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She's shit testing.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:57 PM
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Too much thinking. You need more plates, so you'll think less about this shit. Even if you turn her into one or not. Just plate.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:54 PM
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That's the one. Thank you
/r/askTRP15/11/18 07:25 AM
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Nope it was a different one. This is a good one but the one I remember was different.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:15 PM
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There are many out there. But this one was of epic proportions. Should have bookmarked it
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:56 PM
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@peruaan, strikes head of nail here.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:39 PM
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I'm 34.... Just wait. It gets better. I've been RP for 1.5 years now. Life is bliss. My 30's are the best years of my life.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 12:27 AM
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This belongs in PUA not redpill
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 10:43 PM
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Women will move their schedule around when they're interested. Hard next this girl OP
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:49 PM
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yup he's not lying
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:38 PM
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I have WAY better luck and am generally more comfortable approaching at a lounge or at the grocery store. The dance floor just sucks for me. I'm not confident using ONLY my body language. I prefer to use my words. That said, I think people here will say to just approach her from the front, where she can see you coming. Stick your hand out and nod towards where you wanna dance with her. IE: Lead her to another spot even if it's just 3 feet away.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:19 PM
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You win the internet today.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 06:56 PM
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Take this upvote with pride and honor.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 01:46 AM
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You have lost your mind hitting on a girl under the same HR umbrella as you.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 01:39 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. There is actually no point.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:47 PM
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Gah damn that is brilliantly said.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 09:06 PM
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I'm not as good at thinking this shit up like you guys are on here. Good advice though, I'll remember this.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 04:09 AM
1

Gah damn, I like this idea a lot. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 04:08 AM
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I enjoy edging. And at the age of 33, after so many years of edging. You learn control. I highly recommend dabbling in the art of edging. It's been great for me.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 06:50 AM
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That happened to me twice in my twenties. Shit happens. Stop porn. I also will purposely not masturbate 48 hours prior if I know I am going to see a girl. Don't sweat this. The sun will rise tomorrow & you'll have plenty of erections.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:14 PM
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A loser for spending $1000 on a woman? I know of very attractive very successful men that would say $1000 for one hour about once a week is worth not putting up with listening to a woman for one hour on a date. So it's perspective mate. Based on your perspective he's a loser. Based on people like POTUS, some celebrities, & some business men I know... Paying for sex is awesome. Or as they say, paying for her to go away and not have to listen to her, is awesome. It's all based on your perspective.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:04 PM
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I know of very attractive very successful men that STILL rather pay for sex than put up with a date. So, you're not doing it wrong. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Just make sure she is tested. Cheers mate.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:00 PM
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"leaving a trail like a slug, back to your place" Brilliant
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:28 PM
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I want to help local men in my area (I am in Arkansas) Am I allowed to make a thread on TRP to advise if anyone is in the central Arkansas area and wishes to learn from me along with go out and put teachings into practice, or watch how I approach women... Is this allowed by the admins here?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:49 PM
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Welcome to the other side. Where you give TWO SHITS if you have sex that day or not. You've had sex with HB8's and above and you just don't care if a HB10 walks in the room and shows interest in you. I can provide ZERO comfort. Just know, you're not alone. If you find an answer please advise, I am in the same boat as you. The only thing that seems to make me happy now is teaching people. Teaching them to shoot a gun properly, or manage finance, or whatever it is that i can provide people. That's…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:43 PM
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Instead of trolling you, I wish to help. But I need you to edit the OP because I can't decipher a thing in it.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:37 PM
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I'm 33... I'm so much better than I was at 25. You're gonna love it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 05:31 PM
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Perfect reply. You did great in that reply
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 08:04 PM
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I'm 33 so I understand the dynamic here as I've dated an older woman recently until she moved out of state. Your plate needs to fall into your frame. IE: When she invites you out somewhere, don't go. Rather invite her to your place when she's done doing her thing. Because you're busy working on something and can't go. You have plans. Or a project, etc... If she's not interested, simply say " no sweat, reach out to me when you'd like to come over for dinner and drinks." That's it. Don't entertain…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 08:02 PM
