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That’s what I’m saying too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:46 AM
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I mean it fits under the same topic but I see what you mean. Do you think what I said is incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:39 AM
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That caught me a little off guard ngl. Bdsm has never been my cup of tea but I have been asked to do it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:37 AM
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What would you define as a kink? Like an emotional bond?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:12 AM
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This is getting very personal but is way more interesting than the original post. How do you have kinks to if you don’t have normal attraction? Is it unrelated to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:04 AM
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How do you determine who you have sex with? What preferences make it feel better? do you prefer men or women? I also enjoy sex but if every woman on this planet disappeared I probably would no longer have sex because I’m not attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:59 AM
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How do you determine what good sex even is or who you have it with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:05 AM
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How can you havelibido and find no one attractive. I’ve heard other a asexuals say this and it makes zero sense. Like do you masturbate to nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:51 AM
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I also believe women want men there comfortable with. I’ve been in multiple relationships yet never pursued without reason. I be kind supportive not to aggressive then when they leave obvious hits then I purse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:39 AM
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I’ve not been with a lot of women but the ones I have been with all pursued me first. Whether it’s actually approaching me, dropping obvious hints or laughing at everything I say like I’m the funniest dude on the planet. It’s like fishing, you could have a line with eight bait attached to it. If they aren’t hungry for it they won’t bite but the moment they due you better be ready to reel it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:33 AM
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I have a sex drive I just don’t let it affect dating. All the women I’ve been with either pursued me or left hints that they liked me beforehand. As a man you have to learn fast the what’s between your legs shouldn’t be the primary thing you listen to in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:17 AM
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If I had to give my own advice(and I have to multiple men.) I would say the best why to get a woman interested is to not purse them. Don’t chase don’t flirt don’t even try to be romantic. My first real gf approached me. My second asked me why I hadn’t asked her out yet after talking to her for months. My third I met in a forum and we dm’ed each other and she gave me hints. Throw your sexuality out the window and be what man they want you to be and when the opportunity comes don’t mess it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:12 AM
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I don’t understand what your insinuating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 02:02 AM
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You are literally arguing my point. Also there’s also hair on your head not sure if you know and your finger nails, the things that probably touched your mouth numerous times is made out of the same material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:54 AM
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I would think the oldest profession would be like hunter or farmer maybe even carpenter. Also I’m a dude I know damn well how sexually works. Lastly there are various mammals and other animals with very low sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:48 AM
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Not me. Without a bond it’s basically just masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:36 AM
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You bugging. There’s multiple tabs you can choose from. I chose “question for women.” One
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:33 AM
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You bugging. Hypothetically if you found a man’s beard attractive and was the main reason you pursed him And he shaved it one day would just end the relationship? He’s not attractive anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:31 AM
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Do you mean demisexual? Why would you not care about a strong emotional bond in sex unless your after a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:22 AM
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So you believe all relationships are love at first sight like a Disney movie. She approached me while I was with my friends and we asked me out pretty much. Attraction isn’t just physical you should know that better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 01:04 AM
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Not being initially attracted to someone is not the same as finding them unattractive. You can not be head over heels for someone of a first glance and then get to know them, take in their personality and overall vibe and preferences. Then get attracted form that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:51 AM
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What’s the point of this subreddit then. For men and women to blame each other for their problems. Also good gaslighting. You. Got. Combative. First.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:43 AM
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What are you five? You looked and click on the sub and immediately got combative. No one asked you to comment you have free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:36 AM
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The best and longest relationship I had was with a woman I wasn’t initially attracted to. She came up to me and we had a conversation then exchanged information. We were friends first then we fell into a relationship. That’s how I imagine it is for a lot of women. You all don’t have as much libido and testosterone as men so you care more about character and the idea of having a boyfriend. Am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:33 AM
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This is the gender war sub. I was trying to make something positive but apparently the don’t want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:23 AM
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If a woman had difficulty finding a man and asked me for advice I would tell her in a heartbeat. I don’t know what she’s on about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:20 AM
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Why.would.you.not.want.men.to.ask. If I was interested in a particular job the first thing I would do is ask people who have that job what steps did they take to get that job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:18 AM
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Hypothetically, let’s say you wake up as a dude. And you go through years of terrible dating advice from insecure men. Then you think to yourself maybe I’ll just ask women what they want. seems logical and the first response you get is”I don’t know read a book.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 12:10 AM
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Brother look on google. There’s still talks about it as recently as a few weeks ago. It might be exaggerated but the point still stands. Are you arguing against my post? Do you not agree? What’s your thoughts on the rest of what I said?
