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I don't particularly care what exactly that is a bigger sign of, point being that present day, marriage isn't a smart move. "Can I take a leap of faith on you?" Is a much more accurate question to ask instead of, "will you marry me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:47 AM
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Yeah just take marriage out of your vocabulary. It's a LTR that continues on love/respect/whatever else that y'all decide. Just don't marry, that's one of the dumbest options currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:00 AM
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No fault divorce means it's absolutely possible for you to not know why; that's what that is, it's no one's fault it just happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:58 AM
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They have the money, free time, they cant eat like crap otherwise they might die, and they had a dating environment where approaching/striking-out/get-the-# was seen as commonplace. Them doing better isn't sad it's a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:42 PM
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You let them treat you like that? If you want to be a provider for your partner then part of that is expecting a level of respect that is determined on a case by case basis. If she's not meeting your level, communicate/cutoff; if your requirements are seen as a deal breaker, same answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:23 AM
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The culture in America and what it does to the mindset of a western woman is also what is being avoided when you passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:40 PM
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Rather find someone with 0 chance of FOMO. I other words, they haven't had a threesome for the same/similar reasons like mine; not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:18 PM
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Where does raising a kid believing was yours but actually wasn't stack up in this scale of yours? Disagree cause imo that kinda statement comes from a very blackpill/incl place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:58 AM
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There likely isn't as foolish a desire to do the impossible as what you suggested. A woman's desire is like the wind, trying to control it is the kind of attitude coming off the trolls they feed online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:27 AM
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Your example was if 5 women go after 1 guy, only 1 gets the guy, therein leaving 4 remaining single. What I said was: No, best to consider those women taken cause that 1 dude is living rent free in their heads and most likely will for a forseeable future, this goes for modern times exclusively and I'll explain why. This isn't to say, "All women want 1 guy," rather, it's alluding to the dynamics around dating in current times. Nowadays, the notion of "you wanted that 1 guy, you shouldn't settle f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:26 PM
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That's just kids being kids. Young dumb and full of cum is a phrase my grandparents knew. Check back in like 7 years when your sons got adult stuff to factor in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:31 PM
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Eh, the system they had so much fun with came around to bite em' in the ass. It's is what it is. If you raised your family to embrace the culture of looking after family when they get older then you'll be fine. Everyone else...yeeesh that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:28 PM
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False because of the folliwng: nowadays, they will remain content being single cause they don't have to settle for less. A good thing to be sure, but also screws with your hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:20 PM
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Cause she handled that like a champ. It's so sad and pathetic seeing some dude die inside knowing his wife did what his wife did. No one can convince me different that the way he's handled/reacted/commented on the incident has been handling it like a man who's cool as a cucumber. If the wife was making cope videos saying her man was even more attractive to her now and that she was so thrilled that could happen for him it'd get the same mockery with the genders swapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:20 PM
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Nah just acquaintances, close female friend is just the overcomplicated way I'd describe my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:33 AM
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A woman calling you bro unironically is the same tier of cringe as the tips fedora nice guy neckbeard. Just hits an ick on a whole other level. If she was already a, 'one of the guys,' type female friend; totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:30 AM
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It's a case by case question. There are perceived knockouts on either side and reasons for a guy being turned off by one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:30 AM
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OK, well, let's expand on that idea then of NOT wearing proper surf gear. You know what I don't wear the proper equipment for? Well, there's, bike riding, longboarding, roller blading, and paintball. Y'know why that is, cause all those things are done at a rate that could be described as passively casual. If I were really into it, wanting to ride for a long time, maybe use it as my escape from the rest of the world; it would make sense to me, a lamen as far as the pros go, to invest in pads/helm…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:50 AM
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I mean, he's saying he's one of em.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:32 AM
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The pyramids have been alluded to being alien on account of they are an engineering feat unheard of for the time period they were erected. And that's a building, I'd argue the Roman's beliefs on a man giving a woman oral and in turn what would happen to his sexual orientation is in fact, alien, or probably more appropriate: absolutely batsh*t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:26 PM
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And yet again, give people what they want, a suggestion, then they get all butt hurt and in their feefee's. Just saying, sweatshirt and shorts mf'er, low-cost, conducive to sweating more and, obligatory imo, getting a nicer workout since you're outta your head thinking what you look like and more on just going to the gym. If you wanna look hot for the gram or any other insufferable social-media based behavior, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:19 PM
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And this belief that I'd dare say has been proven false holds sway over your mind and actions 2000+ years later how? I mean, you've come to accept other things the Romans found to be true yet were not. For instance, food does not turn into blood which is how Roman's believed was the process by which they got energy. I'd venture to say you believe your heart pumps blood and food gets turned into energy through calories and your metabolism. Roman's would label you a madman for considering such a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:13 PM
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Alright now, you're throwing in the virginal and e-thot; chill with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:03 PM
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You gonna have to show your work for that one...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:00 PM
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I find it hard to comprehend a guy NOT enjoying it, you'd have to clarify to me why your head wouldn't be into it, the proverbial and literal in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:57 PM
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I can deal with/advocate for monogamy, marriage I'll continue to steer clear from.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:52 PM
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I mean you asked, no need to get all pissy at the answers given. But yeah sure: I'm fuming, the utter gall that someone would mock something so trivial as some Unisex sport clothing, how dare you! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:23 PM
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The ego that tags along is a big no, can't relax on dates, probably gonna be tough to find time to date; logistical headache being with someone like that so nah. But they can have the "they're attractive" point go into the PROS column, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:18 PM
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"Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do." /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:15 PM
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So it must be rampant 'amirite?' /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:12 PM
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Sweatshirt and shorts are pretty tried and true for the gym. Too good for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:09 PM
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Lol nice plug for dating apps, this is one of the dumbest takes trying to play itself off as a "Helpful Tip."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:07 PM
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If you think those women are winning you've lost the plot and are thinking like a dude, one who never read that men are women are different and assign value to different things apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:56 PM
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If you whine while claiming to be MGTOW, you're larping. MGTOW is just the simplified way of saying, "I'm not ready for commitment; because currently such an arrangement is on the whole a terrible mistake for one of the partners going into it....for over half the instances"
/r/ExRedPill09/07/23 08:29 AM
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Indifferent to a majority. Statistically safer bet; unlike with a woman you can tell when a man/boy is unhinged/crazy. Unless shes got something special about her, proceed with the politeness of a retail employee and disengage when possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:02 AM
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Cause it's just not, you expand on the initial though and it all goes to hell in a hand basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:50 AM
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Nope, you can project your hatred at how teachers are treated around subjects of sex - I don't want some sjw new-class teacher teaching about "their" sex education, that's what it ultimately ends up being cause sex is such a personal topic. How people want to give some of these newer teachers more power with our kids is scary and a good contributor to why people trust schools less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:33 AM
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The type of women desired by men is a spectrum, get outta here with that blatant gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:16 AM
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Probably. Happened to me in an early relationship, it hurt in the moment sure, but I understood why. And as long as I'm able I won't be approaching that BMI again. Granted, there'd be the conversation of getting that weight off, cause from experience I know it can be done in a couple months with minor dietary changes. But 55-60 is quite the trend that developed so I doubt there'd be the drive to lose the weight. It couldn't be "for me" either. If my partner didn't want to lose the weight cause s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:14 PM
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Parents showed me what I don't want to have happen in the future, people irl and online confirmed it seems that's what happens with marriages overtime. They also tried to heavily restrict my dating life growing up. Really they have no part in my dating life now, they don't know who I'm seeing, whether I'm going out or going on a date, or my current views on marriage or kids. I will give them credit where credit is due; They did give me the golden advice, "don't get a girl pregnant before college…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:08 PM
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So if the guy wanted to lose the stigma, shouldn't matter. If he wanted a relationship....You're correct an entirely different way should be used; but that's something I have no alternative for cause it doesn't interest me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:41 PM
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No see, you're operating from the idea that this guy will get ABSOLUTELY ZERO from the 1st lie. While it is a possibility, if even lying to get over that huge hurdle leaves you in the same boat, "you've done all you can." Is all that can be said to that poor schmuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:06 PM
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They wanna throw in out dated tips and tricks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:59 PM
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Nice revenge fantasy there. When you're only solution is to, "not care what anyone thinks," it's best to just take that hollow win if you manage to achieve such a thing, fact remains its still a role that will get you judged whetther or not you're living you're ideal life. Yes, they're are situations where the guy had no choice (can't have his own kids, bio dad deadbeats, helping a friend and it turned into something else.) I don't hate the guy for going down the path less traveled, I feel empat…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/23 06:24 PM
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They'll also notice pretty appalling behavior being shown by women, also contributing to them getting RP'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:35 PM
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I'll get up if she asks me, no problem. I'm not assuming anything around a woman; too easy for my day to get fucked with doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:26 PM
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And women too; The world, other men, and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:25 PM
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No girl is telling other girls they shouldn't do those things, they already are doing those things of there own volition. Guys are mad girls hide behind, "it's just a preference." And then women get mad when mens preferences are for younger and/or prettier. It's a cycle that goes round and round, yet somewhere you seemed to lose that plot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:29 AM
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There are circumstances that tend to go along with homes like that. It's just avoiding a clear trouble area, with how bad things are you'd be a willingly-ignorant man wading in the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:26 AM
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I'll disagree cause you see who get pick for fraternities right? It is not some well to do kid with poor social skills. Like if someone could enroll in uni, walk on campus and say, fraternity life is for me, yeah you're example scenario holds. But nope, in some cases there are just outright fucked up rules to exclude people, but at lukewarm the frat bros'll make it clear when fraternity life isn't a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:12 AM
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If that's goes to hell in a hand basket, so be it, really. Not much of a strong system if that were the case, it needed to happen for a hard reset if that's all it took to go caput.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:06 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:35 PM
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You did what alot of guys do, you just were the nonce who got outed, it's not like it was some epic fall of a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:28 PM
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Check out STD rates in assisted living, contradiction to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:25 PM
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Yeah so let's get rid of it in those 8, would you concede to that? Terrible practice, why it ever existed should be chalked up as a temporary fix for a problem the government made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:14 PM
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It's not less divorce, it's fewer getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:11 PM
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I know right, everyone knows frat bros are anti-social weirdos who wish they could change their lifestyle, those poor souls /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:07 PM
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Made 'HIM' the bitch? He cheated on her, keeps and his hot wife, and payback for the world knowing she got cheated on....was telling the world, 'my (still married to him) man cheated on me and is trash.' Oof how did he ever come back from that K.O.?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:18 PM
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Yes it's not fair, that's the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:34 PM
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"Privilege can be blinding," is all I can see after: 1. You 'never understood' 2 pretty basic sentiments held by men at one point in their life or another. 2. The humble brag that, from the jump, kills any possible relevance to the opinion of an average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:20 PM
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Too much liability, gonna be difficult to find my peace there, no its better for everyone that doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:27 PM
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So wait, is the guy supposed to say, "oh, thank my stars, you've finally seen what a catch I am, let me gladly take you out on the date I've had planned out for ages." /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:21 PM
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Right, problems came from women listening to what men wanted. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:16 PM
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It's not seething, it's just getting seen for what it is, something not genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:54 PM
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So the women are listening to the man's gripe, is that the scenario were being led to believe with that kind of deduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:47 PM
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Never wanted is perfectly fine by me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:01 PM
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Went from, "all it takes," to ,"well it can help is what I'm saying." You had a bad take, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:56 PM
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You're just the same as PUA guys saying they have a "cheat code." Another combination of buttons that's all your claiming it takes, why do you try to reduce something like this down so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:54 PM
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How's that going for alot of em?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:43 PM
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Helps it make sense so at least there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:09 PM
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It's been made more apparent in the years post-pandemic, yes. Where have you been? Edit: grammer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:07 PM
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Right, that's what's bringing attendance #'s up. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:03 PM
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I mean, they're already referred to as deadbeats, ctiticizing them from the getgo of taking about em'. Also, negative character trait typically associated with deadbeats, is that they don't particularly care what people think, which is why they take action to things that get them called deadbeats. So, we have a population of people doing pretty shitty things and have no sense of shame that can be used to influence their actions; I say we lock em' up so we have fewer people doing said actions, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:53 PM
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And anything that leads to BP would best be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:59 PM
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Women run the government. At least where I live. Big ol' mic drop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:32 PM
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This isn't even something men have to argue against. There are women out there who know it's a crock.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:02 AM
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Charisma is developed by practice, through and through, sitting alone in a bar, listening to people talk, flirt, fight, poke fun at, laugh and get on isn't gonna do jack s*** for your charisma. Looks; byproduct of your parents, nothing to do with what you did, unless you were talking about physique, I wasn't considering that because women claim to like the spectrum of men from twinks to dad bods. Money; could be inheritance, lottery, ill-gains, or hard work, so picking someone's inherent attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 07:33 PM
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Did nothing to get charisma? You gotta insert your username for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:40 PM
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Nah enjoy the decline. Attempting to change things is seen as oppressive by women so we gotta stick with the system they've fostered. Guys shouldn't commit cause, well be honest, with marriages as bad a deal as they are, trying to make one work is just an exercise of, "I bet I can be the exception." Sure you might, odds aren't in your favor though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:25 PM
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To each their own, if ya asked me any guy who married young is just a future TRP, it's the guys who said, "I'm gonna be the exception, the one who's got it all figure-" DIVORCE! Admirable to see you hold on to quite an outdated model, though at the same time; sad to see how some guys still fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:05 PM
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2 is quite presumptive, just cause you can, doesn't mean it holds the same water as the original statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:56 PM
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And yet women continue to see no problem with that and date him anyway. So much failure he's facing now I see your point /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:18 PM
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A, "thanks," is plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:20 PM
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Completely possible for the cashier and doctor to have the same personality, drive and work ethic. Jobs are just jobs, how do you explain the people who've done a MULTITUDE of jobs simply cause they pay. The way Id concede its a part of your personality would be just, "do you like to work?" That's the personality trait; it's not centered about WHAT your doing, it's just a trait of liking to socialize with people, working together to get a common goal done. Some people do this in a 9-5, others do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:26 AM
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It is pretty damn powerful. Imo, probably the strongest of the 3 "door openers" that TRP lists (height, money, status)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:21 PM
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Like that 1 activity specifically? No that sounds dumb, just anything you wanna do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:58 PM
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It was a direct counterpoint to what I naively believed through my early realtionships.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 02:38 PM
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Comparitively, absolutely, made the back end of college a little more memorable. Now the glances I get or looks from a girl don't go unnoticed.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 01:06 PM
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I would've left MGTOW out of that diagnosis but you do you
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 07:52 PM
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Needed advice on how to get in on hookup culture in college.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 07:50 PM
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Eh no, when it's that level of ink that'd where I draw the line. Cool as hell sure; not what I'd want in a serious gf.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 01:23 AM
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Some people think it's a masculine thing to see on a woman and aren't about it.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 10:06 AM
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Not the "what are we" talk. op sounded like he meant the initial approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:30 PM
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I think with how many incentives are available to a single mother, it isn't crazy to think some women can see an appeal and genuinely "mull it over."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:16 PM
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Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:40 PM
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Umm, arguably when a man is in his 30's he has even MORE reason to not wanna settle down. If he's made it that far in life, he's probably got resources and a lifestyle he enjoys. "Settling down" is just gonna ruin the good thing he had going. Made way more sense to settle down when I was strugggling and would've loved to build a home with a partner, struggle through the mud together. Women don't wanna man who's in a situation like that; so naturally, once I was out of that hardship, last thing I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:57 PM
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Using LogicalArchon's analogy, at a buffet you're not necessarily grabbing everything that's available, just what you wanna eat; for women, that's attractive men. Very possible to sleep with a dude, cut to the next day, want casual sex again, contact that same dude. This is why most men would struggle, the 'average' man isn't what's considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:53 PM
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Doesn't need to be a class; lesson plan is simple enough: have fun, don't commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:39 PM
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Same thing can happen when a girl loses a noticeable amount of weight and then has guys suddenly approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:56 PM
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The techie found a girl that was inclined to be in similar social spaces, as I stated earlier she's not what you'd consider an 'average girl.' A stereotype is just another way of saying "Chances Are." Chances are a techie would be forever-alone, for her particular techie, that wasn't the case, found an exceptional gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:53 PM
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Definitely paints a clearer picture, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:49 PM
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With relationships being a non-starter, yeah pretty much. Though personally I'd probably'd shoot more for a FWB situation and not just completely casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:46 PM
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"Ha! If you're telling me this kid is bringing shit up like Andrew Tate and Red Pill in public; you're not seeing a shitass like that. And don't pull that, 'I like him more now that my dad hates him,' shit cause I couldn't stand having a daughter dumber than this kid I'm just learning about."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:30 AM
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Look I get the sentiment, I do. But unfortunately it's just one of those things that you'll say but it wouldn't follow through. And nothing wrong with it either, I had a cousin who left her husband cause she got tired of the financial chunk she was putting in compared to him. She's happier now I guess, I don't really talk to her much now, too messy a situation she brought onto family get togethers. All that to say, is that if a guy would believe something like that coming from his partner early …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:14 PM
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I don't know what kind of morality guys like that are trying to hold onto. Really a harsh truth that guys need to just accept is girls aren't looking to be in relationships right now. Dating and interacting with the opposite sex is like window shopping, meaning modern times who's getting together is pretty much heavily rooted in the physical appearance. You're best bet if you wanna spend time with women, is get to the point where your "situationship" material. It'll be the best of both worlds (p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:09 PM
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Cause men aren't infallible and so they can totally drop the bag when trying to better themselves with RP. With how long men have been put down, it's easy to not have the confidence and ability to embrace RP. The, "there's someone for everyone/just be yourself.l," Is a comforting blanket to the weaker willed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:04 PM
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Well pretty sure college educated women aren't exactly vying over each other for a blue collared / everydayer. You work in investment banking, another area that's specialized and not particularly relatable. Good for you and your partner. I just believe it's very fortunate you've ended up where you've ended up, but you aren't exactly in the position to be advocating for an average girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:57 PM
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You're talking from a perspective of "above average." Your dating pool is already narrowed into a niche. I'd counter that the women on social media and just out and about doing a regular thing like being in the nightlife environment around the weekend ARE the average now. I'd be more on your side if you had a different background to strengthen your viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:26 PM
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You're comment is just, "there are some bad men out there too, it's not just single moms that ruin kids." A bad Dad is more often than not a bad man, bad men go to jail and the issue is (theoretically) resolved, he's not a part of society anymore. Single moms get assistance after assistance after empathetic assistance to keep going and (via the trend of single mother households and the kids they churn out) add more problematic people to society. Bad men don't get the same slack that bad women do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:17 PM
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Cause it fosters the environment where a compromise isn't some outlandish thing to suggest. "I'm not your 100, you're not my 100, but together we'll still pass the class."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:55 PM
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If one person is 'compromising' on what they'd want yet they themselves are the other persons 'everything' = settling. If both partners are finding 'would-be-icks' and saying that's not a big deal I'm still in it = compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:16 PM
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Both have things that would disqualify them from being an optimal relationship partner, neither is settling, they're reaching a compromise, and in their situations that's one of the best outcomes, good for them. Wonder what makes the woman feel that this is the best option, but that's probably a story for another post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:51 PM
