, it’s not even that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:49 PM
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Yup, they have no issue blaming women, or generalizing them. Why should I be better? Males need to choose better friends and jobs if they are so keen on living.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:41 PM
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“Waaahmen kill too!” To what extent? More men kill men than women kill men. Maybe you should choose your friends better, Kevin?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:37 PM
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AMALT. All men would rape and abuse all women and children if they could get away with it. Statistics prove it, so you’re either an outlier or a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:00 AM
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You guys throw literal temper tantrums when FDS calls men scrotes. Men literally kill women and 1 woman who made a tweet saying kill all men years ago is still heavy on your mind. You’re only ok with other men teasing you, you call women rejecting to you “abusive” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:33 AM
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You can also be available to help other women with their kids even if you don’t want any of your own. I absolutely adore kids/babies and I spend a lot of my free time (pre pandemic) babysitting for friends or taking my nibblings out to play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:01 AM
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Congrats on the new life sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:50 AM
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I read a feminist piece on how swell it would be to have a wife, and ever since, I’ve said I’d happily get married if it meant I got a wife! Imagine someone giving you emotional support, cleaning your home, making you dinner almost every evening, taking care of your children to your liking, doing your laundry, keeping up with the neighborhood , schools, doing your errands, making sure the bills are paid, taking care of the groceries within your budget, buying presents for you, the kids, family m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:48 AM
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Omg! Please tell me you have a link to that?! I’m Norwegian myself so it doesn’t surprise me, but I absolutely have to share it with my femmegroup!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:41 AM
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Girl you are braver than me, I could never be with a man who didn’t clean himself. Even in my pick me days the lack of hygiene and skin care was a deal breaker. Btw, ever noticed how horrible men are with their skin care?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:24 AM
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I looked through all of them, and sorry, a lot of them are still wearing make up in the no make up picture. Kylie is wearing a lot of mascara, she’s also wearing some sort of foundation and tinted eye cream. She might also be wearing tinted lip balm Cardi b isn’t wearing make up at all. Ariana grande is wearing mascara and upper eyeliner Gwen stefani no make up unless she is wearing foundation only. Lady Gaga, mascara and most def some light tinted eye cream. Human Barbie is wearing foundation a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:03 PM
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Yeah, some dude offered to pay me for pictures I told him to send half first then ghosted him/blocked him after I received the payment on a prepaid Visa card lol. He didn’t take no for an answer and afterwards he was threatening to kill me, rape me etc. Glad he got scammed out of 120£. 10/10, would reccomend , would do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:05 AM
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I mean there’s plenty of guys who are like that. They just expect the same from you. My SO isn’t a breadwinner, but that’s because we earn around the same amount give or take 1-2k difference per year. We have compatible careers and are pretty similar in our future outlook. It doesn’t hurt that he’s 6’2 and has a full head of thick hair. He’s also porn free, which is a must and a deal breaker. I would advice OP to never settle. Either get what she wants or invests in herself enough to love her ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:56 AM
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I’ve seen that happen IRL. An acquaintance of mine was dating a guy from the start of university (2006) until 2018/19, they were supposedly talking about marriage and kids, he gave her one of those candy rings, it’s a plastic ring with a candy on top, she never unwrapped the candy and had it as her “promise” ring. Anyways, she proposed to him, he said no and finally they broke up. Earlier this year I was shooting the breeze with my sister and she tells me so-and-so’s ex is getting married this y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:07 AM
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Nah, I would say it’s more like refusing to date someone who eats meat when you yourself spend your time hunting or volunteer at an abattoir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:47 AM
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50%? Do you really spend 50% of your life pursuing the opposite sex? I find that incredulous, but maybe you’re one of those people and that’s ok. My point is, men have always been aggressive, with women's consent or without. Blaming women for your poor, negligent or criminal behavior is just a point against men. It means men are trash, and I hope you don’t agree with that. That’s misandrist ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:17 AM
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Sex isn’t a reward. Men have always been more aggressive and violent than women, for most of recorded history, women didn’t even have a choice is who to marry. I can’t tell you what men want, but I can show you that most men would have sex with any woman. Isn’t that why you guys are so adamant about “women only need to show up”. I don’t want us speaking past each other or moving goalposts, so tell me, TO WHAT EXTENT does women’s behaviour affect the ACTUAL choices that men make? If men can’t be …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:56 AM
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A lot of people are manipulative shitstains, men and women alike. Many of the women who date or stay with shitty men are themselves shitty people because like attracts like. There is also the fact that abuse never starts immediately, it escalates as the years go by. Many men were wholesome good people who lost their jobs, had health issues, turned to alcohol or opiates and then started abusing their families. The victimology surrounding abusive relationships is complex and if you wanted to learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:39 AM
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Maybe the woman in question is a douche too? Have you never heard “birds of a feather flock together”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:22 AM
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Being genuinely nice is something you do for yourself, for your own self satisfaction. It’s not a useless trait because if you are a normal person, it feels good to help others. During the pandemic I went grocery shopping for 2 of my elderly neighbors. I got to walk a bit more and it felt really good to be helpful to someone without it costing me anything more than a longer walk and a few heavier bags. Try it, you might even like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:20 AM
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Women have never lied about preferring attractive men. You were too busy consuming media and art made by men that show dorky, unkept weirdos getting the girl that you thought all you had to do was “just be yourself!” To bag the hot, popular genuinely nice girl next door. I’m sorry Adam Sandler lied to you, and I’m sorry men seem to be too stupid to understand that attractiveness matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:15 AM
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Because they’re psychopaths? Do you not know how psychopaths and sociopaths operate? Those criminals/ gangsters aren’t dating nurses and teachers, they’re dating strippers, prostitutes, dealers and petty thiefs. But of course, since men don’t give a fuck what women do other than wetting dicks, that thought has probably not occurred to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:11 AM
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Tony Stark built an Ironman suit in a cave in the desert with scrap metal. Movies are a form of escapism for women and men. None of us watching capeshit or even Atomic Blonde ever think it can be translated into real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:30 PM
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Lol, an oppressor telling me what women like. You’re either an admitted cheater or you encourage cheating. You and your opinions belong in the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 06:42 AM
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Good, leave those women in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 04:27 AM
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That’s a trash move. Why not just break up with her? Leave the poor sexless woman alone and go pursue your affair partners in earnest. Fucking trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 04:26 AM
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lol, that’s so pathetic. Men hate themselves so much that they would rather fuck someone they’re unattracted to than be alone enjoying their own company.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:18 AM
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Star fish and just laying there while he has his way? How the Fock are you men so casual about coercing a person you supposedly love into sex? She obviously doesn’t want it if you’re just using her as a fleshlight/ masturbatory aid. Gosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:15 AM
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Only one telling stories is you. Stop watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 04:20 AM
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You’re confusing porn with real life. High heels are usually not allowed in hospital settings, they’re highly impractical and can even cause damage in emergency situations (such as evacuation of patients in case of fire) almost everyone in hospitals wear scrubs, doctors, surgeons, nurses, and custodial staff. Some general practitioners wear normal clothes, but even then there are standards for their attire. Either way, you’re fucking weird. Stay away from the “females”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:56 AM
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Turn your notifications off, do not accept DM’s on reddit (you can turn it back on if need be) put your status as hiding so they can’t see when you’re online. Scrotes spend an ungodly amount of time online, so breaking them is easy by just blocking, deleting and not responding. Let them scream and beg into the void.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:24 AM
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Good luck! 🍀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:21 AM
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Even though I myself am childfree, I know society, and especially women would be better off with nurseries at work places. Less women would have to quit their jobs and rely on men, more women would be able to save for their golden years, more children might even be born! ( I think babies are super cute, I just don’t want my own) Helping my sister by giving her time off from childcare to nurture her friendships, herself and even her relationship with her husband is a win-win. She gets to relax an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:19 AM
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Ugh, as much as my father was an absolute mysoginistic shitheel, he was adamant about his daughters never being taken advantage of. He showed me first hand that a man can believe women as a whole are horrible, but No! Not his daughters! At least he also believed that cleanliness is next to godliness, so he never was a filthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:09 AM
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My sisters best friend had an ADULT stalker at age 10! Her parents would not/could not leave her at home alone after school and that’s how my sister and her became best friends. The police did nothing because “he hasn’t done anything”. Creepy old dude used to follow us in his car and offer us a ride or video rentals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:32 AM
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Don’t ask that. You know they fuck chicken sandwiches. They have absolutely no limit to their deprivation. 🤮🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:19 AM
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They’re not actually sewing the vagina tighter, just the entrance into it. I read some accounts of women having to be torn open again because the stitches prevented the vaginal opening from fully relaxing, making sex agonizing. The scar tissue itself, if not stichted properly, can cause massive sexual dysfunction. All in all, she should divorce the maggot, making sure to write down exactly why she is divorcing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:57 AM
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I was bummed out when andreasgarden was banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:38 AM
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Men are more likely to be raped by a man than be falsely accused of rape by a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:35 PM
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I always asked for their names and did a cursory search on them before agreeing to go on a date. One dude lied to me about where he worked and another lied about being single. This was years ago though. I’m glad I’m not looking to date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:12 AM
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See, this is why I babysit for my sister. She needs time off to be herself, spend time with her friends and charge her batteries! I’m grateful for her carrying and birthing my niece and nephew because I don’t want kids of my own. We used to have whole generations of family taking of kids, and now it’s just two parents? Ridiculous, it takes a village. If society wants more kids born, they have to make it worthwhile for the women birthing these kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:42 PM
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Valerie what? Can you link me to her? I’m not justifying anything, I’m telling there is a difference between words and actions. Men already say stuff like that. All the time, it’s not new. You’re only upset because now women are saying the exact same thing. You should be happy they’re not doing the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:00 AM
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They were serious? Please direct me to a real life incident of feminists murdering men or killing male babies for the sake of feminism. Mean while, I’ll direct you to some wiki pages of some very famous woman hating men who actually killed or maimed women as well as the factual repercussions of female infanticide in India and China. Btw, I’m 100% sure they were being sarcastic. You’re just emotional because you’re not used to jokes being made at your expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:08 PM
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On one hand women are tweeting shitty things, on the other, men are actually doing shitty things. Remind me which gender is actually aborted for sex selective purposes? I don’t see any males getting pissy about that, but make a sarcastic tweet about the actual things happening to women and it’s all “omg! Misandrist!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:31 AM
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That’s actually because of agricultural run-off. Fertilizers, growth hormones and pesticides are the most common causes for the hormonal and developmental changes we see in fish and amphibians, especially in fresh water lakes and rivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 06:25 AM
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Steubenville, that’s just off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:59 AM
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You’re too sensitive, a fact can be a joke, lighten up and come prepared with better material next time.
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/21 03:35 PM
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Men already kill women, so that’s a fact of life, not a joke. Here is a joke, any man objecting to cock and ball torture is a prude.
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/21 01:53 AM
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I thought you guys liked jokes? Lighten up and stop being so testerical.
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/21 01:07 AM
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Lol, you men are really emotional about 1 woman explaining what she experienced and other women agreeing with her. As for that black man comment, it’s not because he is black. He robs because he is a man.
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/21 07:58 AM
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Are children not humans? Do they not require care as patients?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:48 AM
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Would you prefer being an Indian man in India or an Indian woman in India? How about in rural China, would you rather be a man or murdered as a young girl? Men as a whole hate women, but they hate eachother too, so they rape, pillage and murder and sometimes they’re placated by having a punching bag at home. Any non-western country is absolute hell for women. And it’s because of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:27 AM
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Men commonly suffer from suicide, I’d hate to see you succumb to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:38 PM
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Lol, typical male, threatening violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:07 PM
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Eww, saggy old balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:01 PM
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Did you sit on your balls or something? Is that why you’re being so overly emotional and dramatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:53 PM
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I bet you do 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:00 PM
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Sorry sis, I’m afflicted with the sickness of straightness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:54 PM
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Nope, Chad gives me tingles and makes me stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 07:32 PM
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Thanks! Most whoremongers fail to see just how funny I am. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 05:01 PM
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You have really nice cuticles! Your nails are buffed to perfection, if that is natural then lord take me ow, because that is beyond my grasp. Great job sis! Happy new year 🎊🎆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:27 PM
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Ok, cool. Thanks! Have a happy New year 🎇🎆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:23 PM
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Ok, I’ll bear that in mind. Btw, just out of curiosity which male specific gendered slurs are ok to use? If for instance in the future I were to say something like “whoremongers” would that be ok? Can I call someone a “diseased dick”? Totally fair if that’s not allowed, just want to know how much of an asshole I can be towards my fellow retards ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:03 PM
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Old men send young men to die in wars. You should take this up with the males in charge. In any case, stop shifting the goal posts, this thread is about birth control, not war. You need a lesson in debate because your inherent male logicz is failing you. Ps. Please remain stoic and don’t punch any walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:33 AM
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It’s not even about the shame, I think of all the skin problems? The filth and dirt that they probably scratch about with them everywhere. Disgusting. Glad we agree on this though ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:24 PM
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Lol, have you not been on the relationship subs? I read them for shits and giggles. There are people who do not wash their towels. Like at all! There are also people who do not wash their bedsheets or don’t even have a mattress protector!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:11 PM
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No, you should do an only fans. Get that validation you so crave. If you need more, you can hop on Grindr, get even more validation and there will be plenty of guys willing to suck your dick for free. Some will even pay you for it. You get to nut, a few buck and you get validation to boot! This is what men want right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:44 AM
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No-one wants a wimpy pushover who can’t stand up to his parents/peers to protect his own dignity. I bet you wouldn’t want a doormat that gives your stuff away because “well, my dad needed your toolkit! He doesn’t have his own, and pls don’t be mad with me! Even though he’ll destroy it or never bring it back!” A good man is a capable adult who is not disrespectful to people, he is pleasant but not a pushover, he has his own hobbies but like an adult he cleans up after himself, and he washes his t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:15 AM
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The existence of men is my main point of contention, but periods are a close second 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:51 PM
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No thanks, I’m not gonna prove to you that some women can be great friends to you. You already did it yourself. You just consider her a unicorn. Thanks for the chat!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:50 PM
