Buullred Archive

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4	Kinda scared to have sex Mindset "I might suck and the girl may not want to come back but because of her I'm at least better prepared for girl nr. 3". That's how I view seduction in general. You try and fail so your future self can be in the situation you want to be in today. It might not be ideal but it is what it is.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 10:35 PM
1	Women Spend Hours With Guys They Don't Want to Date: Why? She probably had a small interest in him and then he fucked up somewhere and friendzoneded himself.	/r/seduction	25/09/19 09:24 PM
1	I know I'm attractive but I have no game whatsoever It's possible but that's more the exception than the rule.	/r/seduction	02/09/19 03:56 PM
2	I know I'm attractive but I have no game whatsoever I know handsome guys can fuck up a lot in real life but on Tinder it's close to impossible. Several of my handsome friends has girls showing up to their apartment the first time they meet only to fuck. I think you underestimate how much being good looking actually helps, on Tinder at least.	/r/seduction	02/09/19 03:29 PM
2	I know I'm attractive but I have no game whatsoever How many mistakes can you do over tinder?..	/r/seduction	02/09/19 06:53 AM
1	How to get laid a lot in College? The best way to get less nervous is to approach enough until you truly don't care about being rejected anymore. That's not something you can read about to get better which is exactly the reason why most guys suck at it. To figure out what to say just try different things on different girls and see what's working and not. I personally don't think it's very important what you say but rather the vibes you're giving of.	/r/seduction	01/09/19 09:24 PM
20	I know I'm attractive but I have no game whatsoever Tinder is basically made for good looking guys with bad game. If you truly are handsome then you shouldn't have a problem getting girls over to your place without much talking.	/r/seduction	01/09/19 09:03 AM
3	How to get laid a lot in College? Joining clubs are always a good idea. One mistake that I did was to hit on more than one woman on the same evening in the same club. These girls talk to each other so it will go to hell with not just the two but all the girls in the club. That shit takes time to repair. So a tip is to only hit on one girl per club per evening. If you want to practice/hit on lots of girls the night club is the way to go. The more you go out the more you're going to get laid and having a big social circle makes it…	/r/seduction	01/09/19 12:42 AM
5	Does being with an attractive friend kill your night game? Being with my handsome friends is definitely an advantage in my eyes. They usually pull lots of girls to our area so I don't need to go out and find them in the ocean of dicks which is always nice.	/r/seduction	07/08/19 07:19 PM
1	As a 24 year old kissless virgin, I honestly have no idea why women arne't attracted to me. How many women have you tried to kiss?	/r/seduction	07/08/19 07:07 PM
2	How to flirt witthout compliments? I told a girl that she was pretty on Friday almost right after I met her and I got laid. Just because it doesn't work for one guy on Youtube doesn't mean that you should discredit it yourself. You should go out to try and test for yourself. There's also timing. Giving it to a person you've spoken to for 30 seconds vs 10 minutes is a massive difference. One gives you enough time to build rapport giving her a reason to value your opinion and the other not.	/r/seduction	30/07/19 03:17 PM
9	Not sure if she [F23] is interested or thinks of me [M19] as a friend Women usually make it clear if they want you or not with eye contact. If she is eye fucking you (no talking or goofing around) to build tension then most likely yes if not then at least a temporarily no. You should build sexual tension and see how she reacts. Go hard on eye contact and limit your smiling and joking/laughter in some conversations because that releases tension and you want to create it. In other casually drop that you like her, that she looks good, that she likes you etc. in a hal…	/r/seduction	29/07/19 02:34 PM
-2	Better to get a girl's Snapchat, Instagram, or phone number? Snapchat easly. Numbers are for dinosaurs and Instagram is not very personal. Not even my parents use numbers anymore for Christ. People have way way fewer contacts on SC than on IG. It's just more casual and the girl risks very little by having you there. I think the reason why numbers are advocated so heavily here is because of the demographic of the sub (the kind of people who need a reddit sub to get laid) and not necessarily because it's any good. Also, if you have their instagram, it seems…	/r/seduction	05/04/19 10:41 AM
–	A borderline suicidal incel's sad rant It's because you're failing the basic task of working on your problem. You'll never learn 2 + 2 in math if you're only practicing English. In general women don't give a shit about what you eat, do with your free time etc. They want you to make them feel good and that's it. If you fail at escalating like it seems you're describing under here then work on that. KINO, eye contact, talk to them like you want to fuck them and so on.	/r/seduction	23/02/19 07:43 AM
