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Field ReportCP_Cuddler/r/seduction29/09/12 08:32 PM
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RoutinesCP_Cuddler/r/seduction30/09/12 04:33 PM
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Beginner AdviceCP_Cuddler/r/seduction26/09/12 08:37 PM
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Field ReportCP_Cuddler/r/seduction29/10/12 09:35 PM
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CP_Cuddler/r/seduction05/12/12 05:01 AM
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CP_Cuddler/r/seduction14/08/12 06:01 PM
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CP_Cuddler/r/seduction07/08/12 03:23 AM
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Field ReportCP_Cuddler/r/seduction16/10/12 12:04 AM
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Inner GameCP_Cuddler/r/seduction08/10/12 05:00 AM
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CP_Cuddler/r/seduction05/08/12 12:19 AM
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CP_Cuddler/r/seduction21/10/12 07:52 PM
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CP_Cuddler/r/seduction19/07/12 06:01 AM
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CP_Cuddler/r/seduction06/11/12 03:39 AM
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RoutinesCP_Cuddler/r/seduction01/10/12 04:58 PM
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1

Shit dude, I feel for you. i went to an all guys school for 4 years as well (boarding school). Fear not, as college is over flowing with chicks and you will learn. As far as general guidelines go? Honestly if I were you I'd start reading this subreddit and putting all these tools to use. Hone your skills in the summer, and hit the ground running the first few weeks of college. There is no easier time to form a social circle than in those first 2 weeks of college. Good luck brother.
/r/seduction04/04/13 10:40 PM
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Can you tell me what this game FUBAR is? Always trying to add new drinking games to my arsenal
/r/seduction04/04/13 02:15 AM
3

I agree with most of what's been posted. Not keeping eye contact usually comes off as lacking in confidence. People love eye contact, it makes them feel important and valued.
/r/seduction04/04/13 01:38 AM
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I see hundreds of posts about how to dance on Seddit. This is probably the most useful advice I've seen on the subject. Thanks for this post.
/r/seduction15/03/13 08:30 PM
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I don't know why you are getting down voted. I thought both were sold responses to a shit test
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:07 PM
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Keep at it man, just wait till you start building your social circle and getting a consistent number of girls to hang around with. It just makes it so much easier. You have no idea.
/r/seduction14/03/13 01:39 AM
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I agree, but it could still be used in those circumstances where guys are too afraid to just get inside of her personal space uninvited to make the kiss. I wouldn't use it, but could still be a good tool regardless
/r/seduction13/03/13 08:01 PM
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This is like College game on steroids. Should be stupid easy. -Everyone is going to be drunk off their asses -You will most likely never see any of these strangers again in your life -People go on these trips to get drunk and hook up As long as you don't get so drunk that you can't pick girls up, it should be pretty fucking easy.
/r/seduction13/03/13 06:03 PM
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This is so true. It's a self-propagating cycle, the better you become, the more women you get. The more women you get, the better it makes you. Unfortunately for most people, it's really hard getting past that initial AFC phase, and therefore they never really see results and get easily discouraged. It's all about abundance!
/r/seduction13/03/13 05:59 PM
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Holy shit, check this one out: I had a chick once pull the most amazing move on me. we were dancing with some friends and she starts rubbing her eye for a few seconds, she takes me aside and says "I think I have something in my eye, can you see anything?" Then stands really close to me and I look into her eye, faces inches from each other. At that distance and that position it was almost natural to kiss. I had a girlfriend so didn't do it, but there was this moment where I was like "nope can't s…
/r/seduction13/03/13 05:32 PM
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Mad respect for going up infront of the mom. Don't let oneitis get the best of you though! It's a slippery slope.
/r/seduction11/03/13 03:27 AM
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Personally I've always thought I had enough friends. Until reading up on seddit and such though I usually had only a few close friends or social circles. Meaning I had to hang out with a few shitty 'friends', or 'odd' ones. But slowly I met more and more people and upgraded my group of friends and had tons of social circles. Now I no longer have to deal with anything less than 100% stellar friends. Think of it like a card game. You start off with a shitty hand, but each turn you get better cards…
/r/seduction10/03/13 08:37 PM
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Don't try and just pick hobbies for the sake of making you interesting, find something you love doing, or things you think are fun. If you are really engaged/in love with your hobbies, you will be interesting. There is nothing interesting about a guy who picked up French, just so he could say he speaks French. -Travel if you can afford it -LivingSocial/groupon has pretty cool shit on it all the time (skydiving, paintball, wine tasting, etc.) grab some buddies and go do that -basically just do sh…
/r/seduction10/03/13 04:27 PM
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You should always be gaming girls. Whether you're at the grocery store, hanging out with friends, in the library, etc. I try and go out as much as possible. Usually two nights during the school week and every night on the weekend. I'll also try and get dates in during the day/afternoon during the week. Sunday is my suana/hangover recovery day.
