ButtonFeeler Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
198	A little mental trick i use to help me overcome some approach anxiety.		ButtonFeeler	/r/seduction	11/05/15 02:56 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What MBTI type are you? MBTI discussion Took it and got INTP-T	/r/seduction	10/04/16 07:31 PM
1	How exactly do women sense insecurity/a lack of confidence? Straight guy, and you look great man! You just gotta give off that realxed, fun guy vibe I know you can pull off. Relax your shoulders, lean back and smile a lot like you don't give a F and you'll have any girl be putty in your hands!	/r/seduction	02/09/15 07:42 AM
2	"Experts" in the game... how often were you rejected when you first started? What was your success rate? Not OP but thanks joshsway that was a pretty good read, definitely gonna try to remember those tips for this weekend out!	/r/seduction	11/06/15 11:54 PM
2	What is fun? F is for fire that burns down the whole town! U is for uranium... Bombs! N is for no survivorsss! When you're...	/r/seduction	07/06/15 01:47 AM
4	[FR (as promised)] First approach in three years...success at #1 cold approach! [Warning: Long] Well done mate! Great FR, I'm saving this to read before I go out next time to get in the zone haha. Looking forward to seeing an update on how the 2nd day goes!	/r/seduction	03/06/15 01:30 AM
2	Picking up outside of nightlife? I wanna mention one of the best pieces of advice i was given from seddit to you. Go to a dance class. (Especially salsa dance). Seriously, you learn a new skill of dance so it's not a waste of time, and there are always cute girls at the dance class. They almost always have too few guys and it's easy to keep seeing your cute classmates week to week, so you're good to keep building rapport with your partners. When one strikes your fancy just ask her to a cup of coffee to unwind, you have nothing …	/r/seduction	30/05/15 02:35 AM
1	It may be a crap line but its worked twice now.. I like this one a lot I'll definitely give it a shot next time i hit the bar.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 03:57 PM
1	How do you guys handle with a person that's trying to mess your game? Solid advice here OP, just isolate the girl you like, and then you don't have to deal with the other guys. "Hey come talk over here with me for a minute" and casually grab her hand and go work your magic.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 03:52 PM
1	How do you guys measure your progress? I'm getting few results of any from practicing for a few weeks now, and getting kind of bummed. I almost rationalize it now as just a big video game. How many matches of halo have I played through the years, thousands? Think of each approach as a new match in your favorite game. Executing combos to close the deal lol. Sure even if you lose this match there's always the next one (abundance mentality!), and when you do pull off that sweet victory those petty losses will be nothing but the distant past.	/r/seduction	30/04/15 02:36 AM
-1	A great way to demolish approach anxiety, get yourself into a social state and build social proof This is the same post as before but you took out your cheesy examples.	/r/seduction	30/04/15 02:31 AM
2	The way my parents raised me is preventing me from being able to get a girlfriend. I'm in desperate need to fundamentally change my personality, but I don't know how to. This entire post is about my life. Op know that you're not the only one. Everythig you said rang with me, the passive parents, no friends growing up, sex being completely taboo (no talk either). Unfortunately I'm still like that but im trying to improve everyday. Just thanks for putting how I've been feeling for so long into words, i hope people come here with good advice we both can use.	/r/seduction	26/03/15 06:02 PM
2	Smart Kid Syndrome Your post especially is the exact situation i ended up in. I never did homework but aced tests and am a pretty intelligent guy, but when i went to college i kept to my previous work ethic and ended up failing out. If you still can don't make the same mistake I did and keep working hard.	/r/seduction	03/12/14 04:11 AM
2	I'm in a relationship now, what next? I too am now in a ltr and my advice is to just keep being the awesome guy that got her. Keep yourself looking good and in shape. Make sure you're still the confident and funny guy in the room. Take her hand and lead her on the adventures you wind up on. And in the scenario it doesn't work out, remember there are other girls out there and don't put her on a pedestal. My two cents and good luck!	/r/seduction	23/11/14 09:25 PM
2	Best conversation openers for Tinder matches? I pretty much always use, "Yeah you're pretty cute, I'd let you hold my hand in public." Or a slight variation. As a reasonably attractive guy this has worked for about an 80% response rate, and led to several dates and k or f closes for me.	/r/seduction	20/09/14 12:15 AM
1	Club dancing: should I be swinging my hips? Dude my friend is the literal worst dancer ever. Like fucking crazy kicks and cheesy dance moves. But you know what? He gets out in the middle of the dance floor and doesn't give a fuck. And he's gotten plenty of girls because of it. Why? It's his confidence. Just putting yourself out there and having a great time no matter what shows that you're a fun guy to be around, and i guarantee you can have success regardless of your moves.	/r/seduction	09/09/14 02:10 AM
2	So I had a crappy day, and I think it's because I keep opening with compliments. Can I get some input? [FR included] Well it does depend on the situation, each can vary. My BnB for openers is to usually ask an open ended question. Basically a question that can't be answered with a yes or no. With this it gets the girl talking and keep her interested at least for a little right away. After that I go for making her laugh, a joke or sometimes a self-neg that could make her smile. ex. (in a new area/place/bar/etc) [Looking a little confused perhaps] "Hey quick question I've never been here before, what's your opin…	/r/seduction	25/07/14 03:39 AM
11	So I had a crappy day, and I think it's because I keep opening with compliments. Can I get some input? [FR included] Dont sweat it too much man youre getting good at approaching in the day and thats a skill others dont have. My general rule is a do try to shy away from giving compliments as i feel they are usually hard to follow up on. The shoe opener you use can be good just try to get her laughing or smiling. Remember the basics, eye contact and kino if youre able. All in all remember daygame can be a numbers game and if you dont have AA and can keep talking to girls, it'll happen. Just my two cents and good…	/r/seduction	25/07/14 03:13 AM
–	What music do you guys listen to? My favorite is classical. DeBussy, Chopin, Bach, Mozart, Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Holst etc	/r/askTRP