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| -3 | Cutler to ‘Soon to be Ex-Wife’Yeah ask Kim K if there’s money there. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/05/20 02:36 AM |
| -30 | Cutler to ‘Soon to be Ex-Wife’Ran a business and worked on multiple tv shows? She was getting money long before Cutler. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/05/20 01:40 AM |
| 1 | The two worlds: Generally speaking, what are the attractive girls and higher value guys doing after college? How is the lifestyle like after graduation? (Mid 20s, late 20s, and even 30s)Late twenties guy checking in: Status is always going to influence things, but it my experience its matters less in your mid/late twenties than it even did in college. I'd imagine it swings to more influential as you reach your thirties and the older you get. Popularity literally doesn't mean shit. Few of my friends actually live within the city I live in (most live outside it in the suburbs) and I'd say close to 100% of the girls I've hooked up with I've met when I'm out solo at bars. If you wa… | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 01:34 PM |
| 1 | What are some good brands of cologne?Great for girls with (grand)daddy issues then | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Do girls make remarks about your strong eye contact?100% this. I've had more girls remark on my gaze wandering and finding it's way back to them when speaking than anything else. But the key to this is knowing when to focus your eyes on them during the conversation (when you say some suggestive for example). | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What are some good brands of cologne?+1 for Eternity. Great summer cologne | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women of Seddit, why do you value confidence so highly in guys?Yeah this was exactly what I was thinking. There are so many different things that could add to or diminish self confidence. | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Women of Seddit, why do you value confidence so highly in guys?Not trying to be combative, just kind of confused by your statement. Are you saying that you prefer the 'ugly duckling' type chicks? Or are you just saying you don't want a girl who has no self confidence nor a girl with an inflated ego? | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Women of Seddit, why do you value confidence so highly in guys?Sure they can, but I'm not sure that's customary. It's much more subjective when it comes to what kind of personalities we are attracted to, whereas there is generally some semblance of agreed on beauty standards (at least in the western world). | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Women of Seddit, why do you value confidence so highly in guys?think they're hot stuff when in reality they're like a 6 Are we judging personalities on a 10 point scale now too or am I missing something? | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 05:15 PM |
| 7 | Women of Seddit, why do you value confidence so highly in guys?This is an incredibly narrow view of self confidence. It goes way beyond just looks | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Americans of seddit, are there really any areas of the USA where a couple like my girlfriend and I won't feel too out of place or face tons of racism?Uhh yeah this is absolutely not true in ATL. Judging by the rest of the thread it seems like you have a serious complex going. | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Americans of seddit, are there really any areas of the USA where a couple like my girlfriend and I won't feel too out of place or face tons of racism?What part of Atlanta do you live in? I also live in Atlanta and a lot of the places I hang out at are some of the most racially diverse, chill environments I've seen. It seems like your experience may be more of a product of the the places you normally hang out in than anything else. | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 09:08 PM |
| 9 | Im confused about seductive coquetteBeing legitimately busy > acting hot/cold | /r/seduction | 05/01/16 03:49 PM |
| 12 | Why is it so easy for others, but so difficult for me?This dude is an emotional and psychological wreck. He needs professional help. Uhh this seems like a total overreaction. He's frustrated that he's not getting laid. There's nothing really abnormal about that. | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Made out at a club, girl drops me, why?!This is kinda bullshit advice and I get the feeling that you aren't a great kisser if this has been your experience. If you are a good kisser, makeouts in a club is THE BEST thing to increase sexual tension. The way I see it is the minute you start dancing with a girl or making out with her, that's where the foreplay can potentially start. There's absolutely nothing wrong with displaying interest in a girl as long as you aren't pushy/needy/clingy. In fact, if you aren't displaying at least some … | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Drunk girl told me she wanted to go out with me, said no when sober.She probably realized what a horrible mistake she made when she realized you were drinking mulled wine /s But seriously, you are definitely overthinking it. Both you and the girl sound like social situations with new people make you uncomfortable. It could be possible she's anxious about having a solo hangout with you or maybe she thinks you aren't into her. In any case, I'd go out with your friend, have a good time, and don't worry about it. If she digs you, she digs if you. If not, you won't e… | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 07:54 PM |
