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CKDubs/r/askTRP02/10/18 05:43 AM
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I feel as if this is bad advice. If you're in a relationship and a girl leaves you because you opened up about something in your life, especially something that deep, the problem isn't you or your buddy, its her and your "strong, smooth, etc." relationship probably wasn't as strong and smooth as you thought it was. Problem is your buddy was with an immature woman, who probably was taken aback by your friend's story. She wasn't mature enough to handle a relationship that she might've had to do wo…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 04:49 AM
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Everywhere you go you'll always see/hear a female's POV. The way that society acts and feels about relationships, sex, politics, life, etc. Is based on a female's POV. Trp is one of the only places where you can actually hear the man's side, raw and unfiltered. Where you can get women how YOU want to get women, not how society dictates you to. Women have places all over on how to attract, deal with, and be in a relationship with men. And they're all raw and unfiltered points. But their advice wo…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:11 PM
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But wouldn't you want all men to be able to have this line of thinking. I know at the end of the day there's gonna be some beta guys out there but wouldn't changing the way most men think about this stuff be for the benefit of everyone?
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:36 AM
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Oh I most definitely want to be greedy. And I love my gf, but my love for her has nothing to do with how I feel about wanting to sleep with other women. She doesn't give me any more problems than a normal female would, and when she does I correct it, but I'm just trying to get with this other girl real quick and not blow this opportunity. Afterwards, I'll go right back to my gf like all is well.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 12:32 AM
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It's the exact same thing as if she was ugly. Attractiveness doesn't add personality or make them any more interesting, it only just makes them more likely to be hit on. Just don't come at them with the same old things they here everyday and you'll be good. Matter of fact treat em like they're ugly and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:34 AM
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1) Flirt with any and everything You need to learn how to be social in general not just with hot girls (who you'll come to find out are just like the ugly ones just...well... hotter). A good way to learn how to do this is just talk and flirt with everybody. Make it a habit to talk to at least 5 people a day. Talk to the guy in the elevator, the bank teller, the old lady trying to figure out if her cantaloupe is bruised at the grocery store. EVERYBODY. Ugly girls, OK girls, pretty girls, old girl…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 11:47 PM
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If she looks good she's already getting stared out and hit on, the only difference now is that she's getting paid to do it. If you're worried about your gf being in a place where she'll be considered an object to other men, then you should leave earth, there's no escaping it. Matter of fact you should be proud, would you want a girl that old drunk men and others didn't pay attention to?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:56 PM
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Hahaha this whole reddit is almost full of white guys. It's contextual, it can mean different things but usually means what yo man said to you on the street. It's like being tough on her, not acting like a pussy with her. Some guys associate it with hitting them but that's just the bad ones. Look up simpin and its the opposite
/r/askTRP15/03/18 09:08 PM
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What? What are you Spock? I'm not saying you gotta "follow your heart" or any of that bs. I'm just saying that it don't seem right to leave the man hanging. We're human we all have emotions and feelings, women just let them run their whole lives, that's the difference. And if you that worried that telling your friend what's up could get you a case with you fwb. Then you need to check your fwb. Again, do you.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:12 AM
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Oh I thought yall was tight. Well nevermind then disregard what I said. The only thing is, is it just feels wrong to leave him hanging like that especially if he didn't do it. It REALLY sucks being accused of it when you didn't do it and things to tend to go in the guy's favor when falsely accused (Trust me I know personally). BUT do what you gotta do man.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:54 AM
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First of all, for her to have the balls to not have sex with you for two months tells me all I need to know. She don't respect you. She's doesn't think highly of you. And its not because you said what you said. It's because she thinks knows that she can get away with it and you'll put up with it. I can see it in your text man, "I always default to indifference, let her initiate conversation to reward good behavior, etc. until this stormy period is over." No disrespect, I'm just trying to help bu…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:47 AM
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You were better off with Rihanna. She badder than Beyonce to me. Anyways, my point is it just it seems like a very deterring principle. Who's to say she can't look at the next guy like the last?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:40 AM
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But what does that have to do with me is my question. If I just wanna sleep with her, I'll sleep with her, who cares who she's thinking about? I feel like not messing with them is advice for guys low on the totem pole because who's to say all her feelings for the last alpha won't just go to the next alpha?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:04 AM
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I feel like you gotta let him know. That's ya boy. Though I'm with blackhawk about worrying he might do something stupid, but just advise him not to do anything dumb. You can't just let your friend get blindsided by this. It'd be worse for him to find out that he now has a rape case and then find out his friend knew the whole time. I say let him know and help him stay out of trouble and prepare IF it happens.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:52 AM
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She out here playing games. I ain't got time for that. I'd invite her to your place/her place/ any place don't matter, then rub her pussy again. Then right before she comes back at you I'd tell her "look what we really bout to do because I ain't gone be out here playing games with you, you bout it or not?" Because in essence she think that playing dick rub games with you is reward enough for you taking her out and trying to survive a horrible movie. Let her know what's up. If she don't then leav…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:43 AM