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Your title had me interested, but this OP was just a big wall of nothingness and the conclusion is, "Drugs can be fun." Ain't no 'culture' to be strived for, y'all were just having a nice trip. This is like saying, "yo, everyone should just drink cause we'll all have a better time." On it's face, yeah no duh, but don't go the crazy step and make "drinking beer" a cultural practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:17 PM
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If a man manages to get all that done, and then just stick to 1 woman, what a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:29 PM
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If you were going to cry infront of your partner, meaning you couldn't hold it till you could safely exercise those emotions, you weren't ready for the responsibilities of a partner (or rather, being that person's partner in the instances where they would leave you for it). As a man you should have the channels for all the bad feelings, for 'people' in your life, keep the good. Leave the bad to inanimate objects (move weight, chop wood, grill some meat, go to the gun range, go fishing and scream…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:18 PM
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You may be right in that they aren't all the same, but it still holds true that things are getting to where it's just not worth it to commit to any 1 person anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:57 PM
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No yeah and that's cool more power to you since you're getting to experience it anyways. Just trying to point out that the perceived 'benefit' of LTR vs Hookup as you've laid it out isn't exclusive to the LTR, you just have to take that energy you had when you "approached" and apply it to when you "suggest" it nearing the end of the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:12 PM
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If you have an issue bringing up something you wanna try, with a person you know you're not gonna see again nonetheless, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:03 PM
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If you're gonna hold me to a literal definition then I'll rephrase, women who 'retain a youthful appearance compared to woman of a similar age.' *pushes glasses back up bridge of the nose and closes book with flourish. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:40 PM
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I'm not saying she's better now than then, what I'm saying is there are women who seemingly age little overtime, subsitute Halle in my example with like Sofia Vergara, Lucy Lui, Queen Latifah, or Anna Hathaway, all women who've aged gracefully, all exemplify the point I was trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:44 PM
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What I'm saying is there are outliers, as eith anything, but the presence of such outliers doesn't dispute an otherwise known trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:55 PM
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And there are some women out there like Halle Berry who doesn't age . The wall is an inevitable outcome, for both men and women. Men can prolong it longer than a woman can cause of what women find attractive in a man rather than vice versa. And then because of the wide spectrum of what men find attractive, some women are gonna be bigger/heavy set yet 'pre wall- for 1 guy, totally different prescription from another guy. Doesn't change the fact that, at some point in time, she'll hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:44 PM
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Not my point, just dating anyone can replicate your situation with money and an attractive woman. Cept minus the headaches, add in time doing what they wanna do, and the $ amount should be less overall too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:28 PM
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If you're RP aware you completely how to commit, most likely cause you learned how before you were Red Pilled. I wouldve loved to find a LTR in college, just didn't see the need to when I saw what dating was like post 2010. Truly it's women who Red Pill men, it's astounding.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 04:56 PM
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You're not guaranteed sex, or anything else on that list for that matter. Just as well to hire someone for those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:42 PM
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Back not broken = cause the body is able to heal at this current moment in time, once it isn't able to, and you won't know it till it happens, you're done. Mow the lawn seen as hard? If you think a guy considers that hard you're around pansies. Beer helps everything not hurt, remember how I said thr body would heal, well that process isn't pleasant. Aside from the nicer dark shade of skin you MIGHT get, no being in the sun all day isn't great, we don't even let kids do that even though they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:18 PM
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Yeah crying is for when you have privacy, no one needs to actually WITNESS you doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:32 AM
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You're still able to have a healthy relationship but having a channel for your emotions to keep the bad away from the good, i.e. the woman I'm currently seeing/dating. You're right, showing that side to your woman doesn't have to end bad, but it could, and why, all cause you had to have her be that channel, all too big/common a mistake. Better to just have the outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:53 AM
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Your statement makes it seem that women would somehow be trying to fix anything and TRP is getting in the way, to which I would say nice try, that's not what's happening. Feminism came before the Red Pill, the Red Pill was breaking that glass mirror of, "there's someone for everyone / just be yourself and you'll find the one" Without RP, some dudes would legit see 0 change in their dating/sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:50 PM
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Freedom of choice, how does it make any sense to blame someone else and not the person making the choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:22 PM
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Yeah statistically that checks out.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 08:18 PM
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You don't need to be jacked, just not fat. I swear sometimes you guys are that lost its crazy. We're in the year 2023, 'lookism' as you put it, has been practically ingrained in the public bias. You shunning it is as useful as the Amish shunning those who wanna not stop the Rum Springer lifestyle once they get that taste.
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 07:53 PM
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Lol, celebrities date celebrities and then dump them faster than any demographic. Pete Davidson is, if anything, a Testament to when you have what all women want, why restrict yourself to that 1 girl?
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 07:47 PM
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You'll feel better once you get the results you're after, as with anything in life. The self-improvement leading to jaded feelings is when you retain the "fairy tale" ideals that you had before the work was put in. You should be feeling fantastic once you pass from bf material to fwb material, if not you weren't actually interested in changing your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:34 PM
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Well, in this hypothetical, I'd have already given the, "while I do wholeheartedly believe in committed,monogamous relationships; marriage isn't something I'm willing to do." If they really wanted it that badly, it would have to get to the point where ultimatum would be drawn, and my decision would be to not go forward with a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:21 PM
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I'd work harder in any relationship just to avoid a marriage. Willingly walking into that is a non-starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:56 PM
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Yeah, I don't know why OP has some contention with your statement, but where you're off base is thinking getting into a relationship is still worth it outside of getting 'consistent' sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:25 PM
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Man's already been taken to the cleaners by the last one, wtf cares anymore what he does. He's now relegated to a talking point like Elon. Another smart, dumb person, that's Jeff Bezos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:15 PM
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With copy + paste available at their fingertips, it isn't that outlandish of an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:07 PM
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18 - 25, don't consider anything serious. Girls will go through the FOMO nowadays if you make them commit early. Not a blanket statement, but you're going to find more that conform to this phenomena than you will those that do not. Get to the point to where you'd be fine on your own should a relationship not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:00 PM
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It's no more dumber than girls soap opera's and reality TV. Abandon that and it'll start to make more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:56 PM
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Y'know that's fair, and in that spirit, on an optimistic note; there are still options to explore outside the west..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:03 PM
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I mean if you didn't like the friends you got then that's one thing. Widening 'social-circle' is what you're referring to; and I mean, if you don't got family or an already established core group then I can see you as a man needing to go and do all that, but otherwise, nah that does feed into OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:17 AM
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I mean, yeah I'll give you that much, sure; 'sometimes' it could be anyone. But that's like saying, "buy a lottery ticket, sometimes you'll win."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:19 AM
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For your "Non-oppressed" women, no matter what, you bring you're a hindrance to her, "living her best life." It's pointless to try and reason with a modern, western cultured woman, she deserves the best cause....reasons...and if we can't see that were misogynistic assholes it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:14 AM
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Yeah, but it's more common these days to where the 'hard work' is a prereq to even get a sure foot in the door. And from my experience, once a guy gets that work done, why just then stop at 1 relationship? Clearly you're at the level now to where it's an option with multiple people, feel free to exercise it. This mentality was how a college roommate went from, "I'll never find a girl," to legit having me tell a girl he was out studying whereas he was getting ready to go out with another girl. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:49 PM
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Oh no I was referring to the work needed to even be considered for the LTR. But you're not wrong relationships are work, just clarifying my take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:40 PM
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That girl isn't picking just ANYONE, she doesn't want the attention from just ANYONE, and passing her off, why, possibly cause the guy chose his gf over the single woman? Yeah, no, it's just HVM that get to be the other side of that interaction, at the very least in the eyes of the girl who's deciding to sleep with him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:39 PM
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How any guy would WANT to be around someone like that is where you lost me. No, I don't think you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:34 PM
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Better for men who wanna put in the work and just have casual sex. Very sad for men who want a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:20 PM
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TRP won't die, as there are men finding it day after day. People are just, thankfully, realizing that the grifters are gonna grift, it's their thing. It's like the school system nowadays, the idea is great; but the "teachers" (people who grab the eyes & ears through people's devices) are just lacking in modern day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:31 PM
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It's completely from the lens of, "done being a BP simp." People have shown me I'm attractive enough to be able to have OLD in my backpocket, had enough LTR'S in my past so I'm not sex starved; there's quite literally 0 need to be in a relationship rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:48 PM
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M8 if you just looked at comment history it's no secret I'm MGTOW and am set on refraining from LTR's. You're correct, it is simple for the physical part of self-improvement, so much so that even someone like me who's known at drive through's around my neighborhood by voice/name was able to reach a healthy BMI. It's not so much "passive agressive" as it is annoyance at both the extreme's that continue to thrive on subs like these, and I mean I've been on and off for years going back since 2017/1…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:17 PM
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Understood the flair, still. However, if you're letting inconsequential stuff like that bs get to you, somethings up.
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 04:50 PM
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See, funny thing is, you're just on the other extreme, there are the black-pill, forever-alone bois who spout the stuff that triggers you. And then there's the guys so deluded that their like, "uh, yeah bro it's actually so easy how do you not get that, girls would always be coming over to my frat house and hanging out with me and my brothers, girls love being around guys." One sees things as super easy, the other really hard. I didn't have it as hard as the incel's BP'ers, but definitely not as…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:46 PM
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Attitude checks out with the description provided. Not surprised this kind of bs is coming outta the frame of a frat-lifer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:30 PM
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Self-reported tinder stats, thoughts on the effectiveness men can have on their own attractiveness as reported by women, triggered at the less fortunate and their woes; yeah none of this text wall above has anything that merits a persuasive argument. Stating why YOUR experience speaks to objective reality and what actually happens when you're clearly the positive outlier, cool humble brag bruv.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:51 PM
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How are you still deluding yourself saying you're just like any other dude; well-traveled, affluent, greek-life. You're like The Rock in in that movie Central Intelligence, talking about how he lost 100's of lbs by, "working out 6 hours a day, everyday, for the last 20 years straight....." = "I mean anyone could do it, right?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:42 PM
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Yeah and for the man who actually can/does these things, women just aren't worth all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:33 PM
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But wait, we know the choice between those two more often than not also.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:10 PM
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Anything that takes a level of skill/expertise isn't easily handled at the beginning. Reaching the point where you're getting casual sex is where the real lessons begin. Give the lads 2-3 successful dates and they'll get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:48 PM
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Ah, then yeah no you're good on that suggestion. Now personally if a guy is gonna go through all that hard work, he's doing himself a disservice if that was all for 1 girl, so as long as he goes through all that to just date around, that's the move.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:37 PM
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I may have gotten my responses twisted. Are you speaking in the frame of, "to get a relationship"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:24 AM
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1st one: alright I don't quite know how much better I'd be at describing 'fuckboi' than like urban dictionary of sumthin' so I'd recommend that; it's not a path with good endings. strat = strategy. Yeah, cept when you go through all that hard work you realize that women are really just there for that, the guy at the ending = "I'm not settling for 1 woman now that I got what they all want apparently." Take it from me, I wasn't RP'd at all with my early relationships, very much BP with the "my gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:54 PM
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Risked what, that they change their mind and....nope, that's all it took....they changed their mind. Yet, getting yourself into that situation is still seen as not a dumb move, which to me is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:09 PM
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I'd say it does unless you're like trying to pull off like a fuckboi schtick, it's a good strat I'll give it that; but alotta guys aren't in the pool of, "men who can pull this off successfully."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:08 PM
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Risked what, that they change their mind and....nope, that's all it took....they changed their mind. Yet, getting yourself into that situation is still seen as not a dumb move, which to me is baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:43 PM
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Nope, this is an old take. If anything, men aren't thinking critically ENOUGH about how much work actually goes into being successful. What they really need to do, is get successful enough to play the "game," and the tricky part here is, maintain that at long as you can lest you get complacent and fall back into, "nobody wants to fuck me," shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:34 PM
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Cause if things were working fine before all that, why go and mess it up. I'm all for monogamy, but marriage in the sense of a contract and vows is just one big joke now. With No Fault Divorce, No-Prenup-Shaming, No DNA Testing shaming. You can't trust your partner if you're going through the rigamaroll that is the modern marriage, stick to them just being your partner. If they aren't fine without that paper being signed; then keep it moving, easy as that if men wanna retain their sanity and dig…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:54 PM
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Way better just to not deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 06:26 PM
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It serves a purpose. At the very least it can help some delusional unexperienced kid from getting too relationship-high and seeing everything through Rose Colored Glasses. Worst comes to worst, ending a relationship can be an utter fustercluck, and then on the best case, gonna be pretty nice but then as they say, "then she'll change her mind x amount of years later." OP's tip of approaching is good if it gets men some experience in their younger years. Best case scenario, they get the need for f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:15 AM
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It's all contextual. In the course of over 2-3 months no sex would be fine, but to me this arrangement is meaning strictly a "no penetration" approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:49 AM
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I don't see the need to be in a relationship. I van go out, ask someone on a date, if they say no, repeat as many times as needed to get a yes, hope that goes well. Yeah maybe not every night out is a success in getting a date; but that doesn't matter. Guess I go to the range, see a movie, hit the gym, or find a scenic place to smoke, basically anything else I find fun and equally a good time as going out on a date. I'm hoping other guys have reasons that involve keeping their peace, and it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:10 PM
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Yeah no that's totally a thing. Ngl though, it can be hard to discern when that's what's 'actually happening on a date though. However, the initial challenge notwithstanding, once you realize that's what's happening = imo those dates were alot easier to become very fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:55 PM
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What are these women expecting from men when they ask to, "Open up"? Cause obviously we aren't like women where we just wanna have someone listen to problems, we want solutions/options to our problems. This is more so the reason I don't "open up" to friends who are women; not worried about their attraction to me, but I know that bringing problems up aren't gonna get me where I'm hoping to get by talking about em, just probably gonna say, "That sucks," to which I'd respond with, "yeah, it be like…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:18 PM
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Wow, talk about succinct! Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:12 PM
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Oh I'm sure you're not ACTUALLY being a bitch, just that's the connotation I get from your initial description of, "indifferent, hot & cold, detatched." I can see the appeal, it's the coy, "is she into me or messing with me," uncertainty that if done right which your experience seems to hint yes, then it'll have the guy in a happy state of being teased in a flirty way. I respect the game and your awareness of the success-rate it gets, bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:22 PM
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Context being a group event ---> yeah no problem there's no issue with that at all. No way I'm gonna be in a 1-on-1 activity with her, lest it's like a sport or something like tennis or golf, then MAYBE, but probably still a, "mind if I invite x,y,z."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:18 PM
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Yeah, the girls say that they want a guy who would be cool with that setup, but that changes some time after the implementation. By in large the issues that come up happen when the woman loses respect for the "manny" they have at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:58 PM
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Minimum wage = not the problem. Really the problem just comes down to time committed to the job. If work is your main priority, I'm good, I'll let ya focus on that stuff. Not gonna keep trying to make it work if it's clear that her real priority is her job/title. I take work seriously too and enjoy the field I'm in, but at the end of the day, clock-out is still the best time of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:54 PM
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Why wouldn't they? Enjoy the decline, now that you have the playbook, welcome to the game!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:40 PM
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hot and bitchy is a thing, not THE thing, but definitely a vibe a dude can put up with. And if your goal is like men in trying to just get bodies; good on you, happy hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:39 PM
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Yeah, he should be content with the letters he's getting from regular women. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:12 PM
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Well I did address that earlier. They advise it cause having those things will have you at a better position to be at when you're a single dude. Regardless of any perceived shortcoming, if you have the things TRP advocates for, then you can better focus on correcting those shortcomings knowing that you have 3 very solid things going for you in your backpacker. (Or to throw in people's faces which some ill-informed guys are doing too)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:58 PM
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That it promotes "throwing money at women." It says, get in shape, get money, be a man. No matter if a girl leaves you, having those 3 will keep you in the clear for starting another relationship at you're own pace. Using the money and status to get the girl is straight from the PUA handbook/lovebombing tactics. TRP advocates to simply attain those things; you're free to use them/not use them at your discretion. Some RP guys like to flaunt they're attained characteristics using PUA methods, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:21 PM
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Can agree there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:27 AM
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Can agree. But due to my experience, I can never agree with the people that say you DON'T need the LMS. Going forward without any of that as a guy is an uphill battle, like Six Flags Rattler Post-Renovations uphill battle.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 09:35 PM
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Pianist, Woodworker, Grill-Master, Close Family. The guys from RP never really got to me with the slights against my weight/aesthetic, fact of the matter is I enjoy grilling burgers and frying chicken so if I gotta give up the six pack for some southern flavor in my food so be it. Essentially, the LMS is great for opening the door, but my personal uniqueness was usually what kept a girl around. So I adopted RP in order to get through that initial barrier/wall/door a HECK of alot easier.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 09:11 PM
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What's LMS?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 08:52 PM
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Not so much a change your mind perspective, just offer some clarity. Yes men are insanely more easy to please, not even just sexually; a sandwich gifted to a man on his recliner can instantly make that day of the week the highlight of his day/week/month. But it's pretty easy to please a woman as long as you stick to the basics (7 erogenous zones, hold off on actual PIV as long as you can or till she's literally beckoning you to get to it, forget about your pleasure first (it's all in the long ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:41 PM
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WTH are you on about, "love and accept him just because he's a man -," that has ZERO to do with red pill. Red Pill absolutely trashes on dudes, how else would they justify to be in shape, stoic, and a god damn rock for those you love; because thye are saying, "you're not like this now, you're a pudgy, weak, crybaby of a man who needs to do better if he wants to get better." Liking a person cause they're male/female, if that's your takeaway from ANYTHING you're reading, my suggestion to you is, "…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 07:14 PM
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Nah my guy, this sounds like something that's done. Wouldn't look into her watching your stories still. Regardless of the ending and how it happened, you were still a part of your life so maybe just chalk that up to curiosity at how things are going; it's no different from you not being able to stop thinking about her, cept she blocked you so there's no story to show her you're looking. It's rough, can't tell you how long it will be, but you'll move on.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 06:45 PM
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Held out hope with the, "someone for everyone," "be yourself." But the lack of success and my family doctor saying, "put on a few lbs there in college huh?" (For context it's all in good fun, my response was, "I thought I would cap out at 15 like the saying! 😭😂"), decided, what could it hurt. Cut to, success I had I'd attribute to MGTOW/RP. The headass stuff about manipulation mixed in with PUA tactics are still super dumb. But I feel for the ND dudes that are stuck with the latest social media …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:03 PM
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Like at least once? Eh, 37%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:52 PM
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No, hassle, headache is all that'll bring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:46 PM
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Probably, but "be better" is a paraphrasing of just keep living your life. I'm of the belief that when anyone gets into a relationship they will inevitably have to change what their typical day would look like when they were single and what follows is they forgo a hobby(ies) or what they would do in their leisure time. So, once a breakup happens, first move would be to remember what those things were, and either choose to keep doing them or pick other things to try out if ya not interested in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:57 PM
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Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:41 PM
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No right answer to this unfortunately, I mean sure there's the 3 date thing, 90 day rule, first date no-fear yolo-ing it...but all in all, it's just a vibe/feeling thing that will determine if it was the right or wrong move for either party involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:50 PM
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Sorry, I mean, the song had a sick beat, but other than that I don't follow what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:06 AM
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Lol nice 😎👌🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:54 PM
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You're Don Quijote fighting windmills my guy. Pulled women of all sorts of looks, skinny, bigger, shorter, taller (though not by much sadly), long story short I go for woman Im attracted to. Not asexual, and never had to "wait" to get busy with a date/gf, unlike whoever you're counter is aimed towards, I'm not a shitass who can't read social cues; if the opportunity lends itself you bet your sweet bippy I'm capitalizing on that. Just merely seeing a big whole in your proposition and offering my …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:48 PM
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Hence the "/s" Yeah alot of guys are complaining cause it's, "hey I did x, y, and z from TRP but women are just so trash it's not working." Nope, dumb take, what happened is you're not doing it right and are butthurt there's more work to be done. Loving the decline personally, having the, "I'm not emotionally available for a relationship rn -" talk is way easier nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:38 PM
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Lol, so you're one of those shitasses who are controlled by their little heads or whut? If both of those girls are porn stars then I don't know why you'd be incredulous at them having a problem with your scenario; porn star made me wait, probably continued being a porn star, and then married me....pretty sure Mia Khalifa's man went through this very thing so there you go. Dumb comment but a good chuckle so overall you get an upvote for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:34 PM
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F**k all that noise. No bud it's, "enjoy the decline" /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:22 PM
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No s**t the political commentator who is in some kind of controversy of his own doing (I mean not really but it is his show and he chooses what to report on so whatever happens rests with him that's all I mean) would have marriage troubles thrown into the mix. If anything people like Crowder, Musk, Bezos & Gates are showing how marriages are all shite and if you're still getting fooled into signing that paper nowadays you deserve all the troubles that'll come with it..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:08 PM
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In America young men are seen as the most expendable and resilient group to the point where no one cares about what they go through and just want them to work away till their back gives out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:40 PM
13

