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| 1 | What Are The Weirdest/Most Random Reasons You’ve Lost Interest In Someone?She was overly enthusiastic during sex. Like, to the point where it doesn’t seem genuine and ends up being kinda weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 04:40 PM |
| 0 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverThat’s very educated, independent and highly successful of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverGoing to need more than that. Some people are very snobby about their education. I have a bachelors, not from a top university or anything, but some women I’ve been out with really flaunt where they went to school and/or have a masters and acted like they were superior. It’s a real turnoff. And being fit is definitely preferable, but if all she talks about is eating clean and going to the gym seven days a week, hard pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?That’s accurate for multiple people I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereUsually when people say “work”, they mean a job that pays money… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 10:31 PM |
| 18 | New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual datesIf you’re nearly broke, you’re not in the top 5% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?I can’t imagine he invested that much money in her, and because she doesn’t want to walk down the aisle with him, he divorces the mother and sours the relationship with the daughter he invested so much in? This doesn’t really make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | NY Post - Millennial men want 1950s housewives after they have kidsTwice a week? Seems excessive. We do it like once per month. But they do everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?Nobody said it takes 7-8 years to meet a woman. I dated more women in two years of online dating that in my entire 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 04:34 AM |
| 4 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?Agreed. If you have social/dating experience going into online dating, you’ll be much better off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:49 AM |
| 32 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?I know how to talk to people, but after coming out of a long period of working on my career and getting back into dating, dating had shifted from talking to random people in bars to those same random people just wanting to be out with their friends and didn’t want to be bothered. That’s why I went to online dating. It actually worked out way better than trying to talk to people in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?So where do you fit in? Your parents must have found each other’s appearance attractive enough to reproduce. Are you saying you have zero appreciation for anything aesthetic? And those that don’t reproduce, don’t. Whether it’s voluntary or not, that’s how the world works. Why WOULDN’T you like something that’s aesthetically pleasing. Troll elsewhere or read a book or some shit man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 06:52 AM |
| 1 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?Why do people like aesthetically pleasing things? Ask yourself: why do I like how this woman/man looks? What about this flower/car/plant/building/shoe/literally anything? Because it’s in your brain to LIKE things that are pleasant to the eye. And why is finding babies cute related to survival? Paying more attention to cute things? I think the parental aspect of the brain comes into play at that point. Absolutely no idea where you’re going with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?They do apply to today. She wants to feel smaller than him, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?Because a lot of women like to feel petite and being with a tall guy makes them feel that way. I like smaller women because I think it’s attractive, it’s the same thing. And it’s not just about feeling petite. Yeah, they do like the idea of a big guy because he can potentially “protect” them, but they know we’re not in an effin hunter gatherer society anymore where we need to fend off foes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:30 AM |
| 9 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?We’re not in the wild anymore. Haven’t been for thousands of years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:05 AM |
| 12 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?Good looks have nothing to do with fertility or anything like that. People just like aesthetically pleasing things, it’s that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women?“Deal with that threat more”? Are you forgetting D-day? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 03:57 AM |
| 0 | If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women?Hope you’re kidding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 03:51 AM |
| 2 | What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about?Muscles and/or big dick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families?To be honest, I don’t feel regretful, but I do sometimes wonder “what if”. Then I remind myself how we live in a very expensive area, we both have high-stress jobs and when we’re not working those jobs, we want to do what we want to do and not have to cater to a child. It was a huge stress relief to realize that I no longer have to worry about saving for college, moving to a place with a good school district, buying stuff the kid will never use again, and we can spend it on ourselves. I’ll alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 05:27 PM |
| – | Would a guy feel compelled to have sex with me if I bought him dinner?What do you mean “how online dating should start”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 03:21 PM |
