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COCAINE_ADVOCATE/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:34 PM
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Feminism is nothing more than superficial posturing to grab a bit of power. Ignore it. At the end of the day, nature is a constant. Nature drives women to nest and pump out kids. Nesting and pumping out kids requires resources and dick. That is where we come in. Put on a display of resources and give her the dick. That's all this is.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 02:05 PM
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I'm in a weird place because I'm actively against marriage, but really only because I link that to how little faith I have in men. My ex "fell out of love" with me and left me with absolutely nothing. I felt betrayed by her, the government that enabled her to gut me, by my family that tacitly supported her. But after my anger period I realized I was just as much to blame. I had an *extremely* submissive wife who, short of begging, did everything in her power to show her desire to be led by me. B…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:17 AM
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Nevermind that getting a woman into bed is a series of tightrope walks where the man is expected to perform, without error, all the things that her whims happen to be attracted to at the time-- she is allowed to exercise her agency at any point and kick his ass to the curb. And she should be. A man should only be allowed to fuck her if he's good enough. What we are seeing with this post, is nothing less than women's (and betas) attempt to remove agency from men. He was honest and admitted he was…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:18 PM
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Anybody who has swiped even once on Tinder is aware of the "not all girls I match with answer my message" phenomenon you apparently just discovered. Exactly. I should thank OP actually, my last plate from Tinder said I was one of the few guys who didn't act like a douche and lash out when she didn't reply immediately. We messaged each other when we had time, and eventually she was on her knees in front of my couch. Tinder should be at the back of your mind. You swipe when you have time and then …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 03:12 PM
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I was following the election very closely and often saw how Trump was lumped together with "redpillers". Seeing how Trump was vilified in every way possible on reddit, to the point where I knew at least some of it had to be complete fabrication, I decided to check out the truth about this place. It's ironic that their virtue signalling and complete disregard for the truth basically acted as advertisement for safe places for free thinking.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 01:28 PM
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What's the weird stigma around here with eating pussy? I keep seeing it in the context as being a beta attribute. I fucking love it, and I use my long monkey arms to reach up to her neck and hold her down while she cums-- if you're doing it right it's a very dominant act.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 01:32 AM
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Fair enough. I'll look into it more for sure.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 11:40 PM
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Gee that doesn't sound like something a collapsing regime would make up to undermine a devastatingly critical legacy
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 10:28 PM
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I even hate the word "shame" in this context because it puts a certain amount of negative burden on the one doing the "shaming". When I lived in Japan I was initially shocked at how they view fat people. My boss asked to see a picture of my parents, and when I showed him he said "Good looking people, but they clearly eat too much." It wasn't a joke, he wasn't being rude, he was stating a fact. They would be better looking if they lost weight-- isn't that a good thing? The way society enables sel…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 03:10 PM
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Thank you sir! For some reason it really turns me on when they're shaking, just want to make sure it's for the right reasons.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 01:54 AM
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I've had a couple experiences with a girl shaking a bit as things escalate while she's clearly DTF. Especially inexperienced girls obviously. Have a date tonight with one that was shaking like a leaf over coffee. Ignore and keep going? Or tap the brakes a bit?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:37 PM
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"The Other God", a history of religious dualism
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:49 PM
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Old 'Schope droppin truth bombs. For some real laughs, look around on the net for feminists trying to break down and refute the essay point by point.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 03:14 PM
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I'm surprised at the reactions to your post. I think this place is filled with tryhards stroking to porn and being jealous of guys who have done the real thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:08 PM
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I think they do, minus the added prostate sensation. More of just a "taking a huge dump" feeling I guess?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:41 PM
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I've only done anal with my ex-wife, and for her it was definitely along the lines of the OP, which is that it was a way to reinforce her submissive personality. When we talked about anal I think she was pretty excited about it because I was quite beta in our marriage, so I think anal was a "shortcut" to her feeling true dominance. And it's true, as a man fucking a woman in the ass it brings the power difference to an extreme. It makes dirty talk easy because you're already doing the act itself,…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:35 PM
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That was my first assumption but you mentioned girls in your reply so I was confused. Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:48 PM
