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lower your criteria for success, you already succeeded by approaching the girl because no one would have the balls to do it. Tyler has a video that talks about it on his channel
/r/seduction30/01/16 11:33 PM
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I had the same thoughts you just described. Personally, it was the point when I realized I no longer need the validation I once desired. Once you are past that, you need to shift lanes start thinking in a higher consciousness. In RSD julien's shift product he mentions three levels of consciousness(I highly recommend this product. it contains no info on game, but it explains the process of becoming a pua) Low, middle, and high consciousness. Low consciousness is doing pickup for the validation an…
/r/seduction04/01/16 05:32 AM
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The hand of god(hog) is not a simple handshake Differences between the two: the hog is opens physically with intent. Right off the open, you are telling the girl that this is man to woman. The video does a poor job of describing how the hog is done. You reach your hand out palm up. Eye contact is everything. If you have weak eye contact or are stifled, she might not even notice you. Once the girl grabs your hand, you pull her in. You are literally inviting her into your personal space. You don't…
/r/seduction03/01/16 09:03 AM
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wtf
/r/seduction03/01/16 08:49 AM
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asian men being desirable in the 1800/1900s. This is the first time I've heard about this
/r/seduction02/01/16 01:27 AM
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Source? I don't wanna doubt you I just want to read more into it
/r/seduction01/01/16 11:33 PM
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dude we're the same height. I'm also Chinese. Height,race, length of the dick mean jack shit in terms of being an attractive guy. The girl feels what you feel. If you are unsecured about your height, so will she. If you just own it and it doesn't bother you at all, she won't care. One time I talked to this 6'2 girl, she kept leaning into me and even took her heels off so we can makeout. Being insecure won't help your problems at all, all it does is it will transfer that insecurity to tha girl.
/r/seduction01/01/16 09:58 PM
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I checked his browsing history. I'm sure foreveralone will have the answers he need
/r/seduction31/12/15 07:51 PM
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Roger love vocal power.
/r/seduction31/12/15 08:18 AM
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Having strong eye contact shouldn't be something you do to attract women, rather, it's something that you are doing as a manifestation of your confident behavior. See it not as a tool, but as something that is automatic from an attractive male.
/r/seduction31/12/15 01:38 AM
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if sex or the validation you think you will get after you get after having sex is the key to the puzzle that will fix your problem of being rejected or stop being needy, then you are dead wrong. Sex is nothing be a temporary burst of pleasure. You think that after having sex you will be a changed man and it will fix all the problems you currently have. Change takes a long ass time. There are internalization that will pop up one after the next. This sub is a great resource to get help, but most o…
/r/seduction31/12/15 12:35 AM
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He clearly needs help why are you pushing him away.
/r/seduction31/12/15 12:22 AM
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start small. snowball your momentum. For example in daygame, start with giving the first 10 people you run into. Next start giving high 5s to the next 10 people you run into. Then throw out random compliments to the next 10 people "nice shoe" "nice pizza" "i like you shoes" etc. And eventually you build it up to that first approach. What you are doing is you are conditioning your brain that it's this is okay. It maybe out of my comfort zone, but it's okay. Next thing you do your expand your comf…
/r/seduction31/12/15 12:17 AM
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Also Chinese here. This is just like the short dick question tossed around in the community. Girls will ask you questions on your name and dick. Why is it so hard to remember why is it so short. Know that no one will make fun of you as long as own that shit. The girls will feel what you feel. If you're insecure about it, so will she. For anonymity purposes I wont share my name, but i can bet you anything mine is harder to remember and harder to pronounce. Will that hinder my game? fuck no becaus…
/r/seduction29/12/15 07:14 AM
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Girls are make decisions based on their emotion at that moment. With that said, they usually backwards rationalize. Meaning for example. If a girl sleeps you, the next day she would backwards rationalize and think that the reason she slept with you is because you were hot. On the top of my head I can think of several reasons as to how these flakes happen. For newbies who just begin, they fail to show any intent and by the end of the interaction they ask for the girls number. And the girl's usual…
/r/seduction28/12/15 08:27 AM
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Light will be at the end of the tunnel. Ditch the victim mentality. A lot of people who has autism and asbergers have killed it in nightclubs. I myself could not read social cues when I first started. Pickup is a skill set that you can learn. Ditch the mentality that's like "The reason I can't pickup girls is because I have autism". Rsd Tyler started out as a hardcase and now he's a 37 year old balding ginger who picks up quality 20year olds. The only difference between you and someone else aver…
/r/seduction28/12/15 04:39 AM
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Based on the way you are describing the girls responses, Those are shit tests.
