CITRUS_FRUIT Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Why the F can’t I get hard for first encounters? I cant do hookups... and it makes me feel less of a man. Judging by your other comment, I think you’re just insecure man. If I were you I’d stay away from porn, it just fucks with every expectation. Every guy in porn has a massive dong, it’s porn. Average size is around 5-5.5 inches lol. You’d be surprised how many girls don’t want huge dongs cuz it hits their cervix which can be painful/uncomfortable. Man I swear every time I go out the country and have no porn, after awhile even the sight of a fucking ankle will get me going. Porn is cancer dude Goo…	/r/askTRP	23/11/19 03:04 AM
1	Why the F can’t I get hard for first encounters? I cant do hookups... and it makes me feel less of a man. Could be mental, could be physical. How’s your health, honestly? You lift/exercise often? Smoke/drink? Do you watch porn a lot? Depressed? Gotten your testosterone checked recently? I find if Ive been smoking/drinking too much, or if I’ve been watching too much porn and jerking with a death grip, I have the same problem. Other than that you might just be too much in your head. Instead of focusing on having a good time and messing around, you might be too focused on your performance. You might be…	/r/askTRP	23/11/19 02:21 AM
16	Is it worth cutting off almost all contact or is that too reactive? Blocking is melodramatic and passive aggressive. Stop caring so much	/r/askTRP	11/11/19 01:10 AM
1	Girl I'm close to and I in Starbucks line, what should have been the correct etiquette? Or was it perfectly fine? You literally asked if she wanted to go first, and she told you to go ahead. You’re thinking too much, this is unbelievably trivial	/r/askTRP	10/11/19 04:24 AM
1	I hit a wall, just want honest answers (rant) It’s okay man, I know how you're feeling. You’re not alone. The first thing is to chill. Just calm yourself down, watch something funny for a bit. Don’t keep thinking and thinking. Ruminating when you’re in that state will only make things worse. You don’t know enough to figure it out, and your negative mindset wants to assume the worst. Imagine trying to solve a puzzle when you’re piss drunk, half the pieces are missing, and you don’t even know what it’s supposed to look like. You’ll never get …	/r/askTRP	10/11/19 02:34 AM
9	Is Imposter syndrome normal? Is it normal for someone who has very little experience talking to girls to feel anxious when talking to girls? Cmon man. You know the answer. It’s okay to suck. You don’t expect to do everything right when you start at a new job do you? It’s like anything else. You’ll improve if you keep doing it, and then you’ll become confident. You have to earn it. Social rejection is a common fear. Every guy has to learn to get over it if he wants to do well with girls. So get to work	/r/askTRP	10/11/19 01:52 AM
1	I hit a wall, just want honest answers (rant) Relax man, you’re thinking too much. Nobody gives a fuck about you. Even if you mess up and do something cringey, people will forget the next day. They’re too invested in their own shit. Plenty of guys don’t lose their virginity until their 20s. It’s much more common than you think. Young girls always have dick available, that’s the advantage they have. They don’t have to work for it. The average girl will almost always have more sexual experience than a guy. Get over it. Some girls will judge y…	/r/askTRP	10/11/19 01:34 AM
1	Questions regarding women friends and a past hookup Not weird at all. I became friends with this one girl when I was in HS, great body and fun to be around. She was super into me, but I just wasn’t attracted to her. She was a tomboy, and I couldn’t not see her as one of the boys. We messed around multiple times over the years, but I always rejected her in the end. Just couldn’t do it. We stayed friends for years to come. People would ask me if I was gay because I wasn’t fucking her. I’d get chirped about being in the friend zone when she’d introd…	/r/askTRP	10/11/19 12:35 AM
2	Can't get a past hookup out of my mind... help appreciated. It’s done man, revel in the cringe and move on. You’ll be laughing about it soon enough. What did you do to turn her off? Sounds juicy	/r/askTRP	09/11/19 05:34 AM
3	Advice for remembering the important philosophy/ideas over long term? You’re too dumb to remember everything you learn online, all the time. Its just too much information to process on a regular basis, especially if you’re not constantly applying the concepts day to day. Your brain is going to filter things automatically, and focus on what’s immediate. After a certain point, watching JP videos will just become another form of mental masturbation. Consider a slice of bread in a wonderful all you can eat buffet. Do you give a fuck about it? Yeah sure, but man look h…	/r/askTRP	09/11/19 03:47 AM
6	Rebuilding mindset Are you still able to exercise? If so, start with that. Every single time I’ve felt like I was stuck in a rut, at rock bottom, etc. It’s always exercise/lifting that has brought me back. You can read until the cows come home, you can plan, you can try to socialize. But if you’re truly depressed, it won’t be enough. You need to move, you need to sweat, you need to drain yourself and get the blood flowing. The mental and physical benefits are unmatched. Trying to lift yourself up without exercise,…	/r/askTRP	09/11/19 03:03 AM
4	My ego is destroyed You’re fixated on her. You’re keeping track of her new relationship, and it’s getting the best of you. You did everything right, but “nothing works”. In other words, you acted in a certain way to get her back, to get her to want you again. Sounds like you missed the point of TRP. I feel for you man, I’ve been there, and it stings like a bitch. You’re gonna feel bad for awhile. Just how it goes. It may be the case that you fucked up too badly to recover. She’s moved on, and that’s that. Maybe one…	/r/askTRP	09/11/19 01:32 AM