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OI relies on understanding that "she's not yours it's just your turn". It also requires an Abundance Mentality which says "I am a high enough value man that even if my current relationship is gone someday, I can pick up a new girl at any time". It is very hard to have this mentality if you are halfassing life (have low SMV). You instead probably feel like you struck dumb luck by finding your current partner and that she cannot possibly be replaced. This is Scarcity Mentality, and it leads men to…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 10:50 AM
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OI - outcome independence - you run your life for yourself. Become the person you want to be. You do not build it around/for your current partner. If the relationship ends that's fine. If she sees the value you're building and wants to stay, also fine. MAP - man action plan - your life's mission guide. Includes incremental "leveling up" of many aspects of your life including fitness, fashion, manners, intelligence, and social status.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 03:53 AM
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You habitually argued with her, then lost your frame and mocked her with calling her names when her answers did not meet your qualifications of "good enough". I'm sensing that you are young, so these questions might not have much bite with you but: Would you treat an employee you manage like this? Would you treat a child that depends on you like this? Calling them names and mocking them? Would you treat a friend like this? If so, you're a simple asshole. And you don't "deserve" to be treated any…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 03:45 AM
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S/M vector was referring to bogey's relationship, not yours. My wife came to me tonight and said "I need some love" and then bent over and put her hands on the counter to be spanked. Not a hug or kiss. IMO, the best way to respond to hysterics is to take the lead towards progress by ending the conversation until she can calm down. Disengage firmly and distance yourself from her physically if necessary.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 12:27 AM
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Step 4 - get shunned on MRP main sub for having posted in AMRP Step 5 - spend months lurking hmm
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/17 04:55 AM
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Yeah I'd like to see a fleshed-out description of how you got to this point. Sounds like you've developed a S/M vector in the relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/17 04:52 AM
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Other comments here are giving good advice on DL but I noticed something more important in your OP Your wife had her first child at 35..and her second at 39/40. That's not an easy thing to do. Your youngest is 9mo old and you're most worried about getting your dick wet? You sound like an actual, selfish asshole. Priorities, man. You wife is not a plate.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 04:50 AM
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It needs to be stated that "1 month per DL" is a MINIMUM. You should not automatically increase DL every month "just because". Give the first 7 [DL] about 1 month for every year of your marriage where you have been a Beta https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ OP has been a DB beta for 14 years. He has a long way to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 04:41 AM
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let her know that she should hook up with him if she wants. Go overboard with it. It will make her feel uncomfortably slutty and make him seem like a creepy dude. Disagree. It will signal that he is extremely insecure about Mr. OilyBalls, and it will creep HER out. It's clear from OP that he has a massive hamster and is completely in her frame. There is no way he could deliver such a line convincingly and with the correct attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 02:35 AM
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I'm so stressed. She's a SAHM with a Saturday hobby. Her stress is YOU, and whole concept of being with you. Stress is a killer, but if it makes you feel better I got great sleep last night Asshole, and not in the amusing way. Would you talk to a friend like that? Your boss at work? It's just mean. I was up all night with our daughter. [read between the lines: you may play with your kids from time to time and remind them to turn off the lights, but she does the heavy lifting. she wants you to sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 02:25 AM
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37 years old, 5'9", 180 lbs getting old. shortish. out of shape. My job is somewhat satisfying ...The pay is mediocre ... lazy..boring..why aren't you trying harder and doing work you can be excited about? I own my own house You mean you have a mortgage? Or the house is paid off? Two very different things. The first is not a brag point. You're not renting; congrats? I have a shit ton saved What, six-figures? If not, this is nothing to brag about. Working out 5 times per week Good! Taking Jiu Jit…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 02:01 AM
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I get your points. It wasn't my intent to set up an enemy dynamic, just to state that anybody given those conditions would be happy. Taking care of three toddlers is a lot of work (have a 4yo myself, and have taught preschool in the past), but it's work that would have to have been done anyway. Once you have kids, taking care of them becomes a baseline state of affairs. And it's not as if she was locked in a room by herself with them all day; she was at her parents' house and I assume they would…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 12:33 AM
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My takeaway from OP and your comment in particular is: expect her be involved in decisions (or even worse, defer to her) and she will resent your lack of leadership. take care of everything yourself while letting her shirk responsibility, effort, and still get to reap the rewards and she will be happy. So a TLDR would be "let her kick back and take it easy and she'll be happy" I know on here we like to talk in terms of "owning your shit" and "taking charge", but the opposite side of that coin (a…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 08:03 AM
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No Interesting talking at that moment is different from "no interest in talking in general", which is how it will be taken if you do not reply to someone when they know you can do so.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 02:25 AM
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What OP describes here is an easy way to keep banter happening. "Text only for logistics" is great for PLATES when you're single because.. You only meet them for dates and fucking Your AA/AM banter is always on during those brief times. They don't know your full daily life so.. Lack of comms implies you are too busy to cater to their every whim. But this style won't work on a wife. Unlike a part time plate, your wife knows your routine inside and out. She sees you when you're "on your game" and …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 12:34 AM
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You mention the area having restaurants and a movie theatre...but she works in a school in the same building? I'm having trouble picturing what kind of area this is.. (edit: I've noticed you're in Korea, I kind of get it now. Asian metros have very strange zoning laws) You should know your wife better than anybody on this forum, but her responses and desperation to alter course away from the restaurant near her workplace are not normal. Can't rule out neurosis/anxiety over work, of course, but i…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 06:28 AM