1	Retired “player” wants to know how the game has changed I'd guess that the big thing is that social proof has gotten more universal with social media. If you were a "loser" (a.k.a. boring profile with few likes) in high school people in college will know so it's more/less forgiving dependent on your starting point. Tinder works if you're handsome in your twenties at least. It seems that it's gone to hell for most now thought with even my more handsome friends struggling on there. In real life it's probably a lot of the same. If you have game you'll g…	/r/seduction	06/02/19 09:44 PM
5	Do you let your girlfriend go clubbing with her girlfriends? If your girl cheats in a place where the guys don't even get the chance to use their mouth to convince her because of the loud music then the relationship is doomed anyways. Clubs gets boring real fast if you can't hit on anyone so she probably won't stay long.	/r/seduction	02/02/19 02:16 AM
–	Field Report: Can confirm that your race and looks aren’t why you can’t find a girl. Also yes you can in fact chat up a woman with a topic as boring as office chairs. I think it's the other way around. It helps being black since you'll bee seen as exotic. White here and I feel like I get so much for free when speaking to girls of other races compared to white girls. Many of my black friends have no problem what so ever and it comes to the fact that women amuse that they are players as default which is a good thing because it means she sees you in a sexual light the moment she let her eyes on you. Girls will engage in flirty behavior so it will be more easy to…	/r/seduction	28/01/19 10:07 AM
1	Social media purge is hindering my game Download it again.	/r/seduction	27/01/19 09:45 PM
3	What’s more important, being confident? Or having a life? Having a life since you actually meet girls there. I'd bet that most guys that get laid are not confident since most people aren't. You can be as confident as you want behind a computer screen on a Saturday evening but nobody would be around to care.	/r/seduction	26/01/19 12:17 AM
–	Life advice for all young guys in a high school or college setting, please don't make this mistake with social media or you will deeply regret it! Great post. One thing to worry a little about thought is how much Facebook will be worth in the future so I'd prioritize Instagram since it's often a little too much to ask for both fb and Insta. Facebook is just getting beyond shit now unfortunately. If I wanted to look at random videos I would go to Youtube. #endrant	/r/seduction	10/01/19 08:26 AM
4	Im a virgin and want to have lots of sex. What's the best advice for me if I suck woth women? Show her your reddit account so you can brag about how much karma you have. This will boost your social value in her eyes by a ton. 10/10 never fails me.	/r/seduction	10/01/19 02:47 AM
1	lately I have realized that women don't see me that "way". What can I do? You have to make your intentions clear which is that you would like to fuck her the first time you meet her. This can be hard because it's a trade off. On one hand you might get the chance to fuck her but on the other she will probably avoid you and not like you if she don't find you attractive. She will also tell her friends after so they will be gone as well. So instead of six people liking you it will be six who dislikes you. Anyways if you want to go for the risk: Eye-contact touch her light…	/r/seduction	09/01/19 02:22 PM
–	Is Mark Manson's 'Models' good? I think it's good but overrated. It's been some time since I've read it but I remember thinking that it was very limited as far as seduction goes. The reason is because he needs to be in a one on one situation with a girl in an environment where she cares enough about you to listen. So it's targeted more to does who're able to land dates in the first place while my struggle has always been to actually get a date. I would still recommend since it's absolutely a good book to read it but it's not t…	/r/seduction	08/01/19 01:10 PM
–	Those of you who are popular/good on social media, what are your tips? When it comes to your friends not wanting to take a picture just push on them and they'll give in. Ask them specifically to take a ton and from different angles. If they totally refuse even if you show that you care a lot about it then they're just being assholes and if they do it the first time then they'll get more used to it the second time so it will get more easy. To make it more convenient if you're with more than one person ask them to do it while someone else is out of the room since it …	/r/seduction	08/01/19 08:06 AM
2	If someone tries to AMOG you by saying in front of the group, “Have you fucked her yet?”, what do you say? "Have you fucked her yet" is something that would be said in a setting with young people. I think it's fair to say that it's immature but I like being immature. I personally find it way more fun and I know my friends would laugh if they knew that I said it as a joke with a smile around my mouth. I think it would also work on the town in a bit more rude manner if you don't know the guy as well. It obviously doesn't go well with every social circle but that goes without saying. I disagree with it …	/r/seduction	06/01/19 01:48 PM