They saw him as an errand boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:36 PM
2

Because holding out to meet a woman who will reward/entertain the notion of going out with an inexperienced 'good guy' is a good way to ensure you're the next 40 year old virgin. Women make it clear who gets sex, if a guy picks up on that it's no one's fault. Women can choose who they want to sleep with on a whim in this sexually liberated age; conversely, men can choose to act like those select individuals who get laid when they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:17 PM
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The chick could think what she wants, as long as the man is willingly parting with the money and he's getting what he finds fulfilling, objectively speaking; then it's an absolute win for the guy. Her views on the exchange mean nothing to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:21 PM
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You're right he's just sleeping with them, the poor bastard /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:18 PM
3

I don't know how you could assure that kind of thing, and from my lived and listened to experience, it still runs true that one of the easiest ways to get a date and the most utilized by younger guys are dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:12 PM
3

If anything I can attribute alot of the dates I had in college BECAUSE we had dating apps. That's where everyone was at mid 2010's, at least Bumble and Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:05 PM
1

Not really a competition though there. If you've stayed youthful, you're in the running, not much else can make up that deficit in this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:36 PM
1

Aint like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:22 PM
2

Harder to come here than it is to go there, women's standards probably way more higher than in their current countries, our culture is utter shite at developing healthy families or community.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:02 PM
2

Yeah and if you get to the point where multidating is an option as a guy why in the hell would he want to stop and commit to one person?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:43 PM
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He's out of touch with most modern men; fact of the matter is most dude's don't wanna go the route of, "become a blue-haired Sheldon-Cooper-Lite whose wife sleeps with other men."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:21 PM
0

Men don't use the calendar app anymore? Setting an appointment is an impossibility now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:56 AM
1

You're either a fuckboy cause you hit a genetic lottery and women were throwing themselves at you early on and you were made aware of the difference between you and other guys. OR you were the late bloomers/boys-needing-glow-ups in order to start getting the wanted attention from women, but after seeing the state of dating you realize, screw committing to a girl when I can actually begin the dating phase of life without the handicap against me. So as such it's not hard to see who's gonna be a fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:27 PM
1

It's a representative sentiment. That this is what dating has become and how sad of a reality that is. Matters cause it's a glimpse into what can go wrong even if as a guy you do all the right things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:14 PM
2

Hey bud, regardless of what women you're with, all of what you described are not only possible, they're also not unheard of. Wish you had the opportunity to get a relationship before you went redpill. Imo that set you back quite a ways, cause you haven't gotten the thick skin that a dude should be getting from his first relationship; that's what allows you to keep at it and dating/looking for relationships, knowing that it all ending is a likely possibility, but hey if you're doing your best jus…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 02:47 PM
3

Nope, gladly will take the, "nice shoes bruh." from another dude. Like, "hell yeah they are fam, good looking out."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:37 PM
1

Perfect, so it was more alluding to the idea of the phrase, y'know, don't speak up you're part of the problem. So circling back to the OP's sentiment of, "man why didn't I say something to that girl after all!" since she didn't say anything, that poor girl who fell for those moves is just gonna be another part of the sad statistic that is the girls who fall for pick up artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:40 AM
2

Not so much interested in that she did it with other guys, would be mainly focused on the WHY she doesn't wanna do it with me/in general anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:32 PM
1

Honest question, were you unaware of the saying "silence is violence" that gained notoriety around the #metoo movement, circa 2017 (Give or take 2 years)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:11 PM
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Not meant to change your view just to widen your field of vision. Getting a girl by working out, dressing better, making more money also takes alot of time and effort. Some guys miss the mark entirely and some postpone putting in the work till its too late. You're just complaining that finding an ideal relationship under the prime circumstances is tough....ummm yeah g'doi.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:20 PM
1

Why should she stop it? Idk...you'll have to ask her why she had that thought in the first place. I'm not the one suggesting she so something out of character, I'm criticizing her friends who talked her out of it as well as her for being talked out of it. Clearly she regrets it going off her OP. so are you saying she shouldn't of even had the thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:15 PM
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Replace PUA with goldigger and men have the same gripe. I mean your problem should be with your friends talking you out of warning the girl. Hate to see it that, "silence is violence" applies here. You had a problem > saw it take place > didn't do anything > became pissed that problem continues....you LET it be effective. And you absolutely could've put a stop to it and solved your frustration that night, but yet here I am reading the terrible aftermath, an exercise of complacency.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:30 AM
1

I've wowed all girls I had a LTR with as well as had LTR's where the women initiated the conversation, still ended the same way - doesn't matter how it started. Your male friends labeling a girl as desperate for approaching...- sorry not sorry you're hanging out with trash friends. Essentially I'm at the point to where I got all the common issues I had early dating under control (physique, finances, hobbies, free time available) but as such; women can more likely see me as passable hookup materi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:08 AM
1

Disillusioned to the idea of love early on through relationships in primary/secondary school. Pretty much set on living like Ben Affleck in, "He's Just Not That Into You." = I'm all for a relationship and committing to one woman, being happily monogamous, I'm just not marrying. Nothing against women they are fantastic conversationalists and offer insight into a different way of looking at situations I find myself coming across in life, also they tend to have smiles and laughs that just leave me …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:44 AM
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Someone who's had employment 2 years before it was "legal" technically, who got scholarships to uni, and who's parents did the, "I'll start credit in my kids name," but didn't end up royally screwing that kid with debt. Agreeing with you that it's not a common thing but simply hinting at the fact that it's still not the days where such a thing is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:58 PM
2

Like could I go to the bank and physically take out the amount to show you? No. Most of my funds are in assets that'll appreciate should I continue to care for em.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:51 PM
2

Wouldn't have said dumb, but def lacking a skin thick enough to handle some online internet strangers comments in a place that is predisposed to have some of the more bitter and spiteful individuals from the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:50 PM
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OK if that's to be believed then I should be remorseful anytime my gf is mad cause I did "x" in a dream of hers. Nope, yalls emotions can make all the sense "TO YOU," doesn't mean that automatically makes it valid. Extreme example, maybe, an example that's not at all uncommon, absolutely. Your comment is reminiscent of the dangerous "believe all women," rhetoric of the #metro movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:37 PM
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Girl agrees to do all that for me, there isn't a thing in this world I wouldn't try to give her. SAHM should be getting the, "everything I could do, I did; everything I couldn't do, I tried."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:59 PM
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Ask a woman why that's the connotation they get, wish I could see the mental map they follow to get there but I can't make heads or tails anytime I hear a justification/explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:35 PM
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OK, but going off the analogy as you've left it, didn't I just read not 3 scrolls wheels up that the banks are just fine not having customers at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:19 PM
2

Cause a majority don't wanna be supporting their man. Yeah on paper you're 100%.....doesn't workout in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:34 PM
1

If that's true and not just an exaggerative statement then you're the asshole in that exchange, not some respectable gentleman wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:39 AM
1

Just takes several instances of, "I'm not feeling it tonight/right now." Man can only service himself so many times before he figures maybe he'd try his luck with a 3rd party.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:37 AM
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To avoid the pitfalls some parents in my family have made with their younger kids, I gotta make sure that by the time any of my future kids are 18, they have the basic knowledge I can provide them to keep them safe and trust their judgement. Things like: Handling a firearm SOME form of self defense training an understanding of the importance of work and the $ driving a car that is your own responsibility, bonus points if it's a beater like mine was so you learn basic car maintenance tips. All th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:46 PM
2

Yeah he was way off with the "countered," really it just seemed like the only way to get a level intimacy that mattered to men (sex) with the new 'rules' that were in place. The only guy imo that probably lost out to the grifters was JP with that 12 rules for like book he had. Good read but it seems that guys wanna just watch debate media than get a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:38 PM
6

Yeah you can cheer them on during their journey through reformation; don't need to be there at the finish line for em'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:08 PM
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Right cause as always words speak louder than actions /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:05 PM
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That's not friendships that's FAMILY wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:24 PM
6

10/10 dumb comment, not even an argument. What you're doing is attraction shaming. And I'm only saying that cause your take is THAT generalized it goes to the stupid take pile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:56 PM
2

If done successfully at least 1 time, it's a glassveil shattering moment where a guy most likely thinks, if he's a modicum of normal prior to testing the AH tactics of RP, "why tf does this work?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:09 PM
3

With how bad relationship dynamics can/have gotten; this dude is just optimizing the game for his best interest, no different than the, "get it gurrrrl." I'd love to sh** on his take, but hey, reverse genders and it's a boss babe livin' her best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:07 PM
1

Feasible? Yeah. Still a sh** deal? Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:16 PM
1

Well, considering his own words revealed he gets girls by getting them to fall in love with him, and then instead of ending up in a relationship with the guy, they end up in front of a camera. The outcome aside, he did get the girl(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:08 PM
1

Same parameters under different success criteria. This is why I'd argue there's a reason we have the different terms: "slut" & "playboy". Cause whether it's a male model, a successful corporate lawyer, music star, actor; there was SOMETHING tangible that allowed this guy said access. He wasn't just born like the case with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:12 PM
3

"I want a soda" so I went to the fridge to get one, that's what it's like when sex is a woman's aim.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:50 AM
2

Pretty sure a 50 mile bike ride is like a medal worthy achievement. Driving 50 miles is like a round trip to the movie theater.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:49 AM
1

Gay man who sleeps around alot, yeah I'm pretty sure they might even use that proudly as a personam descriptor depending on their personality. Bi-sexual not really a clear cut answer, is he pursuing primarily men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:43 AM
1

Yeah body wise there isn't anything that disqualifies any of them in being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:23 PM
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8; Looks 6; Intelligence Seen 3 women with higher degrees in my time on this Earth, and 1 thing that they had in common was that the higher education would tend to come up in a sort of egotistical kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:40 AM
1

Possibly an adrenaline junkie enjoying the high of sleeping with a slut with the added danger of having her take your stuff or cuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:38 PM
2

Anything that could actually potentially help is met with, "so have [insert gender here] be penalized/stolen from/dismissed/etc." So imo, guys just have to get this chip off their shoulder of wanting commitment or monogamy. Sex is truly free now, take it where you can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:31 PM
1

Still doesn't mean I'm any less shocked hearing a friend is separating from their wife/husband. All to common still.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:26 PM
2

Just as likely to give us the lineup of the next seasons divorce batch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:52 PM
2

Healthy relationships wouldn't have a failure percentage chance that marriages currently have today. A man is at his happiest currently if he's getting sex or positive attention from women, women are self-reporting they're fine with a dynamic that discourages commitment, TRP can help get a guy acquainted to how the show goes nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:49 PM
1

Well yeah, sounds like the perfect alley-oop scenario for you to dunk on em' with a proof picture. You not taking that shot is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:24 PM
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The, "no matter what," applies when there isn't a baseline to go off of, which in this case, there isn't (no picture). Regardless of what people can scree online; proof is proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:57 AM
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So you're also against marriage outright? Cause if I'm operating under that term then yeah absolutely. We'll all end up hating each other anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:20 PM
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As Pulp Fiction so eloquently put, "It's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:44 PM
3

So a friend of mine that I happen to be attracted to that way (for the record this has gotta be a hypothetical to me cause that's not how I operate)...yeah I'll concede that the "friend" response would outweigh the "attracted to" in this make believe scenario. But I'll maintain if you're attracted to a friend that way you make it known and whether or not it becomes anything would determine just how often you'd hangout going forward, or at least the types of interactions you would have; have it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:19 PM
1

Are you saying that a fight makes it an issue? Cause quite literally its not any different if I were to say, "we'll play for it in a 1-on-1 game of basketball." A friendly exhibition
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:08 PM
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Not so much because it's a man, but because it's a friend that I have no vested interest in sexually. So if they decide they want to screw me over and not pay, we don't gotta see each other or talk no more, plain and simple. Hell, depending on which friend it is, it wouldn't even be out of the question that we might fight over it; first to call it pays, but that's just on an individual basis not saying that all men are cool fighting to reach a decision. And by fighting I mean boxing at the gym a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:57 PM
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Nah I'm good. When attraction is involved, what were considered green flags with the non-sexual options turn red. Using the same example as before: if my date "forgets" her wallet. Yes I might make a lighthearted jab to keep things civil; but going forward "I'm" not gonna be the one to plan another date with that girl. She won't get outright ghosted, but the next time we go out, she gonna have to be the one to initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:50 PM
1

So here's where I'm coming from: "Date" is just an activity where the vibe is fun/new/easy-going and potentially good food and drinks are involved. I don't need to like who I'm with all that much, just enjoy the company; and if the mood lends it's way towards the bedroom that's great; it was a phenomenal date that I planned, I'm down to do it again, but whether or not it's with the same girl isn't all that important. Guys are upset cause they hold onto the bs of, "well she didn't like me back th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:38 PM
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Nope, had a massive underbite that got corrected way in middle school; understandable your argument is but not applicable. My "beard" goes only as far as goatee/van dyke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:33 PM
1

Your argument sounds utterly batsh*t when flipped around: "if you're not into older men, don't get married cause they'll just get ugly to you."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:30 PM
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Hard disagree, the range of women I attract and get "yes" to when asking them out is alot more varied then when I'm clean shaven, take the years off my face and I can pretty much only date younger, with the age realization getting brought up more often then not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:26 PM
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You avoiding the modern means of how people start a date is why you still are unsure about the fact that you do in fact have it way better now. Get OLD and watch the likes roll in. Sure it then becomes a sorta needle in the haystack situation but hey, you said it yourself your smart and capable so shouldn't be that hard of a task.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:23 PM
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I'll gladly date a women in her 30s, just gonna have to be dates though, marriage is a non-starter. You were on the right track OP, just a bit off on the trajectory. 'Dating ' becomes alot easier given the assumption that with that age you have better pay, more manageable hours, and more disposable income that comes through evolving and improving your work conditions. It's finding commitment that becomes harder for anyone 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:18 PM
1

Our advice takes that into account. There is no dancing around it like with women's advice, "oh well, if I find his personality charming it doesn't matter what his height is." In her head that makes perfect sense, but God forbid she stick to it when faced with the irl scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:17 PM
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No they really are, it's a non-issue that it can even be a light hearted jab, "why is it you always 'forget' your wallet when we out getting food, better get that venmo out ya bastard! 😂" it ain't that deep when your with your straight friends. No attraction means no stakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:14 PM
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When there's no attraction or inclination; not being used -> just hanging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:11 PM
7

Stopped watching them after A&P clowned em' so hard like a year and a half ago give or take a couple months. From the bits I get to see of their current stuff in YouTube shorts, they never really changed, just focused less on beefs with internet personalities and instead stuck to dunking on the Florida nightlife girls. And since they haven't really changed, anyone who still advocates for em conversely are advocating some verified clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:01 PM
1

If you've never gotten success with it, yeah, that's sad. Too many guys think it's a switch when in reality it's like roughly a half year's worth of investment depending on the individuals starting point, give or take 3 months. TRP works, definitively (personally a BP failure and I thank TRP for helping me get past only being seen as "LTR material") it's a shame men have such a strong support system yet are too immature/socially RT'd to make any worthwhile progress and instead chose to whine as …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:29 PM
1