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That’s a lot of words for “shitty people were shitty towards me, and now I don’t trust anyone who have the same genitals as them!” Lol, and women are dramatic? I’m not here to coddle you or explain your feelings to you, if you don’t want female friends don’t have them. If you “feeeel” like someone else needs to convince you that some women are not shitty then you’re frankly not worth convincing. As for being bitchy, funny how you use a gendered slur against me for saying men who don’t like women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:41 PM
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I asked someone to leave me be, how is that narcissistic? Is this some of that famed male logic I’m witnessing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:22 PM
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Good, now do one more and leave me be too. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:16 PM
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Its not passive aggressive, it’s fully aggressive. As for “insults” you’re blinded by your homoromance. Men always stick up for one another. If I were to ask. What’s the point of having Indian friends, you’d probably think I were being either racist or bigoted. In any case, I do think men like him should not have female friends. So we agree, he should stay away from women. I can’t convince a man that women are people and some of them are probably worthy of having as friends. I find it frankly st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:15 PM
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Good for you! Go help eachother and leave us be. This is a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:55 PM
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Men on this forum are always calling us mentally deficient chil like whores. The moment we even say anything like “okay, then go away” cue the man tears. None of you ever tell men to stfu, but for some reason, we are at fault for the behaviour of men? You won’t catch me being a pick-me, if debate is what you want, maybe start policing his language too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:54 PM
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Classic male move to pretend I’m mentally abusing him. Dude, you don’t like women, why are you even trying to pretend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:51 PM
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Don’t have female friends, I don’t think any woman wants to have a friend like you, so this is a win/win 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:57 PM
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Would you help a male friend move? Would you listen to the problems of a male friend? Would you fix stuff with a male friend? If you said yes to that, then what’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:56 PM
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Women: I won’t have sex with a man unless I know he wants me for more than sex. You: that’s it, I’m not accepting this anymore! I’m not even gonna call the cops if one of you is being raped right in front of me! Just one more proof that men are a danger to women and you can’t trust them to do the right thing (calling the police in when they witness a crime).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:58 AM
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Dude, a man is not cold approaching a woman he finds unattractive. That’s just how it is. When I’m cold approached it’s always someone either asking me to join a religion or club or something, selling something or if it’s a man, he is looking to get his dick wet. I’m a completely average looking woman imo. I’d probably score higher in the US simply because I’m not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:11 AM
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Lol, no. Old men who take care of themselves are still just old men. Even brad Pitt was better looking in his youth. Stop lying to yourself and to the young men around you. If you were not good looking in your twenties, unless it’s weight related, you won’t be good looking in your forties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:13 PM
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Probably in case of children. She’ll be the one in having to recover from the placental wound for approx 6 weeks, then it’s the nursing of the kid and you can’t exactly bring an infant to work with you. Unless they live somewhere in Europe, they would depend on 1 income for around 3-6 months at the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:12 AM
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Older men are ugly though 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:08 AM
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Some people have small apartments with small fridges. They probably buy dry ingredients in bulk and fresh groceries like fruit and vegetables, meat/fish daily. I do the same since our fridge is tiny. I can’t put in a new one because it’s integrated, but hopefully I’ll get a chest freezer soon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:32 AM
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I’m glad we agree! Have a good day 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:17 AM
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Never said I was for any kind of revenge politics either. I just don’t think the US is as feminist as you think it is. Speaking of trump, 70 million of the voting public voted for Trump. But that’s beside the point, I was saying that the world has changed and in some countries (not even the majority mind you) you can’t keep women as domestic sex slaves. If a man still wants to do that, he’ll have to provide for his bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:42 AM
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Then just stay away from women. I don’t get what your problem is? You can’t keep slaves anymore. If you want a housewife you are going to pay, if you don’t want to pay for her time, effort and work she puts in and you’re not interested in women who have their own careers then you’ve put yourself in a tight spot. Just stay away from women I’m sure they’ll appreciate your sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:18 AM
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Why not just get a nanny and a meal delivery service plus a weekly cleaning? I mean it’s your house, your kids, your everything. Kick her out and keep your kids after all, she doesn’t have jackshit. She can’t afford a lawyer. Hell, you can probably get her to pay child support too. It’s a win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 11:48 AM
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Sorry for the very late comment, I was waiting for the purge to finish. As for your last point. Would you forego your bodily autonomy to fulfill the desires and sexual wellbeing of the male homosexuals? You would as a male, be providing a service. And as you’ve said multiple times, the well-being of many is more important than the bodily autonomy of one. I trust you will be offering your services to help men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 07:32 PM
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Alley behind a dumpster? I thought fields were all the new rage 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:25 AM
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It takes time to unholster, aim and shoot your handgun. Doubly so for long guns and depending on the sling (back/front) A person who ambushes you or runs at you with a knife can easily disarm you or even turn the weapon on you. A gun works great if you can see your opponent coming and already have it loaded and in your hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:59 AM
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But that’s the issue, I will never take kids on my own. I don’t want to parent. Sure, I could probably birth them, but no more. I think kids are weird and wonderful, but I don’t want that part. He can keep them. I would be a terrible mother. In any case, thank you so much! You’re really helping me understand my motivations. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:50 PM
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You’re 100% correct. I wouldn’t even consider it if it were not for him. However, my job allows 19months of parental leave. I don’t want to parent, but he could use my leave ( my employers are very generous) I am facing so much pressure in general basically. Everyone wants us to have a baby. I feel like I’m buckling under all this immense pressure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:43 PM
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Go on, prude shame me all you want. At least I won’t have a broken larynx.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:25 PM
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Yeah sure, they can do whatever. I just don’t care for watching others have sex. Pornographers are also a huge liability towards the safety of young women in general. It is not okay to sexualise beatings or strangulations. It’s disgusting and only adds a new vector for as to how men abuse women. They watch it, internalize it and act on it with actual women. Real human beings. Porn consumers are scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 04:23 PM
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Apologies for the late reply. He could, but he won’t. So what does that make him? A beta? Even though he is quite sought after by other women. Tall, broad shoulders, a good chin, full head of hair etc. He is what one might call a good pick just by looks alone because his face is attractive too. However, even with all the options available he has chosen me. A person who is belligerent, testy even. Quick to annoyance and against pornographers. We both have good relationships with our families and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:12 PM
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Apologies for the late reply, However, I do agree with most of your points. My current (medical examiner) is does have those basics. I do expect more, I want him to plan dates, accept that no matter what I will still keep a place of my own. (He can have keys) accept that just as much as he loves his family, I love mine too. He can dump me or get with it. Also, no porn, because that is not only degenerate cucking, it brings in money for human traffickers and feeds into the abhorrent practices of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:51 PM
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Lol, cool that we agree. Men are murderous, women lie a lot. Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:00 PM
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And yet it still exists! Curious don’t you think? What could be the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:59 PM
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Society? Nah, women have more compassion for women. Just take a look at the world at large and see how barbaric and inhuman men can be to both each other and to women. Anyways, enjoy your spergfest and please donate a few dollars to an AI project near you so you can abuse robots instead of women. Thank you and god bless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:59 PM
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Ah, so men kill women because it is easy? Even better that sexless males are increasing. Maybe some men are just better than others and won’t kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:56 PM
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Women don’t kill men who reject them in nearly the same numbers as the reverse. Are you dense or something? Homicides are something men champion, both as victims and as perpetrators. Go play some video games and stop approaching women. I think it would be for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:08 PM
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All I hear is “but.. but.. not all men!” And “yes all women”. Go play your games, someone expressing their views is not oppression. Btw, the actions you speak of are also done to women. Yet, Women just whine on social media or just get a cat. Men kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 02:02 PM
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How strange... Women go through all that and still never murder men to the same degree. Curious how the logical and stable genius gender always resorts to violence and hatred when they dont get their willies wet. Anyways, stay away from us, bang your bros or dolls or chicken sandwhiches. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:33 PM
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Before technology women were bound to men they didn’t even like as people. Forced marriages or marriage under coercion was common. You just don’t like it when women say “no ugly men, no un-educated men, no non-empathetic men etc” Pretty sure if it weren’t for children most women would be happy to forego male harassment for sex. I can’t wait until sexdolls are on the market. Maybe then men can put their energy into fucking those instead of bothering women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 02:55 PM
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Yes. That shit is weird. Why are you watching other people have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 07:57 PM
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Not if you can afford it! But then again, Germany is actually a great country for all sorts of medical procedures on private insurance and cheaper too if you live in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 05:45 PM
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Sorry, I meant that guy left you alone right? What did you do to get that reaction? Did you just love him too much? Set boundaries? What did you do to get that result? Btw, no judgement as I think you’re better off. I hope you can get someone who matches you perfectly ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 05:34 PM
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You’re right! Ever since I started reading TRP and the sidebar I know exactly which dudes to dismiss wholly. TRP is a great resource for women too, and once you know it’s being deployed, you can just cut them off. TRP can actually be used at work as well, playing hot/cold is a surefire way to play people who usually just want to stay in your good graces. However, I stopped doing that because I actually care about people around me and it made me feel shitty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 05:30 PM
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Quick off topic question; how do you get a guy to STOP liking you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 05:18 PM
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A- there is nothing to keep secret. He knows who my exes are. B- nothing at all, I’m as vanilla as they come and I do not condone pornography, kink, anal and all that weird stuff. C-most people know I’m a prude, there is absolutely nothing “exciting” that I’ve done. Maybe trying cocaine? Even then it was just a “meh” experience. D- relationship wise? I am ashamed I was ever nice to certain people. There was no sex, only a person trying to get into my pants and me being nice about turning him dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 05:16 PM
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Colorism does play a huge part. There is also the fact that west-African features are seriously looked down upon. I know for a fact that if I were not “conventionally” pretty (as in slim nose, straight hair and just a reddish-brown skin) I would not have guys hitting on me. The features of some black women are deemed masculine no matter how thin they are or how bubbly, smart or generous they are. If you do have darker skin, I would advice you to just wait. Don’t settle for scraps. You’re still y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 05:00 PM
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Ok. Make that clear to them instead of pretending to be a friend and being “used”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 04:02 PM
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Wtf is an “emotional tampon”?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 01:53 PM
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Maybe you’re just not good at communicating effectively? Perhaps you can be more explicit in what you’re trying to convey instead of couching it in vague language. Be more direct. Btw, English is not my first language so it could be the reason it seems we are talking past one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:28 PM
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Well, I can’t realistically live the female separatist dream quite yet... gotta outlive a few men I care about first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:07 PM
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What’s wrong with having an average IQ? You can’t realistically expect to be better than everyone and realizing this is not a flaw. I think you should take those words to heart if you’re so set in your ways that you can’t imagine someone being smarter than you. Thanks for the compliment on my memory though, it’s true I have a knack for remembering. It really helps when you work with numbers all day 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:06 PM
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Being against pornographers, prostitution and putting effort into helping female specific charities are all radfem ideas. I’m sorry you don’t understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 01:01 PM
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For starters, I’m against pornography and I consider prostitution to be unethical. I support women’s shelters and advocate against childhood obesity both monetarily and (pre-covid) by volunteering in sports clubs and shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 12:51 PM
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No, only weird weebs do stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 12:47 PM
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Replace “feel” with think and delete the “like”. An example “I think this can be improved in x, y, z manner. Time line is until x.date. Get back to me if you have questions.” Or “I think your approach is flawed. This can be improved in x,y,z ways. Let’s touch base tomorrow to discuss further.” Don’t ever write a smiley, unless it’s to someone you genuinely care for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:09 PM
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DiCaprio is a tubby. He only looked good during titanic. Beta bucks is weird as fuck. Why would I spend time with a man who only works? Like that’s his only function in life. As for resources, I studied and have a good job, if he is ugly and weird what exactly does he bring? In any case, I would rather be single for life than date the type of man you’re describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 02:02 PM
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From your description I do not want a beta. Sounds like a weirdo. So he has not had a life before me? He is a tabula rasa? Ew. I’m not into nor have I ever engaged in “casual dating”, but my so does/should have a life outside of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:06 PM
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So basically you’re a whore? Lol. No thanks. I would not fuck bezos for a billion. I have a happy life with direction, a job I’m good at and the opportunity to indulge in my passions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:01 PM
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How? Do you not leave your home? I am far from being the most attractive woman but even I get approached IRL a few times a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:33 AM
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Maybe the women you’re approaching already have a relationship? I get a cold approach a few times a month, but I am already in a multi year relationship. I act indifferent and mean because you’re wasting your time and mine asking me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:30 AM
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Your description of yourself is very attractive. The fact that you go out to just have fun and won’t be pressed about being turned down instantly puts you way ahead of a lot of men. Enjoy your life, stay in touch with your friends and take care of your kids ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:26 AM
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I’m too heterosexual to be a cool commie...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:07 AM
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Nope, do not want to be a “mother”. I could birth a child, but it would be allll on someone else to raise it. I want Kodak moments only. As for toxic masculinity? Dude, I grew up in it. I would immerse any child I had in sports and education. Masculinity can be great, but certain parts of it (relationships etc) are fucking weird. Also, I am aware of the fact that I as a woman cannot experience the male POV. Their father or my brothers will be their role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:50 PM
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Don’t you think it would be nice to have at least some traits we can agree on that makes an Alpha? At least it would make debating/hating each other easier 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:40 PM
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So it’s not about the looks at all? It comes down to what type/age of women he can bang? So what makes a man alpha is how hot/young the women who might sleep with him are?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:35 PM
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Well, I am selling myself a bit short here. I am an environmentalist too! Not vegetarian nor vegan, just very interested in keeping our pristine nature plastic free and supporting local farmers/butchers. I WANT the chicken innards to make an amazing stock. I can make an onion and liver stew over a fire, all I need is salt and I always keep that with me in my fire kit. Did you know that you can fit 3 tampons in a matchbox? Tampons are a great fire starter, dry and wrapped for your convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:31 PM
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Pay for the first date, tell her she’ll be on the hook for the next and specify what type of food you want. At worst you got rid of gold digger at best you get someone who puts in the same amount of effort and pays for date nr2 because that’s how much she wants you. It’s was less convoluted than trying to figure out sex stuff. I’m not used to that casual dating thing because I really, truly for the life of me, cannot have sex with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:52 PM
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I really wish I could, it would blow your minds lol. Unfortunately, I cannot. However, if you want we can become friends. After a while you might be able to see a few pics of me and my broad shouldered blue eyed hunk of a man🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:47 PM