/r/MensRights05/08/26 09:06 PM
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No there aren’t what exactly. I’m struggling to understand that your saying
/r/MensRights05/08/26 08:59 PM
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There more study’s showing it’s still true today, but that’s not the point. The point is a lot of women have a predisposition that man are les attractive. Attractiveness is a Bell curve. Very few people are extremely attractive very few are the opposite, most people male and female are average. In my personal life I’ve rarely seen a woman who took good care of herself to be unattractive in a first glance but I guess it’s not the same for women.
/r/MensRights05/08/26 08:55 PM
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He was. Wish he was still here
/r/MensRights05/08/26 07:36 PM
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You said you had a thing for older women and your last girlfriend was 19 🤨. Also I don’t let them be like that hence why I’m single
/r/MensRights05/08/26 07:02 PM
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I’m 23. Dating has always been an uphill battle for me, always trying to make them happy while being reminded they can find someone else. I believe it’s a money problem honestly. They can’t financially rely on me so they keep looking.
/r/MensRights05/08/26 06:58 PM
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I think the worst feeling about being a man is the idea of forcing confidence and assertiveness despite everyone being indifferent about you existence. When I got out of high school most of my friends cut me off, I had no idea who I wanted to be. Despite that I started working taking care of myself going to the gym and most importantly I’ve been kind despite feeling like nobody cared. And slowly but surely I made friends connections and even had a few relationships that were short lived but not …
/r/MensRights05/08/26 06:45 PM
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My bad. You have any thoughts about the post?
/r/MensRights05/08/26 06:26 PM
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I’m in my early 20s and still trying to come up. I can’t afford to keep paying for dating and getting nothing for it so I stopped using them.
/r/MensRights05/08/26 06:07 PM
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Not how I was raised. My dad was divorced by my mother and had a restraining order preventing him from seeing my two younger siblings. Still told me to not hold it against her and respect women.
/r/MensRights05/08/26 06:04 PM
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Dating app has become the most common way people meet now. The reason being is people have such lack of social skills that in order for them to find a partner they can tolerate need an app to hold their hand at back. Very sad if you think about it.
/r/MensRights05/08/26 06:01 PM
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Man the amount of times I’ve copied this post to places like r/feminist or debate threads only to be called a loser or a incel is a staggering amount. Like one was they said I don’t know anything about women then when I told them I’ve dated multiple and had my own bad experiences they didn’t believe me. They always have to be the victims.
/r/MensRights05/08/26 05:59 PM
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Never said you were just replying my man. And one thing no woman would ever understand. When I 19 I worked at McDonald’s. I had very little money yet I meet a girl and fall head over heels. I saved up to take her bowling and a movie. Spent all my money I saved thinking I was the man. After words she ghosted me 😑
/r/MensRights05/08/26 05:37 PM
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The whole idea of gender wars and women blaming men never made sense to me. I’m not an old man, yet already I’ve been in relationships were I’ve been cursed at mocked and physically assaulted by my girlfriend. Despite that I have NEVER have and would never hold all women accountable for those experiences yet a lot of them do it to us. Which is one of the reasons men are scared to approach and feel disgusted by their own sexuality.
