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Have you ever competed in team sports? It's one of the best male to male relationships you can have outside of combat/brothers in arms. Achieving a mutual goal, defeating your enemies, it's all good shit. Boosts your testosterone more than anything and it's fun. The fandom is an extension of that. Some people are faking it to fit in or as a cultural thing but for others it's nostalgia for their own past competition. It is kind of a cheap reward though, I prefer to keep playing over watching spor…
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:24 AM
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I did it once when my date got way too drunk. It was disgusting behavior on it's own, but I also had no interest in bedding a drunk girl. I just got up and told her I wasn't interested in extending our date, nice to meet you, bye. She was so confused and thought we were having a great time. I ignored her for a week straight before the "what did I do wrong" "why did you leave" texts turned into "I don't think there is going to be anything between us". The nerve of this woman- I literally got up a…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 05:36 PM
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Did you find the research on men and women and their truthfulness in disclosing sexual activity? Their finding was that women lie about it, even when they know it's an anonymous survey. The reason is because they are lying to themselves too, many of them are lying so hard they believe it, which is what we call "hamstering" here. You're just not gonna find reliable studies that correlate what we are saying here- it wouldn't even pass a pre-research ethics board if you sent in a research proposal …
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:28 PM
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Wtf is this one going on about?
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:37 AM
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I think your hesitation is just a healthy amount of empathy. Nobody wants to be the husband being cheated on and it's ok if that's a deal breaker for you because there are plenty of other women out there. If you're still conflicted maybe wrap your dong up and go to town. After all, are a strangers emotional needs more important than your physical needs? The point is to do whatever the hell you want, but to own whatever decision you make because you're a man.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:29 PM
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"You mean tonight? No, it's just you." (With a smirk) Also stop with the 'female' shit. This isn't biology class and the only other people that say that are incels and MGTOW. They are 'women' when they act like it and 'girls' when they don't.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:06 PM
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I'm not gonna comment on your exact situation but I can tell you without a doubt that these super busy ROTC girls are getting dicked down hard. All of the cadets are fucking each other, especially once they become the senior ROTC upperclassmen and have all of those fresh young faces to sit on. Just work on you, hold your frame, and develop abundance. Hell, fuck one of her classmates if you want.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 05:49 PM
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Hahaha that's even better than I imagined, that does sound straight out of NoFap or Bodybuilding.com! Maybe some sort of hybrid method would work better?...inject the avocado with testosterone and cup someone else's balls all in a sunlit power pose?...
/r/askTRP14/09/18 04:21 PM
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Ok, I'll bite, where is this hilarious avocado nonsense coming from?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 03:42 PM
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I would think she had a good night at the club.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:52 PM
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"I don't date women who are friends with their exes" If she wants to date you she will get the hint. If she doesn't care then she can never be more than a plate.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:32 AM
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Red Pill subreddit philosophy is to not preach morality. So you need to decide whether your own personal moral code allows for this behavior. I would personally suggest you don't rat yourself out even if you decide you don't want to be someone who cheats. If that's the case just soft next.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:47 AM
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This is some cringey anime mate guarding shit right here.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:29 AM
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I mentioned this on another post- but women absolutely love out of town/vacation hookups because there is nearly unlimited deniability. She likely will never see you again and even more importantly none of her social circle will likely ever find out so her reputation is intact. You ARE one of those n-count hookups that "don't count" to a woman's hamster. On your side of things, when you are on vacation you naturally have more abundance mentality. Every single girl you meet is a stranger that can…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:20 PM
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If the only girls available for you to fuck are "below your standards" then your standards are simply too high for your SMV. Increase your SMV or have more realistic standards for your (lower than you realize) value.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:38 PM
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Get a dog. I'm serious.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:43 AM
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If you want a laugh check out u/portifinabelle submission and comment history. It's the ultimate guide to validation-whoring-hamstering-solipsistic-insecurity wall smashing.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 09:12 PM
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By itself it is definitely a red flag that she is digging through your shit- Some comments here mentioned dread but it could also come from her projecting either her own desires of infidelity or even hamstering to justify actual infidelity. I would proceed with caution. Withdraw attention until she makes it up to you and let it serve as a reminder that she is willing to violate your trust.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:54 PM
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I'm not saying don't go, it's an excellent place for girls and to network with high social value guys. Just be aware that you're not gonna be Mr. Hotshot alpha in their frat house so don't try to be.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:42 PM
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The frat culture IS drinking. Unless you find some common ground with one of them and make friends early then by the time everyone is drunk they are going to be wondering who the hell you are and why you are there. I've seen people tossed out for much less than that. The good news is that usually frats aren't nearly as douchey as they are made out to be. Is your friend a member?