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Yes! I have read it, I think most men without proper education or upbringing will fit the behavior matrix of an abuser to a T. This is just how men are, as told by my father and my mother. However, as a Feminist, I also do believe that men can transcend beyond being useful brutes. You are a person with personality traits, both wholesome and less, with happiness and sorrow. Some I may not ever understand, but all in all you are a person. There is no question, no matter how much we disagree, I wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:41 PM
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DiCaprio does NOT look boyish. What are you even on? He is fat as fuck and his agency pays models to fuck him. No woman has cared about his looks since titanic. He is absolutely not a Brad Pitt and even he looked best in fight club, he was old ever since that. George Clooney is the only classically elder attractive male but even he is grandpa age lol. Amal Clooney is an age appropriate woman who is very into what he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:29 PM
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So what’s the delio then? What does alpha mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:22 PM
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That makes sense to me actually. I love him, so I want him. It just so happens that all the other things about him equals more + than - . If it were not for how attractive he is I would have never known how wonderful his family is which is a +,I also would not have given him the opportunity to ever buy me anything, but because of that I found out how generous he is. If it were not for my thrifty ways I would not have known how thrifty he was himself. My SO trusts me to take care of everything me…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:19 PM
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I don’t know, that what I am asking TRP. It seems as if what the woman thinks of this dude you describe is more important than just the words describing him. In other words, a man might be all those things, but according to TRP he might still be a BETA. It basically depends on the women he attracts/keeps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:53 PM
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Did I misinterpret you? I though you were a snarky tradcon? Don’t you have a weird history with loads of dudes and the one you have now is suuuuuuuper traditional? Are you not atlas?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:49 PM
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I am a radical feminist interested in relationships with men. I have wonderful men that I have either worked with or grown up with. I come from a sexist but also very liberating (in terms of education) household. Radfem is about liberation from gender roles and to an extent the opportunity to live without men. Unfortunately I was cursed with brothers who I really and truly care about so I can’t do separatism for at least until a long while. In the meantime I have found myself a newish man (many …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:46 PM
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What female social status am I aiming for right here and right now? I am posting with my regular account and it has years of history. None of my friends are here, my SO isn’t here. So what type of validation do you think I getting? As of now I, along with this post, am getting downvoted. There is no way for me to have positive experience from this. Can you please answer the question. How can a woman know she is with an Alpha Bucks as compared with a BETA BUCKS. What are the parameters for this d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:34 PM
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Ah! I have come across that stubbornness too! Eh, mine makes like 20k more than me which in this income bracket is basically nothing. We give each other vacations for presents, that’s where we are. In any case, did you give him kids? Mine wants them so bad he is willing to trade a goat farm and chicken coop for it. I understand where both he and our parents are coming from. We would make beautiful kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:24 PM
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It’s not that it’s stupid to post, it’s just that I could fake it anyways. In any case, I am posting with my after ban account aaaaaaand I was a verified poster at FPH while it existed. So the least you can know is that I am most def not fat. Pretty sure I posted a run time too. Not my best but it was ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:16 PM
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Lol, dude, I wish I could! I posted photos on FPH back before it was banned. But I have a super important job now so no more social media photos 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:14 PM
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I think you are kind of correct. I am very “sweet” on him, but that doesn’t mean submissiveness. I like him how he is, strong, and validated by his own beliefs. Likewise, I am validated in my own beliefs. I’m not intimidated by crushing a bug or setting up the fire at camping. I am however impressed with how he sharpens knives or ties the flies for fly fishing. I also pay for my own, he is welcome to donate though and he does. My mother was very traditional, yet she still told me “don’t ever rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:12 PM
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You were being played? I mean I know in your porn infused mind you were hurting her, but really, I think the both of you need some therapy. That shit is not healthy. In all seriousness though, my SO is the only other person who has an opinion I actually take into consideration for anything. Other than my mom of course 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 08:03 PM
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Lol, Bezos is a bezoar of bad looks. Would you fuck him for a billion dollars? If so, it says more about you than him. I would become poor with my attractive, tall and full headed hair SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:59 PM
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Probably, but does that make him alpha or beta? I know that for a fact when I come home he WILL take the groceries and put them away. I know he will pour me a glass of warm whole milk with a tiny drop of baileys and if I have been running he will rub my feet. Like I said, we simp for each other. He’s not that into butchering, but he is very good with gutting fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:52 PM
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So, it’s what men think that women think about men? Seems a bit convoluted don’t you think? TRP explicitly claims that there is such a thing as beta bux and alpha bux, I want to know what TRP gives as at least a rudimentary example of the two. It can’t be what women think, because according to RP women are not logical creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:43 PM
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But he is already attractive, athletic and tall. He had his pick of women and he chose a “belligerent” radical feminist. Btw, I didn’t pay for shit while we were dating. I made him things, (knitting scarves & socks) he in turn fed my knitting addiction by getting me knitting “templates” and good quality yarn. He also still pays for and wants me with him everywhere he goes because he loves my cooking. He could get any woman ever, but he wants me. And I know for a fact I am difficult person becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:38 PM
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Atlas, you’re a tradfem I actually agree with on a lot of points. Why do you think it’s such a “lol” for me to be radfem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:18 PM
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I thought hot and rich meant Alpha? He doesn’t complain about dishes, he likes them done a certain way just like I want my food a certain way. That means I cook. I always cook everything. Dinner, breakfast, lunch, cakes, desserts, anything for anything that requires food. It also means we commiserate by lounging during and after dinner. Most times we put some music on when he does the dishes while I do something else useful like folding laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:13 PM
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A mutually loving LTR is what alpha bucks is though. So how can a woman go about finding that instead of a beta bucks? I personally do not and cannot stand for a person being a doormat. It’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:24 PM
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So my feelings is what differentiates the two? I’m sorry, I thought this was logical and one could determine this just by the information provided?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:17 PM
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Those are things I expect from my SO. He has to collect garbage with me because I am very into cleaning up or at least collecting plastics so it doesn’t hurt our wildlife. Would you like to gut a deer and have it’s stomach full of plastic? Nope! Do you want grouse and elk to be free of plastics? Then fucking pick it up! Anyways, sorry, I went on a tangent there, but yes. I am a radical feminist and I am also an environmentalist but I am not vegan nor vegetarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:13 PM
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We are both in our 30s, we both have generational wealth but his family is richer than mine. Lol, I can’t disclose my best time because it is actually listed and I don’t want to be doxxed. But you are correct, I am a bit taller than average for women in my country!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:07 PM
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Why not? I take great care of my body, just as I take care of the world around me. Before Covid I used to always pick up garbage from the hedges on my way to work. I still donate to a goat farm that makes cheese I like and I prefer getting my eggs and meat from actual farmers/butchers and not the store bought stuff. I am a labour supporting radical feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:03 PM
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How is it larping to ask what makes the difference between an alpha and a beta bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:58 PM
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You’re probably right, I do look much younger than I actually am even though I’m taller than the average woman. But, I got a hot, age appropriate male who has, a swimmers body, full head of hair and an almost obsessive interest in dish washing. Seriously, I’m pretty sure I come second to washing and organizing that stuff. We have lived together for years and I am still to actually wash a dish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:57 PM
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It’s amazing that you think that just because I have a an SO who is sweet on me, you think it’s not true? What type of relationships do you even get involved in? Both of my exes are very kind and supportive people and it helps that I know their sisters and their mothers as well. Not everyone has a US experience. Around here people actually know eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:47 PM
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So, if he does not allow hostilities nor belligerence from anyone else, the moment he “allows/accepts” it from me makes him a beta? He understands that my belligerence is not due to him nor is it directed at him. He does however need to bring gloves and trash bags because trash needs to be collected and I don’t care where but it can’t be in my forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:40 PM
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All I can say to this, is that “well, they are incels...” obvi they care. Otherwise, why would some of them try to actually kill women? In any case, I as a rad-fem have an SO that most of you would consider to be alpha purely by physical attributes. He is broad shouldered and thiccc calf as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:33 PM
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Well, sometimes I rub his feet after a good 5-8km run? He does the same for me too and we just rub Vaseline into our heels, between our toes and the whole foot. 🦶
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:27 PM
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lol, nah, my man has plenty of negative traits. He is very conscious of his own boundaries. He will tell me if I cross them and he would dump me if I f.ex. lied to him about something that is important to him. Like where I got something or if I undermined him with regards to family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:22 PM
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How so? The only thing connecting the men I’ve had is that as I’ve grown older, they’ve become richer. In return, I myself have become richer. I wear shoes that cost more than your rent and I paid for them on my own. I simp so hard I used to pay for trips to London just to get an amp for my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:08 PM
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Red. Whole milk is red here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:03 PM
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So Alpha and Beta are actually monikers of men you don’t like? It doesn’t matter how tall, accomplished or attractive he is, it only matters that he is with a rad-fem? Interesting, would he be an alpha in any way short of leaving me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:02 PM
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I don’t know what you mean by being “in frame” he does his stuff, I do my own, when we come home we commiserate about how shitty work is. I cook, he does the dishes (I am very particular about what I eat) most times we go for a walk (in my case a run, we live close to a track field) meet up, sometimes have a drink (omg, drinking alcohol after a long run realllllllllly gets you drunk) Btw, just because I am a rad-fem doesn’t mean I am non traditional. I grew up to turn down men. And that is as tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:58 PM
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Hold on, aren’t you the pick-me who says that “whatever a man does, women deserve it because women are terrible” also you don’t have any female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:49 PM
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Obvi I drink cow milk. Is that even a question? How else am I supposed to build my strong gluten? *glutes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:44 PM
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Uhm, sis, I kept one of them. I grew more hostile because old as fuck men were trying to hit on me. My current one (nr3) is 6’3 and quite accomplished in his own right. He is also very clean, folds clothes and helps me remove rubbish whenever we are out in the forest. I think he is 100% alpha, and just that. The question was how do I know if he is alpha bucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:43 PM
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But how do you know? Like if I were to say to my SO, “not tonight, I have stiff muscles from working out” how would he know it wasn’t because he was alpha bucks instead of beta bucks? *That is actually something I’ve said to my SO within the last month!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:37 PM
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Nah, I don’t think anyone could succeed in his field if they were stupid or naive. I do have unconventional values in that I am a rad-fem. I am also pro-guns and super into taking care of wildlife and nature by removing garbage whenever I see it. As for simping, I actually do simp for him on occasion! It’s mostly with food I cook or something useful I get for him like a super nice electric knife sharpener that needs an outlet. None of that wimpy battery stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:31 PM
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I already secured commitment. I need to know though, is he an alpha bucks? What defines him as such? Is it just having a sporty woman as your SO? What do Alpha Bucks share in common as a trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:22 PM
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Well I don’t know for sure what TRP would label as alpha bucks. I knew from a young age I did not want fucks. So all I want to know is what TRP thinks of men like those I’ve been with? All of them were rich, one of them is still mine after all these years and even after I revealed my rad-fem views.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:19 PM
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So my SO is an alpha bucks? He has great genetics, he could get anyone else but he sticks with me and my radfem bullshit. Doesn’t that make him a beta though? He is after all “simping” for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:12 PM
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So... what’s the difference between alpha and beta bucks? 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:07 PM
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Eh, not at running obvi 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:06 PM
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Lol, I didn’t lose the third! I still have him. I wanted to know if he would be classified as alpha bucks or beta bucks? He got me after the other two, and when I was older. Obvi he would be beta right? But he is taller and richer than the two others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:06 PM
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Lol, no. Ugly men are hateful creatures. You only need to look at incel websites to know that. I am so glad I am attractive and that my SO is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:24 PM
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Oh, no way, I wouldn’t accept any eyebrow plucking either. Dry hands are a turn-off for me too. Eh, as long as you think it counts! Does your male enjoy it? Go for it. Just make sure he knows where he stands ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:42 PM
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Would you want a relationship with an ugly man? Ugly men are not just bitter, they can be vindictive and hateful as well. If I were an ugly woman, I’d rather be alone and focus on my career and parents/siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:32 PM
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What if we both simp for each-other? I came home to a beautiful new succulent and a new necklace this weekend and he came home to a homemade steak dinner yesterday with red wine sauce. We simp so hard for one another 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:29 PM
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Do you enjoy pruning them yourself? Mine is quite like yours. Doesn’t realize how attractive he is and I really enjoy slathering body lotion on him. He only takes care of his nails, hair, teeth and clothes. But body and face creams are super important!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:24 PM
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I have no idea what it would be like to date a “non attractive” man. My SO is very attractive, but then again so am I. If he were more attractive than me, what would that entail? Like as in richer than me? Cuter? More affable? Taller? He is beautiful already. I honestly cannot imagine a man more attractive than he is. Maybe if he had hemsworth’s hair. The parameters of attractive between men and women is so vast. The only thing I would not accept is him refusing to snap fish necks or not eating …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:18 PM
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Lol, you were plated!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 10:25 AM
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Attractive men can afford to be picky or serious very fast. My current SO is very attractive, my ex was attractive too. It seems like average or below average men are the weirdest and most strung up on having NSA sex. My SO was the one who pushed for having our relationship broadcast to all our friends, of course, we met via friends so no OLD. Almost the same way that I met my ex, just a different friend and hobby group. It also kind of helps to not be a goblin yourself. I think most people woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:08 AM
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People? You mean men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:18 AM
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If there was a medical issue, I would stay until the end. Sex is fun and comforting, but my partners health and life quality matters more. If he just wasn’t interested I would check up and see if there is depression or anxiety going on. With treatment, that’s something that can be resolved. If he lost interest in me physically I would probably give it 6-12 months. Once a person falls out of love it’s better for both to split up amicably.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:32 AM
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Men I’ve rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:38 PM
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No one will treat you nicer than a man who wants to fuck you. It’s like being grateful for a bunch of people trying to sell you something every time you’re out and about. Do you feel flattered when a dude tells you, “ sweet car bruh! Let me buy you a drink, we can talk about your car! Btw, do you have insurance? I can get you the best insurance anywhere! For real though, let me get your number.” If this was your regular interaction starting from like age 11 and it happens somewhere between 1 a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:14 PM
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I would ask if he’s color blind. If he says yes, I’d say “ thought so, your shoes are a strange shade” if he says no, I’d say “nah, dude, you’re probably color blind. It explains the shade of your shoes”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:06 PM
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No, negging is a backhanded compliment. What you’re talking about is either someone being aloof or nonchalant. In the best of interpretations it could be called someone who is just laid back. A high-self esteem woman asking you “do you think I’m pretty?” Is her either seeking validation or comfort and assurance. I dunno how you would be simping by telling your partner that you find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:00 PM
