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But love isn't conditional how you believe tho. Love doesn't just stop because you've become an adult. When we are children, our experiences with the world are heavily filtered by what our parents/guardians allow into our lives, however when we become adults, now it is up to us to filter through what is acceptable for us, and what is not. That's why boundaries are important. I much believe love is a constant, that flows all throughout life, and it's just a measure of how much you love yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:02 PM
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"The man's choice"? If you're in a relationship, you are partners, therefore, things should not always solely end with the man's decision, but rather a consensus And based on your assumption that women resort to emotional manipulation, you seem like you're not aware that there are also healthy, emotionally intelligent women, who are in connections where both ppl communicate, and ladies' respect their partners. P.S. Men are also capable of resorting to emotional manipulation i.e via sex, and even…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:43 PM
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I'm not condoning a woman suck a man dry, but why is a dude called a simp when it is his choice to include a lady in his life, and be in a relationship with her? Spending quality time with your partner through different excursions is what comes with being in a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:47 AM
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Because it's just sex. It's a primal urge within animals, but in our society women are conditioned to cherish their virginity like a gem, and the longer its intact the more she is seen as valuable and worthy of man/marriage/commitment It conditions ladies to suppress their desires all for the gratification and acceptance of others
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:03 PM
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It was very important to me. I'm 27 now, and lost my virginity when I was 26 because I didn't wanna have sex w just any man. "a lot of them Just move on After losing virginity, they arent attached at all to that man. Most of the times they lose their virginity in Ltr with non Chads" ^ that's only true for some, but not all/most, every woman is different, so how do you know how "most" women behave in those situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:47 PM
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I'm a lady who values one love shared between 2 people. My life is already enough by my damn self so trying to entertain multiple dudes at one time seems like nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:47 PM
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And so can a lot of jobs. Cause what job doesn't involve a computer, or machines, nowadays. And yes cause God forbid a woman value her home, and put effort into having a clean, and functional home for herself/husband and kids. It's just really crazy how when women don't do enough they are demonized, for not "bringing enough to the table" and then when they put a lot of effort into simple things they value, they're considered going stir crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:23 PM
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Nothings wrong with those statements. The first one is her acknowledging the dynamic of their relationship and the second seems to be an observation of what that lifestyle has lead to as time went on. It's all a learning experience, so maybe this is OP realizing that lifestyle is not all the best for her. A lot of men make very similar statements, who feel they are marrying the woman of their dreams, but then later have a poor experience, and then talk completely against marriage, and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:56 PM
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Well she's a woman. Ofc a woman is going to relate more to the female experience easier than relating to the experience of men. That's why OP asked the questions, because they are curious about the views of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:48 PM
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Sounds lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:36 PM
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Its not ironic tho. Women don't always benefit from that stay at home lifestyle. For instance, if the lady has aspirations to go to school, make a hobbie a career etc or travel etc, and the dude doesn't have an income that allows her to do those things, thats only limiting her in the ways she desires to develop And if the lady is a mother, her responsibilities are around the clock 24/7, and is not the same as clocking in and out of an 8 hr job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:35 PM
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Usually when people say, "not to offend/judge/be racist", usually the statement that follows is exactly what they say they aren't trying to do. If ur gonna respond why not contribute to answering their question instead of digging, and resorting to personal assumptions about op
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:09 PM
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With a smile, and genuine interest in getting to know me, and letting me know what their intentions are. "Hello, how is your night going? I noticed you over there, and would like to have the honor of getting to know a lovely woman such as yourself"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:20 PM
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Don't let your double standards hit you on the way out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:55 PM
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Or ... or... or.. maybe, just maybe, I'm a 27 year old lady who is cultured and values film from many different decades Cause I seen back the the future trilogy, and the original evil dead many times as well, so are you gonna assume I'm 65 now? You definitely seem too immature to accept a real lady in your life. Because what happens when you settle down with one and shes 39, going on 40? A man who celebrates life, rather than making fun of those who've lived to see another year are the true gent…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:47 PM
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This talk is just crazy to me. Dude you literaly met a woman, who CHOSE to stand by your side, and grow/build with you. With the number of RP men who paint women in a bad picture as if all are gold digging cheaters, I don't understand, why throw away a loyal woman, just for a few good looking girls. Some women who know they are good looking will use that to their advantage, and sometimes play with the emotions of men, just for free drinks/meals, sex etc. why do you wanna risk what you have now, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:40 PM
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Right, the same thing happened with my grandmother. She was the most loyal woman, my grandpa had back in the day, and he constantly had sex with trashy ladies, who were basically prostitutes. He literally thought telling her she is number one was special, when really her being the ONLY one is what matters. I think some dudes like the comfort of what a longterm gf or wife provides at home, but they still desire the freedom of living like a bachelor
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:25 PM
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Right!! And they show it all the time with this constant desire to rate women's looks on that imaginary scale. Always wanting to chase the 10s as if that's the end all be all for life 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:19 PM
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Keep thinking like that and youre gonna end up with a view on life just like OP. Acquiring everything you've desired for years, and still not be grateful or happy. If relationships were truly transactional, there wouldn't be partnerships and marriages that have lasted 20+ years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:17 PM
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Well I'm def a beautiful stunning lady, and it's funny cause you'd never know, cause as John Cena says, 👋 "You cant see me". So what I look like is completely irrelevant to anything here. And as a lady, sir please... I can simply exist and offers come to me, from gentlemen, all the time. So speaking as if I have no shot, just shows you don't know the life of a woman who is desirable to the wandering eye of other dudes. That's why I was counting my blessings NOT being involved with someone like y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:04 PM
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Right!! It's beyond gross n creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:51 PM
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Usually shallowness stems from a deep rooted fear to accept oneself. So, you can have your reasons, but aye! Shallowness doesn't take you to where the long-lasting meaningful connections are with respectable ladies who love and value men. Eventually, Shallow Hal received his comeuppance for the way he was shallow with ladies, and eventually learned status/looks/weight didn't matter, so it's only a matter of time before that external validation goes dry for you. You seem to only base success in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:41 PM
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Vaguely dissatisfied? Sir, you don't know each relationship and what constitutes their separation. And way to discredit ladies as if their feelings in a marriage doesn't matter. And if everything a woman does is simply petty and unimportant, just marry/date men. You literally exist partially because of a woman, but I guess her giving you life is petty nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:28 PM
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That more speaks volumes about the men they were with, than the ladies. A woman who chooses to build with a man is dedicating a bulk of her life to stand by his side, especially when she gives birth to their children. Why would a woman drastically change her body and life, just to bail on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:21 PM
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So based on what you've said, these red pill ideologies you followed didn't truly help you, and it seems like you have based your self worth only on external validation, like money and getting the girl. You'd feel at peace with your decision, instead you're consumed w doubt. A high value man isn't based on how much material you aquire, but rather the integrity of your character and staying true to your authentic self. A man who truly wants to be kept, by one woman will never have wandering thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:04 PM
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I really have a hard time believing a shallow dude like you attracts exactly the women you desire. Cause anyone with a rather harsh mindset about the general population of women is only really pushing them away with negative energy. Unless those girls are shallow too, like you. And it seems like 90% of women in the USA will have shallow asshole boyfriends or husbands who only make things about their looks and weight. It's not a woman's job to look attractive for yall. Imagine you one day have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:59 PM
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Just because you know of a small handful of ladies who hate other girls, doesn't confirm anything. Because dudes talk shit to me about how other men are dogs, but that ain't true for all, only to the ones it applies to. And I really don't care about all the stuff ur saying cause we don't know eachother so why would I give af about how you feel about the rest of the world. Everyone doesn't have to like everyone. If one dude doesn't give af about women, I think I'll live. I really find it hard how…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:29 AM
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Discrediting peoples' opinions by referring to low IQ seems to be very common
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:00 AM
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Appreciate them because it'll lead to more positive experiences with the ladies. In general a lot of men seem to desire sex and relationships with ladies, and if a dude is busy shaming them and fails to appreciate them, all his energy is pushing them away. So how can he expect to have good experiences with girls who do fun things, when they spend their time saying harsh statements about them? Words are spells, and thoughts create our reality And yes I appreciate men, and just for existing. And y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:57 AM
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That's a very interesting take. Any idea on why men seeing ladies as an equal to them is a fear? Cause I have noticed that recently too when it's comes to feminism, and women wanting equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:36 AM
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Right!! I've noticed some red pillers feel that having a special lady in their life is a given, rather than something that is earned through proper respect and acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:25 AM
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Definitely some, but not all. There are definitely women who love men, for who they are, not what they can do. Women don't marry/settle down, have children and change their whole lives to nurture children and supprt their husbands/bfs to exploit them. That's an act of love, that is far from selfishness If what you said is 100% true, we would seize to exist cause childbirth is a selfless devotion. There's no way a woman who cares about her own survival will also go thru life/body altering childbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:14 AM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:22 AM
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It doesn't matter what you can or can't change, but it's the fact that you're so entitled to think a woman has to change for you is crazy, when you could just focus on the healthy women you desperately want. Simple having healthy hobbies aligns you with healthy ppl, period. And if you don't like the lifestyle in America, go somewhere else then, if it's so hard for you to look at fluffy ppl. And no, personally I'd says it's people's attitudes that contributes to the detriment of dating in the USA…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:16 AM
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Yes there is sir. And how many of those elite men, do you think actually let their wives run shit? None. Ever since the inception of the USA, circa 1776, this society has always been dictated by white, heterosexual men, who have made this whole society about rugged individualism (Herbert Hoover/Republican party) money, and heavy work/hustle culture that has only become toxic in modern times
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:07 AM
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Yes because how dare a woman not appeal to the male gaze and look fuckable for him 🤢🤮 Maybe if the dudes took accountability for what they're attracting, then he can attract what he actually wants And men need to stop being assholes to ladies and making everything about their weight, and looks, while also bitching thats its not fair ladies reject them for being under 6 ft/bald/not good looking enough. So according to ur logic should I tell men to grow hair/look better/grow taller? PS: women have…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:54 AM
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A bunch of heavy generalizations here. You don't know most ladies and what they do, sir. There ar approximately 4 billion women on this earth, and you mean to tell me, that you personally know how a majority of them contributes. When youll probably never personally know more than 100 women in your own life. And no need for the sexist nonsense, there are definitely ladies who build roads too and work in construction cause I know of some, and see other ones out on the roads. Plus today, we have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:43 AM
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Not only by men. If you actually research how women have made an impact in this society, you'd see we as the human race make an impact, not only men. But I can see how it's easy to make claims like that when we live in a society that is defined by patriarchy, as that implies the exclusion of women. Casue also how did a man get here, if it wasn't for their mothers carrying them full term, and nurturing them as children?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:18 AM
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How do they not contribute? So many dudes today seem to be personally offended by ladies who claim their independence. And those ladies are working class citizens just like everyone else contributing to this society by paying taxes, treating the ill in Healthcare providing an education to our children of tomorrow, birthing children and taking care of their husands, and yes, even catering to the male fantasy via porn, and sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:14 AM
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Then simple, change the type of ladies you focus on n attract. Easy men only attract easy ran thru women, and not all ladies are like that. Others are classy, respectable ladies, who know not just any man is worth her cookie 🍪😉