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I fuck asses exclusively Can you expand on this? I'm kind of baffled and amazed. Why? How? LTR's only?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 02:44 PM
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When you can truly accept rejection and can fully take everything it can throw at you, that’s when the real power shifts. Clearly advocating rape. /s
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 02:12 PM
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I really need to get used to this idea. I am so afraid of rejection that I play it safe and think a dozen moves ahead to maximize my chances that she's interested. I've fucked more women than I've been rejected by. Way more. That's not a good thing. That means I'm probably settling more than I'm being challenged. A girl I chatted with after a couple of dates fizzled out said, "I was really attracted to you, you should have been more aggressive". Sure, part of it was apathy, she was a 6.5/7, but …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 02:09 PM
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I recently installed it again for my second time and haven't been getting any luck. I got about 70 matches in the first 10 days but all the conversations fizzled out and I lost interest. I've had way more luck lately day gaming and hitting the bar. That said, lately I'll go on and "superlike" girl-next-door looking 5-6/10's. I think this is the most realistic way to meet anyone on this thing anymore.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 02:25 PM
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One good tip (though a bit drastic) is to make your phone display only black and white. You'll have to google for directions on your specific type of phone. But it really helped me stop wasting time on the especially egregious subs that are mostly pictures. This has led to picking up my phone less in general.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 06:50 PM
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I like to muse on Redpill concepts in movies and literature, and something clicked when I read this: Our emotions require novelty and a challenge, so no matter how rich or attractive you are, she will get bored if you are static. I couldn't figure out why, in Casino, Ginger goes back to the loser even though she has Ace. Now I know. Great article.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 10:14 PM
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It is one of my favorite ideas because it takes such an incredible strength of character to not only recognize your own flaws but to embrace them as part of reaching your true self.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 05:51 PM
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For instance, at a blockchain seminar I was getting tons of IoI's from an ERP vendor we had turned down in the past. I talked and flirted with her for a bit and we exchanged work contact info but I didn't do anything with it because it felt a bit risky, even though I was 90% sure she was interested. Maybe I just think too much.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 03:51 PM
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A lot of guys, including myself, needed to hear this, and I appreciate the "kick in the ass" tone of the post. That said, when it comes to framing how we envision our own transformation, I think it's important to accept our past. I often think of one of my favorite Nietzsche quotes: To redeem the past and to transform every ‘It was’ into an ‘I willed it thus!’ – that alone I call redemption! Everything we've done was our decision. Sure, there were external forces-- our environment, our genes, ba…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 03:16 PM
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My work gives me free reign to go to seminars or presentations pretty much whenever I want, so I've been doing that lately. It's a great way to meet women but I can't help but think that it falls under "don't shit where you eat" territory as I'm representing my company. Any input?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 01:58 PM
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I'm in a similar place at 33, but a couple years after what happened to you. No, it's not ideal. No, you'll never be the 22 year old slaying left and right. But you are now in an ideal position to learn from one of the hardest lessons in life that those youngsters never will. You now realize with a crystalline certainty how valuable time is-- because so much of it was stolen from you. You'll lift, expand your career, and treat the world as your plaything with this new perspective. Your BP buddie…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 07:13 PM
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I had that feeling lately. I tried Tinder a few years ago and I feel like it was filled with nerds who write poetry. Now it feels like it's mostly girls with these pictures: Full winter gear on a mountain, bouldering, "chilling" on the beach or a boat. Oh, and a list of the countries no one gives a fuck about they've visited. It's a real turn off. Add bruised up knees to the fake eyebrows, caked on makeup, and complete lack of creativity these self-aggrandizing women are toting for attention. No…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 06:34 PM
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until you're attractive enough that women open you. Like you said, it's like exercising a muscle. Just start small. If you start out by asking out hot waitresses you're just going to end up back in your cringe-cave every night. Remove the sexual intent completely. Go to a coffee shop and when the cute counter girl isn't busy just ask about their muffins or something benign. Ask her what's her favorite. Basic stuff until you get used to the idea that asking her out is simply the logical conclusio…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 10:56 PM
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This is so true. I found the gym at a time when I really, really needed it, and luckily I didn't injure myself but holy fuck was I careless. Rounded back, not bracing properly, shoulders all over the place. There have been times where I think if I injured myself and couldn't lift it would really push me to a dark place, especially at my age where recovery is a bitch (34).