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So, you’re a young man who goes after older women who then fuck you? Has it not occurred to you that those women just want a young, virile and fresh faced stud? You’re 25, physically speaking you’re at your peak. Your sperm is top notch, your skin is probably radiating and your cock has not yet been hit by ED. Maybe you have really smooth and supple balls unlike old man saggy balls. Enjoy your time young one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:51 AM
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Thank you for the examples! Let’s tackle them one by one! Reproductive rights, do you mean birth control or abortion? Birth control is truly one of the greatest inventions of the modern era. It has slowed down population growth and along with new and improved pre-natal care and ob/gun treatments has made infant and maternal mortality rates plunge across the world. Abortion has only solidified the concept of bodily autonomy and the right to decide which medical procedures you can chose with the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:52 AM
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Can you please give me an example of this? Which lines are being crossed, and in what manner will they be moved back?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:59 AM
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You’re right. Why don’t any of those women ever just go to a naturalist camp/social event? Is it because nudity in those places is actually just nudity and not exploitation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:09 PM
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If you want to be really petty, lock away all pots, pans, crockery and cutlery except 1 set for him to use. Buy a garbage bin for him in his room, a hamper that stays in his room and a clutter basket that stays in his room. If you find his clothes, mess anywhere in the house, put it in his room. If he locks his room just put it right outside his room. Don’t cook for him. Disconnect all his devices from the wi-fi while you guys are at work. Actually, just take the whole modem with you to work. Yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:04 PM
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A bottle of wine is never* a gift. It’s a ‘thank you for the dinner invite’ same as brining flowers or a pie when you’re invited over to a friends dinner party. *Actually, a bottle of wine CAN be a gift if it’s an exclusive wine or a wine that they’ve commented on previously in a favorable manner!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:36 AM
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Can you give me an example of one such line and an example of what type of enforcement men will apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:43 AM
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Presentable as in your clothes are clean, your teeth are brushed and you don’t smell like a sewer rat. This is the minimum an adult should have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:46 AM
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What are those boundaries and who is/will enforce them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:37 AM
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You men exaggerate so much. You need to look presentable when out in public. That does not mean a three piece suit, that would be a faux pas! Physical appearance plays a role in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:34 AM
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I think it would be do-able in Europe. I’ve a year where I went to 8 countries in 12 months. Of course, this was facilitated by the fact that I have 6 weeks of paid vacation in addition to regular holidays for Christmas, Easter, liberation day and a few 4 day weekends where a religious day off was on either a Monday or Friday. It also helps to be able to travel for work or have offices in other countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:06 PM
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Tinder is around 20% active female user base. A lot of those accounts are also spambots, scammers, “premium” accounts etc. So how can you make a generalized view of women based on those datapoints?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 10:26 AM
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Throw their trimmers and razors away. Lock the bathroom when you or your mom are not using it. Tell them to shave outside of the home, on the porch or the backyard. If they behave like animals, treat them like animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:57 AM
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Thanks girlfriend! Summer is cutting season, sun’s out, guns out. 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 01:41 PM
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“I watch twitch streamers” is not a hobby. “I want to make YouTube compilations” is not a career “I believe everything I read on TRP” is not a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:02 AM
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Wouldn’t women just continue working and becoming cat ladies? I mean, what exactly does a man offer other than dick and dirty socks that you’re now responsible for? Women are net beneficiaries because of children and the 1-3 years it takes to get them ready for daycare. In addition to that women live longer. If there were no social safety nets, more women would forego having children, especially the already educated ones. That means population decline and the state would have to rely on immigrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 10:59 AM
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The biggest danger a woman faces is a man. I mean, we’re both equally equipped against nature. We can both run animals into exhaustion which was the preferred hunting strategy in the savannah. We can both set traps, fish or make clay insulated dwellings. We (women) only need men to protect us from other men. And it is a fact that men delight in hurting women or seeing women being hurt. This is the reason why gang rape exists. /s? Maybe? I don’t even know anymore! Happy summer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:46 PM
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The comment you replied to mentioned social networks, you said older men don’t use technology. I applaud men who choose to live outside of their expected gender norms. I actually think more men should go their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:30 AM
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Social networks are things like friends, being part of the community, going to church/other type of religious congregations. It has nothing to do with technology. That’s social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:05 AM
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No, all those women will dump those kids on the fathers, take up a waitressing job and maybe do some nail/hair work for neighbors for extra cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:41 AM
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I think that really depends though, someone who brews beer or is super into cooking, recipes, watching and reading food blogs/vlogs is probably not a couch potato. But if they were into those things, they’d mention it. Never mind sis, you’re right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:49 AM
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If you want to marry, you probably want to have kids. That means you either adopt, get a surrogate or she births them. Kids are not free, babies cost a lot. The pregnancy itself costs a fuck ton if you live somewhere like the US. Even after the birth, there are months of recovery. These are all things you hopefully pay for together. Or, get a vasectomy, or don’t get married. No skin off my teeth bro. Or! Get a sex doll. It’s obvi men here don’t even like women or consider them human. You would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 05:50 PM
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Don’t have a sahm, don’t marry a woman without a job. There fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:17 PM
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Same thing happened to me sis, I look way younger than I actually am, and as such dudes my own age will hit me up asking weird questions. They won’t back off when I tell them I’m already seeing someone “young boys don’t know how to treat a lady right! I’m twice the man he is!” Etc, but when I tell them my age, they back off. Predatory fucks, every last one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 06:06 PM
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Lol, tell that to 5-8 year old me. All I heard constantly was “Buttery! Don’t you dare ruin your dress!” I’m still out there catching frogs and rolling downhill in the snow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:59 AM
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Male comedy is 1: muh penis! 2: my wife is a hag/nag 3: bitches ain’t shit, amiright fellas? Woman comics don’t appeal to you because you’re not a woman and that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:38 AM
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We’re not wired that way, we’re brought up that hair and clothes are more important than dirt bikes and roller blades.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:29 AM
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Lol, it’s not inborn. I was eating worms, rolling in mud, falling from trees and face planting with my bike doing stunts. The only difference was that whereas my cousin and male friends were just told “be more careful” I was scolded or grounded and once, when a younger kid fell and broke a tooth, I was the one spanked even though I was just 9 years old. My mom and dad did not allow me to have grass marks on my clothes, so I decided to bring my sports kit and change into my own clothes until the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:27 AM
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I’m not a therapist, and if he has unresolved issues due to bullying, my vagina is not the cure. He probably wasn’t born a misogynist, but he most likely is one now. If sex is so important he can become gay for pay, a woman’s mouth is indistinguishable from a mans mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 11:12 AM
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She probably read the stuff other inexperienced men have written about women online. I swear to god, before reading incel forums, mgtow and TRP I had fairly good view of inexperienced men. Now? Fuck no. You can just imagine that guy being a powder keg of unresolved issues and it would further cement my view if he were a gamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:22 PM
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A degree or the type of job that comes with it means nothing to you. That’s how I understood it, was I wrong? You want a woman who cook, cleans, is pleasant and that you can fuck. Is this wrong? So it stands to reason that you want to clean for you, cook for you and be pleasant towards you. Those are key skills if you are hiring a maid. In addition you want to have sex with them. So a bangmaid. Please let me know where this logic breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:35 AM
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Have a nice weekend 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:24 AM
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Your dick does not get hard for intelligent women, you value women by their looks. This is called being shallow. Just accept it bro. Seriously, no one seems to be as pressed about this as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 10:35 AM
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A lot of both pre and post nups get overturned in court, it’s ridiculous you would think that would protect you. And in the case of a divorce, the breadwinner (you) would have to pay for her independent lawyers. And no, you can’t low ball her on that because judges really freaking hate that. Congrats on the bangmaid though! (No, in all seriousness no sarcasm, congrats on finding your partner and I truly do wish you the best! Love is hard to find, and even harder to keep, so stay safe during this…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 10:02 AM
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Oh, so it’s ok for you to be shallow, just not ok for women. Thanks, I’m glad we sorted that out!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:57 AM
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Lol, I see you have no answer to my questions other than telling me to shut up. Do you like dark jokes? My favorite is “a woman goes to the ob/gyn, she says ‘Tell it to me straight doc, am I having a daughter or an abortion?’ Hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:56 AM
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Which word are you referring to as SJW mumbo jumbo? You yourself said that intelligent women do not get your dick hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:48 AM
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So, alpha fucks, beta bucks? You want pretty women in the sack, but for marriage she’s gotta bring some cheese to the charcuterie?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:43 AM
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Basically, you want a pretty bangmaid? A mom you can fuck? Jesus Christ, and they say women have daddy issues...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:41 AM
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So you admit, men are more shallow than women? Are you rp? If you are, can I quote you on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:39 AM
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Bullshit! Would you rather be the sex slave of a kind and respectful man or a disrespectful brute with the power to beat you to submission with no consequences? Is it a choice when you have no other options, which is the reality of millions of women all over the world as of now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:30 AM
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So why isn’t the father stepping up? What is he? A wet blanket?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:26 AM
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Lol, no, they’re really not. I can’t get away with being as malicious as I was in my younger days. You’re blinded by their smiles and giggles and you think they like you so your judgement is clouded. Plus, you have to remember, all women know that no one will ever be as nice, kind and understanding as a guy who wants to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:24 AM
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Haaaaaaave you met divorce rape? Because that’s what happens when you marry a woman to just birth and raise your kids. If you don’t care about the achievements of the woman you marry and want to delegate the responsibility of making a home to her, why it just get a surrogate, a nanny and a maid, then whenever you want to scratch that sexual frustration itch, hire an escort. There, I just saved you the cost of being divorce raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 09:20 AM
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Carry a collapsible baton. I am so sorry that happened to you btw! Please tell me you got some sort of retribution? In any case, success is the best revenge, stay frosty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:15 PM
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Dude, just pick up your socks and put your dishes in the washer. It’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 02:37 PM
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It’s one of the basic tenets of TRP, and also I meant to say amoral but damn autocorrect. In any case, it boils down to “do or say whatever you want to secure a relationship” in my honest opinion it’s at best “fake it till you make it” and at worst, lie about vasectomies, your future plans and even your current relationship status. Basically a salesman tactic of always be closing. Closing meaning getting laid. Closing for her means getting an ltr, however she’s not lying, she’s just selecting fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:42 PM
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LEL, lurk more. Anyways, this isn’t to hate on either you or her, but TRP does say that sexual strategy is immoral. However, she’s not leading guys on, she just dumps those who don’t fit her preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:25 PM
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Do you know her? Do you know him? If you don’t, what does it matter if you, a random on reddit know her score? You have no way of influencing anything her targets do or think of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:11 PM
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You’re not the man she’s trying to date, so you knowing doesn’t matter. To simplify it, you’re not the target group/demographic. Your views have no bearing. In truth, the way you responded probably cemented her belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:19 AM
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Put the lid down you heathen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:26 PM
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Take a bath and then be raped? No thanks. I’d rather live in filth than be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:08 PM
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I think most women would rather be beaten than raped. I mean a few punches to the face and a few kicks to the ribs are not as horrible as being raped. Physical injuries heal, psychological ones are harder to treat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:13 AM
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A good relationship is first and foremost a great friendship. Why would I waste time on a man that only wants me for sex? Besides, it’s just a temporary thing like a diet of sorts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 09:27 AM
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That’s a trafficking trick. I’m not about to star in a true crime episode. Strange men cold approaching is like. Those green peace activists who want to get your signature. The basic premise is “hey! Want some dick?” Just said nicer. I don’t want dick on my morning/evening commute and I sure as hell don’t want it when picking up groceries. It would be understandable if they were doing at a bar, a concert a venue where people with common interests congregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:11 PM
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You’re telling me little girls playing smash, Mario kart, mortal combat, wave racer, conkers bad fur day, banjo kazooie, jet force Gemini etc did that for male attention?! Can you even comprehend how ludicrous that statement is? I only stopped playing games because men and boys are vile online. The only games I play now are single player with no opportunity to contact other players. As for anime, if it’s not studio Ghibli, it’s a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:53 AM
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Excellent advice and tips! As for using your surroundings, when I was a young girl walking home from school with an older girl (Karoline, you know who you are) she threw a rock at a car that had boys in it shouting stuff at us. Then she grabbed my hand and started running for the hedges between houses. To this day I don’t know what those men said, but I do remember her throwing that rock 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:07 PM
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I’m not gonna say nope nope nope, but seriously? You’ve been seeing him since October and already he is talking about marriage? Ask yourself what you would say to a friend in that situation. Also, does he have a stable income, pays his own way, keeps his home tidy and can he argue with you without shouting or yelling? Like you know, an adult is expected to? Sis, you need to be your own mentor and I believe you can. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:01 PM
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Oh yeah! Forgot about those! I actually have one and it is loud as heck. Like literally ear piercing loud. It will at least get some attention and maybe make them back off. I’ll edit edit the main post later to put in the most suggested tactics. Have a lovely day sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:50 PM
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You absolutely should. Btw, men shouldn’t be given options. With my SO I tell him which day I’m available and the dress formality I expect. He figures out the rest. If he can’t, tough luck. I expect a person willing, capable and committed enough to take 10-20 min of their time to do some fucking research. Also, he pays. The bar is so low!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:37 PM
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It’s just a reiteration of “boys will be boys”. Like, no. Boys will be what you allow and excuse, and as men, they will behave exactly the same since there were never any repercussions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:25 PM
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Thank you for the insight sis! I just run recreationally (field and track when I was in school) so outrunning smegmoids has been my go-to move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:05 PM
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Are there any classes you can recommend? I agree with you on the second part, the most important is to get away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:56 PM
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Mods, please let me know if this flair is appropriate. Thanks in advance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:46 PM
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He walked in front of the fucking QUEEN! That is not even a faux pas, it speaks to his general attitude towards women. She wore brooches gifted from Obama when she met him because she’s subtle like that. Also, fuck the monarchy, but not her in particular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:28 PM
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Not the inheritance, those are exempt from marital asset laws. He does however have a right to half of the proceeds from the house she bought while they were married. I just can't believe how scummy he was, he had an ok job making enough money or so we thought. Turns out he was using her inheritance as a slush fund. The gall of him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:42 AM
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Thats almost exactly what happened to our mutual friend. She had inherited from a rich aunt some crazy amount that she used to pay for her house after she got married and she put the rest in savings/trust fund as adviced by a financial planner. She put him as co-owner on the accounts and over the past 5 years (while she birthed 2 kids!!!) He drained everything. Like he would buy her expensive dinner dates with HER OWN MONEY. He would take vacations with the lads on her dime all without her knowi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:36 AM
1