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:08 AM
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That's typically what the haters do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:53 AM
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Yes! In real life, they're very polite, respectful and always go out of their way to say hi to me, and wish me a good night/day/weekend But I notice on social media, that's a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:48 PM
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You don't know me, sir. I'm always shooting my shot 🏀 with men, at arcades, parks, bars, you name it, and they love it 😉 but thanks for assuming. And aye! Call it cocoa puff land all you want, but since accentuating the positive has brought positive experiences into my life, then that's a real world worth living in more than a dreary ol' society that makes you believe negative things about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:41 PM
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Says who? This life is meant for anyone and everyone regardless of what someone looks like. Yalls mentality is what perpetuates those negative affirmations Looks isn't what makes relationships thrive, the love and respect 2 ppl have for eachother does As Perry Como said, 🎵 "You gotta Accentttt-uate the positive. Elimate the negative, and latch on to the affirmative" 🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:54 PM
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Submission is a gift Several men want access to women, sexually/intimately/romantically/emotionally And in order for a women to truly offer herself to her partner, she must feel safe/appreciated/respected. Therefore it is the man who must show a woman he is worth her sacred energy, by showing she can trust him. A genuine relationship cannot proceed until the woman is ready to submit to the man. What you described is not submission, but rather codependency and passivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:13 PM
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Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:34 AM
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Or.. or.. or.. Maybe there are also some women who don't like the games Chad's and fuck boys play and actually settle with men because they actually love and appreciate the man who they are with. The world does not revolve around sex and attention, there are definitely ladies who realize their worth and know giving up the cookie to any dude who charms them is just playing in the devils playground
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:44 AM
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Ok sir, I understand what you mean. Ladies and gents have their differences and what we deem socially acceptable for each gender is vastly different, even though those norms may not benefit the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:35 AM
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I never called you an incel, I don't like that word either, so why infer that about yourself, unless you feel that you are one. Just because society has a rigid view of men doesn't mean it's the truth they can't be like that, if anything it hurts dudes more cause it doesn't give them the freedom to cry, or do baisc human things.. and yes dudes do those things you've said a lot.. maybe they don't go out n buy clothes like accessories like women do but that doesn't mean they aret out a spending th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:25 AM
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I don't like that.. when dudes refer to men as weak by comparing them to women, as if a lady is a lesser form of human. You must really have game with the ladies, and get a ton of play
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:10 AM
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It's sclocially acceptable for anyone, regardless of how attractive the dude is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:04 AM
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I don't think they are. Idk your personal life but you just gotta take the risk and accentuate the positive. These situations you've explained have all been ways I've met dudes irl.. like at a bar while dancing, and even at work, and the dude came up to me first or i approached him.. Idk if I'm a millenial of gen z, bit I'm 27, for reference. And I'm just one person, no more special than anyone else, so if it's happening to me, it can happen to any dude or dudette out there. I sympathize with yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:00 AM
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And I won't find anything in those books because books only cite logical information. The whole reason I was asking you was because you chose to use alpha and beta male terminology, and I'm genuinely curious what you feel it means, so i can apply it to ur orginal statement. But if you don't even know, why you are using those words then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:36 PM
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See thats where you're incorrect, sir. You're a man, who does not know what each individual lady desires in a partner. A lot of ladies love introverted men, because some of them are introverted too, and are not about that life of having a huge social circle and extroversion. Some ladies are not shallow and don't value looks. I have a few girl friends whonare dating men, and dudes will actually come up and ask her, "what do you see in him" just because he isn't the most handsome man who fits the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:32 PM
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That's the thing. The internet is not a valid source of credible information. We can look up multiple sources of what defines alpha and beta males, but notice how all the info will vary, because anyone at anytime can go on the internet, and put a bunch of BS, and others accept will accept it as objective fact, without citing their sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:55 PM
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Why is there so many dudes in this comment section who think they know what "all" women want, as if they know, a womans' mind? Just look at the difference in the answers given by women compared to that of men. Ladies know what ladies like, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:48 PM
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If they made a film about a man trying to attract/keep a woman using "Redpill alpha" tactics, that film would be titled, "How to lose a woman in LESS than 10 days"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:41 PM
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All that alpha, beta male talk is a fallacy tho. We as highly evolved animals do not function with that type of hierarchical structure. Based on your logic what defines an "alpha" male, and what defines a "beta"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:37 PM
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Ok but, you're a dude tho. So you don't exactly know what women desire. And the fact that you are resorting to statistics as a general rule of thumb just proves it Because how do you feel about women exclusively telling other men what you all desire? And referring to you as a stat, opposed to an individal with his own desires, goals, and ambitions toward dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:32 PM
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Yess! This comment is 11/10
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:19 PM
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Tbh that whole alpha, beta, omega male stuff is not real. Every woman is different, and I dont think they say to themselves, "I want an alpha", they just desire men who will love them, appreciate and respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:10 PM
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✨️🧚🏻‍♀️ Good day to you kind sir! The more I read your scripture, the more I feel confused. Lad, if you are saying what I think you are saying.. What I said never implied this is only a male tactic. Laddie, all I was doing was sharing a real life experience of when someone wanted to be petty because I didn't not fit their worldview that "women only want 6 foot+ tall guys" And it just happened to be a man, but in no way am I generalizing nor exaggerating, sweet🧁man. Plus, why bring feminism into …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:05 PM
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Or just have a positive mindset, and everything positive will come to you, Instead if being bitter about a woman making her own choice to not want a specific man in her life. And no I don't understand because it's stupid and pointless. It just keeps girls shallow n the dudes bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:58 PM
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Ok then! Then focus on ladies who dont give af about height. It's not that hard. Just accept the rejection, move on, and just have faith that not all women are the same and care about height. Because when I meet men, I never critique them about height. That's childish, because they can't change it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:46 PM
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People form their beliefs about the world based on how their parents/guardian raised them, because the first 7 years of life are our critical habit formation years. And I've noticed a lot of incels tend to have a general gate towards women. So if a man has developed low self esteem while also hating women, then that's indicative of hate/disdain towards their own mother. Because you project into the world the things you internalize at home You can write these long responses to me as much as you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:41 PM
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What in the fvck, did you even just say?? Point blank, period.. you're a man who has a very different approach to dating compared to women. We don't care about odds, like yall do, because dating is not a numbers game for us. As a woman, I can literally exist in a place, and dudes will extend offers. Other girls can relate too, but for us it's a matter of quality and picking a partner who best fits our own personal preferences and how well we click
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:32 PM
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Bro you don't get! If a dude is valued for his height, that's shallow and sad. But i guess at the end of the day, dating is a numbers game for men, so i guess its considered a win if even a girl looks at u cause ur tall. Plus, I don't understand why you're sending me this whole book of info and picking a part everything when I simply do not care about dudes height and how other women chose them. I'm done here, because I don't wanna argue with someone who wants to argue. It's crazy today how the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:07 PM
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That's the problem with people who identify as incels tho. They have a quitter mentality, they lump women together, and assume what women want, and what they don't want, although preference depends on the person, not the gender. That is why no.matter how hard they try, they will be rejected. If a dude has low self worth, and lacks confidence, believe it or not, women can subconsciously pick up on that, and will reject a man. If a man doesn't feel confident, how can he expect a woman to value wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:55 PM
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Yess exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:40 PM
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And why are you asking me this, when idk of all the girls who rejected you and their personal preferences? Just because you guys were rejected by other shallow girls does not mean that it is a general rule that "women only want tall men" or "only tall men are successful at dating" My whole point here is that height doesn't matter, and anyone who focuses on it is just being shallow and is not serious about dating, because anyone who desires real companionship will always value the man for who HE …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:30 PM
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Now sir, don't go putting words in my mouth. You seem to assume that I would exclusively say different things to men and women, but no. I say similar things to girls who also spend their time throwing shade. It's not that I don't lack empathy, but it's silly when dudes wanna blame women for their own sexless lives, and talk shit abou them online for being 304s or whatever you guys are calling girls today, even though those dudes would be down for sex those "304s" are having. It's toxic af And lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:16 PM
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This is exactly what unhappy negative people do. They take everything, pick it a part and always offer a negative take. You can claim you are a realist all you want, but at the end of the day, we are social creatures meant to coexist/bond, and thrive in groups. Ladies are literally the other half of the population, and to be so bitter and cynical towards a general group of ppl who you don't actually know is only doing a disservice to yourself. Maybe if your attitude towards ladies wasn't so nega…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:50 PM
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It doesn't tho, sir. Shallow desires only attracts shallow people. While someone who values character is only attracting other high value people So I guess it's a matter of which table you wanna be at. Cause at the end of the day those long-lasting relationships weren't successful because "he's tall" but rather they last because they love and accept each other, warts and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:51 AM
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But why are you guys making it about shallow physixal things like height? It doesn't matter if he's 6'1200", because serious women desire men who they click with.. someone who shares similar values, sense of humor, and just someone gets who them and loves them. Height ain't nothing but a number. If a lady falls head over heels for a guy who happens to be 5'6, a 6'3" guy who comes along does not matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:40 AM
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But to a woman who values character, height is nothing. And ladies like me don't even notice it like that, I notice the man and his personality, more than how tall he is. A dude's success with a woman isn't measured by his height, but rather his values and character. A dude can be 6'2" and an asshole and treat ladies like they're expendable because he knows he can score due to shallow girls who want a tall dude, while a 5'6" dude may be respectful, and honor a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:30 AM
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Exactly! It's annoying. Ppl are only like that because they are looking for any way to confirm their own personal biases. I recently had it happen where I made a comment about how height on men has never been a huge thing for me, and it was crazy seeing the number of people who had a problem with that statement. Someone actually responded, "date a midget and see how you feel". So I guess not only do some guys get upset when girls only want tall guys, but I guess some get mad when you say height …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:09 AM
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Stats are flawed, and don't represent the general society, and should be considered with a grain of salt. You don't have to be married to have a successful relationship. You definitely seem to be a "glass is half empty" kind of person, because notice how you didn't wanna focus on the other 50% who are married, the other 50% that gave stayed together, and the other 50% that are truly happy. It just seems that you'd rather look for confirmation in all the failed connections and negative things abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:04 AM
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What I proposed can definitely be adovated for through therapy, and self acceptance. Therapy is a very broad subject as you can heal through individal practices like yoga, positive affirmations, and sound therapy that teach you to calm yourself etc. It's the fact that we as a society don't allow men safe spaces to be vulnerable and release their emotions in a healthy way, if we implemented an act that allows safe spaces for men to express themselves and receive access to healthy tips on how to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:52 AM
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I don't think that would help. People use things like sex, alchol and drugs to self sooth when they dont know hiw to emotially regulate themselves. If a guy finds himself wanting sex with a prostitute or any type of meaningless sex with any kind of woman, that's indicative that something deeper needs his love and attention, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:44 AM
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But men have always had their sexual freedom and autonomy, it was the women who didn't. Which is why feminist movements have been happening since the 1800s. The men were the ones who wanted to exclude women from society, and make ladies subject to them, so it's not that feminist women don't want equality, they just wanna take back what men told them they can't do or have, and share the same freedoms. I think the issue is that dudes would rather chase women for sex and resort to simp behavior bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:41 AM