You're right, for the safety of the kid; someone's gotta put the bear out to pasture. Ya hate to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:19 PM
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You aren't a monolith, we understood that after it was screeched at us to no end. So going with that premise; why listen to yall on how to get women, you're saying how to get YOU, which by y'alls own words isn't gonna work on a large group of people. Better served listening to guys who don't have the struggle amd has had to adapt to said large group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:31 PM
1

Good going on essentially pistol whipping the blind kid and bragging to your friends he didn't see it coming, that's the equivalent of you saying, "well you just fix it."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:32 AM
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I like #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:28 AM
1

"Not my problem." You disparage the content but that's where it ends. A man is more likely to respond to choices instead of just hate. "Those guys are bad and you're f'd for listening....." you can either: A. Collectively stop women from being attracted to the men using advice from TRP, that would have TRP change its tune otherwise end up being as useless and throwaway as women's dating advice is for men B. Give a counter to the TRP grifters that are clearly successful in their attempts to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:04 PM
3

Thank you. Unfortunate that it's gotten to that point but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:19 PM
3

Yes; 1-to-1 application of your example scenario (love it BTW since it involves people and not some bs like cars) is that each customer would be telling me, "That's what THEY like not what I want, wrre not all the same how dare you." My business would be better served asking successful businesses that are providing services like mine what helped bring in more people, what moves were successful for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:11 PM
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Women all say they aren't a monolith. Why ask what would work with them when you can ask a guy who's been with different girls? His history indicates ge's got something that happened to appeal to them all. Now, will everyone benefit from his advice, probably not; but it's better than the advice that applies to only one woman since y'all are all so unique
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:56 PM
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Well I talk about it more irl with friends, some I've known since high school, others college. Found this community AFTER the observation was made.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:33 PM
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You talk about your unique experience > find that they have some commonalities > that link gets a term to describe it so we're not as incoherent sounding as the Valley Girls using 'like' to no end. Difference is, and it's the sad part of it really, is that in the end, the guys AREN'T talking about the same girl; we just say this is what happened with girl 'X' and that's met with, "No way, that happened to me with girl, 'Y!' After that, we circle back and go through the whole alphabet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:29 AM
2

What I see there is: A Indian man approaching middle age, who while I have no issue with, women don't seem to be falling at Indian men's feet with sexual desire or attraction *see any post where an Indian guy vents on how he's not perceived as attractive comparatively to other guys. And then the white guy who falls into that 1% I mentioned in my previous post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:43 PM
1

You provide a counter men would have to the premise....and then proceed to give examples proving that the counter to your claim holds water. 99% of those message provided in your OP were about sex, not dates. Thanks for playing!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:53 PM
2

I'll leave it at this; you are either fine with people being content being single, or no that's all a cope regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:36 PM
5

Less of a headache though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:08 PM
12

Well you're comparing an immutable characteristic with one that is completely an autonomous. I see where you were going with that but they aren't the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:15 PM
2

Women hate men so much as is; why you gotta take away the only friend they got in some cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:41 AM
2

Dont play the dumb games; asking a girl out is what it is, a yes no situation: if yes fantastic, if no move on. Texting is for setting stuff up, calls are for emergencies, leave the good stuff for in person. Pay for the date if you're the once proposing the idea, girl offers to pay, "nah that's cool, you get the next one though, yeah? Assuming this went as well as I think it did and there IS a next one 😉" my grandparents were some saints regarding socializing, my parents were way too strict and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:10 PM
2

Yeah, I'm just gonna treat the subject of this conversation exactly how THEY said they should be treated. Not role models, just provide a couple laughs a week. To analyze them for anything else is a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:28 PM
1

Look at the comment below and I'm content with what was said. Both creators have already said they're not some reservoir of moral fiber, they don't want the responsibility you're keen to assign them for... reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:15 PM
1

Oh thank goodness, reading your comments to the counters/ arguments. I think you're confusing who's caught up in pettiness talking about 13 years Olds. Prisoners f**king kill pedophiles without blinking and you think there are that many men who have no issue dating that going? Such s ridiculous assumption had me committed to see where you were going with that. Thankfully, it was nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:13 PM
1

Any hot girl summer in Europe, it's a trope/ thing since my mom was in high school ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:01 PM
0

Height is immutable, n-count very much isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:59 PM
1

You're in over your head if you think you're judged that harshly. Haven't you heard, men will fuck a melon warmed in the micro. The bar for attractiveness is WAY lower for y'all than it is for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:56 PM
2

Concise and based sir, wish you all the karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:52 PM
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Neither have helpful tips for getting girls, they comment on people acting stupid online. They just churn out content for entertainment, not to give advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:49 PM
1

They aren't but the answer to it is an emotional one so there is quite literally nothing morally just that would fix it. "It be like that now," is the attitude I hear more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:18 PM
2

Yes you're right, and what I'm saying is that it could be for bs reasons like with Mandela. I can't claim to know the ins and outs of the Romanian government practices, but all I know is getting locked up for an investigation is just that. The guys saying he's innocent are just as stupid as the ones saying, "he's still locked up that obviously means he's guilty." Those statements at this point in time are two sides to the same idiot coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:02 PM
3

You say they're role models just on their exposure, I say that is ignorant; end statement. I've had role models that were professors, coaches, teachers; not celebrities. Celebrities are evolved theater kids, theater kids are narcissistic and annoying as hell. Ill keep praying that things like the Oscar's/Golden Globes/VMA's jeep dying out cause when theyre gone it'll be that much more of an acknowledgement that people see past Hollywoods bs. And the recurring cintent is because sad lads are chro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:59 PM
1

Or a reason why this suggestion is shite. You realize that man had everything affordd to him over the course of his life by mere virtue if being born? Even SMV, this guy had two professional parents and he graduated from HARVARD. Talk about putting a putt putt youth champion against Tiger Woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:53 PM
3

Men just get shit on no matter what they do. The ones who just don't wanna deal learn they don't need tons of money to afford a futon, monitor, game system, and internet. $700 a month and I'd be set on just those things. I'm rooting for the guys that wanna just not deal and do their own thing. If the country "falls apart," from their lack of contribution; then damn, I guess it really was that shit here and all the naysayers were in fact full of it instead. Now I'm not chasing women anymore, had …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:37 PM
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He's comparing the prolonged detainment not the character of the individuals locked up. They were polar opposites calm down no one is saying that. But you know Mandela was locked up for a long time for wrong reasons, you'd have to know that at this point in time, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:23 PM
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All of which largely helped by boatloads of money coming from a morally bankrupt industry. Look at ratings on anything that isn't a movie, people aren't and should never have been looking up to actors anymore don't you get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:14 PM
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That's just fanboying for some actors, those guys aren't giving out advice. And talk about impossible standards, just fly out to Hollyweird and drop morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:09 PM
2

They are deprogramming the, "there is someone for everyone," bs. It's needed because young men were fed that pig slop of a platitude for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:59 PM
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Asking a mother who views you as her precious angel who's, 'so handsome!' LOL. A mother's dating advice isn't beneficial cause she'll view you with rose colored glasses, regular women don't give you that same handicap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:55 PM
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It's been said before and is referred to as such in the media (TV, CNN, FOX, etc), so your comparison is what had us like, "tf is this guy talking about, 'couple online influencers'?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:50 PM
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There are many reasons people wouldn't divorce, being happy is one of em', and it holds no more weight than any other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:41 PM
2

It comes from a POV of having done it is where I have this attitude. Pandemic cut the legs from under me career wise for reasons, and starting from square one the decision was made to get a construction job an hour away. Where I am now is a hellavu lot better than where I was. Now yes, I had friends who let me crash at their places essentially using their laundry room as a locker/sleeping bag, family relatively close who let me use the ol' reliable grandpa's truck, and savings I could build havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:04 PM
2

I've talked with you before on this sub, if you'd care to remember I've already have had success in the dating market; I've been on/am on the side you think I'm against. Been in sports/gaming clubs/gun clubs/chess team/marching band, a real Renaissance man; interacted and hung out with a plethora of different kinds of people. Average dudes don't bounce around between FWB scenarios. Didn't make it up it was like that when I got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:25 PM
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Ngl I've given this statement several glances and I can't determine what the stance is in relation to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:16 PM
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You're gonna pay what you're legally compelled to pay. Otherwise, you go to jail. And yes, we have lawyers who know how to keep you from jail if you don't, same as we have legal representatives who make the laws that determine how much the minimum someone can get paid. Complaining about a system you think is against you; getting told to do better and it'll reward you; if you don't like it you can leave. In this context I could use economic and dating markets interchangeably. What's the answer? D…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:14 PM
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The ratio of guys who can pull that kind of dynamic off to those who can't isn't at all at the point to where the percentage accuracy is that far off, you give men too much credit when the average man is overweight, underpaid, and overlooked. FWB capable men don't fall under average. Perception of the percentage is just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:57 PM
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The amount of single baby mommas would beg to differ. Can't be using 'MOST reject' when the rise of single moms is ongoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:31 PM
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And that helps your argument how? 4chan is akin to Reddit = anyone consistently on it is gonna have some negative connotation slung over their heads no matter if it's based on reality or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:26 PM
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If the business owner is giving the minimum wage, I got no problem with that, it's a number he's probably not on board paying that anyways with how much it's risen so the blame isn't on him. You're COL is based on where you're at and what you're comfortable paying. I know people who bought a house out in bum-f**k nowhere just so they could afford the house asking with the gas to get out there. You're, I'm assuming based on your phrasing, you're unhappy with the cost of your place, better start m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:24 PM
1

You skipped beta and went to full cringe tier. How you thought this character trait would be a baseline to create some 'Billy-beta' character is beyond me. Immediately that's should've been seen as the red flag it is, though you were already there with the 4chan part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:12 PM
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How are they responsible if women pick them? What did they do: start a business that got them tons of money? Compete in a sport or industry to be at the top? Get born with a winning genetic lottery ticket? What would being mad at those things ever yeild?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:59 PM
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Not a myth. A tall ripped dude could do nothing and get laid, especially if it's genetics (which if he's tall 100% his genetics carried him there, can't work hard for height) cause 'you say' the women was second choice for the alpha; that then means the beta shouldn't feel so bad about being second choice cause she's in the same boat? Well it's not the same boat at all, save for if she let's the poor schmuck know he is second best, only then would the deck be stacked even. Without that she's jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:53 PM
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OK now you're talking in bad faith, I dismissed the bronie aspect because it was just so out there I figured it had to be hyperbole for the stories sake at characterizing Kevin. But now you're using it like some crux to the argument. Bronies are weird in and of themselves, to choose a brony on the word of her confidante, choosing to overlook that character trait was bound to end up in a regrettable situation. For your arguments sake, once I learned she dated a brony I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:34 PM
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Still a 5, doesn't sway that needle in the slightest. She'll have cool college stories I'm sure; but I have a sneaking suspicion she'll have a chip on her shoulder which I wouldn't wanna deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:33 PM
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Sounds like it takes the shitshow that modern dating can tend to be like and pushes it out of the equation; with the exceptions that slip through having the upswing of getting paid for the inconvenience. Yeah that sounds like something I'd be on board for, no issues found here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:46 PM
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Yeah I can see how that's the prevailing scenario that we've carved out for ourselves. Both instances where the guy is the poor schmuck left with the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:44 PM
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Not wanting the child that isn't mine. Is have no issue with that if we agreed to adopt, I know it's not my kid but we decide to raise it. Believing it's my kid when it's not is a nightmare I hope to never have happen irl. Completely different outlook at the two scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:58 PM
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Some people have to graduate from Concord Law Online while others get accepted into Harvard Law. Wouldn't call any of the non-Harvard lawyers 'sad' they couldn't get into Harvard. Cept in this case, Concord got told, "you deserve all the Harvard applicants.....you're just as good as Harvard."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:06 AM
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Alright I'll try placating that, FORGET the make-up part, cause that's just akin to a dude wearing shoulder pads/shoe-lifts/banana in the underwear = it's just deception done in the hopes to get past initial disqualifiers. Proper fitting clothes + normal BMI or even the lower end of overweight; I'd love to be able to write more but nope, sadly/hilariously it's THAT short a list. Get these two and you have the basic package to get a guy to want to ask you on a date, anything and I do mean ANYTHIN…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:54 PM
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Nah it's just your hope that it goes that way for everyone. The thoughts alone aren't enough to disqualify a man. Women could say that but put the words in the mouth of someone they find attractive and they're over the moon to be dating them. There's no point in trying to argue this with me; it's the halo effect pure and simple. I don't know how old you are but is eager it's not old enough to see the end result of these mens lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:32 PM
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Not acting like the female equivalents to a fake thug, i.e. spouting off how 'hard', 'real' or 'bad b**ch they are', thinking everything is a challenge to their character. Really as long as that's not reflected in their attitude or mannerisms then anything else they do is feminine by default of them being women. Just don't act like a man, cause by in large whenever a girl acts masculine energy that's when they resemble that twig tweaker going around trying to fight everyone; essentially harmless…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:10 PM
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She married him didn't she, you're right I don't know for sure if he's good but using the standards people who are supportive use; he's married he's bound to be considered a good guy by her, otherwise how is he married? This isn't some dude who tricked her, they've been friends for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:45 PM
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Eh it holds up; No man truly wants to be a girl's last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:35 PM
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We do with the description of friendzone. That's not a word used flippantly. Now if she was mistaken in her use That's one thing, personally I don't know anyone with a confusion on what the friendzone was and I'm in my late 20s. 4 years ago these people were in their 30s.... yeah she knew what she was saying. Friendzone Frankie was pining his 20s away for that gnd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:33 PM
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I wanted to be one through like 5th grade. Then wanted to become a craftsman through my grandfather's woodworking shop. Uncle was a plumber for most of his working life, ended up retiring for the city doing building repair, wasn't focused on plumbing but if the task came up he had the skills to finish the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:09 PM
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Hey my fathered taught me exactly how respectable debris/trash clearing was. One of my uncles was a bachelor stacking money young as a plumber growing up, another; would be out from time to time working on oil rigs, when he was gone it was nothing but woodworking/BBQ-ing/or welding some hone improvement project. Maybe some kids are overly sheltered and their parents wanted em in an office or lab all day (that's probably more true with millennial parents sadly). My upbringing was do what you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:53 PM
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Did your parents/teachers...beg. your statement is where I got it from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:30 PM
0

They are if you check em after use.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:26 PM
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No one begged for em. They pay well for the shite conditions. No one is compelled to work. But given the choice women don't pick certain jobs, that's clear. I just think it's a real world showcasing of, "we aren't equal." Y'all be saying you 'can' do the same things, you just choose not to or something cause y'all are too good to be doing the same things men do. It's just like wanting a traditional man while not being traditional. A women's equality isn't equality, by virtue of the differences o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:15 PM
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Woah, it's a hope that his would say no to this scenario. Crystal-head love? Managed to do fine nearly 30 years having NOT had that; don't mind trying to go for double that time. Fun/party drugs are a negotiable factor, but hard drugs are where it's a straight no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:21 PM
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Nah you're good. This isn't something that's exclusive to this sub, just see more frequent instances of it coming up on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:17 PM
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The propensity for people to say things don't happen, even moreso in 2023 after all we've seen; the highs and lows of the human material, that's what's really worthy of an lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:05 PM
1

And then there's the successful and attractive dude who wants a girl who maybe aspires to have and raise a family, better bet to get that outcome by going abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:02 PM
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Onboard 100%. A girl that'll appreciate all that while additionally not lost to American modern womanisms = a pretty peaceful and happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:00 PM
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In no way is TRP a secret tf...we're speaking about it right now. You asked why we aren't boasting about why it works: And as the saying goes, "if you're needing to go around yelling, 'it works! It works!' it's not working. It working is it bringing results, and guys stop needing to 'kiss and tell,' at like age what? 10...12? So that's why you don't see the "success stories" (BTW from this interaction I don't know if you'd even give them ANY benefit of the doubt so I think it'd be a moot point t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:32 PM
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Someone who wants to keep that success going, that's who. With the hate that RP receives, best to just use the stuff from it that works and keep that shit to ourselves. I don't need to help men find it or get the word out there. TRP never needs a spokesman, guys just find it when they need it. I don't worry cause I know it'll be there for the new class like it was for me. Just a shame the popular content creators that promote it today are some real sh****ses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:17 PM
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Here, it helped, anytime I proclaim just that it's written off as you have now. Who needs it, all guys who follow blue pulled and are rightly let down by the BP lies he accepted so readily.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:10 PM
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Speaking as a fellow man, your opinion is way off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:32 PM
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Yeah you're country is highly responsible for your take. The culture in the US is what makes it not comparable to your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:03 PM
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I care cause I'm still not allowed to NOT pay for child-centric tax funded resources, i.e. schools, parks, boys & girls club (not completely funded by taxes but ygti). Promise, if I'm not compelled to pay for the rest of the country screwing without protection, regardless of how much that'll save me, I'll stop giving a shite about how many kids... if you want kids... who can have kids. Let me truly not care about it, I'll gladly let it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:05 PM
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He's not saying you can't understand it, though ironically that part you seem to not understand so go figure. He's saying that people label Manosphere content TRP content. No different than, "that's not BP that's TRP."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:57 PM
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The, "men ain't shit," and, "I don't need no man's in my life," would beg to differe woth you there. They absolutely have done that amongst Facebook groups and group messages; they didn't need a whole sphere cause they have such good local infrastructures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:29 PM
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So, for a girl to get to point of lying about it, does that mean that they actually 'want' to be with the guy that's asking the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:58 PM
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And I think he's just saying if the amount of short term things isn't in a ratio that seems correlative then it's a non-starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:09 PM
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Looked at history, yeah when you entered school you had that choice. They're handing out forms asking kids what they want to be as early as 6th grade last I heard from younger family members. Majority of girls DONT choose STEM out of there own volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:07 PM
2

Defined jawline, good hairline, non-fugly smile, noticeable muscle definition, clear skin, and the good ol' 5'5-5'6 and above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:35 PM
1

