CHEPO1966 Archive

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4	She wanted 80/20 custody… now she wants to reconcile after everything came out and I’m messed up over it I'm sorry, but you know deep down, this will happen again. Move on, save yourself more pain, she won't change. I get the impression that she only wants to get back with you because the guy didn't want anything serious and stuck with plan B. Good luck and open your eyes, take your time without contact.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/26 01:03 PM
2	She's cheating and doesn't know I know. How sad and humiliating, but anyway, you can still be smart about all this. I imagine you're not sleeping with her anymore. Try to be indifferent, try to go out and play sports, and I insist, try to be as indifferent as possible towards her and stop humiliating yourself. Indifference and going out without saying anything to her will hurt her, and she'll start to value you as a man.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/26 01:27 AM
8	Don’t mind being alone but I hate being lonely. My wife left me Brother, she is not a good person, she can't be a good person if she lied to you, she had everything prepared before she left, she was already with the other guy, it seems that the only one who didn't know was you, The good thing is that you are young and can rebuild your life, and overcome everything bad, your ex is already fucking another guy, she is already damaged material, she starts acting indifferently, rushes the divorce and the slightest contact, I assure you, when she notice that you a…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 07:56 AM
10	Walked away from my wife and her daughter Sorry brother, but it's not his fault, first of all he has no commitment to you and even less loyalty towards you, secondly, most men, if you give them the opportunity, they take advantage of it, the name when they can and the woman when you want The only thing that failed you was your wife, no one forced her to fuck her lover. The best and healthiest thing is to be calm and show your worth as a man and person. Talk to a lawyer and get the papers done, and everything will be fine.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 08:44 PM
10	Separated about to reconcile but wife has told me she slept with someone Could you give a little more context, in order to give a better opinion. For example, if she asked to separate, it could be that she was already talking to this guy, that's why when you asked her to come back, she didn't want to, she thought the grass was greener on the other side, and the guy just wanted to fuck nothing. but, and now he wants to return to his plan. How old are they, do they have children, since when was she in contact with the person she was fucking. and since when they were fu…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/23 08:28 PM
5	Wife changing her mind Take your chance, if you don't get divorced now, you'll regret it in a while, when she fucks another guy again. Remember that she wanted to leave you for her lover. Everything she tells you is a lie, I bet they are still in contact, don't be naive.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/23 12:48 PM
1	Separated, Devastated, and Now Wife Divulges She Has Medical Issues Seek a divorce, perhaps since when they are fucking with the friend and you don't want to open your eyes.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/22 11:27 PM
1	Separated, Devastated, and Now Wife Divulges She Has Medical Issues If you want to know the truth, hire an IP, don't be so naive, he left for a reason, and he doesn't want to be with you, he already has someone else,	/r/Divorce_Men	01/12/22 11:24 PM
6	I need some advice guys. 38/M Brother, some advice, this jar is already broken, even if you want to repair it, it will never return to its original value, If she wants counseling, that you did one just for her, don't waste money, you're not the one who failed, she got hot, with this guy and now she wants to come back, The lack of respect and lies, you can't let it go, take your children with this guy, she crosses all the limits, Don't tell her anything until the divorce is over, she works on you and don't get into a relation…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/22 11:09 PM
3	when the kid hates their mom He will have his reasons, for a reason children behave this way, remember that your wife had an affair, and your son was very young, she preferred to go fuck with another guy instead of having time with him, and the worst left them lying to both of them, to continue fucking whoever he comes across, and in the end you have to be honest, his mother, has never been a mother to him, while you have been everything to him, She destroyed his family, the children, they are very intelligent, he must real…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/22 04:54 AM
2	Should I tell? I really regret what you are experiencing, much of this happens, how permissible and condescending we are with our partners, we always think of them and our children, before our own well-being, which is a big mistake, a depressed man, with low self-esteem, and without worrying about his mental health first, is useless. In the end, everyone justifies his actions. I recommend that you first talk to your children, then begin to expose their lies, that is not harming them, that is called UNMASKING A…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/22 11:13 PM
3	I feel so trapped/defeated (long story/rant) Brother I am really sorry that you are in this situation, it shows that you are a good man, and that you have values and principles and most importantly you have dignity and self-esteem, Do not blame yourself for your decisions, I think they have all been very successful, she failed in everything, too many red flags and many disrespects, there are things that should not be said even in jest, like "go see how they fucked her" I think that the only mistake you made is to tolerate a lot, even if …	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/22 02:09 AM