/r/seduction28/12/15 04:35 AM
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the topic of "what do I say" is a deep one. And ultimately, rather than trying to think to things to say to make the girl like you, you should be congruent with what you want to say at the time. If the girl doesn't like you, fuck her. There will plenty of attractive women who will like you for who you are.
/r/seduction28/12/15 03:41 AM
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Imo both requires different skill sets. In night game, logistics is a big deal. they occur in different playgrounds. I agree. It takes more balls to approach in daygame. The interactions are a lot easier once you actually open the girl in daygame. In night game, most girls have the attention span of a fly, especially on dance floors.
/r/seduction27/12/15 08:34 PM
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too bad its over a decade old
/r/seduction21/12/15 06:18 AM
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Similar thing happened to my second cold approach. My first approach I got a number close so I was confidence was fuck. I went up to the second girl and said "Hey" The girl literally brushed me off without saying a single word and kept on walking.
/r/seduction20/12/15 03:31 AM
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Fucking brutal. Do it,op
/r/seduction19/12/15 03:03 AM
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Inner game is more than confidence. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PPpIGQ9ZWFw take time to watch this video
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:38 AM
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run the fuck away. learning pickup is learning to say no. you gotta have personal boundaries
/r/seduction17/12/15 08:23 PM
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don't be too hard on yourself. Willpower is a muscle that you can strengthen over time. The first three times I tried to daygame, I walked around campus for hours without opening my mouth once. And I still have anxiety when I day game. But know that it's always that first interaction that's the grind, all the rest of it after that are easy. Start small. Maybe start complimenting people as they walk by. They start doing a little more, start giving people high fives. Build your comfortably up. als…
/r/seduction17/12/15 05:37 PM
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Been there buddy. It's easier if you have a friend to push you. Give him $20 and let him keep it if you don't approach. Also. You don't realize how much you suck until you approach. The first approach ever I did in the day time, I choked so hard the girl gave me her number out of pity. But know this. Who the fuck would have the balls to approach women in the day time sober? No one except guys like us in the pickup. You will literally make her day as long as you're not needy and have that approva…
/r/seduction16/12/15 11:03 PM
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one thing that really got me to start doing approaches was I recording my conversations. This way you can also identify your flaws in the interaction
/r/seduction16/12/15 10:55 PM
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you attract who you are. when she gets more fit and get more confident, and if you start getting insecure, then yes she will lose attraction.
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:11 PM
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Foundations are important and through the way girls are reacting to you, you can find out alot about your self. Game is a process, you need to be patient. 23 make outs in under 2 years doesn't mean shit. Make outs are like handshakes at an intermediate level. Now the problem you're having. When girls are responding this negatively to you, it could be because you're giving off this value leeching vibe. You're seeking value and validation from the girls. Start studying inner game. Having inner gam…
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:01 PM
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rip. there will always be another one.
/r/seduction16/12/15 04:28 PM
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you're not fucking autistic. One quote that always struck a cord is "Do you accept is or do you not accept it" Every time I hesitate on whether i should go to the gym or not, I imagine two version of myself. One version, who is motivated and bought into the idea that going to the gym will contribute to my success and I have a fit body to keep me going. The second version, the version of me who completely lack in willpower and is doing things that would hold me back. And I think to myself, if i m…
/r/seduction16/12/15 06:29 AM
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pussy you're taking the easy way out. you're a faggot attention whore. All your life you want something the "normal" kids have and could never get it. Now you have an entire sub filled with people who have traveled the same journey as you and are telling you that it can be done. All your life you've taken the path of least resistance, the path of least pain. And so you choose to stay in your own fucked up version of reality. Only pussies take the easy way out.