–	If someone tries to AMOG you by saying in front of the group, “Have you fucked her yet?”, what do you say? "I wish I could've but my dick is still sore from fucking your mom" "Bro, you don't have to worry. I would never cheat on your mom" Just something I made up now so not field tested but you get the idea, to busy fucking your mom. If he doesn't let it go and follows up with something like"no really have you"? You could respond with: "I didn't know you were so interested in my sex life but if you insist I could probably e-mail you my entire sex list tomorrow". Now he can't continue without losing f…	/r/seduction	06/01/19 07:34 AM
2	Why is seduction worth it? Personality? Most women just dont develop their personalities like men do. You'd be pleasantly surprised how fun women can be if you get them to open up. It's true that it's often up to you but it's not any different from guys. If you want to become friends with the boys at your school chances are that you have to make the first move as well. Men are not better then women at socializing (worse if you ask me) it's just you who want different things from them. Short answer to your question; yes, y…	/r/seduction	06/01/19 12:08 AM
1	How do I hit on club/parties? I have no problem day-gaming. I got a bit confused by what you mean by party/club but if you're thinking about a club with music and dancing then my suggestion would be to dance infront of the girl you want and try to make eye-contact. If she's not running away then try to touch her around the waist area and dance close before you pull away. Dance a little more with some distance but not so much that people gets between you before you go in again where you dance close and go for the kiss. After that then feel free to push / …	/r/seduction	29/12/18 02:33 AM
–	First, let me say this community is amazing I'm a little frustrated this is only for males BECAUSE it's assisted me so! This sub is indeed surprisingly helpful and positive. On the flip side thought it might be because we're almost more of a self improvement sub rather than a seduction one. Looks can be deceiving or something like that.	/r/seduction	27/12/18 05:50 PM
–	your opinion on expensive brand clothing.. I've heard about it so I guess you're right about that. A brands value has to be valued after retail and not resell price on limited edition items thought.	/r/seduction	27/12/18 02:21 AM
–	At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause? Yea I could imagine that it's around 18 but the point being that it's not something one would say out loud after the age of 16 because the 20 % who has already done will be everything but quiet about it. I'll agree that the physical part of having sex for the first time is not anything special but for me personally it was 1000kg of my psychological back.	/r/seduction	27/12/18 01:18 AM
0	At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause? I've been on reddit a long time but never seen someone describe themself as a manchild, just thought it was amusing. I would anyways recommend clubs and dating apps if you're shit with women and life. Women will mostly go after looks in does arenas so the wouldn't know if you're the worlds biggest loser.	/r/seduction	27/12/18 01:09 AM
–	your opinion on expensive brand clothing.. If you look at their things then I really don't think they have such a big range. I can't see where the 1000+ pricerange comes from honestly. Their brand is clearly not worth it if you can get it for 200 $. Everything they have on their site seems to be in the Polo Ralph Lauren price range and not Gucci. Even if they have one piece that is really expensive it still wouldn't make Supreme to an expensive brand clothing since 99 % of what they sell would still be cheap.	/r/seduction	27/12/18 12:56 AM
–	At what age does remaining a virgin start to get weird? Am I a lost cause? manchild virgin boy Is this a troll or are you actually describing yourself that way. Anyways to your question. After the age of 15, 16 most people has probably lost theirs or you'll at least be one of the late ones. So I would say 16. Maybe not weird per say in that it's uncommen but weird in that it's awkward to admit it to others kind of way. It has stopped since I stopped going to university. Now years later and working a minimum wage job, I offer nothing of value. You don't have to be rich …	/r/seduction	27/12/18 12:43 AM
–	your opinion on expensive brand clothing.. Nonono, Supreme is not that expensive. They have sweaters for 200 $ dollars on their own website here: https://www.supremenewyork.com/shop/tops-sweaters/dcf0reva5 They had an collab with LV that was expensive but Supreme in itself is "cheap". A lot of people mix it up but it's all good for you as long as the ladies also doesn't know it.	/r/seduction	27/12/18 12:08 AM
–	your opinion on expensive brand clothing.. I'd say it definitely works for me. It's amazing honestly because I'm ugly (no self pitty) and never ever get looks except for the times I've visible expensive brands. I didn't know that Supreme was expensive thought? Isn't a sweater like 200 $? I'm thinking more in the Gucci segment myself when I hear "expensive".	/r/seduction	26/12/18 10:52 PM