1	Think it’s about time to call it quits on a 11 year marriage with 3 kids Brother, I'm sorry, but I think it's time for you to put on your pants, you should already have talked to a lawyer, or report the abandonment of the home and minors by this woman, if you don't respect yourself, who else will? , Talk to a lawyer, and start recording all the conversations with her, protect yourself with cameras, and a recorder in your pants, start acting before it's too late, she fucking somewhere else and you taking care of the children and you still haven't told anyone DO YOU RE…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/22 12:18 AM
6	Did I lose? Brother, first of all, I'm sorry that you still suffer or think of someone who is not worth it, you showed that you are much higher than them, when you took her to leave with him, a person with dignity has much more value, do not commit the Error of falling, in her game, avoid arguments, try to be the most indifferent to her, communicate sunshine because of the essentials of the children, tell everyone yes, even if you do something different later, and if she says something to you, apologize and…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/21 04:46 PM
3	Need help understanding Excuse me, but this looks the same as her, she does not love you and has another partner, when she tells you that sex disgusts her, she is telling you, that she does not want to be with you, she must have had another person for a long time, It is up to you to investigate, and you will discover the whole truth, you are just a checkbook, and maybe your partner is engaged,	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/21 08:58 AM
1	Ex wife 32f left me 39m 2 years ago, now she wants me back. We have a 9yrs old kid together. I still ice her but I am confused. What should I do? Brother, you should take advantage of the moment, you know that you cannot have anything serious with her, but it is not bad that you take advantage of sharing some time, if in the end, you already know her, and she is a woman with whom you cannot have anything serious, at any moment she will leave you again, the first time she had everything ready to be with the other guy, she left your son and you, for his AP, she married him and had a whole exit plan and it didn't turn out like her he wanted,…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/11/21 10:07 PM
8	I’m a good husband, but she has unrealistically high expectations of me. Brother, I'm sorry for what I'm going to tell you, but your whole story, it looks more like a woman who has had an affair for a long time, maybe you are in denial, but you should find out, it sounds more, like you are her safe harbor, the who gives food card and everything, if he loved you, he would want to be with you and spend vacations with you, and if you realize it, you don't seem to give a damn about it, Rn your situation, I would try to find out, put some cameras in your house a VAR, aber…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/21 02:34 AM
2	The WORST Wife in the World! First of all, I'm sorry for what you've been through, but I think, that much of it, was because you allowed it, and you allow it now, As a tip, try to put some cameras and a Var in your house, just to protect yourself and your children, Try to do the DNA test as much as possible, with your children, try not to have much contact with her, Really. be careful with her, in the past I already accuse you to the police, protect yourself as much as you can.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/21 09:56 AM
2	Are you happy after divorce? Brother, you are just 42 years old, although you may not believe, you will be able to find happiness, do not ask for it, she will come to you alone, I advise you, that from now on, you should worry about yourself, to heal mentally and physically, your priority should be you and your children, forget about your ex, she does not deserve, that you occupy your time thinking about your marriage, she died when she broke the vows of marriage and fucked her partner, you must forget about her, this woman…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/21 03:14 AM
1	I see the finish line!! Good to know about you, and that you are getting better every day, together with your daughters, and how are you, your ex is with her AP,	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/21 06:39 AM
2	At the end of my rope. Looking for any advice. Really, you know what you have to do, it is unfortunate, but your wife is out of the marriage, the fact that she is already planning, on weekends with after people, leaves a lot to think about, perhaps, for all that have you counted, she already has an affair, You should start to put all your things in order, and present the papers, I know it is painful, but with this you are reducing the losses, these types of people, who live victimizing themselves, and plan weekends with other people, are che…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/21 07:14 AM
2	I’m Moving On Gentleman Really, I am glad that you seek to be happy, it is important to be calm with yourself, it shows that you are a great man and a good father, life passes very fast, as if to be with someone who only expels misery and sadness, You should start to worry about yourself and your children, try to go to a gym, go for a run, this would both help you both physically and physically, it increases your self-esteem, try to gather evidence and value the other spouse. Good luck and I know that you will find ful…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/08/21 11:44 PM
1	Officially filed today Good thing, that you are separating, from this manipulative woman and unworthy of being your woman, it shows that you are a great man and a good father. Her anger is that she is realizing that you are a man with character and you will not let yourself be humiliated any more, she abused you, while she was fucking her friend, and she is on her adventure, a farzant woman without values, Without love to her family, this woman destroyed for a penis, her entire family, not only did she betray you, jus…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/21 10:10 AM