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She was bipolar. You were fucked from the jump OP. Nothing you could've done. Be glad she ghosted. Less headache in your life.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 10:17 PM
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If I'm by the remote control and she asks politely for me to hand it to her, I do just that. If she says "give me the remote" I proceed to not act like I heard her. So don't be a dick, if she asks politely.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 10:10 PM
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It always applies. If a friend of yours gets an A in her class or she gets a job promotion and she tells you, you simply say something along the lines of "Nice" Instead of "Nice!, you're so smart I knew you'd do so well" Only compliment when your plate or S.O. does something you wanted them to do. Like cooked for you, is having or just had sex with you, went over to your parents house to check on them while you were away, etc... Giving a compliment to a stranger, that is a female you are attract…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 03:25 AM
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You speak to the entire table. You do not single out one girl from that table. What I do, is I will walk up and instead of asking permission "May I ask you girls a question?" I say in a loud enough voice "Ladies, I apologize for the interruption, I need to know who here at this table is single?" Now one of two things will happen. You will get answered with a question back (IE: Why do you need to know this?) or you will be answered with them qualifying the single one (IE: She is, or we all are) W…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 07:25 PM
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I disagree with questions that are close ended. IE: she could respond with yes / no to answer them. Instead of "Are you from TN?" try "You look like you're from TN." This shows confidence. And she must now qualify herself. Also, what you wrote here " For example, instead of walking up to a girl and approaching her directly, you might make a casual remark to a girl who you walk past, (I.E. “I really like your shoes.”) " Don't compliment a woman you don't know. Only compliment a plate and/or S.O. …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 07:00 PM
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Now this makes sense. thank you
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 08:16 PM
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For sure. You'll get better at this the more you do it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 05:00 PM
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The cereal analogy made no God damn sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 04:14 PM
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Do not compliment them. Not their glasses, etc... Never compliment. And shut your mouth. Assume they want to dance. Put your hand out. If they ask what for, you say "we're dancing". If she doesn't puts her hand in yours IE: doesn't come, GREAT, she's not interested move on to another one. Talk less, act more. You got this. Only speak when spoken to when you're in a club. You will waste less time doing this.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 10:23 PM
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I've had more fun in my 30's (33 currently) than I ever had in my teens and twenties combined. Well said above me.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 06:28 PM
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I am myself. The only thing I "act" / lie about aka hide is my gahdamn emotions. When a woman asks me how I feel, I feel fucking great (hiding and not talking about my actual real emotions). My greatest asset is shutting my mouth and letting the woman talk. The more she talks about herself, the more attracted she is to me. So yes be yourself. Just shut the fuck up about your emotions. I wear what I want to wear when I want to wear it and my voice is the tone of voice it always is. I only fake me…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 06:21 PM
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Unfriend her on all social media, delete her number, and feel the fucking weight lift off you. Also, you're not average looking. You're uniquely you. Embrace that shit. If we don't start instilling some god damn confidence in you now, you're gonna repeat the same mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 06:20 AM
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OP, I can assure you this has happened to all of us. This feeling STILL happens to me despite being on TRP for 1 year. Try not to let it haunt you, which I understand is easier said than done. It sucks to play these games with these females. Where you must hide your emotion and not pursue them. The best advice I have ever gotten, and I will forward it to you, is to place YOUR WORTH in your actions on how you deal with situations. It's not about how hard you hit, it's about how much you can get h…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:49 AM
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Less ONEITIS OP. And don't get down on yourself. It has happened to all of us. Do not text her or anything. Wait for her to reach out to you. If after 7 days you hear nothing, delete her number out of your phone.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:40 AM
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You know how most ALL of us learned about TRP? By research. By googling. We were brought here by our own will to learn how to better ourselves. You can never help someone that doesn't want to help themselves.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 04:01 AM
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Came here to type exactly that.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 07:22 PM
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I am laughing at you calling her an egg. Because I know exactly too many women with that body type I see on the daily here in the south.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 04:13 PM
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I want to highlight what you said when you stated be a prick occasionally. I know several alpha TRP members who have never once been a prick to their plate(s) or SO. BUT you did hit the nail on the head with rewarding. Often people read that word reward and presume that means treating her like a dog. No, it's basis means giving her positive attention. Contingent on her love language, you hone in on that love language that speaks the most to her. (yes there is a book on the 5 languages)
