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6

It's like this in Ireland as well since 2014.
/r/MensRights20/06/26 05:03 AM
36

That would be great! It is genital mutilation of a vulnerable person who cannot consent.
/r/MensRights16/06/26 06:32 PM
3

Do whatever is best for you. Don't let anyone shame you for having standards. You don't need to settle for the community bicycle. You don't know when she gets the itch and do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 05:59 AM
3

Society uses shame to keep men obedient. Don't worry about others' opinion. Your happiness and mental health matters too. When you free yourself of your anchor, life will become much better for you and your kids as well. You will be able to focus on yourself and your kids. They will grow up and remember you as a happy dad, instead of a depressed one. You will also find yourself another woman, if that's what you want.
/r/MensRights25/05/26 05:21 AM
4

Go and check out what advice women give each other in the same scenario (with the genders reversed) and do the exact same thing! Your happiness matters and your children will be much happier too with two divorced parents in different households once the dust settles. Children can pick up on the resentment and toxicity at home. Talk to a lawyer, do not mention the word "divorce" to your wife until you are ready for the move, otherwise she will take you to the cleaners with false accusations, guil…
/r/MensRights25/05/26 05:15 AM
5

Wholesome dads united.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/26 05:21 AM
2

Thanks for the tip brother! I really appreciate it. I've tried playing Minecraft and Roblox with my kids, but I get a headache from the graphics. I have been looking for something like BGA.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/26 05:20 AM
10

Civilization
/r/EverydayMisandry16/02/26 08:57 PM
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When it starts getting people killed, they will just hide the statistics or blame men for it. Woke culture is allergic to accountability or equality. Woke culture is totalitarianism.
/r/MensRights15/02/26 05:40 AM
9

She only went back to you to position herself better for divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/26 01:58 AM
26

I'd love it! If you, as a woman provide for me, I'll gladly look after the kids, household, cooking AND put out for you ON DEMAND!
/r/MensRights03/12/25 02:41 AM
26

Fresh off to the streets.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/10/25 09:07 PM
62

You are fucked! Divorce court will give all your money to her as "compensation for all the unpaid labor" she provided you in the past two decades. You'll keep paying the lifestyle she's accustomed to until she remarries.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 03:36 AM
37

Unfortunately dating sites have been swamped by Ukrainian women refugees from the moment the war started. As soon as they arrived in my country, they already started replacing their Ukrainian husbands, boyfriends and LTR's. It was sickening to watch. Men vs Women dynamic is compared to employee vs employer relationship in the book The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar and it seems particularly fitting. As soon as the employee (man) no longer performs as expected (sickness, death, financial issues …
/r/MensRights11/10/25 05:02 AM
10

No, it's not, you're delusional.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 08:33 AM
26

Channel your anger towards someone constructive, like gym or some sports. Things will get better, don't worry. We all went through it in the beginning. Porn was just the excuse. The real reason is her not being happy within herself and projecting her issues onto you. Things will get better, stay strong, brother!
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 05:18 AM
23

The video was uploaded to YT 1 hour before posting the link here with 0 views so I'm gonna call BS on your story and think you're just trying to ramp up views for your channel.
/r/MensRights23/09/25 01:31 AM
10

I think most men have been screwed over and burned so badly over the last few decades, that we value our peace way more than start over and if things don't work out (again), lose everything (again). It's not the food, it's feminism to blame.
/r/MensRights15/09/25 06:11 AM
2

Finally!
/r/MensRights13/09/25 06:25 AM
11

Lawyer up! She will only allow you to be there until she positions herself to achieve her goals and when you'll become too much of an inconvenience, she'll kick you to the curb.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 06:18 AM
7

Nothing's wrong with you dude. You might want to consider therapy to help you get through your trauma and move on emotionally. Best of luck to you!
/r/MensRights06/09/25 04:32 AM
15

Gender war
/r/MensRights19/08/25 09:46 AM
4

The Manipulated Man was an eye opener for me years ago, during my divorce. It put things into perspective and answered so many questions about my relationship with the woman I loved.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 06:41 AM
9

Not fix, just replace.
/r/MensRights08/08/25 01:36 PM
26

Just know that that simple word, "No" pisses her off than any screaming or arguments. You are not only ahead, you are winning. Stay strong, Brother!
/r/MensRights08/08/25 10:02 AM
3

They hold the gun differently.../s
/r/MensRights21/07/25 11:25 AM
16

THIS! 👆 This is the correct answer. You're no longer necessary. She is monkey branching and already has a new target.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 08:43 AM
4

Basic human need and basic human right.
/r/MensRights10/07/25 10:39 AM
28

I think feminism is more of a tool for the ruling class to pit the working class against each other. While the "peasants" are busy with each other, they don't have time to focus on the real cause of their misery: the ruling class.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 05:18 AM
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Why would you want to stay in such a relationship? Don't be a doormat. Run Forrest, run!
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:59 AM
10

I think it depends on geographic location. I agree that in some middle eastern countries women live in oppression, but in most societies they are actually privileged and live a sheltered life with all the support they receive.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:57 AM
2

She will try to push your buttons... all of them. She will want you to raise your voice or become physical (throwing/breaking things in the house, etc.) so she can call the cops and file for a restraining order or similar. Record everything if you can, have a CCTV or hidden camera in your most frequently used living space to protect you from false allegations as well. Women fight dirty and are excellent at portraying themselves as victims. The police and courts gobble it up as well. Stay safe, l…
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/25 04:54 AM
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Lawyer up! She doesn't want to involve a lawyer because she knows she'd be fucked an would need to pay you alimony... Stay put, be a grey rock emotionallyand DO NOT leave your home voluntarily!
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/25 07:31 PM
10

Good point
/r/MensRights25/06/25 05:19 AM
8

Feminism really doesn't care about equality. Feminism is about female power (political and economic). So the current biased court system has been the goal, not a byproduct. Wake up!
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:38 AM
22

She has a boyfriend, meaning she has a simp servant that caters to all her whims.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/06/25 03:33 AM
18

Are you kidding, right? Have you ever heard of paper cuts?
/r/MensRights09/06/25 04:02 PM
74

Why should I be friends with anyone that hates my gender?
/r/MensRights09/06/25 09:16 AM
2

70+% is shockingly high ratio
/r/MensRights08/06/25 04:50 AM
1

Found the radical feminist.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 02:16 PM
16

You only believe this if you're a brainwashed, delusional feminist.
/r/MensRights07/06/25 11:03 AM
27

That's potentially life or death sentence for her. FAFO
/r/PussyPassDenied01/06/25 06:04 PM
85

This is why I cancelled my Netflix account... The amount of new movies where men are portrayed as meek or the villains is staggering.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 05:14 PM
8

I disagree. Men need to hear others' issues and discuss it freely. The fact that we've been silenced by the same tactics make it paramount to speak up loud and clear!
/r/MensRights28/05/25 07:14 AM
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That's clearly gender based hate crime.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 11:55 AM
9

Men are looking for an equal partnership, women are looking for an employer (wife) vs employee (husband) relationship where the employer enjoys all and any benefits generated by the employee. The employee is only valued as long as he produces value for the employer and discarded when a better producing potential employee shows interest in joining "the company". Employees shouldn't have hobbies or interests outside of working and providing.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 04:38 AM
6

Haha, this reminded me of Bear Grylls's Men vs Women on the Island show... Same vibe
/r/MensRights15/05/25 03:39 AM
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That's soul crushing!
/r/MensRights13/05/25 06:10 PM
28

Delusions run high nowadays. Feminism sold western women a lie and they ate it up with a ladle.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 04:43 AM
2

20??? She looks 50 at least.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/04/25 04:04 AM
12

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 04:09 AM
7

Jordan Peterson's lobster theory comes to mind.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 03:32 AM
9

Not worth it in the current misandrist age.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 08:07 PM
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Because feminism preaches maximizing benefits without the additional responsibilities or accountability.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 12:24 PM
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""has plead not guilty and denied any wrongdoing."" Got caught red handed with evidence, still don't want to take responsibility for her actions.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:16 AM
1

I think certain things would feel "different"...
/r/MensRights01/03/25 06:23 AM
24

It would SUCK for straight folk.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:14 PM
20

Dude, you're being raped. Set up a hidden camera ASAP.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 02:09 PM
2

She was toxic and abusive. Why would you even want to go back to such a crappy relationship?
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 07:41 AM
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she would try to reconcile She would try to position herself in a way that she can take as much of if for herself as possible. You may find yourself in a false allegation or baby trap situation sooner than you think. can I think about it at least? Treat it like an intrusive thought.... "Do I want to jump off a cliff?" "Do I want to drive my car into the nearest concrete wall?" "Do I want to play Russian roulette with a fully loaded revolver?" That's exactly how you think at the moment, just fina…
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 05:44 AM
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Don't be an idiot. If you think your STBXW will come running back to you because you got some more money, your relationship is based on the wrong foundation. Why do you want to make your divorce and life more miserable? Accept that she's gone and move on with your life. Let me reiterate it: don't be an idiot!
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 05:32 AM
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Before you go, you should have a proper magic mushroom trip. It might help you with your depression and anxiety. It's not like you have anything to lose....
/r/MensRights16/02/25 02:14 PM
2

I had to Google "moid"....
/r/EverydayMisandry16/02/25 05:54 AM
6

This! 👆
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/25 05:18 AM
1

No specific slang I'm aware of. I tend to call micro dose "green fairy" and normal dose "green dragon". Completely different experiences and uses.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 07:41 AM
1

It's great to see that finally steps are being taken to hear our concerns. Baby steps, but at least in the right direction.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 04:10 AM
1

No surprise to anyone, really.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 03:52 AM
5