4	An uphill battle that seems endless First of all, not all women are like your wife, there are women with values, principles and dignity, and the most important thing they respect their husband, I say it, so that you open your eyes, I see that you are begging for a little love this woman, this woman who fucks whoever gets in front of her, Get away from her, the safest thing and I really tell you, that son is not yours and is her manager, Man, have a little dignity, it shows, that you are a good man, an excellent husband, and I thin…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/21 12:48 AM
2	Need advice You can't allow this, you shouldn't go out of the house, she should go out, Go talk to a lawyer immediately, and don't let this guy stay in the house, sell the house and stop supporting your wife's AP.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/21 10:34 AM
1	Question The first thing, do not do or such about getting out of the house, she is using your children, to opyener your house, is manipulative, keep firm, in custody 50/50 and if you have a lawyer, fight for the main one, if you You leave in the house you will repent every day of your life, do not let yourself be manipulated with the children. You should tell a bit of history, to be able to issue an opinion, with a clearer jucian,	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/21 11:20 PM
1	Don’t know what to do The first thing, you should not have left the house, it was she who was in love and was fucking another guy, she should go out, Second, have a little more self-esteem, you are a good man, you cannot allow yourself to be disrespected over and over again, and do not take your children as an excuse, you can ask for 50/50 custody, do not let them Keep manipulating you, have a minimum of dignity, she will never change, she knows that she can do whatever she wants and you will always come back, since …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/21 02:10 PM
2	Need some advice I think that with what he did to you, you should immediately contact a lawyer, try to see the possibility of staying with your children, if they are yours, do a DNA test, it is totally necessary, leave the house and cut all communication with She, just talk the essential, referring to the children, she was planning to leave you, if the other guy wanted, now she had to go back to plan B, which is you, maybe I thought you were stupid, and you would accept, stay with her, and then your AP returns, …	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/21 11:56 AM
2	Wife cheated and the abandoned kids and I. What's my best option? Brother, change the sheet metal of the house, and speak quickly with a lawyer, and tell the whole story, start recording every conversation with her, put some cameras in the house, really brother try to protect you from this spawn of a woman, abandonment To your children and even if you want the house, try to get a restraining order, when you start screaming, record it and show it to the lawyer, protect your children from this shit. good luck brother, and first thing a lawyer	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/21 12:29 AM
2	When is it safe to move out? Do not make this terrible mistake, and do not confess the other, until everything is unaltered, protect yourself with a VAR in your pants, you should read the stories, where everything is agreed, and in the end I end up with a distance away Take care of yourself until everything is over.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/21 11:54 PM
1	I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way? Friend because you left the house, the house belongs to the marriage or it is rented, his friend lives with her now, or he is married, if he is married you should talk to his wife, if in the end he is guilty of destroying your marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/21 09:01 PM
2	I am not sure if I was cheated on or not but still feel like I was. Is it valid to feel that way? Friend, don't worry, your ex definitely had an affair with your friend, both of them are shitty people, cut off all relations with both of them, just talk to your ex, your son, nothing more Try to enroll in a gym, it will help you emotionally and physically, it will notably increase your self-esteem, and you will begin to see things from another perspective, you deserve something much better, than a woman who has fucked her friends, It shows that you are a good man and a great father, you will f…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/21 08:57 PM
3	Anxious today as I sit at work Look, I'll talk to you as honestly as possible, I think you're humiliating yourself a lot, you're blaming yourself without realizing everything, I'm really sorry about your son, what you should start doing is trying to be as indifferent as possible. The relationship with her friend is very doubtful, without being divorced yet, it is impossible for her to leave for a whole weekend, it is a huge discharge of respect, your wife is already 37 years old, she is not a girl, she knows what ago, you rea…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/21 11:53 PM
1	Just told my wife. I know it's the right decision but it was the hardest thing I ever did (2 kids) I am not judging you, for any reason, I am just trying to make you see, that you can, make a mistake, and there is still time, to react, I tell you, with the sole intention, that you can see that there is still hope, and even but when there is love, I know that many times, you can feel exhausted, but for a single smile, it is worth fighting	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/21 07:26 PM
2	I don't know how I can be friends Brother, I'll be super honest, the first thing you must realize is that your wife is no longer the same as the one you married, now you have to be smart, try to be indifferent to her, and get up well, until the divorce ends, once finalized and shared custody, you forget about her, it is not necessary to have a relationship with her, now she only works on you and your children, she has already left, it shows that you are a great man and a good father, I know that you will reactivate your life and…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/21 11:31 PM