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Well communism it up then haha
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:28 AM
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Wait, excuse my ignorance but why is it bad to approach an alpha widow?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:23 AM
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But who cares what she does? That's her problem to deal with. If he doesn't say he's gonna commit then its on her to deal with it when he says no. Just ignore her
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:49 AM
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Wait what? You have platonic sleepovers? Why? You sound nervous about the idea of escalating it with her. The laugh makes it weird. You should most definitely try to escalate it with her, if she says no she says no, back to business as usual. If yes then you're in.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:14 AM
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I feel like I'm the only one on here saying this but it's not really about lifting. I'm 5'11 160, I'm lean not ripped. I'm smart but not the smartest, I'm funny but not the funniest, I'm sociable but not the most sociable. Even with all that I still feel like I can get any single girl i come in contact with. It's confidence not cockiness because I know I'm not the best but I still believe I can do it. Next time you see a beautiful girl, talk to her like her beauty means nothing to you. Treat her…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:09 PM
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Dude you're right were I (and a lot of us really) was years ago. Doing better, working on yourself, seeing the change in your ownself but not getting the results you want. I'll try to keep this short, if you have any more questions, feel free to ask and/or message me but here it is: 1) Flirt with any and everything You need to learn how to be social in general not just with hot girls (who you'll come to find out are just like the ugly ones just...well... hotter). A good way to learn how to do th…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:26 AM
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They got 30,40, and 50 year olds out here with 20 year old guys. They got teachers out here sleeping with their middle/high school students, heck I even remember back when I was in high school some of my friends were dating college girls. I'm not saying this is everybody, but just know it exists. Keep doing your thing man, approach them like someone your age. It's their decision on whether or not they want to get with someone not in their age bracket. Only thing that they can do is say is no.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:26 AM
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Honestly man, you can find RP in almost any and everything. It all just depends on how you look at it. I remember watching Wargames with Matthew Broderick and there was a line that said, "The only winning move, is not to play". In the movie it meant one thing, but applied to this it means that whenever a girl tries to test you, put you in a position to where you'd be uncomfortable. DON'T PLAY HER GAMES. Leave, take your ball home. Another movie was Master and Commander with Russell Crowe where t…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:16 AM
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Sounds like to me you don't even think that you could get another girl like that even if her equivalent were to walk through the door. That's why it bothers you so much that you lost her, because you don't have to skills to get another one. You feel like the only reason she went for you is because you were a rebound and not because you were "good enough". There are girls that I've done that were absolutely gorgeous and then go looking for more the next day and see nothing that could compare. But…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:02 AM
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Preach that!!!! Preach that!!!!!!! I'm glad I scrolled down to see yours because I was about to type out an essay as well. Couldn't have said it better myself
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:45 AM
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During some of my studies I've learned that there is a principle that says: A --> B B --> A Basically it means, A: Attitude can lead to Behavior: B but behavior can also lead to attitude. A lot of people think that you have to have a certain attitude and mindset in order to be able to do things, but in fact all you have to do is just do them and attitude will come. You'll have troubles, but it's all part of the process.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:22 AM
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I don't like cumming in em even with a condom on so, your story horrifies me. Anyways, if you didn't see any tear or rip you should be fine. Sounds like your fear is only based off what you heard. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:34 AM
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To answer your question in short...no. "But other guys sensed that we have issues to fight through and are trying to mate poach." They're gonna do that whether or not they sense trouble or not. It's what guys do. You don't own her, yall aren't together. She's with you and you're with her. This is not your fight its hers. If she goes with them then let her go, she wasn't worth your time. If she stays, then back to business as usual.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 09:19 PM
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No man that's definitely a concern, one that many people worry about. You want to take the next step but not at the risk of you losing it all. The problem with this is that you're creating a whole world based on something that hasn't happened yet. If she says no, you don't know what will happen, you just assume that it'll get worse but you have no idea. You're not giving her the chance to be an adult about it and give the situation the ability to move on. Things could get worse no doubt, but you…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:42 PM
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You're at where a lot of people were/are man don't feel bad about it, it's all part of the journey. One of my biggest things was getting over approach anxiety too. I tried reading books, watching videos, coming on here sometimes and nothing seemed to work because I was looking for someone to give me the exact thing to say. Basically, as time went on I started to think about the dynamics of things and really broke them down. Through my own observations and kind of reading through here and other t…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 09:06 AM
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You're trying to learn another language and learn social skills. These things don't just come like muscles. Sure you can add 5 lbs each time at the gym but you can't expect those types of results in all things. Just keep going at it man, progress will come.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:24 AM