1	Why is it so hard to find someone who is successful at this in real life? It's "hard" to get laid consistently because your motivation will drop when you actually begin to get them so your priorities changes.	/r/seduction	17/11/18 01:33 AM
2	I recently discovered the seduction community and plan on making it my priority. Help me get started Simple tip: don't beat around the bush. Go out there and actually hit on them. That's the scary part which everyone wants to avoid but it's the most important one by far. About reading does two books. For me personally it was better to read on different websites. I've read Models and The Game but I didn't like them or The Game is useless as far as pickup goes since it's just a story. Reading different views were they get to the point faster makes it much more easy to find a personal style that c…	/r/seduction	16/11/18 12:27 AM
2	EU Army makes me feel protected Russia can't do jack in Europe because nukes. Maybe some eastern states with Stockholm Syndrome but they can do that even with the US here soo..	/r/MGTOW	15/11/18 02:28 AM
–	Please help guys. I don't know what's wrong with me. Women hits on you if you're good looking so maybe you're more average looking than you think. Try a club with some friends and drink enough alcohol to get that extra courage. Also this " good financial standing, good family, no real issues in life" that is describing like the whole middle class and upper class in a first world country so it's as special as being nice.	/r/seduction	08/11/18 12:21 PM
–	Is getting rejected decent amount normal? Nah not normal maybe you should brush your teeths more.	/r/seduction	03/11/18 05:33 PM
0	Multiple girls at work showing me iois how do I play this? Assume that they gossip with each other so only go for one. Also be prepared to show up to work with the girl that might've rejected you and all the girls there knows it. That said it's only to go up to one of them and have a flirty tone and see how she responds and be direct enough for her to understand that you're hitting on her. It can't get any more easy than your situation if you've the possibility to talk with them on 2-mans hold.	/r/seduction	09/10/18 01:59 PM
2	What are some of the bigger differences to know between seduction at a younger age (18 till 25) and at an older age (>30)? Just to keep in mind in this thread. One do not need to actually have ones own life together to actually portray it. The same way how having your life together won't automatically get you laid.	/r/seduction	21/09/18 10:54 PM
2	How to pursue women in your social circle without getting shun? If you're friend with the girl then you've been deceiving her up to that point and if you're not her friend then you're just an other guy hitting on her. Either way you lose so don't do it because the girls will as you've already noticed take the other girls side over you 11/10 times. I've had the same happen to me as well and it blows because you end up being invited to the guys party's but not the girls so you see them a lot yet they're never really friendly so it's like having a bunch of bitc…	/r/seduction	09/09/18 04:15 PM
1	Do any of you guys have "real core confidence"? How did you develop it? I got super high confidence and I got it by being stupid a 1000 times.	/r/seduction	03/09/18 09:31 PM
2	How to handle being the least attractive between a group of friends? "if you are the most intelligent person in the room you are in the wrong room" I swap intelligence with attractiveness and see it as a plus. My friends can attract girls to us which I couldn't have done alone which gives me more opportunities.	/r/seduction	02/09/18 08:26 PM
1	Should I Make Female Friends First in College? Ask the ones out that you're only going so see once. There are really none who wants to build up a serious friendship with anyone they just met for 10 minutes. Befriend does you see regularly and have something in common with like friends, class etc.	/r/seduction	31/08/18 06:24 PM
3	How do I find out what turns me on? Is it possible that you're in denial because of the V?	/r/seduction	28/08/18 01:51 PM
1	a few months into my reboot and waking up, women are starting to notice me more Totally agree :)	/r/seduction	26/08/18 02:48 PM
–	a few months into my reboot and waking up, women are starting to notice me more Almost the same age as you and I go hard on kino and try to escalate asap. I try to isolate if possible as well. The reason why is because I know if she likes me then she is expecting me to do it and if I don't do it fast enough she will be disappointed about me and lose interest. If she likes you then awesome and if not you risk looking dumb and that's the chance you've to take imo.	/r/seduction	26/08/18 02:37 PM
2	Great advancements in my seduction game Great job! Too bad you didn't get a happy ending thought.	/r/seduction	26/08/18 02:27 PM
–	a few months into my reboot and waking up, women are starting to notice me more Sounds to me like they've probably always found you attractive but you're just starting to notice it now. Anyways, great for you. ;-)	/r/seduction	26/08/18 02:18 PM
1	How do you deal with having multiple girls you're seeing / talking to to at the same place? When that happens to me the girls always talk with each other without me even knowing about it since that's what they do and it goes to hell with both. I doubt they're really in the same social circle if they haven't found out. Just isolate them and escalate from there.	/r/seduction	25/08/18 08:02 PM