0	Just told my wife. I know it's the right decision but it was the hardest thing I ever did (2 kids) Brother, I am very sorry for your decision, it is that of a coward, in all marriages there are difficult and very difficult stages, it is where you see the fear of a man, if there is no infidelity, nowhere, everything can be fixed, maybe not You went to a suitable counselor, maybe they have not been releasing their stress in the appropriate way, in a gym, going for a run, having a punching bag to hit, there are infinities of things you can do, and talk to your wife, to try to keep the family tog…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/21 07:09 PM
1	How to do this and minimize my losses? Check the local laws, and if you can see, if there is a divorce with fault, or without fault, if it is without fault, you could go or move to one with fault, and try to gather evidence, or speak with a lawyer, it is best to separate , and not continue losing your life with someone, who you do not love and who has truly destroyed your entire family.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/21 05:04 PM
5	Need Advice.. Brother, excuse me but I will try to be as true as possible, I will begin to tell you, that you have made many mistakes, trying to save something that is dead since before starting, this woman has never loved you, you are only a safe port, or are you just a provider, and as soon as he has financial security or finds another, he will leave you, Look, I bet you, she's already fucking someone else, that's why she doesn't sleep with you anymore, or tries to get away from her, Brother I think it is t…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/21 03:45 PM
8	STBXW isn't acting like a mother You still believe that she is a responsible woman, to leave them with her, who destroys her own family, for personal satisfaction, she could never be someone responsible, I will be super honest, stop thinking about her, and protect your children and yourself, you should have already realized their attitudes, you should have spoken with a lawyer, you should have everything documented, the money you spend, it use, to enjoy with her lover, or even want her to come back, after taking you and your ch…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/21 06:44 PM
3	From love to contempt First of all, I am sorry for what you are going through, but I think you are making a big mistake, when you start to remember and try to get her to come back to you, trying to understand a woman, who is in a physical adventure, you have To make you act indifferent and try to make it happen afterwards the divorce, try to be as little as possible with her, be late, go out with friends, join a gym, do different things, be at home, remembering, or crying , It will not help you at all, it will only h…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/21 05:30 PM
2	Divorce in U.K. next step? Brother, just be honest as you are, tell the truth, if you do not want to say it in person, just send a message, saying that they will divorce, and the reason, the truth is important, do not lie or fall back on her height, to protect her, If you do, you will just lower yourself and then she will make up anything, even that you were aggressive, And with regard to living together, it is not right, I think it is better for one to move, I do not think, that it will make you stay by her side, she arr…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/05/21 05:20 AM
1	I am on the fence about my divorce could use some advice. Brother, I'm sorry to say, that your ex is somehow right, you allowed her to cheat on you over and over again, you swept everything under the rug, you were her doormat, your lack of character, allowed her to fuck whoever she was. He would cross the front, you no longer had dignity, bequeath to the point of knowing that he had others, beg him not to go to a party, your story, it is truly sad, to see, how a man can fall so low, I hope you're already divorced from this reluctant woman You have done…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/21 09:33 AM
2	Hey guys. Need help Brother, try to enjoy your life, together with your wife, you cannot always think that you are going to get divorced, or have with her and start enjoying going out, to the beach, to the country, buy a car and enjoy yourself with your family, try to be as happy as possible with your family, maybe that will join you more, and not worry so much about the future, save what you have to save but take advantage of being happy.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/21 07:37 PM
5	Waiting out an abusive relationship so I can be there for the birth of our daughter soon. Worth it? Friend, I'm really sorry about your situation, I think you should protect yourself and your son, put cameras in the house, and try to interact with her with a grader in your pocket, be careful, remember that the judges believe everything to women, If you don't have evidence you can go to prison, the other thing that suits you is to stay until your child is born, and see how it works, One question, your wife had an affair, or she has some relationship, an AP. I ASK ABOUT HIS BEHAVIOR, IT IS TOO W…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/21 02:59 AM
2	Wife has the kids and I have no idea where they are I imagine that you are already with a lawyer, and you have realized that she took the children, without telling you anything, remember that they are still married, be very careful, she is no longer the woman you fell in love with, from now on, you have to be on the defensive, women in these situations are very dangerous, I would advise you the following 1.- Talk to a lawyer as soon as possible, it is important that you present your divorce papers first, try to collect the amount of information a…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/05/21 02:25 AM