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 03:34 PM
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I see this a lot actually. I think there's a connection between sensitivity and "emotional intelligence" that leads to BP traits. Whereas a man who tends to be sensitive would take it very seriously when they are told to be respectful of women and always be the nice guy, Gymbro thinks to himself, "lol fuck that" and does what he wants. One of my closest friends can barely form a correct sentence but he is somehow like my living breathing TRP sidebar reference. He didn't read about it, think abou…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 02:50 PM
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After all the progress I've made I still feel like the "nice guy" inside me is the hardest part to kill. Last summer I met a girl and fucked her a day after we met. I was able to because I was flippant with her BS, I pulled away when I had to, and escalated very quickly. I was basically just acting out TRP script and it worked. She had to go back to her home country but when I think back to that time I still feel like I did something wrong, even though she texts me all the time, saying how much …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 02:15 PM
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Sorry to hear that dude. I worked in kitchens for 10 years and a confident chef can pull women like no tomorrow. You'll get there.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 06:45 PM
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Yep, all the more reason to focus on career now. Or it could be a good thing. After dicking them a few times they show themselves the door.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 06:38 PM
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My last plate had a super sensitive neck so I used to rest my hand on it while fucking her and tense my forearm at the same time. As soon as she wrapped her hands around it... Sploosh. (thanks kettlebells!)
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 06:36 PM
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This is pretty close to the truth. I'm very tall (6'5), lean, and an intermediate-level lifter but it doesn't mean shit because I'm still reeling from a divorce and don't have a car. Okay that's not true, I can pull pretty easy and bring them home, but when they figure out I take the bus it's game over.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 06:33 PM
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Good: Third week in a row of following my 5/3/1 program. Lifts rocketing up Diet is on point. Eating shitloads of protein and doing meal prep on Sundays Mostly keeping my place clean-- on hands and knees wiping the floor every night, dishes away before bed Been getting the best sleep in years. Asleep by 8pm, up by 330, at the gym by 345. Out of the gym by 5-515. I wake up to missed text messages and therefore dropping potential girls like flies but... Fuckit. Bad: Haven't been laid since my last…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 08:05 PM
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In my late BP days I fucked a lot of escorts. Mostly young Korean, Chinese. But even in my drunkest moments of not giving any fucks and getting stuck with an "Aunty" (older escort) they always forcefully put a condom on you. And then they fret over whether or not it fell off or you took it off. I think moving to pickups/tinder has been a lot more dangerous. I've heard this one multiple times: "Oh you wore a condom. That's good teehee" after we were finished. The thing to remember is that with an…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:00 PM
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I've learned over the years that people either want to change or they don't. Most people are sheep. They stick with the religion of their parents, they have the same diet, and follow the same kind of politics for their whole lives. I have a couple of "natural TRP" friends who I've kind of skirted formal ideas with, but even they were a little put off. These are guys who, through trial and error, found out by themselves. But once you make it explicit suddenly it's taboo. Just don't do it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 03:47 PM
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In my hyper-sensitive beta days I took it as a direct insult. Now, I take it that I have some kind of mysterious aura/attraction that they feel like they have to uncover. Think about it, would a high-smv girl approach the acne faced D&D nerd sitting in the corner and tell him to join the party and talk more? Except in extreme cases of pity, I don't think so.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:38 PM
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Funny, something similar happened to me last night. A girl I was gaming for a little bit blew me off once and later told me a story about giving some rando a handjob around that time, so I basically told her to fuck off. Two months later she texts me and it goes something like this: Her: pretext for starting a conversation Me: Oh yeah, okay Her: Why haven't you reached out to me Her: I thought we could hang out sometime Me: To be honest, I have zero interest in making time for female friends rig…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:29 PM