Wear a condom or get snipped. That’s how you can help. Or, eat less meat, control your water supply by making sure mega corps can’t just dump their runoff into rivers. But you probs don’t care about that because ‘wahmen bad, pp not hard” 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:51 PM
1

Not sure if you’re joking. The whole “chemicals in our water turning the freaking frogs gay” is actually from agricultural runoff. There are so many pesticides on the crops, and animals being injected with hormones all day every day. If you’re not joking, sure, makes sense a man would blame women for being careful about not getting pregnant. It’s the same all over the world. Whatever fault you have, you project unto us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:49 PM
3

If you just want a hole, why not get a fleshlight? You’re obviously not interested in women as people to the degree that them talking turns you off. Hell, go all out and save up for a real doll tm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:39 PM
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You don’t have to be a woman to be a prostitute, you can still make bank, probably even more than women if you cater to a male client base just like women do. And don’t give me that “but I’m not gaaaaay” spiel, do you think prostitutes are attracted to their johns? Lube it up and take that dick you so envy women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:28 AM
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Do it. You dont even own tools i bet. You put down your tools and we put down ours, we'll see who needs who the most. Anyone can figure out a sewage system or drive their trash to the dump. As for the electricity, are you going to shut it off on your way out? You'll (genereal you) starve and die like the landwhales you speak of. Men aren't needed, at best you're a partner, at worst you're a danger. Who do you think you're protecting us from? Other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:21 AM
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Lol, do you think female slaves were just chilling when the males were out in the fields? Do you think female slaves were chilling when houses needed to be built?! The audacity of men to think women never worked alongside them. As for the noise in the house or something needed fixing, you DO understand we do it just so you can feel valued in todays society right? As if women cant fix things when it's all on YouTube 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:13 AM
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Lol, that's just a power fantasy. Men only reached those goals because their sisters were denied education. Just take a look at places in Africa or the Mid-East. Men still marry off their daughters so the bride price can pay for the brothers education. Not to mention 1 child policy in china and the systematic femicide of girls out of the womb in India. It's easy to be whimsical and think about things when you are elevated to a position where you can work outside of the home. As for the women nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:07 AM
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Women were not allowed credit until the 70's in the USA, those people are still alive and that culture is still not dead. Women just want men to leave them alone, most women would rather be single than in a bad relationship. There is a reason why women who stay single get a cat and drink wine whereas men who are incels have murderous fantasies about killing/enslaving/raping women. We're not as into you, and now that you can no longer push us out of education, we don't need you. All you are is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:48 AM
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You don't even like women. I suggest sincerely that you get yourself a sexdoll instead of playing with the emotions of women who think you're invested in them. It's apparent from your disdain that you just think of them as holes to fuck and not actual people. You need to 100% invest in yourself and get that 10 000usd sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:32 AM
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Being cagey about innocent questions like "how was your work today?" "What did you have for dinner yesterday/ planning to eat today?" "I'm undecided about (whatever) what do you think of it?" Etc. A lull in conversation is fine, but complete silence or "I'd rather talk about that in person is a red flag" This is just my opinion though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:49 AM
5