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Keep doing what you're doing. If she'll keep having sex with you when you keep saying that you won't ever love her, then let her keep saying it. She wants something from you and you told her you can't give it, you've done your part. Now its all on her to make her decision, either leave or keep sleeping with you without commitment. This is her problem not yours.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:03 AM
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You're both young and this is a fairly new relationship, so its probably just that, but I'll leave you with some advice for the future. A wise man once said when it comes to women, "You have to be consistently inconsistent". Basically, you can never just be a one trick pony, you have to keep her off balance. The things that worked at the beginning aren't gonna necessarily work now. Never let her think she has you, or think she's figured you out. At some point in time high school algebra stopped …
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:33 AM
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No it isn't beta. Just because you approach her doesn't mean you're lowering your frame, it just means she has something you want and you're going to go get it. When you go to Burger King to get a whopper do you think that this is emasculating? No, it just means that you're hungry and crave a burger. Going out and getting what you want is the essence of being alpha. Sure in a perfect world women would come to you because what you have to offer them is infinitely more valuable then what they have…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:18 AM
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If she's way older than you, married, and she's not that attractive then she probably knows that this ain't gonna be anything serious. Just flirt with her, its harmless. I flirt with all the older women at my job all the time. It's fun and I use it to work on different techniques for the real thing. Just make sure that that's all it is.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:05 AM
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Well, yes. I'm suggesting you turn any girl into a housewife. Even girls lower on the scale aren't ready from jump. No girl is, so you might as well teach the attractive ones. Pretty ones don't know how to be with a man long term because their prettiness has been all that they've needed to get men, but they can't run off that forever. Quick analogy, when athletes first enter the league they go off pure athleticism, but as they get older and their athleticism falters, they have to start learning …
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:00 AM
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Your first mistake was to care about how many guys she's been with. It doesn't matter how many. She could've slept with 200 guys and still wouldn't matter. If she told me 5 I would've been like "really only five?" If she's anywhere near attractive, she's slept with her fair share of guys as she should. You've probably slept with other women yourself, probably more than 5. You don't own her and she doesn't own you, what yall did in the past means nothing. All that matters is what yall do now. If …
/r/askTRP10/03/18 09:28 AM
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Congratulations, you've met women!! Dude, you're never gonna meet a girl that's right off the bat amazing in every way for you. Just like women want this magical man that doesn't exist, you want this magical female that for sure doesn't exist. Yes, prettier girls are more vain but that's not their fault its just the way it is. For the most part, they've never seen any consequences to their actions, and most guys are gonna just put up with their nonsense. Your job is to teach her how to be your g…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 09:19 AM
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As with most things in life, your questions cannot be answered simply. There is no black and white answer, no yes or no but I'll try my best. In short, monk moding can be either, it can be sacrificing some of the opportunities in the present moment to better yourself and your smv for the future or it can be an excuse to do nothing. It all depends on why you're going into it. In length, me personally, have never agreed with monking because in my personal opinion it's contradictory. Before I say t…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 09:03 AM
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That's what I'm saying!! I'm confused as to why most guys on here always wanna next a girl at the first time things don't go smoothly. Just chill, see other women if she comes back, she comes back if she doesn't she doesn't
/r/askTRP10/03/18 08:00 AM
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Hahaha, well if she asked your name she could be interested OR she could just be generally wondering who the guy she was just talking to name is. This might just be a case of the ol' thinking do much into it. Saying that though, it wouldn't hurt to approach her now that you have something to go off of. Give it a shot.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 07:47 AM
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I'll never say looks dont mean anything to women, women will take an attractive man if he's there and better looking dudes have easier times but looks definitely arent as big of a deal breaker with them as they are with us. This doesnt make them better its just how they're wired. You dont have to be rich, ripped, or look like a male model to get a girl, going to the gym is not required. Ask any girl what their dream guy is and they'll tell you one thing and most likely you'll see them with someo…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 09:00 AM
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To me this could be two things: 1) You could be attached to her based on the fact that she helped you through some things or 2) You actually might be struggling with these feelings. Think about it and find out. If the latter...... Again I'd ask what do you want out of this? Friendship? Then continue on, the lack of seeing each other all the time seems to be keeping you in check about a full on ltr. Relationship? Which I think you want because you seem to be down about and stress the fact of you …
/r/askTRP08/03/18 11:17 AM
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You're right, to me TRP isnt about doing as many girls as you CAN, but its about doing as many women as you WANT. Its about finding who you truly are, becoming that, and being comfortable with and bettering yourself. That being said, it sounds like you need to think about why you dont want to be with her. Is it because you want other women? If premarital sex is no good for you then are you just wanting to date other Christian women just to date them? You said she's been your friend for a long ti…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:06 AM
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