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| 1 | Why aren't folks having sex?Not that long ago I was looking around on the train in peek hour. Lots of normal looking people in normal clothes, coming home from work or study All things considered, pre-COVID, morning commutes I was usually still groggy af and on my way back, I'm pretty tired mentally. I mean, would it be normal to start a conversation then? This would be the functional equivalent of someone trying to strike up convo with another person in another car while in traffic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 7 | If you think that dating for women is some easy party you are simply revealing that you have almost no dating experienceNGL mate, curious if English is your first language cause some of your syntax and vocab choice is.......out there to say the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | How Often Do Men Avoid Talking to Women From Fear of Rejection Versus Lack of Interest?It's the why not both meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How Often Do Men Avoid Talking to Women From Fear of Rejection Versus Lack of Interest?Por que no los dos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | If you're a virgin but have approached less than 100 girls, you're volcel. CMVDoes asking a girl when I was in middle school via email count toward that number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | A Final (?) Solution to the Incel ProblemDid someone just crib George Carlin's televised redneck hunger games idea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | ALL INCELS SHOULD JUST GET OVER THEMSELVES SNORT SOME COCAINE AND HIT DA CLUBS CMVCould someone explain the appeal of clubs/clubbing to me? Also, what if I have that genetic predisposition to addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: what is your opinion of men who hire prostitutes?I never understood why the introduction of money somehow negates consent. Escorts that I've thought about hiring all charge about 300 to 400+ a session, which is almost 1.5 days pay for me for what 15-20 minutes of work? If the escort can't do her business with me (i.e. I'm too repulsive or feels unsafe), she can screen me out and refuse to provide the service which is her prerogative as the businesswoman/owner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Are incels a victim of a self-victimizing culture?Zuizui? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/18 01:52 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Saying that incels are dangerous is like saying that Muslims are dangerousAnd escorts are legal. What you negotiate with them when you're in the room is up to you. The cops and local DAs aren't that retarded. If you do get busted by VICE, the excuse of "oh the money is for the time" won't fly if there's implied quid pro quo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Between 1 in 8 and 1 in 6 26 year olds may be virgins, according to a British study. What does this say about the modern SMP?Holy shit you're right. How is it that cheap? I was thinking RT would be along the lines of prices it would take to fly to E. Asia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Between 1 in 8 and 1 in 6 26 year olds may be virgins, according to a British study. What does this say about the modern SMP?I mean, I would argue that there is a certain bang/buck or risk threshold that should count as involuntary. For example, risking a misdemeanor/felony or paying over 5000 dollars in order to go to a legal jurisdiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Virgins by 24I'm a virgin and I just turned 26 three months ago. It fucking sucks man. Like, imagine dating for the first time at 26. Then imagine dating for the first time at 26 with a busted face. The very idea makes me hyper ventilate. Why even bother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 02:09 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionMy preliminary plan to minimize LEO exposure is to ask for an outcall to my apartment....so I'd be crying into my own sheets at least... But I still need to get over the weird feeling I get browsing Eros and trying to find review sites now that SESTA/FOSTA took a several down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 02:14 PM |
| 3 | The Easiest and Most Effective Solution to The "Incel Problem" is Legalizing ProstitutionHonestly, its the risk AND the value proposition that discourages me. Like fuck , 1.5 days pay for 2 minutes of jackhammering and 28 minutes of crying. ;P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessWhat counts as fatherless? I had a bio-dad that spoiled me up the ass until my mother left him when I was 12 and then I had a super strict distant step-dad from 16 onwards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The Allure of Self-Pity. First, self-pity removes the guilt produced by failure (but not the anger). It wasn't your fault... Does it really imply the latter? I notice online quite a few people are self-aware of their flaws and just don't do anything beyond that. Like the whole "yep I know I'm a piece of shit" type thing... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to lower your standards?I think for some guys giving up porn will widen the pool of women they find physically attractive. Doesn't widen the pool enough for my chances to be good and just makes me sadder IRL when I get rando stiffies from looking at women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Saturday Gender Wars Megathread (24 February 2018)10 mins of crying? Why? You had sex. Big freaking deal It was a rip off of the family guy joke when Stewie got his v-card punched. I'm assuming it has at least some basis in truth, especially when someone resorts to sex workers and then the realization hits post orgasm. Most people wouldn't get slapped for no reason. It was not referring to being slapped physically by the worker. That line refers to the chance of being nicked by Vice (knowing my luck) as a response to your comment of incels/FAs … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/18 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Saturday Gender Wars Megathread (24 February 2018)I mean....its not ONLY that. It's really a combination of me having to pay about a day's pay for about 2 minutes of furious grunting and 10 minutes of crying PLUS the chance of getting slapped with a misdemeanor without even getting to the good part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Modern, western dating dynamics: Where are you supposed to "meet" people post-school?work, like literally coworkers who decide to date Isn't there an oft totted general rule of not shitting where you eat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Bottom Barrel Women Exist and Have it 10x Worse than Male Incels.but most men surely have several women interested in them at any given time. ....oh that wasn't a joke... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Bottom Barrel Women Exist and Have it 10x Worse than Male Incels.You are aware prostitution is illegal (partially or in full) in the vast majority of jurisdictions across the world (and supposedly contributes to the shite world you're describing as a radfem). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/18 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Rise in anti-social behavior among menSC2 ranked ladder was legit nerve racking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/18 07:20 PM |
| 9 | Rise in anti-social behavior among menI thought it was obvious from context he's referring to chad getting stuff on a silver platter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone even want a sex bot?Something on Ex Machina level? Yes. What is coming out in the next 5 yrs? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Porn addiction: how prevalent?All of my friends who have relationships don't seem to have this problem. Two of them do use it on occasion though to what degree I'm not sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How to get out of the omega mindset?I heard fairly bad things about crossfit from r/fitness. In terms of poor technique or form in their exercises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/17 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Average guys have a 50% success rate asking for a dateSo far, it's at 0% for me. Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Field report: Got my hair did, thought of something that could help incelsI guess a myriad of reasons. A combination of the idea that I'm spending a day's take home pay for about 30min feels like a terrible value. The idea that the only way I managed to have sex was to pay 300 bucks might throw me into a deeper hole. And sour grapes defense mechanisms about sex I guess. Don't know if I want to know what it's like so I can feel normal or if I'm genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Field report: Got my hair did, thought of something that could help incelsFor me I would love to hire an escort if not for the cost and undercurrent of possible arrest. But can confirm those scalp massage during when you get your haircut feels good. Especially if it's a woman your own age touching you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | I am an Asian Chad AMAChang Long Wang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Takeaways from the purgethey actively try to get into relationships. Alright, how about "desire the abstract idea of being in one to be normal and for the validation as opposed to MGTOW who would rather not deal with it and have the ability to but chose not to?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | What do you like about AtlasBShe is a bit abrasive based of of what little interaction I've had with her because apparently not doing coke is some wallowing incel ass shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Well, a misdemeanor isn't something to scoff at either. I only linked the site to find out how much is in a 20bag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 12:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Well I did try weed several times, I was willing to risk it because of the smaller amount of stigma, recent relaxing of enforcement on small amounts of possession, and non-habit forming nature. However, the times I did try it, despite becoming more "chill," I got really sleepy all 3 times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 02:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something...alright..I mean....you asked the question... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Not sure how much coke is in a 20bag, I assume is less than 1 gram. Well, NYS Penal Law says <500mg is a Crim Possession in the 7th Degree, so a Class A Misdemeanor that would put any future job at risk If a "20 bag" coke is >500mg, its a 5th Degree Criminal Possession and is a Class D Felony, 1-2.5 yrs in prison for the first offense. http://www.bluelight.org/vb/threads/34578-How-much-coke-is-in-20-worth-of-coke Based off of this answer, the Class A Misdemeanor is more likely. So not prison, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.I had no idea.....also, whats with all the music video hyperlinks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Is cocaine considered light now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.But I would still have to be a junkie. I mean, considering I'm coming a from a miserable joyless background, I think I would have a greater chance to end up being a stereotypical junkie as opposed to your "casual" chill type of junkie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 11:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Objectively speaking, prison is worse. I mean, are we seriously debating that people should risk prison or bodily harm to experience what the vast majority of men and women are able to get without putting their futures and livelihoods at risk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Likewise, I'm not even an immigrant, I was born in the states so it's not like I'm unfamiliar with this "subculture." I just don't see a balanced risk/reward here. Mind you, most of my ABC friends don't do