/r/seduction10/03/13 04:20 PM
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Wearing a suit isn't so much pea-cocking as it is just dressing kill. I feel like it would be helpful if you elaborated more upon what happened during the interaction. Your FR reads more as tl;dr: wear a suit get laid Nonetheless, congrats man! glad it worked out for you.
/r/seduction10/03/13 04:16 PM
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I like most of this post. Number 1, 2, and 3 are extremely important in my opinion. I do however disagree to the "don't say I love you until she does". Yes you don't want to scary her away with neediness, but if you actually love her in what is a reasonable time frame for that kind of thing to happen, why not just go ahead and say it? Waiting for the girl to say it first might be the 'safest' route, but don't be afraid to express your feelings to your SO if you are in a meaningful relationship.
/r/seduction10/03/13 04:11 PM
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Please do tell how these free burritos were achieved OP
/r/seduction10/03/13 12:53 AM
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"let's go back to my place, I have this really good beer/wine/liquor" Because who the fuck drinks coffee at 3 am?
/r/seduction08/03/13 07:50 PM
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I like to go out with those "hipster glasses" with the clear lenses that are obviously not prescription (those cheap raybay knock offs you can buy anywhere). That or I wear those cheapo plastic neon sunglasses and punch the frames out. People always come up to see if there are actually lenses.
/r/seduction18/02/13 04:15 AM
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Don't stress it dude. Society is always fucked up. It's not your fault they're all stuck in the Matrix.
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:33 AM
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Jesus christ OP. You don't have to be such an raging asshole. She might not be the best looking girl, but you don't need to berate her appearance for fucks sake. Also, you did nothing wrong. Stop freaking out. Hopefully that didn't fuck with your AA though.
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:00 AM
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It really all depends on your school, major, and yourself. I have friends that were insanely studious, would put in easy 40 hours a week studying and dropped engineering. On the other hand I test incredibly well and can get by pretty easily with maybe 10 hours on average a week.
/r/seduction13/01/13 12:43 AM
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To be honest dude, saying you don't have time for bars or parties is a weak excuse. I went out four nights a week on average as an an engineering major as a junior at a top 50 engineering school. I also earned a 3.4 this semester. Be more efficient with your time, learn to function with sleep less, and manage your priorities. Never let school get in the way if college. You're only there once make the most of it
/r/seduction12/01/13 06:20 PM
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What the fuck am I watching? I've seen some weird shit from these RSD guys on their videos before but at 9:02 he basically forces himself on the girl to get a kiss. Why the hell would they advertise this publicly?
/r/seduction08/01/13 04:53 AM
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Jesus christ that dude seems so fucking creepy. He's just in her face telling her how he's skull fucking a lion, then raping a lion, then how he's got shit all over his dick, but it doesn't matter because he's the alpha male. What the fuck did I just watch? RSD has some interesting characters to say the least...
/r/seduction08/01/13 04:48 AM
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Grabbed this girls hand in this club. Led her around the club to on top of this bar/table thing to throw her up and dance with her. Made out with her numerous times. Led her outside the club to the streets of Quebec, made out with her some more before new years. Then proceeded to crowd surf down the streets of Quebec at Midnight like a boss because that was way more fun.
/r/seduction02/01/13 09:35 PM
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This is just mirroring everything this subreddit has always advised. The only thing I saw that was new was #10, which was more or less act your age.
/r/seduction22/12/12 12:31 AM
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When I realized true abundance mentality. Once you have a few girls you're seeing, its easy to be selective. You finally realize that your time is valuable and that you're an asset and that there's no sense in wasting your time with a girl that you don't like 100 percent or a girl that isn't into you.
/r/seduction15/12/12 10:49 PM
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I had a post about this a week or two ago. I love it. If you have a sense of humor and can make funny photos or drawings it's fucking gold
/r/seduction15/12/12 08:43 PM
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It's the same in every sub sorry bro.
/r/seduction06/12/12 05:17 AM
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Could be an age demographic thing (I'm 21 in college) Also it hasn't really gotten huge yet, I heard about it maybe 2 weeks ago. Then maybe 30 friends were on it, now there's probably over 60 of my contacts, mostly girls.
/r/seduction06/12/12 12:12 AM
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This isn't for pursuing girls. This is a way to put them in the friend zone. Then when the girls you are dating don't fancy you anymore, you can hit up one of these girls to date. There's no god damn thing as a friend zone. Plus now instead of having a bunch of useless numbers from girls you never talk to, you have tons of girl friends to bring to bars/parties etc.
/r/seduction05/12/12 05:49 PM
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Not the intent. This is just to keep those girls whose numbers you have on their mind. I hardly can make time to date 2 or 3 girls with my schedule, I use snap chat to keep the ones I'm not dating in my back pocket.