2	So now she’s trying... First of all, I am sorry for what you have had to go through, for so long, but I think you may have been guilty, acting before, now that you have 4 children you cannot continue to endure, do not think that I am questioning you, I only say if you have suffered all the time, since you have had 4 children, did either of you cheat? If she treats you, she must have or be on an affair, See if there is no cheating on her part, and also she does not want to lose you, you should try it, if you have been …	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/21 05:02 PM
-2	Actions make No sense I am sorry, all this, I know from your publications, that you are very hurt and cannot understand their behavior, remember something, the adventures, they are not necessarily physical, they are also emotional, through the internet, there are women, who have completely destroyed their family , for an emotional adventure, with men younger than them, up to 20 years old, by difference, sometimes they are stronger than the physical ones, The other thing may be, that she no longer wants that life and …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/04/21 03:29 AM
9	Trial Separation - Any Experience/Rules/Advice? Brother please do not make the mistake of moving, this will bring you many consequences later, if this is over it is better that you do it legally, you can file the divorce, and stop it during the process, it is better that you leave the house, They can accuse you of abandonment, or later they can not allow you to enter it, women have many tricks that you can see that you still do not know, We don't really know why, but don't make the mistake of going out, you'll regret it later	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/21 05:26 PM
2	Pop up divorce from wife, no talking out of it. Brother, really, all the actions of your wife are typical of an adventure, it is better that you leave worthy of all this, hurry the paperwork and if you want to find out who it is you can hire an IP, it can be a partner, that I eat the night From the snowfall, she is currently living her romance and she just wants to be free, take advantage and let go, once you present her with the papers, maybe she will react, and she realizes that it is only fever and sex, IF YOUR STATUS IS GUILTY GET AN IP. …	/r/Divorce_Men	14/04/21 10:44 AM
8	Can I even afford divorce? Brother, really, your wife is already on an adventure, that's why this recent confection, you should find out, the other thing you should say that you have no problem but start working, fight to stay with full custody, money is important , but more important are your children. 1.-Talk to a lawyer and see all your extensions, 2.- Gather as much evidence as possible, and make a folder. so that at the time of her divorce, he would hand her over to her and to all those who wish to 3.- I know it is u…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/04/21 10:20 AM
1	I think I may be headed towards divorce. Advice? Brother, I'm really sorry that your wife is cheating on you, and the important thing that you have already trusted, now is up to you, what do you want to do, if you keep your dignity and values, or do the one who knows nothing continue with this farce, I imagine you must already know more about a friend who already knows that she is having an affair You should get ahead of yourself, and 1.-Talk to a lawyer and see all your extensions, 2.- Gather as much evidence as possible, and make a folder. s…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/04/21 10:04 AM
3	This is really hard Be careful, this can get very dark, in your place, I would put some cameras and some tape recorders, lest I accuse you of something that you would never do, like family violence, talk to a partner and bring your children back The other, because you have been so unhappy during the last 5 years and you have a son of 3, I think, you should tell why and if she has not been unfaithful or it is only because of her character, they can still be overcome, tell us and maybe we can give you good advice, an…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/21 12:32 AM
7	Stepson visitation Really brother, I'm sorry, but it seems that she is already dating someone else, since she started to get distant, be sure, her actions are typical of these cases, It is better that you start the divorce papers from her, the faster the better, the less pain for you, try to be the most indifferent with her, maybe, with that you will make her react Good luck and everything goes well	/r/Divorce_Men	12/04/21 11:23 AM
3	Advice + Do I need an attorney? Look brother, I'm going to make you super honest, and if you want to have some posivilidad, you just have to act, women, they like men with character and that they don't beg, you can be honest with her, and tell her that you love her, but if she wants to separate, you accept it, one,. Don't take risks, minimize them, TALK TO A LAWYER. 2 Start the divorce proceedings, and be served at work, or wherever, 3,. Start doing exercises or enroll in a gym, put on a boxing bag, all this will do you very w…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/21 08:03 PM
1	The emotional roller coaster sucks! Estiado, I have read your story and the comments plus your answers, I really regret that you are going through all this, I congratulate you, for making the decision not to leave the house, I would recommend you, that you walk at all times with a tape recorder and if You can, put caaras in your house, and please, I really tell you, do not say that we are exsagerados, and that you are 99% sure of something, if you saw the number of stories similar to your case, that the man ends with restriction I…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/21 04:21 PM
2	Mixed Signals from STBX It's good that you don't leave your house, I don't know if you saw a story very similar to yours, everything was friendly, and I hope they served him, of course he left a week before his house, it really was all friendly, according to him until he received the papers, accused of being an aggrasor and an infinite number of things, with restriction, without being able to see his children, it was chaos The good thing that you have been intelligent and anticipated, the other thing I would recommend,…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/21 03:19 AM
