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Unless she's the sort of girl that would go for it, I wouldn't do it. My biggest consideration is that doing it in class means others might hear, which puts her in a spot where she has to be okay with potentially everyone knowing she is interested in you. Internalized slut shaming could kick in and it will make her turn you down even if she wants to. If you know it's a sure thing and you know she's the type that appreciates grand gestures in public, go for it.
/r/seduction01/04/17 05:44 AM
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I actually asked out a girl before class started. Let me rephrase. I asked out a girl before HER class started. Things were going really great with this girl. She was showing yuge IOIs. I mean, believe me. The IOIs were bigly. However, she was taking up too much of my mental space and I had to focus on my senior thesis. I had just watched the "burn it to the ground" RSD video. I figured, "Fuck it. Let's do this." I walked into her economics class before it started and I asked her out in front of…
/r/seduction01/04/17 04:31 AM
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I'll get this often. I've been meaning to try I'm actually a virgin. I don't even know how to get a boner. Will you... Will you teach me?
/r/seduction01/04/17 04:25 AM
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I'm 27 now. This was me at 23, 24. https://www.instagram.com/p/-GH6EENwXI/?taken-by=ralexanderacosta I literally had the "you look 12" vibe. And when I didn't shave, I looked like a 15 year old going through puberty. I am also 5'7" and I was also on the scrawny side for a long time. I weighed like 135 when I graduated high school. Looking younger has never stopped me. As far as older women go, older women like mature guys regardless. I got a number from a cougar that was a total 9 at a job inter…
/r/seduction26/12/16 12:31 AM
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Even the first time you interact with them, assume familiarity, and act as if you've always been friends. A frame is set from the moment two people interact. The dominant frame is the one that controls how one sees the other in pretty much all interactions from that point forward. Ever wonder why it feels natural to be polite with your grandma but perhaps a little more sarcastic with your friends? That's framing right there. You ever notice how there's a kid in class who is sort of buddy-buddy w…
/r/seduction28/10/16 07:28 PM
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YouTube: Real Social Dynamics and absorb as much of their content as you can. Once you have some good theory, go out and talk to girls. Start simple if you have to: I like your hair. And then walk away or keep walking like you want nothing from her. And then add a bit each time.
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:41 PM
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"Hi. I'm Steve. Do you have Netflix? Ok. Coffee?"
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:39 PM
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I've done something similar and I approve of this method. I've usually gotten pushed. Very few tickles. I basically start a social circle within that social circle and exclude her from it. I'm starting a club and everyone is in it but you. And then kind of bump her out of the circle and put your back to her.
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:36 PM
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I'll meet one and vibe with them, but the next time I see them it's like I have to prove myself again. This was something that I thought was holding me back, too. I got over this when I realized that they felt the same. Their words and actions weren't as free as they were when we were vibing, just like mine, so I figure that they feel the same. I tested this by assuming familiarity. Assuming familiarity stopped their awkward, reserved behavior and allowed me to pick up where is started from.
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:34 PM
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YES! As the top comment says, it's excellent practice. I legitimately used my last quarter in college to test out theories and get reference experience.
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:22 PM
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I agree with the title. My boss is a multi-millionaire in his early 30's. Good looking guy. Tall. Is surrounded by models and acrtesses and models, yet he still qualifies himself to me and displays body language that shows that he cares about what I think. Granted, I think a lot of this respect was earned because I killed it at a party he threw a few months back.
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:20 PM
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What do you mean? What is the "one weird trick"?
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:14 PM
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I was more successful with women before and while i got my braces.
/r/seduction13/08/16 04:52 AM
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I have never, ever, ever, ever seen a girl straight up tell a guy that approached her some fucked up shit like "too ugly". The vast, vast majority of people are diplomatic and will turn you down nicely. Any girl who will blatantly say this is either bitch when they're drunk or a toxic bitch when they're sober and should be thanked for screening herself out.
/r/seduction21/07/16 02:34 AM
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Owen from Real Social Dynamics is a man going bald. He's a master pimp.