Call out toxic misandrist people every time they make a belittling, ridiculing or mocking response when men's mental health issues come up.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 08:25 AM
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Censorship is a great indicator to find out what demographic is actually oppressed by society.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 08:05 AM
7

Welcome, you are one of us. ♥️
/r/MensRights08/01/25 09:08 PM
4

"If misandry doesn't kill men, why the rate of male suicide is so high?"
/r/MensRights29/12/24 05:47 AM
3

Contact a lawyer and prepare yourself for false allegations in your near future. Things gonna get ugly for a while. Your STBX wants her freedom and all the comforts you've been providing for him without you being in the picture other than your wallet. Best if luck and stay strong, brother.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 05:13 AM
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Feminists don't care about facts because facts usually do not support their narrative.
/r/MensRights29/12/24 05:01 AM
20

If the guy hit it a few times and said: "meh, no thank you I'd rather report you than bang you ever again"... You aren't missing much by missing out. If you aren't depraved, you should aim for higher standards. You can do better, I have faith in you.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 02:26 AM
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Stop simping.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 01:59 AM
4

Absolutely call both. She's just trying to buy time so she can position herself and potentially set you up as the bad guy, frame you for DV, etc.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/24 10:46 AM
14

Spelling is hard.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/11/24 06:35 PM
29

That's actually very likely!
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/24 05:43 AM
2

This is how censorship and fascism works. Mute, discredit and remove those with opposing views.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/11/24 04:52 AM
4

Yes, it gave my ex-wife the "ick" when I cried after receiving a phone call that my father passed away.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 10:12 PM
6

To them men are expendable, not worthy of giving a crap about.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 10:05 PM
12

Not your wife, not your problem. Cut all ties and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 06:13 AM
19

I guess she will start seeing now how disgusting and deranged radical feminists really are.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 09:10 PM
13

OP, you are a fucking legend!
/r/MensRights22/10/24 11:19 AM
11

You may want to wait to sell the house and divide the assets. It mightn't be necessary. I know it's not what you want to hear, but she's your soon-to-be ex-wife one way or another. She might still be your wife technically, but just barely. You need to get yourself together. Talk to your lawyer and therapist if necessary. Look out for yourself. My separation and divorce started amicably as well and turned disastrous (for me, not for me ex) around halfway through, when she realized (and her lawyer…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/24 06:18 AM
5

Run Forrest, run! She already put a time limit on your marriage. You already know how much her companionship will cost you when she leaves you in the dust. She'll look after herself while still married to you and take whatever is in the prenup as soon as she splits. You need a clown hat as a dowry if you marry her.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 04:42 AM
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Meh, this is not the hill to die on. Disney has sucked for the last decade. Too much woke BS. Dicks are as much part of nature as tits or pussy. It always baffled me that it's ok to show people being murdered or attacked on tv, but God forbid half a tit pops out on live tv and it's a fucking scandal.
/r/MensRights15/09/24 07:59 PM
29

Sounds like she was cheating on you while you were still together. Regardless, you are free now.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 04:33 AM
1

Late stages of Calhoun's behavioral sink comes to mind ...
/r/MensRights10/09/24 04:22 AM
-6

That's one hell of a title you got there...
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:04 PM
8

This is a surprise to noone except feminists.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 07:55 PM
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When you give up dating all together, you'll become LGTOW I guess. You're already red-pilled. Just know, now that you've posted on this sub, you'll likely get auto-banned on many popular subreddits. Our opinions are heavily censored and frowned upon. Welcome home. You get us, we get you. You are one of us.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 06:42 AM
1

The problem is that in many countries couples don't need to be married or even combine their finances during their relationship. It's enough for the woman to claim that they've lived in a durable relationship. Once the relationship runs it's course, she is entitled to the same rights as if they were married, aka she can ask the court for maintenance and asset division. That's why men are not committing to LTRs or move in with their romantic partners.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/24 03:17 AM
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SM's just keeping those negative emotions to themselves until they're secure enough in their relationship to start bringing this up to you. Also, SM's will tolerate this because they are in the relationship to make their own life easier by having you provide for her family as well. They don't love you, they love what you provide.
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/24 07:12 AM
3

I wonder how much hate this study will generate by feminists.
/r/MensRights24/08/24 06:58 AM
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That's egalitarianism, not feminism. Feminism has never been about equality, it's always been about power. First- wave feminism is characterized as focusing on the fight for women's political power, as opposed to de facto unofficial inequalities. They disregarded equality between a number of other issues, including race. This allowed for white women to gain power and equality relative to white men, while the social disparity between white and black women increased. The selected few seeking power…
/r/MensRights22/08/24 07:41 AM
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You'll get used to it. You get auto-banned from many subs just by posting or simply being a member here. This is how censorship works. Drown any voice that has opposing views.
/r/MensRights22/08/24 07:10 AM
6

Welcome! I'm not sure why you think you'd be hated here. Is it because you are a woman or because you used to believe the modern feminist propaganda? We don't hate you for being a woman. You're a human being like all of us. We don't hate you for being a feminist in the past. We don't hate you at all. You've started to see the misandrist brainwashing, hypocrisy, double standards and oppressive discrimination we are trying to highlight. The way I see it, you're one of us. You've become red-pilled.…
/r/MensRights22/08/24 07:08 AM
3

This is the way!
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 04:58 AM
5

Find a way for her to get a job. If she has no income stream coming in after you divorce her, you WILL be her income stream. Get a good lawyer now and set up a strategic plan. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 05:49 AM
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Then they move the goal post from equality to equity. That's how gaslighting works.
/r/MensRights12/08/24 05:38 AM
3

Did all this come from one book? Also, The first two pages are illogical. A man needs to put his life purpose before relationships. Grand. Than it says that only a man with purpose in life can give his undivided attention in a relationship. What? Talk about have the cake and eat it too. A man with purpose sets boundaries and focus only limited time and effort to relationships as long as it doesn't affect his life purpose. As it should be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/24 05:24 AM
3

FML, 18 miserable years? That's rough. I'm sure that your peaceful single life feels like salvation after such a long time suffering.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 06:34 PM
3

@raccoonlyfe troll account writing troll comments.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 06:08 AM
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Being single is much better than a shitty, abusive relationship. Children are the only reason many of us had stayed in a failed marriage for as long as we could.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 04:30 AM
4

Holy shit! WTF have I just read? I hope OP and his brother gets the proper support they need, far away from their abusers.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 05:45 AM
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She was a Mormon bishop's wife un Utah. I guess nobody dared to come forward.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/07/24 05:33 AM
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She ain't no grandmother, she's the big bad wolf. Glad she's getting punished, too bad it took 30 years for the family to come forward.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/07/24 05:11 AM
3

No longer our concern.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 04:58 AM
2

No lies detected. When I realized this with my ex, I started questioning if any feelings she ever showed me was genuine. I realized then that all I ever was was her meal ticket.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 04:55 AM
3

Wow, you are up for an insane ride with the divorce court. How good is your lawyer? He better be world class! Also, cut her off immediately. You are already separated, she shouldn't be allowed anywhere near your bank account. Don't be naive. Divorce is a zero sum game.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 04:51 AM
14

Men make sacrifices for their family, women sacrifice their family for their feelings.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 04:47 AM
14

If you honestly believe that she only started dating him the day you separated, you are naive and gullible. She's been in a relationship with him for a lot longer and only pulled the plug on your marriage when things were getting serious with him. Don't worry though, you have a new chapter in your life, focus on yourself, your health and your children. Most importantly, stay away from booze, be strong and don't relapse. Alcohol will destroy you and you don't want your children to grow up and rem…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 04:36 AM
3

Marriage will make your social circle even smaller. Take a leap of faith. Work on yourself, explore new hobbies and attend related social gatherings. You'll meet new people with similar interests.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/24 04:45 AM
3

She already checked out of the relationship emotionally, but hasn't set herself up financially post-divorce.... yet
/r/MensRights12/07/24 04:40 AM
8

It will be too late for him to learn once bankrupt and living in his truck though.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 06:41 AM
3

Precisely
/r/MensRights07/07/24 11:10 AM
3

Same, my kids love the animated ones. I was thinking it'd be a live action adaptation of some sort. We watched Elemental instead and my kids loved it. Full of action, humor, emotions and vibrant colors. That's what kids entertainment should be about, not brainwashing.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 03:18 AM
12

The whole reason why all governments are trying to appeal to feminists and older generations is because they have a huge voting power. Men and younger generations are less likely to go and actually vote so governments don't give a shit about us.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 03:11 AM
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I bought tickets when the movie came out. We went to the cinema and I realized that the movie has 12+ rating so I googled why. When I read that it's a feminist propaganda movie with the "patriarchy" BS shoved down people's throats, I swapped the tickets to an actual kid's movie. I'm not into Barbie myself, so I wouldn't waste 2 hours of my life watching something that's clearly not aimed at me as an audience.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 03:04 AM
3

Definitely ask your lawyer about the police's response about your baby being kidnapped. I thing they got it wrong. They don't necessarily know the law perfectly. I think you actually dodged a bullet by not marrying her. She went off the rail too soon. Usually they wait until you've already married them so you are stuck with the awful behavior.
/r/MensRights30/06/24 04:55 AM
3

Thank you for this
/r/MensRights28/06/24 05:27 AM
5

Putting oil on fire is the solution. Let's irritate the stronger gender that is more likely to use aggression when cornered. Got it.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/06/24 06:28 PM
20

You can identify as a woman and report whoever you want. If they question your gender, sue them from gender discrimination. Beat them at their own game. Fuck the system.
/r/MensRights14/06/24 03:20 PM
5