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This might explain something I've been thinking about lately. I've noticed that higher n-count girls will be quick to say "Wow you're quiet", "you should talk more", and that kind of shit. More inexperienced, shy girls almost never say this to me. I'm not particularly outgoing but I would like to think I'm a decent conversationalist. After reading this post I'm thinking that the experienced girls do this as a technique to weed out guys more quickly. "Talk more, tell me about your family", "Okay …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 09:04 PM
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I was at point so low that I'd have been okay raising some other guy's kid. Sounds familiar. I almost got into a relationship with a late 20's single mom when I was 19. Oneitis hit me so strong I was ready to do anything for her and her kid. What is so amazing to me learning about TRP is how well hidden the machinations of women (nature) are in bringing out female traits in men. It is so cunning, decisive, and effective I can only stand in awe at the army of lazyboy-sitting beer-gut-slinging slo…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:18 PM
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I've been there man. Instead, try to focus on being the guy she missed out on. Keep improving yourself and hope you bump into her with another girl on your arm. That should be the extent of your concern over her.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:12 PM
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First, why even bother giving her the time of day? If you're intent on trying, getting out of the friendzone is tricky and usually a waste of effort. It starts by being overtly sexual and gauging her reaction. You have to present yourself as someone completely different than the one she rejected.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 05:55 PM
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Exactly. Avoid places that are mostly booths but instead wide open with single, smaller tables spread out. Places with live music attracts single women, I've found. Going out alone is a huge test of frame, and will be one of the first shit tests a girl throws at you: "You're here alone? ha ha ha~~" "Yep felt like having a beer after a long day. Started a new project at work blah blah blah" boom. Done
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 03:38 PM
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she wants kids, I don't want any more This has been a major hurdle for me. I have one and got snipped right after-- and for girls in their 20's it's a major turn off. To them, a man with a child is compromised-- financially, emotionally, and schedule wise. One night stands and plates? No problem, I don't even tell them, unless they ask. But the women I tend to go for (Asians) will simply not even look at a guy with a kid, for the most part. I still do okay-- I'm tall, in good shape, and dress we…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 02:15 PM
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Did I say it bothered me? My point was that reading a statistic like, "70% of women initiate divorce" along with the fallout being burdened by the male doesn't feel as real as watching my experience first hand. I thought they may reconsider or at least seek my advice. They didn't, and that's fine.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 02:01 PM
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I'm not gonna argue with "squat more" to feel like a boss, but what's the science behind finishing with a 20?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 10:01 PM
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Even after watching my situation unfold (which is very tame compared to that guy, but still) my three closest friends proceeded to get engaged and marry over the course of the past couple of years. It couldn't have happened at a better time for them to see what can (and will likely) happen but they went ahead with it anyway. Unfortunately it's like touching a hot stove burner. You have to do it once to know what it's like, but this pain lasts a lifetime. Those guys that get married three or four…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:19 PM
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This was great. If I could add on to it a little bit... I recently had an experience with two cold approaches in the same week (probably 2 out of total 10 in my life). One was a cute barista. I started small talk and she was making lots of eye contact. We chatted for a bit and I asked for her number, she gave me the "I have a boyfriend" line so I said no problem and walked away. The second cold approach I was out with a friend and was drunk out of my mind. I wasn't quite slurring but clearly pas…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 10:25 PM
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This is a bit embarrassing but whatever. So I stopped watching porn a couple years ago and limited myself to jerking off once a week. In general I feel much more in control and clear headed, and I notice I have more intensity in my lifts. The problem is that now I bust really fast the first few times with a new girl. I thought this would go away as my n-count increased (which is not great but not terrible either at around 40 or 50), and as I got older (early 30's now), but I still only last mayb…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 02:23 PM