| 5 | 7 Questions to Ask a Girl on a First DateIs this such a bad thing though? If you aren't compatible this question will help you determine that. And if you don't have similar interests why would you think of dating someone long term? | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 11:46 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/9/15Yes text her! She wouldn't have given you her number if she wasn't interested. | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 11:20 PM |
| 2 | What is your go to sex music/mix? (playful)Miguel - Kaleidoscope Dream | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Is it even possible to live this kind of lifestyle after college?Yeah. I'm a few years removed from college and I still get into some pretty crazy shit. It's nice because I actually have money to do things and go out when I want. Older girls generally give less of a fuck in my opinion too. | /r/seduction | 05/12/15 10:41 PM |
| 1 | No matter how confident I am, I ultimately feel that women still only care about your height/looks.Who says nice girls can't go clubbing? =P To answer your question just set the date up and go easy on the texting until then. I'll give you an example of a tinder interaction I had the other day with this girl who was into college football. I made a joke about a team we with both are both into, and told her I'd need a drinking partner to celebrate if we got a particular recruit or a drinking partner to sulk with me if you didn't get him. She told me she didn't want me to drink alone so I got her… | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 03:46 PM |
| 1 | No matter how confident I am, I ultimately feel that women still only care about your height/looks.I'd say I've been attracted to every girl I've slept with in some form or fashion. There's really only been one that I wasn't super into physically, but I'd known her a long time, she's cool, and we just kinda fell into bed with each other. Attractive doesn't always have to pure purely physical. It can simmer up once you've known someone for a while and the situation is right. That being said, if you aren't pulling the girls you want you have two options: lower your standards or increase your va… | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 09:01 PM |
| 1 | No matter how confident I am, I ultimately feel that women still only care about your height/looks.Bro 5'10" is more than enough. One of my best friends in 5'10" and is dating a gorgeous girl that is right about his height. My other best friend is about 5'8" and has slept with FAR more girls than I have. You are so caught up in your head that height is a big deal, but you are right on average for US males so I doubt that's completely holding you back. It's attitude. Don't get caught up with the circlejerk that goes on in reddit-- people on this website have way overblown that issue. If you ap… | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 07:14 PM |
| 1 | No matter how confident I am, I ultimately feel that women still only care about your height/looks.So there may be two behavioral reasons for this: You just aren't taking risks. The one constant that runs through my mind every time I approach a girl is the risk of rejection that I run by going and talking to her/making a move. As you get more experienced this becomes less of an issue because you've been there before and know you'll be in that same situation again. You won't always get an obvious indicator that she's interested, some girls are just more guarded. Some girls may fall for you in … | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 06:59 PM |
| 9 | No matter how confident I am, I ultimately feel that women still only care about your height/looks.Dude are you serious? You've never made a move because you think that women won't find you attractive and have the nerve to say that you are CONFIDENT? That is not how confidence works. It's pretty clear that you have MAJOR issues with yourself. You can be thoughtful and funny and entertaining but if you don't respect YOURSELF, then why would a woman respect you/be interested in you romantically? This is why people on this sub regurgitate the idea that you should always be seeking to improve you… | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 06:35 PM |
| 2 | I'm an outgoing [19M] who only hooked up with girls out in the open and on dates, but have troubles doing that in the clubs.Assimilating with the group might not be necessary in every case but it never hurts. Friends will cockblock you if it seems like their friend is about to go home with a random (ie: you)-- though in my experience this happens more with chicks in their early 20's. You do need to inevitably isolate though like you mentioned, in any case. In regards to #3, I was referring to the initial approach. Otherwise I completely agree with you. | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 07:08 PM |