This means she has been planning this divorce for 4-5 years now and she was just trying to give herself enough time to set herself up. It's almost guaranteed that she has hidden some considerable assets you don't know about. Most likely under a fictive corporation etc. Be an emotional grey rock to her so she can't make false accusations if things don't go as amicable as you hoped.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 06:35 AM
2

Think it through what she would do if roles reversed and do the same. Divorce is a zero sum game. My divorce started amicable but it turned nastier and nastier as she moved the goalpost and demanded more and more. We started with "cohabitating after divorce for the children's sake"... Soon I ended up homeless for a while. Get a GOOD male lawyer and fight for your best interest, not hers. She is no longer your concern. She acts amicable so she can screw you over.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 06:10 AM
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Don't be naive, she has some key piece of information that you don't know. Maybe she is up for a big promotion with massive pay rise, or due to inherit a fortune and wants to cut you out. Women fight tooth and nail for every cent they can take from men, so you should do the same. This whole "be the bigger man" is nonsense in today's world.
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 05:21 AM
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r/deadbedrooms
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 06:20 AM
3

You matter to me brother
/r/MensRights07/06/24 04:30 PM
1

There was an attempt at not pushing an agenda. Fucking sickening.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 03:21 PM
3

I'm not sure that you actually understand. Pretty much every guy here said the same thing up in their responses: "Let him be, stop pushing", and yet you don't seem to take any of it onboard. YOU want him to understand, YOU want him to open up about his feelings. I'd recommend you to stop trying so hard as it comes across as if you had a bit of a saviour complex.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 09:12 AM
3

Then don't push him "to open up". Treat him well and when he will feel safe enough to be around you, he might open up... or won't. This will be his decision to make. I'd been abused by my ex and now if any woman would try to find my vulnerabilities I'd treat that as a major red flag and I'd immediately distance myself from her. If I'd have any issues, I'd talk to a therapist (male), not a woman I'm in a relationship with.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 08:22 AM
9

If he's been burnt multiple times by women emotionally or financially, he may never ever fully trust a woman again. You need to accept that he may not open up to you fully or show his vulnerability to you if his vulnerabilities were used against him previously. If you truly care for him, be there for him regardless. Let him decide if/when he wants to let his guards down in front of you and accept that it may never happen. Don't pursue the relationship if you can't accept this, otherwise you will…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 05:45 AM
9

Older women are getting desperate to find somebody to be in their lives, other than cats of course.
/r/MensRights05/06/24 10:19 PM
8

/r/aitah provides you with more balanced responses
/r/MensRights02/06/24 09:33 AM
6

Need more context, especially your sons' ages and if they have any medical/mental condition. If your children are healthy and already school age, you can manage the daily care by yourself. It takes a bit of time to set the routine, and for things to settle, but otherwise it's grand. I have 50/50, full-time job, no au pair and my kids are 5 and 7. No issues, except when they are sick. When that happens my mom comes over to mind them so I don't lose my job.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 05:22 AM
21

I've been in an abusive relationship. It's much harder than you think, especially if they have a leverage that they can use against you. In my case it was my children, as it is in many marriages. I did manage to get out, but that meant that I had to become homeless and broke temporarily, because of the court's decisions. I managed to get my life together, but it took over two years. I am fortunate enough that I fought tooth and nail for my kids and I have 50/50 custody, but many men could only d…
/r/MensRights31/05/24 05:13 AM
34

Coercive control. It's more powerful than you think. People with narcissistic personality are experts at controlling others via emotional abuse, false accusations, etc. Imagine if she threatened him to go to the police and claimed that he raped her or assauled her. Police almost always sides with women in cases like these and treats men guilty until proven innocent. He'd not only lose his job, go to jail and have his name tarnished, but if he wants to prove his innocence, he'll probably go broke…
/r/MensRights31/05/24 05:04 AM
34

Dead men are no longer affected.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 05:09 PM
8

NTA. She was fine until she got a second opinion from her friend who's in mid-divorce. 🚩🚩🚩
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 06:29 AM
5

This is already the case in Ireland.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 05:12 PM
49

Absolutely not. Why would I date anyone who hates me for something I have no control over? Would a POC date a hillbilly racist redneck?
/r/MensRights21/05/24 12:15 PM
15

50/50 is actually the best system for the children. They do need both parents equally and they don't necessarily have to pack their stuff each week. In my case they have plenty of clothes and toys at my home and similar at their mom's. 50/50 helps counteract my ex's alienation attempts whenever she goes off the rail mentally as well.
/r/MensRights21/05/24 04:37 AM
2

Gotta love the handy flashlight. Get one that vibrates. Excellent alternative to a hookup when in a pinch.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 08:22 PM
5

Not voting is the worst thing you could possibly do. The less men vote, the less governments care about us. Political parties favour those who are willing to vote, such as women and the elderly. Go and vote. Vote for whoever that even slightly recognizes men's concerns.
/r/MensRights20/05/24 08:19 PM
7

They would rather ride the elevator with a bear than you....
/r/MensRights07/05/24 04:30 AM
11

She's salty AF. I had my motorbike mysteriously stolen, torched and left in a ditch.... Lucky for me, I have a classic bike, all steel, only the cables were seriously damaged, so I could replace those and I still ride it. Best of luck with your divorce, brother.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 07:13 AM
11

Excuses, excuses ... "Everyone else is responsible for my shitty decisions".
/r/MensRights26/04/24 12:14 PM
2

You are going through the initial (tough) phase, so it's normal.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 05:40 AM
1

You could accept his decision that he doesn't want to be in a relationship where he had been mistreated. It sounds like he was emotionally abused from what you described. Oh, and please be amicable during the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 10:02 PM
-4

It seems like you are chasing unicorns. You might need to consider a dating strategy that is more up to date and produces better results. Monogamy and marriage until death comes from a time when average life expectancy was in the 30s. Nowadays life expectancy is in the mid 80s. Accept the fact that society moved on from those values, so should you. Improvise, adapt, overcome. Best of luck.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 06:32 AM
9

Hi OP, just know that pretty much all of us started out where you are. You go through all the states of grief in your grieving process. There's absolutely no shame in asking for help and seeking therapy. It actually shows strength. Just know that there's light at the end of the tunnel. Things WILL get better,just try to stay away from drugs/alcohol as much as possible. Find a hobby to take your mind off of the divorce. Many men will hit the gym or start a DIY project. You can DM me if you want. …
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 04:14 AM
8

Oh yeah, you will get banned automatically from many subs just by being here (and others that advocate men's rights). Men's opinions are being drowned. That's how it is.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 04:18 AM
23

You are right to stay away from single mothers. However "once I'm locked in, I'm locked in" mindset is no longer a winning strategy in today's world. By all means plan to spend your whole life with one person, but please make sure you are prepared that no matter your best efforts, your partner might decide to leave you for whatever reasons. I think most men suffer emotionally so much during divorce/separation is because they believed in the dream that they met a partner for life. I know I was on…
/r/MensRights12/04/24 05:02 AM
6

Ouch. She is already playing the victim card. Your buddy is in for a rude awakening. His wife will ruin his life sooner or later, she will drain him dry financially first, then when he becomes broke, she will divorce him. Best of luck to your friend.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 04:09 AM
4

Thank you for posting this. No wonder feminists don't like being fact-checked.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 04:07 AM
5

Women will look out for their own interests first. Men are more willing to sacrifice their own self interests for the sake of others (women, country, career, etc.). We as men in general, need to do better. We should actually learn from women and look out for our own interests first as well.
/r/MensRights28/03/24 12:26 AM
1

It depends on the country. In Ireland, for example, you don't have to be married to have the same privileges of marriage, if you live together for a longer period of time. If your durable relationship (not marriage) breaks down, she can still take you to the cleaners, especially if you have children together. Then you are really fucked. If you are the unmarried father, you are not even considered part of the family. We just had a referendum a few days ago to change this, but it failed. To summar…
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 02:13 AM
1

Definitely tell your parents, save all the correspondence and report it to the police. If she has done it to you, she has done it to someone else, and will keep doing it until stopped.
/r/MensRights05/03/24 02:57 AM
15

Dear OP, we appreciate even the acknowledgement that we are not worthless. Thank you for believing in us.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 12:34 PM
1

Start small. Baby steps.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 05:40 AM
1

Maybe you could try to start one. This could be your "DIY" project. Help yourself to help others. The governments definitely don't give a shit about us. Start small, with local meetups and build it up from there, maybe something similar to this: Round Table Dublin , just in your area. Stay strong, brother.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 06:13 AM
3

We have "Men's Sheds ", a small, underfunded charity in Ireland that helped me a lot when I became homeless (court kicked me out of my home during divorce, away from my small children). It was a tough time and I knew that normal therapy wouldn't necessarily work for me, as it's geared towards women and how they process mental issues, not men. Men's Sheds allow you to participate in different DIY projects and community work with other men from different backgrounds and ages in your area. Everyone…
/r/MensRights16/02/24 07:13 AM
2

Damn, brother! You might be a twig but you are strong as hell! You had a very rough start in life, so I wish you all the best to come your way from now on. Peace and love, Brother!
/r/MensRights12/02/24 05:41 AM
4

Well, if you are considering the Arabic world, they do restrict women's freedoms, but that's not the whole truth again. Feminists don't want you to know or understand the background behind their arguments. First, learn about the dowry system, or what happens with the salaries earned by men and women. Did you know for example that a woman is not required to support her family from her earnings there? What she earns is entirely hers to keep. Only men are responsible to provide for the entire house…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 04:33 AM
5

The rich doesn't want to let ANYONE in, not just women. Also, why are you fighting for the interests of the elite? They don't have your best interest in mind.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 04:12 AM
8

Margaret Thatcher, Angela Merkel, Queen Elizabeth and so on.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 04:08 AM
3