| 15 | Would a guy feel compelled to have sex with me if I bought him dinner?Men outside of college age aren’t going to meet people in college since they’re not in college, so many use OLD. So do women. It’s perfectly normal for a high-value person of any gender to use OLD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 03:06 PM |
| 4 | What does she bring to the table?Lab diamonds are real diamonds, by the way. They’re just made in a lab as opposed to in nature. You can call it “natural” vs “lab”, but saying “real” vs “fake” isn’t accurate. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/09/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | What does she bring to the table?Good thing resale value shouldn’t be the importance/significance of an engagement ring. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/09/21 06:46 PM |
| 2 | What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past?Remain in top shape, improve anything you can, have some hobbies and a social circle. Sounds like you’re going to be more average in the city you’re moving to than in your hometown. Being top in a small town and then moving to a city where you’re more like the average can be a shell shock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a markYes, what you do for work is a normal question. It’s a conversation piece where you get to know more about the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that cheating is different between the genders?This is a fantastic perspective on cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?I don’t want a stay at home wife. I want a wife who will contribute to the household income. I live in a very expensive part of the US and if you want a house that’s not in a ghetto, you need a two income household, or one income that’s very high, which neither of us have. Combined, we’re a $200K income household, but that’s not that impressive here. I would much rather a wife who continues to work and we share household responsibilities equally, rather than she stop working after having a child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Alpha fucks... beta bucks! *On a side note always paternity test your kids!Shrinkshooters comment says you can’t do anything about the results, even if it comes back as not your kid. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/01/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Alpha fucks... beta bucks! *On a side note always paternity test your kids!You can’t do anything with the results is the point... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/01/21 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Kept my word about being less fat this time around 😤To the OP, this is excellent advice. I was going for a quick tip advice, so this is more in-depth. For clarification, you (OP) don’t need to do cardio since you’re already skinny. Focus on the right weight training and high protein diet. Two most important things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Kept my word about being less fat this time around 😤5’11” and 130 is really skinny man. I’m 5’11” and about 170, I would consider this the best shape I’ve been in. Lifting and elliptical 5 days a week, high protein, low fat foods. At your height and weight, you probably look pretty skinny. Do more arm and chest workouts and eat lots of high protein food, that’ll change it. But like, a lot of it. You’re lucky that you’re naturally skinny, so eat a lot of (healthy) food, and it’ll work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 07:23 AM |
| 2 | It’s because we LVM are not worthy of you.Agreed. She’s adamant about continuing her career, she’s a teacher and she’s dedicated to it. She’s actually the one that brought up not necessarily wanting children and I’m okay with that. We both work, continue to do whatever we want and not be tied down by kids. Go on vacations and have nice things, sounds good to me. And if it doesn’t work out, neither of us owe the other anything. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/11/20 05:28 AM |
| 3 | It’s because we LVM are not worthy of you.Honestly, if you married a woman who made the same income or close to the same income, this would be a non-issue. I’m in that boat now; same income, gonna get married, not sure on kids, but we’ve agreed she’d continue to work after having kids (making the same money). She doesn’t want to be a stay at home wife/mom. I think the lesson here should be, if you wanna get married, marry a woman who makes decent money and won’t stop working after having children. This saves you from the divorce rape sc… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/11/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Why are men bothered that they wouldn't be a woman's first choice?Damn bro, two Playstations have come out since the PS2 and the third later this year! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Gotta pay for everything, because I can’t be a responsible adult.Because you’re fat and have nothing to offer me as an incentive to date you. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/05/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areI don’t know who that is, but that’s his opinion and he’s entitled to it. Just like I’m entitled to mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 06:24 PM |
| 0 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areIt doesn’t matter what I’m attracted to, since those are my preferences and are irrelevant to everyone who isn’t me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 0 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areAgreed! My last two long term relationships came from online dating. I would have never met them if I didn’t do it, so the digging on online dating is a tired argument as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 3 | The reason dating is so difficult is generally because of how shallow we areIt’s not shallow to want a physically attractive partner. I feel like the only people who complain about people overemphasizing looks are people that aren’t all that good looking. Yes, I want a good looking partner because I need to be heavily physically attracted to them for the relationship to work. There are obviously personality characteristics that are very important as well, but it won’t work if I’m not heavily physically attracted to you. I’ve been there, and I’ll never do it again becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | If You Want a Marriage of Equals, Then Date as EqualsWell there’s your answer (in her reply), she’s an FDS. Majority of which have dated such low value men that they basically hate all men at this point. Helpless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 05:02 AM |