| 2 | I'm an outgoing [19M] who only hooked up with girls out in the open and on dates, but have troubles doing that in the clubs.Don't try to isolate from the get go, it makes you look creepy/desperate. Your best bet is to assimilate in with her friend group. It should be obvious you are going for a particular girl, but not shamelessly so. If you are having fun with the group and the group is having fun with you, then the girl is having fun with you too. Your non-verbal communication has to be ON POINT. Exude confidence and just generally be fun. If you are a good dancer, this will help immensely. Learn the non-verbal cue… | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 02:23 PM |
| 2 | What difference does a good cologne/fragrance make?It's actually not broscience though. He just vomited up a wiki page, so here's a better example. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 02:36 PM |
| 6 | It's important to live close to the date or pickup venue.Why on earth would you go out an hour from you? This is pretty obvious knowledge I'd think. I wouldn't go home with a chick who lives an hour away either. | /r/seduction | 17/11/15 07:14 PM |
| 6 | How should I seduce someone in my friend group?I have to imagine you were kinda creepy in your approach then. If you brushed it off like it was no big deal the girl is likely to do the same | /r/seduction | 03/11/15 12:16 AM |
| 11 | How should I seduce someone in my friend group?I guarantee if you drop it (like legitimately drop it) then things will return to normal pretty soon. | /r/seduction | 02/11/15 06:49 PM |
| 8 | Girls I'm not interested in romantically want me, but the girls I'm interested in don't. Help a brother outVery underrated post here. I've noticed this, as well. At a micro/practical level, when I'm out somewhere girls below my smv will straight up approach me without me really sending any IOIs. Ones that are at or above usually require me to approach. Usually with the hotter girls, I'll grab their hand to spin them/dance with them-- you've got to be absurdly confident with girls you feel are above your smv (fake it til you make it). | /r/seduction | 09/10/15 01:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She setup the date a week in advance and then flaked the day of. Not sure where to go from hereOhhh man. Didn't realize that... lunch definitely not as good then. You need to make sure you are very clear with your intentions and that there is a LOT of sexual tension. A night at a bar/club would be much better for this. Have you hooked up with her before or are you aware of her ever having a crush on you? If you haven't you may already be in the friend zone bro, and you're gonna have to work hard to dig your way out of it. Most of the girl experience I have comes from chicks I meet out, I … | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 07:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She setup the date a week in advance and then flaked the day of. Not sure where to go from hereYou can definitely do both. Lunch dates don't give you quite the same opportunity to escalate that a night in a bar would, but it's not impossible to escalate either. Here's two basic moves I use when I'm not somewhere like a bar or club and being overtly sexual isn't as appropriate: 1.) When you are walking into a restaurant/cafe/shop open the door for your girl and guide her in her with your hand on the small of her back. 2.) If you are walking down a street sidewalk start on the side farthest… | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She setup the date a week in advance and then flaked the day of. Not sure where to go from here^ This. You just gotta improvise and be spontaneous. Very few women dislike spontaneity. Staying out late the night before work is a little different, depending on the job, because you may need to focus/ be alert in the morning. That being said, I've definitely been out SUPER late with girls on weekdays, you just have to convince them that staying out with you will be worth the rough morning (through your personality and actions NOT words) | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She setup the date a week in advance and then flaked the day of. Not sure where to go from hereYeah man this is the right attitude. People are busy. Girls are busy. We can be forgetful-- no reason to hold girls to an unrealistic standard I'll give an example that actually happened this week with a girl I'm talking to: I've hung out a few times with this gorgeous phD student that is new to my city. Every time we've hung out with had a lot of fun, and she's been really receptive to every escalation I've made. I hadn't hung out with her since early last week before her mom came into town to … | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 05:48 PM |
| 2 | [FR] She setup the date a week in advance and then flaked the day of. Not sure where to go from hereJust saw your edit. Do your thing Friday and Saturday night and go to lunch with her on Sunday. If lunch goes well switch locations and make a day out of it. | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 05:22 PM |