/r/MensRights05/08/26 05:29 PM
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Are you ai? You type like ai when it runs out of things to say. Are you a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:09 AM
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Brother. Who criticizes women for being too easy!!! You? Yeah if I found out my gf was secretly going rounds with the Florida gators starting football team behind my back maybe, but I don’t care who she’s been in a relationship with before me that’s not my concern. As longs as she respects are relationship idc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 08:02 AM
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I believe in your reading comprehension skills. Come on just read it slower this time sound it out to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:52 AM
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Bother in Christ… what are you even trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:50 AM
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With what I said you can paraphrase. Or do I need to “step down to your level.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:48 AM
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Ok look at it this way. There’s a hole bunch of people in a tribe. In the tribe theirs a lot of men and women who come in different shapes and sizes. Despite that the females in that tribe choose of there own choice to ignore and mate with the small 20 percent of those males leaving the rest confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:46 AM
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Do you agree or disagree or should I just talk to myself about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:39 AM
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This one’s a little clearer for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:35 AM
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A person once said there’s no such a stupid question. That person was wrong because if they saw this very comment theyed retract that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:31 AM
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Believe it or not but I’ve been in relationships. Can you believe it I’m not a incel. All I’m saying is that there evidence to suggest that Men have a hard time in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:27 AM
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It’s not you asked me what other solutions are there and I said we should work together and not be so against each other. Men are not your abuser your not all victims and hating each other would solve nothing. We should tear down gender norms and teach people to respect who they are and nots what between there legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:24 AM
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My man. You can twist it down play it call it old but at last 80 percent is 80 percent. It specifically says that they find them to be below average. You how this hardening that sounds? Have you used a dating app? Probably since it’s the most common way people find there partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:18 AM
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It’s truly sad man hopefully there not all like this but who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:11 AM
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Notice how you’ve referred to me of having a “think skull.” And “being very young” and having to step down to my level despite I’ve no rude comments to you. Funny isn’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:08 AM
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Women have higher self obesity rates😑
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:02 AM
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You ignored everything I said about the economy and the great depression and randomly said I was against women’s education. 😐 I said that women and men should work together and you interpreted as being anti women. Can you have a conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:57 AM
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Why would I have sex with my roommate… also if my girlfriend lost her job and feel on hard times mentally I wouldn’t KICK HER OUT. Also pillow princess are women who are giving disappointing sex we just let it slide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:53 AM
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I’ll say it again. Dating apps are the MOST common way people meet and 80 percent of ALL MEN on those apps seen as unattractive by ALL women and your still saying that men don’t have it harder? You delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:48 AM
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Brother. 80 percent!! Of the most common way people meet. 80 percent do you understand how crazy that sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:43 AM
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When did I say I was against women’s education? Also every thing I said is backed with evidence not so made up bro science. There articles like on google.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:41 AM
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So you’re an autistic trans red pill woman. Damn found a rare Pokémon
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:36 AM
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The statistic isn’t. “Women find 80 percent of men to be unattractive but then get to know them and develop strong healthy relationships despite of that.” It’s they are ignoring them and going for the 20 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:26 AM
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It’s the fault of modern feminism. We are getting closer to another great depression. But unlike the last one where men a woman worked together we just whine and blame each other. Because you’ve been told men are the problem and men have been told your the problem while we all fall together blaming the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:23 AM
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I’m sure there pull something out their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:13 AM
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80 percent need to change or fall to natural selection. Sound like a certain failed painter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:12 AM
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Lesbians are a thing boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:10 AM
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Of course not brother. They are always the victims, even though they are significantly more of them in America. And they have an advantage in college and the job market. They also readily access to weapons that can easily neutralize someone twice there size. Man are the abusers and women are the abused even though a lot of times it’s the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 06:06 AM
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They got instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:29 AM
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Female gays are called lesbians and YES THEY ARE FUCK! They make me wanna cave my skull in. Love my black queens though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:24 AM
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You think dating black women is easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:20 AM
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Is it a problem if I was? I’m biracial, ten percent of my county is the same so I’ll most likely line one way other the other so it doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 04:09 AM
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Have you seen muscular bearded men do interpreted dance? I recommend it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:40 AM
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Wow that’s a lot of questions. First no I’m not into it. Second we are both in are early 20s and I’m into personal training and he’s going to school for real estate. Third yes and no it depends but men’s attraction and women’s attraction are very different. If most of them approach me maybe, if I had to approach them probably not. It’s rare a man would a woman that takes care of herself unattractive. Forth we make each other laugh so I suppose. And fifth I don’t know the exact girth and length o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:40 AM