/r/seduction04/07/16 01:16 AM
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You need to "practice" and approach girls that you are even mildly interested in. You're going to fail a lot, but those failures are necessary to develop a winning game. Might as well fail with girls you're okay failing with. Granted, I'm a bit of a hypocrite. I don't approach if the girl isn't at least an 8, but I'm also okay with failing with these 8+'s because I'm kind of rad and I know I'm going to tear it up eventually. I'm more focused on my career, atm.
/r/seduction04/07/16 12:42 AM
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Yep. When I learned that women usually make the first move via some kind of passive verbal or physical cue, I've seen an improvement in my game. I got a cougar's phone number without trying after she "opened me up" by positioning herself near me. Learning to read body language, IOIs, and a bit of reference experience makes game a whole lot easier.
/r/seduction04/07/16 12:40 AM
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I think it would be better phrased as "be cool with where you're at but know you can be better and work towards that".
/r/seduction19/06/16 08:44 PM
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Story time: This was a little more than a year ago. There was a total babe that would frequent the campus coffee shop. We were both regulars. She was sitting at a table near mine one day, and I said to myself, "I'm going to go over and see if I can get a number. What should I say?" I figured I'd go with "Hey, how's it going? I first saw you x quarter and I figured I'd come over to say hi." A few moments later, some guy opens her up with that something pretty damn close. Watching my play unfold b…
/r/seduction19/06/16 08:42 PM
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If you knew me, you'd accept it. I'm incredibly arrogant but I am also really into self-depreciating humor and I can take criticism very well so it balances itself out. Often times my very dry "yep" is met with, "You're so cocky!", which leads to jokes and such.
/r/seduction13/06/16 08:19 PM
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That works, but it's not really what I feel like saying most of the time. When it comes to talking to women, I want to feel as relaxed and as open as possible, so I end up saying what I feel like saying as unstifled as possible. "Yep" comes out.
/r/seduction13/06/16 06:02 PM
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A step in the right direction.
/r/seduction12/06/16 08:55 PM
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"Omg, you're so (blank)" "Yep." shrugs
/r/seduction12/06/16 08:52 PM
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You know, it's very easy for me to be very sexual and flirty around some girls and very hard for me to do so around other girls. Anyway, you just have to force yourself to be sexual.
/r/seduction12/06/16 12:11 AM
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Of course you have to consider context, but I run for the fucking hills around drunk women. No puss is worth getting Title IX'd
/r/seduction12/06/16 12:08 AM
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What if she's giving you a little bit from column a and a little from column b?
/r/seduction12/06/16 12:04 AM
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Insta date! Playapeeomp!
/r/seduction10/06/16 10:45 PM
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wear button up shirts without anything underneath. I would disagree with this. An undershirt is helpful for catching your anti-perspirant so that it's your under shirt that yellows and not your nice button up.
/r/seduction09/06/16 12:45 AM
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It's just fun nonsense. It like it because I think it displays interest in an absurd way but tells her that she's being dumped and left with the imaginary burden of raising our kids. I think it works because introverts tend to be imaginative, so playing at the imaginary level is comfy for them. It's also fun.
/r/seduction08/06/16 05:19 PM
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I feel though we need to either match their energy level or just be a little above it. You're right. I learned this the hard way. All the shy girl's I've been with said I was too intense and came off as "experienced". In fact, for the shy girls I managed to snag, "let's go out" was met with a "no" or silence but "come walk my dog with me" works. One girl, when I tried to kiss her, ran away from me. Literally. Later that night, I kissed her (finally). I asked her why she ran away. She said it's b…
/r/seduction08/06/16 05:16 PM
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Be direct. You're filling the air with garbage talk. Worst case scenario, she gets upset that you upheld a boundary. Best case scenario, your masculinity turns her on and she blows you. And let me tell you, it's likely to swing this way. Further, were you visibly tired? Her seeing you tired could mean that she thought she was boring you, so kept on chatting as a way to qualify herself to you. I've done this in the past from her end and I've notice girls do this to me when they can't break my fra…
/r/seduction08/06/16 03:40 AM
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Sounds like she's Tarzaning it to me: wanting to grip the new vine before letting go of the old one. Next time she flirts or escalates, say "I'd be down if you were single". Simple. Now the burden is on her to act and it's a win-win for you: you either sleep better or you sleep better (but with her next to you. wooooo!)