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SJW's will happily label us as borderline rapists-- and based on how corporations react to labels without paying attention to substance-- your career could easily be at risk. Be safe out there
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 02:40 PM
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Good stuff. And this is why most self-help books (and a lot of posts here to be honest) are shit-- you can't just tick off boxes of stuff you want to fix about yourself. I think it's important to focus on weaving a narrative, you set goals and move towards them, reveling in the obstacles that you encounter. I think a lot of guys get hung up on shortcuts: "Chad lifts weights. Chad smashes lots of ass. so I guess I should lift weights." when, as you mentioned, focusing on the resultant whole (heal…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 04:32 PM
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Same here man. When I was going through a really rough split, my sister was the only one who was checking up on me to make sure I wasn't hanging from a rafter somewhere. Even my close male friends didn't want to hear about any of it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 09:05 PM
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Cheating inexorably means having to lie. Lying isn't being true to your potential (it creates uncertainty and hides yourself, which IMO is a loss of frame). Therefore I believe cheating is actually against (my) RP philosophy. I think cheating and lying about it is a feminine quality, actually-- it breeds chaos. Women know that monogamy isn't a given, which is why they repeatedly ask for commitment and have the expectation that it should be reinforced after a man gives her that commitment. But a …
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 11:53 PM
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I strongly disagree. In Search of Lost Time, probably one of the greatest works of literature, is a million words of RP truth embedded in the most engaging prose ever written. The narrator's best friend is an extremely handsome, filthy rich career military man who gets oneitis for an escort. He spends a fortune on this girl, but the guy is, despite his success and SMV, a pure beta. So she fucks off with some other dude. It is one of the first books that made me think, through sheer depth and rep…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 05:20 PM
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Hey, as long as you're walking away being able to retain and reflect on that new information, any method is good. Thanks for bringing up this important topic
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 05:08 PM
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This is a good point and really important for those who want to get the most out of their reading. Or get anything out of their reading. Like most people, I could plow through fiction like crazy, but when I started really getting into non-fiction in my mid 20's, I realized I wasn't retaining much of anything. So I bought "How to read a book" and found it very interesting. It's almost like sex-- if you jump in and just start smashing away, you're missing out on the experience. Stop skipping the f…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 04:36 PM
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Need way more context. Why would you not take the first step? Are you not attracted to her? If not, why are you wasting your time? Also, I hope you don't text like you type.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 03:30 PM
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A ton of work needed there. Congratulations, 99% of people aren't even willing to admit this about themselves. So you're already ahead of the game. You'll get there dude
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 09:55 PM
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For a good 6 months before the holidays, I kept telling myself that it was time for monk mode. I was spinning my wheels at the gym, had stopped reading, and was spending way too much time gaming and fucking around. Every time I'd "start" monk mode, I'd pull an old plate back in or start gaming different girls. This inevitably led to drinking and mornings sleeping in instead of hitting the gym, and the cycle just continued downward from there. But I think I peaked while on holidays. I had success…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 04:33 PM
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It was long but it was well written and a nice change from the kneejerk shit that is usually on the front page. If a guy can't sit down any read anything more than a bullet list of "how to slay" I gotta wonder how much he really wants to change himself. Anyway, keep writing and posting dude.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 03:51 PM
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This is what drove me nuts about the Ansari story. She's not dripping and begging for it, what the fuck is she still there for dude? Even if it was consensual, it's not fun because he didn't create the scenario where she really wanted it. That's how he fucked up. Boot her ass out and read a book or something. Just my opinion...