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Idk man! It seems like you want confirmation that most or all women cheat. And yes, PEOPLE do, not just women, or all of them, but men too. Cheating is based on the character of a person, not the gender. I already said its not worth it. For instance, if I'm dating a guy who I'm head over heels for, I'm blind to all other men's advances. For a woman in love, who also respects herself and ppl around her, no amount of money, looks, sex appeal, material things could ever sell a woman to leave what s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:07 AM
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The statement "women are only as loyal as their options" isn't loyalty then, that's conditional love. Are you not aware that men and women around the world maintain healthy, functional relationships? Where appreciation and respect are exchanged. What you've described are people just in situationships. If you wanna get technical what you said can also be applied to men who use women for sex, and treat her like she's expendable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:01 AM
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Being the best man a dude can be shouldn't be based on the lives of other women. If a dude is the best version of himself, and loves his authentic self, that'll attract women who match that mental state, regardless of body count or her dating past
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:53 AM
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It's not worth it. My idea of a relationship is between two ppl who are in love, and grow together. Nothing a guy or girl outside of the relationship can offer will ever be better, regardless of how good looking, or anything material he/she offerers Only when a couple is not in love and loyal to each other is when they venture out and seek attention from others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:34 AM
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What you explained isn't loyalty, that's just conditional love A woman's loyalty is not measured by every guy she's chooses to ignore on social media or irl. Her loyalty is measured by her respect and appreciation to her man, herself and their relationship A REAL loyal woman will not throw away what she has with a man just because something she deems more good looking comes along. She stays with man because what they share together is special, and no one no matter how good looking, is worth thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:45 AM
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Yes I understand! Im referring to the incels that are inclusive of men who want sex, but aren't getting it, and then turn and shame sexually active girls. Thats just a self fulfilling profecy. If a dude wants more fun and sexual experiences w girls, then he needs to go inward to understand how his behavior around women is what pushes exactly what he wants away from him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:48 PM
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Well because the dude probably is an incel. If a dude is airing out his frustrations with women online, that's more of a personal thing, and is reflective of the things he has internalized from his failed connections with ladies. Obviously dudes want sex, but that doesn't give them the right to Shame random women in comment sections just because they aren't getting it, and are envious of sexually active girls. So literally dudes who do that are the cause of their own incel life. If a dude wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:40 PM
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There's a saying "if you constantly smell dog 💩 everywhere you go, then check your shoes" Just because a girl has an IG, doesn't mean she is automatically an attention seeker, or instahoe. There are a lot of girls that use it to promote their businesses like art, jewelry, cannabis paraphernalia, etc. So if you have negative perceptions of girls, then you are focusing on and attracting a specific demographic of ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:13 PM
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Good day to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:57 PM
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And I'm sure the same can be said about men if Margot Robbie, Taylor Swift, Scarlett Johanson, Mila Kunis, Jennifer Lawrence, or any trending female celebrity slid into a guys dms right now. We can do this all day.. but I can see you are set in your ways and obvi have disdain toward the general female population, and I ain't gonna waste our time. Good day to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:53 PM
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Again! You're comparing things that don't matter, and ofc if shallow ppl are involved then things like that are gonna transpire. So to make these claims do you monitor people's ig accounts or something. Because how do you personally know what guys and girls do behind closed doors and in their own personal dms. As a lady myself, guys sliding into dms is in poor taste and gross, so no. Ladies in general do not accept guys trying to fuck 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:41 PM
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No! And can you stop tryna generalize, as if it's all, or most women. There are like 4 billion women on this earth, and we will probably only ever interact with a small sliver of a small percent of them. I'm not lkke that, and know tons and tons of ladies who never entertain men sliding into their dms when they have lovely bfs/husbands in their lives. That's in poor taste. Seems like if that's ur generalization about women, then that's the demographic you are attracting, the emotionally unavaila…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:35 PM
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Well that's society sir, and it's toxic af. But that doesn't mean the things this society believes is true. Why get caught up it in this society telling you where a man's worth comes from, when it's evident our worth only comes from our internal values, none of this external bs like, money, power etc. Cause look u can't take none of those things with u when you die, but the strength of ur character and staying true to ur authentic self, is what will matter in the end. And no I'm not smoking anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:26 PM
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Some women definitely, but not all And people who desire power over others are really insecure internally. Those girls probably like having the security of a consistent bf, but still desire that dopamine rush from other guys letting her know she is attractive, and an option
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:18 PM
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That claim doesn't make sense. If you feel that mothers love their daughters and sons unconditionally that means your mother most likely unconditionally loved ur dad for u to even be made, and she is a woman. Cause it takes a lot of love, for a woman to have a baby w a man Love knows no gender, it's all based on the person. Making statements like that is only creating a self fulfilling profecy that you'll keep reliving, just like groundhog day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:06 PM
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Not to burst your bubble, but if you find that every girl you dated is like that, then maybe there is a certain type you are subconsciously attracted to, because not all women are like that. There are tons of ladies who only have eyes for their men, and would never entertain other guys like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:58 PM
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Because those women don't wanna be kept women Instantly, the song "Attention" by Doja Cat started playing in my head upon reading this post. That's your answer. Guys slide into my DMs all the time but I don't entertain none of it because their attraction to me is all physical, n no substance. A woman who truly values her bf/husband will only have eyes for him, no matter the number of guys who try to entertain her, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:52 PM
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For there to be age gaps, it was preferred by both genders. For a 27 yo woman to date a 44 year old man, she is open to dating older men just as much as the man is open to dating younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:16 PM
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Don't be envious about the options ladies have. Obvi something within her character and the way she physically carries herself is what makes her attractive to guys, and shes probably more social in her life as well to have several options. Look imma be real.. focusing on stats like "the top 20% of men having access to 50% of ladies" is only causing dudes to internalize anger, and frustration. Everything a guy/girl experiences in his/her external world is 100% a mirror of their internal world (th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:51 PM
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Maybe some, but not all. You don't know each individuals' experience in order to make generalist claims like that. So based on your logic the same could be said about men who experience cheating girlfriends and wives. That dudes are after the same few women who have multiple options as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:05 AM
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Yes you can respectfully disagree. But until you have sex with another man, you cannot relate to a woman's perspective And it doesn't make sense to complain about ladies for some who have high standards, and then proceed to tell me that a guy's dick size matters. When youve probably never haven't had one in you. And everyone knows size doesn't matter but rather how they use it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:11 AM
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That crazy to look into someone's history as if what we say on social media is the end all be all for our complex lives. I literally just stated earlier, ,that we are just human, all imperfect beings with specific things we'd most like to accept in a partner. Nothings wrong with me wanting a passionate lover who will go hard and deep inside me, because aye! I'm just a human who likes sex, just like a lot other humans. And no, if a guy is a bad lay, he is a bad lay, and not successful no matter h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:16 PM
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Yes thats true, but not in all cases, and i'm terribly sorry if you've been involved in experiences where women have made it about shallow things, like dick size.. but I speak from experience when I say some men, not all, are selfish lovers. Some don't care for foreplay at all and are willing to receive oral, but not give it. That's just my experience with a couple flings. but at the end of the day that's just humans being human. I'm sure everyone on this planet has an ideal image of a person th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:53 PM
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Because for some men, they tend to be selfish "lovers" who only care about the act whereas women value the emotions invested. For a man, he can just go in n out, in n out, in n out, until he cums. That'll be enough for him and he'll roll over, leaving the lady hanging. For some ladies they desire foreplay, a genuine connection and to be turned on and have their world rocked by a man. But if he only cares abiut himself cumming only, then yes she'll never fully be satisfied A man will always 100% …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:35 PM
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Because of their psychology. We often attract, and pair ourselves to people who we subconsciously feel we need. So if a woman grew up in a home with an emotionally distant father, she may grow up attracted to emotionally unavailable men, and be in relationships or situations with men who exude behavior similar to her father. It's not that women like the abuse, but that's what some have chosen to accept when that is all they know, or feel is out there for them. Yes, they can leave, but it's a mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:01 AM
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You generalize too much. And you assume that all women don't shoot their shot with guys too. I literally have done that many times, so its absurd to assume how we, and I see the world, when we dont even know eachother as people, or each individuals personal experices. Just because you guys pursue women, doesn't mean ladies still don't have to put work in to understand men. That's literally what dating is, and progessing into a relationship, and eventually marriage. Both parties have to put in ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:54 AM
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Jocks, nerds, and STEMlords aren't representative of a heirachrial structure, those are all simply groups formed based on shared interests, and motives. That structure amongst humans is all a part of the Matrix because a hierarchical system always includes oppressors, and the oppressed. This American society literally functions like a hierarchy, but look how all ppl in the human race are not thriving, with many only surviving. On one hand we have white supremecy and white priveldge that has caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:10 PM
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All that alpha, beta, omega male talk is not a real thing. We are all human, and don't thrive in a hierarchical system because we are all sharing the human experience where no one is above or below one another. Your claim just seems to be internalized misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:08 PM
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As a man you seem to think you know, or understand women, as if they're a monolith and they're not. So what when you said ladies have a self centered and limited pov, I stated back to you, just like a man's!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:36 PM
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Just like the man's is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:35 PM
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Well I'm a woman and I love men. I appreciate what they do for this world and society, and I appreciate that they are the majority who I work with. You seem to have a bitter and jaded view of women, and I'm sorry if you've gone through traumatic experiences that have shaped those opinions, but someone with your mindset is only perpetuating the distance you feel with them. You gotta learn to love and accept the ladies, if you want them to love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:37 AM
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It must be really hard for a lot of men to understand an honest lady stays for love, not money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:34 AM
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Dudes who say that are just envious. They value having a beautiful woman by their side, and it urks them to see her with someone who is not them. So to compensate, they tell themselves negative things about the woman, and her man as a way to justify why she isn't with him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:32 AM
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Well it helped out the guys who married my besties. And they're happy as can be. There's no point in arguing with you, you're a red pilled man, and from what I've found in my experiences in speaking with yall, is constant hate and shame towards women as if they're unintelligent creatures. Yall only like to argue with women and constantly look for reasons to pick a part everything we say. Soo good day to you. Happy new year
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:28 AM
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Sir, I've said what I said..there is no point in picking a part everything I've said, considering several friends of mine have found matches for eachother that way, and has lead to successful, long term relationships, and even marriage. Team work makes the dream work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:03 AM
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Ok but women are not fish. And as ladies, we know what eachother likes because we talk about it in detail. If a dude comes up to me and says he's interested in my homegirl, I'll tell him everything he needs to know about how to approach her, and what she likes, so that he can be the most successful in asking her out. This has happened many times! Sisterhood is strong, in ways you can't imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:13 AM
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Your argument doesn't make sense sir. If that were true less women would be sexually frustrated with their partners, more men would know where to find the clit, and more will satisfy their ladies needs opposed to just rolling over after they've came, leaving her there orgasm-less And just because a guy can score a bunch of women, doesn't really mean he has the best advice. I knew a poly dude who could score a lot of women because he was hot, but he was not that great in bed, and he didn't care t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:08 AM
