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Just kinda thinking out loud here. I’m a single dad. I can’t seem to find a third place. My receding hairline landed me an insane job and I am basically set for life. Everyone at work is very old with tons of experience. All my groceries are pickup, and I rarely meet a single mom at the playground that meets my standards. I can download Tinder and find someone to have fun with, but I really just want a relationship at this point. I am terrified of STDs. And I enjoy having deep bonds with someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:58 AM
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I hate Friday nights alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:05 AM
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I’ve gone to a few meetups and it was pretty cringe. I think the idea is right though. Off the top of my head: going to the dog park on nice days and joining a climbing group.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:56 AM
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It really hurts most men. You don’t get the girl you want, just the one that’s good enough. They get so little attention that the second they do… it’s like a drug. Here I sit in my prime and I’m just kinda throwing pebbles into the pond. What’s the point anymore. Even in relationships, it’s going to suck. People are crazy nowadays. There’s no glue left in society to hold things together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:23 AM
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Have a dog and it doesn’t really help. It just adds to the tasks of things to do. Feed. Clean. Exercise. It’s no longer fun when they depend entirely on you. With children, it’s different because it’s a part of you. They emulate and copy your behaviors so you have no choice but to be the best parent possible. Because them throwing a paper airplane and having it hit the fan can be the funniest thing in your entire life. They give way more than they receive in my opinion.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/22 01:10 AM
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Exactly. It’s extremely tough to navigate and I find that most people are labeled as introverts… when really they just do not enjoy being codependent. I appreciate relaxing after work and not having plans. I hate rushing. I hate dates because I can cook/bake better than 99% of the stuff presented.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/22 01:08 AM
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Yep. That home shower water hits different. And that home bed and nice cotton sheets… and you know where everything is. I hate being a guest.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/22 01:06 AM
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Personally, I miss the idea of long term relationships but I hate being in them. They take up so much time and money and I really do not like having someone up my butt 24/7. Having a kid really checks that off for you. You’ll never get a break and you’ll be attached at the hip. You start to appreciate individuality. The hallmark style relationships are always so toxic. People always are banging down the door for more money, more passion, more attention. I am who I am and I refuse to change. All …
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 03:41 PM
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Ya I still don’t see her signing a parenting plan giving you full custody. She would file and win primary custody of the newborn. I was lucky and quit my job to be the SAHD and won. Some times it takes that level of dedication.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 03:24 AM
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I’ll bite. I think legal separation would work and it would actually be something she would agree to. What’s mine is mine, and what’s yours is yours. My xw swore up and down she’d never take a dime from me. Oh boy. As for the parenting plan… there’s no way she would give up custody. She could give you it on paper, but could alway go back to court and get 50-50. As the high earner, you would be paying child support. Legal separation is still a great idea and should absolutely be the norm. There i…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/22 06:14 AM
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I’m guessing there’s a lot of attractive people sitting at home on a Friday. What an efficient breed. They work. They grocery shop. They get gas and go to the gym. And that’s basically it. You’ll find them going to bed early, reading books, or watching a show on TV. It seems like OLD is a mess so… it’s rare you’ll ever run into these people… and I include myself in this category. Very limited amount of outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:39 AM
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It’s 100x easier and there’s no chance of being humiliated/rebuffed harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 08:28 PM
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I’m not a huge fan of approaching people for dates even if they talk to me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:42 AM
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I feel like you should be the one asking for 5k a month? Lmao
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 06:15 PM
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Where I am, income can be imputed, or assumed for their level of training/education/former jobs etc. if they don’t have any, I think it goes to likely wage at an unskilled job like food or retail.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 06:15 PM
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Agree and the forensic accountant is not cheap. You will pay for it all if they find that you are hiding stuff. It’s better to count your losses, whatever the price is. Let it weigh on her conscience, if she even has one. She may feel entitled to it, that’s fine. It’s all Monopoly money and she will spend it all and realize it’s gone forever. When people become millionaires, they’re typically broke in a few years because there’s no income. That is the best asset you can have.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 06:13 PM
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God damn. This is a nightmare. 58%? Your entire existence would be relegated to working and surviving. What a terrible terrible business contract that we got tricked into signing. The whole world is in on it. Our parents, teachers, government, clergy, and most importantly: the media. They all tell everyone to go get married but tell nothing of it's consequences. It's 2022 and people still support this barbaric practice. I can understand CS. It's the right of the child.. but alimony is pure evil.…
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 07:50 AM
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This is rock solid advice and I really needed to read it. I spent (and still do to a degree) so much time worry about what my narcissistic controlling wife would fabricate up in court for her benefit. No, I was terrified. Absolutely. I was an amazing husband and dad and when I stopped taking orders, I was enemy #1. Total nuclear war as declared against me. She hasn’t opened a criminal case, asked for protection orders, or served me a restraining order. Because the family court doesn’t care. Fina…
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 09:05 AM
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please don’t comment on anything ever again, this was terrible to read.
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