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 05:00 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate that. The only writing I really do is journaling and tech manuals, I'm afraid.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 03:52 PM
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I live in a large North American city, and the Last time I went to my favorite club, it was wall-to-wall Saudi, Iraqi, Iranian and Pakistani guys (I know because I was there with a friend from Lebanon, he knows by their accent). They were all sharply dressed, in shape, and gaming hard. The girls that were there just eat it up-- men from those areas are dominant from the very beginning. Nothing wrong with that, Western men just need to step the fuck up already.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 03:47 PM
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Just thinking about it gives me this primal urge to better myself. I love it when I see this kind of attitude. I've been soft-nexted a few times in the past couple of months and my mind now immediately goes to what I quoted. No more pissy sulking at home wondering what I did wrong. Just pure unadulterated focus on the reality that I am responsible for what I attract and the relationships I am able to create (or not). It is at once the most liberating and frightening realization-- that when I dir…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 04:18 PM
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It was stupidly easy. Like I said, I didn't have to do the work, they created the pretexts themselves. The first said, "Let's get some takeout and eat it at your hotel". After we ate, she literally said "Hmmm I'm just wondering if I should stay here tonight" out of the blue. She was a bit shy after that and I had to slowly escalate, but it was too obvious what she wanted. The second said "I need a good wifi connection so I can tell my family I'll be late. Can I use the one in your hotel?" The th…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 08:00 PM
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Because he's actually pretty beta in his logic: women should have equal rights and fairness, we should all get along, I want to help women who want to compete in male spaces. But on the issue of "all else equal, who wins men or women?" he defends the male right to be a man. But ultimately his point is: in general, men and women are not the same. That said, if the odd woman is intelligent, capable, and competitive, why not have her running a company or doing management? Just as, if a man has deep…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 04:01 PM
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I'm pretty discerning with my swipes, so I spent more time on that than the average guy, probably. Also, while a shorter dude could probably out-game me any day of the week, being able to put "6'5" in my profile apparently makes a huuuuge difference.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 03:30 AM
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I agree that in my city it's a waste of time-- too much investment and the return was shit. But I just wanted to give it a shot. In Manila though, it's basically a lineup of "who to fuck next", so why not?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 05:47 PM
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Tinder in the Philippines opened my eyes quite a bit. I live in a large North American city, and Tinder competition here is very tight. I only did it for about three weeks before Christmas, and in that time: Matched 90 Messaged 50 Chatted 20 Met 5 Fucked 2 (a 5.5 and a 7) Compare that to a week Manila (was swiping from home a week beforehand too): Matched 600(!) Messaged 80 Chatted 40 Met 5 Fucked 5 (one 8.5, a 6, the rest 7ish, all much younger than me) I would rate myself about a 7.5-- Very ta…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:40 PM
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Yeah I've gone through a "on the spectrum bitch face" phase, and I've gone through a "tryhard look like I'm having a good time" phase, and the latter is definitely more attractive. I've kind of settled on a consistent, confident smirk and not using laughter as a way to break awkward moments.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:13 PM
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Then start low. If what you say is true, you can easily bag 5/10's. It's not a huge confidence boost but at least you're starting somewhere. Go to bars and clubs. Talk to people. Fail and learn from it. Otherwise you're just going to spin your wheels until you die
/r/askTRP07/12/17 08:13 PM
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I have a brown friend who is about your height (he is jacked though), 38, great fashion, decent career, high SMV. He slays left and right. Mostly brown/persian girls, but white girls love him too. He doesn't do well with Asians which are my favorite so we make a good team. Long story short, get your shit together and stop making excuses.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:46 PM
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Yep... I had a plate over the other day (with her I use condoms despite being snipped, which she doesn't know about). After sex she climbed on top of me and started grinding and making out with me. The condom slipped off at some point and we didn't notice until later. She kinda just shrugged like it was nothing to worry about. If I wasn't snipped I would have been freaking out. It's such a nice feeling knowing it's not gonna happen no matter what
/r/askTRP06/12/17 09:10 PM
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I switched careers at 31. A complete switch. You have so many options dude... Just start utilizing resources out there.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 11:20 PM