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It just depends on the woman who's giving the advice, and where she is drawing it from. But as Tupac once said " we all came from a woman, got our name from a woman, and our game from a woman..." So maybe not all women, but yes women do give pretty good advice, especially when they want to see other men thrive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:59 AM
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I don't believe in either. For the first scenario, it doesn't matter how young you marry a partner, what you do in life with them, divorce will not happen when both people truly love, respect and appreciate eachother. If divorce does happen, then it's still a blessing because something else was meant for the two And good men are never gone. This earth is abundant, and there is a partner for every man and woman out there. Me personally I'm not rushing in to anything, and have personally found it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:45 AM
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I'm not looking to argue! Everyone can have their own beliefs, that is why I politely agreed to disagree with you, kind sir And P.S no one is ever alone in anything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:35 AM
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Gender norms! In our society, it is accepted and seen as a norm when men provide for women. So less people bat an eye at sugar daddy situations. But typically when older men seek to date/marry younger women, people see it as if the man is preditorial, or attempting to groom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:15 AM
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Kind sir, although I definitely understand your stance, that is something that I have to politefully disagree with. Men and women can be great friends, and one shouldn't be seen as annoying or boring simply because the man is not receiving romance or sex. But to each their own 🥂 I hope you have fun on new years eve' as we welcome 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:50 PM
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No. I believe in one love between 2 people. Polyamory is not ideal. I was once involved with a poly dude, and it just leaves the participates feeling unloved, and undervalued. You can only give so much of your time to one person, but when you have multiple to love, it's just a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:49 PM
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The question is in poor taste It implies the man is the only one contributing to the relationship It gives transactional relationship vibes It implies the man is overlooking a lady's personal value Just look 👀 at her character, instead of asking A man who genuinely cares about a woman will know all of those things like how loyal she is, how feminine she is etc. Those things are seen in her character and behavior. You don't gotta ask what she brings when she will show you. A woman is the prize, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:04 AM
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Not really laughable, but rather intriguing. I'm just stating what I've learned in all my bio and genetics courses, while studying biomedical sciences, as well as downloads of information I've received about life, while meditating. It's the fact that in society men and women are socialized differently, like the belief that women can show their emotions, while being a man 💪 requires you to suppress your emotions and remain stoic, and other gender norms that tell women and men what is acceptable f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:35 PM
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Well, we all experience subjective realities, therefore just because you 🫵 routinely experience one type of woman, doesn't mean that's representative of all women. I know tons of ladies who are in great relationships and marriages, and they equally love their men, and the men are head over heels for them. Their men feel loved, respected, and at peace. Women who don't choose peace in their relationships aren't emotionally ready for one. Of course you see less men ending and leaving their marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:22 PM
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I believe misandry is the word you meant, not misogyny. I don't believe it is misandry at heart but rather just those mothers emotially regulate poorly, and who knows it may be from her own experienced trauma. Girls and boys when born are inherently good and loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:30 PM
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🧚🏻‍♀️✨️ Good day to you, kind sir. Might I say, you speak as if that's all of your fellow women, but I am one woman a part of the demographic you are judging, and I 🙋🏾‍♀️ for one don't appreciate a man who lacks confidence to the point where he is a push over getting walked all over. That is a nice guy simp. That is not an ideal partner, for ladies who desire and love 😍🥰 confident gentlemen. Plus, that's crazy how you literally described what a basic equal relationship sounds like, where there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:20 PM
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Well that's a generalized fallacy. Horniess is dependent upon the person, not the gender. It's all about compatibility, when it comes to dealing with different sex drives. I know women who are just as horny as their male partners, and I know some who are hornier than their men and literally wear them out in the bedroom. You deal with it by accepting everybody is different and has different sexual needs and desires, and just finding the ladies who complement yours
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:16 PM
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Nah sir! The whole alpha male ideology is a fallacy. Even in my major, we'd read in many biology and sociology books that in mate selection, competiveness between men is only to show the females that they are the best suited for survival, which indicates high odds of a healthy and fit offspring, but has nothing to do with a hierarchy of alphas, betas etc Because what is it that makes a man 💪 an alpha??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:59 PM
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Exactly 💯 It's crazy to me how we will never hear the end of high body count on men is good, while high body count on women is bad. Like, some men want women for sex, who will do freaky, nasty things to them, and take them around the world 🍆🤪.. 🍆🍑 but then in the same breath call these girls hoes, and they state how the same girls arent worthy of anything serious. Those men need to look in the mirror and realize they are "hoes" too and cannot have sex and get celebrated for it, unless they meet …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:47 PM
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That doesn't makes sense because men and women wouldn't be having sex, having children, living their lives together etc. There is this thing called compatibility, and people who are best fit for eachother is how mating and partnership even transpires. We are all simple human beings with basic desires to just live life peacefully, while enjoying the pleasures that come with it, and minimal pain. We all laugh, cry, get angry, sad, happy, jealous etc. We all desire good sex, and happy/positive rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:00 PM
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Ok good luck with that, sir. You're the dude who experiences that with women, not me, and whatever you tell yourself is only confirming your own reality. So idk why tell yourself things that are gonna keep you spiteful, and sad. You gotta like the ladies, especially if you wanna attract the fairest of them all 🧚🏻‍♀️✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:50 PM
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But we generally are the same. The things that really only makes us different is that second chromosome in our genetics. Mens' Y chromosome, is what carries their male hormones, like higher amount of testosterone, while womens' second X chromosome is what allows them to have uterus and higher amounts of estrogen. Other that it giving us a few physiological differences, we are all still humans who are living complex lives. We all live in a way that leans toward pleasure, and moves away from pain.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:39 PM
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I understood completely and No they don't. And that's crazy that you generalize women like that as if you are one, or know what each individual woman of 4 billion want. That's like me saying all men only want ultrasubmissive women with traditional values, but also acts like a "304" for him only when he wants her for "recreational use" 🤢🤮 Ladies value gentlemen. Not every woman will have the values a lady does, and it seems like you're only focusing on the small demographic of women that are poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:24 PM
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I think you spend too much time online. All you're ever gonna see right now is a lot of women hating on men, and men hating on women. Although that is not universally true, it's what's popular and widely accepted on social media platforms because it's negativity that is the most controversial, and gets the most comments, and ratings. Nowadays, you can even see the most wholesome thing, like a man opening up about his feelings, or a lady showing off her pregnant body, and the comments are full of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:09 PM
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I'm tired of everything between men and women being seen as a battle, as if someone is actually keeping score for a winner. We are all meant to be here to coexist. Men and women are literally eachothers divine counterparts, and we compliment each other like yin and yang ☯️ Obvi this whole gender war with men and women is tiring, or else you wouldn't be writing about, but how is what you're saying right now any different from the bashful arguments coming from feminists about men?? Why don't you f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:53 PM
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Incorrect, kind sir. Women don't desire simps 🤓🤓 opens biology books 📚 According to what I learned in my major, in over thousands of animal species, the females will always and forever have the upper advantage in mate selection since females bear the offspring. Females always select the best suited males who offer genetic traits and characteristics that ensure the most fit offspring for survival. For humans, simps are not who women are attracted to, or who they desire, when it comes to serious c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:45 PM
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Not really, ma'am or sir. A lot of people seem to make general statements about women, as if they know all 4 billion of them, when really all of this shaming and generalizing is just fuelled by the media, which does not represent our society as a whole. Women are feminine, and those who desire their divine masculine counterpart love gentlemen who are confident in self, and really go after what inspires them. Women don't desire putting in extra effort to "control" men. Women literally leave their…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:28 PM
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Aye! I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:08 AM
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You can tell a lot about a person's psychology by how they choose to speak of themselves and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:19 AM
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No to be harsh, dude, but the way you speak and your general attitude towards relationships and women, and even your own self, is what's contributing to your current singlehood. You can't expect great ladies, and meaningful connections with them to transpire if you believe they're all sex crazed and only settling for you as good enough. The only way of "squaring that circle" is to change your mindset and beliefs about yourself and women in general. It's the only way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:30 AM
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But how do you know what most couples relationships are like? Yes, we have access to the internet, but you can't believe everything you read on there, and stats are flawed and they don't represent the general population. To make a general statement that sex becomes a chore to "all" women once they enter a relationship is a fallacy. I know tons of ladies with crazy high sex drives who literally ware their men out, myself included. Every lady has a different attitude toward sex, and most definitel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:25 AM
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I love you 🥰😍🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:16 AM
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Deflect.. deflect.. deflect.. do what you gotta do buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:06 AM
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Ignorant af. Plus I literally just got done saying gender norms have been around for decades and decades. So ur comment makes no sense because Obama was president not long ago. But I guess you gotta deflect somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:38 AM
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What in the world? No. Gender norms, especially in American society have been here long before Trump was even born, and well before he was even relevant to anything he has done as an entertainer or politician.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:59 PM
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Wait.. Mr. I stopped reading, is replying? How is that possible when he stopped reading? 🤔 🚶‍♀️‍➡️🚶🏾‍♀️"Shelby do you know?" 🤷🏼‍♀️ "nah!".. 💁🏾‍♀️ "me neither, girl" Plus sir, I'll take all the L's. You gotta boat? 🛥 Get it ready, I'll take that boat load of L's in a heartbeat, sir. Scoreboard: Me: 8784 Ls You: 8536 Ws Plus that crazy how you can basically call me illiterate and judge my Grammer, although you still perfectly read everything fine, i didnt realize this was english class.. but yet y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:33 PM
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Well you ain't my daddy, this is the internet, and free will exists. I don't see why you care, Mr. I stopped reading
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:45 PM
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Yea you sound like a person who doesn't value women anyway. I wouldn't be surprised if you oogle 👀 half naked women on social media. That's the vibe you give. Enjoy that life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:44 PM
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And what is wrong with that? Men and women are allowed to enjoy eachothers time and company
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:40 PM
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Yes that's ur opinion. Enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:35 PM
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Sir, shallow men only attract shallow women, not respectful ladies, who value gentlemen. So that's not really a flex. The way you talk about women is gross 🤢🤮 Lemme guess.. I bet you thug em, fuck em, love em, cause you don't fuckin' need em.. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:31 PM
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Yea! You only stop reading when it's things you don't wanna hear. It's giving ignorant. Enjoy that life sir, you're only making it harder on yourself to move through life with harsh judgemts of women as if they are a monolith. So cheers to you sir 🥂 happy Sunday, Merry Christmas, and happy new year I'm glad I now know how to make men run. Just saying something they don't wanna listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:17 PM
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No sir, because no one here has said a thing about women value a man's looks more than his character. If that's what you truly believe, you either spend too much time on social media, and it has warped your sense of reality, or you've just been involved with too many shallow ladies. Physical attraction is just the tip of the iceberg. What makes real connections and relationship solid, and last is the character, and mindset of the man and woman. I, myself and tons of ladies I know and am friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:00 PM
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But either way out of all people on this earth, Mila Kunis was the person you chose to bring up because you obvi follow her and admire her as a female celebrity to some extent. Plus we are all imperfect. So it doesnt make sense to shame her as a bad person from one little you know about her currently. Plus you dint even know her personally, and everyone knows the media is notorious for always looking for dirt on celebs, fir clout. I'm pretty sure you have done some pretty bad/harsh things in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:45 PM
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The same reason why more men on average love sports, like football, and high body count on men is celebrated while high body count on women is looked down upon by men.. because of gender norms! Men and women are put into boxes, and lines are drawn on what is socially acceptable for each gender, sadly. It's highly toxic, and is the reason men and women are torn on their differences, like makeup Makeup is highly marketed towards women, men can and even do wear makeup but it's not seen the same way…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:35 PM