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You don't need to ask her if she's ready to talk. "Talking" is not the objective. If she's ignoring you - STFU, get your head down and focus on your own shit - lifting, etc. You apologizing for losing your cool doesn't depend on her "being ready" to hear it. Just walk up and say sincerely, but casually: "I apologize for losing my temper at you the other day." Then leave it at that. Walk away and go about your day. Her hamster is spinning either way. May as well set it straight that you can recog…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 06:22 AM
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hamplanets gonna ham. your wife seems cool tho.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 05:23 AM
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From your OP: She started working there a few weeks ago From your above comment: We were there just a few weeks ago Have you been there since she started working there? A lot can happen in a few weeks. What work does she do?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 04:36 AM
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You mention apologizing in your post. The only thing you should apologize is for losing control and yelling profanities at her. You lost your cool and lost your frame. "I apologize for losing my cool and yelling at you earlier. I will try to avoid doing so in the future" Everything else was fine on your end. What the other guys said about leaving her at home is legit though. If she doesn't want to b e there, no point in forcing you both to have a shitty time.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 04:33 AM
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If you view this site on the PC, you will see a huge list of links on the right side if you scroll down a bit. This is recommended/mandatory reading. The list starts after the line: UEMcGill's readings for Redpill Husbands: But there is also a FAQ and 'beginners guide'
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/17 12:32 AM
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First heard that line on House of Cards. Good to know it's from Wilde. Downvotes are butt hurt MGTOW and/or anger phase newbs.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 03:25 AM
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Enjoy not fulfilling your biological imperative matey.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 03:03 AM
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Two of the most esoteric and subjective TAs easy K
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 02:06 AM
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If he's married in the Army and his wife is not serving with him (or at least living on base with him), there's a very decent chance she's getting some side dick while he's on deployment.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 10:16 AM
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You're missing the key facet in all of this. If we were not reproductive beings none of this would matter. Everything you mentioned is just a laundry list of the limitless ways in which man seek to carve out their own version of SMV metrics. Does it matter that you broke a landspeed record? Not one iota, but it sure sounds cool and gives you bragging rights. And what good are those? Social status. And what is social status for? Attracting mates. You cannot separate Man's will to conquer from his…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 09:58 AM
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As long as SMV based on physical qualities exist, you will continue.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 08:40 AM
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Sigh...Now go a step further.. people recognize me as the strongest man they know. I'm usually the strongest guy in a room. Now what? What's the point of that? What is the benefit? Yeah...There you go.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 06:24 AM
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Monk mode is more than just quitting porn and fapping. Monk Mode is cutting out excesses and vices, and focus on improvement NoFap just happens to be part of that. Other things Monk Mode might include: On the reduction side: no alcohol, smoking, junk food, TV, social media, gambling, whoring around with easy plates On the focus side: working out, reading non-fiction books, pursuing a social/physically active hobby, studying and learning, introspection Basically, if you Monk Mode correctly you wo…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 01:52 AM
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In terms of fertility, maybe. They're usually viable up to 40. But I doubt Ben is worried about having more kids at his age. In terms of enjoyment value, 30 is not a cut off point so long as the woman has taken care of herself.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 12:29 AM
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His now-ex-wife was 45. Shookus is 35. 10 year upgrade.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 03:18 PM
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we should make linking to TRM mandatory Yeah no. It's a quality source, but this feels like shilling for clicks.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 03:13 PM
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tugging hair does not negate sweet/romantic. it's cute and quasi aggressive. my point is you're acting in a way that projects some kind of connection with these girls
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 04:19 AM
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/thread If op is upfront and clear about this he will probably get less pussy but what he does get will be guilt free. Right now he's probably being sweet and romantic with these girls to come off like a dream boyfriend etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 06:04 PM
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This is what choking on the Red Pill looks like in text form. There is so much BP bullshit and idealism here, but also some key insights. How is this is a 'rewrite'? I'll admit I haven't read the original.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 08:23 AM
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Yeah those 5 statements will effectively filter against 95% of women. Not sure if this a good or bad thing. What's your hit rate using this?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 05:11 AM
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all online photos were plain shows no skin no party photos All telltale signs of a lazy woman with low SMV and low confidence. You can also prime her to get dolled up by choosing a "fancy place" for the date where she should "look nice".
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 05:07 AM
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do you live with room mates? implied question here is "or with your parents". She's sizing up options for privacy in case she doesn't want to go back to HER place. how long have you been at your current job? implied question "you're not a NEET loser, are you?" where's your car? implied statement "let's go somewhere else" Seriously OP is insecure as fuck, probably has a shitty car (edit: confirmed, 2002 Jeep), and overthought this situation way too much. He claims to be searching for an LTR, but …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 05:05 AM
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She magically has the physiology where alcohol allows her to engage in controlled behaviors, walk, and order drinks, but has no memory of it whatsoever. This is not magical at all. You sound like someone who's never been drunk and blacked/browned out. She was served alcohol at a bar, so I question how drunk she could have been (great way to lose your liquor license, plus pay thousands in fine). There is also no reason to think she couldn't have gotten drunk at a bar. Bartenders only have to deny…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 04:55 AM
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