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This is really important advice I don't see too often. Shitty anecdotal FR: I had a Thai girl over from Tinder. We met for coffee first and she seemed normal enough. There were some IoI's but she wasn't as great as her profile pictures so I didn't put in the effort to escalate. Parted ways amicably. As I was walking home she called me and said she had a great time and wanted to come over but she was too shy to say it. I thought, "well if it's gonna be that easy, why not?". As soon as she sat on …
/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:11 PM
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Is this simply his own issues he never took care of that are eating him up? Is he regretting huge life choices he feels he shouldn’t be regretting? This hit home and reminds me of one of my favorite Nietzsche quotes: You are young and wish for a child and marriage. But I ask you: Are you a man entitled to wish for a child? Are you the victorious one, the self-conqueror, the commander of your senses, the master of your virtues? This I ask you. Or is it the animal and need that speak out of your w…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 04:20 PM
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Wow, I never even thought about this but looking back at my escort days, this was definitely the case. The worst ones were the "Auntie" 5/10's, the best were the smoking hot young Koreans. I'm doing well managing plates and gaming, but sometimes I really miss dropping a couple hundred on a beautiful young Asian and walking away without the hassle.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 04:03 PM
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I got with a crazy argument with a girl over this (like a fag) Fuck off with this stupid shit
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:19 PM
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How's your insulin? When I got down to a healthy weight and started fasting, mine disappeared...
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 11:16 PM
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With a final thrust Another drip wiped away The search continues
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:47 PM
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Social interaction comes naturally to some people. To the rest, you just have to try, and fail-- a lot. I'm the type who would cringe weeks, months, even years after a failed joke, getting shot down, or whatever. I actually had to build up a layer of failures so that they just get blurred together and none of them sting anymore. Now I just don't give a fuck and have a good amount of success.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 09:29 PM
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Settle for a 5/10 as a plate while you're gaming on the side. Knowing you'll get laid regardless puts you in a IDGAF mindset which to me feels a bit like God mode.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:49 PM
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And once you start to look at yourself, you notice that redpill type characters are tolerated at worst and often glorified in society. CNN viewers: that character in the movies who has a successful career, is fit, and has repeated one night stands, do you keep watching even though he apparently reviles you? No, because he doesn't. Human wiring was fixed long ago, your limp-dick attempts at imposing a narrative won't work.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 10:25 PM
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The only racism I've seen here is directed inward ("I'm Indian so I'll never get a white girl wahhhh") which is pretty much always met with dudes directing him back to self-improvement and focus. I don't always agree with what I read on this sub, but it has helped me in many ways and these mainstream media smears will just keep me coming back. Fuck CNN
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:02 PM
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Too bad Kaufman's lamentations about Nietzsche's views on women caused me to ignore a lot of important points when I read him as a teenager. It really shows how damaging it is to read some of the most solid redpill works ever written through a bluepill filter.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:38 PM
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When I was 14 me and my family were eating breakfast in a DeDutch. When I got up to leave an old German woman at the table next to me pinched my ass, hard. I cried myself to sleep every night for three weeks tenuously grasping a bottle of vicodin, desperate to wash away the memory of the youth that was taken from me. Just kidding, I told my family in the car and we had a good laugh about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 06:02 PM
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I only say that because I'm also tall, above average looks, and had girls after me in college, and still made the decision to chase a oneitis when I was 20. Ten years later the regret stings like a bitch when I think about it. Slay away brother
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:47 PM
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You're 6'3, white, in college, buying tickets and drinks for a girl who called you a "friend". Christ in a box man, next the shit out of her and shake the oneitis ASAP.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:36 PM
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Point taken. Thanks
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:50 PM
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Fair enough, but my point was that passing on such an easy thing while she gets skullfucked by one of my coworkers feels beta. In my experience, white girls have shit diets which leads to shit hygiene, plus there's more than enough Asians where I am, so why not?
/r/askTRP07/03/17 05:41 PM
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