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 04:06 PM
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A message to the OP: Your mom does love you. She may have had "odd" ways of showing it as she grew up into a woman. And maybe even now may lack awesome characteristics of the "perfect" mother. But she does love you. I know this because she didn't fully abandon you. It's awesome you have recognized some faults in your character along with working proactively to be the best version of you. That's REALLY what TRP is all about it and I worry it often gets translated into we're all a bunch of men str…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 03:55 PM
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Agreed, they are most difficult to find in this beta liberal era. My own grandfather gets shit on by his two daughters and his wife. So much so that he no longer speaks on anything. Ask him for advice? He tells you to go talk to Grandma because he doesn't want to say the wrong thing. This "Happy wife happy life mentaility" will be the death of man.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:30 PM
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Correct. If you have "feelings" talk to them with a male elder or a male friend that has a good head on his shoulders. Don't bring that stuff to your wife. She's not equipped to handle it nor should it ever be her job to deal with your feelings. Her job is to feel secure by you or feel insecure by you and seek someone else that will provide security. You want to convey something to her do so with your actions. Not with your words. Words are meaningless. They literally mean less than nothing. For…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:02 PM
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What a fucking analogy. Well written. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:10 PM
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Understood. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:02 PM
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Many of us are not single. Those that are either choose to be or are new around here & in need of a mentor. I hope your popcorn was good. Try getting the popcorn you can pop on the stove. Because the microwave is a leading cause of cancer for most of humanity.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:59 PM
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MEN can express emotion. It is healthy to do so. Just don't fucking do it around your plate(s) or S.O. unless you want her to lose her attraction to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:53 PM
2

Correct, I actually teach men to NOT give advice unless asked for it. And even then make it, at maximum, two sentences long. If your advice has to exceed two sentences then I tell men to have your girl call her mother or a girlfriend for advice since you're not equipped to help.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:50 PM
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We do not, nor will ever condone beating a woman here on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:46 PM
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Because it's not & will not ever be your womans job to comfort you. Rather, us men are there to comfort to our women. Put a roof over their head, food on the table, etc... The only time you should "feel comforted" is during the times she reaches for your hand, rubs your head, or is laying on the couch with her arms extended waiting for you to lay your head on your chest. Outside of that, we all must learn to shut the fuck up and not ever discuss VERBALLY our feelings with our woman. Took me year…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:30 PM
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My first time reading this but I love what he wrote. Thank you for linking it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:26 PM
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I laughed at this. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:18 PM
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This. Mothers will love unconditionally. But a man should always seek the advice and comfort from a fellow man. Especially an elder (someone older, with experience) because then and only then can he achieve true advice built and molded for him. A woman cannot give the best advice for she has never been a man before.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:11 PM
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Just read the amount of examples of men getting poo poo-ed on by "nice sweet girls, that just wanted them to open up". Please learn from my mistakes and the rest of us. You still have time to salvage what damage you may have done by expressing your feelings verbally.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:08 PM
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Assuming you're seeking sound advice, on HOW to "fuck bitches and get money" not just the typical 'frat boy response' one liner as if that's suppose to help your situation. Ideally, if a man seeks advice, he'd like to know how to solve the problem he is facing. Not be handed a beer and told fuck bitches and get money with no sound concrete way of achieving said target. (I am a fraternity member-can confirm, this advice was shit back in the day)
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:02 PM
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I understand how you feel as I was raised by a woman with no real man to teach me how to NOT rely on my mothers tit. Luckily, we have all found the TRP.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 06:00 AM
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I'm sorry. It's happened to me when I was younger so I know what you did/are going through. The greatest thing about that is it lead you here to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:55 AM
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Do not bring it up verbally. Ever. You reward her actions that you like. You stop giving attention when she does not perform to your expectation. And I'm not talking about sex like most people on here do. If you mean affection/attention like getting your head rubbed by her, or her reaching for your hand. I get it. I too want those things. But if she isn't giving you that. You should NEVER need to tell her. Rather you need to find your soulmate cause that girl simply isn't cutting it for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:54 AM
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I will not induce further discussion of why I am certain you are wrong. I will agree with you that we disagree. At the end of the day you are a man on TRP and I am as well. We are, in theory, on the same team & try and help each other. I respect you as such.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:49 AM
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Exactly this. I love what you wrote.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:46 AM