1	Mixed Signals from STBX With even greater reason, (really with all due respect) are the typical attitudes of a person who is on an adventure, it can be EA. Or PA. YOU COULD CHECK A LITTLE, CHECK HER PHONE, WHEN SLEEP OR HER NETWORKS, THE OTHER TRIES TO BE THE MOST INDIFFERENT WITH HER.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/21 10:09 PM
1	Mixed Signals from STBX Dear, if you think about it, she still feels something for you, how sex is explained, the oments of tenderness, they are moments of lucidness on her part, this attitude on her part, is typical, of someone, who is on an adventure , and has oments of remorse, You should find out and investigate, you can solve the problem, the other thing, you do not think that individual therapy is better for her, alone first. And find out, well what is the background of everything. BE LUCKY, AND IT WILL GO OUT FO…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/21 09:22 PM
3	We had agreed to amicable, just got served (Texas)... What a shame, really what you are living, if you read a little stories, you will realize that: 1.- there are no friendly divorces, 2.- Your wife's behavior is typical of someone who is on an adventure, EA. AF, that's why the restriction of not approaching the house, you are delivering in a van, the possible AP to your ex, 3.- She is not the woman you married, she became another woman, she is your enemy. 4,. hires a lawyer, tries to talk to her family, to try to get evidence of her lies, Remember…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/21 09:22 AM
2	Officially Divorced I congratulate you, for having had the strength, to be able to get out of such a toxic marriage, and from such a wicked woman, your wife no longer had a shame, But thank God, you are in a great stage of your life, the other good thing is that you can be with your children, And in the end what happened with your ex-wife?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/21 04:23 AM
3	Lost and Broken Really, you ask if it is cheating, of course it is cheating to send nudes and videos to another man, if you are married, maybe, I already fucked her, that's why so distant with you, find out, and talk to your parents and tell the truth, no While to protect her, she is not your wife who you fell in love with, this is now another, you must fight for yours, and do not start begging her please, you are not to blame for anything, and what you did is not rape, she is Your wife and they were under the …	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/21 06:52 AM
2	Am I in the wrong? The first thing, you know that this attitude is self-defense, she is having an affair with this guy, it is something that you find out and you will find out, you could, put a VAR in his car, at home, to find out what happens, you could contact one of her friends and find out what is happening and since when, Brother, if you sweep this under the rug, it will never stop again, it will lose all respect for you, as it is doing right now, you must start acting differently, start being totally indiffe…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/21 05:49 AM
3	I Think it's Happening Brother, there is a story, similar to yours, and the woman, had a PA, from before she got married, they went to therapy, and during the 3 years married they had almost no sex, according to she had a trauma, until at In the end she discovered that she had sex with her AP EVERY DAY, EVEN IN HER BED, very similar to your story, begin to investigate, and you will discover that she has someone else who fucks her, that's why she wants to justify herself with an open marriage. you are a great man you d…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/21 10:56 AM
2	I Think it's Happening First of all, I am sorry for what you are experiencing, I think you have been a person, excessively understanding, aaa before continuing I will tell you that when someone tells you "She has told me throughout our marriage how dedicated she is to me and that she could never see herself with another man" It's a big red flag I really think she's not faithful to you, and she already has an AP. There are too many red flags, and what else makes you realize this is asking you to open the marriage, I'll…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/21 10:45 AM
3	2nd thoughts Brother, since you started, your story, I have always asked myself, first how much passion, how low self-esteem you have, when you should, have so much faith in you and great self-esteem, do you have your children who love you, are you an excellent father and great man, you do not think that you should think about yourself, and start talking to a lawyer and see all your extensions, she shows at all times that she despises you, and does not respect you and less loves you, I have always believed t…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/21 07:25 AM
3	My soon to be ex-wife has stolen $300 from me When parents or relatives get into relationships, cause a lot of damage, and unfortunately you lived with them, once your wife finished studying, she realized that she could earn more than you, added to the opinions of her mother and Grandma, they took her further, you were only a means to reach their goal, once arrived, you stopped being useful, it is better that you leave, and thank God, that you do not have children,	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/21 04:15 PM
2	Should I leave her? That, is exactly, advice, for a comrade in arms, nothing more, I know many similar cases, in my 32 years of belonging to the Navy, and I know that it is very difficult, to bear	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/21 02:53 PM
2	Should I leave her? When they told you this "Get DNA and STD tests and start meeting with lawyers" But hey, the important thing, that you read, and you can meditate or think, openly, you do not know everything that any spouse is capable of, many times you will be surprised, how lazy some people fall, you could read some stories,	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/21 05:08 AM