weed but some did (salvia too). Among my white friends there were more stoners, but that's usually where it ended. None of us did anything harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 10:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Be alone with no gf. I do have a few friends unlike some FAs/incels. I'm just saying that if I go to a bar alone, what will most likely happen is I sit at the counter, have a beer and leave. How do I know? From past experiences at work gatherings where there were open bars where I still stayed with the people I knew. Being slightly drunk made no difference. All it did, was make the next two hours after the gathering miserable going through an accelerated hangover. Man I didn't believe it when in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 10:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.And..... Somehow going to a bar makes a 25 KV somehow able to overcome the lack of familiarity with social interactions .....and navigate the bar scene how? Like it takes a pretty ballsy and special type of person to interact with stranger in a bar, much less women. Alcohol isn't some magic grow social skills and testicles potion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 10:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.It's not that I don't drink, I just can't drink much at all without becoming tipsy, ergo I won't drink unless it's with family and friends. Not that it's matters anyways since I don't drink nor have the opportunity to drink with strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Going to jail or ending up a junkie is objectively worse for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Yes I do, I get a visceral negative reaction at the very thought of escalating or the idea of acknowledging my attraction to a woman. Not to mention the defense mechanisms unplaced to make sure I never get infatuated with a new IRL woman. However, I know my limitations with substances and I know I can't rely on them like others to "fix" this issue without putting my well being at risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Look, I have very few things going great in my life, but things could be much worse than my being a 25 KV. Getting arrested or addicted and losing my job is not on my bucket list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Take the ChristpillNot autistic enough to actually be that tactless. But I have 0 interest in faith or spirituality, out of respect, I wouldn't go in the first place, especially with ulterior motives like these. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Are you serious? This feels like bait now. Even my friend in cyber security barely goes to darknet and you're advising a layman to do drugs and go on the darknet because somehow this will fix our problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Take the ChristpillThe auto corrected phone thing was wrong. I meant to type "fake" faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Take the ChristpillImplying socially maladjusted people can fake faith in a church. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.I mean, I doubt I can find a dealer without falling for a narc first, or actually do drugs. But thanks anyways, for some of the most unique advice I've seen in a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.?? Thanks for the chemistry lesson.. I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.What about addiction, the risk that I'm one of those individuals that can't handle this shit is still present. How would this shit make me any more likely to not be foreveralone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.I see. I didn't recognize what those drugs were supposed to be. So I assumed OTC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 09:00 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Well I don't want to get arrested or addicted. The only resin I bothered with weed was because the recent loosening of enforcement on it and the fact it's fairly low on the scale of potential habit forming drugs. Getting a felony record n the US fucks you over hard in terms of everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 08:57 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Oh I'm sorry, I didn't know that in order to get laid, I need to commit a felony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.What are those OTC drugs meant to represent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 08:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.You do now that in most US jurisdictions this is illegal (with regards to drugs). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 08:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.You serious? I could very well get addicted and lose everything , or knowing my luck, I get arrested and be stick with shit jobs for the rest of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Incels need to stop fucking whiningAnd who's better off in the long run, and who's objectively has their shit together. If I wanted to be happy, I could just quit my job and Jack off all day but that would be retarded. Being happy doesn't mean they aren't a fuck up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 08:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.Too much of a lightweight. I basically go through the hangover the same night and get tipsy way too quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 08:34 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Incels really just need to smoke some weed or something.I find weed puts me to sleep the few times I've smoked it. Didn't really make me more social . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Incels need to stop fucking whiningThat's pretty circular fuckboi logic then to justify you horribly broad theory. But please, do tell me more how my lack ability to get laid means I'm failing life harder than a min wage worker in 5k+ debt and no savings? Or maybe, just maybe, these things aren't as correlated as you hypothesize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Incels need to stop fucking whiningI mean I don't suck at life (most of my non-romantic/sexual accomplishments are fairly middling) There are far worse "failures" (for example career wise who managed to get laid, or in massive debt, or in a min-wage job). Honestly, just trying to say you're comment was full of shit. You don't have to have your shit together to "attract" women. You need charisma/looks/insert x-factor here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Incels need to stop fucking whiningDon't fucking suck at life all around and pussy comes to you. Lol, then I must be good at compartmentalizing then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think your race affects why you can't get laid?1) Asian 2) Yes 3) Yes 4) Yes, and I would honestly prefer them over the others, but I'm not gonna lie that I'm not in a place to be choosy 5) Nope, because being a green-card mule and then losing half of my assets is not appealing. Might as well risk paying for an escort on the reg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 12:49 AM |
| 2 | There's literally nowhere to go as a guy with dating problems. You realize this, right?As a former mod of foreveralone, I can sorta attest to the the drama that there was a soft coup of sorts. I was brought on after a recruitment push for more mods that were representative to FA as a whole. The mod comp at the time were 2 "FA", 2 "progressive(ish) types" and one fairly lassez faire admin who really had some contempt for the subreddit. Long story short, we got into an argument about "you can't tell some you're not FA" rule (overruled 3:2) and I my grievances were leaked by the spli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 02:15 PM |
| 1 | If you had a son that was a 22 year old virgin, what sort of advice would you give him about women?Would have no idea, and tbh, it's a bit too late for parental help (speaking existentially based off of my own failures to get my v-card punched). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/17 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Do "nice girls" exist?My definition of nice girls has forever been changed to this definition https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEwAwEuRplI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Q for millenial and younger men only, red or blue...1) Yes, I think i was in Elem/Middle school at the time 2) Fuck no, I never used TV as an guide ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Men: In person, how do you treat women?Asexually. I try to come off as uninterested as I can so my desperation doesn't become visible and I come off as creepy. I think in most professional contexts, I come off as quite normal, albeit self deprecating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Is discussion of physical looks (ie body, height, face, etc) not an important part of Red Pill?He was traumatized by one horrible experience, and refuses to try again. Red and blue have given him advice. One woman even asked him out. Ayyy..so like this guy. https://youtu.be/2XllGh3OExA?t=4m10s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 03:31 PM |
| 2 | How I know if a dating culture is out of whack.New York City For the most part, we help tourists here. Just maybe very brusquely and walk you in the general direction for half a block. But unless you're in a shitty part of town you're not gonna get robbed. I would admit we don't talk to each on the street a lot. It's like our version of a highway. We're all on our way to do something, you don't flag down strangers on the interstate to have a conversation in traffic you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?Well, I mean look at what happens when someone tries to start a career in their 30s with no ion experience. You run into far greater difficulties due to the expectations of having your shit together by then. I would wager it's the same for dating and hooking up. Women in the mid 20s have options and a minimum expectation of dealing with a counterpart who has some idea of navigating social interaction of a non platonic nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you have many friends of the opposite sex?I think I have 2 acquaintances, but no friends of the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?I would say I'm not outwardly weird. Have you never kissed a girl? Lol, no What about oral? Double LOL, see above Do you have any female friends or acquaintances? I think I have one or two female acquaintances. Never had a friend who was a girl though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?I didn't though. I haven't tried since middle school...well unless you count emailing a confession in middle school trying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?Don't ask me man. I'm part of the first group you mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?Unfortunately, I sorta made this handle before I one what Byronic meant. Otherwise, I probs wouldn't have used it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?I think I've arguably given up. Shit's hard yo, especially out of college now. Not sure how what I said made you think I'm a "normie," though I wouldn't say I want to be fully affiliated with "incel" either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?That's what porn is for though, I was a prolific wanker back in those days. Like I can't imagine having the maturity or responsibility to have safe sex back in middle school or even early high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?I turned 25 about 4 months ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 02:25 PM |
| 6 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?My opinion, 25. You're so behind the curve by then. It's like trying to start a career at age 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Men who have difficulty finding anyone, are you part of any activity based social circles that include women?No. Also the idea of going to these groups with ulterior motives would out me as a loser virgin pretty fucking quickly. I would imagine I need to genuinely enjoy those activities to actually come off authentic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do women not understand how hard it is for an average guy to get laid?Ofc, I knew you didn't mean any harm by it my apologies it if seemed accusatory. The bluntness and my general composure today made me a bit more sensitive about it that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 05:59 PM |