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god damn, how right you are. I never realized it but every girl I have ever dated never had a girl friend for more than 6 months-ish. After that time she would be talking shit about her "best friend"
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:36 AM
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I am upvoting you because more people need to see this. Also, I have made this mistake myself, so I am glad people like you and I are able to learn from them thanks to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:34 AM
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I am a man and I am not interested in sex.... Until the right, attractive, woman comes along. Some massive obese woman wants to have sex with you. You say no. A HB9 wants to have sex with you 5 minutes later. Turns out you are interested in sex after all. The same principle applies for those girls that do not want ONS.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:31 AM
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You don't avoid showing emotion for fear of being judged. You avoid showing it because it's not her job to deal with your emotions.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:24 AM
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Just listen to your plate(s) or S.O. Never give advice unless she asks for the advice. When or if she asks for advice give her at most two sentences. If you have to give more than two sentences simply tell her to call her mother or a woman that is older than her. Also avoid saying "uhm" to her.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:23 AM
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You misunderstood what I wrote. Communicate your frame and let her fall in your frame or stop talking to her. Sure. But never communicate your "feelings" with words. Communicate them with action or lack of contingent on the subject at hand.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:21 AM
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Because they are not mentally equipped to give advice on issues us men face. They don't walk in our shoes.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:18 AM
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But you have online friends that will listen.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:18 AM
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Agreed. As men, we must realize that having emotion is a ok. Crying is ok. Heart break is ok. Questioning what to do next is ok. But doing so in front of a plate or S.O. is out of the question. Journals and singing has also helped me as well. Glad I'm not the only one that will journal. Heaven fucking forbid a plate or S.O. ever finds it though. So I leave mine at work and will stay a little later after work or come a little early to write in it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 12:22 AM
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I am sorry to hear about your dog. I've been there and no words I can type will comfort that loss. But this is a good example of how women are.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 12:20 AM
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Correct, any and all emotion. This too applies with anger. Don't tell your girl about your shitty day. Tell her about the positive things about your day IF and only IF she asks. You want to speak less, and listen more. If you speak for over 2 minutes about your day. You're doing it wrong. If you wanna be chatty Kathy, call your friends, dad, etc... And don't do it in front of your girl.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 12:19 AM
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Fucking nailed it here. Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 12:14 AM
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Jesus Christ, not this again
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 11:03 PM
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Literally everything you said... Yes. Perfectly said.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 10:35 PM
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I know them feels man. Happened to me too.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 09:51 PM
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God damn we took a sharp left turn there DMVA100
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 07:32 PM
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PSA: Never ask a woman/girl what was the best sex of her life. WHY? She will then begin to think of the best sex of her life. And the image she has is not your face. No matter WHAT her answer is, you have now placed pressure on yourself to be the best sex she has ever had. Always assume, in your mind, your dick is the biggest. You are the best sex that she will ever have. That kind of confidence will get you the girl. To the OP: Don't feel bad. I have literally done this twice to myself. But we …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 07:04 PM
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Yes, it's literally a known rule around here to not ask questions UNTIL you've read literally everything in the sidebar. We didn't construct the side bar for no reason.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 06:24 PM
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*Sigh* Please read the side bar before commenting on anything else. You will thank me later.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 05:48 AM
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Yes sir, I shave every 3 days so I don't keep any facial hair.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 10:30 PM
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I shave every 3 days. Still get girls. Gotta do whatever makes you feel more confident. When you feel confident, your whole frame changes for the better.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 08:07 PM
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I want men to understand this from the OP: -Facial hair made him feel more confident. Which, led to him getting some ass. I don't want men to read this and say facial hair is the reason he got some ass. Do what makes you feel confident
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 08:05 PM
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My ex smelled like my forearm after I showered. Meaning, smelled like skin. IE: smelled like nothing. It was glorious. Out of the 30-ish women I've hooked up with. 6 had an odor. The rest smelled like plain ol nothing. I detest the smell of "vagina" that some seem to support is "normal".
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:13 PM
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Yes be positive. Be fun. Don't talk like her actions bother you. Be confident. And don't be afraid to end the interaction before she says she has to go.
/r/seduction14/10/17 05:21 PM
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