/r/seduction07/06/16 11:45 PM
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You should be like The reason I asked for your number is because I want you to join my band. I heard you play a mean kazoo.
/r/seduction07/06/16 11:42 PM
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What a tweest!
/r/seduction07/06/16 11:38 PM
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Every guy that I know that is good with women is cool af. They offer value and comfort and escalate quickly. If they don't get the girl, they don't even care enough to have to shrug it off. I'm objectively more attractive and higher social status than my friend Brian, but his lay count is higher than mine and has been with more hot girlfriends than I have. He's 5'9", a shitty rapper, and kind of fat but built like a fridge.
/r/seduction07/06/16 04:19 AM
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But 80% of the girls I approach are just so clamped up and awkward that it's tough to escalate without pushing their comfort barrier. I tend to be super attracted to introverts. What works for me is opening with something ballsy + funny. Dominate the conversation and just get them to smile and laugh. A shy girl's main indicator of interest is looking away, smiling and STILL BEING THERE. Shy girls are a little odd in a cute way, I've found, so perhaps say something like, "They key to relationship…
/r/seduction07/06/16 03:58 AM
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Have you been direct and just saying that you're new in town? You could put the burden on them to prove how fun they are and show you all the cool shit around town. You should find the coolest coffee place in your town, become a regular, and befriend the other regulars and staff. I went to a party a while back and one of the staff went with me. Also, once you're a regular, that's some good social proof when people in a cool cafe recognize you and know you by name.
/r/seduction07/06/16 03:51 AM
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I can relate. I'm a penniless college student. I graduate in a week and have two job interviews tomorrow. One is a guaranteed hire, but the other might be a little more income. When I start making money and move out (I only have 7 grand in student debt and 3 grand in credit card debt), I'll be gaming to the moon and back.
/r/seduction07/06/16 03:51 AM
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There is a huge amount of philosophy behind this. I studied philosophy in college and when I watch some of the RSD stuff on YouTube, there are massive undertones of Machiavelli and Nietzsche behind it all. There's a shit ton of existentialism and stoicism in pick up.
/r/seduction06/06/16 09:02 PM
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What's usually happened in my experiences is that it encourages them to commit. I remember a few years back when I was oblivious about game, I barley started a relationship with a solid 9, maybe 8.5 to some but a 9 to me. I remember sitting at a bench and she sees me text a girl I was seeing not even a month ago, "Holla, Linda." [Spanish for something like "Hello, lovely"]. She minorly lost her shit and I, being an oblivious douche, framed it as her problem - "I'm in a relationship with you. You…
/r/seduction06/06/16 07:28 PM
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I just don't know how you do it solo? Just do it. I'm a natural introvert, so this is nothing at all for me. Just do it. It's whatever. I prefer to do it by myself, actually, because none of my friends have game and they'll just end up ruining it for me. I actually had to ditch my friends at a party.
/r/seduction06/06/16 07:05 AM
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Asians tend to be racist but from my experience Asians tend to hate other asians for being the wrong kind of asian, so don't take it too personally. :p
/r/seduction06/06/16 06:44 AM
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The irony is that I think that the beautiful indian girls I come across tend to be darker skinned. breathes heavy
/r/seduction06/06/16 06:41 AM
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Be clear from the start. Let her know you're dating other girls.
/r/seduction06/06/16 06:33 AM
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Yes! It's better to have her feel something toward you than nothing!