| 5 | [FR] She setup the date a week in advance and then flaked the day of. Not sure where to go from hereI disagree, you aren't really showing any tact when you say "I cancelled plans for our date. In the future I won't.". You just look like a bitter asshole. | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Finding it hard coming to terms with the nature of women and relationships..Stay off the redpill bro. Not every interaction/relationship with women has to be rooted in conflict like that sub would lead you to believe. As you develop more experience you'll realize that you can't attribute wide-sweeping traits to a gender-- some people (mean and women) are just assholes | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 06:25 PM |
| 11 | Advice on girls who respond to messages late?Have you gotten text messages before but were busy doing other things? Have you ever set your phone down somewhere and left it there for a few hours? Have you ever been out with other people when you got a text but didn't reply because you didn't want to be rude? If you answered yes to any of the above, congratulations you are a normal person! But seriously though, stop worrying about it so much. You don't have to move on, you don't have to play the "wait x amount of hours before replying back" … | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a blind date?Family Occupation Recreation Dreams Religion Abortion (?) Politics Ex's | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Tips for a blind date?No problem drinking a beer with dinner. Be yourself, talk about F.O.R.D. and avoid R.A.P.E. You may not live in a city like I do, but I like to take dates to places where there are other things to do (ie: parks, coffeeshops, bars (or really anywhere else with music). If dinner goes well you can hop around between places. It's a good way to keep the night going and most women are into a guy that leads. If it goes bad don't be afraid to go dutch and don't prolong the date. No reason in forcing thi… | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Is models designed to get a girlfriend or to get laid?Can I ask why exactly you want to sleep with as many girls as possible in a short time frame? | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Newsflash: Girls Don't Want To Be Picked Up!because they have trouble projecting sexual interest Bingo. If your body language and non-verbal communication is right, you won't ever need to tell a girl she's attractive--she'll be able to pick up on it right from the start. This is one of the reasons why eye contact always gets touted as being hugely important. | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Newsflash: Girls Don't Want To Be Picked Up!Would any of those interactions gone differently if you just said "hi, my name is bob"? Probably not, that's the crux of the article. The approach itself it's what's direct, not complimenting a girl on her attractiveness. The girl already knows you thinks she's attractive-- why else would you be singling her out to have a conversation if that wasn't the case? | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Confusing confident men with douchebagsI agree 100%. I suppose I can post up tomorrow. Be on the lookout for it. | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Confusing confident men with douchebagsI remember the post you are referring to and I think you are hitting the nail on the head with your assessment. I read that post and actually thought to myself, " why on earth would any self-respecting man go on a date with a girl who doesn't even dress up for the date". The whole story just reeked of desperation and manipulation (from both parties). I can't remember if he got laid or not, but nothing about that FR really suggested that the girl was fun or someone that I'd ever want to see more … | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 11:37 PM |
| 11 | What are your thoughts on Tinder?If you are an 8.5 its waaay easier to pick up girls when you go out. You won't have to deal with flaking, and your personality will show through a lot better than it would over text. If you have even a modicum of social skills and aren't awkward, it's not hard; girls dig confidence and it takes way more confidence to lay it out there in person versus some corny opener over tinder. | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 03:20 PM |
| 2 | How soon into a date with a girl you haven't kissed before do you start escalating the touching?Hug, let your hand lightly rest on her lower back after you finish the hug. You should put that confidence on display from the start. | /r/seduction | 02/07/15 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Need help because I cant't stop to think about that girl I met.You didn't fall in love, you are infatuated. Infatuation is a feeling that will ALWAYS pass. | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 06:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Our foray into threesomes - An introduction and a field reportYou guys seem like fun people. Also that Hand of God video is fucking hilarious. I've never realized it but that is my go to when I'm out at clubs. | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 06:03 PM |