Gamergate? The one that started because some smeglet was dumped and then wrote a bunch of lies about the woman who dumped him? "Ethics in muh games!" But no-one ever targeted the male journos or game developers or the massive companies putting out AAA games. No siree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:37 AM
3

WHO DOES THAT? MY BABY BROTHER JUST OUT OF PUBERTY HAS HIS OWN SHAMPOO, CONDITIONER, SHOWER GEL, FACE WASH AND CREAM FOR HIS FACE!!!!!! Holy moly! I am beyond shocked at what some men do!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:20 AM
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Yes! A man who has solid healthy and longterm friendships with women without it ever turning sexual is a HVM who respects women as people and not conquests!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:06 AM
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Yup! Same thing happened to me! I took myself out to a steak dinner after getting a haircut on a friday. Then i thought fuck it, I'll have some wine tooooo!! So go to a bar that's kind of nice, sit down in a corner texting some friends. He approached me and asked if I was too busy for a drink. What convinced me he was HVM now that i look back on it? When he asked if i wanted another drink and i declined, he asked very politely "would you mind if i got one for myself?" At the time i was a libfem …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:02 AM
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You’re doing good sis, it’s just that they’ve fallen under the spell of so called “equality”. If men pruned and dressed themselves to the same extent as women do for dates, they would never hesitate to expect payment. Your payment is that you gave him a chance and you dressed up. There is a difference between equity and equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 09:13 PM
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Why would you be called a gold digger?! Like if I invite a friend out to lunch, I cover the bill. That’s just social expectations! If a guy (back in my dating times) asked me out, I’d always ask, as friends? If they said as friends then I would show up as a friend would. F.ex, not dressed up. I’m not spending expensive make-up, time doing my hair or wearing a cocktail dress for a meal with a friend. My time and YOUR time is precious. He is paying for the products, time and upkeep you incurred if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 09:02 PM
5