/r/seduction06/06/16 06:12 AM
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It's all about building a proportional amount of comfort and value. Too much value and not enough comfort, the girl is intimidated by you and won't go out with you because you "obviously" get girls all the time and she doesn't want to be just another number. The irony is that most people that get into pick up work on building value and then get labeled as pimps when they actually aren't. When you start experiencing this, you'll know that you've reached an intermediate level. Too much comfort but…
/r/seduction06/06/16 06:08 AM
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I just think of absurd shit through out the day. That usually puts a smile on me.
/r/seduction05/06/16 10:11 PM
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It's only weird if you approach weird. If you're cool about it, even if you get rejected, it'll be no big deal to either of you. If anything, you'd be proud of yourself for doing it and the girl will feel good about telling her friends about some guy that ran up to her. Makes 'em feel special n shit.
/r/seduction04/06/16 11:13 PM
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What works on women works on men except the sex is a little different.
/r/seduction02/06/16 05:01 AM
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I'm not going to get into the whole story. That's not the point of my post. Feel free to go through my post history on /r/seduction to piece it together, though.
/r/seduction31/05/16 02:29 AM
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I would have gone silent, but I think it's better to walk away than to be forgotten about.
/r/seduction31/05/16 01:48 AM
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I understand how I could be interpreted like that. I'm a medium olive skinned hispanic guy from LA. Most of my relationships have been interracial: vietnamese girl, jewish girl from Hungary, macked on a black girl last October, etc. I've only dated two hispanic girls despite hispanics making up like 60% of So Cal. One of my current crushes is an indian girl named Dara, so haawt. bites fist
/r/seduction30/05/16 02:38 AM
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You just have to tell yourself to go fuck yourself and do it anyway. Everyone that isn't naturally good with women starts this way. I remember my first approach. I was about 20 and I hid behind a display case for a little while trying to find courage. The girl knew I was hiding. She could see me. We were the only two in the store. I came off way creepier than had I just gone in and approached. After a while, I got to a point where I'm more nervous talking to girls I'm not attracted to. I washed …
/r/seduction29/05/16 09:15 PM
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Perhaps it's just not my style to need to crush someone else's frame and take take take I think you're looking at this wrong. It isn't about crush someone and "take take take" but rather to show throw their perception of you as a lame guy off and show that what you have to give is worth their time. She's pre judged you to be a certain way, so she's not willing to take what you're trying to give. This is not about taking, but about proving value. but I feel like this video is an example of why wo…
/r/seduction29/05/16 09:00 PM
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Great video!
/r/seduction29/05/16 04:09 PM
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I'm going to trust infield footage rather some blog post.
/r/seduction29/05/16 04:07 PM
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I brought it up because it's unexpected. Honestly, I was most surprised about his height and weight the most.
/r/seduction29/05/16 04:05 PM
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You have to feel in the moment. The thing about attraction that keeps me going is that it can be switched on and off within an instant. If she liked you once, then she can like you again. All you have to do is get her to show just a couple of good signs and use that as a reason to keep going. The more experience you have to this sort of thing, the better you can gauge it for yourself.
/r/seduction29/05/16 04:05 PM
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Something that has worked for me and I found to be ultra smooth in the past is starting off light with mild, sexual innuendo. I then say something like "I'm not being too dirty, am I?" or "Sorry if I'm being too dirty :p". The response is something like "No, you're fine." Make sure you know she likes you before going this route first unless you want to take a big risk. If she isn't giving you overt signs that she likes you, just by her sticking around and continuing to text you is usually an ind…
/r/seduction29/05/16 03:53 PM
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I think so. You may have to train your self some social skills there. I like this video because RSD Todd shows that being an awkward need can still get girls if he can keep the interaction fun for the girl. Granted, Todd is an attractive man, he does super heavy up the nerd. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7D-CuuiDMzY
/r/seduction29/05/16 06:50 AM
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I haven't read it but I do plan on reading over the summer. I'll check out Seneca.
/r/seduction29/05/16 04:27 AM
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This is how I am going to take any and all compliments from now on.