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The problem is this. Cold approaches don’t work because if you already have a negative predisposition of men you’ll think there weird no matter what and the fact that Gen Z already have a chronic lack of social skills for a variety of reasons. This is why despite dating apps being a new thing they are already the most common way people meet their partner. Everyone’s shy yet men a called pussys for being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:15 AM
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Facts. I also would respond and say”if you don’t like what I’m doing you could just leave.” And they calm down and hit me with the”no no that’s not necessary.” Then act like I ruined the vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:03 AM
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That’s a lot of gobbledygook you just said. First off haven’t been mean especially when people have called me all types of things for even asking this question. Second you know nothing about me or my friend and inferring you do to the point of diminishing my character is a little goofy but to each their own. I’m sure you’re an amazing person and I hope the best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:57 AM
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How are they going extinct if there so strong and in a less modern world?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:47 AM
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My man. Not to difficult is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:46 AM
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Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:43 AM
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Is it a prequel?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:42 AM
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I don’t know how to explain it. I’ve had girls curse me out over nothing and try throwing hands. Even if your weaker then someone they still hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:41 AM
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Game of Thrones disappointed me so much. I refuse to watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:37 AM
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I’ve read every single one. I have a migraine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:36 AM
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What wrong with my attitude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:35 AM
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They’re depicted as reptiles no? So giant lizards or iguanas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:30 AM
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So your answer is idk. That’s my answer two you should make a post asking about how women feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:28 AM
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My definition of a masculine man would be running butt naked into the woods axe in hand as he prepares to fight the great dragon to sacrifice his head to the mole queen. But that’s just me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:26 AM
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Do you prefer men or women. Yeah I can’t imagine either I’m just so awesome and cool. 6 foot btw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:20 AM
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It is was what really women about masculinity. I used my friend as an example of and non-inherently masculine man getting girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:18 AM
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Good now give me a four page essay for everything you learned from and remember to cite your sources
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:15 AM
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People say talk about the “gen Z stare.” But I’ve talked to coworkers about how there days going and they stare at me for 30 seconds while they remember how to talk in person. I’ve even slowed my words down say they had enough time to process and respond. It’s bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:14 AM
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Girl you see how many comments they are? Plus I have things to do outside of Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:10 AM
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Have you ever dated a female?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:08 AM
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Same. But I asked because a lot of Gen Z’s have a lack of social skills. Like really bad. I was born with a stutter and had to slowly adjust over time so I’m very conscientious what I say and how it comes across(believe it or not because of the comments) the amount of people who can’t hold a conversation in our generation is sickening and it’s a big contributor to the dating crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:07 AM
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That’s a lot of words can you paraphrase
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:03 AM
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Tom boys as well. I think talking crazy to a man twice your size is a fetish for a lot of women could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:02 AM
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You struggle with letting people talk? Are you Gen Z?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:00 AM
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What do you value in a woman bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:55 PM
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So like my friend. W wingman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:54 PM
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I meant to say to much. To be mindful of something means to be conscientious about how much you’re doing it. Telling a man to help get girls to not speak about himself as much is crazy work. If your son is a wonderful person who women would be lucky to have to not talk about themselves as much is insane. Would you tell that to a woman asking about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:52 PM
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Shoulders are the male gaze the female gaze is other women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:48 PM
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Look up how to get girls on google because girls can’t give an answer idk never mind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:46 PM
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😑. Don’t talk about yourself and ask questions or something idk just date men it’s easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:44 PM
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I’ve read nearly every comment and responded to a lot of them and they go the same why. “Muscles are the male gaze not the female gaze.” What is the female gaze. “Pfff I don’t know we are so complex it’s impossible to answer.” Alright. I guess women also can’t understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:41 PM
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His personality is very similar to yours but he’s a boy with a penis and balls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:38 PM
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He looks like you but has a penis and likes girls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:34 PM
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It’s like they complain about us then gatekeep what they actually want. Quite bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:33 PM
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If you had a son and he was having problems with dating what would you tell him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 11:26 PM
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If he as a shirt on you wouldn’t tell the difference I never understood that picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:25 PM
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What is the female gaze or is that a secret men aren’t supposed to know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 10:08 PM