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But you're probably still attracted to her. And regardless of whatever tf she looks like without majeup she is always stunning, a great actress a good wife and highly dedicated to everything she does. There is more to life than makeup n that'd sad a lot of dudes care about a woman's appearance more than her character
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:13 PM
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Men who make statements like that are what perpetuates the shallowness between men and women. Men complain women wearing make is unfair and falsely alluring, but in the same breath will affirm that girls look better with it, which is not necessarily true, because a lady who values her health and what she eats will always look amazing whether she's bare faced or wearing a full face of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:09 PM
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Why do you assume that makeup only has to do with insecurity and male validation? That's like saying men only want and drive nice cars so that they can all only attract ladies by flexing their "status". Make up means different things to every lady, and they wear it for different reasons. If the fact that something that they are doing with they're one bodies, and nothing to do with you personally offends you, then that's a red flag right there. It's giving entitled ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:57 PM
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That's all shallow tho. That's implying that women only value height, and to real ladies who value gentlemen and respect them and value them, their height is nonsense, because character, loyalty, and compatibility are key, not nonsense things like how much makeup a lady wears, or how tall a dude is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:50 PM
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You may not understand, but makeup/dressing up/accessorizing is fun. The idea that you can one day rock one look with blue eyeliner, then change it up a few days later to black eyeliner with red lipstick are the little things that make life enjoyable for a woman who values self expression, and her outter appearance. We're material girls, living in a material world. So don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:43 PM
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Simple. Those women are not your type. So don't focus on them. A lot of women may wear makeup, but there is a huge part of the population that either doesn't wear it, or they wear it modestly and minimally, I'm part of that demographic. Where are you even getting this info.. social media?? Because irl I know and see many women who don't wear makeup the way you've described. If you feel that makeup is a cheat code that helps out women when it comes to gaining access to men, then that shows right …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:33 PM
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Smaller? If you're talking about muscle mass and body shape yes, they are naturally smaller. And that due to nature and biology, and hormones. What good does it do to compare nature with peoples' psychology, when every mind responds differently to life/trauma/family experienxes. Next are you gonna ask me who has a bigger and wider pelvis? Which obvi it's the women, because by nature they're the child bearers, not the men. Ppl are allowed to have their own thoughts and beliefs. Just because I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:36 AM
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Well I don't generalize men and women, because they are not monoliths. You say you aren't claiming that attention seeking is based on gender, but then you proceed to ask me to generalize who "needs it more". People in general need attention, especially during their first 7 years of life. When ppl dont recieve proper parental attention, that's what triggers these extravagant behaviors you've mentioned in your original post. That's why sometimes girls with daddy issues will yearn for male attentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:03 PM
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Okay but what is "ugly"? You're comment just proves how yes, it is about mindset because there is something to love in everyone, and one dude who is not a lady's cup of tea, just means someday he may meet a lady who is head over heels for him. Maybe dudes who don't know how to work with lemons, to make lemonade may struggle in dating. Women value substance and how a man carries himself in life, over his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:13 PM
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Attention seeking isn't based on gender, but rather the individual. People who seek attention want it for deeper psychological reasons. Things we do as adults are only reflective of our childhood needs that were or weren't met. Some ppl have parents who didn't give them enough attention during the childs formative years, so to compensate the child learned to self sooth, and continued that in adult hood. Everything you've explained are all adult methods for self soothing to replace the attention …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:34 PM
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Men are naturally stronger than women due to genetics, as their testosterone provides them greater muscle mass. That's not the same as how men and women have been socialized and conditioned in our civilized societies. You don't know all women, and to make blanket statements like that, just makes it okay for women to argue that "all" men are dogs, men only wanna fuck, and care about high body count for them but low for women, and fear commitment. Obviously, that's not true because that behavior i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:11 AM
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Well sir you don't know all women. I'm sorry to hear that you haven't had the best experiences when it comes to dating women, but all that means is you have yet to experience rewarding experiences with ladies worth your time. I'm sure a lot more Norah Vincent's are out there who will understand, accept, and appreciate you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:29 AM
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Life isn't about sex appeal and attractive young women tho. This abundant earth is full of many wonders, and stunning sights and to limit the best thing on this earth to a small demographic of young attractive women, is not life sir. And to focus only on that shows why some single men don't feel as good on their own compared to single women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:50 PM
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It's not that simple though. You're assuming that it is this way for "every" woman when it clearly is not. Regardless of man or woman, we are all living the human experience, therefore, we've all been rejected, we've all be lead on, lied to, and have most likely experienced many of the positives that comes with courting as well. Not every man is starving, and if he is, that's more reflective of his own self image and the confidence he has when it comes to dating and relationships. I've met many …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:29 PM
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Exactly! We are social creatures who benefit from bonding and grouping together. Like, I've noticed a weird gender war lately, on social media, but it's something both genders play a role in, not just men. I think the more people who realize we are all essential to socialization, will lead to more peace n love between men n women ❤️ And thanks! I enjoyed reading your post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:56 PM
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I feel you! This whole concept of virginity is totally made up in order for control, I believe. The fact that the construct exists only puts pressure on women to save it, and men to lose it at a young age. It seems like when you don't follow that 'norm' you're labeled as an outcast. I (27F) had sex for the first time last year. So I understand the odd looks, and comments you may have received from others with different outlooks. But I could never imagine what it's like for a man, considering we …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:49 AM
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Water and oil will never complement each other, as water is highly polar, and oil is hydrophobic You contradict yourself by mentioning water and oil complement eachother, but then immediately say they are polarized and cannot intertwine Men and women are meant to harmonize, that's why our genitals complement each other, and the energy between them is so powerful they are able to procreate new life ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:22 AM
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Stay in ur lane please. You don't know the trials and tribulations of other ppls lives. Why tf would I talk outta my ass like that about my own baby sister? If you wanna get technical, my sister was supposed to be due in late November 2003, but she was born thru a c section 4 weeks before her due date, in October. So yes that does qualify her as a premie. And because the doctor was dumb and pulled her out dumb af, my sister had to go thru physical therapy, and receive many medical tests for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:36 AM
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Honestly none! I dont understand why this way of thinking is ever considered red pill philosophy because their thinking just puts men and women into gender norm boxes, and perpetuates sexism and exploitative behavior. To me, this is blue pill behavior. My take: a true red pilled person accepts the realities of life in 2023, by acknowledging men and women are being driven to fight and separate from eachother, while also acknowledging our purpose as men n women is to socialize, grow, and procreate…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:13 PM
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Exactly 💯 sometimes it's just good to call it quits with ppl who only wanna talk more than they listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:58 PM
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That's all scarcity mindset! This earth is abundant and full of everything we need to survive n thrive. Our society is what conditions us to believe there's not enough to go around. That's why everything feels competitive, but it's an illusion. I don't think "all" good men are gone, or in hiding due to trauma, I believe good men are everywhere, and our realities are subjective and based on our own internal beliefs. When ppl tell themselves, "all the good women/men are gone" rest assured the univ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:45 PM
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Good day to you kind sir. All you wanna do is argue and deflect. Your spiteful energy is well below my own vibrational energy. It makes sense why you probably use internet forums like this, and living as a keyboard warrior, instead of just living at peace in the real world. Enjoy that life ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:16 PM
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Everything went over ur head, yes a woman can choose not to give birth, but my point is, her body still functions to nurture and support a growing baby, hence why I said periods/hormones etc. Sir, you're very ignorant, you just asked me to prove how women, and black women are mistreated in Healthcare, when I just gave u proof by sharing my mother's personal experience. Plus, anyone who has access to the internet can easily see healthcare and some docs are corrupt. Funny how you use stats to supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:00 PM
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Sir, or ma'am! Every point in ur response is literally just you taking real observations, and changing it, to make it look like the women are instigators in every situation, while the men are helpless victims. Don't ever compare a woman's natural gift of birthing life, to a man's construction job, which he can change at anytime. He chose to put himself in that job, while a women doesnt choose to be the gender that grows a baby inside her, and deal with periods, cramps, and hormonal changes, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:42 PM
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I'm not deciding it, sir, im simply restating its meaning. The dichotomy of red pill v blue pill, from the Matrix, has all to do with looking beyond the illusions of society, accepting hard truths, and our purpose as humans 🔴 vs. Continuing an ego centric and misinformed outlook on life 🔵 Take me for example, I'm a red pill woman, and I accept the harsh reality that there is a lot of fighting/ignorance/division between men and women in 2023, as well as there are men AND women who do lie/cheat et…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:03 PM
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That's just a man putting himself in a box and perpetuating gender norms, and the divide. (blue pill). Men are conditioned from day one that it is manly to conceal their emotions, and always be stoic, but that doesn't benefit them because it causes emotional detachment from self. Which directly correlates to the male loinlessness epidemic, and high suicide rates of men. They aren't aware of how to emotionally regulate, so they isolate. A man faking confidence is an ignorance is bliss mindset as …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:54 PM
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I don't agree! If anything, they're a bunch of blue pillers You mentioned the red pill at its core is men altering their own behavior, to adjust to the patterns of women, meaning the men are succumbing to womens' behavior. However tho, the real red pill is all about expanding your consciousness and accepting the universal truths of life, therefore, a man's consciousness is not expanded when he is easily influenced by the behavior of every woman in his network. How I see it.. the gender war betwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:44 AM
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I understand what you're saying, but I don't believe it is necessarily a "privilege" to pursue women. We are social creatures meant to bond and socialize, men and women go together like yin and yang. I think each person's individual success with the other gender has to do with energy and acceptance, of self and others. I used to feel the same about men, because I was so closed off from them, and intimated by their presence and wasnt really approached or acknowledged by men for sexual and romanti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:09 AM
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What?? 😘 Plus I'm genuinely curious, but why the blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:44 AM
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Then why do we see so many drag queens, while drag kings, isn't as common or popular? Why are transwomen attempting to rewrite the definition of a woman, by referring to us as birthing ppl in order to accommodate them, while you never see transmen attractively rewriting the definition of a man, to fit in? Why are men competing to be in womens' spaces, like restrooms, sports competitions, and college sororities? Why do men resort to "playing dress up" when it comes to expressing womanhood, as if …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:07 AM
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That's why I said discourse. I don't really care if one person says something. I start to care when I see it echoed over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:48 PM
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Yes because it's supposedly all about the external with some of u dudes, but never about a ladies internal qualities, like her character, morals, and values, and mental health. It's always about physical appearances for yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:16 PM
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You can speak with a fake person, and not be imagining. Never said you were imagining anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:05 PM
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Never did I say it is a man's fault that we have to put lipstick on. Bro, I literally just got done saying we are not a monolith. I'm. Specifically. Talking. About. The. Women. Who. Capitalize. Off. Of. Female. Beauty. Standards. By. Appealing. To. Men's. Fantasies. And. Desires. For. Clout. Money. And. Fame. Because. They. Know. It'll. Sell. To. Them. For. Example. Pornstars. OF girls. IG models. Prostitutes. Strippers. Obvi not every woman in reddit, and on other social media platforms does th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:01 PM
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Well said, sir!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:21 PM
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Lol, so when I speak, I'm gaslighting you? sir, you called yourself a loser, and if anything I just made an observation based on ur own personal statement about self. Even tho I've never made any negative comments about you personally, but yet you're free to call me childish, as a way to psychoanalyze me. Perfect. Thank you so much. When yet you don't have 100% proof that you're even speaking with a real user. And I could be here as a ploy because notice how it is only men who are upset about su…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:21 PM