| 4 | "There's this one girl I really like," Syndrome. The answer is always, "Meet more women."Pretty nice article. I've never really discussed abundance mentality on here, but a thought cross my mind: Is having an actual (true) mentality of abundance equivalent to having an actual stable of girls? | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 01:16 PM |
| 4 | "There's this one girl I really like," Syndrome. The answer is always, "Meet more women."That's exactly why I left that place. I feel like I'm generally a pretty optimistic person in my day to day life (control what you can control, etc), but there is just so much negativity on that sub-- not in the implied "truths" per se but more so how they communicate-- that it really kinda brought me down for a little while. | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 01:11 PM |
| 1 | I've had it.If you are smart, good looking, and dress well and still don't get attention from girls then one (or all) of the things are probably not true OR your personality could be turning people off (ie: You're an asshole). | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 09:13 PM |
| 3 | A little trick to make her K-close you at a partyYou wrote this in the op: This is intended for either guys who know that the girl is willing but they can't get over the obstacle to kiss close or guys who are unsure if she's willing. This isn't a solution though. A solution to get over that kind of anxiety is to actually go for it. Once you've gone for it (and found out what works and doesn't) there is no more anxiety. I'm never anxious when I go for a kiss with a new girl before because I've paid my dues by putting myself out there. Your tech… | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 08:50 PM |
| 6 | A little trick to make her K-close you at a partyI can't get behind this technique at all. I have a feeling you are at the stage where you would be mortified if you went for a kiss and it backfired. Something like that is hugely embarrassing and the kind of thing that can fuck with your head for a while, so I can empathize. By asking a girl to kiss you, you remove yourself from influencing the situation at all and ,consequently, can absolve yourself from any blame if you don't get the kiss. I didn't get the kiss there because SHE didn't want t… | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 08:17 PM |
| 65 | Go talk to an old personSeduction is about having a magnetic personality-- not solely about fucking girls. If you narrow the focus to just sleeping with people, you miss out on seeing the bigger picture. Being able to lead, be assertive, and being likable help out in ANY social situation, not just when meeting women. Plus old people have done/seen it all and often have crazier stories than we do. It's always a treat to hear an older person really open up. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 06:14 PM |
| 9 | Getting girls is work. Remember thatI was going to come into this thread and offer a counter argument. Not every time I go out, but pretty frequently, I get approached by women, and I can't remember the last time an interaction fizzled out unless I was the one that become bored. But I thought about it a bit more (and read what you had to say OP) , and I had a lightbulb moment. I've put a lot of work in the gym, I've developed my own sense of style, I stay well groomed, I'm pretty decently well-read, and I worked my ass off to get … | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Don't believe the "dad bod" bullshit. (Case in point: the feminists at TrollXChromosome start salivating over alpha guys dressed as Spartans.)Options. That's exactly what this is about. A woman can let herself go because her out of shape slob of a man has no chance with other women. And I just absolutely don't believe any of this "I don't want to cuddle with a rock" bs. The funny thing is, I'm not even nearly as cut as I was in college (back when I was about 12%) but I still get very direct compliments about how I look (about 15%). The "average" male body is a joke and is probably actually pretty damn similar to this dad bod look. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Why Women Can't Find a Good ManHis approach 3 in the companion article is very similar to how a lot of people here say you should approach an LTR. His example articles within that approach 3 are also strongly recommended. I'd take a look at this stuff if you are someone that isn't content with spinning plates the rest of your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 02:35 PM |
| 34 | My gf broke up with me 2 months ago, and despite going out all the time i just think about her constantly and how i'll never find a girl better than her.I can promise you that you will get over her, it's just going to take time. I dated the same girl from senior year of high school, all throughout college. Thought she was the one, true love, ect, ect. Took me a really long time to get over her. I met the chick I'm seeing now close to a year ago and in many ways, she's way cooler and more of a fit than my ex. It's opened my eyes to the idea that we can love many, many people throughout our lives. Quit putting your ex on a pedestal-- she's an ex f… | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 03:55 PM |