I believe you are right in the sense that women have been oppressed historically. It's worth mentioning that men were oppressed as well, just in different ways. The reason is that the rich and powerful oppressed the poor (men and women) that is now being transformed into a gender "war". The usual argument is: women weren't allowed to vote back then. Well, vast majority of men weren't allowed to vote either at that time. You had to be a property or business owner to register to vote. If you owned…
/r/MensRights12/02/24 03:55 AM
2

Welcome OP, we are delighted to have you here.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:56 AM
2

Then you are not a modern feminist, you are an egalitarian (believing in or based on the principle that ALL people are equal and deserve equal rights and opportunities) like 99.99% of us.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:54 AM
1

Amen, Brother!
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 06:24 AM
3

Think what would happen if genders were reversed and do the same. If you are unhappy, pack up and leave. If she is the "breadwinner", you may be able to ask for alimony/maintenance. Whatever you do, make sure you visit a lawyer and do not mention anything to her until you are ready. If you don't have kids, just pack up and leave, if she is verbally abusive, record it. Be smart, look after yourself.
/r/MensRights08/02/24 06:00 AM
5

I came here to write this. Biggest mistake I have ever done.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 09:34 PM
5

IMO you are certainly not an outcast. You are one of us, regardless of your gender. Most of us here think the same way you do. We are trying to call out the double standards that exist and the current feminist approach of patronizing and infantilising of women. Men learn early on that they have to be accountable not only of their actions but but for the actions of women in their lives. Let it be financial or paternal accountability. This feminist rhetoric hurts women in the long term and men in …
/r/MensRights04/02/24 07:44 AM
3

Children need both parents equally at all ages. They learn different things from each. What you mentioned is a generalization of what the children may PREFER, not what they NEED. Massive difference..
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 07:27 AM
1

You are gullible and naive. The more guilty she feels the more your children will be turned against you.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 07:09 AM
2

Sound advice!
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 07:06 AM
5

This is dangerous advice. It will ensure that the children grow more and more apart from their father as time goes on. This is a time of transition for the children. They will settle in nicely just make sure OP that you guys follow a routine. Kids are more resilient than given credit for.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 07:05 AM
12

She has someone else in mind and you are the fall back guy, if that doesn't work out. The moment you are no longer needed (she feels her new relationship secure enough), that's when you can expect the real shit storm coming your way. Do you really want to be Option B?
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 06:47 AM
140

If you didn't consent, you can make your choice. It doesn't matter what others think, it's all in your head. If you have a way out, take it.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 01:12 PM
7

This is actually quite positive if you can coexist in peace. Best option for your kids as well.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 08:29 PM
9

Ugh... Memories. 🤮 I swear this is like a script. Almost word for word.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 07:29 AM
10

Don't worry, the drug dealer will discard her soon enough the same way she discarded you. When that happens, make sure you don't take her back. I know it's hard, but try to move on. It's easier if you set a goal for yourself and every time your mind wonders back to the current thought loop, it will help you refocus. Work on your and your child's future and don't look back. She (and what she does) is no longer your concern.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 05:59 AM
1

She wouldn't just let you get away with it. So why would you?
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 05:55 AM
3

She cucked you and the other guy too. How would you feel if you were in the other guy's place? Would you like to know that you are just the safety guy? I'm sure I would. If you say nothing, you just keep protecting her. Does she worth/deserve it? Ask yourself what would she do to you if the roles were reversed and act accordingly.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 12:46 PM
6

You are only married on paper at this point ...
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 07:58 AM
4

Smart. Drugs/Drinking is bad for you, especially now. Join AA voluntarily, it's a great support system and might work favorably towards you during the proceedings if she try to use your past use against you. If she drinks, especially drugs, make sure you make records of it. Photos, drug paraphernalia, etc. If she gets high, call the cops on her to get the police report. If she gets high around the kids, call CPS for the same reason. Build up a case for the custody battle. That said, get a lawyer…
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 07:52 AM
4

That's smart. Stay strong and sober for your children. You are young and your whole life is ahead of you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 07:39 AM
7

Brace yourself, brother. You are in for a wild ride. It's gonna suck really bad for a while, but it will be temporary. When you come out on the other side, you will feel much better. I remember how it felt for me at first. The panic, grief, hopelessness, anger and sorrow until I braced myself for the inevitable. Once I accepted and let my relationship go, I started focusing on myself, my children and our future without her. If you really gonna check her phone, record everything you find. You can…
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 07:23 AM
3

Yep, I got myself a leather jacket and an old sailboat.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 09:45 AM
2

"Become a warrior, not a worrier" I love this!
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 06:48 AM
2

Run fast, run far and don't look back! Block her, don't take her calls, etc. Work on yourself first and foremost. If your bad choice in women seems to have a pattern, start reviewing the red flags you kept missing. Learn from your mistakes. There are more women in the world than men (even if by approx. 0.5%), but you will find someone eventually, and in the meantime you WILL find yourself. Stay strong, brother!
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 06:45 AM
1

First, make sure your children are safe, then tell her that if she is successful at her suicide next time, you will no longer need a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 07:00 PM
1

Modern feminism is misandry so it's a hate movement. Equal rights for all genders is egalitarianism.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 08:34 AM
1

Amazing, thank you for your recommendations!
/r/MensRights20/11/22 01:43 PM
2

It's usually that "she can do better" and during the divorce she's most likely to be treated favourably. Men tend to get the raw end of the deal.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 07:25 AM
11

Genuine question: what's a better alternative for both search and free email services?
/r/MensRights20/11/22 07:15 AM
11

Let's all grow a pair and call our the BS as it happens. I've already started it in my social circles. I no longer stay quiet when I hear male-bashing or when women are placed on a pedestal for no other reason then their gender. We all need to speak up for our children's sake.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 07:12 AM
9

I bought a boat so I live aboard now. No rent, no mortgage. My kids love it when they visit and my ex is afraid of water. Win-win all around. I haven't slept this well for ages. Look after yourselves brothers! Happy international men's day!
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/22 05:07 AM
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All the men who were mobilized against their will only to become cannon fodders would strongly disagree with her views. Oh wait, they can't. They're dead or soon to be dead.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 11:22 PM
2

Brilliant! Kudos to the guy for calling them out on it.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 08:22 PM
23

Give those white feathers to the fecking feminists. They can go to war if they want but don't shame others who don't.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 06:16 AM
4

That's a great list, thank you!
/r/MensRights18/10/22 03:50 AM
14

Women ☕
/r/MensRights14/10/22 06:49 AM
2

Don't hate yourself, brother. Your opinion matters.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 09:50 AM
9

Or casually explaining what she wants for dinner while riding...
/r/MensRights28/09/22 10:43 AM
3

You have toxic friends, brother.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 01:02 AM
1

Life is tough for everyone, regardless of gender. This is why we should unite instead of divide. "Women have it worse" BS mentality doesn't help anyone.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 06:25 PM
3

STFU! At least they stay alive.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 03:47 PM
2

Stop drinking. It sucks but it will take you down a dangerous path. Not worth it. Try working out. We've all been there. Just know that things will get better, there is light at the end of the tunnel. You are not alone. Your kid will need you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 10:35 PM
1

"Fuck it Dude, let's go bowling" - The Big Lebowski
/r/MensRights10/08/22 05:15 AM
5

Gym membership for sure. I hate lifting weights but there's a 25m pool at mine with steam room and sauna. It was the perfect way to channel my frustration. Swim a few laps, get a cold shower, hop in the sauna, rinse and repeat. Also weed (indica or CBD), whatever is legal in your area. Don't do anything illegal.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/22 10:15 PM
3

Definitely
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/22 05:00 AM
7

This thread ended up being perfect for statistical sources. Thank you!
/r/MensRights19/07/22 05:57 AM
6

Yeah, she is.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/07/22 05:08 AM
1

Actually no. Liberal and agnostic. I'm just one of the millions of guys who got fucked over by the unfair, biased court system. I'm scared for my children every time they are with their bipolar, NPD mother because she threatened to kill them when they were toddlers. Who knows when she ticks again. The court still sided with her (I don't live in the US), even with the medical documents. I was a proper white knight before, oblivious to these issues and I ate up the feminist propaganda. I didn't ch…
/r/MensRights11/07/22 06:23 AM
1

You are right, not a happy bunny about current social issues.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 12:23 AM
1

and like I don't matter... You being sensitive is subjective. If you want to be treated like an adult, you need to get over what others think of you. Their opinion (mine included), shouldn't affect you. Only care about the opinion of your loved ones. That's what matters. Also, we all get shit and punished for everything (think divorce rape, paternity fraud, workplace injuries/mortality, suicide, lack of mental care, social support, etc), even for stuff we haven't done and then when a fucking war…
/r/MensRights11/07/22 12:00 AM
1

Blunt but honest. I have no more patience for the politically correct BS, because all it does is feeding delusions. You being called a weirdo isn't meant to degrade you in any way. It is just meant to speculate why you have had such difficult past. I understand why you feel salty about men in your life, however it is not representative of the entire gender. I am just trying to highlight that your social circle might be somewhat off the beaten path. You should definitely get some therapy to deal …
/r/MensRights10/07/22 11:33 PM
1

Fat people may resent being called obese, but it doesn't make it less true.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 10:15 PM
1

Prior to the 2013 change, the UCR's definition of rape was "carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will". This means that rape specific statistics were extremely gender biased, since men were excluded from the definition.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 10:07 PM
1

You are not blowing my mind. I read your profile. You are clearly not a good representative of the normal/average population. If you live in the fringe of society, you bound to attract other people from the fringe of society. You are a weirdo, attracting weirdos essentially. Normal people will keep a generous distance from you. Simple as that. You are trying to generalize and punish an entire gender based on your skewed experiences from said weirdos, who represent maybe 0.000001% of the entire g…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:24 PM
1