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Idk ask them? You have your own conscious, so if you have to ask me to give u reasons to believe in something over someone else, then you probably question ur own judgement in general. Plus women are not a monolith, so obvi if u ask many women the same thing, ur bound to get different answers. What I was speaking on is the wkmen who intentionally capitalize off female beauty standards and appeal to men and their fantasies, for money, and fame etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:01 PM
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Lol did I ever type the words "you are a loser"? No sir, you said that about yourself cause u probably feel that way deep down, which just also shows why probably get off going back and forth with ppl online, to feel some sort of accomplishment or value. You are whole and enough kind sir. Good day to you ✨️ 🧚🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:47 PM
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Sir! You exist as a human, therefore you already have value. If you feel that you're inherently undesirable that indicates you may not fully accept yourself, and nothing from the external will ever give you more value than the confidence and acceptance you have for yourself. You just made the statement that how you take care of yourself doesn't get you far as a man and if you feel all the unfixable is whats unattractive to women, all that does it attracts shallow women into ur life. Rest assured…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:44 PM
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Tell them that, not me! And Plus, I'm not on social media the way you're assuming. I'm simply reporting back what I've read in articles about the damaging effects it has on the female and male psyche. Plus you can't blame em! I've even pondered over making an OF accout, or working at a strip joint, myself. But never bring myself to do that because I can't devalue myself that way and risk compromising my professional life nor disrespect myself. But I can see why other sisters do. When you live in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:34 PM
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Ok well women are not a monolith. Of course there are women who value self expression and wear makeup for themselves, as well as other ladies who do wear it to look more attractive for men and their attention. It depends on the context and the lady. You need to learn not every woman applies the same purpose to makeup. (Plus the cmment ur responding to, I was especially speaking on the women who intentionally market themselves to men thru the media, and will make themselves appeal to his gaze thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:10 PM
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Okay! Men have it harder in this society, they are victims to nearly everything, and nothing is ever fair to them. Case closed, we agree on something now. I don't see why it needs to be a competition to see 'who has it harder'! You can gladly take that trophy 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:54 PM
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Well you're here contributing as well, sir. Plus I'm not a misandrist, never once did I say a thing insulting or degrading about a man, nor do I want mens' spaces eroded. Everything I've spoke on has been about societal conditioning, double standards, and how men and women are socialized differently in ways that doesn't benefit either gender. Yall are literally the entire half of the population, and we are all social creatures meant to bond and thrive together. So engaging in a gender war is ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:43 PM
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Bro this is like the 3rd comment of mine, that you've responded to and try and dismantle. It's seems like ur more focused on just looking for things to argue and discredit, instead of tryna understand where I am coming from as a lady. Glad this is only the internet and i dont have to deal with gentlemen who only wanna argue and talk against me irl. Now I can see why male loniness is a growing epidemic. And yea maybe ur right, because nothing compares to sisterhood, and inherently having the abil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:15 PM
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Of course men do not care if a woman is a low earner. Ever since the inception of our patriarchy, men are conditioned that they are the rightful breadwinner and must support a lady financially. And men accept it because they like the idea of a lady depending on them, because it's always seen as a go ✅️ that's why so many men are upset that traditional values of the 20th century are out today, they don't like that women today don't "need" a man to survive. Of course the reverse is looked down upo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:56 PM
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Sir, it's actually increased, thanks to the advancement of technology and expensive cost of living. Look at the world around you. If you live in the USA, then you are aware of the inflation and the 💩 pay being offered in many job markets. Since post pandemic, there has been an increase of side hustles, just to make ends meet for many. Literally female teachers are starting up OF accounts to suppliment their low pay. And whats ironic is they'll make more $$ in one day on OF, compared to what they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:40 PM
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No, it doesn't contradict. It supports it. The fact that a man can get out of bed and do nothing for his appearance and it's acceptable, compared to if a woman did the same, she be berated for not putting effort into her appearance. Look at the long list of surgeries transwomen endure just to become a woman. On top of all the medications they must take to maintain the female hormones, and suppress their own testosterone. And it doesn't stop there, now for the rest of their lives they have to kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:11 PM
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I've met a small handful of women who have OFs and are IG models. They claim the reason they are even in that game is to cater to mens' fantasies and vulnerabilities, because they know it's gonna earn them a lot of dough 💰💰💰 So yes, maybe some won't admit it ur faces why they're in that game, but behind closed doors they know exactly what they're in that business for. And as long as this society continues to sexualize women to appeal to the male gaze, those industries will continue to thrive unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:28 PM
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It's no secret that more men want to become women, as opposed to the reverse. Ppl who have transitioned don't do it because they think "life is easier" it's because they want to express what they "think" it means to be a woman. And basically what they're doing is playing dress up, and then just receiving a lot of sexual attention. While being a woman is soo much more than that! I think a lot of dudes just feel it's easier for women to exist due to pretty privilege and sex appeal. As if men are e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:08 PM
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It's not because they don't care as much, it's because women since day one in many societies have been seen as objects of lust, and desire for men. The way society tells women to behave and express herself, is all to appeal to the male gaze, and what will make him happy. But we never really see the reverse, men are never conditioned to please his lady, or appease to the "female gaze" That's why things like porn/OF/IG models make billions because they provide men the "ultimate fantasy" and men bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:39 PM
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Well it ain't my job to please u sir. This is the internet, you can't expect ppl to bend at ur will. Take it or leave it!! Men are victims to all women end of story
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:06 PM
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Ok! Men have it harder, in their own patriarchal society. Women have always harassed men for everything. They are always the perpetrators, and the cause of every man's downfall. Every woman is piece of shit, and men are misunderstood ppl that women just need to leave alone. Women are the sole cause of everything bad in western Civilization, they need to all just die since we have technology coming now for men to supposedly carry children in their own wombs. Now the world can be full of only men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:56 PM
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What do you personally want? What do you want me to be personally accountable for here??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:40 PM
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Good for u! Want a cookie 🍪 Never did I say what u just said. But ur gonna hear whatever u want. As long as you have a reason to complain about women. Enjoy that life! Couldn't be me And lol wtf do u want me to be personally accountable for that'll make u happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:36 PM
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I never said I personally do, sir. I'm just reporting back facts I've read in articles. Social media is toxic af. Even here. Reminds me. Peace dude ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:29 PM
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No! What I'm really saying is I'm going to sleep! I don't have time to debate with every dude who chooses to get offended over every little sentence I've said. Good night 😴 We all know women today have autonomy, why you acting brand new?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:12 PM
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And all you u need to do is go to therapy to fix that stank attitude, but yet we're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:08 PM
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Bro you're gonna hear whatever you want. Because did I ever say it was good that shallow women judge men that way. NO! You can insult me all u want sir, but I'm going tf to sleep. It's always the dudes who wanna start b1tching and judging ppl personally just to feel better about themselves. Because did I ever say anything personal about you? NO! But u certainly didn't hesitate to judge me personally And yes i firmly believe men care about looks. They say it all the times.. and I know damn well y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:01 PM
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Good for u. You don't like overweight ppl and value the external more than someone's internal values, like character/morals/ethics. Ur comment is a prime example of what I mean. Dudes are always making it about shallow bs, like a number on a scale, then yall wanna turn around n b1tch when shallow girls want men for their height. At least a girl can change her weight I find it funny how you say it's not true that women are put under pressure to look good for men, but then u immediately proceed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:54 AM
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What does that have to do with anything? It's no surprise the number of overweight ppl is high in the usa, when ur living in a country that values money over health and provides 💩 low quality food amd super sized portions. Plus what defines someone as overweight? It's literally just a standard based on height, and other factors. Literally when I was in the army, we were all fit and lean af, but several of us were considered overweight because the standards are fvcked!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:40 AM
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But yet how many times are men telling women she shouldn't be fat, or she has to be pretty, and how she needs to change clothes when he doesn't like them! Also some men will fvck anything! Look it up, men have fvcked corpses, and have fvcked sleeping women, and escorts/prostitutes. Men will fvck a hoe for "rec use" but cast her aside because she's not good enough for him 🤮 without admitting he is hoe too I've literally had dudes tell me they're only type is "girl", period! So maybe not all men, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:25 AM
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Good for you 👍 I'm not debating with you! Maybe it is harder for men, considering male loniless is a real epidemic and all. Glad I'm a woman 👸🏾 nothing compares to sisterhood and I'm grateful to experience it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:57 AM
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Careful what you wish for! You may reincarnate as woman in your next life, and see exactly what it's like to be a woman in this society and now you can happily accept all the horrid beauty standards!! Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:53 AM
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No, it's because they're trying to appease the male gaze. Everything they do is to market to what the men wanna see. Men give attention to these OF girls, porn stars, and IG models, and other women see the attention those girls receive from men, and that conditions them to devalue themselves, or feel they arent enough, because that tells women, "yes! this is what men want, this is how you attract a man" Women of IG don't dress provocatively for other girls, it's all for the men! And that's how i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:48 AM
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Sir you'll never understand. Maybe if you were a woman, who lives in a patriarchal society, where you're constantly being told, do this for a man, and constantly sexualized and seen as a sex object, you'd understand. Plus, why make it women's fault that men put so much focus on looks, that's the only reason u think women have it easier is due to pretty privildge. How do women, nearly 3.9 billion people, supposedly have it easy due to beauty standards???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:22 AM
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Exactly 💯 the entitlement and audacity leaves me speechless!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:12 AM
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Not really sir! Look at the media! It's always telling women how they should look, dress, and feel, in order to be accepted, and sexy for a man etc. Men don't experience it to that magnitude!!! Look at IG, it has been proven it has a negative impact on the psyche of young women, due to impossible beauty standards that are influenced by marketers and IG models. When men age, they are considered distinguished, and silver foxes, while women are considered old bags, and undesirable. They are constan…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:06 AM
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Okay! I see what you're saying now, in general, if a taken woman is flirting with men, but believes that's alright, but doesn't want her man to experience the same thing, that's definitely a double standard. However, it doesn't do anyone favors to fight fire with fire. At that point, those ppl should not be together if it makes a man feel better to level the playing field by flirting with women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:15 PM
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So what if I am! You're original statement that 'emotionally unavailable men should be allowed to flirt with other women, simply because of the behavior of other men' is you stating how you value relationships with women, and I'm simply contributing to the discussion. Lol I guess brotherhood isn't valued the same way some women value sisterhood. I'm sure if I said something in agreement with ur original statement, you'd feel otherwise ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:04 PM
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Lol that's not Gate keeping! It's simply monogamy, and showing respect for your partner. A lady cannot control other men's behavior, but she can control how she responds to it, and when she only has eyes for you, other men don't stand a chance. Your logic is to level the playing field, by flirting with other women. But how would u expect that to work out? If anything ever escalates you'll have to tell them you're in a committed relationship, but either way you're only leading on poor women, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:33 PM
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I've never been in a long-term committed relationship with a man, but from my experience with a few short-term flings.. I was wanting sex every day with them, and every time I saw them. So idk if that qualifies me to answer, but I initiated at least 50% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:03 PM
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Sir, nothing is wrong with a woman being hit on. She can not control the behavior of other men taking an interest in her. Just as men would be flattered at the same thing. However, the way a woman responds is where the money is at. A lady who loves, respects, and appreciates her gentleman and vice versa, will only have eyes for her Bae. Trying to level out the playing field by intentionally seeking validation from other women just indicates maybe he's not ready for a relationship with 1 person
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:59 PM