0	Should I leave her? UNFORTUNATELY, SHE REALIZED THAT YOU ARE A WEAK GUY AND WITHOUT CHARACTER, NOW SHE SAYS TO YOU, TO SERVE YOU, AND AS HE KNEW YOU HAVE A SITA, YOU TOLD HER, TO HER, start acting without saying anything to her, and let them sivan her and voila, protect your daughter, tell the lawyer, that she left her house, and leave you with her daughter, tell her everything and stop acting like a child, you are already 30 years and a daughter to protect, your wife left, just to be with another or other types an…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/21 04:37 AM
4	Should I leave her? I'm sorry, that you laugh, and that you think, that the people, who try to support you, were stupid, to be honest, many of those who support you and give advice. They have already gone through the same thing as you and much worse things, It is clear, that you need, that you advise yourself, she left and you have not done anything yet, to protect your daughter, I see that you have not yet spoken with a lawyer to see your posivilidades, I see that you still believe that she left and did not have t…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/21 04:21 AM
1	Dipping a toe in A VAR is a voice-activated recorder, you can put, in your car, at home, the only thing that, there are some states, where they cannot be used in cars or where you work, although you can use it if it is just to discover something special.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/21 02:03 AM
6	Lies About Family Violence AS IT WAS FOR YOU IN COURT, YOU DON'T HAVE AN APPOINTMENT FOR 3/15	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/21 12:37 AM
23	Lies About Family Violence BROTHER, YOU SHOULD ALREADY BE WITH A LAWYER, AND SUBMIT THE POLICE OR THE STATE, YOU HAVE DONE THE URINE AND HAIR EXAMS, TO DEMONSTRATE THAT YOU DO NOT USE DRUGS AND TAKE THE PSYCHOLOGICAL EXAMS, YOU CANNOT GET CROSSED ARMS CRIMINAL TO YOUR WIFE FOR PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL DAMAGES, SHE IS NO LONGER YOUR LIFE PARTNER SHE IS YOUR ENEMY, SHE IS SICK. DO IT FOR YOUR CHILDREN	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/21 12:31 AM
2	Dipping a toe in First of all, I am sorry that you are going through this, I know that nothing justifies the betrayal, whoever it is, from my point of view, it is a total reason for a divorce, the R is a waste of time, since pain and resentment it never happens, Look brother, the first thing you have to do is contact a lawyer and start to see your possibilities, and what are the things you need, the other thing is to try to gather or collect the maximum of evidence, and see if it is a guilty state or not, Try to…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/21 11:16 PM
2	Moved out and now the sadness!! According to your history, you lived in a happy marriage, until you started your AE, with your employee, if this happened as your story says, it is because of you, it was not because of your wife, she could not overcome your adventure, I am sorry that you gave yourself Realize late that you loved your family, in life everything has a price, how bad your payment was very high.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/21 12:59 AM
1	It’s such a drastic change With all due respect, but you are the culprit, a man always has to be honest, and you had an AE, with your employee, and you told her, you destroyed her emotionally and now you want me to act differently, I'm sorry, but he Damage that you caused, to this woman, it shows that it was great, assume your mistakes with a stoic man.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/21 12:52 AM
-2	Update - Hired the lawyer. Wife is now on best behavior. The problem. Because of your story, which is too distrustful, I really believe, without trying to defend anyone, that your decision is very extreme, and I think that with some work, it can be overcome, maybe you are separating your failure, for something easy solution , With respect to a previous publication, I will tell you that I do not agree that a marriage exists privacy between them, if they married it is assumed that there should not be secrets between you, look at it from the other side, …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/21 08:48 PM
2	Wife asked for divorce yesterday SHE KNOWS THAT DAYS THESE THINGS, YOU THINK THAT I WOULD DO, HIDE EVERYTHING, WELL IN THE END YOU ARE THE ONE WHO DECIDES, WITH REGARD TO BEING INDIFFERENT AND I REFER TO YOU, DO THE 180 I READ IT AND YOU WILL SEE, AND PLEASE, DON'T BE SO CREDUL, YOU COULD READ SOME STORIES AND YOU WILL SEE TRULY INCREDIBLE THINGS, I ADVISE YOU TO FIND OUT AND THEN SAY, YOU MAY HAVE ANOTHER PHONE IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE A SUPER INTELLIGENT GUY, LOOK COO UCHOS HERE, YOU BY YOUR AGE COULD BE MY SON, I JUST TELL Y…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/21 09:05 PM
1	Wife asked for divorce yesterday You already know what happens, or you think you know, or maybe you don't, you are a type of a great noble, and I think that your daughters adore you, what you do for your wife, is not moral, your support is appreciated, I'll give you some advice, your wife is having an affair, that's why her way of acting, you know, all this, you should install something on her phone, I hope I'm wrong, but all her acting is typical of a woman in an adventure, I think that she does not respect the limits, I would…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/21 08:04 PM
4	Wife Is Having An Affair-Divorcing Soon Brother, really, thank God to get out of this marriage, she never loved you and you were only her bank, and I imagine, that the AP does not contribute anything, that's why when you separated the finances I called you and I blamed you for ending with the jij. It is very expensive, I bet you the AP will leave it on the sidewalk, You really believed it was your fault, read what you wrote and all your actions were, of an almost perfect mardo, open your eyes, she is a sick woman, Try to continue in t…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/21 10:02 AM