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:22 PM
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This is why everybody says don't shit where you eat- you need to expand your area if at all possible. You should also keep the borderline stuff in person so there is zero chance of a screenshot of something you said floating around. Your reputation is very valuable, creating and upholding it is one of the laws of power.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:01 PM
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That's something you're going to have to tailor to the resources at your school then. I will make one argument for sports and that's for anything that is low pressure coed or intramural- you can make high value male friends and increase your social standing by meeting all of the new people. Something like kickball, ultimate Frisbee, or softball is good. In my experience there are usually good looking women participating as well.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:49 PM
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Every new lifter feels that way but from 15 years experience in the gym I can tell you that nobody is paying attention to you. Lots of people joke about the gym being "church" or therapy but I seriously just put my headphones in and focus on my goals. There's plenty of information about lifting programs in the sidebar. Starting strength is a pretty popular one for beginners. If it's probably not gonna be a sport for you then maybe something technical like welding, woodworking, or glass blowing. …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:34 PM
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You need to lift. The benefits go far, far beyond picking up women. It can be hard for skinny guys to pack on muscle on a college budget because you need to eat an absolute shitload of food to bulk, but do what you can Other than that I would suggest finding a hobby that produces something or is a physical activity- as a musician myself I can tell you that women don't care about how good you are at your instruments and it's generally too technical to discuss with the layman. So maybe it's rock c…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:04 PM
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There's some good responses here already but I would add that it's possible she has a boyfriend or a favorite plate... So she is busy with them during the week but "girls night" on the weekend gives her enough deniability to hook up with you. The reason I'm thinking that is her shit tests/vetting you for LTR.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 06:28 PM
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You don't owe this guy shit, it's none of his business, and if he is likely to do something crazy then it is even less reason to go seek him out and tell him. What I don't like about your situation is that your gf thinks she needs to tell him at all. Is she still in contact with him? Is she wanting him to get jealous? What is the purpose of even bringing him up? Show some leadership in your relationship and calmy tell her it doesn't matter and if she wants to continue seeing you she should know …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:54 PM
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I can't promise you that she cheated but I can tell you that any girl that I've "hung out in my room" with has touched my dick. And it being her ex is just super shady. She kept it from you because she knows it's wrong.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 05:31 AM
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This is why I strongly advocate for never living with your LTR. Your home and more specifically your bed should be the most relaxing, stress free, restful place in the world for you. But if you really are struggling that much with sleeping I agree you should seek out some help, do a sleep study and see if something else is going on. Other options are make sure you're cutting caffeine by about 1pm, no phones/electronics in bed or directly before bed, and maybe try working out in the evening and s…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:42 PM
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This is the real reason they go backpacking in Europe or go explore Australia or wherever. "Finding myself" type trips. They don't give a shit about history or culture objectively. They only care how it plays in to their romance novel fantasies to catch a baker's dozen of strange dicks everywhere they go. This applies to Spring Break too! In my opinion if you are vetting a possible LTR this should be something they have never done and don't express an interest in doing. But hey, if we are aware …
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:45 PM
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As for your actual question, I'm not sure you can replicate it as efficiently at home- But if you go out of town often you can use your leaving town to generate urgency. Don't tell them why you are leaving or how long you are going, only tell them your location if it implies high value.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:18 PM
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It works the same way when they are visiting a city. The reason girls jump all over this is because they have nearly unlimited deniability. I had one girl from Tinder visit my city and we had a 3 day fuckfest on top of some boating and a concert (she bought me a ticket, lol). She adds me on social media after she left and went on to post a candid picture of the two of us that her friend took. The girl's boyfriend liked the picture, because after all I'm just a friendly guy her and her girl frien…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:15 PM
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Simple, quit trying to have sex the way you think she wants to have sex. Just do it however you like it for yourself and hold frame. Dominance is an attitude, not a bunch of toys.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 02:13 PM
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You're probably right that she hasn't fucked him yet. But she is absolutely going to, save yourself the trouble and hard next her. I understand you have a lot invested but that is no excuse to ruin your life further. The fake name in her phone thing is a sure thing she is going to cheat on you. You have to realize that it's not just one small thing, that's just the thing you caught her doing. She absolutely Does. Not. Respect. You! None of the time and resources you have given her matter because…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 06:16 PM
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If we put the possibility of your ego being way too big out of the situation and agree that you really are a super smart mother fucker, you need to be aware that the hyper intelligent suffer from higher rates of depression, isolation, suicidal thoughts, existentialism, etc. So if that is the case then that sucks for you, you're always gonna have to deal with it.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 02:13 AM
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The way I see it, if you want to have those intellectual conversations you have three options. Find a girl who can keep up with you but just know that she will either not be fucking you or won't be attractive. Or Find some new guy friends. Save the poetic philosophy shit for guy time. Or Get a dog and tell it how smart you are because that's how your post comes off. You could probably fuck the dog though.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 02:10 AM
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Based on how you wrote this post they should probably have lots of pictures.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 02:01 AM
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Seeking validation from others is totally cheap feels. It's like a bump of coke vs. a runners high or a new PR. Nobody knows your goals and your body and your life like you do- You should only be comparing yourself to your self anyways. Set some S.M.A.R.T. goals in your career, your fitness, your finance, a hobby, etc. Keep them to yourself and use THOSE to reward yourself with self-validation when you reach them. A goal should be Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Timely.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 01:57 AM
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You have the right attitude but it works much better in person. I know you were texting for logistics but you honestly could have ignored her after she said she was busy. You can still salvage this by using a phrase like "I will let you make it up to me on (next day you are available)"
/r/askTRP17/08/18 02:16 PM
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If you did a 360 you would be right back where you started from.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:44 PM
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A real man has a mission and goals in life completely independent of pleasing any other person, male or female.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:42 PM
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I believe you that you have no problem getting laid- but getting laid isn't the purpose of TRP, it's a side effect. The fact that you keep falling for girls so fast is because you haven't accepted the reality that you were lied to and conditioned your whole life about what to expect from relationships.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:12 PM
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You are so damn Disney ass blue pilled you shouldn't even be looking at women until you get your life together. Read the material, it's there for a reason. There's literally chapters and chapters dealing with oneitis. It's gonna hurt to have your world flipped upside down but you need to get your shit together and deal with it.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:54 AM
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You've got this man!