How could it not? "Can't get women? go to men." That's what I got from that statement. Please, genuinely asking so I can make sense of something that you say I didn't read in good faith: what am I supposed to get from that comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 07:17 PM
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Cept what if all my parents are providing is a roof? I buy my own food/takeout, cook for myself and others of the opportunity presents itself on the family fire pit, pay for the upgraded internet for my WFH job since my parents were content with the ass-tier basic package, etc. Like yes I get if you're having mommy bring you sandwiches cause you can't spare the time without having to go AFK or sum shite then women will go drier than the Sahara. Does that same reaction come up if the dude is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:36 PM
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Yeah, I remember how that one girl tried to use that against Aziz Ansari. To that I'll say, a NO! during the act = of course that should be it, full stop. Equivalent to this for the analogies sake would be to get a divorce. However, what you're saying men are doing is akin to women RETROACTIVELY revoking consent; this is a concept I vehemently am against because it opens a huge he said/she said scenario, impossible to arbitrate fairly for the accused, be it man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:12 PM
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Oof you really don't wanna go down that road, since some victims of SA or No-Consent sex asked for it as well, and I don't mean how they dressed or what they said, I mean for getting into bed with the assailant before it unfortunately went wrong. Now if you're gonna go ahead and be fair to say it was the girls fault and not that men, "just shouldn't do it" then OK, you have a rational, albeit savage outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:03 PM
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Potentially help a kid out from running in blind and dumb. Gotta be brunt with this kind of message, otherwise the Disney model may rear its ugly face and try tricking the boy into the, "Happy wife, happy life," sinkhole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:46 PM
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Never had an issue with getting a hotel for the night. It's like, and bear with me now cause I know it's gonna sound crazy, there are other beds that you can lay in with the girl, cleaned and furnished and where you don't gotta worry about getting robbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:21 PM
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Granted....your still gettin' the downvote for it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:40 AM
1

Downvote for an obvious, repeated to no end on this sub, statement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:14 PM
2

The sure fire way to do it is hire an escort, only chance someone catches fefe's is gonna be on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:49 PM
1

Well for starters I'd say: any convention (anime, video game, comic), local video game tournaments, board game stores where they got them big tables for miniatures based games, and other places in that niche. Now, of course these places notoriously have a ick connotation cause of the yes admittedly socially inept and often low - none hygiene having men. Obviously as with most social groups, the people that partake in those things are not a monolith; it would be a huge exercise in s**t sifting bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:48 AM
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Bro if she's gonna be messaging other guys on those apps enough for you to notice, you bring it up once that you hope she cuts back on the apps. If it still continues enough to bump ya out, you leave since she's not that into you. Having control of another person's account; unless it's a kids account and your the kid's parent, that's just f**ked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:26 AM
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Yep I am, and no worries I've cleared this up for I think 4 people including you right here. MGTOW's don't disassociate from women, we just don't get into committed relationships. Own way is just a counter point to what has been purported to be "the way" up till recently: meet a girl --> go out on dates and start a romantic relationship if yall want --> marriage. "My" way in my MGTOW journey (seems redundant to say but you guys think we have the same "own way" apparently) stops after going out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:16 PM
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Hey I can only put my profile up, bit harsh to say it's gross since it's the "for women anyways" that allow me to say this, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:57 PM
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Ain't luck, BP --> MGTOW works since the emergence of dating apps. All they see is your pictures, put in the self improvement and you get results.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:53 PM
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The ones who stayed together def help your point come across, but they still possessed the attractive quality that probably held up the broke aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:51 PM
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Last 3 years have shown me the opposite; as a man anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:46 PM
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It's 2023, your experience is the exception, no longer the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:42 PM
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Cause it's way easier to read some bs. Talking to a shitass irl can actually be physically taxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:30 PM
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Delusion has claimed you then, godspeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:29 PM
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They are attractive that qualified them. Those couples still together? They get married after struggling to become not broke? If not; unfortunately it's a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:21 PM
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Software Engineer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:37 PM
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Well that's on your disposition I don't know what to tell ya, there are absolutely ways to ask these things without coming off as 20 questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 08:09 PM
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Yep so I know the conversations I've had that've been boring. Done plenty of jobs in my working life, can honestly say that in meeting someone new they'll either care enough about their job to their that it voluntarily, otherwise, as adults we pick from a number of other topics to talk about i.e. what they do for fun, family dynamics, favorite date destination, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:57 PM
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They view them the same as those women saw a majority of men while they were in there 20s/30s = invisible and beyond approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:47 PM
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Never gave a shit what someone does. They can feel free to bring it up, but it ain't gonna be asked by me. That's a boring adult conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:42 PM
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Based off your description passive and assertive is just more typing. It doesn't have to be that deep, if she wants to see you she'll make that known; people got plenty to handle, so much so that a date falling through isn't in that out of the ordinary. If you gotta push for that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:50 AM
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I'm under no illusion that this isn't just another transactional relationship. All I see is a prostitute who's giving a younger (and probably better looking than the rest of her clientele) individual the opportunity to pay for her services by providing her a safe place to stay that other clients aren't privy to. For all we know the 26 yr old programmer could be one of the least disgusting guys in her portfolio.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:42 PM
1

Hey and when/if the stats play out I hope you maintain that same frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:25 PM
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Well from the post it sounded like room and board was the trade off. So his cost of pussy is, "keep making enough for rent and food." For a software engineer?! Give the guy a challenge at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:20 PM
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No, spending that amount per month isn't sustainable and I'd claim runs into the territory of addiction, plus in that scenario the guy is just virtually satisfying himself, not with an actual person. The OP's example individual added the real element of physical intimacy that the only investment so far, from what I could tell, is go to work and clean up his place. Long term he might save enough to where he can try going out and dating girls, seems like he's on track to that kind of thing. Rememb…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:35 PM
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All's I'm saying is, man worked hard to have a job that pays at a rate that his does; if he wants to bang a 10/10 that won't detract from his current setup of work and maintain the home, then where is he losing? Getting a gf and keeping her interested in you is not a task that fits in a manageable time schedule, the guy is doing bare minimum on his end to be a functional human and that's 'not' including the sex, he's found a way to incorporate sex in his sustainable routine. Bravo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:18 PM
1

Right, cause getting a girl as a SWE is so easy. This guy maxed his current potential sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:34 PM
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Such a dumb take. One doesn't inherently lead to the other. Food is dead and can't see the look of hunger in our eyes. Can't say the same thing with a woman. You send guys out there with the dial set to sex-driven mongoloids they'll just be turned down from being aggressive as opposed to being turned down from being shy or not even approaching due to shyness. Guys, please don't get to the point where not touching your dick was what you needed to get out there. Cause that statement as it stands..…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/23 07:27 PM
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NGL I can't even find the comment that this was responding to anymore, might have been a different thread. Gonna leave it here cause the point stands imo. But as per your OP, sorry yeah doesn't seem to apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:53 PM
1

Yeah not getting into committed relationships with women "shouldn't" lead to kids. Not necessarily the goal of MGTOW per se, just a side effect of adopting the lifestyle. Now I don't know what guy would wanna live MGTOW and go on to say, "Yeah, I can raise a kid myself, no problem." But on that same thought, there are women going, "I don't need no man," while trying to raise their kid without the father, be it absenteeism or stubborn mama.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:11 PM
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Maybe you didn't put in the work soon enough, and if so good on ya for getting success when you did. But imo between 26 and 30 should be when you start applying yourself. You can finally test how you measure up as a man; after all you don't even have parents covering insurance for ya if they were so kind to have that age be the cutoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:36 PM
0

35+ is a bit of an overexaggeration don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:19 PM
2

More men are just wanting to fuck around, to be the type of guy they see being successful with women more often then they themselves. I think the change can be as small as introducing RP into your BP head space, not even having to fully change pills, just starting to look into it with the curiosity of: "Will this improve my current situation?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:00 PM
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We'll have to agree to disagree with the first part as I probably know just as many guys who've failed under the same premise. As for the 2nd, if it's "basic" competence then there isn't a "competence pill" that's just, "don't be a child if your age doesn't reflect that. "
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:57 PM
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An unattractive, competent man is more prone to fall into RP or MGTOW because, and this is where I'd say there's a flaw in this: look at what women do and not what they say. I'm sure after considering character traits those listed are what you claim to want; and if you're a boy with a father who was any kind of good dad, obligatory imo, you'll have basic repair, survival, and socializing skills locked down. But news flash, putting in the long hours for a girl to realize that's what she wants is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:36 PM
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If men were to stay the same they wouldn't get attention from women, to get sex we gotta change. It's self preservation cause men have always wanted sex, the rules to get that have changed drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:06 PM
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I think you're separating who we find 'most' attractive and who we have connection with. Like yeah taking a young 20-something out on a date can be fun and memorable, but ime actually sparking a conversation that is self-sustaining with both parties interest being equal is a scenario that is far and few between. A girl closer to my age is easier to talk to. If you want arm candy, the "peak" beauty ages will be plenty; I think the discord comes when men are saying that girls, while in their peak,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:58 PM
2

Nope, just a truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:24 AM
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Gotcha, well if that's your stance on life then for sure, we'll have to agree to disagree here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:13 PM
3

Dating and committed relationships are two different ball games. A man could sleep with a promiscuous woman, but marrying her would be outta the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:11 AM
-4

Same right that the baby had if you wanna go down that path.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:45 AM
18

It's a lower probability / lesser risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:30 PM
1

Didn't say your advice was off base, just trying to help with the delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:35 PM
1

The other person who took offense Leif it out let clearly, just don't disparage autism. You can use vulgarity and insults all you want, though I don't forsee success with that route either. It's an easy problem to solve, this is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:48 PM
1

Not sure if you're claiming having your shit together or falling apart when facing adversity is a binary, but I'd disagree with you if that was your position. Not everyone has the same constitution, not everyone has a change in luck. Where RP'ers are failing is that they treat RP content creators like some kind of priest when they stupidly are confusing redpill as some sort of movement instead of an ideology.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:24 AM
1

Eh to each their own I guess. No offense taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:16 AM
2

You just kinda have to STOP thinking about her. Maybe you're not like this as you're quite literally from another generation. But if you've seen Parks & Rec just picture Ron Swanson meditating with Chris Traeger. He just, 'stood there quietly, breathing, there wasn't a thought in my mind." First time I saw that episode I died laughing because I could relate with the man on that sentiment. But this is gonna be one of those things that's either gonna stick with you, or stay where you put it if you…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:14 AM
2

Not a cult.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:02 AM
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Well, you can't say they were alpha's before. So maybe they'll never be alphas, maybe they needed to coat tail ride the redpiller till they became what they believed to be alpha, but ultimately I guess in the redpiller's content sphere they feel better than when they were getting s**t on in their personal lives.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 02:55 AM
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Do it in a way that doesn't involve you becoming the AH of 2023. Cpt Autismo bro, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:38 AM
2

Yeah we'll have much better time at it no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:26 AM
1

They do that plenty for each other, I would argue sometimes to a fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:21 AM
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Alright, slow down there. Nowadays everyone and their mother is teaching those same lessons on Snapchat, IG and TikTok; it takes skill to do it exceptionally well, sure, but are you saying that men wouldn't give the time of day to a girl with 'basic' makeup/style tips applied? You give us too much credit. Hell, even the natural look can beat makeup. Are you hot or not? For men it's a binary, doesn't get much simpler than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:20 AM
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It's where you get laid and have your ego stroked by the guys there who would also f**k the sheep if he had the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:05 AM
1

If you think all physical objects are bolted down to where they stand and men and women are left with just their arms and legs to do harm...I mean that's just patently stupid. There are females who've killed if you weren't aware, a pocket knife is easily hideable at the most basic level of self defense. Yes, hand to hand a guy is more likely to stop a violent situation from getting outta hand/ deadly, bit if you hold women so inferior even with the countless force multipliers in the world then t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:02 PM
1

So you want an active dad that may not be the biological father while also not have him know it's not his on the chance he'll follow suit and leave the cheater?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:03 PM
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Your right, the man decides if he follows through with sex. Doesn't change that the woman gives the opportunity, the man 'takes' the opportunity of he so chooses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:57 PM
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Because unless the women gives the consent for sex, it's not sex, it's Grape or SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:35 PM
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You didn't bring that up, my take was on OP's list you referenced in your last paragraph. It seemed you considered his approach haphazardly thrown together, just wanted to offer one internet strangers, hopefully, more thought out explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:56 PM
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Np
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:45 PM
2

