CALthe1st Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	What’s the FB dating meta?	Fundamentals	CALthe1st	/r/seduction	13/11/24 08:10 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself. “Hey do you know which cupboard the glasses are in? I need a drink of water”	/r/seduction	03/02/26 05:58 AM
1	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? Bout 6 foot even depending on the shoes, 5’11 at home. The cousin I mentioned is shorter and less attractive facial features (love him to death)	/r/seduction	07/03/25 09:53 PM
1	What’s your best openers in person and on text I’ve been running with statements, but sorta like signalling that she’s gotta qualify herself -on apps. Irl it’s always a situational but say it’s tinder I’ll use this more often than not (and I found it here) “Please be as interesting as you look” Switch interesting out for intelligent, unique, fun, whatever you want	/r/seduction	30/12/24 04:06 AM
2	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? The thing is you probably could Dan Bilzerian style it if you were him but look most 20 somethings aren’t gonna be in that position to put quality notches on the belt but telling yourself to lower your standards is probably not gonna be effective at building your confidence, it’s just accepting that’s the level you’re on which doesn’t have to be true. We love to talk about girls putting out or doing shit for validation and self esteem but don’t talk about guys doing the same. That validation is …	/r/seduction	24/11/24 04:05 PM
1	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? To improve skills and logistical probability of getting the kind of relationships I’m after, is there a better forum for that?	/r/seduction	24/11/24 04:01 PM
2	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? Hey dude guy from another comment back here reading this. You need a community. Church and AA are options and there’s non preachy ways to get a wholesome community, I’m considering Freemasons. You need brothers. Internet forums can’t give you that. Get back in touch with childhood friends and go drinking with them, or people you’re just sorta friends with and try to add to their life and build a bond with other guys. That will help you. Another great way to do that is hobbies, if you have some g…	/r/seduction	24/11/24 08:58 AM
2	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? ThAtS nOt HoW tHiS wOrKs Try explaining things better and maybe you’ll have more credibility goofball	/r/seduction	24/11/24 08:44 AM
2	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? The word you were looking for is self aware. Being humble doesn’t work as well as being aware, and neither does delusional arrogance. I don’t think I’m necessarily better than anyone I just have a different set of tools and different knowledge. Learn not to throw words like that around, idk how many conversations I’ve had with therapists that started with “I think I might be a narcissist”	/r/seduction	24/11/24 04:58 AM
99	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? Everyone in here is full of shit. This is purely anecdotal but I’m gonna spell out for you what I’ve learned, as an objectively attractive guy who sorta has his shit together and isn’t braindead. I have a cousin, my age and he lives in his mom’s detached garage on a couch. He has no job or car at the moment. I went through a breakup in may, have had no real progress in getting back into dating but it’s mostly because of my mindset. In that same time he has banged maybe 25 girls. He has low stand…	/r/seduction	23/11/24 06:03 AM
5	Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭 Bruh quit gatekeeping	/r/seduction	05/10/24 05:58 PM