Maybe just take a dating break? You don’t need a man! You can fill the void of companionship with friends. Plus, you’re still super young. And black does not crack, you’ll look 20 well past your 30’s. Just remember to use sunscreen! All in all, I wish you the best sis, get your mind in order, set your boundaries and do not ever give a chance to a black man who disses black women. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:50 PM
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Nah, you’re not fucked. You’ll just have the opportunity to weed out all LVM. Men are usually scared by professional black women, especially when they’re darker than Halle Berry. Your problem will be sifting out those who fetishize you and broke men thinking they can score a mommy/bangmaid. Date who you want, set boundaries for yourself and never EVER compromise. Better alone forever than with a LVM. Internalize that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:44 PM
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Speak it loud, say it, you’re a woman and you’re proud (of your last name) I won’t change mine either, I like it, plus is easy to pronounce in all languages. Seriously, ALL languages!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:35 PM
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Because men don’t actually like women, they see us as trophies, bangmaids and mothers. We’re not humans, with flaws, personalities, desires and dreams of our own. Just look at how the manosphere says “women are the oldest teenagers in a house” or something to that effect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:06 PM
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Why is it they always wish for rape and death on women? Like, no matter how upset I’ve been at a person, I’ve never wished that type of inhumanity on them. When I feel hatred towards someone, I just cut them out of my life. The best revenge is success.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:03 PM
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You shouldn't be. Stick to your preferences and don't budge. You will find a HVM so long as you yourself are a HVW. Get your own finances in order, never rely on a man for anything. Keep your girl friends close, dress how you want and always keep improving yourself for YOU. Remember to be your own greatest fan! I believe in you and will hex those who don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:03 PM
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They do when they 100% want you. A man who wants you will be on time, will text first and it will be second nature to him to treat you like a human being worthy of conversation and he will actually empathise with you. A HVM sees himself in you and wants to be a positive influence in your life so you will continue to be the positive influence in his life. He wants you for more than sex, he wants your companionship and he will give you commitment and loyalty without all that "lol, i dunno, lets se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:50 PM
7