Also, you see what I did there? I provided actual sources to my statements instead of the BS propaganda that has been shoved down your throat from biased, extremist groups.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:09 PM
1

No, I am not. YOU and all deranged feminists trying to portrait that women are victims and cannot be perpetrators. Women are just as capable and definitely more willing to commit violence than men. And since you are so obsessed with sexual violence, here's another statistics for you: men are more likely to be victims (1 in 4) of sexual violence then women (1 in 5) during their lifetime. Source
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:05 PM
1

Let me just throw in some actual fact: MOTHERS are twice as likely to kill or abuse their own children then fathers. You think Im bullshitting? Here's the source: DHHS Child Maltreatment Report Quite honestly children would be much safer in their own fathers' care after divorce then their mothers. You don't hear about this from feminists because it doesn't suit their agenda.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 01:54 PM
1

Again, you cannot hold an entire generation of the male gender accountable for the fuck-ups of past generations. Those people are dead. They lived in dark times when church ruled over politics. Look at the present times. Who are against abortion and female rights? Fucking religious zealots. That's why separation of church and state is so important. The US is slowly slipping into theocracy. That's fucking scary. Look what theocracy did to the Middle East in the past 50 years. Vast majority of peo…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 05:57 AM
2

I'm not sure what claim you are talking about. Court sides with women in the vast majority of family law cases, even if they were in the wrong.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 05:39 AM
1

I checked out your profile. Good lord, you are a real nutjob.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 12:08 PM
1

Dear misandrist lunatic feminazi, can you please provide sources of your crime statistics? Most unbiased statistics would show you that most sexual assaults, domestic violence and stalking is done by lesbian/bisexual people. Rape and sexual assault is rampant in prisons for women. You have been properly brainwashed you dumb fool. Also, are you going to punish the next generation for the failures of the previous ones? Wouldn't that be collective punishment, which is considered a war crime? In add…
/r/MensRights09/07/22 12:01 PM
2

It's funny how men are told to open up emotionally and when they do, they get ridiculed for it. My guess is women don't have a clue what the fuck they want. They just THINK they do.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:12 AM
5

Men have been accountable already if you haven't noticed. What about women's accountability? Were they not present at the impregnation? There are horrible people out there, regardless of gender, stop blaming men only. Women can be horrible too. The fact that society tries to remove/shift all accountability from women, it just shows that they don't think women are mature enough to have responsibilities, essentially infantilise the entire gender.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:09 AM
1

It's unrelated and irrelevant to the current topic.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 11:18 PM
1

It doesn't matter.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:27 PM
-1

How can n you develop a monogamous long term relationship without trial amd error? You date a few girls when you are young and hope that one will be a keeper.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:27 PM
1

Doesn't matter.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:24 PM
4

And that's why they are trying to keep the bill as vague as possible so it wouldn't matter. Regardless of consent or lack thereof.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:22 PM
1

Unfortunately no. Currently you can't define the meaning of "woman" without offending someone, so the article uses the safer "people" to stay woke and politically correct.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:21 PM
-4

No because it would exclude post-op trans men who have a uterus, therefore can become pregnant.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:16 PM
1

Are you expecting common sense? How naive are you?
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:13 PM
27

Absolutely
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:34 AM
3

A few cunts tried to force me down the sidewalk, I usually mentioned "single file dumbass" a meter away and they were annoyed but did it. I have zero fucks left to give.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:32 AM
17

That's great to know! At least it would give a little fighting chance, until they ban it, like they've done in France.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 09:26 AM
124

Yes, and men will be blamed when they don't want commitment in relationships as usual.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 07:47 AM
14

If this bill passes, the courts will be swamped. Also, how could she prove who is the father without DNA test and that can't be done while still pregnant.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 07:45 AM
19

They can't decide who can be called "woman" without offending some nutjob feminazi, so they just went with "people".
/r/MensRights08/07/22 07:41 AM
3

matronizing, womansplaining
/r/MensRights06/07/22 09:04 AM
7

You are one.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 06:19 AM
4

It's genital mutilation without your consent. You should be old enough to legally consent to it or have genuine health issue that requires it. It's a massive shock to babies during and after the procedure for no good reason.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 06:19 AM
40

Plain-Jane boss lady needs a good servant to clean her plumbing regularly and make all her wishes come true while being a GQ model neurosurgeon. Line up gents.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/22 08:24 AM
2

Sounds like a plan! 🤣👍🖐️
/r/MensRights26/06/22 10:43 PM
-1

Amen
/r/MensRights17/06/22 10:28 PM
3

Imagine posting this on some feminist subs....
/r/MensRights17/06/22 09:15 AM
34

You - as a husband - are told by society to compromise, that it's your job to make your wife happy and comfortable. You don't hear the same thing shoved down on women's throats. They are ridiculed by society if they make you even a sandwich. What's the result? Entitled, nagging wife and broken spirited husband.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 06:19 AM
3

You are right. The only thing is that OP clearly doesn't want a relationship, just some post-nut clarity in his life.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 11:24 PM
17

Just hire an escort. You get professional service, exactly what and how you want it without all the BS that goes with casual dating. Clean in and out.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/22 09:23 AM
1

Poor child. WTF is wrong with people? I'll never understand this. I have small children and reading articles like this makes my blood boil. Life sentence? Good. Unfortunately the damage is done to the child and it will be extremely hard to help with the trauma these fuckers caused.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 10:01 PM
2

Respect!
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:08 AM
8

LOL, stating the obvious.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 11:18 AM
4

You have already taken your first steps by recognizing the issue and writing this post. You are already ahead of many of us in the first stages because most of us we were blindsided by the divorce/separation. You already know the problem so start planning your moves to achieve your goals, freedom and happiness. Be strong!
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 10:27 AM
2

You are way too young. Don't let anyone pressure you into this. Dump the bitch and get another girl.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 11:31 PM
16

The false accusation of you cheating was enough to know she was cheating on you. Classic projection. Doesn't mean much in court though.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 03:48 PM
2

I think it's a great idea. Either just to go out somewhere to take his mind off of the whole mess or to hear him out.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 06:42 AM
11

Feminists don't care about facts, unless it supports their agenda.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 09:41 PM
2

Try therapy. It helped me work through my negative emotions. Start exercising or do something you used to like before. Just know this.... it will get better, much better.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 06:35 AM
5

Thanks OP for this excellent post.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 10:15 PM
1

This is a great post from u/pegleg_legal
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 10:07 AM
2

You might be reasonable about dividing the assets but be prepared that she will want it all. Also, hide some of your assets before the talk, just so you have some emergency funds or something to fall back on if shit hits the fan. Also, record everything, set up CCTV cameras and treat verbal agreements nonexistent. If it doesn't have a paper trail, it didn't happen. Protect your against false accusations at all costs.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 08:53 AM
2

Your ex seems to have a mental episode which should be checked out. It's not your job though. Stop funneling money to her because you are just enabling her behaviour. Get a lawyer and try to get custody of the children. When she will try to ask you to let her live in your home, do not allow it. If she moves in you can never evict her and you'll be stuck with her madness. Record all interactions with her because she is clearly instable and you don't want to be falsely accused of anything.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 01:56 PM
5

Of course, everyone is welcome here, we are just trying to support one another. We are all human. Best of luck to your son.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 05:25 AM
6

I'm sorry OP, but I have to rip off the bandaid for you. She probably already found someone and that's why she needs you out of the way. You will find someone else too, so don't panic. Things will get better.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 05:10 AM
7

Don't worry OP, you are doing great. The emotions you feel are completely normal and healthy. We all went through it. Things will get better. Go to therapy to make sure your negative emotions don't overwhelm you. Try to find a hobby to take your mind off of the divorce process and to make you happy. And now the ugly part: Do not leave the home where your children live because she can say in court that you abandoned them. Get a lawyer and make sure she can't relocate them either. Be prepared for …
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 05:04 AM
32

I hear you. My ex financially ruined me and is still actively trying to make me homeless so she could get full custody of our children. Shit doesn't just end with the divorce. "Ball and chain" is an excellent metaphor.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 05:49 AM
2

They must be really running low on human resources. All the donated weapons are useless without anyone wielding them.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 04:39 AM
3

It's one thing that they can afford them and another if it's worth the trouble. Anyway... Have a lovely day.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 10:23 PM
1

There are so many options, such as concubines, escorts, sugarbabes and so on. Why limit your options to only a few then? The same ones over and over? What happens when they age? It makes no sense to marry them.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 10:08 PM
2

I'm not sure that it's a good thing. Four wives, four times the burden. I don't think it's worth the trouble.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 10:02 PM
23

It's normal. Disregard them. They have no proper counter argument for you so they attack you in a way they think they can hurt your feelings. Just say that you just wouldn't fuck them specifically because you have higher standards.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 09:55 PM
4

That poor boy would have a horrible, hate filled life.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 11:47 AM
4

How about you just live your life and don't worry about what other people think, especially feminists. They actively hate your entire gender. So why bother?
/r/MensRights22/03/22 12:47 AM
2

She didn't want you then so she doesn't want you now. She wants your status. It's called monkey branching. She'd be with you until she finds someone more famous/rich and take you to the cleaners. Stir clear like the plague. /r/dontputyourdickinthat
/r/MensRights11/03/22 06:11 AM
114

Dead men don't complain.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 10:42 AM
13

Strong FDS vibes there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 12:19 PM
6

Let me explain it to you. You alter facts in order to better suit your agenda. You don't realise that once you get caught out on your lies, anything you say is worthless. You are worthless, since you are only as good as your word.
/r/MensRights03/03/22 06:31 AM
8