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if you've chosen and agreed to monogamy, then it's okay for neither gender because an honest person with morals will practice it, regardless of where they are, or who they're surrounded by. Relationships aren't about validation, if you truly love someone and know yall are solid, yall can be anywhere and do anything, and ur Bae will always have eyes for you and the trust is mutual. Here's an example of something I've experienced: On St. Patty's day, like 2 years back I was at a bar, and noticed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:47 PM
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Jealousy is a universal emotion that anyone can experience. I agree with what you are saying, but I don't believe jealously is feminine, or makes men feminine. But rather, the resentment they've internalized from women just makes them a less masculine man, who is not in touch with the full essence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:23 PM
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Sir, it's actually not natural. We are social creatures meant to bond, procreate, and thrive together with all life on earth. Ppl who operate from a place of resentment and disdain toward the other half of the human population are not in alignment with their essence. Just think of yourself as a child. We love and care about so much regardless of gender. Ppl just become corrupt due to societal conditioning and unprocessed emotions from life experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:19 PM
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27F here. When it comes to men, I find them appealing based on their character and the energy that attracted me to them, and not so much what I may receive from them, ie sex/relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:44 PM
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That's soo beautiful and amazing 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:25 AM
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27F here! Never been in a relatonship with a man, but the most romantic thing I've done is kiss a man on the forehead. Also, holding their hand, and having deep conversations talking about life, our desires/fears/goals etc, while music plays, in a low lit livingroom. NSFW but it's romantic to me, to satisfy him with a BJ and make him feel loved and cared for 😍 something about it is stimulating to me as well 🥰🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:15 AM
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👍👍 honestly u sound like a dude who went thru a divorce and just wanna run with this narrative that ppl divorce because they are shitty, in order to make yourself feel better that it was the wife who was a shitty person or something. I've never been married, but I don't have negative views on it, like u do. I feel that ppl who have strong judgements on something probably went thru that themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:33 PM
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Lol yea because u can't argue with it. So u just judge it as odd. Sir we can believe what the hell we want, it's not ur job to go around discrediting ppl. That's a heavy burden to bear 👍👍👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:21 PM
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Well that's not ur responsibilty sir. Remember? Freedom of speech, the very first amendment of the Polarized... I mean United States of America
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:12 PM
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Good for you! You must feel like an amazing man to say incorrect, incorrect, incorrect as if your answers are the only way. You sir, need your own television show, Stat. Lights. Camera. Action 🎬
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:00 PM
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Ok Dr. Phil. Also a tip I'd learned from my therapist. The desire and need for change always comes from within a person. No external force can never change a person. That's why relationships fail when girls or guys think "I can change them"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:49 PM
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Good for you! Lol me saying ppl change isn't making an excuse for horrible behavior. But what do I know, you must have surveyed the millions of ppl in order to make such harsh definitive judgments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:44 PM
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Ok I'm done debating this w you. Because ur just gonna argue against whatever I say anyway 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:41 PM
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Ok well it's not black and white like that lol. You can say incorrect all u want, but thats not how i see it. If someone grows and changes in their own life, then things that were a part of those old habits won't serve that person the same anymore. This is a common thing ppl experience in therapy in the process of healing. I've went thru this myself, the more my therapist worked with me, the more my subconscious programming changed and became more positive. And certain things no longer served me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:53 PM
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Feelings always change sir. The feelings you've had about certain things in life like 5 years ago, I'm sure are not the same today. Times change, ppl change. That's the beauty of being a fluid human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:23 PM
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Well sir! This is my opinion, and from what I have seen from ppl around me, when it's come to separation/divorce. I've seen ppl happily in love and married for years, then overtime the feelings change to the point where they split and now live separate lives. So it doesn't make sense for you to casually invalidate ppls thoughts and opinions. You are not the arbiter of relationships and you most def aint God.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:01 PM
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Exactly sir, but we attract ppl based on how we feel abiut ourselves and others. If you desire to be surrounded by positive women, then ur energy toward women must be positive as well. I'm sure you wouldn't wanna be surrounded by women who only talk about "men ain't shit" and "all my problems come from men" that would push u away because its highly unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:21 AM
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Sounds great, kind sir 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:06 AM
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Ok! But the red pill involves expanding your consciousness and accepting the realities of the world and universe, opposed to taking an ego centric view of things. It's universally true that we attract who we are, or at least who we believe we are. So if you simply don't like your dating prospects, then simply change the mindset you use to attract women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:50 PM
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Sir I'm not trying to argue. I'm simply providing my unbiased take on the situation based on what you have provided. Never have I spoken down about you, or said anything in favor of the woman. I'm just giving you advice based on universal concepts I've learned from reading books. But it's whatevs, the red pill is difficult for some ppl to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:31 PM
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I don't understand! You say money isn't a thing, but the whole premise of your post is you complaining about spending it on women. At the end of the day its all about energy, you attract ppl based on ur own internal core beliefs. You say you expect courtesy from her, but had no problem treating her some type of way, once you decided you weren't happy with her. A courteous person will always politely decline, instead of bailing. So if anything, you attracted that girl into your life based on your…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:26 PM
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That's a universal human experience, it's not limited to only women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:03 PM
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I'll show u a picture 📸 check your chat inbox, dude or dudette!! You're in for a treat 🤓 because nothing is impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:56 PM
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Ok, what does this have to with what I previously said. If you acknowledge that some women are fit, and others are more heavy set, then that just goes to show everyone's body is different and we all carry muscle and fat differently
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:55 PM
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Dude, I never said that. Men who expect sex after a meal, and women who expect free everything, with little to no investment are equally not okay. That's what I meant by transactional "love". This is my take: a man spending money doesn't equate to treating her well. Rather, a man who embraces and respects a woman for who she is as a person, is how he treats her well. Does he spend time getting to know her? Is he interested in taking it further based on what he likes about her? The same applies t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:49 PM
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Okay but the parameters you are using to decide if someone is obese, is literally based on numbers and judgement. Everyone stores muscle and fat differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:37 PM
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Okay I understand that! But if she crossed a boundary for you when she ordered champagne, I don't understand why make a scene at the end, when being assertive at the beginning would've made things progress in your favor more, possibly. If the date was mutually agreed upon then nothing is wrong with the dude paying unless it was agreed upon to split the check beforehand, instead of surprising her. It's often a kind jester men extend to the woman, traditionally, on the first date, as it gives her …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:37 PM
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Sir, how is that horrific? Spending too much time on quantity and numbers can really take its toll on ppl in life. I'm 5'2" and when I was in the army, a healthy weight for me was 160 lbs, and on top of that I was lean and had all kinds of muscle and am the fastest and strongest I ever was in life. On paper, if you were to see my weight, dudes like you would judge the hell out of that, but when ppl physically saw me, everyone knew I was healthy and fit. Bro, you need to learn everyone's body is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:22 PM
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Yea exactly! Makes sense from your comment. Just leaving a situation instead of choosing to learn and grown from it, just causes you to perpetuate the same cycles, but with new women. Sounds like Groundhog day, with the blue pill! Enjoy that life sir
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:05 PM
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Sir, you should be grateful for life instead of blaming everything on women. A womans' body is simply a vessel to nurture and deliver you, but everything else happened due to the work of God and the universe. Comments like this is exactly why male lonliness is a real and growing epidemic. How can you ever expect to make great connections with women, with so much negativity?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:54 PM
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Actually all of these things you've mentioned are all things men perpetuate themselves. These complaints are simply blaming women, instead of the dude looking inside himself to understand why he is constantly experiencing rejection, loniless etc. The fact that there are a lot of men who don't experice some of these things in that list, shows that it is an individual issue, as opposed to "all men go thru that because of women"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:46 PM
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Not really sir! I know tons of good men, who are proud Americans and aren't trying to go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:41 PM
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Imma (27F) be honest if a dude said this to my face, I'd straight up leave him, and move on. The whole point of a date is to be blessed with eachothers' presence and treating her well because she is worth something to you, and vice versa! Especially if you invited her out If you take a woman out a date, just to receive something in return, like sex, then that's just transactional "love", and nothing worth investing in. This only makes it okay for women to seek transactions for you, like free mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:39 PM
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So much generalization about the entire population of women! I've ditched the whole traditonal 'dine and fvck' situation due to the amount of dudes who think that entitles them to sex just cause they bought me food! It's much more worth both our time to do something simple like coffee/arcade/walk in the park etc. So no! Not all women run away at 'low effort' but maybe the ones you have chosen to attract, do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:31 PM
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It's reasonable for women to expect men to pay if you are the one who invited her out. When you think about it, energetically you match with the ppl who are reflections of you! What is your intent with online dating? Some apps are notoriously known for hookups and transactional "love". Not saying this is you, but if you were only expecting sex at the end, then that is no different from this girl expecting you to pay. When you make bold statements, like "women just expect men to pay, even on bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:22 PM
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Right!! I agree! We as humans are very fluid and always growing and changing. Someone who you may love dearly at the start of marriage, may change as the years go on. A lot of ppl seem to fear divorce, but if anything I think it's a reflection of how feelings change, as time progresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:54 PM
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Dude! You don't know this woman, yet you are telling her about her own life experiences, just to defend the dude. When you should be taking notes, because if you ever end up in a situation like this with a wife/gf you may have an idea of why she's not fvcking u
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:20 PM
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So then if that's why you want, align yourself with what you want out of life and everything else will fall into place. It doesn't make sense to blame and judge all women for the small handful in you and your buddies lives who screwed you over. I've been lied to by many guys, and you don't see me trash talking the other half of the population for the couple dudes I knew. The world is your oyster, and gives you whatever you ask, and your complaints are only a reflection of yourself and how you se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:46 PM
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Right! It doesn't because money is matetial, and tells me nothing about him. A man who puts his worth in $$ probably only values the superficial in a woman as well. A gentleman who values character is who I swoon over
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:49 PM
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🤢🤮 lol it's truly funny! Some of you of dudes make it very clear that you only make monetary investments in women only to get sex, ie buying beers/dinner. But then turn around and whine when women only want yall for the very thing you use to attract them 🤔 Might I remind you kind sir, it is the kindness a man leads with, and the respect and appreciation he treats ladies with. Now that sir, is how a gentleman attracts the fairest lady of them all. Queens do not desire a man's wallet, but some gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:10 PM
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That's sad you speak of women that way. And just shows how much some of u dudes think a dinner date entitles yall to sex, as if we're some cheap whores. Glad I don't stick with the trad, dine and fuck, and just go to arcades or something with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:02 PM
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Sir, we attract who we are, or at least who we 'believe' we are. If you are attracting women into your life that are subpar to your expectations, and have high requirements then that is only a reflection of your own core beliefs. You said it yourself, "not even a debate, women" therefore, whatever you tell yourself, is exactly what the universe will confirm for you. It's all In the book "the Power of your subconscious mind" great and insightful read BTW
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:59 PM
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Dude based on ur comments it just seems like you're looking for validation that supposedly women have higher standards. Why ask a question to the general public, if you're not willing to at least respect peoples' opinions 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:51 PM