| 1 | The defeatism on Reddit among men has went too far. It is ridiculous.I think he's implying since he hasn't thrown the line out per se, he doesn't know what he can get. It's the paradox of wanting to aim within or below your league to minimize rejection, but then never trying before you don't know what your league is and then never bothering. I would imagine, his ego or subconscious also resists aiming for the bottom right of that bat also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do women not understand how hard it is for an average guy to get laid?It's EXTREMELY rare to be a virgin beyond the age of 25 I kinda know this already, but damn, it feels worse when put in that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do women not understand how hard it is for an average guy to get laid?Defined as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How much casual sex did you get in your 20's?Guess the thirst isn't there if you don't know what you're missing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How much casual sex did you get in your 20's?I was 20 once, I'm not sure if that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How much casual sex did you get in your 20's?Difference of 1 - 1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What age did you lose your virginity? How do you feel this effected your confidence/success with women?Haven't yet at 25 I'm very unsuccessful with women. I can legit count the number of 1 on 1 encounters with women outside of a professional context on one hand. On the other hand, apart from the whole feeling like a loser, I don't feel too much of a drive to hit on women or have sex...sorta...(or that could be sour grapes talking). N/A | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/17 03:24 PM |
| 2 | At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity?Round trip to Vegas on top of an escort? That's pretty expensive, more so than going local I would imagine. Also, escorts in Vegas aren't legal actually, I think its one of the outlying counties that's legal (hence the Ranch). Nothing like getting laid to make you want to get laid again. Wouldn't that be bad? Like if it becomes a habit, it will be fairly expensive. As a mid 20's guy myself, I know how rough the job market is and how low real wages are for our generation. But I can still afford a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 11:03 PM |
| 2 | At what age would you have paid to lose your virginity?I told myself 23, but I'm 25 now and I still haven't seen one. I would say probably lack of true curiosity, and the fact its about 200-300 for an escort not to mention the logistics of setting it up and not getting arrested by VICE is what stopped me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Describe the people in your life who are unsuccessful in dating/relationships and why you believe that to be the caseUgly, shallow, risk adverse, and extreme inexperience amplifying the risk averse nature into dissuading me from trying. Oh shit, misread OP. Come to think of it, I don't think I have any "incel" friends. Most of them have had some sort of success with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Survey for Men.Face and teeth (asymmetry and crowded bottom row from failed orthodontia). Experience of a middle schooler W/RT women, if that. Physique of one too I think (though I'm working on that now). I'm going by the Jim Jeffries monologue standard of 5/10 being "average." So being below average should be around 4/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 05:36 PM |
| 1 | What if we evened out the playing field so males are given the same sexual/dating opportunities at women?Link? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Survey for Men.1) 4/10 (tried googling 4/10 asian and couldn't find a pic of one) Hairstyle: I think its like a crew cut/crop cut?, clothing: Business Casual or Polos/Jeans, or leftover clothes from Middle School (very oversized ) 2) No (last time I checked, I'm 5'11 and 158lbs 3) 0 4) 0 5) Define social. But probably gaming, and I have a co-worker that invites me to play tabletop games from time to time in a large group. 6) No, yes. But I went to a commuter college so I would imagine it would've been more dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Take a Social Intelligence Test!!28/36 so apparently not too shabby? Better than 54% of all participants so apparently I'm not too much of an aspie....fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Study: There aren't enough good men because they were raised by single mothersHonestly not sure how my father could've helped me unfuck myself from this current rut. He spoiled me greatly when I was pre-teens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Are you ugly?I know, I actually made the username before I read up about Byron. So yea, the irony amright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 11:13 AM |
| 6 | Are you ugly?Yes , I do believe I am ugly/unattractive physically. Haven't asked a girl out in a decade since Middle School (the amount of times I had any sort of non school/work related contact with them can be counted on 1 hand over those 10 years). As one would expect, just like long term unemployment, things get harder the longer this goes on and you yourself become more and more demotivated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (06 May 2017)How old do you have to be to really call yourself an incel? I mean, at what age have you really fallen behind? IMO, past college or mid-20s at the latest (which means its too late for me...fuck). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/17 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (22 April 2017)Video games work wonders. Right now playing Persona 5 and it's like a balm to the soul. Mind you, you have to be a subset of FA (weebish) to like the romance social links. Otherwise porn to get rid of the occasional desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/17 08:19 PM |