Stop whinging Karen. Your point is deeply flawed therefore it is rightfully ignored. You actually point out why feminism fails long term. It can only survive under ideal conditions and will crumble as soon as conditions worsen. Also, why would I or anyone go to fight and die in a war to protect you? Many men and women stayed in Ukraine to fight but the ones who wanted to leave should have had the option to do so, regardless of age or gender. You don't know their backstory. They might be from a m…
/r/MensRights03/03/22 06:26 AM
11

You have my absolute respect.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 09:50 PM
9

You are trying too hard to overcompensate your perception of masculinity. Like when homosexual men try to be overly feminine. I think the term is "flaming gay". You get the picture. You went in the opposite direction. You try too hard and it clearly shows.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 09:35 PM
7

Haha, so wrong and so delusional. You can't pull this shit off even on a dating site.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 09:27 PM
10

I took a quick look.... 22 days ago you were "38 years old". Edit: This shit gets even better. And you are not even a man yet.... Just transitioning. How about you sit this one out. You can't call yourself a man and clearly no clue about the difference between 30 and 38.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 09:10 PM
12

Oh wait, so you say women are strong, independent and equal in every way until shit hits the fan, aka. a war breaks out, then suddenly you are ready to stay in the kitchen and flee to safety and need protection. Isn't that fucking convenient...
/r/MensRights02/03/22 09:07 PM
8

Suddenly not a feminist, are you. If I had to guess based on your comment, you are a middle aged bitter SJW female, most likely vegan and definitely a feminist. It's not your life that's in danger. Feminism stops when you need to take on dangerous responsibilities. Feminism is only loud when it demands more privileges. STFU.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 09:01 PM
44

She makes $162k a month? WOW. I don't feel sorry for her now. It's just a side effect of her career choice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 07:46 AM
2

If you haven't started a formal separation/divorce process when she took your daughter "on holiday", you are fucked. Get a lawyer immediately. She CAN do this unfortunately. It's a real scummy move. My ex tried to do the same. She went to a lawyer who suggested her going somewhere with the kids without telling me and then file for separation. This way we are joint custodians in the eyes of the law and we would have decided "together" in the relocation. My ex was smug enough to rub it in my face …
/r/MensRights22/02/22 06:04 AM
10

Don't be naïve. You must protect yourself from false accusations. You must prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/22 06:02 AM
10

Set up cameras in the house to protect you from false accusations as a start. Things will get vile soon enough. Best of luck to you and your daughter.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/22 05:53 AM
8

Holy shit, my man. I thought my ex was a psycho, but I was clearly wrong. Best of luck to you and keep us updated!
/r/MensRights05/02/22 07:07 AM
1

Absolutely, I totally feel the same way. I'm sick of the mindless conversations about subjects that I am completely disinterested in. I just feel that it's just not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 11:24 PM
21

Please do. We'll wait.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 08:39 AM
35

"all and all I would have given him everything" Obviously not. No intimacy, turn down the dude most of the time, refusing to sign prenup. She was obviously after the comfort and money, nothing else. He dodged a massive fucking bullet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 03:39 PM
10

Someone's gotta pay the bills I guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 10:08 PM
5

Good dad. Completely reasonable and logical argument on his side.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 08:21 PM
9

They went back on it, publicly apologized and are updating the rules in women's favour so she did reach her goals.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 08:17 PM
7

Because they strive for dominance/supremacy, not equality.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/22 11:37 PM
2

Not really ppd with all the official apologies.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/01/22 11:36 PM
4

Yeah. Our small children are the true victims. They've done nothing wrong and they have to suffer.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/22 06:21 AM
21

You would have to listen to so much bullshit to even get to the pump part that it just wouldn't worth it. You run as soon as she open her mouth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 02:27 PM
3

Also, kids between 2 and 4 throw insane tantrums. It's a phase.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 05:32 AM
2

And she does it proudly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/21 11:46 AM
1

F
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 09:31 AM
5

Try to find a hobby. It took me a while just to remember what I liked to do for fun. Learn new skills or just try out random things that sound interesting. There's nobody to hold you back. You might be able to buy a cheap campervan or RV and travel if that's your fancy. The world is your oyster, brother.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/21 11:45 PM
55

She should have sued her mother for being neglectful and not taking the necessary pregnancy vitamins and minerals. Doctors can fix many things but they can't fix stupid.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 07:38 AM
4

DO NOT leave the children. Do not pack your bags and move out. It will go against you in the custody battle. Stay where you are and protect your children. The moment you move out, your chances of becoming a weekend father increases tenfold. Try to get full custody if possible. The court will probably deny it and you'll probably get 70/30 or 50/50 custody. If you move out, your BEST option will be probably 50/50. That's not good enough.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 07:45 AM
1

First of all, set up hidden cameras in the rooms you spend most of your time at home (and where abuse is frequent). If she is bipolar, try to record her abusing your children because that happens often with bipolar people. Get a lawyer and start to stash your money somewhere she and the court can't find it. Stop financing her. Make sure she doesn't have access to your money. Get a journal and keep notes (with dates and times of the incident) of her abuse, erratic/aggressive behaviour. They can b…
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 07:37 AM
1

Gaslighting as part of narcissistic personality disorder. My ex is a pro.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 02:46 PM
1

Women love to project. My ex did and still does the same. I'm still to blame whenever she feels guilty about her neglecting her own children to get random dicks even when they are sick. Like bitch, it's not me, it's your conscience. She accused me so many times of lieing (which I wasn't) and it turned out she lied so many times that she got confused. You can't make this shit up. Anyway, still in custody battle but I can't wait to finally see the back of her for good. However, I will fight until …
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 07:55 AM
2

She was looking for dirt on you. You must live a really vanilla lifestyle if OF is the worst thing she could find about you. Anyway, you are much better off without her.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 02:23 PM
7

Happy international men's day everyone!
/r/MensRights19/11/21 12:02 PM
29

You KNOW she didn't forget her purse by accident. She expected the guy to pay. Since obviously she had her phone with her, she could have paid using contactless such as Google Pay or Apple Pay or transfer money to the dude using PayPal, Venmo, Cashapp or some other way. If there's a will, there's a way.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/21 05:33 AM
2

FML this hits me hard. Stay strong brothers.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 03:08 PM
7

Show her this flow chart whenever she does. You can actually show her how far she got. That should give you a few hours of peace and quiet, aka the silent treatment.
/r/MensRights14/11/21 02:08 AM
19

Women are like wine. A select few age well, on the other hand the vast majority will turn into vinegar. She's the latter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 01:52 AM
5

Dude, you're totally fucked for life if you do this for her. Don't do it! Break up with her if you must but do not be her slave for life! She is /r/NotWorthTheSqueeze
/r/MensRights13/11/21 02:14 AM
2

Wow, that was so satisfying to watch.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 02:03 AM
2

First of all, you are awesome. Your thinking is sane and logical. Your friend is young, but her mentality is toxic. She will attract similarly toxic, insane persons in her life in the future, so just be aware not to get sucked in. 99% of men are completely normal, the same way 99% of women are completely normal. The issue is that the remaining 1% shouts the loudest. Best to stay away from them. You can't make logical argument with stupid people. They don't get it. There's a term (the name of whi…
/r/MensRights12/11/21 09:31 AM
2

I noticed the (wo) part with men, so I assume the same technique can be applied for both genders.
/r/MensRights10/11/21 06:28 AM
5

Good! Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 09:31 AM
5

I thought pussypass is expected/implied by entitled women who are then surprised when they don't get their way or their actions meet the consequences.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 05:46 AM
3

You mean like when they wanna take a huge dump but it's just not coming? That's my favourite.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen31/10/21 08:35 PM
7

I think it just got to the point where it's everywhere and it's annoying. You watch any movie or ad. The guy is usually portrayed as a dumb simpleton who can't do shit or the bad guy, whereas every woman is strong, smart, all around amazing but oppressed. It is clear that real life is different, however it sends the wrong message to the younger generations. They are too impressionable.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen31/10/21 08:31 PM
15

I don't know what they were expecting. Should the guy throw the fight just so she could feel better? Nobody forced them to be in the ring. She lost fair and square. This is the reason why I stopped watching the latest movies. Skinny girl, max 50kg, beating up and throwing around guys 3-4 times her size. Laughable.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen31/10/21 04:36 PM
2

Do military next.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 06:51 AM
15

What a massive difference a makeup does. Anyway, in addition to calling her a paedophile, they should have said she raped the kid, because that's what it was. Statutory rape.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 07:13 AM
1

Block them. Stop all communication and move on with your life. Stay on your course. Work, study and have hobbies. Be you first and if a girl/woman wants to tag along, that's fine. However don't allow her to change you to serve her comfort.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 08:02 PM
6

The fact that you were the stay at home parent (full time carer of your children) works in your favour. If you get a good lawyer, she might have to pay you child support. Lawyers can be lazy, so try to read up on cases similar to yours and don't just agree to see your kids periodically. Whatever you do, say nothing to her, act dumb, like nothing ever happened and put your emotions aside. Also, make sure you stash some cash where your wife/courts can't access it. She already did the same.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 10:35 AM
25

She planned this since before her business idea. That's why she didn't want your name included in it. Best of luck.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 10:28 AM
7

Only if you are a woman. As a man, no. Double standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 10:59 PM
2

Unlucky baby with a delusional and ugly mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 02:02 AM
1

This is where "participation awards" lead. People want a trophy even if they are not the winners.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 01:59 AM
6

Yep, this will always get a pass (and an upvote).
/r/PussyPassDenied19/10/21 10:07 AM
3