/r/seduction29/05/16 03:35 AM
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I misspoke when I said data. I made it seem scientific. What I should have said was surveys. But I do have a lot of first hand experience with shoes and getting compliments form women. It's often a starter for ballsier women. I'll just be sitting down, drinking my tea at Starbucks - "I like your shoes." I just got these off a quick googling right now. http://www.menshealth.com/style/she-wishes-youd-wear http://www.ties.com/blog/10-things-women-find-most-attractive-in-mens-style
/r/seduction29/05/16 02:46 AM
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Interestingly enough, I did leave after about 15 minutes to show that I wasn't needy. I said, "If you leave before I come back, say bye to me, understood?" Oh shit. Upon retrospect, I meant it playfully, but I used a serious tone and I think I might have come off as controlling.
/r/seduction29/05/16 02:42 AM
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I made an edit just now: Machiavelli's Prince teaches us that vibing with anyone means to avoiding pre-determined rules for action which refers to being in the moment. An example of this is things like "I want to be a cool guy so I am only going to do cool guy things". Nope. Sometimes you gotta be a goof or whatever. To stick to some identity or rules of action guarantees that you won't be in the moment because being in the moment means you have to be who the moment needs you to be if you want t…
/r/seduction29/05/16 01:28 AM
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$$$$ that's the only way average or below average men can go for women above their league. It's not the only way, but it helps. Money is just a status thing. There are other ways to build status: socially dominant, an entrepreneur, a talented musician, someone who is true to themselves, being a little mysterious. Different girls respond to different things. Some girls will be repulsed by a guy who only has wealth going for him. Some girls don't give a shit if you're a rock star or if you're on T…
/r/seduction29/05/16 01:13 AM
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Interestingly enough, my favorite philosophical texts are super helpful when it comes to game. Machiavelli's Prince. Prince is easy to read, short, and chalk full of ideas that help in life and in game. The main take aways from that text is that you have to more or less throw out your identity, or, I should say, ego. Different situations require different solutions and you have to be able to be the person those situations call for, even if it means putting aside some of your reservations. For ex…
/r/seduction29/05/16 01:09 AM
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This is true even in middle school and high school. In middle school and high school, my buddy Brain was the big man on campus. He is a solid 6, chubby bit sturdy, but he was cool af and he was an amazing soccer player. He dated hotter chicks than I did and slept with more girls. He was a super cool athlete. He wasn't a looker, but he did haves status as a) a cool guy and 2) an athlete. I was an athlete (I played soccer with Brian), but I got no play with the girls because I was socially awkward…
/r/seduction29/05/16 12:16 AM
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That's happened before and my thought process is "ah fuck, I look like an idiot, she's walking away, and I'll look desperate if I try to follow her and she rejects me again". This actually happened to me two weeks ago. I approached the girl I like at the store. She said she was in a hurry because she had to meet with her group to work on a midterm project that was due in a couple of hours. She grabbed a snack from the rack and just fucking WALKED AWAY behind the display to the line. She literall…
/r/seduction28/05/16 10:02 PM
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Nice! From how you describe it, it seems like the failure wasn't necessarily with how your approached the situation but that you left too early. I think this situation is salvageable, but it's good experience so that you can try to think of ways of how to handle this in the future.
/r/seduction28/05/16 09:46 PM
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It's tricky for me because I'm super dorky. I actually washed out with a girl the other day because I was too absurd. However, my "cool" shines when we talk about the general themes of life and what makes a life genuinely satisfying. I'm a philosophy major (I graduate this June woop), so I can explain my ideas in a deep and nuanced way that goes leagues, leagues ahead of crap Facebook wisdom. What works for me is going from serious intellectual to absurd dork then back to serious intellectual. I…
/r/seduction28/05/16 09:36 PM
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Yep. That is a problem. if I am with a girl that isn't giving me immediate signals, I give up in my mind from the beginning thinking I can see how this can be a problem and it was a problem for me for a while. The irony is that this stone wall is fragile exactly because of it's strength. It's very hard, but it's brittle. Why is this the case? Because she is actively thinking "This guy is lame. This guy is lame. This guy is lame." She's too focused on "this guy is lame" that any little surprise w…
/r/seduction28/05/16 08:35 PM
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I want to add onto this that it is important to improve the various areas of your life. A guy who is an 8 out of 10 that isn't working on himself will lose girls to the 6 out of 10 that is passionate about improvement. Maybe the 8 can have more one night stands, but he won't be able to keep the girls around.