| 5 | If You Want a Marriage of Equals, Then Date as EqualsYou doing makeup/hair/nails/whatever primer is has nothing to do with what a man owes you. It’s what you’re choosing to do before the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 06:05 AM |
| 7 | Looks get women quickly, but personality reels women OVER TIME.You do realize that’s probably why guy #1 doesn’t seem as interesting? He’s not trying like guy #2 is, guy #1 is getting his and doesn’t need to hit on the lab girls. I don’t flirt with the cute girls in my office because I have no interest in them, so I’d probably seem boring to them as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 02:55 PM |
| 6 | So. Who is ready to WIFE those QUEEN? REAL MEN STEP UP PLEASE.I will gladly leave her “tf” alone. ✌🏻 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/01/20 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Are guys here expecting mothers to treat their sexually unsuccessful sons like mothers treat their romantically unsuccessful daughters?I’ve lived both, Tinder didn’t come out until my late 20s so all the way up until then was meeting people at bars or through mutual friends. It was difficult, but for different reasons than today. Today, you have a huge pool to choose from so you can argue that it’s easier to find your ideal match since you can get picky and there are so many options. Plus, you can see options from cities that are a half an hour away that without the apps, you’d never run into them since they don’t live in your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Welcome the one of a kind 21 year old entitled princess, has 3 kids already and 2 are on their way. Is tired of men acting like dogs. Only decent men taller than 6ft need to apply. Don’t ask for “NODES”?She’s definitely tasting the sandwiches. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/11/19 05:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV: It's not worth it for men to get married in USA.You have that conversation while you’re still dating. This is how you get on the same page during the dating phase so things don’t fall apart later because neither of you communicated your wants and values. I was dating someone and we started talking about working situations and what we both wanted after kids (not necessarily with each other, but in general), we’ll she didn’t want to keep working after kids and I want a wife who keeps working, so that was a fundamental difference in our expectat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/19 04:00 PM |
| 6 | CMV: It's not worth it for men to get married in USA.Some people want to devote themselves to one person, they don’t want the choice of “dating anyone”. It might seem old school, but a lot of people still like that idea. There are also financial incentives to marry (taxes). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 08:02 PM |
| 16 | CMV: It's not worth it for men to get married in USA.I have plenty of couples in my social circle who are married and make similar money. If they got divorced, they’d just go their separate ways, share custody and nobody owes any alimony or child support. This is one of the reasons why I intend on marrying someone with a career who doesn’t want to be a housewife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 07:50 PM |
| 5 | CMV: It's not worth it for men to get married in USA.That’s not very logical, it’s not like there’s a choice of who is going to give birth, it has to be the woman. Both continuing to work and provide for the family is called a partnership, that’s a healthy relationship because it’s not one-sided in any way. And that’s what I’m looking for, a partner, not a housewife. My parents had me, my mom went back to work after maternity leave and they’ve been happily married 40 years now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 05:36 PM |
| 5 | CMV: It's not worth it for men to get married in USA.How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 05:09 PM |
| 25 | CMV: It's not worth it for men to get married in USA.Just marry a woman who makes at least as much money as you do and keeps working after you have kids. Even if you get divorced, you won’t owe her anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What’s a deal breaker for you in a relationship?It has nothing to do with want... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menAsk her what is it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 05:57 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menHave you ever thought that when she read RP ideas on dating/relationships she read something that resonated with what she sees/experiences so it’s not all a bunch of misogynistic negative information? A lot of the non-toxic aspects of it are basically observations of how men and women interact in dating/relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 03:06 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menWhy do you think your wife showed you TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Parents should be able to choose joint custody instead of being forced to pay child support.And how much do you make? If you make more than $70K, you pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 02:18 PM |
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