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I’ll be completely honest. We have a very similar personality. But I think I attract different women. He has the easy going Peter Parker build more women are comfortable with. I’m over six foot and not white I’m light skinned biracial. I can normally land hookups but you know how hookup culture is, one good night then your ghosted. I never enjoyed hook up culture but it helps me get laid so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:47 PM
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I don’t like the bro type but they like me for some reason. I found a strait called the friend effect. Basically if you’re in an environment with friends you are more likely to get girls attention because it seems like you don’t need them. I was playing dodge ball at a trampoline park and a random girl started hitting on me. One of the best days of my life. We slept together but she ghosted me after. Still was worth though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:18 PM
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Wtf is the female gaze other women? Those are called lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:09 PM
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I feel like we agree. I just wanted to say that a lot of women on this post have used it to complain about men’s incompetence which is ok. I’m not offended because people call me a chud or a loser for making it. But next time you hear about a male loser remember, they coulda got it from there mom
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 09:05 PM
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If you read the rest of the comment? I worked really hard on it. Maybe I worded it poorly my bad. Testosterone is the sex hormone. It makes men crave futile women. I’m not going into any more details. I’m sure you’re beautiful though, there is evidence about male and female psychopathy towards sex. You could look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:55 PM
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hell, men used to fist fight each other to impress women a thousand years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:41 PM
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this is gonna sound very bad but i cant fathom. understand that. men have testosterone which makes us desire a specific type of women. but it seems women aernt the same evolution just stopped making woman desire specific types of man? every other mammal has a picture of what the top mates are. the silver back the king lion the dominate ape. ect. but female humans are above evolution i guess. im not trying to be facetious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:39 PM
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thats what sucks about it. it was made for different time and is something you cant turn off. testosterone is a pointless thing in are modern world. thats that what no podcast would ever say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:27 PM
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since you said a lot ill do the same. my father died on july 11. he was a hard working man who was a role model for me. he fell on hard times and my mother divorced him. he told in my eyes that thats how woman are and he wasent able to do what a mans supposed to do. he was found died on a job sight. he didnt have a whole lot and was in a lot of dept and left his kids with nothing. everyone says the same thing"He gave up the divorce got to him he was not taking care of himself." the day of the fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:22 PM
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never heard of him but im sure hes a hunk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:09 PM
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it depends. men have high libidos which is what gives that impression. as a man its rare i dont think about sex at least once. in the wild you had too to keep are species from dying. but in are age its a hindrance. ive been with a woman for years then ask myself if i truly love her or is it my hormones. thats a hard thought a lot of men think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 08:07 PM
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have you seen the performative male trend. thats what i feel like when i read in public. also yes and no. men have a high libido which makes us you know, but it also makes us likely to not pick up on red flags because if your a cave man, who cares about red flags if your gonna get eaten alive by tigers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:56 PM
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thank you the first actual "women are attracted to" statement ive seen on this post. a lot of dudes would fight for that. i know what most men are attracted to in a woman its not a secret worth hidden. ive got so many"well women are complex organisms who cant be explained or understood" i would never describe my or any mans mind as complex or impossible to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:53 PM
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not dates. first in counters like a in a mail or at a club or even at work. most men fall head over heels over women. but from what ive experienced it takes time for a women to see you worth her time. which is ok and makes since if a survival mindset. after all i cant get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:46 PM
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or just put a few rats in his house.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:42 PM
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i never said you did. im having a conversation not a argument and i think books are necessary for adding new perspectives to your brain and not reading can make you dumber look at the american reading crisis and look at people on this app.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:39 PM
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to do those things you must already be in a relationship. you cant judge those on a first counter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:34 PM
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you want his number?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:32 PM
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if you had a large group of men describe their ideal partner theyd properly be very similar to each other. would you say the same for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:31 PM
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ive read so many comments i low key forgot what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:17 PM
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i dont know why reading and cooking are considered feminine. if i cant cook id die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:15 PM
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i wouldnt describe them as masculine but maybe we have different ways of describing masculine. i also do things seen as feminine like cook and read. actually the fact that cooking and reading are seen as feminine might be part of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:13 PM
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tom boys are who i attract the most. i got in a agrument with my last gf and she tried to throw hands. had a strong hook to almost slept me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:07 PM
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so the answer to my post is sometimes but in most parts no. the problem is that most men are more unstable then women straight up. not have a model of what a good man should be can be very bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:05 PM
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skinny more feminine. its the same with telling men to be more masculine. words used to bring people down and build themselves up. trust me ive been called to fat then got lean just for nothing to change. the key is to love yourself because most people are more attractive then they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 07:01 PM
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it feels like ive been hit with gojos domain. my brains fried
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:56 PM
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a looot of people say the same thing here its a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:51 PM