/r/askTRP15/08/18 10:36 PM
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Good, that sounds perfect. You have a whole workout to come up with a good reason to head back to your place.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 10:23 PM
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Fucking prostitutes and marrying multiple high end mail order brides is nothing to brag about. Everyone around him is just using him for status or money, what part of that sounds alpha to you?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:09 PM
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You need to go read the sidebar. Women are not for confiding in, she will find you weak and pathetic for sharing your troubles.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 04:11 PM
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You are a very busy man, your time is valuable. You have no obligation to explain your plans to a plate, so keep it vague or ignore questions completely. Keep your plates limited to plate time- you shouldn't be going to dinner and snuggling Netflix on the couch with a different girl every night. If you want that then you don't want plates, you want a (shitty) LTR. The thing with plates finding out is that you shouldn't have ever lied to them to begin with so who cares if they find out? Shrug you…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:52 AM
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That's not bad, but it depends on what you're trying to do with her. If you want to watch a movie with her that's fine, but movies aren't a good environment to escalate. I would suggest something physical like a hike. Not too long of a hike unless you enjoy her conversation, but it's an activity that will leave both of you wanting some food, water, and shade (at your place). Leave off the part about asking someone else, you want it to be implied that there's someone else. Hell, if you keep it va…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:13 AM
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Don't frame it like your plans depend on her, tell her "I'm doing X at this time and place, would you like to join me?" She was probably just genuinely busy, not necessarily disinterested
/r/askTRP14/08/18 10:33 PM
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Forget about her, act like she isn't there. She wants to use you and treat you like beta bucks why don't you bring home some girls and prove otherwise. The key is to not rub it in her face, because you shouldn't care what she thinks in the first place. I agree with the others, in the mean time you should set a deadline to move out or a deadline that she will begin paying rent.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 10:22 PM
1

Flash a big smirk, "Dozens of them!, And change the subject.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:58 PM
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Christ, he needs a better job too.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 09:46 PM
1

I just remembered something I read on here when I was struggling with this concept- "If you want true love, get a dog."
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 09:55 PM
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I gotta disagree. You should deal with this in the plate phase. Why would you ever LTR someone before establishing the dynamic you expect in a relationship? Even if he did screen her well, it sounds like he was the one who got comfortable. Her actions are an indication that he lost frame a long time ago. He either failed a shit test so bad that she no longer respects him at all or she has recently been fucked so well that she is disgusted by him. Likely both.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 04:00 PM
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You are on the right track man. Most men don't find TRP until they have been completely destroyed by their LTR or wife. Make yourself a prize, THEN decide who to give yourself to.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:46 PM
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Yes it exists. You can truly love yourself. I'm not talking about narcissism, actual self love/actualization. The trouble with consciousness is that you can never, ever, ever know what is going on within someone else's. So don't be dependent on anyone's but your own.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:36 PM
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I would do Saturday morning, it shows you are still interested but don't ask some weak shit like, "Are we still on for tonight?" Or "Did you still want to go see fireworks?" Speak as if it is already confirmed and you are telling her the details. After that you can't just text her back and forth all day. Because you are busy doing high value shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:26 PM
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She doesn't see you as a sexual interest and for a good reason. "Not interested right now" actually means "I would fuck everyone else before you." This might sound harsh but I think you wasted an entire year of time and resources. You could have spent that time improving your mind, body, and resources. Take a step back and read the sidebar, read the books. Think about how you can apply the principles. You have oneitis for this girl and I'm sorry to tell you but she's not perfect and unique and i…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:07 PM
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You need to ask yourself what your goals are with each of these girls- what I would tell you to do with the 7 depends on what you intend to do with the 8. If you are just wanting to smash both of them and leave it at that I would consider continuing to pursue both of them. You could even use their competition to your advantage. Leave the Snapchats up and let the 8 see them, how she reacts will tell you where you stand. If she likes you she will either double down on her efforts or confront you. …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:54 PM
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