/r/seduction28/05/16 08:25 PM
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Let me tell you something that I saw on campus two days ago. I saw a short, chubby, neckbeard, indian guy with ugly hair and an ugly beard holding hands and being kissed by a kind of cute, blonde girl that was at least 3 inches taller than him. I saw that. I saw that I was sitting down in the food court and they were waiting in line for Taco Bell. I saw it. Granted, the girl was not the most attractive girl, but she was CLEARLY more attractive than this short, fat, greasy looking, indian neckbea…
/r/seduction28/05/16 07:51 PM
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Obviously you have to read the situation. There is a difference between a playful no and a serious no. But even if it is a serious no, you have to some kind of comeback to reestablish your frame as the dominant one.
/r/seduction28/05/16 04:43 AM
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The best way is to not have a script. Go in, comment on something in the environment, talk about it, take the topic to a logically absurd level. Say she says oranges are her favorite fruit, ask her if she would eat someone's face if it were an orange and then accuse her of cannibalism and if she says no then you can say "well, I guess you don't really like oranges. I guess you're insecure about oranges." And then you can find something in that absurd bit of interaction to find something serious …
/r/seduction28/05/16 04:35 AM
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You aren't peaking their emotions. If I get a number and she's not visibly happy to give it to me, I delete it. If you aren't hitting those emotional highs, then why would she want to hang with a blasé guy? I actually got called out on this once. I deleted a girl's number. I bumped into her a few months later. Had a good time, asked for her number and she goes, "You already have it." I admit, I froze up. I was like, "No."
/r/seduction28/05/16 04:28 AM
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Nah, not worried. But I would definitely encourage her to kiss some random for shits n giggles because I know that she wouldn't. I actually do this quiet often. I'll point out someone conventionally unattractive, like an old man or an old fat lady, and say "That person's been checking you out all night. You guys should fuck." It's fun for the whole family.
/r/seduction28/05/16 04:25 AM
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"Kiss me at every red light" "No" "Then I'll kiss you." "No." "Some body's got to get kissed. Kiss the person in the next to us at the light." A good save would to flip it into a joke. More than likely that the person in the car next to you will not be someone your date is attracted to. Double funny if it's an fat, old man.
/r/seduction28/05/16 04:18 AM
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I wasn't getting laid until my early twenties. I like researching this material because I want to learn what it is that works and what it is that doesn't work. Why women are attracted to me and why they are not. I'm good with women "in general", but I want to be able to tailor my approach for the different varieties of women that exist. I've done totally opposite things to attract different kinds of women. Some girls I have to be a total asshole to, which I hate because I'm not an asshole. Some …
/r/seduction27/05/16 11:01 PM
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Succulent cherry tomatoes, gurrrrl.
/r/seduction27/05/16 09:39 PM
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Playful banter with bits of sexual innuendo thrown in on occasion. "I want to eat you like this salad, gurrrrl. So crunchy and crisp."
/r/seduction27/05/16 04:35 PM
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If you have the charisma for it, I think being the guy that hits on all the girls is a good thing. If you're charismatic, they'll be receptive. If they're receptive, other girls will see that. Those girls that see that will view you as someone other girls desire. If you are seen as someone that other girls desire, then other girls will desire you. Being the guy that can get with other girls and perceived as something of a pimp will help your game because the girls you flirt with will think "This…
/r/seduction27/05/16 03:40 PM
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Your girl there shows all the signs of low confidence girl. Those start drama like hell. I can totally see that. I currently have a clinger on me right now. But hey, make your own experiences, you'll learn that I was right. I trust what you're saying. I'm not going to pursue her because the logistics aren't there, but I wish I could.