| 1 | A virgin or a non-virgin girlfriend ?Since the OP deleted their account, this answer won't be much use. But speaking as a FA, I'll copy paste my answer on the /r/foreveralone It the whole asymmetry of experience. You having none while her having an order of magnitude higher puts said FA-er on a uneven playing field. Also, I'm presuming that the FA-er will expect that she expects a certain "standard" (with regards to sexual performance, and general relationship intimacy/experience things) as you could put it, based off of her previo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (25 March 2017)If you're a guy well into your 20s and still a virgin, do yourself a favor and treat yourself to an empathetic and understanding hooker. I keep telling myself this since I graduated college. Said the first thing I'll do once I lose my job is to find an escort to get my v-card punched. Iunno, just never went through with it. The cost in money and potential law enforcement issue just made it sound unappealing vs just whacking it. Now that I'm 25, I'm a bit more desperate, but honestly not sure if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (11 March 2017)Sounds expensive just to arrange an overseas trip though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/17 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (11 March 2017)Alright, so now that I've finally hit the big 25, is there a good guide on reddit on how to find an escort w/o getting busted by VICE ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/17 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (25 February 2017)I always worry that with my luck, the first escort I set up is NYPD vice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Sorry ladies, looks like technology just made dealing with you obsolete. Introducing the Gatebox Virtual Home Robot!the ones who control the money they make according to federal law, regardless if the wife has a job herself or not. Last I recall, this was "custom" (in China also), but not codified in any law. | /r/MGTOW | 16/12/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Ugly or unattractive men will flirt and initiate courtship less often than more attractive men due to greater social costs of flirting.Yep. I've learned painfully that it's not OK for me to express romantic interest in women. It's seen as creepy, and that has bad consequences. It's taken me a long time to learn this. I'm accepted, conditional on presenting as more or less asexual. People like me aren't supposed to have sexual desires or romantic urges. That was a very painful lesson. Don't have Aspergers, but fairly unattractive, I can empathize with that. I present myself as asexual in front of women. Not around men though, ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/16 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do ForeverAlone men fail with women: bad luck or lack of effort?Do you put in work and persistence toward finding a partner? I've mostly stopped trying after particularly embarrassing experience in Middle School. So do I actively seek out a GF/partner? Nope. Barely have the time to anyways (or so I tell myself). The reality of how behind the curve I am as result of both physical and social factors just creates a rather large motivational black hole. I swing from 95% being mostly resigned to my fate, and 5% going into BSOD mode over my ineptitude. Do you have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/16 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Man revives woman with AED, but branded 'pervert' for removing her clothes to apply electrode pads (xpost /r/nottheonion)Yea, police dismissed the case after cursory investigation.... Christ, mountains out of molehills is why people can't take you guys seriously. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/14 07:53 PM |
| 2 | What would it take for you to switch positions?Probably nothing. Despite being a foreveralone virgin, I'm pretty sure I'd rather die a wizard than ever turn into some Bro-Jock TRP dude. The ideal TRP holds for men is just a complete 180 than what I'll ever want for myself. Even if their method supposedly "works". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with RomComs and Anime?Modern anime is disgustingly beta. The male leads are all indistinct losers with no personality, so designed in order that the lowest-common-denominator audience can self-insert themselves into the story, and fantasize about being surrounded by rainbow-haired girls who all look about nine years old. It's basically the same thing as Twilight, but for guys. And it's very, very unhealthy. But fuck is it not cathartic and awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 11:24 AM |
| 0 | One way creep shaming hurts men AND womenI dunno, the lack of a "safe place" to hit/flirt on other people just reeks of First World Problems. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/14 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you have sympathy for the guys on r/foreveralone? Are they hopeless omegas or do they have the potential to be great?Subbed temporarily to comment on this thread. Will immediately unsub because frankly, I don't belong in this sub, nor do I feel comfortable here. do they have the potential to be great? More no then yes. For various reasons obviously. There are surely some who maybe in truly terrible straights (the minority) as in some form of mental illness (schizoid, autistic, depressed). But I'm sure the vast majority of the sub's problem is a mix of poor socialization and poor genetics. Even if there was pot… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/14 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Don't try and defend TRP. Don't talk about TRP.The result is that TBP exposes themselves But weren't they always the parody sub of TRP....like from inception.. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/14 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Why do people look down on /r/mensrightsBecause in general, reactionary movements, whether or not they may have basis, are not highly regarded. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/14 05:08 AM |