/r/seduction16/12/15 05:04 AM
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make up some excuse "come check out this book that's in my room"
/r/seduction16/12/15 04:46 AM
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been in your shoes, my life was worth jackshit. I grew up as a first generation immigrant so my social skills were at a halt for years. but luckily I found out this sub and a user urged my to get into personal development. know this Your life can turn around. 23 is young as shit. If you start the path to improve yourself and being the best you can possibly be starting today, how will you be in a year, in 5 years, in 10 years. I was in the same footsteps as you. I had no friends, no social life, …
/r/seduction16/12/15 04:39 AM
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Let her go. Women will come and go in your life. There are multiple "soul mates" out there for everyone. Don't try to resist this emotional attachment. A couple books I'll recommend you to read is Models, The power of now, and The way of the superior man. If you don't have time for that, you can check out the RSD free tours, they are into self development and they discuss the general principles found in those books.
/r/seduction16/12/15 04:05 AM
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take 5 minutes and watch this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3r-KvakUzU
/r/seduction15/12/15 09:25 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPC3VnASLMo ignore what he says at the end about last minute resistance because you have a different case. Know the applications of social capital and the social dynamics of it. Todd explains this in terms of currency. capital is built naturally. It build as you vibe. It's spent when you escalate and move the interaction forward. Knowing how much capital you have and how much you can spend takes social intuition and you can only get a stronger grasp of it as you d…
/r/seduction15/12/15 09:17 PM
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how?
/r/seduction15/12/15 08:45 PM
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palm reading used to be the shit a decade ago. Natural game is the new kid on the block
/r/seduction15/12/15 08:44 PM
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the possibilities.. if you have nothing to say just say "i can't think of anything to say"
/r/seduction15/12/15 08:01 PM
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tell him to fuck off. have personal boundaries
/r/seduction15/12/15 06:44 PM
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RSD todd has absolutely no charisma, yet he pulls hot babes all the time. The guy has insane verbal game.
/r/seduction15/12/15 06:11 PM
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confidence is definitely something you need to work on. The key is to be non reactive. Whoever is least reactive wins the frame and that's who the girl will pick. Say you're talking to a girl and another guy walks in to steal her, a common mistake newbies have is they try to chase the girl or they become reactive to the man that just entered the set. The correct response is to just say hi and introduce yourself to the man and quickly shift your focus back to the girl. Do the minimum to the guy. …
/r/seduction15/12/15 06:08 PM
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At the end of your interactions with girls, does she know you have a dick. You need to show intent. eye contact, tonality, physicality are all ways to show intent. You're talking to her as a man who will fuck her, not as a friend.
/r/seduction15/12/15 06:01 PM
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Texts are a bad way to seduce a girl simply because you can fuck it up and not know what happened. It's a median for setting up logistics
/r/seduction15/12/15 08:02 AM
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If you start being the best version of yourself today. How would you look like. Imagine yourself in 1 year and think of the steps it takes to get there. Think today. What did you do a year ago or even 5 years ago that lead to you being what you are today. There are so many people who had it worse than you. Start reading self development books. If you haven't read models, read models. Start meditating if you're depressed. Start going to the gym to work on your body. Start going out and doing othe…
/r/seduction15/12/15 07:47 AM
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depends how much you like her and if you want to try different things for the reference experience. One thing you can try to do when they're giving you the silent treatment is to build up social capital.