/r/seduction27/05/16 03:30 PM
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I get what you're saying. At this point, I want to push through because I want to learn from the potential success or potential failure. Walking away from a girl because of a soft rejection seems unproductive. I mean, I have learned that I failed in the sense that I didn't really get to know her. We talked big ideas and had fun, absurd conversations, but I didn't get to know her life. I know what makes her tick (what she desires, what motivates her, her thought processes), but now how she's tock…
/r/seduction27/05/16 02:40 PM
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These are all excellent points.
/r/seduction27/05/16 04:22 AM
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If you're using Jung's work, have you incorporated MBTI personalty types?
/r/seduction25/05/16 10:57 PM
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I got The Leader. I entered my email twice. Haven't received anything.
/r/seduction25/05/16 08:58 PM
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I wish I would have gotten into game in high school. I studied it, but I only applied it to girls I met outside of school on account of my reserved nature. It's good to be known as a flirt among women! Don't worry about it! Once you're known as a flirt, girls will be okay with you flirting with them because "that's just how he is" and they'll flirt back! If you bang one of them, more girls will want you to bang them. I say this because some guys, I've noticed, are afraid being known as a flirt b…
/r/seduction24/05/16 04:46 AM
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girls are the same everywhere, man. same goes for guys.
/r/seduction24/05/16 03:27 AM
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Having a group gives you social proof. This improves your status in the eyes of others. Simply approach someone who knows of you and your group or approach when your group is around. Heck, knowing that you already have status, you could approach alone knowing that you've already got a social circle to fall back on. People passing by you and just saying hello while you talk to a girl does a whole lot as it is.
/r/seduction24/05/16 02:45 AM
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I think it's important to mix it up. You just can't go straight jester the whole time. Change the mood every so often.
/r/seduction24/05/16 02:42 AM
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Hi. I'm a weird guy. I'm also an introvert. I talk to myself in public, laugh at my own jokes, am confrontational and have an autism quotient of 25 (a score of 26 indicates mild autism). Hi, again. I'm also the shit and slay pussy like a medieval knight. How? I put my weird on display. I'm not weird for weirdnessess sake. I'm not "random" or "awkward" on purpose. The difference is that I massage my weirdness as a source of charisma and I massage it into my intelligence. But how do I do it? Self …
/r/seduction23/05/16 04:14 PM
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INTJ here. Super fucking weird.
/r/seduction23/05/16 04:13 PM
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think it's full of people pretending to be someone who they aren't. Nope. I'm genuine when I interact with women. Girls can pick up fake interactions. You just have to tap into the side of you that the girl responds to. Don't tell me you don't have a fun side, or a cocky side, or a idgaf side, or an intellectual side. You're a complex individual. Tap into the complexities. Why is it that showing emotion in response to being let down or whatever is beta? I don't think showing emotion is beta if i…
/r/seduction21/05/16 07:36 PM
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I am a kissless virgin I'd respond with, "I am very well kissed virgin" if I'm feeling like she'd dig the depreciation or "It's cause I keep meeting girls like you that aren't worth kissing. ;D" if she's into banter.
/r/seduction21/05/16 07:25 PM
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Perhaps make a joke about it? It's not a lazy eye. You're pretty, but not look-at-you-with-both-eyes pretty".
/r/seduction20/05/16 07:29 PM
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The truth but through a diplomatic lens: we didn't share the same values. I wanted someone more ambitious and she wanted someone who was less intense.
/r/seduction20/05/16 07:08 PM
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Odd. Don't question it too much, man. Go with the flow ;D
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:15 AM
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'Cause you're always putting it in the taco? ;D
/r/seduction18/05/16 04:03 AM
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Are you wearing somewhat formal attire fit for an office setting? When I was 24, I got a short haircut, bought slacks, dress shirts, dress shoes, the works... Almost instantly, older women started flirting with me, giving me the fuck me eyes. One tried adding me on snapchat. I would've gone for it but I saw that the background on her phone (she handed it to me) was two little babies. Didn't want to risk the possibility that she was in a committed marriage.