Exactly!
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/21 12:47 PM
11

Or simply she no longer wants him because she got bored of being with the same guy for so long. The spark was gone and she decided to "open their relationship". Probably the guy said "FU hoe" and that was the end of their relationship. Midlife crisis affects both genders and it can be devastating for the other party. I was one of those other parties.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 06:54 AM
2

This is the way.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 07:14 PM
2

You may be right. It's funny how the sentence can be interpreted both ways.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 06:22 PM
46

She looks like your average modern feminist.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/21 06:15 PM
19

Of course. Over 78% of homicide victims are male worldwide. So STFU. Sauce Edit: apologies if I misinterpreted your comment. My bad.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 04:04 PM
5

That's how media portraits these lately.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 10:15 AM
3

Great job, thank you very much!
/r/MensRights04/10/21 10:38 AM
23

More common than you'd think. Maybe without the last slide. We just try to suck it up and move on.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 05:49 PM
1

😎👍
/r/MensRights22/09/21 07:16 AM
27

If you believe in equality then you are egalitarian, not feminist. Your gf on the other hand is toxic feminist. It's a big fucking red flag. Big as China.
/r/MensRights20/09/21 10:31 PM
7

Absolutely not! I would be ok with casual dating or fwb, but that's it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/21 09:24 PM
12

Nope.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 01:17 PM
-12

Can we add Rudy Giuliani and Trump to the list?
/r/PussyPassDenied06/09/21 12:26 PM
1

Any cut flowers rot eventually. Potted (live) flowers are different. Also good present is marijuana, followed by any type of massage/spa treatment. I wish I knew earlier how amazing a face/scalp massage felt (high or not). I used to get full body massages before and dismissed facials and head massages for them being too girly. I was wrong. They are way better than I thought.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 08:57 PM
5

You are in for a rude awakening. You need to look out for yourself first and foremost. She will do the same. Most likely your well-being will never be a priority to her. If the roles were reversed, she wouldn't help you. I was like you until once I had to be signed out of the hospital after a surgery and my ex said it's none of her concern. I didn't have anyone else available at that time. She was free, but didn't even want to lift a finger for me. I had to beg my boss to pick me up. That was a …
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 09:12 PM
2

Wow. WTF did I just read? Pure poison. You can't ask your wife for ANYTHING because then you are a male-chauvinist asshole. Express your worries and you are a cancerous tumor? MGTOW!
/r/MensRights03/09/21 08:28 PM
0

LOL, all I remember that at that time every men on Earth wanted to be in Tommy Lee's place.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 08:15 AM
20

Nope. The men's role traditionally WAS to protect their women the same way women's responsibility was to be a housewife and mother to his children. Today's women are strong and independent, therefore don't deserve special treatment. They should be able to protect themselves. CHILDREN and elderly need protection because they are vulnerable. Based on age, not gender. You can't have a cake and eat it too.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 06:37 PM
2

You are delusional.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/21 10:08 PM
3

If he didn't love her he wouldn't have cared if she cheated. He took revenge for ruining their marriage. The visa sponsorship was based on their relationship. Without relationship why keep the sponsorship?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/21 09:10 PM
4

No. He probably loved and trusted her until she cheated (so she didn't love him) and as a result he no longer trusted her. Their relationship (and marriage) was over. He went through a lot of trouble for her to be in the country and she took it for granted. It seems like her lack of foresight met the consequences.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/21 08:51 PM
4

In my case it feels like the death of the love of my life. You go through the stages of grief just like you are mourning a loved one. It gets better with time but doesn't truly goes away. The biggest problem is how someone you loved turns against you to gain full custody of your children. I couldn't give a crap about any of my material possessions, however I couldn't imagine my life if I couldn't see my children every day, just intermittently. That's when things get really bitter and rotten. I'm…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/21 04:15 PM
11

Sounds like you dodged the bullet with that one.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/08/21 06:36 AM
8

Yeah, my thoughts exactly. You make it clear from the beginning that you'll go Dutch, so ther will be no awkward moments during the date and weed out the gold-diggers and freeloaders. Excellent idea.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/08/21 06:35 AM
1

Screw you, I can't unimagine it now.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/21 03:52 PM
8

She looks 40, not 24.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 08:53 PM
9

No. He beat people who abused his child. Regardless of gender. Equality-style. Fuck off feminazi.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/21 03:53 PM
1

It's definitely /r/pettyrevenge material
/r/MGTOW201/08/21 07:48 AM
4

Most insurance companies offer road side assistance. She could have already called it. Or her husband/boyfriend. Why am I expected to stop every time I see someone on the side of the road?
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 06:54 AM
3

Her delusions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 06:49 AM
5

I lived together with the love of my life for years before proposing. She was amazing in every sense of the word. I finally decided to ask her to marry me. She said yes so we did. After getting married I lifted her up. Helped her with her studies, taught her to drive, prepared her for interviews and so on. Slowly but surely she was less and less satisfied with me. No matter what I did was right or enough. I worked 2 jobs to support our family so I was away most evenings. Then covid hit and I was…
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 11:33 PM
5

Many women completely change after marriage. You only realise that you "bought a lemon" once already married (if you realized before, you didn't marry her) and then you are already fucked. Like this guy and the crazed wife with the Joker-smile.
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 11:06 PM
3

It didn't bother anyone until it was only the men being forced to kill or die.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 10:20 AM
12

This. This is gold. Thank you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 05:42 AM
2

Same here. Such a sad statement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 10:37 PM
8

I did.
/r/MGTOW204/07/21 01:34 PM
4

I actually sent her a thank you email because she deserves it. You guys should do the same.
/r/MGTOW204/07/21 01:34 PM
1

That was a rollercoaster of WTF.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 08:52 PM
2

Hahaha! Love the name.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 06:39 AM
30

I wish I heard this advice 15-20 years ago.
/r/MGTOW214/06/21 08:13 PM
1

Don't be afraid to experiment. Use recipes as guidelines and tweak them. Feel free to add more spices, especially garlic and pepper to meat dishes, swap white with brown sugar for sweets or whatever you want to try. I usually feel that most recipes shared by bloggers are bland, so they need a little kick.
/r/MGTOW213/06/21 03:30 PM
72

Double standards. You should have known that when your GF wanted to open your relationship, she just meant that SHE wanted to sleep around while you should have stayed faithful.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 09:08 AM
13

Same here, 14 years. I couldn't get used to the power trips and gaslighting. Such a mindfuck.
/r/MGTOW205/06/21 01:19 PM
0

I kinda need more context. I couldn't hear what was said. Did she call him the n word? If so, then well deserved. Otherwise I am not sure. She sure invaded his personal space but there's just not enough information for me to judge who was in the right or wrong.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/21 07:37 AM
2

That's correct. Nothing I did was good enough, among other issues. Living with a woman who has NPD is fucking difficult. A dream turned into nightmare.
/r/MGTOW231/05/21 04:26 AM
20

You supposed to eat healthy. Fruits, salads, white meat (chicken breast has the least flavour, so eat that),steamed fish, no salt, bland flavour, etc... Eating red meat is a big no-no. You'd enjoy it too much. Can't have that. Possible problems with the current dish: Steak - Red meat Bacon and butter - high fat, cholesterol and salt Potatoes - too many carbs Asparagus - your piss stinks At least this is what I would have gotten from my ex. This list is not complete.
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 09:10 PM
2

The rest were quite standard. Ugly, entitled, delusional with the communication skills of a 5 year-old. There was no surprise there. She kept losing me at each twitch. She reminded me of Tweek from South Park. Each time I drifted off and thought what if this person would be my colleague.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/21 05:14 AM
1

3-4 for starters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 07:52 PM
3

Why was her head twitching while speaking? Was something genuinely wrong with her or she was just adjusting her hair?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 07:06 PM
2

Cat. Not a dog. Dogs are awesome and deserve better than her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 06:49 PM
20

You did the right thing brother. You went your own way.
/r/MGTOW222/05/21 07:04 PM
29

Cats. She needs cats. There, problem solved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 01:58 PM
6

I assume she won't go Dutch on the dinner bill either... /r/NotWorthTheSqueeze
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 07:29 PM
0

This is /r/Anarcho_Capitalism or /r/ABoringDystopia material, not mgtow.
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 01:09 PM
4

You can thank feminism for that. It will take some time until true gender equality will be the norm.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/21 04:13 AM
7

They hate men so they'll find ANY reason to bitch, complain and belittle us. I like to call them out on their hypocrisy then smile and walk away when they lose their shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/21 04:10 AM
1

Morally no, technically yes.
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 01:23 PM
2

Having children gives my life purpose. I love them more than anything. Even though I had a shitty marriage with a very bitter end, if I had to start over I'd do it again just for the sake of my children. My ex can burn in hell for all I care but it was worth it for them.
/r/MGTOW202/05/21 01:22 PM
1

Greystones in what country?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 09:59 PM
2

Great. Please don't tell her.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/21 08:17 AM
12

Awesome story! It's also worthy of /r/pettyrevenge
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/21 05:25 AM
14

Jealousy and self esteem issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/21 07:52 PM
5

No acronym, no emojis. Right... No double standards whatsoever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 09:08 PM
6

Thank you for your question OP. I would not date any women seriously until my children grow up and leave the nest. I have serious trust issues with women thanks to my ex. I wouldn't allow anyone in my children's life, regardless of her having any children or not. Quite a few of us here have gone through hell during the separation/divorce and we've realized not to burn ourselves ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/21 09:06 AM
11

Female logic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 07:50 PM
17

No, a friend from highschool years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 06:01 AM
1

Well obviously that's all she was for the 3 kids' dad(s).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/21 06:57 AM
2

She is ugly. So ugly. Her potbelly is so big it hides her hips . This should be /r/ChoosingBeggars
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 05:56 AM
6