Women feeling small: I don't know how you disagree with the statement that generally women like taller, and to an extent, stronger man to partner with. Aggressive Behavior: you don't want a doormat for a husband be real. For a man to assert himself out involves he get in touch with an aggressive side. Aggression is a been of an emotion that's why there are classes that give you methods to target and control that emotion. I'll give you that a man should be in control of said emotion, but what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:45 PM
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MGTOW endorses self improvement but without any attention put towards women. It's an in between of Blackpill and RP. Whereas BP says don't do anything cause what's the point, MGTOW is do what you need in order to live in peace (i.e. financial structure, physical health focus, strive to achieve "bucket list-esque" goals.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:27 PM
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Men work together when there is a common goal to work towards together. Dating and getting laid aren't something one guy has to help another, it's up to if a guy so chooses to, and with all that's out there already is not hard to get better by oneself. (Think Ron Swansons take on fishing) Personally I think calling out nice-guys/incels/simps is a form of tough love, something I think men have been deprived of since the normalization of participation awards. If they are so shaken by words, maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:16 PM
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I'd give you a specific moment, but I think a good singular moment that are 100% representative of my claim is She-Hulk like episode 1, "I do it - INFINITLY more than you!" Moreover, prior to Phase Bore; there were actually good female heroes that didn't need to shit on a male equivalent, referring to ALL the female characters in the MARVEL Netflix series. So I don't know what changed and why they need to diminish the luster in a guy hero, but it all feels like the over-correction from the fans …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:10 AM
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Yep, you've got a year ahead on me; Most of the talk I remember was on dressing better i.e. what styles/colors work with different facial structures and physical conditioning. Alot of content that was geared towards what guys can do to become more attractive. I think alot of the vitriol nowadys is sort of like runoff toxicity (cause make no mistake, outright avoiding women to focus on personal growth can at times be considered toxic even by the individual themselves, important to pump the breaks…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:58 AM
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The actors contracts notwithstanding; Nah, they clearly bolster the new female heroes by crapping on the male, in each of their respective IP's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:14 AM
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So take some roids, do harm to other men for work and in some instances take that aggression out towards my wife/gf. That's just another branch of the entertainment industry, another dude out of touch with real life cause he is quite literally paid to stay in shape and perform every week. Say you want men to be dancing wind-up toys without saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:07 PM
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And anywhere there is a male in a place of good standing there are people who claim that he's just there cause of white/male privilege. So yeah, even when the guy gets to where he 'should,' you got people who demonize that. Male led media? That's laughable as a man is the punchline in media. Take the most mainstream example, MARVEL, quite literally an expedition to replace male heroes with females and attacking the audience who say that the content is bad. Everyone seems content to trash man, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:50 PM
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I gotta maintain that your notion of 'help' amounts to, "wait and see/focus on personality/approach don't approach/be emotional but not too emotional, etc." I'm blessed to have never needed this kinda "help" but because I have that outside looking in perspective for men, I know that giving platitudes and conflicting opinions aren't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:31 PM
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No, I'm not at all saying that they insult and call it help. Dismissal was the extent of my claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:10 PM
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Wasn't referring to me. I just found it to come off as you finding a justification and slapping it onto your actions. If you want them to take responsibility, don't claim you tried to help; in fact saying that to 'anyone' gives of the connotation you don't want to help em'. I like that approach but people have a tendency to call that harsh/mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:30 PM
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It's 2023 my guy, call the police or anyone who's paid to help, if you're not paid to provide the help and they're not related or involved with you, that's white knighting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:38 PM
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Ha, as if anyone tried saving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:35 PM
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Appreciate the ominous forewarning, when that starts slapping me in the face I'll have to make some changes. Till then, reaping the benefits of my MGTOW years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:17 AM
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You don't know me so I'll take that as a general comment, for my late 20's I'm just fine where I'm at thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:21 AM
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I'm always interested in this counter whenever it's brought up. I've never shown that I have money in what can be called peacocking. I shop at Goodwill cause hey, dem' clothes would be new to me, I've built the furniture for my first apartment the summer before that college year started, and I have the same car as I did when I got my license, fix and service it myself. I'm never going to wear my income so to speak, but having money to spend, is going to afford me not having to worry about taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:08 PM
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Alright, I'll rescind that part of the statement, still stand on they say they dress for themselves and are adamant about it. I suspect they're lying and know that full well, but like I said, they're determined to make that their hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:21 PM
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Tell that to the girls who are adamant dressing up is for them and their friends. We've tried to show them the delusion hey they appear determined to die in that hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:59 PM
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Guys just want to enjoy the shift in SMV contingent on them working out, dressing nice, third thing here, etc. that will make us attractive to the new class of woman that previously wouldn't give us the time of day. Yes of course a guy who does nothing will not have anything change with just age, but point being; an older guy who, after self improvement, would likely have the money, conversation skills, and looks to get a younger, better looking girl for a relationship best case, ONS/FWB bad wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:56 PM
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You're more than free to just be, but don't expect men to still find you as attractive anymore. That's the difference, a younger girl can just be also but difference is she will nonetheless catch the eyes of all if not most men that see her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:43 PM
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I'd guess a response like, "fine," or "whatever/okay." Would be examples of not cooperative in a discussion. Would that be correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:07 PM
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Cool, actually yeah I'd wager the safest bet is just make your profile private. I wouldn't date someone who I can get an idea of their life from a few taps on my screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:49 PM
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True and so if the girl is gonna save me the heartbreak by making it known that she has and actively uses IG I'll just avoid the trouble and keep it movin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:43 PM
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Eh I think this rhetoric he touts is linked to the belief that a DM can quite easily turn into a sort of fast pass for infidelity. I would argue to him that if his girl was gonna cheat using social media; best to just lock the door behind her and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:24 PM
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Yeah but that's the system women have encouraged. TRP is feeding the beast that is the sexually liberated modern woman. In sure a guy would love commitment, but he'll either have to wait for some woman to decide she wanted a guy that didn't sleep around, most likely cause he couldn't, or he can shape up with TRP and go on to get what he wanted. The things men need to do for sex are dictated by women, we've seen women give up sex for TRP inspired traits; a man wanting a committed relationship ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:47 PM
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Allow me to provide you with the context, mental image I had in my take was any woman who's, "ready to settle down with a nice guy." I can see how men would feel some kinda way about these women no different than how women paint any dude who leaves their country for different dating prospects do. Had it not been for my glow up with puberty I would've probably had different views, I went from 2 LTR's prior to puberty...on to ONS and hookups cause that's all I was able to get when going out. Trust…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:57 PM
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If you wanna strawman and just have the mental image of an old fogie wrapping his wrinkled hands over the "poor foreign girl," I'll placate you and say I find those dudes just as cringeworthy and pray they fall into financial misfortune so that they can't continue. I just maintain that it's not the case with passport bros, or any other male within a reasonable age range that just sees modern western woman as no more than hookup material over wifey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:35 PM
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Hey hey, the buyers were the ones needing to refocus. The house can stay how it is and will provide shelter and warmth for any new homeowner that appreciates it for what it is. And yeah, maybe the house will undergo renovations, adding structural supports, new tiling, maybe a bigger yard if he does the work to clean out all gunk and litter polluting it. But then that house should have the self respect to turn away the old homeowners who didn't see the potential, save three luxury for new prospec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:26 PM
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Leave that headache to the man with delusion to spare thinking he'll ever meet her expectations. You're right, that girl is marriage material, she'll be in multiple marriages and they'll all end when her lust-haze wears off and wants another HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:22 PM
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Right, where like 3 traits account for 60% of that and they're the qualities men don't have direct control over. I understand your take comes from the Blue Pill lense you have in your flair, but you're assuming women are reasonable in their checklists and not just putting their Imaginary bf build.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:05 PM
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Cause when they can't get him they resort to settling and treating the poor guy like he just hit big in the lotto. He wishes he could, as do we all so a lie like that, once exposed, real punch to the nards knowing your girl is with you cause she failed at her plan A. Outside western culture plan A is more inclusive, so men aren't seen as trash by the woman like they are in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:44 PM
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Yeah no, both are shitty behaviors. However, you're only guilty of 1 so you're not a total garbage person, I trust you can correct this behavior, best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:30 PM
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I legit HAVE to assume you've never seen the, "Not 6ft swipe left," bios that litter every corner of OLD. You might say, "But tHAt's nOT rEAL liFe go TOucH TreEs ya incel!" It's indicative of what matters in hookup culture --> it's 2023 most relationships start as FWB or situationships so they are one in the same showing what woman are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:26 PM
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C should instead be, "they aren't expecting it and in turn think theres some underlying reason that's rooted in fucking with the guy. Like bring the biggest loser to a party, viral video of the simp getting flustered with the question." Girls who thought they'd have a little fun approaching "Billy Beta" ruined the game for y'all. When a girl goes to ask a guy there's a chance he's being punked; why is thar now a thing? Some girls out there with truly shit personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:58 PM
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So you know they were fucking, yes that's clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:40 PM
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Divorce awaits us all, men should be trying to get hookups from the jump, that's where most relationships start since around the 2010's. If a guy works on himself and the traits needed to get a woman's attention, capitalizes that into a ONS or a FWB if he makes her feel good enough about the arrangement; he'll be right as rain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:18 PM
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With a divorce statistic as high as 50%, who cares where it's increasing, no matter what you do or what age you shack up, 50/50 it's gonna end. Just gotta try and make it not a blazing inferno when it crashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:10 PM
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No. 1, if she's showing me a side that women are reserving for who they actually wanna be with, imma do whatever I can to be with her; and whatever I couldn't do, I know that for her I'd at least try. A woman who "loves" you and you know she loves you, coupled with all the other things you mentioned; a man who lost that has to be one of the dumbest mf's alive. I wouldnt even say the points you tried to paint as a deal breaker are that bad (as long as she stays not obese). Like Meg Griffin said, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:05 PM
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Young men have alot actively working against them in this modern western culture: Social Media, Mainstream News, Podcasts, Entertainment, Education. I'm lucky to have been born pre 2000's, I didn't get my first clamshell phone till 9th grade, had to learn to talk and socialize at school, hanging out was in person and in groups. Everything is made to be so convenient present day that I think girls ultimately just want dome kinda button to have a Harry Styles (Or insert any dude in the "top 20%") …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:58 PM
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It's not a magic answer but the trend shows that if they are together the child has a better chance at being, well I wouldn't say outright 'successful' but they won't end up being a detriment to his/her immediate surroundings. (I.e. all the negative traits associated with children raised in single parent households.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:21 PM
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Yeah that makes sense, if that was anyone's sole reason for not doing anything, be it male or female, yeah I can see how that would be a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:15 AM
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Yeah...when everyone touts therapy as some kind of cure all, miss me with that. So now an additional threshold is going to therapy? What if the guy didn't need it? Does not going to it disqualify him then, or is that not possible cause, "everyone 'can' benefit from it."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:57 PM
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Eh idk about all that, with the lower drinking age aren't people from abroad more prone to being able to handle their shit better? Heard more than once from a foreign buddy in college something akin to, "you Americans don't know how to drink." That's why I brought up Friday nights, when most people were out on the town.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:26 PM
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Boom, mind blowing status met. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:22 PM
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Majority of therapists are female, crying about something is apparently a solution to some things, a man so emotionally vulnerable is only safe for the briefest moment in time i.e. the hour he has the pass to do so, can't go about his day to day doing that, men don't need that kind of guy around and women may empathize with but won't be attracted to this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:12 AM
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Your UK idea of social/sexual interactions just must be heavily influenced by your area. Try going to a college in the US. We were hooking up left right and center every Friday night at minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:01 AM
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Oh yeah that's a given, best bud was with a cougar for a bit, I'm sure it was a sweet little chapter in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:00 AM
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Yeah that's completely fair, though I think if someone was trying to have a partner that compliments them that my belief would be a good pairing. In the case of my grandparents, Grandpa was the hardass, Grandma is sweet and snuck candy to me when he wasn't paying attention. Yin and yang, I appreciate the lessons they taught me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:29 PM
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I'm aware a baby needs things, and when I have a child, they're gonna get everything they need, but I'll be damned if my kid is gonna think they NEED the extras in life, those come when you complete the basics, how my grandparents taught me and how my child is gonna learn. What's wrong with the bare minimum? Comes off as real privileged to think you're too good enough for the bare minimum, no one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:30 AM
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Some 20 somethings agreeing to sleep with an active cougar? You done changed the game haven't you? /s get the 22 year old to marry you and you'll blow these morons minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:14 AM
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A man can appreciate what he's got, think of how they say a man's house could just have a bed, TV and couch and be totally furnished for a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:17 PM
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NYC is trash with rats the size of footballs, great for sociopaths who standout like a sore thumb in the real world, same goes for the bay area.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:06 AM
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Yeah when a girl is touting how many situationships she has and her comment section is absolutely flooded with, "you go gurrrrrl!" The f**k would I want to commit to someone from that culture? Also, what do people expect when it's apparently 'normal' to date upwards of like 4 people at one time?! "Why don't men commit?" is one of the most easiest questions to answer in today's day in age; just open Tiktok/Instagram/Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:59 PM
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It's becoming more common for women to take part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:31 PM
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Easier to refresh the available options than parse through the sh** show that is the over sexualized and 'me'-centric mindset women are immersed in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:26 PM
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If this woman had the unicorn among males then there's no comparing to that, it'll always be in the back of her mind, someone's gonna want the unicorn over the pack horse any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:20 AM
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Yeah but what if they're not beliefs I held prior and instead were beliefs thrust upon me early on when I was getting schooled in the class of rejection. I grew up pre-MeToo, when you could just ask a girl out if you had interest in her and no one would think anything of it, being caked a creep for that action was from what i remember non existent. I didn't have the qualms in approaching I think men have nowadays. When you told you're too heavy (I'm phrasing it nicely), nerdy-looking (braces + g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:24 PM
1

See I don't think calling it a fear and phobia are quite correct. That would mean it was a touch irrational, like what I have for animatronic animals / sharks in general since seeing Jaws. But before the self improvement, trust, it was made pretty clear I wasn't what girls wanted in a bf, let alone a ONS. We're told exactly what precludes us from being a contender. Alot of incels and crybabies just have the attitude of, "but self improvement is hard...*tear." To that I say, "damn right." A guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:10 PM
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What worked for me was working on myself till I started noticing the hints girls throw out there when they're interested (i.e. smiles (not your everyday polite smile), laughing at stuff I'd say that I wasn't exactly trying to be funny with, eye contact that goes beyond socially normal during conversations. I made sure to add the additional descriptors with the smile and eye contact cause those were the problem areas I personally had trouble identifying before my self improvement journey. My amen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:42 PM
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Facing your fears and phobias is just tellin em to get back out there, it'll be fine. Approaching as a guy doesn't work out as easy a you make it. I just felt your advice was a direct path to reinforcing their beliefs by shunning the fact that its never that simple, takes work, charisma, and some other third thing before you'll start seeing marginal success. If you're finding a GF outside a bar off the street you're not gonna help the average guy because by your own words your not living the ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:22 PM
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You speak from the pov of an outlier and are trying to project the success on others, not how it works out by in large bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:52 PM
1

When you phrase it how can I 'show,' the connotation I got was its an act. This is why my response was geared toward 'you need to vocalize' cause anything else just played into the rest which was coming off as just an act to keep the man around. To be clear that was just my initial reaction to your post, where I stand now is you have a good thing going, albeit from your point of view, but still... it sounds good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:30 PM
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Well don't get me wrong, initially off of your original post: that was also the stance I was leaning toward. It wasn't until down this thread that I've since come around. But that being said, with the context you've given me I'd rest easy and not pay mind to those typing from the hip, they're just not willing to ask/ clarify your specific scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:43 PM
1

Lol, good for you and lucky him!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:00 PM
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Yeah that's a rarity nowadays, I mean it is what it is, I was the oldest and only boy among sisters, making food had been something I've had a hand in since I was like 12, but if a woman cooked for me unwarranted as a surprise, ngl with how uncommon that is, it'd probably bring a tear to my eye lol. Upgrade that to thinking I'd died and gone to heaven if the food was heckin' tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:55 PM
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Then yeah, context provided that sounds like a good thing you got going. Hope it works out for you, and as a guy, thank you for the communication you've provided to your man to reassure him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:43 PM
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"Cooking is how I show care." If that was known prior it would def help. Overall, this situation just sounds like you can't afford to have doubt come up, so being vocal on your end is paramount. Otherwise, inside looking out, I'd think we were just chill homies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:37 PM
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All I can go on is words here. If she keys me know she isn't asexual and just wants to wait, fine. Especially if she's cool with me getting satisfied elsewhere. This scenario just sounds so foreign; are there guys who are getting everything else you mentioned without sex? Cause in your hypothetical, I'd stay; if this was an actual relationship, I'd be thinking I'm getting strung along and in my experience when a guy starts feeling that it's been going on for longer than he thinks so yeah this wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:29 PM
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Hey man it's 2023 you do you and let the kinks run free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:11 PM
4

A, lesser of two evils: there's no reconciling with an Alpha-Widow that feels unsatisfied at being with you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:08 PM
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It can't be a practice of douchebaggery and OK with both parties interested, or if you maintain that it is, you have a weak argument cause it's predicated on a case by case basis; where's the precedent to go off of?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:02 PM
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Wth does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:36 PM
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So the wife wouldn't leave if the man just toughened up and coasted on the fact that she makes more? What happens when the woman leaves 'because' he doesn't make a much as her. If you're also cool with having an open relationship cause your girl might have some fantasy she wants fulfilled that exists outside your relationship then I'll believe you've somehow ascended past a worry that many men reasonably have in their relationship or that they use to screen incompatible women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:53 PM
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Douche in the gender neutral sense? Cause I've both initiated and been offered on a first date. As long as your not discriminating which gender can be called a douche then yeah I'll give you that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:14 PM
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Compatible would mean the two were sleeping together the first date unless some trait they had in common was waiting before marriage. The guys who out compete the other guys are the ones who score straight off OLD sites, bonus points if it was just his pictures that opened the door. Women have shown us who the winners are, and it's not the stable men they settle for when their fun has been had, it's the ones they want to have fun with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:24 PM
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So what, for those guys the answer is do nothing and suffer, "stop thinking you want sex you fkin' losers!" That's some selfish, spiteful st right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:07 PM
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Tf does job apps compare to asking out a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:51 PM
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Hard disagree with you. If you felt they were so bad for you great job dropping them. But they're as legitimate a hobby as anything else that doesn't give you a skill outside of that hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:57 AM
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What you call losing hope I just call wising up. Wanting men to stay disillusioned is what can cause harm. All RP has done is educate through lived experience and general observation. If what in turn happens is a man 'loses hope' then well that's the conclusion he's arrived at. He's more than free to try it out for himself, see if he'll break the apparent, 'status quo.' And i personally would wish him luck, but I know it's easier to get a hookup/FWB over an actual LTR let alone wife that'll actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:39 PM
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I'd say it desensitizes clueless young men. And following this logic train, it's best to teach young men RP so when a woman ultimately breaks his heart it'll be like water off a ducks back, not a rock into the disposal scenario it tends to be like currently. Clouding his view, I'd disagree, cause as a fellow guy I wish someone clued me in on the hazards I was walking into when I first started dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:13 PM
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Only defense I'd offer is give me uninterrupted time with a rapist and at the very least he'd no longer have a male member, worst case he wouldn't hurt anyone again, same goes for pedo's. I understand both evils exist and would love to have a personal hand in eliminating that threat to public safety, but I do rec drugs so LE wouldn't have me, more shootin' for the straight edge weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:30 PM
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It's not dehumanizing to talk about an observed human trait. Sure I'll give you that the vocabulary could be different, but the actions they're assigned to still occur and it's best guys know about them so they're not ran through the emotional woodchipper
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:41 PM
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27, 23 - 30. Although it would be a toss up on the 23 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 07:31 PM
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Yep, after a LTR ended at 23 I embraced MGTOW while I focused on work. Couple years later, had enough to where I could comfortably go on a date without having to worry about the cost. So if you go MGTOW, don't forget the working on yourself part. If you're comfortable outside a relationship, starting one with someone will feel alot more natural; if you hit the gym and practice good hygiene during the work on yourself phase of MGTOW, it's only gonna get easier for you after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:05 PM
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Love is a nice, nothing answer that doesn't need to follow any reasoning. Nice old man trick there bud, I'm well past the age where I blindly follow the, "cause I said so -" counter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:41 PM
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I completely get where you're coming from. When I'm with my guy friends the random conversations that come up are pretty unfiltered and close to raw, first-come-to-mind opinions. However, there is the saying, "do as I say, not as I do." What anyone says they'll do or say in any given instance should just be taken at face value, not assigned to their character. All I'm saying is there is the possibility that what you hear is what they want you to hear. Anything they said could very well be the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:10 AM
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If you're still shocked that something like that can still happen, that's a pretty privileged existence you've alluded to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:19 AM
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Wait, is that not a paraphrase of what you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:17 AM
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So he's a potato in your eyes, but that spud give you tingles so he's good? Don't know what an individual guy is supposed to do with a statistical outlier, both here in reddit and what we see amongst the grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:15 AM
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You have access to their thoughts, but we can still see what they do in the field. What you have is the version of a candidate we see in TV debates, what they think and how they would act given the question; we all know how trustworthy those moments can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:13 AM
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A lawyer in her thirties making good money, must've been a hell of a time to find another partner that would match up to what she built with you. A lawyer also must be someone who is smart enough to realize the dating game for a late 30s/early 40s woman is a real sh*t show. Why didn't she leave? A lawyer should know what deal she wants to take; help fix your issues and get you back to the man she likes vs leaving you and starting over with a huge handicap in the SMV...asked and answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:23 AM
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I appreciate the gesture of meeting on a more temperate level of conversation. You're right, in the realm of the internet generalizations are thrown as flippant as the middle finger is to a child who just learned what it means. It really hurts to see that the RP movement is just guys filled with contempt and vitriol, really hoped the MGTOW movement would've won over while the two were vying for mainstream attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:58 PM
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Yeah there are also men here who are incels, both parties exist and are out there, sometimes the Venm Diagram intersects and those guys are really fucked. And yes, you're right, I'm defending a point made by 'you' with your assuming statement, with a foundation that one-sided I don't know if there's anything I'll say to change your opinion there. A win for you in a debate sure, but it's kinda like pistol whipping a blind person and bragging they didn't see it coming. Believe it, don't believe it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:03 AM
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I think incels may be the most self hating group as of late, and while that is just my opinion, I'd be interested to learn who anyone might think may rival the clique on this issue. Incel is just another blanket term that can be thrown out at random if the person is triggered enough; the term application can range from a socially depraved individual to just someone disagreeing with a nonRP opinion. I can't speak for everyone, but i know my hate for an incel stems from their refusal to take accou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:53 PM
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They can date amongst each other in school yeah. But as it goes, they're approaching the age that they can/probably will start considering SO's that might be a couple years older since they're already established and may have more time to do things without the anxiety of school or work. Not saying all nor do I think you can just be a headass through your early twenties and start magically dating models. But imo being a couple years older and gaining attention of younger girls that intimidated th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:52 PM
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Men hate being generalized with incels. We hate incels just as much as anyone, almost as much as incels do I would say. But, "all men want sex, love certain forms of the female figure (skinny - overweight), think with our dicks." Yeah all these are true, anyone who tells me these I just laugh and agree with a, "lol yeah I know right." Actual men don't mind generalizations, they're either way of base so we'll pay no mind, or it's true and it's a funny observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:32 PM
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You just had to make your point so dumb with the celebrity/hottest man bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:21 PM
1