| 11 | Eating 101: Fork use for DummiesSouth park did an episode about it and got it correct by flipping it. Anyone that's tried a keto diet knows this is the case. I can't comment on the long term effect of a keto diet, but I used one to cut for a few weeks. All I ate was eggs, sausage, bacon, red meat, and cheese, and I actually lost fat without losing any muscle. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you think having female friends is important?Good points. The whole key is being comfortable around the opposite sex. I think that guy you discussed in the 2nd paragraph is not all that experienced. Correct me if I'm wrong here, but girls don't want guys that automatically bend to their opinions or have likes of there own. It just comes off as pandering to get in your pants. They much rather have a guy that his own interests and opinions and is comfortable with his own identity. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Do you think having female friends is important?Will potential partners would think that I'm gay or that I only want to be friends with them? Unless you exude a really masculine aura, then it's a good chance that would | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Best response to girls saying "You are really handsome/beautiful/gorgeous etc." ?"Thanks, now lets dance/grab a drink/go for a walk/etc" Acknowledge the compliment then escalate (see above^ ) or amplify ("You aren't so bad yourself"/"It takes more than that to get in my pants"/"Do you blatantly hit on every guy you find attractive?" | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Do you think having female friends is important?Just glad I could help bro! | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Do you think having female friends is important?My end game is a monogamous relationship. BUT for some reason girls keep planting ideas in my head (girls on REDDIT mind you) First off, I'd say that males on Reddit are probably WAY more representative of the average guy IRL than the female population on reddit. But that's just my hunch. But honestly man, there's no reason to reason to get hung up on what someone on a website says about you. I know that theory also kinda discounts the idea that you can get good advice, too (but whatever). These… | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Do you think having female friends is important?Well what is your endgame here? To make platonic friends or pursue women? If you are inexperienced with being around women in general, then yes you probably should seek platonic female friends. I get the sense that you are putting women on a pedestal, when in actuality women really aren't "divine creatures" so to speak-- they are just regular people like you or me. Having platonic friends may allow you to be more comfortable around women, which will definitely help. If you aren't comfortable aro… | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Do you think having female friends is important?Absolutely not. I've gone out with single guy friends, 3rd-wheeled with couple friends, and gone out by myself and have been equally successful in each situation. If you aren't cold approaching then I could see how having platonic female friends could give you social proof, but at the end of the day its MUCH more important that you are confident and interesting. I'm a bit confused by this post though, is there some sticking point you're running into OP? | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 08:42 PM |
| 9 | Arrested one year prior on whim of LTR: Part 2Sounds like you had a good lawyer | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Abundance Mentality + Frame Control just got me my job backNice work OP, but there's one thing I noticed about your post: I left the office with a shit-eating grin, not because of having this job back, but because of how perfectly it played out in my favor when I didn't care anymore. You did care, that's why you starting doing research about improving your memory and general demeanor during a jobless period. Everyone talks about not giving a fuck, but you SHOULD give a fuck-- not giving a fuck means doing what you need to do to become a better man for I… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 02:33 PM |
| 2 | "The friendzone is a gift fools!"No, it hasn't been that bad. There is a wealth of information on that sub that's not entirely dissimilar from what's posted here. I think it's generally target towards younger dudes though (high school and college aged). Some of the stuff is cringe-y lines and techniques, but there is the occasional strong post about abundance mentality, keeping frame/boundary setting, etc. Lately though it seems as if some really really shitty posts are getting upvoted. So much so that I have been noticing a pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 08:38 PM |
| 2 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.yeah I agree with your sentiment. This kinda sounds like a bit too much like "Oneitis:101" | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 03:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Ran into an old plate, AWALTI don't think this is something that is exclusively a female trait though. I don't want to be with a girl that "needs" me. Wants me-- sure, but needs me? Way too clingy for my lifestyle | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 07:46 PM |