Killed by other men. All ancient invading forces killed the boys, raped the women and distributed the young girls as livestock or bounty. You don’t even have to look that far into history to see how soldiers killed the males and raped all women no matter what age. The siege of Berlin and the rape of Nanjing are some of the two most recent examples of widespread systematic rape and outright murder of male toddlers. Women were not even allowed to protect themselves, they were never told how to fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 03:10 PM
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I’m allergic to a whole bunch of plants, so my SO gets me random gifts like face creams, lip balms, sun screen, hand creams. No prompting needed. He always checks in if I like what he bought. He always pays for my skin care regiment, because he likes seeing me happy. In return, I invite him out for a dinner and in return he invites me out for a dinner. You should never settle for someone who is just “there”. The person you choose should not add to your stress. They should be a pleasant person wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:01 PM
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No, they just buy rancid bath water. As for the screams, I think that’s just how female fans are. Just like how male fans riot and punch police horses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:48 AM
2

Well, personally I think there is such a thing as pussy-imprint. The more women a man has slept with, the sloppier and thinner his duck/dick becomes. It’s doubly so with porn-wanks. Then they just get limp dicks. /s maybe 🤫 As for biological health/infidelity, you think women don’t have those concerns? Male ego is at the forefront of saying women age. Duh, everyone ages. Y’all are just upset that we’ve been able to actually make choices in the last 50 years. Marital rape was still legal until 19…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:10 AM
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It’s not. I think low n-count people just don’t go clubbing to get laid. I personally think you have a high count, and I think only 1 person I know has that high of a count.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:03 AM
0

Did you not read the part of “explicitly choosing it”? Gosh, you men are such drama queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:25 PM
1

Motherhood sucks as well. If the relationship goes asunder, congrats, you are now a single mom. If it works, congrats, you are now an abject burden. You get 2-4 years where you have to put your career on hold (less pension contribution) no mobility in the work force after that and a second shift when you get home. Motherhood is a punishment. No one should have to go through that unless they explicitly choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:53 PM
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Thank you so much! I will try that later. Have a lovely day 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:28 PM
1

Ah, got it! Is it possible to edit the post title? Or is it better to just make a new one? I think the goal is to have a discussion but also of course with male input. Would a title like “When was the first time you experienced the opposite sex being attracted to you” work? Thanks a bunch!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:20 PM
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Ah, sorry. Didn’t mean to do that. I’ve seen that question being posed in r/askwomen a few times. And I couldn’t see if it had been posted here before. Is there any way of asking women of PPD that type of question without inviting to a circlejerk? As I said, this is a question for all women of PPD and it might enlighten some men as to why some women find certain things creepy. Please let me know if I’ve overstepped my bounds. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:06 PM
1

How do I flair this as a question for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:11 PM
1

Maybe he just wants the insurance payout for both of them? I mean, getting hit by a bus and then having the city/county pay you 4-5 million in addition to covered medical expenses is a dream for some. Who knows? He might legit be looking for a way to pay off both their student loans!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:43 PM
1

How are they lying though? Pregnancy is one of the worst things a woman might endure. 9 months of severe discomfort interspersed with cravings, pelvic RE-alignment. Fat feet, stretch marks, hot flashes and it all culminating into a 4-40 hour torturous pain. Why would women willingly opt for that unless they truly wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:41 AM
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I work what you might call an “unimportant office job” but my job requires oversight of contracts for 250+ sales people. All I do is see numbers, records and painstakingly having to verify everything so that when the tax collectors come, everything is perfectly in order. I have a team of 4 that I manage. After work, I am the one who buys toilet paper, dishwashing soap, batteries, all ingredients for dinner and bags for that wretched vacuum cleaner. I think you’ll find that most women, even worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:02 AM
2

I actually agree with you. Men don’t respect women. They’re intimidated or can be subservient. But they won’t ever respect you the same way they respect another man. Men just care about if you’re fuckable or not and if you can be presented as a fuck trophy to family and friends. In that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 09:49 AM
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How about men keep their hands to themselves? Seriously, how difficult is it to not touch another person without their consent? The men I work with sometimes like to have a cup of tea and talk about whatever, all the while I am doing my own work. My father, brothers, my SO and my doc are the only ones who have explicit consent to touch me. Just keep your grubby paws to yourself and nothing will happen. Gosh, dude, did you not learn this in pre-k?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:18 AM
1

Show me proof. Do you have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 09:22 PM
1

Violent crime committed by other men. You are also more likely to be raped by another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 09:22 PM
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At least you stay alive after those “bad experiences”. Women get murdered. And yet, you don’t find us congragating online to discuss how men are useless, emotionally stunted criminals. The vast majority of crime in any ethnicity, country, race is committed by men. We have every reason to think AMALT, but we don’t because we know a person is not defined by their biological sex. A huge amount of men are just regular people. Why can’t you give women the same benefit of the doubt as we give you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 01:22 PM
1

No, you’re wrong. AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 08:44 PM
1

Well, most criminals are men. I think she just wanted men to have something to relate to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 08:36 PM
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Dunno man, at a fabulous 167cm and 51kg, I say you’re wrong. Stop trying to push boundaries. Please, it’s not cute. If you are of a different opinion, let her see your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:45 PM
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No, we really don’t. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:42 PM
1

I understand what you’re saying. Everything I was told was a lie too. You go from being dicks to eachother boys and girls alike to suddenly. “Hey guys? You are now on opposing teams. Good luck!” I was so confused in middle school, playing or swimming together was now a taboo. I couldn’t jump off the shoulders of my friend in the pool anymore. The way you dress becomes different, and all too quickly adult men start looking at you in a weird way. Your parents become more controlling as to where yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:29 PM
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I see. Seriously, I am not trying to make fun of you. I think all people need friends, and I am sorry if you thought I was being mean to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 05:50 PM
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Please, don’t try to gaslight me. You just accused me of being buttblasted. That’s not very nice, is it? So let’s start again. I think you need more friends and people around you to spend time with. I think you need to know your worth, and to understand that others might too. That’s not a judgement on you as a person. I also think you need to realize, that we are all the main character in our own stories. Please try to remember these things and stop trying to manipulate others into feeling sorry…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 05:01 PM
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Hey, I am trying to understand you. I do agree with you, abusive relationships should be avoided or left as soon as possible. I don’t understand why you’re trying to be hostile? Are you like this in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 04:46 PM
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Of course it is! One should always try to leave both emotional and physical abuse. Having friends, family and colleagues can help with the leaving process. I wish for all people to live the Life they want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 04:43 PM
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How is your life ruined if you decide from the get go, to not pursue women? Don’t get me wrong, I am all for self actualization, but you seem a bit toxic. I think you need more male friends and a sense of purpose that can be gained in something other than the approval of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 04:39 PM
2

So, you will escalate the situation and get yourself in jail, just to give them a few bruises? That makes no sense my dude. I think it will be good for you to get more male friends and just stay away from women in general. 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 04:22 PM
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So, instead of leaving someone who causes you emotional harm, you’d rather physically assault them. It would be better for all parties if you went on your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 03:54 PM
1

There is no counter. All men are actually trash and want to suppress women. Let them fester, and let their accounts gather more followings. Hopefully, we can cull them all when the time comes. F
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 03:45 PM
1

I use both tbh. When describing a location I always mention the street and road names/bus or tram. Then I describe the place itself. As for being in the woods, I always say the location via longitude and latitude. I know that may not be common, but this is a learned experience. Just as knowing which way is west, although others might consider it north.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 03:30 PM
1

Who sent them to that war? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:15 PM
1

Racist? Nope. I’m just saying men ought to take responsibility for all the violence they commit. And it is men. Of all races. They kill other men too. It is a concern 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 02:38 AM
2

Who kills other men? Who rapes other men? Hmm.. seems like your gender has a problem with violence 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 02:29 AM
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How about your kind stop doing that. Honestly, I can go a whole day without getting in the way of men like you. But just for that comment alone, I hope your female next of kin are just as lucky. After all, they’re not the next of kin of those perpetrators. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 02:28 AM
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Just stop trying to kill or rape us. I mean, it should be easy for women in general to ask other women to comply. Why can’t you ask other men to comply. Actually, you can start by stopping all the crime men are committing. Can you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 07:14 PM
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