How do you land there?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:15 PM
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They can have as many of the super idealized younger women without having to commit to just one. A perfect case of Red Pill would have that system running for as long as the guy can physically maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:16 PM
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Eh it is what it is. Thankfully I got that lesson taught young, my actions going forward from that moment have only instilled a confidence that it's the right way to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:23 PM
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No, but that's just cause the thing I'd like from my partner is time spent together and physical intimacy; but when I have brought that up in the past, the reception is not always great. So the best course of action hads been: Don't have that convo Learn what my partners love language is Fulfill their love language requirements Doing that has in turn led to what I enjoy out of a relationship so it works out just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:11 PM
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Dating options pre late 20s for a guy are pretty concise, if you've had luck, most likely you would've had that luck anyways. A guy who isn't fortunate gets brutally informed that until he's got 'x' in control, tough luck thanks for coming out. And before, yeah maybe he gets successful and finds a hot wife and lives a great life. Now, a guy is best served looking in a culture that still holds family values, not individualist values above all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:50 PM
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The women who champion having a haram of situationships were never met with the same intensity of female dissenters,, so I think men followed suit; so now we're a majority of people who don't give a ish about committing, from the guys perspective, "locking you down as my one and only gf apparently is controlling and misogynistic, but date and dash is cool so yeah we'll stick with that." It's like they say, if women all collectively said we'll have sex for marriage, men would wait. Most don't so …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 07:38 PM
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Nagging should refer to tone, not frequency.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 07:33 PM
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Nice cope, it's not just confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 06:31 PM
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This argument is so one sided and cherry picks its points I'm curious to know if this is a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:47 PM
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While I commend you for what you've accomplished, your obstacles notwithstanding. And although I was reacting to a, what I thought was a hypothetical, scenario presented to me. What I'm say to your counter is this: your experience can't be considered the norm, so what you make of it and how you go about it is something that wouldn't be on my radar as I'm not some kind of equity case officer. I do wish you luck, as you seem to have been taught the lesson that men get taught early on; no one is go…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:28 PM
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D. All the above. I don't know what this others guys experience was, but yeah I started to notice the better engagement I was getting from women when I lost the 'freshman' 10 college did to me...every year of college lol, and when I dropped hoodies and shorts for joggers/pants and button ups (my style but upgraded wardrobe in general was the thing) and Red Pill, while straight looney-tunes sometimes, advice on cold approaches made me just realize, "yo it sounds stupid because really it's just th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:12 AM
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They're saying no because of where it leads. On the whole it'd be a great setup for a guy; however, most women aren't going to put up with it for long, so the practical answer, what other guys are saying, is no. Ideally you'll get a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:00 AM
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It would help but not by much. Not the guy you asked but I related with his stance pretty well so just thought I'd throw it out there. I'd be interested to see what his answer would be to this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:54 AM
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To think or to learn? Only takes one fight for that kind of sentiment to just get thrown out into the conversation. I just think it's funny to assume it's just in a guys head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:49 AM
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Are you saying this specific scenario example girl chose to do everything outside the realm school and grades? (No clubbing, No boyfriend, No crimes, and No ONS) cause I'd argue that when 'not doing good in school' is a constant in someone's life, then their choices made outside of school are exactly what you say she's not doing. Meaning, choosing to focus on having fun and doing what they want; so yeah they'll entertain a boyfriend or maybe even multiple throughout school, going out every night…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:30 AM
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Modern Family, all 3 of the husband's. I won't stop there, Good Luck Charlie, Bob's Burgers, Rick and Morty, etc. I don't know what you were expecting when challenging a trope that's been beaten so much the horse is saying, "damn, it's had enough already don't ya think?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:46 AM
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Oh the 50% of marriages that end, I think it's like 60 to 70% of cases that are due to finances. Women leave if they make more than their man more often than not. So yeah dating or hookups don't directly rely on money, but committing to a woman means you have to have above average income. But then again you have cases like Gates or Bezos so even that's not even enough ffs. Women care about things out of left field and it's entirely based on their fe fees so you're just best to keep a breakup in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:19 PM
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Basically, does a person 'need' to sleep around, no. It's like any other want, you practice self control to not indulge; so the way I look at it from that lens is that anyone who's just said fuck it and enjoyed a promiscuous phase, it's like anyone who drinks to excess or spend all day doing drugs and nothing else: I don't wanna be around those people. And look I'm not claiming I haven't EVER had a one night stands. One girl I went out with; we just weren't compatible personally, but sexually we…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:10 PM
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Hey if I never had to hear about an ex, I'm over the moon and I'd give my girl the stars. Take me out of that vacuum and that's where it goes to hell and a hand basket. Personal experience so far in my neatly 3 decades has shown me that while it is possible, on a bad enough day for the girl it'll be thrown out as a jab against me; so again, less partners would probably be best long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:58 PM
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Point blank, if you explored it you didn't do it healthily, not to a guy. I think it should go the same for women but they seem to melt over guys with experience so go figure they have nothing wrong with it. But why would they, they see no problem with sleeping around in general. All cause they wanna think their great gam-gam didn't get her back blown out as much as she might've wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:46 PM
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It's things I'm being compared to and subconsciously measured up to during my day to day time spent with her. Don't need that in my life; I want my peace and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:33 PM
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Just not handjobs, blowjob's count by his last statements indication.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:27 AM
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Well, not gonna 'not' ask cause she 'might' lie to me; imo a girl who'd get uncomfortable to that question regarding safe sex as I'm getting/looking for a condom isn't one I'd feel comfortable continuing with so we're all good there. The procedure was an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:55 AM
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Yes. Any time I've had sex, I: Asked if the girl had/was on protection check that if she didn't, made sure to have mine check that if I didnt have one, run to the convenience store rq check that Used protection + checked after for leaks check that when condom broke went to get plan B....all in the efforts to NOT GET A GIRL PREGNANT. Yeah, it was a bitch to go through all that EVERY TIME, but do I regret the fact that I never had a baby scare cause of that? = no. Do I regret the chances I missed …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:00 AM
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If you're taking the definition of the violent dominant to the doormat submissive then yeah you're way off base. It's just not a constant opposite force in my day to day goings on. Like I get you are your own person and have thoughts on everything just the same as I do; but if your takeaway is counter to mine, and it's something that at the end of the day isn't that big a deal to either of us, I really wouldn't want to deal with an argument. Example: I'm a dog person, an ex of mine loved dogs to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:50 AM
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Less partners means a woman will be more likely to successfully pair bond, men don't have the issue of pair bonding as severe. A guy can f**k a hole in the wall till completion and go back to everyday normalcy, you're more able to definitively choose who you love. That's not even my personal beliefs, that's the logic with the pair bonding stuff; so yeah what you describe doesn't challenge the model at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:33 AM
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Nah the real solution is to take away all the things that make casually screwing left and right not a big deal anymore: non-mandatory spousal child support, all child expenses paid for by the parents; no govt support, and no government supported abortion clinics; all private. When you actually have to pay for your kid, hopefully people will actually start giving a damn about wanton reckless hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:30 AM
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That fits precisely with the man/woman pair bonding model tf? You fit the template, thanks have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:15 AM
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Congrats on the bundle of joy!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:50 PM
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Why twerking isn't dancing: it's a lazy western take on actual cultural dances/ movements. Practical example: Megan the Stallion was 'twerking' with She Hulk, Megan the Stallion was 'dancing' with She Hulk. To be fair, if you think those two statements have the same meaning, I really think you're just grasping for a point to be right. Tik Tok / Vine trend absolutely. Dances? Eh, I mean, as much as the Ninja Floss I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:19 PM
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I was hoping that wasn't the insinuation. I don't know how they link "Not wifey = trash." This isn't even a comment directly bashing on women though, more on how marriage just isn't what you need to have on your mind while you're out clubbing. Like the other commenter said you're just having fun, it's legal, and loads of people do it; nothing wrong with that kind of activity in the slightest. However, the point I'm just bringing up is: that a girl who normally engages in the club/ bar life and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:57 PM
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Twerking on a guys waist or even without a guy but you're with your girlfriends isn't dancing. I love taking my girl out dancing, but with actual dancing like Salsa, Norteňo, or even Square (i know, not the biggest selection but hey its one's I can competently do for extended periods of time lol). They can have all the fun they want, but just as the girl who doesn't go can get called a prude or no fun, you're equally gonna have a label associated with the activity anyways. Also, as a guy I wanna…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:30 PM
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Yeah no speak for yourself. Mother and her clique of PTC friends weren't party girls growing up. Of course, I'd assume you think they're lying; which is fine cause I did too: reason being cause I thought they were just trying to dissuade me from that kind of lifestyle as i was going to uni. But nope, aunts and uncles can confirm they didn't do that stuff, and my tías can be some tellin' ass women so I had to give my mom the credit she originally wanted. Couple that with the single women friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:52 PM
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Yeah I think you just feel men hit a wall same as women. I mean for some, yeah absolutely, but my father, grand and great grand father had dark hair and average BMI when they were well into their 50s. I'm looking to be on that track too fingers crossed lol. You just have to control your eating, exercise half hour a day cumulatively, and keep a job; but if you do these you'll be easily better off in your 30s - 50s than you were in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:12 PM
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I'd counter with the amendment: Will you help cook? Will you help clean? If you're a guy who can't work a swiffer or know how a mop bucket works, you're just trying to maintain some kinda privilege you weirdly grew up with. I'll come out and say I was pretty dumb too till the age of 18 when I moved away from home and had to live dorm/apartment/house life. So the options why these 2 things are the stipulation, worded in the way you worded it originally that is, come down to: You don't know how to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:37 PM
0

Yes, and it happens, scary stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:58 PM
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Now that's not to say they're wrong for wanting what they want. Just trying to exercise the idea that you can't fault men for wanting what they want either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:08 AM
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George W. left you behind my fellow human. Please, attend a sex ed course and learn why your statement just reaks of some utter 10th grade ignorance. And like, this is that kid who's in his 10th grade year for like the 3rd time kinda situation. It's a blessing that you're still a virgin in your late 20's with the logic you're toting around in that head you're trailing around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:21 AM
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Cause guys are more than happy to be there with a girl as they get better at sex 'together'. When you're with a girl your aware if she knows her way around the bedroom, the thoughts that guys can get, which they'd rather not deal with in the first place, are, "Who else has she done this with? What else has she done with other people? Can I live up to the standards that whoever else she's been with has made her set up?" You won't get this headache with a girl with no previous partners. Conversely…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:46 AM
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Taking the used condom after it had been discarded and assumed disposed of in efforts to have a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:57 AM
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If you're gonna treat it like a game, may as well go on Tinder, where in America it's a total shit show. Sex with hotter girls that he's not (assuming) paying for, weight aside I don't think loser is the right qualifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:27 AM
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Oh yeah, completely with you on that one. The guys who get so discouraged by the population of just 1 culture they check out of relationships got no drive. They can't/won't acknowledge there's so many other places outside this country where nonsensical gender norms are seen just as that. But I gotta hand it to Western girls, Ceasar Milan would be proud at how well you can break another beings spirit so completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:06 AM
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Pretty much the size of it, yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:01 AM
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Yeah those losers just didn't believe what they did was enough. One's who acknowledge the progress made and translate it to confidence will find their success, guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:00 AM
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And that kind of thinking is coming from a bitter place that just doesn't want to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:58 AM
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"Fuck you donuts are awesome!" - Harold and Kumar Escape from Guantanamo Bay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:55 AM
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Yeah but the minimum set by western girls is too extreme. So yes, I understand it's going to take x amount of hours per day in the gym and eating these foods not those foods, all to try and catch up to the guys that just happen to meet the bar that's skyrocketed upwards in a little over the past decade; but there's 6 other continents where they treated the bar sensibly and with respect to reality. I'll take the much better odds elsewhere. Just gotta go where they also see western dating norms as…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:42 AM
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They've always had "options" of "who wants to sleep with me?" Tf? Men just have to stop pining for the idea of commitment. No one should commit anymore, women are doing great just hopping from one HMV to the next. We're just waiting for the last of the stragglers to get with the program of the new western culture. They'll just fade away into obscurity monogamous to their hands and screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:49 PM
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Yep, we're out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:42 PM
1

Ummm, your solution is to go abroad, tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:39 AM
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10/10 can agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:21 PM
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Varies person to person I'm sure. I mean we've seen consequences imo like OLD, ghosting, and people opting for the next attempt at the 1st/2nd/3rd obstacle they come across. But yes, some people have sex with people they're not all that into, at least not in a LTR kind of way. Not sure what she thinks tbh, but hey if I was trying to have sex, and things went well enough to where that's where she and I were comfortable enough to go that far, the lack of enthusiasm would just influence my actions …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:42 PM
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You're never gonna get more from asking, not in the moment at least, it's gonna come off as a criticism, why psyche out your bedroom partner in that way? Do i want the sex to stop right then and there? Lazy, uninterested sex isn't bad straight out, just let's me know I'm not attractive to her right now/ in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:46 PM
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Ummmm, cause it's sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:42 PM
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Completely a fair point. And as a point of contrition, I don't think we gotta change current dating market women, you guys do you; the group the women between ages 16 -30 are pretty much left with hit or miss odds at, "strong independent womaning," it or deciding to take a break from all that and try at getting a man they'll put up with. I hope that for the younger generation we finally put the community foot down on matters like social media's influence on younger generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:32 PM
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It's a scenario that could play out if other nations deem our culture has fractured our security to a good enough point where we're so individualistic that an invasion might be seen as, 'up for the taking.' Which I think I've heard warnings of on both left and right media since George W was in office. It's like, certain countries are saying, "America is trash, evil, etc..." you don't see it as a stretch to where a group as small but growing as 'passport bros,' o are of the opinion, "you know wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:07 PM
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You're right, that's the crux to the culture shift, men no longer want women in America, men leave; and if they're smart they stay where they went, however, a country with less men is gonna be less defended and to those who say we have the military; yeah but it's not as if the military is some subset of men who are no-pilled and just do what they're told and protect woman and children: their own biological blood sure, but woman in general, why? They themselves are saying they don't need us and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:52 PM
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Basically relationships and marriage to a US woman aren't a great option. So yeah, I'll wait till I can move and hopefully find someone I can start and care for a family together. It's the culture in general, it's all too common the rhetoric of, "I don't need no man, men ain't shit, boss bitch," to get stoked into a girl's head at younger and home ages. And in the US where a tablet is now the common kids toy, I am not about to commit my car and affection for a woman from an area that advocates f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:03 PM
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You see it as invisible barriers, because they are doing it less and less. We don't wanna participate just to show people it really happens. I just enjoy inviting the boys out to the land, watching some old shows and playing pool over the mental gymnastics of 'trying' to get a date. I've had the experience of both worlds, nerd with braces and scoliosis growing up, managed to have two LTRs then cause I was pretty musically inclined and my smile was on point after braces. Wasn't till after college…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:47 PM
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Cause it's easier and safer to go MGTOW. The real version; i hold nothing against women as people, they generally are more friendly to talk to and a girl's laugh can be one of the sweetest things to hear bar none. However, I know that dating just isn't yielding overall positive outcomes, and so for my families protection and my own mental health, I just do my own thing. To each their own and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:54 PM
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All high and mighty of how much they make working from home. People in stem are cool to hang around cause they like things that's are more active in creating interest (video games, Board Games, watch parties, etc.) but as a dating prospect they are usually jaded from their lack of experience, or they think they're the prize solely on their job cause idk that's what their parents told them growing up maybe (anecdotal with my childhood neighbor's son, there's probably other reasons). Besides, tren…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:58 PM
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They were tired of exploring the non-existent options. Men opt out of the rat race when they feel they're approaching that level of insanity going through the same thing over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:46 AM
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When I couldn't make the basketball team cause my height alone, I had to go to football, different game, but I could play on a real team. Didn't make it hurt less that I couldn't play on the team with my friends from the last couple years cause I stopped growing while they didn't. Yeah I got a lot stronger and bulked up from football so I gymcelled past them, but hey the pain from getting written off like that originally sticks with you. Same here, wonder at a different game, but they still are …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:22 PM
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Yeah I'm too young rn to be able to afford a lifestyle where I'm supporting a person beyond my SO. Now, I've taken steps to where I'll be in a much better spot in a few years; and yes, if money weren't a crux, I'd have no problem being with someone who had a kid. But I don't agree with the sentiment that a young guy should consider a single mom as a serious choice right off the bat; totally fine should be choose to, but he has other options that comes with less obstacles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:29 PM
2