/r/seduction18/05/16 04:03 AM
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'cause you're always putting it in the dumper, right? ;D
/r/seduction18/05/16 02:23 AM
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Which ever one inspires you to act.
/r/seduction16/05/16 03:25 AM
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Social-proofing has been able to turn failing sets into successful sets. Yesterday, I approached a girl in a convenient store at school. I approached her, said hello, she said, "I have to work on a mid-term project with some classmates so I'm kind of in a hurry", grabbed a poptart and then headed for the check-out line. She effectively blew me off, as she had gone around the stand and she no longer sight. I went around the stand, talked to her in line, and I kind of panicking on the inside becau…
/r/seduction13/05/16 02:25 PM
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Non-sense is your friend! Take a point from the conversation or the environment and explore it through a non-sensical lens but keep it relatable. This is especially useful to keep conversations interesting as you can use it to go into and out of serious conversations. Teasing a girl about how dark and fucked up she is leads to conversations about death, which leads to world events, which leads to nihilism, which leads to ice cream, which leads to veganism, which leads to talking about if animals…
/r/seduction08/05/16 11:01 PM
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Pick anything that stands out from the environment. I got a number from a cutie yesterday (actually, she asked for my number), and I opened the conversation with "Aren't you afraid your phone is going to fall?" She was charging it, but the phone was hanging off of the table by its wire. I was at Starbucks one time. A cute girl sniffled, I said, "Are you coming down with something or are you getting over something?" At school, there was a cutie sitting down in the hallway next to a class room of …
/r/seduction06/05/16 06:33 PM
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I read an OK Cupid article a while back that said that looks that appeal to everyone are the least successful while looks that appeal to a niche have more success. I forget the name of the article so I don't know how to search for it, but, in essence, the point was be a little polarizing.
/r/seduction06/05/16 06:08 PM
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From my experience, getting them on your side works. Putting them down to make yourself look good often works against you. Engage the guy in conversation and control the conversation. Get him reacting to you and qualifying himself to you. This'll bump you up in value.
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:59 AM
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Thanks! :D
/r/seduction06/05/16 01:58 AM
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You know she is extremely introverted, shy, was gome schooled and sheltered, had one friend on high school and you ask her out in front of her full class? You're so right. I didn't really think about it until afterwards. What were you thinking? When I asked her out, I was in that "burn the set to the ground" mentality. I was crushing too hard and I was feeling that oneitis coming on. I had to make one last move, but I could have been a little wiser about it.
/r/seduction06/05/16 01:27 AM
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Then we come back to see if we got another shot trying another approach. hahaha Yup. One thing that I realized that attraction can come and go. It can come back after it goes. The way I asked her out may have lead to her saying "no" in the first place. I walked into her classroom and asked her out in front of her class. Kind of high pressure. She's extremely introverted and shy. We got to talking about our pasts. She was home schooled, extremely sheltered, and when she went to public high school…
/r/seduction05/05/16 10:57 PM
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Thank you for your comment. It was insightful. For how long have you been stalling? I just ran into her on Tuesday after months of not seeing her, so I haven't really had time to stall. Did you ask her out, yet? I asked her out 7 months ago. She declined, so I moved on. I ran into her again Tuesday. She was sitting indian-style on the grass, so her pants creeped up when she bent her knee. Not like i was perving over her legs. At this point, I think I have a shot with this girl if I play my cards…
/r/seduction05/05/16 10:00 PM
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Sounds like she's either really shy or really creeped out by you. That's my predicament. There is good evidence to go both ways. It could also be the case that she hasn't made up her mind about me. Who knows. Either way you should tell her you like her. I asked her out two quarters ago. However, the way I asked her out is unconventional so I don't think I could've trusted the answer. I walked into her econ class before it started and asked her out. She said no. This was about 7 months ago. I sto…
/r/seduction05/05/16 07:50 PM
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