| 2 | "Primary-school education is a crock, basically. It's oppressive to anyone with physical energy, especially guys," pointing to an obvious example: the way schools have cut recess. "They're making a toxic environment for boys. Primary education does everything in its power to turn boys into neuters."I hated sports so I usually spent recess doing and HW assignments due the next day or following week so I had more time to play MoH, CoD (the first one, oh god the memories), and Rainbow 6. To each their own I guess. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/14 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How Feminism Destroyed Education (PSA Image)No you. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/14 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How Feminism Destroyed Education (PSA Image)/r/conspiracy is ===> that way. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/14 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Would You go to Prison to stand up for your mensrights Principles?Only occasionally lurk here since not really a MRM guy. My line for personhood is brain-activity (you know consciousness). | /r/MensRights | 10/12/13 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Judge Margaret Chan tossed the case yesterday, saying that while she lauded Lozito’s bravery, cops did not have a specific charge of saving him from The Butcher of Brighton Beach. In other words, cops don't have to protect men.Nah man, in Warren v. DC, 2-3 women were like raped and tortured all night long and they still ruled the police had no special duty to assist "you" as an individual (or something along those lines). | /r/MensRights | 27/07/13 04:51 PM |
| 0 | I don't think I can ever be in a relationship again.My motivation to "improve" myself often times get sapped by the rule of diminished returns. For example, a fat/obese "neckbeard" need only fashion, hygiene and weight loss to go up 2-3 points on the scale. However, as a skinny, hygienic person with no fashion style, I don't have as many avenues open to me. And trust me, I doubt improving my fashion sense (i.e. polishing a turd since I do believe my face is at least 1std dev. below avg) would help that significantly and in the end "worth" the eff… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/13 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I don't think I can ever be in a relationship again.I don't think he's a troll though. He's a long time regular of r/fa. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/13 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Woman claiming to be a teacher posts a nude photo of her self on r/gonewild allegedly to a specific student, 568+ upvotes as of 3 hours and nothing is being done.Is the pic still there? | /r/MensRights | 21/05/13 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Majority reject Japan mayor's comments on comfort women.Because the "boys" in question here are hardly choir boys. They committed as a whole countless atrocities in their particular theater of war (even if you ignore the Comfort Women issue). Makes it hard to think "they" were the victims. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/13 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Weak Beta Excuse #5 - I don't go to the gym because I don't wanna get "too big"Nahh man, that ain't me. I can't afford to buy weights/go to gym. Not to mention increase my food intake to match the exercise (inb4 get a job, I do have a P/T job since I'm in school, I just spend it on games, VN/eroge, anime and figures). | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 06:59 AM |
| 1 | 5 Useful Things You Learn From Video Games Applied to DatingThis shall be my 1st and only post on the sub (and only b/c of that SC reference).... I prefer to play a macro style game. And now back to lurking different subs for drama. | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 07:38 PM |
| 1 | A friend posted this surprisingly one-sided diagram on Facebook then proceeded to tell me there's no such thing is false rape accusations.That attitude is very much present in most E. Asian cultures by the way. Its one of the reason why Japanese Prosecutors are very insistant on having a minutely small acquital rate. If they fail to convict, most people would look at them as failures as "why else would you bring someone to trial if they're not guilty". For the most part, the trial phases in Japan and China can be likened more to ritual. The "investigation" phase by police and prosecutors form the trial section. The only silver lin… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/13 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Why is it that men are held responsible for their actions no matter what their state of inebriation, but women get a pass?My impression is that this stems from the the idea is if one was too drunk to consent to sex (assuming y'all trying to draw the comparison to drunk sex and drunk driving), that means something was "done" to them against their will, hence they are the ones acted upon, not the actor? For example, I was and I walked onto the sidewalk drunk and as such to slow to react of a person holdign a gun who decide to kill me or to slow to dodge a drunk driver. Should me being drunk DQ me as a victim (theorie… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/13 09:17 PM |
| 1 | /b/ on feminism [Ex-post from /r/4chan]Genuinely curious about that "that women rape men almost as much as men rape women" sauce. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/12 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Get a Life: A How-to GuideLol...I'm too busy to have a life. :( | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 04:05 PM |
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