Back in your day y'all could afford that kind of shit. All the power to you but that's not the case anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:14 AM
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Eh that's a Sherlock reference, man both RDJ and BC both killed it in that role imo! Some constructive criticism, I think there's a discrepancy where you and I are starting the line with the analogy and the example guy it's projecting on. If course we only get one pencil, the analogy is illustrating how men want to go through life (if they subscribe to that ideology) all guys want to be the master key/ used pencil. I will agree that the master key has the more apparent flaw of the drawer; but he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:54 PM
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Eh that's a Sherlock reference, man both RDJ and BC both killed it in that role imo! Some constructive criticism, I think there's a discrepancy where you and I are starting the line with the analogy and the example guy it's projecting on. If course we only get one pencil, the analogy is illustrating how men want to go through life (if they subscribe to that ideology) all guys want to be the master key/ used pencil. I will agree that the master key has the more apparent flaw of the drawer; but he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:53 PM
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Eh that's a Sherlock reference, man both RDJ and BC both killed it in that role imo! Some constructive criticism, I think there's a discrepancy where you and I are starting the line with the analogy and the example guy it's projecting on. If course we only get one pencil, the analogy is illustrating how men want to go through life (if they subscribe to that ideology) all guys want to be the master key/ used pencil. I will agree that the master key has the more apparent flaw of the drawer; but he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:53 PM
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Well if I were to make a genuine attempt to fit the analogy like the lock and key. From the jump I've gone through a whole semester at school with like 2 pencils, pencil sharpener I've replaced a soon as it becomes a chore to re-sharpen, so we are in disagreement on your stance of longevity of sharpeners. I've seen it brought up in the past that women point out how men aren't going to be some sex driven mongoloids forever, so yeah that would be the time that the pencil is 'sharpened down'. A pen…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:24 PM
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Ummm... respectfully, i believe you're off on the pencil analogy. A heavily used sharpener wouldn't be as sharp as a freshly stoned one. A pencil that is sharpened down has fulfilled its original purpose to write things down. Now, it's not as quotable as the lock and key one to be sure, but unfortunately they kinda reaffirm one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:53 PM
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Yeah, I've seen those points brought up before. The flaw I see with it is that it sounded like I'd be fine if I could work the calendar app for doctors apps and set alarms for when to take my meds. I 100% see the benefit my grandma was to my grandpa with his meds and appointment tracking; but he was technologically challenged beyond traditional wood working. So like the way of all household chores and responsibility, our health and longevity is also being automated. Don't see this point holding …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:23 PM
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I'd say that the mention of parties that have benefitted from this system, in a way that some find diplorable and heinous, doesn't disillusion me from seeing the amount of people who haven't utilized the system, whether through inability or lack of trying, that would just continue to abuse any aid and see it as just a hand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:38 AM
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The thing about this comment is that on its face it is true. A bunch of incels leaving a market that they weren't active in to begin with is a no loss no gain situation. The issue however, is that it assumes it's just the incels who share the sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:09 AM
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I've seen what people try to replace capitalism with or simply just propose as a viable alternative, I'm all about taking care of yourself, you're the best first person to "call" when you're in trouble, next is parents, but when they get too old you're back to it being just you. I'm never gonna get on board with a system that supports everyone just on principle. I've seen some genuinely lazy mfs throughout my life, they chose their outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:43 PM
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'Preciate that. Yeah in subs like this some people just have a hair trigger on responding if their views are challenged in some way. My views will just probably end up being chalked up as an anecdotal irrelevancy in his eyes; would've been neat if we could've explored that discussion further.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:58 AM
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Hey man, quite literally, that was a question to make sure I wasn't going off track. Wherever I went rogue, my bad, I'd welcome you if you came back, and I have no problem with how things have gone with the convo this far.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:15 AM
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So my not being in a relationship is taking away from the functions I've stated to enjoy contributing to in a financial way so far. Meaning I'm eliminating the potential children I could have further expanding the family and (bigger picture) the collection of people I love. Am I still on base with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:09 AM
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I can see where you come from with that. But hey, not for nothing, I spend money on my family members too not just me. Housing so far has involved moving to cities of family members, acting as a kind of live-in handyman for cheap rent while I travel, or lease a spot with friends from college. I get to give the newest generation of nieces and nephews in my family Christmas and birthday gifts. How I live right now allows me to do so comfortably "by myself" while including those who I love in my li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:59 AM
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Basically dating multiple people at a time has become a standard. If you fail to maintain her interest, especially if you didn't immediately knock her off her feet with your looks, you're gonna get dropped for one of her other options. Guys don't exactly have the lineup to afford this kind of option exploring, so the interest in participating in what essentially just breaks down to being some type of game to women nowadays just plummets and they resign to doing stuff they know will leave them fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:34 AM
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I don't know why you've peppered in the benefits your looks got you, went on to say you gained confidence, and now say that's all that's needed. Ain't every guy getting even the off the cuff compliment. Why do you think some advice on dating subs for, "how do I make my bf feel x?" = "compliment him, guys aren't used to getting compliments so going out of your way will make your man feel special in your eyes." It's so rare it's pitched like some secret move to appreciate your man. Your intentions…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:55 AM
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DNA test at birth, they gotta be monitoring all kinds of vitals and readings and other doctor stuff right? What 1 DNA test added to the mix. Not his kid, it's his call what he wants to do (help out or not)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:29 PM
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You had an issue and congrats on overcoming it, but don't lump weed with beer, not at all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:00 PM
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Buncha low tolerance suckers. People who blame weed are just stuck believing with what the 80s told us about weed. So disappointing and evil the bad wrap it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:59 PM
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Correct, then the finishing move is take him to divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:56 PM
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You're right, this is the time where MGTOW is the safest route for you guys. Best of luck y'all, the answer will be there waiting for ya when you give up the nonsense of trying to change minds that are already made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:50 PM
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You put alot of fluff around, "nervous wreck." Regardless of whatever you got, nothing is guaranteed, even with the well adjusted person, but even less than with a nervous wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:02 AM
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And that's why you never get married. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:39 AM
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I'm with you there. And life needs to be a mix of what you need to have/do...vs what you want to hsve/do. All I mean to say is, it's a cop out to say that humans are powerless to emotions, we're powerless in regards to "having" emotions. But not to the actions we make following them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:45 PM
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Thank you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:28 PM
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I think it's a fair point that asigning nuns and monks to my scenario is a but extreme, true most likely based on merit. But come on, self control isn't something so bizarre, people are just raised now to not put so much value on self control, it's depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:27 PM
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"Yeah, so get out there and hope for the best" This isn't something a man can just simply do, least of all in 2022. I don't know why so many guys go through the hassle? Just lose that chip on your shoulder about oaying for sex, fulfill that need for a night, keep it moving. The women will be happier since we're all trash apparently, and you'll get sex. Don't cry about, "but she's not into me for me, what if I really like her!" You paid for a need, got the need meet, what're doing crying about it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:59 PM
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So, some people hold little to no conviction and what they say is not what they do? Counter, there are also people who... don't do that and can actually practice what they preach. The other existing isn't some argument that any discourse is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:47 PM
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Yeah that's a load of BS, don't give those people so much authority. Correct statement is incapable of unconditional love. And with a contract that would destroy my life, yeah it makes way more sense to not commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:36 PM
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All things he can get from another girl, what if the IG baddie is more compatible than you? Like I said, for an attractive man, getting women is easy, why would he not explore his options like women champion all the time. Does he not deserve the, "ooo you go get it bro." This is the market that was cultivated. Some men are willing to still engage in the set dynamics, while others just opt out or play the new game. Then there are also those like me who just just don't believe commitment/marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:19 PM
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Unless you're some goddess to him, yeah. What do you have that the IG baddies aren't throwing at him as he steps or the door?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:34 PM
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Public in so far as there are other people there, sure. But that's not even close to the norm where I'm from so it'd be fair to say the topic of nude beaches has only come up in my life a handful of times. But that's the idea of a designated land for a nude beach, no? So the people of like mind can do as they please while there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:33 AM
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Are you asking with the notion that I consider these 2 the same thing? Cause i don't. You're not gonna get me on a nude beach, But I don't hold anything against nudists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:55 PM
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You're in an uphill battle here my guy, best of luck. Personally though, just wanna try and look out for another bro, there are gonna be other girls. Don't sweat it if you don't like the high n count. If you don't particularly care about family or Marriage than this seems like an ideal situation. You're free to be with the girl you like, and you can avoid the areas where her n count would work against your best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:07 PM
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So woman are committing to men who make less more often than not? You've been out of the game to long my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:24 PM
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On screen well yeah no doy. But lut that same girl in his bedroom waiting, knowing she did porn would kill my horniness 5 times before it dropped dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:11 PM
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I don't wanna associate with these people in my day to day, so yeah I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:06 PM
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So you're humble brag means you're more of a man than the guy making 45k? The guy you were arguing with didn't need a specific figure for his point. He was saying you making less makes you less of a man. I mean I don't agree with that but countering with your $'s didn't invalidate his claim. But feel good with your bank account I guess. I think you fall into the exception not the rule my guy, it's reckless saying, "it can happen." Not helpful to the guys looking for a partner. They need to appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:01 PM
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So it's harder cause they only have 10 peak years to get as high a value man as they can? I think the ones in your way are you're own self. You've gone on for years telling women that they can have it all. You all become the men you want to partner with. Yet are sad to be alone, I can't empathize with what comes down to, "I procrastinated on all my choices when they were plenty." And as I told my nephew with college choices, he had good prospects to a couple, couldn't/ wouldn't decide, and he lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:41 PM
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I just don't see how being pursued leads inherently to casual sex. Now I'm not one of these alpha Chad's just running girls n count up the wall as it is suggested on this sub, but I'm gonna say I'm not unattractive based on my, albeit limited, history. Even when approached by women, there have been times , while very flattered, I've refused someone's interest. I find the idea confusing that people are really affected by the shaming in so far as we have parades and demonstrations for the free lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:07 PM
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Yeah, essentially that isn't a one right answer mind of question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:54 PM
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Like the Mickey to my Rocky? Or, did I set high goals to do well for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:52 AM
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That'd be fine if there weren't the new risks that exist even outside marriage: accusations and public opinion are something I have no intention of dealing with. I have a good job, and good relationships with friends and family that I'd rather not have tested with a false SA claim. The reward of sex just isn't worth it, I had plenty growing up through long term relationships so I know I'm not speaking from the guy who's never had sex standpoint. For those I empathize with your situation, it suck…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:25 PM
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If I've increased my SMV while she's lowered hers (just going off your questions terms) then I'd leave. If my wife has stayed somewhat the same, better or worse, I'd stay because she had me and was with me before the success. Now if she stayed the same but lost the sex drive, I'd stay but would definitely have the conversation of how I'd be expected to satisfy my needs if not with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:18 PM
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And then the courts made it to where the risk just got bigger and bigger, but was the reward any greater? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:40 PM
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Same guy fucking 7 different women a night, that's how the math adds up. The guy who can sleep with anyone will exercise that as liberally as a Burning Man woooo girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:23 PM
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Still a shit deal for a man. Your study just proves its not as shit as the guy said. Still a shit deal, but it was a nice try with the, "it's not THAT bad."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:16 PM
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Cause you were required to have sex with anyone showing interest? I'm confused on how one leads to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:05 PM
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My stance: fuck that I wear a condom for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:00 PM
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Difference being no one is going to be approaching that man for just, "some diqk." Women will still get play and they'll think they have value to a relationship. A man is just going to be brutally reminded he's got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:47 PM
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Yeah, cause you're still the kid watching Disney movies with your brothers and sisters if you're a grown man saying, "I'm just looking for love." A man's first relationship goes 1 of 2 ways: he's either cemented in that idealistic view of relationships and women, or he's shown how it really is in the world and he works so that he can survive in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:45 PM
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And in a world where the traditional is dying, why is this relevant. We're not in those times anymore. Can't keep the same playbook when the game has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:13 PM
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Truth bombs down their throat. "Look I know you say you love this girl/boy, but the odds are in a couple years, and even that is starting best case scenario, you'll either be pining for her/him after she breaks your heart, or you'll be cursing her/his name when she/he breaks your heart. Only thing you need to concern yourself with is being able taking care of yourself. No one aside from your mom and I are always gonna be there for you, so I wanna know my kid is gonna be alright if worst comes to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:42 AM
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My bad, no /s at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:53 PM
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It's sucks that this has what Red Pilled has become. It's deteriorated that much? Playing, and I mean this literally, "ANY" kind of games doesn't make you a man. Lets go back to retro TRP, just don't commit to a woman who doesn't show qualities you want in a good wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:23 PM
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Can't be a "radical" feminist and respect men. The radical is where that changes. You can be a feminist and respect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:16 PM
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Then yeah, as long as my body can keep up with my mind, I'd wanna make my girl feel as desired as she truly is in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:27 PM
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All responsibilities handled = sex initiated multiple times daily. Male, Mid 20s. Desire wouldn't increase more, but you just said the stuff that gets in the way is taken care of so we good right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:02 AM
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I understand where you're coming from there. Admittedly, my suggestion is idealistic in where the parents really just try to maintain the nuclear-family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:42 AM
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Ah I see, nah; I'm not into commitment like that. Still too young where a commitment like that doesn't interest me. For the time being I'm content with casual flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:55 PM
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I like the example of Ben Affleck in 'He's just not that into you.' The guy was enjoying his life, just happened to enjoy it with a woman by his side. When you have a kid then your responsibility goes beyond your wants/desires. I say no commitment (strictly referring to marriage) cause even if you happen to have a great relationship with someone, i.e. you trust them, they trust you; the government contract erodes that trust by giving one party a gross disadvantage should that contract be voided.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:05 PM
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Women hold out for men they're actually attracted to beyond looks, but they expect those same men to be understanding of their summer flings and ONS. Men, just always remember three other side will say things like love, vibe, feeling. It's a literal minefield where even if your doing things right, it's wrong cause she feels that way. Just never commit to 1 girl unless you have a kid together, (big L to you if you allow that to happen unintentionally) It'll be equality at its purest form. Quit tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 04:42 PM
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Tell him he's being a real pussy about it; obvi a lot more sensitive than that but you get it. I mean, you're the one bleeding, and by your admission you're not asking him to work in that area anyways. Hell, make it fun and show him that F.R.I.E.N.D.S. episode with the 7 erogenous zones of a woman. In any case, I don't know how old y'all are, and I'm hoping it's on the young side cause in that case this can just be a case of your bf being so sadly naive in this matter. If he needs another reassu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:52 PM
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It's the one's getting extreme with TRP saying that kind of s**t just because, "it's ideal for child birth cause females are in their prime during the-" yadda yadda we get it your such an alpha brooo /s. Too far in either direction and their's such a gap in experience that it's really weird/rocky setting up a real connection that doesn't feel like a chore to keep going. However, I would say if you're looking for Mr. Perfect, it'd be in your best interest to maybe alter that to Mr. Pretty Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:35 PM
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Oh thank goodness 😮‍💨 you really had me going there. It was a solid attempt, but I don't think even Chris Traeger could spin this one positively lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:56 PM
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Fair question. Applauding might be a bit too strong of a word, but you describing a shameless society as great couldn't be further from the truth. No shame means no standards, no standards breeds chaos. Standards are what maintain literally anything that's lasted through time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:28 PM
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Yes, the world is going to hell in a hand basket, and some seriously misguided people are applauding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:26 PM
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Really think it's just the men getting casual sex who don't have the self control to ignore the little head. What incentive do they have to do so? The men who don't get play as much as they think they deserve are (and if not really need to be lest they wanna fall into the "who hurt you" category women love to toss around) naturally apprehensive of who they partner with because they've already been made aware of the pecking order on who gets worry free nookie and who's getting fooled that they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:23 PM
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That's the thinking the women pining for Mr. Perfect have. It's the, "I was hot enough to bag a 10/10, all guys who are 10/10 must want me," delusion they, unfortunately, are highly adept at convincing themselves. If you could have that man, you'd have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:11 PM
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Where are all the good men would beg to differ with your counter proof. Too many woman are upset they can't find their alpha again who wants to raise their kids from another daddy, yet a majority just wanna stay in their delusion that they'll retain their SMV. Of course there are other things that matter to a person for a relationship dynamic, but in today's dating market the only initial qualifier is looks. Why get to know the person and how beautiful her character is when I can just swipe left…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:24 PM
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Yes they are, each day that goes by and a girl gets age appropriate to take her spot. Her holding out for a type of guy that clearly would only use them as a pump and dump is going to get her nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:18 PM
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Lol, are women following suit? Nah, they're just still sleeping with the guys who never had to do that work and in turn never have to settle with one woman. A correction to your statement is its good "for women," men are trying to better themselves to try and attract a woman that by in large is getting rarer. It'll be a good thing if men take their self improvement and keep it from getting abused by women who "now" see them as the best choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:06 PM
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This post seems redundant as no matter what a guy says, a woman's emotions are going to dictate who she chooses. If course she'd want a partner who is respectful, loyal, and attractive to her. The issue is they are absolutely fine overlooking the other two if the guy is gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:37 PM
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It's not that wild or unbelievable. They are the men who grope women unwarranted in bars, it's the men who stalk a woman to show them he's "interested." It's weeaboos who don't know why girls aren't attracted to the big boobed cartoon characters all over their wall, why them not showering cause they are learning all the combos for smash bros day n night makes them fucking disgusting. They need to be told this so they can quit acting like a shitass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:43 AM
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Yeah, I can't see why they couldn't either. And yet here we are. People are hyper focused on what best for them (singular)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 02:41 AM
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No because I can handle those things myself. What you're saying is great in an equal world where we are there for one another. But in today's dating culture (western at least) its not the emotional mature men getting attention from women. What I'm suggesting is if you want to keep the woman you like, if you have issues, see a therapist or close friends, cause using her as your emotional backboard is just changing who you are in her eyes, will she like this change; maybe, maybe not. But, I ask yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:30 AM
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They aren't impressed by the number. But the fact he reached that high of a number alludes to him having 'something' so many women found worthy of their time and energy, otherwise how did they get to sleep with that many women? Men earn the amount of sex they get, women allow it. The number you get is judged different because it is accrued differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:37 PM
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You never unload your personal baggage on a woman you want to keep attracted to you. Don't care where you need to look, but you find other guy friends for that. Women never like that approach and will undoubtedly say just as much. But really it isn't advice for you so please, for younger men that think relationships are still like Disney, if you really like the girl, this is advice that's (granted from personal experience and observations) gone better way more often than it's gone worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:32 PM
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You saying "it's reliant on," is pretty inconsequential when 50% of marriages end in divorce, ruining the man financially (and potentially mentally if children are involved) all because he may have held out hope for perks 2 and 3. Monogamy (with the end goal being marriage) is a danger nowadays because of an unfortunate pairing of western culture and legal ramifications which are by in large beneficial to the woman at the expense of the man. "All things end," is the dating atmosphere today at it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:54 PM
1

Oh yeah 100%, I just think it gets a bad wrap cause of what's made popular by the shitasses on SM.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:00 PM
1

I mean totally fair, I've taken the chance in asking taller girls out, never got turned down rudely, but can't help but wonder if I just didn't "measure up," in their eyes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:59 PM
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Male; views on relationships is no marriage in the legal sense but open to a committed relationship. No wouldn't consider therapy because hey when you're outta money they won't be there to help. Best to deal with problems the way that anyone would and have done if they were capable and level headed (obviously if your mental is not 100% please get help however possible), for oneself and by oneself however they see fit. Do I believe in love, yes, do I believe in monotony, yes. But I'm a realist, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:29 AM
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Just go for a guy that's six foot +. It's not a majority of guys sure, but this post would be a non issue more than likely. Unless you're into shorter guys, then in that case it's just a matter of not bruising the ego of a shorter guy. Yeah it can not bother someone as they could say, but any time a subtle cue comes up that acknowledges this atypical relationship dynamic, an average height guy is probably debating whether they wanna deal with that kind of interaction. If you could convey your in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:15 AM
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Yeah modern American culture has truly raised a generation of people with moral compasses that should be recalled, burned and etched in history as the great fuck up, cause the way things are going that'll be pretty much be the size of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:07 AM
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That question doesn't remain at all, what you are describing is a hypothetical situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:56 AM
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Completely true if men could choose who they have sex with. They have the choice out of who "wants" to have sex with them. Women go around giving them all the options, and when a man has that kind of choice, like modern women, he will abuse that promiscuity and ruin their potential as a LTR partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:52 AM
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Those people are wrong. Pro relationship but anti marriage for sure, out of wanting to protect yourself from the legal ramifications of a divorce which by in large are favorable on the women's side at the expense of the man's well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:40 AM
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Doesn't monkey branching illustrate how women treat men as interchangeable? It's not a majority of men sleeping with tons of women, it's the reverse. If women are sleeping with the same cluster of men, aren't they treating the men as interchangeable? One fun experience at a time all in the effort to "find themselves," while the rest of the sexless men must do the same in quite literally any other way. It's a classic resentment to what you don't have kinda thing, and it's going to be perpetuated …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:53 AM
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Teach boys that they don't need a woman, and that entertaining commitment with one, is a responsibility that has unfortunately become one that's too hazardous to their well being in the long run. Having kids now is pretty irresponsible imo so we're fine on that front, men will be fine when they are taught how they'll be better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:20 AM
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Very true, which is why I hope boys can enjoy relationships when they're young. If it takes and they commit to their partner cool, best of luck to em. But, and I try not say this lightly, if if goes how people here maintain relationships end up then it shouldn't be held against the kid if he chooses the way some men chose to go, he gave it his fair shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:37 AM
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Why are those the two options? Is just general disinterest not possible to you? For example: I don't go to Disneyland anymore; because it's not worth the cost to get in. That said, in no way am I mad with Disney or depressed cause I can't enjoy it anymore. It was super cool and fun when I was young, but I just learned it's a great thing to let kids enjoy cause it's ideal for their happiness and development. But when they grow up and learn what I've learned and followed suit, I wouldn't consider …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 01:02 AM
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