1	Any advice The depression he has is because he wants to get out of marriage, there is no other justification, even if you try to convince yourself, old man, your wife, he likes another kind of life, he does not want to be with you, he wants to fuck with other guys, he already chose that , depression is a pantaya to get out of your marriage better, I'm sorry, but it's the truth, when she's not at home and she's fucking other guys, do you think she has depression? Stop dreaming and wake up brother, let her g…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/21 08:20 PM
1	Any advice Old man, excuse me, it seems child's play and they are parents, or they have not realized it, one time you and another I, I will be super sincere, you see that it was your wife's turn to be unfaithful, it seems that she was stuck, and I liked having an adventure much more than you, he liked having the possibility of fucking with other guys, Let him go and be happy, he will not be by your side, you have already lost your posivilidad, with your decisions, I don't know how old you are, but since yo…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/21 08:12 PM
3	Need Some Motivation Or Advice Difficult situation, in which you are, I say it because of the imminent danger of your girlfriend, towards the physical integrity of you and your daughter, one day you can come home and find something that you could have avoided, Good advice, as a father and from the experience of the years, take your girlfriend away from your daughter and from your life, she is only causing harm to you and your daughter, You have to think, that she is still not aware of the damage that she is causing, and she t…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/21 07:23 PM
7	My head is scrambled I am sorry for the unworthy of your wife, and the damage caused to you and your children, in short to your family, look brother, sex in these moments of your life, should not be so essential, worry about doing things right, and start With your divorce, your ex will never regret the damage caused to your family, you know that she left, to be able to live another life with her AP, if you did not know, find out, you cannot bring her home again, she will not you care less about your children, at the…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/21 06:34 PM
4	A good follow up story Post Divorce that I wanted to share with everyone as I’m 2 years out still dealing with the scars The truth is, I don't think you are, so much for her, but I think you are, because you know that they scammed you, and you bought them all, you never realized that she was taking advantage of you, really You were very naive, since you started to tell the story, you really noticed something turbid, your wife cheated on you with coworkers and you did not say anything, she wanted to have a child, and then leave you and have a pencion for life, and as you still did not want, he got bored, jijij it w…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/02/21 08:36 AM
6	I’m new HELLO BROTHER, nowadays, it is happening even more, this of cheating women, who do not care about their family, they are only interested in satisfying their needs (according to them), normally, we can read here, first I phone, with password And without leaving his hand, according to them, he has to have privacy, hehe, really? I thought that when one got married, there were no secrets between them hee The other thing that, it is said, my wife, is a good mother, heh or you see, really? can be a go…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/21 11:13 PM
8	Gender roles in divorce Brother go ahead, you are an excellent man and a great father, let her join in his shit, Karma for her will be great, her wrongdoing will be returned to her. You could sue her for alimony, or for staying caring for her children,	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/21 07:58 AM
2	Here we go. What a pity that someone occupies the name of God, for their depravity, it is sad, to see in the world we are living, what you have to do for yourself and your children, is to go to a lawyer, explain everything and start documenting everything, even her messages, also you already know that she is cheating on you and she has been fucking him since before she gave you that, check her phone, be cautious and gather the maximum number of tests, she is no longer your wife, and she is not the same Who …	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/20 05:16 PM
0	[Advice] Cheating wife doesn't know I know. Claims to be trying to work it out. Lying to my face. Friend, first of all, I regret your situation, secondly not least, you are the one who decides in the end, you are the owner of your values and principles, if you are happy or bitter, if you like to be a fat man or doormat, everything It depends on you, and the truth is that I have always heard the same thing from children, look, children capture all our changes when they are children, I think you are very clear about what you have to do, document the bad mother that she is, she goes out and giv…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/20 08:28 PM
1	Wife got served I get the impression, throughout your history, you have started to think that she has had an affair, how to explain the lack of sex, the caresses, or it was always if since they were dating You did not read a story, that after they were married, they stopped having sex, they went to therapy for three years and in the end he discovered that she had a lover, so she did not want to have sex with him, find out	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/20 02:05 AM
1	Wife ran off Brother, you are great, really, you know what you have to do, from the day you were unfaithful, the important thing, you have to be calm, and I know that after the horizon there is a good and there woman waiting for you, the decisions are yours, the important thing that you think about them	/r/MGTOW2	23/11/20 07:38 PM