3	Female needs male advice on how to subtly hit on man Subtle ways for women are usually more intense eye contact, play with your hair in front of him, touch him lightly, laugh at him. Now your problem comes if he doesn't react on them because it means that he doesn't want you or he doesn't get it. If that happens than you need to make your intentions more clear. He is on job as well so he might and should be afraid of the consequences for hitting on a women who doesn't want it. He literally has to be dumb to pick you up in front of other people so …	/r/seduction	23/08/18 09:24 AM
1	I was obsessed with learning ‘The Game’ years back when a friend of mine who was always scoring chicks left and right wrote this over to me on text. I saved it on notes exactly 3 years ago and thought I’d share it with you guys. Let's be honest thought. Seduction isn't for people who is looking for relationship right away. It's for people who wants to score a lot or maybe losing their virginity. To have the chance on a relationship in the first place you need to be able to get to that short term pleasure first and which seduction is great help. It's for people who've tried to be the best version of them self and tried to be genuine and still failed. By scoring more girls one would naturally become less needy to one girl…	/r/seduction	10/08/18 09:55 PM
2	Instagram: Pics of you With Another Woman to DHV? I think it would help for Instagram and I would totally do it. The problem as you say which I have myself is howthefuck to do it without people taking it the wrong way and not coming of as you force it.	/r/seduction	10/08/18 02:01 AM
1	Indicators Of Interest Suck - This Is The Real Way To Tell If A Girl Likes You I totally agree that her staying with you is the nr. 1 sign. After that thought I think it's more about me making a move were I show clear intention either with Kino, strong eye contact etc. and see how she reacts. This will force an honest reaction out of her where she'll have to either back off or stay.	/r/seduction	10/08/18 01:52 AM
–	How do I not get cock blocked by other dudes ? If she shows interest in you then escalate escalate escalate. You should sit next to her so you can keep kino when the other guys are there. If you scratch her on the back and tell her funny and flirty things in to her ears then you'll totally have something internal going even with other people there. It's super important and I can't stress this enough that you don't lose your momentum. Joke about you kissing her when you're speaking in to her ear and see how she reacts, if she reacts positive …	/r/seduction	10/08/18 01:39 AM
1	Is it true that girls play with their hair if they like you? Why do they do this? They can do it as a sign but I wouldn't read too much in to it unless they also give other clues like smiling/laughing/stare. A lot of girls just do it out of habit.	/r/seduction	10/08/18 01:10 AM
9	Can someone update the sidebar please? Tried to get a new mod who has the time to do it?	/r/seduction	09/08/18 01:38 AM
-1	Why do girls seem more interested when you don't give them any attention ? Because they want you to like them less than they like you. This only works thought once you've proven value to them.	/r/seduction	08/08/18 10:59 PM
1	Lost my virginity when I was 16 - I've slept with 22 different girls now, and I'm 18 yrs old. Here's my most honest guide on how I've done it. You are what we call "a natural". You say that looks don't matter but you don't fuck 22 girls by the age of 18 based on knowledge. I'll guess that you're handsome because a lot of the things in seduction gets easily snowballed based on the confidence you get from girls being psychically attracted to you. There is no doubt in my mind that you are giving away the things you think are right to make a guide but it's a bit like someone being born in to wealth teaching about how to get rich if you kno…	/r/seduction	02/08/18 10:47 PM
–	23 Kissless Virgin idk wtf to do. A good way to become better socially is to join your local political party which you support. It's a great way to meet new people and socialise. The best thought is to join a party which is to the left since most women are to the left and it's not like your one vote will matter anyways. You should also find a friend or more friends to go out with on weekends so you can hit on women in clubs. It's much more easy with some alcohol in your body to get you started. Small penis doesn't matter before …	/r/seduction	02/08/18 10:18 PM
1	How to avoid being a nice guy? How do I make a move and escalate without being rejected or friendzoned? That's the question that we're all asking our self, rofl.	/r/seduction	13/07/18 12:48 PM
1	How do I stop coming off as the boyfriend type? It's honestly not a big problem for you that the girl misunderstand you after you've had sex. They might only go for you because they expect more so it can honestly be a great thing. That said if you're seen as edgy then they will more likely put you in the player category rather than bf and not expect much from you.	/r/seduction	13/07/18 12:40 PM