Such hostility
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 05:43 AM
2

That was fucking brilliant!
/r/FeminismStopsWhen07/04/21 05:37 PM
-1

You are completely wrong. If Arabic women work, they get to keep all their earnings, they don't have to provide a single dime for their own family. The husband is expected to take care of all the household financials, including all the necessities for the wife (even if she works). If he fails to provide, he can go to jail. Even if her own kids starve to death, she cannot be forced to pay for their food. Yes, there are certain laws to curb female hypergamy and protect men who might have to leave …
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/21 03:45 PM
2

They can easily get away with it. Once I saw my ex's dating app by accident. She had over 700 unread messages within one week of being registered. They can do whatever the fuck they want. Even the fuglies will have options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/21 05:15 PM
1

And statutory rape. Those terms only apply if the genders are reversed.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/21 05:48 AM
4

Well, the guy has lots of alternative choices... just find a flap anywhere. Land whales are not limited to the three primary options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 09:43 PM
9

As long as they have chemistry...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 09:19 PM
2

Water park or aqua park/center, depending on country.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 01:47 PM
1

Perfect! I'll save this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/21 08:01 AM
2

But that would be too easy.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/21 06:28 AM
5

Wow, what a train wreck.
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 04:48 PM
6

Yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 11:45 AM
1

Great, thanks
/r/MensRights04/03/21 02:08 AM
1

I try to check in out, but the sub is locked.
/r/MensRights04/03/21 01:07 AM
1

I need Ajax, or eyeax after this
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 12:41 AM
2

You are exactly correct. That's why she is my ex. It's just sucks so much. These should have been the most beautiful years of our lives. Instead, I'm trying to balance everything so our children won't know how my ex fucked everything up by being selfish and "trying to find herself".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 08:20 PM
1

I would add some cheese, cream and garlic and pop it in the oven. Yours looks very healthy!
/r/MGTOW202/03/21 11:04 AM
4

WTF happens with women after childbirth? My wife went crazy, my friend's wife is going crazy. It's like they get midlife crisis soon after the baby is born. They ruin their families' lives by wanting to find themselves and "explore their options". I don't get it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/21 10:50 AM
1

My thoughts exactly!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/21 03:11 PM
9

MGTOW got me back on the road to exercise after my relationship breakdown with my wife, and so much more! I am thankful to this movement, I wish I found it much earlier.
/r/MGTOW222/02/21 06:32 AM
5

"professional 3rd wheel" wow
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 07:44 PM
1

Daaaaaaaaaaaaaammmmmmmmmnnnnnnnn
/r/MGTOW210/02/21 11:27 AM
0

Oh fuck, I just checked out r/traps. WTF, my brain wasn't prepared for what I saw.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 09:27 AM
1

I guess I was too late for that party.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/21 06:08 AM
0

It would be more fitting if she was anti-masker and anti-vaxxer. I feel bad for her kids. That's a shitty way to grow up.
/r/MensRights04/02/21 05:14 PM
3

/r/MGTOW2 The original was suspended.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/21 05:02 PM
1

I rewatched both episodes and you are right.
/r/MensRights03/02/21 06:29 PM
5

I hear you.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 12:39 PM
4

It would not solve their problems. It would only mean that the remaining men have to reproduce with multiple women. Monogamy would be nonexistent or men would have much higher value. At the moment there is an excess supply of men, so we are more expendable, less valuable. Stupid feminists didn't think this through again. There's an old TV series that played with this concept. Sliders - Love Gods
/r/MensRights01/02/21 03:08 PM
3

> I’m the breadwinner, provider, supportive etc. I can’t stand being around her. I'm afraid you are the beta she "settled down with" to provide her with the life she wants. It's not your fault. Be strong. Find your and your children's happiness and stop worrying about her. Disregard her. I know it's horrible, but set up hidden microphones/cameras around the living areas where most of these verbal abuses happen because when (not if) it's time for divorce, you need every possible evidence to suppo…
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/21 08:07 PM
4

Welcome to the club my friend. Don't beat yourself up. It's not your fault. She married you for who you are but now she changed her mind. The exact same thing happened to me after my kids were born. DM me if you ever want to vent or need some support.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/21 08:00 PM
7

Fucking true!
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 07:27 PM
3

Don't bend over to be polite. Just say that it's your life, your decision and they should mind their own damn business. If you are too polite they either don't get the point or keep nagging. You don't have to be rude, but be firm. The only great thing in a relationship is to have kids IMO. That's it. Not the wife, not the sex or intimacy. Just the kids. The sex most likely stops after marriage, so does the intimacy in many cases and with that your relationship is really just cohabitation. But ha…
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 07:25 PM
7

Delusion is a side effect of social media.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 06:40 AM
2

The article made entitled Karen the victim. People need to get over themselves. Stop acting like a child once yau are an adult. The cop was right. You refuse my request? I'll make you.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 07:37 AM
5

In Hungary pedestrians do... like they are fucking lemmings with a death wish. People will walk into traffic without looking around just because it's a pedestrian crossing and because they have a right of way. They don't care that there is a vehicle coming literally 3 meters away and won't be able to stop even with flooring the brakes. You see, who needs coffee when you can just drive a car.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 07:28 AM
6

Probably Big Chief has daughters...
/r/MGTOW219/01/21 07:18 PM
1

Sad but true.
/r/MGTOW216/01/21 01:25 PM
1

I'm one of those people that really try to go my own way. I'm trying to find myself after a difficult marriage. I was lost in self pity and anger but now I couldn't be happier. I know it's baby steps, but I'm redesigning my living space and actively re-embracing my long-neglected passion. My next step will be to be a bit healthier. I'm still a creature of habit when it comes to food and lack of exercise, but I am thankful to MGTOW to help me shake myself off and start my journey to become somebo…
/r/FeminismStopsWhen12/01/21 11:15 PM
1

That's why MGTOW exist.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen12/01/21 04:05 AM
2

Don't be a leech, move out. How can you really "go your own way" if you still hold on to your mother's skirt? You need to go and explore the world. Yeah, it will cost more to have your own place, but at least it will be yours.
/r/MGTOW205/01/21 05:26 PM
10

Fucked up court system.
/r/MGTOW203/01/21 11:22 AM
32

2019?
/r/MensRights02/01/21 07:17 AM
4

I love this reference.
/r/MGTOW230/12/20 07:16 PM
1

Security camera everywhere! She is underage, if they go to the police, you are fucked! You'll go to jail for a very long time and your family will live on your property happily ever after.
/r/MGTOW230/12/20 07:16 PM
1

Thank you. I'd give you a wholesome award if I could. I'll get downvoted with you, but I agree with you so I'll take it. This woke PC culture is really nonsense. It's funny when I read articles about female empowerment, chasing career, /r/FemaleDatingStrategy lifestyle, then other articles about single women in their 40's, freezing their eggs, hoping for a white knight. That's when they meet the consequences of their actions.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 01:21 PM
0

You are thinking of escorts.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 01:05 PM
3

I guess he wasn't really aware of those 126 mistakes, since as soon as he did, he dumped the trash.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 01:58 PM
4

I love my step-kids wholeheartedly. However, when it comes to parenting, the wife will cherrypick the step-dad 's responsibilities and privileges. Trust me, not an ideal scenario. You'll be financially responsible for everything, however you will not have a say in anything.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 01:51 PM
3

Unfortunately I speak from experience. Be careful out there guys, don't buy a lemon. I know I did. And there is no return after purchase, no 10-year guarantee either.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 01:43 PM
5

The analogy checks out, so yeah. I have another one for you. Step-kids are like leasing a new car. You spend shit-ton of money on them every month and yet they are not yours.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 01:37 PM
11

Well, yeah. Imagine the poor guy. It's like buying an overused taxi or rental car. It's still going, but who knows how fucked up it is under the hood. It's better to buy a newer model with fewer previous owners. 126 previous guys? She is a nut-and-go kinda girl. Definitely not a keeper. Her being surprised for being dumped is a perfect example of lack of foresight meeting consequences.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 12:42 PM
3

I know the feeling, went through it myself. Once the anger is gone, it will get better. You'll re-evaluate your life and start planning for your future. Best of luck.
/r/MGTOW223/12/20 12:38 PM
18

That's exactly what's happening with me right now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 08:23 AM
6

Yeah. It sucks to be ugly.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/12/20 09:28 PM
9

That's right, MGTOW!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/12/20 04:46 PM
2

What a train-wreck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/20 08:00 AM
1

Same here. Cheers!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/20 11:57 AM
8

Sex in her mind comes with a price tag. Which makes her what? Please don't say "strong, independent woman or entrepreneur".
/r/PussyPassDenied01/12/20 10:51 AM
6

I could have used this advice 10 years ago. I'm fucked now, but working on breaking free and going MGTOW. The worst is that I raised her offspring for a decade, I can't even ask for a little appreciation or just a touch of gratitude. When I brought it up in an argument, my wife just said: "Why should I be grateful to you? You took on these responsibilities. Nobody forced you." That sentence hurt like a motherf*cker.
/r/MGTOW225/11/20 09:19 PM
13

It's clearly not the US so your constitutional rights don't matter there.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/20 08:27 PM
13

I don't like cops in general, but they are right in this case. Wear a fucking mask is you are asked to. It doesn't hurt, you whiney cunts. You are protecting your fellow human beings as well as yourselves. If the cops call you out, don't be kicking and screaming.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/20 08:25 PM
2

Absolutely brilliant! Love the recent pic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/20 02:00 PM
16

Cats.... LOTS of cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/11/20 12:23 PM
15

/r/agedlikemilk só far unfortunately
/r/PussyPassDenied11/11/20 02:48 PM
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