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youd be surprised. ive heard men say if only i was tall and muscular. i am both of those things still not easy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:48 PM
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a actual conversation but its reddit. the home of pseudo intellectualism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:45 PM
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i like women to. their pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:41 PM
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far.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:40 PM
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just asking a question but to be real idc just enjoying the banter
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:38 PM
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honestly ive stopped caring about the post and just started saying shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:36 PM
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never tryed to down play my friend. but i truly believe that masculine traits dont matter to women. maybe some but not enough to mean anything. i suppose being what i think a man should be and what i looked up to about my father is what matters because there isnt one idea of how men should be. in other words be yourself and people well notice. then one day they might see you as a man they can strive to be. or something idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:35 PM
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oh real mature. cant believe you say something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:27 PM
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thanks for the uplifting comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:23 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:21 PM
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sure. everyone has different tastes. but if i knew a man who likes 6 feet muscular women i would ask him about it. im asking people about this and i get responds like yours. i intrusted in why women prefer what they due. but i guess nobody knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:14 PM
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what do they say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:06 PM
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women ask about how to get men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:02 PM
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cap. lets objectify all women now whos with me....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:59 PM
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cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:56 PM
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good for them. i wish the best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:56 PM
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cape
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:54 PM
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big bro please help me get puss please i need it. id never hear the end to it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:54 PM
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if you like men be one. if you gta just do it in real life. if you like horror just run in the woods tell something chases you. thats how you sound
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:52 PM
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id rather die
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:49 PM
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attraction is not a straight forward thing. ive had woman who i was nice to see me as a friend. ive had women who ive been indifferent to tell me they have feelings for me. ive gotten no advice from the hundreds of comments on this post. has anyone ever been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:48 PM
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like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:41 PM
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nope. i was trying to say i dont understand what makes a man attractive. we have very similar personalities which is why we are friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:40 PM
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thats a lot of words. do you feel like masculinity and being feminine are social constructs? because i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:35 PM
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were did that even come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:29 PM
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its a human issue. if the dating market crumbs then the world would to. now rather or not you care is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:28 PM
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ive cold approached. which i dont recommend and dating apps which i also dont recommend. just being alone also works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:24 PM
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im trying to answer a lot of people. my dad was a big role model for me. he told me to be strong. dont cry be assertive dont rely on anyone. may he rest in peace. do you want men to be tough? are is being more soft better. genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:21 PM
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this might be the only nice comment lmao. i feel like im just over thinking but are personalitys are very similar. maybe i rub people the rug way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:14 PM
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your a woman im guessing what were taught a woman should be
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 05:05 PM
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a lot of men are one dimensional and though pattern recognition they believe women are to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:48 PM
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what your grandpa thought a maid should be idk. i feel like what men where taught to be is not what most women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:37 PM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:33 PM
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i dont know. if people were that different and hard to understand the world would be much different. most people are very uncomplex which is good. its whats makes us understand each other and live in a society. things like social media make us think we are more unique then we actually are. could be wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:32 PM
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short to me. but most folks are because you believe your height is the average. or at least i do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:23 PM
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What are some actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:19 PM
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And that’s it. I feel like traditional men may attract traditional women. All the women I’ve been with have been Tom boy types. Maybe I should be more cut back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:17 PM
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How did this devolve into body shaming men? If only men had thick thighs the dating market would be saved!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:12 PM
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People aren’t that complex men or women. I feel like relationships aren’t meant to be hard, but everything’s proformative. Also my friends struggles with keep girls to he just has a higher success rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 04:08 PM
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What do women think?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:59 PM
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I’ve gotten “laid” 😑. But I feel as though I fit a specific archetype. And after high school it’s been much harder. And dating apps don’t work if your broke
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:59 PM
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What does matter then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 03:53 PM
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