/r/seduction15/12/15 04:27 AM
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The next day, she leaves before I get up. I get a message from her friend saying she (the girl) wants my number in the morning. I read this all as the girl being into me unless you actually talk to her and see her tone and expressions, you can't really believe what the friend told you. There are several communications of disinterest: -she leaves before you got up. she could have gotten your number there and then -either she made her friend talk to you instead of directly talking to you. she coul…
/r/seduction14/12/15 11:55 PM
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why didn't you fuck her? She friend zoned you because you guys made it past "the point of no return" That is the point where you better have sex with her or you'll probably not see her again because she's invested so much in you emotionally and she even admits she wants to have sex "she's being super compliant even though she's tired and instead of going to sleep says she'll do what I want" that was the green light. btw theres the formal definition from RSD Todd "The point of no return is the po…
/r/seduction14/12/15 08:27 AM
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this guy fucks
/r/seduction14/12/15 07:26 AM
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If she's hot she's already fucking someone anyway why can't she be fucking op? You won't lose anything. If she wants to fuck you, she will. There is no risk. Be abundant. Yes i agree. you should stay outcome independent And if you come off as needy you are done. You need to assume that you are enough. girls will do shit like this to test your congruence and in a way it's a shit test. My argument was that the 48 hour should not be a strict law to follow. A common mistake is to wait too long to te…
/r/seduction14/12/15 07:16 AM
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simple definition is having your thoughts actions and words aligned. For example if you open a girl and you have nothing to say to her. when you're being congruent, you can just be like "i can't think of anything to say, I'm very shy" this will get her attracted. this is very powerful. Most people think that you need to make funny jokes or be cool to be attractive. Pickup at it's core is to convey your emotions to the girl. What you say doesn't matter, it's the emotions behind it that is.
/r/seduction14/12/15 07:07 AM
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this sub doesn't like RSD because they do different things. This sub is more toned to the high school/college environment where reputation is something you have to take into consideration. Where as RSD is more about nightclubs and field experience is king. Most people who game in highschools and smaller campuses don't have the luxury to do mass approach pickup because your reputation is at stack. This is why advice given in this sub is alot more toned down.
/r/seduction14/12/15 06:25 AM
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the 48hours is coming from a frame of being a person of value who's busy. But at the same time you risk having someone else game her and fuck her within that 48hour window
/r/seduction14/12/15 06:20 AM
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People need to read a fucking book. This sub is littered with beginner questions like "why wont she text me back" "how do i make her like me" There are so many underlying problems that needs to be tweaked. When a girl responds negatively. it's not because you did one or two things wrong, it's because of a combination of factors like awkward sub communications, or you didn't show intent or was congruent with your thoughts actions and words, etc. You have bad game period. Everyone is asking for th…
/r/seduction14/12/15 06:18 AM
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if she's giving you the silent treatment, you need more "social capital" send her funny instant messages, pictures, memes, etc that shows her you have value
/r/seduction14/12/15 06:09 AM
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You've known her for an entire semester and you used a phone to game her. texts/snapchats are means to setup plans, not to game. With the way she's flaking you and making up these excuses, chances are you're in the friend zone. unless you have really good game chances are you won't pull her on thursday. you have 2 options. A. forget about her and move on B. be congruent to her and ask her out. Chances of that working is pretty slim from your seduction experience. An rsd instructor once said this…
/r/seduction14/12/15 06:00 AM
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Confidence is an inner game issue. I recommend watching a few of rsdfreetour videos. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IxHi0d5wBF0. You can take most of Tyler's ideas with a grain of salt, but try to understand the frame he's coming from and how he cultivates that care free attitude.
/r/seduction06/12/15 09:15 PM
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Try yoga. It's a great way to draw state from within
/r/seduction06/12/15 09:10 PM
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it doesn't matter what order you lead the conversation. Everyone is different, you should calibrate her after you two introduce rather than before. When you have this roadmap to follow, it makes it sound like an interrogation. The best interactions are those that are calibrated afterwards. That's where those spontaneous creative thoughts come it and how you can entertain yourself.
/r/seduction06/12/15 09:08 PM
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it doesn't matter what order you lead the conversation. Everyone is different, you should calibrate her after you two introduce rather than before. When you have this roadmap to follow, it makes it sound like an interrogation. The best interactions are those that are calibrated afterwards. That's where those spontaneous creative thoughts come it and how you can entertain yourself and put your personality out there.
/r/seduction06/12/15 09:08 PM
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