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It's not black and white like that. I believe men and women can simultaneously all have unrealistic standards and expectations, just depends 9n the person. In dating, I've met men who have unrealistically high standards that were based on porn, and I've met women who simply want everything given to them, while putting in little to no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:42 PM
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Yes, this 100%. I've been running into the same thing. Everytime I've met a dude on those dating apps, there is always something emotional they're holding onto, and bring into our casual fling. Like they've been cheated on, they got out of a long term connection etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:53 AM
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Right! These standards you speak of, I mostly hear about them on social media. I think it's so amazing how men and women will have long checklists of their person, but then when you go out into real life, You see everyday people of all shapes and sizes, and from different walks of life, and it makes me wonder why we spend so much time on these lists instead of just meeting real people in our daily lives. It's actually comforting that we see ppl irl who don't fit those standards because it just r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:35 AM
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I don't agree! "Red pilled" men create themselves. Just how Keanu Reeves made his OWN decision to take the red pill in the Matrix, men choose to accept how they want to see their own reality. We are all individuals with the freedom to make our own decisions, and our actions are solely OUR responsibility. Blaming women for who a man chooses to be everyday is not the ladies' fault, it's his own for not taking accountability for the self-love he needs. What you are saying only makes it okay for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:25 PM
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That's just societal conditioning. Women who truly value men consider everything holistically opposed to what he can provide. If you have a hard time believing women can genuinely love a man they're not physically attracted to then look at your own values and beliefs. Sir, we only attract what we are and believe about ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:23 PM
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Ok, kind sir! We are only sharing the internet, I'm sure we are miles and miles a part. Sir! I only want the best for my fellow humans, what benefits would I receive from being fake? gasp glass breaks I was taught by my grandparents that kindness is the best medicine, and every man and woman must be treated with dignity and respect. Wouldn't you agree that when we treat anyone less, that is what contributes to the hate and fighting that is currently amongst our world, and country? May the earth …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:31 PM
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🧚‍♀️✨️ Kind sir, virtue signaling? I have no idea what you are speaking of. I am a lady 💎 blessed with the opportunity to be here, just as you are kind, gentleman. I only speak of my fellow human beings in the most positive and truest light, as it is your purpose too, kind sir. I can see it ❤️ i am an empath and a healer with great intuition. Plus, we are debating, it is my purpose to spread love and joy amongst all along my path because low vibrational energy is not good for the soul. Do you ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:56 PM
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Good day to you, kind stranger 🧚‍♀️✨️ a lady is a kind gem, and a man is a gentleman, sir. Have some compassion for your fellow, human counterparts. Kind sir, never forget your purpose on this abundant earth. You are meant to spread love, and joy, and your purpose is to meet othe kind, and gentle souls, silly boy! Don't let anyone, ever.. ever.. make you feel less about yourself, or your fellow lovely ladies. May the earth continue to bestow its gems 💎 light ✨️ vitality 🌿 and love ❤️ kind strang…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:15 PM
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Good day to you, kind sir! 🧚‍♀️✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:18 AM
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British accent Good evening to you sir 🧚‍♀️✨️ the deed is done. All 168 million American women have been banished. Yes.. banished.. to the darkest abyss, never to be seen or heard from again. The polarized states.. I mean.. United States of America are now saved, the men are now happier than ever. WE did this, sir, but because of your faith and determination. Lol wait, then doesn't that make this post nonexi-...... que sad violin music from SpongeBob [A moment of silence for the american woman, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:57 AM
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British accent Then what is all this speak of?... of?... 🧚‍♀️ Fat bastard women? Fat-nasties? Old disgustings? We've only given you what you've asked for, and who you chose gasp 🧚🏻‍♀️ say no more we will banish all.. yes.. all.. 168 million American women, so they can never, ever, make you feel less than que the fairy Godmotha from Shrek 2 🎶 "Just.. a.. wave of a magic wand, your troubles will soon be gone..🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:00 AM
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Once again. Good for you sir ❤️ I hope you enjoy everything this abundant earth has to offer you. The world is your oyster, let it bless you with its pearls every.. day! Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:40 AM
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Exhbit A of exactly what I was talking about! Good for you, sir. You are deserving of whatever your heart desires. Don't let anyone ever make you feel diffently, okay? 🫂 Dammit all 168 million of those fat bastard, obnoxious American women. If only there was one healthy, sane woman. Also fetishizing a whole culture of women 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:27 AM
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What the hell? Nothing I said was meant to imply only women take accountability, while men don't. All I'm implying is, when a relationship ends sometimes ppl never look at what went wrong and how they BOTH contributed. So if a dude is hopping from girl to girl, not looking at what he brought to the relationship amd what went wrong, how he contributed etc, then he's not being accountable, same goes for women. I'm on ur side dude tryna help you, here. I respect men and women both. So please do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:07 AM
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Lol how are women the limiting factor in reproduction, when it literally takes 2 to tango and a woman present to give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:43 AM
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I'm considered an American woman, and since I've let social media consume parts of my free time, I've noticed a lot of American men hating on us- literally millions of women they don't know and will never meet, all because they've dealt with a small handful of women who supposedly aren't traditional, and disrespectful/unappreciative. Some men with their generalizations, and lack of accountability are now looking for other outlets, like traveling to foreign countries to find wives, and now I gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:30 AM
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Let's just agree to disagree. You keep making statements about me that aren't necessarily true when it comes to mating and attraction. Even though I'm 27, dating is new to me so therefore I don't do or care about half of the things ur even complaining about. But ur talking to me as if you know who I am and what I desire. I don't turn around and blame all men for things I've went through because I have no past with ex bfs, and such. The only masculine traits I care about are his independence, can…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:21 AM
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If you feel that all women are attracted only to money/status/looks then you are sadly mistaken, and hanging around the wrong ladies, or u spend too much time on social media. And you contradict yourself! Explain this to me: you mention you pay for EVERYTHING for ladies you like, but then get upset that they aren't showing more interest. So then shouldn't that serve as an example that women deep down DONT care for money and what a man does for them materially? Hmm 🤔 It's just funny how you try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:39 PM
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Because every woman is different, and can live their lives as they please. We don't all think in unison, like a monolith. Some women, such as myself, feel that dating and relationships are unnecessary at some moments in life, where other women, live based on their relationships. I don't understand the need to compare
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:06 PM
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Because we live in a society that over prioritizes sex. Everything has always been catered to fulfill the male gaze, look at porn. Look at how women are portrayed in the media. Society js constantly coming up with new ways to keep selling sex to men because supply and demand, and AI bots r the next up and coming thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:58 PM
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I agree that male loniless is as epidemic, but i dont think AI bots are solely to blame on women. I disagree with you on friendzoning. Women genuinely take a romantic interest in men who are forward and comfortable with their sexuality. A dude who is in the friendzone, puts himself there because he doesn't embrace his sexuality. Friendship and romantic interest are 2 completely different relationships, so if a dude keeps trying to "play it safe" by only being overly nice, she's never gonna get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:53 PM
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I believe them. Although I agree they are all beautiful, they most likely feel insecure, and struggle to accept a part of themselves. In society, men n women alike are held to this standard of what ideal beauty looks like, and whemevet they feel they don't match it, that's when maybe they feel they are 'ugly'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:38 PM
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No, I'd probably explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:24 AM
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Noticed this a lot too, and think it has to do with biology, and societal conditioning. I remember learning in biology how in many different animal species, including humans, the females select their male mate, based on the "best", or most dominant traits, in order to produce healthy offspring. In this case, tall is the dominant trait, and is most likely sought after and expressed genetically. Currently tho, I also think there is a fixation on height because our wider society says that tall is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:20 AM
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I think it’s a bit of a stretch to claim that women are “abnormal” because of less common sexual preferences. Just because a majority of the population is comfortable with having casual sex or choosing to not hold off on sex doesn’t mean the women who don’t are mental/damaged/insane. Everyone has a right to do what they want with their body, and I think it’s discrediting to those who choose to not follow the norm. Take me for example, I’m a 23 year old virgin, by choice and for personal reasons,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:47 AM
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🙋🏾‍♀️ I am, but I choose to hold off, on sex until marriage for personal reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:26 AM
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No, I don’t think women are losing out on a high quality guy if she is holding off, on sex. I say this because I (23F) am a virgin and waiting until marriage, for personal reasons. I’ve heard left and right from people that it’s going to be hard for me to find a man but I just think that statement isn’t logical, because 1) that discredits all the other men out there. How does one guy know what other men are willing to consider in a relationship? 2) they aren’t me, and don’t experience what I exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:25 AM
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Had posted a comment earlier on here but have another idea for answering this question. I’m currently a bio major, and one thing that I’ve learned is that as far as mating, amongst living things, women are the ones in control and pick the male they’d like to mate with. An interesting thing that animals do is mate with the males that have stronger physical and behavioral qualities. Because that means their children will most likely possess those same qualities, ultimately making them more fit for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:59 AM
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This is a very interesting statement, and one that I can attest to. I (23F) started gaining weight around the age of 10 and was my biggest at 18 (around 250 lbs.). When I started college, later that same year, in 2015 I was more in control of my lifestyle and what I was eating and began going to the gym regularly and eating healthy. I lost a significant amount of weight, and am constantly reminded of how attractive/beautiful I am. I’m still the same person with the same body and face, but becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:43 AM
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As a female, I can attest to this. I’m not saying I only want a man with a 6-pack, I only think it’s attractive because it shows that they are disciplined as far as health and fitness. But at the end of the day, I appreciate all body types.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:32 AM
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I think this has to do with the idea that, as far as attractiveness, a lot of people will base qualities of their ideal companion on materialistic and superficial things. For example, there’s the running joke that women won’t even consider a man if he’s under 6 feet tall. And then one of the most common stereotypes, that women only want a man with a bigger package. The same goes for men who prefer women with a smaller build, but require all their “assets” to be bigger. But the problem is these a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:29 AM
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I haven’t dated a lot, but literally a year ago and pretty recently, actually, I was talking to a couple men (with the intention of dating if things worked out) but it ended up not working out. Mostly due to miscommunication, but there were other factors as well. With one guy it turned out we wanted different things, he wanted casual sex, but I’d rather wait and develop a friendship first and see where it goes from there. With the most recent guy I was talking to (we kinda had a LDR going on), h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:06 AM
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Yea, just some food for thought. We should be helping each other and looking up to one another, because for every boomer that retires, there is most likely a millennial that is a recent college grad filling a lower level position. Personally, I have a lot of respect for Boomers as they are wise and have seen a lot. Therefore I think it is only right for them, along with gen x’ers to pass down advice or something beneficial that can help a 20-something, instead of complaining that we are just thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:07 PM
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I mean, I understand that every 14-16 years or so is a new generation of people, but I don’t understand why we are divided between generations. One thing that we all need to realize is that young adults and teens who are reaching maturity are in a time period that is vastly different from people who achieved maturity in the 80s or 90s in the gen X generation, or the 60’s in the boomer generation. We have far more access to technology than any generation that does expose kids, teens and young adu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:19 PM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:11 PM
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This is an interesting statement because for me it’s the reverse. I am 23F and before I deleted my tinder account, several matches would say some cheesy pickup line. I never understood it, I admired their cleverness and creativity, but it became tiring after so many men pulled this. I’m talking 10-15+ men, and this is part of why tinder. Is. Not. For. Me. Don’t care too much for small talk, but I value the start of a conversation that is slow and dry over a corny pick-up line, anyway. So I agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:38 AM
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I don’t lie about the men I find attractive. I don’t find “ripped” men attractive, but do find athletic and fit men attractive. I value maintaining a healthy lifestyle, by following a plant-based diet and going to the gym regularly. So my ideal man is someone who shares similar lifestyle interests and hobbies to myself, (like going to the gym) therefore, I take no shame in my attraction to muscular men. No one should take shame in “hurting others’ feelings”, when expressing what they’re attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:25 AM
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