2	What's the best way to meet smart women such as lawyers, doctors or engineers? You probably have to up your day game since they're not likely to be found on Tinder or a weekend out. That said you just seduce them like everyone else. Just like pretty women are just women smart women are also just women.	/r/seduction	12/07/18 11:57 AM
1	How to be Confident Around Hot Girls \| 3 Easy Steps This is not good stuff at all. Don't listen to it. These advice's sounds good but they're obviously not. Step 3 touches on it but it's over all very misleading. You get good with hot girls with experience from talking and hitting on them. It's very simple. It's all about the moment which is why any visualization and attempts at controlling your negative thoughts will go completely out the window the moment you say "hi" so it won't help you.	/r/seduction	11/07/18 11:10 AM
–	Small update(asked for help on approach) It's really good that you had the balls to do it, really. Now go out there and do a 100 more ;-)	/r/seduction	11/07/18 11:00 AM
2	Constantly being rejected by women on this journey of battling AA and learning day/nightgame is starting to frustrate me :( Instagram is not the place to add women after one night unless it's one of your big strengths because she most likely won't like being associated with you especially if she doesn't know you. Try Snapchat instead. That said you should definitely close the same night because when she comes home you're just 1 of 100 guys messaging her. Four weekends is not bad but it's not much either so it's not weird that you're not seeing results yet. The women who goes out on weekends is getting the real life t…	/r/seduction	11/07/18 10:49 AM
1	If "Dale Carnegie" is the social bible, would be the seduction bible? There is none because there is no universal way that everyone agrees on being the best. Carnegies advices are really simple and doesn't need much explaining which is hard to replicate for seduction. I mean, advice's can be simple in seduction as well but they're much harder to follow up on for the average guy. That said it's definitely not the game. It's a fun story but it doesn't teach you how to do anything.	/r/seduction	09/07/18 08:37 PM
1	All right-- I'm new-- I want to get up to speed. If you have social anxiety then you have to fix that. It's very simple. How to improve that is probably more easy to find other places than seddit.	/r/seduction	08/07/18 11:37 PM
2	What works better? Aggressiveness or Playing it Cool? I go aggressive as fuck. It's mostly due to the fact that chances are really high that an other more handsome guy could come to pick her up just to leave the outcome completely out of my control. You can probably play it more cool than me if you're actually attractive thought but I can't speak for that. The reason for why I think aggressive is better than cool is because it's what worked for me. The situation in my context are mostly clubs and home party's were I won't see the girls again if the…	/r/seduction	08/07/18 11:28 PM
1	Fastest Way to get good with girls. Whether that be 1 year or 5 years Being good with girls is something I would define as being able to regularly make them interested in you as more than friends. The fastest way is to go out every night you can to hit on them. You can go out 30 times in 30 days and be done or 30 days in 365 days and have the same result. The guy who does it in 30 days will actually have a greater result as well since he will be in the zone the whole time while the guy who uses a year has to warm up every time he goes out. This is why in my view i…	/r/seduction	08/07/18 11:11 PM
3	Taking up instagram game? 1k+ followes is a lot. It has to come down to how good you're able to market yourself which will be completely different from person to person. If you suck you'll never reach 1000. Don't know. If you have the extra cash and you want to use it on that then why not. Good pictures will definitely not hurt you. The only people who I see regularly break 1k followers are girls who're a nine out of ten and in the age group 16-26 so I'm gonna assume that it will be a lot harder for you so good luck.	/r/seduction	08/07/18 10:59 PM
1	20 years old with low experience Read seddit and similar guides while you go out and try hard for a few months and you'll see results. You said you "was" the nice guy but are you still not that? Most guys fail because they're unable to take action in real life where they have to set them self up for temporarily failure. You have to be self aware of the fact that the things you least want to do is what's going to improve your game the most and that's the thing you got to work on.	/r/seduction	08/07/18 10:40 PM
1	[25 M]. Been gaming since 2013, still little success. Help? Hahahah omg please say that this is sarcasm?.. Dude, fun is not about going hiking for 26 km with a friend. This is so way off that i've no trouble seeing why you're doing rather bad. Fun / boring has nothing to what you do but WHO you are. That part is all about personality. Hiking is also not social so I would definitely write that off as a boring activity even thought it doesn't make you boring as a person.	/r/seduction	04/07/18 03:21 PM