| 2 | 3 girls, 24 hours, 5 euroThe cool rich guys often have something else besides their money going for them Like what? Ambition perhaps? Competitiveness? Hating failure? Confidence because of their financial success? You don't innately learn social skills by spending money. Sure, you may be in a position where you can go out to bar/club situations more often but that doesn't automatically preclude game/social skills. And there very well may be occasions where rich doofuses get chicks, but so what? I've personally had night… | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | 3 girls, 24 hours, 5 euroWell, what kind of bars/clubs so you frequent? (Assuming that's where you go to pick up girls) | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 07:59 PM |
| 2 | 3 girls, 24 hours, 5 euroDon't get me wrong, you still need some modicum of social skills. But reality remains that money and status are typically linked, and there are girls out there that exclusively look for those things. It's all just dependent on the kind of places you frequent though. | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 07:58 PM |
| 13 | 3 girls, 24 hours, 5 euroconfidence > $ If you're comfortable in your own skin, direct, and aren't afraid to escalate, it doesn't matter if you have money or not. Nice FR OP | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Did my first cold approach today...the girl looked at me like i was a leper....:-)What happened? Give us some details-- we may be able to tell you where you went astray. | /r/seduction | 20/03/15 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine?Jerking off does not make you less masculine-- jerking off in lieu of actually trying to sleep with girls does. Can we please stop the no-fap circlejerk? Other advice is solid though | /r/seduction | 19/12/14 08:34 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/3/14Call her. Texting is very impersonal and doesn't exactly show engagement on your part. Anyone can be multi tasking while texting. When you call someone, even if it is briefly it shows a lot more initiative and attention. Boys text, men call | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 10:42 PM |
| 2 | women systematically break up with me after making outI think there are potentially two things at work here: Kissing at the end of the date DOES project desperation/indecisiveness. If the dates didn't go that well, kissing at the end isn't going to 'save' the date per se. Kiss a girl when YOU want to, not because the end of a date is when society/popular culture says you should kiss a girl. You just aren't a good kisser. I'm a little more hesitant to suggest this since you were in a LTR, though. Maybe you guys had a peculiar way off kissing that ha… | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 04:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "You're different..."Yeah I think people are overreacting a bit too. The kid is only 19-- I felt the same way at the age. You make mistakes as you get older, whether it's you missing your goals or ruining relationships. Real inner game is being able to bounce back-- not gloating that you have everything figured out before you can even legally drink | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 11:58 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/27/14I actually was kinda dating someone else at the time, but ignorance can be bliss when it comes to this kinda stuff. Honestly I never made much of an effort to reach back out after the flake because I had other stuff going on, I'd imagine this is essentially the same thing | /r/seduction | 29/10/14 03:06 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/27/14I figure I must have made a strong enough impression to be contacted after all this time-- so I'm definitely assuming she's interested. And yeah, my first thought was that she was dating someone when we met and has since moved on. | /r/seduction | 27/10/14 06:54 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/27/14I met this girl a few months ago out a bar. We hit it off pretty well, but she flaked on a date I set up the following week so I moved on. Got a text from her out of the blue the other day asking if I remembered her and if I was seeing anyone. Told her I wasn't so she said "Maybe we can go out sometime still". I'm going out with her this week anyway, but I'm still at a loss why there would be radio silence for 4 months (which is a lot in hot girl time). Any thoughts? | /r/seduction | 27/10/14 05:57 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with the cute barber?Depends on how good the haircut is. Having great hair/ a great haircut is one of the best ways to improve physical attractiveness. And a good barber is hard to come by-- no need to ruin a good thing | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 07:13 PM |
| 2 | The Art of Manliness presents: The Brad Pitt RuleA girl having interest in you is not the same as a girl actually liking you. The point of the video is to express that if a girl cancels and doesn't try to reschedule, then you should move on because she was not interested in the first place. | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 04:54 PM |
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