1	Asked out a girl for the first time over insta. She wasn’t interested. Is it weird to ask her friend. As I predicted then unfortunately. Too bad but it doesn't sound like a big loss. At least you're one experience richer now.	/r/seduction	04/07/18 03:15 PM
–	Asked out a girl for the first time over insta. She wasn’t interested. Is it weird to ask her friend. I would say no. Girls talk and the one you have already talked to has definitely ratted you out to her friends. You'll end up with the status "that guy who hits on everybody" and no one wants you. The only way I can imagine you getting laid here is by playing the long game with hopefully impressing the girl you already have on Instagram with your Instagram and she might be interested if / when you meat again for a later date. The best would be if you followed the girl you wanted on Instagram but…	/r/seduction	04/07/18 01:06 PM
1	My experience as obese man Just curious. At what point do you make it clear to them that you want to be more than friends? I don't feel like this got explained here and this feel like a recipe to fall in the friend zone.	/r/seduction	04/07/18 12:56 PM
–	Sick of this virginity thing. Wanting to find an escort to see what sex is like. You understand it but have you applied it in your life?	/r/seduction	30/06/18 11:17 PM
–	Sick of this virginity thing. Wanting to find an escort to see what sex is like. The Tinder thing was just an example. You can apply it to any advice. I am also not made for Tinder so my game is also based on face to face. The point is that you need to recognize that the things that you've already done hasn't worked out so you need to move on and adapt. There is also a difference btw. interacting with women and hitting on them. They are not the same at all since hitting on a women is way harder.	/r/seduction	30/06/18 10:08 PM
–	Sick of this virginity thing. Wanting to find an escort to see what sex is like. That's what I did went around looking for help from people that had more experience than myself. Its helped me be social but also has me jaded to the whole thing. But the dating side has stayed stagnant for a long time. I saw some other of your replies in this thread and I think it's obvious that you've misunderstood a thing or two. The problem with advice's is that they're really easy misunderstand. Just gonna quote it here; I'm just stating my experience with this thing that everyone claims to…	/r/seduction	30/06/18 09:29 PM
–	Sick of this virginity thing. Wanting to find an escort to see what sex is like. I didn't do it myself when I was a virgin because I was afraid that I might regret it one day. This was not at 29 thought. What I can say thought is that losing my V-card was unbelievable for me mentally. I did it to an ONS. It really was life-changing the way my mentally changed. It was really bothering me and I didn't know about INCEL back then but I definitely shared a lot of the same mentality. I have a lot of sympathy for them but I don't think like that anymore and that is thanks to losing…	/r/seduction	30/06/18 08:38 PM
2	My two cents on “Models” Models is definitely for casual sex as mentioned. It's just a tool that which sound more sophisticated. The intent is to get the girl to like you the way any seduction method works. I personally haven't picked up anything from the book myself which I use with intent and that's because his method is really far fetched for me. There is no doubt in my mind that it works and it's great so I really want to incorporate some of it in to my game thought. The thing that makes it hard for me personally is…	/r/seduction	30/06/18 02:14 PM
–	How to Create an Instagram page that attracts Girls Thanks for the two post that I can see that you've put a lot of effort behind! I was a really big fan of your first post but not so much of this one. Something is clearly working for you yet there are still rooms for improvement in my opinion. I'm just gonna comment on what I think you could have done different. What women want think you could have made your list more simple and the hobby section is dead wrong and I'ill explain why. Leadership qualities, humor, passion, having a tender side and …	/r/seduction	29/06/18 06:10 PM
1	Instagram can help your Dating Life It's the easy way to say that you don't really care about followers or pretend to be someone else etc. One of the hardest things to realize for me at least and do something about is to look at it from the outside. More followers and being someone else is not what you care about but it's what girls care about. You care about girls. To get what matters to you (girls) you have to care about what they want. In other words; you need to care about more followers and chancing because you care about wom…	/r/seduction	29/06/18 03:13 PM
–	How come I don't experience any success on Tinder with these pictures? Because you look like a loser in them. Sorry, not saying that you are but the pictures are that bad. Picture 1. Your smile does not look genuine so you end up looking insecure and not confident. Women don't care about guitars which means it's low status. They only tolerate a normal one if the guy is John Mayer good-looking but they don't give a shit about it. Guitars like in your pictures are associated with rock-music and is kind of emo. So in conclusion for the first picture; insecure, low sta…	/r/seduction	29/06/18 02:27 PM