/r/seduction05/12/12 05:45 PM
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Well for me if a girl doesn't like me sense of humour, I could care less if she is turned off. Pre selection at its finest.
/r/seduction05/12/12 05:41 PM
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I would say sporting event is a bad idea. If the date sucks you can't end it short without it being awkward
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:41 PM
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Is it hard to balance on one leg OP with those massive balls you have?
/r/seduction26/11/12 04:41 PM
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Shit man I want to go sarge with you in DC. If only to see you kill it hopping around on one leg. Talk about motivation
/r/seduction23/11/12 06:57 AM
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I think you need to make your interest explicit and actually ask her out on a date. Seems as if you two are beating around the bush?
/r/seduction20/11/12 02:44 AM
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Sounds like everything went well. It could have been the voicemail, the text, or any number or factors that could be a part of her life right now that you might have no influence on. Sounds like you played your cards right. Wouldn't worry about it much man, keep on keepin on.
/r/seduction20/11/12 01:30 AM
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It's hard to tell based upon the given details. All you really gave us was that she gave you her number.
/r/seduction20/11/12 01:14 AM
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This is written pretty vaguely, not exactly sure what's going on in your situation.
/r/seduction20/11/12 12:46 AM
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It's really hard to tell man. Don't over analyze it, on to the next one.
/r/seduction20/11/12 12:40 AM
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A hand on the lower back is hardly sexual harassment. Grow up.
/r/seduction18/11/12 09:09 PM
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Classic Chazz
/r/seduction16/11/12 07:21 PM
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Apocalypse opener all weekend
/r/seduction13/11/12 06:42 PM
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I don't think throwaways need to be banned. Some people post personal FRs and need throwaways. I think people just need to use their own judgement. For example I see garbage advice on here a lot. So I just tag them appropriately and ignore any of their posts. Whereas there are certain members of this community who post quality stuff many times whose FRs I definitely take the time to read.
/r/seduction13/11/12 05:35 PM
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The confidence is strong in this one. This guys stuff isn't as finely tuned as all those MPua's you see online, but God damn this guy is fearless, plows through, and gives zero fucks. Good video. And it shows you don't need to be a good looking dude to have success.
/r/seduction13/11/12 05:42 AM
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tl;dr OP is a piece of shit complaining about fake [FR]'s when he in fact makes fake [FR]'s himself.
/r/seduction13/11/12 04:29 AM
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Don't listen to the guys in this thread telling you to stop dressing "gay". The difference between a metro and a gay is that gay men don't hit on women. Make sure you set a sexual frame and don't cone off as just a friend. And if guys call you gay who cares? They're just mad you dress better than them.
/r/seduction12/11/12 07:24 PM
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I usually delete, otherwise when I'm drunk as fuck I send out booty call texts that burn any and all bridges
/r/seduction12/11/12 05:11 AM
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Trust me, I know this. I'm not advocating any of that stupid shit I've done
/r/seduction09/11/12 02:06 PM
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Well if you do get slapped, I don't recommend laughing at her. I did this once she slapped me again. If she slaps you again, don't laugh again and tell her you didn't even feel it because you're so drunk. You'll get slapped again. And that was the only time I ever got slapped and it was because I was extremely intoxicated on my 21st birthday. I called the girl fat. She wasn't even fat, I was just being a dick and deserved it. tl;dr Don't call girls fat.
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:58 AM
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"Choose one"
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:39 AM
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I'm picturing some skinny ass bitch, running up to "the rock", punching his ear, and then running away. While you turn your head, raise your eyebrow and finish your shot. OP is a mother fucking cucumber.
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:34 AM
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No If you can get her number, before you tell her she needs to give it for your job And EXPLICITLY STATE that it's so you two can go on a date, then and maybe only then, will it not be creepy.
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:30 AM
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This one time I was like real drunk, my dick was all like, dude you don't need a condom, there's no way she'll get pregnant! And my head was like, hell yeah, great idea penis! Then I finish having sex, and my dick is like, "LOL JK FUCKER I GOT YOU GOOD! BETTER BUY PLAN B DUMB ASS!" Just kidding. That actually happened way more than one time...
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:28 AM
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Leave it alone man. Hardly sounds like you fucked up. Next time I wouldn't add her on facebook that soon. But again, adding her on facebook isn't what made her flake. Despite stories you hear, you can't make somebody be attracted to you. All you can do is make yourself the best you can be, throw plenty of casts into the ocean, and eventually you'll land that trophy fish. "On to the next one" - Jay-Z
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:17 AM
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Can somebody tell me what that shit is so I don't have to look it up and hurl?
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:11 AM
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Don't use alcohol as a crutch. Sure it's easy as fuck to approach when you're drunk, but do you know how hard it is to get a day 2 when you don't remember a thing about the girl and she remembers you as "that drunk guy I hooked up with last night"
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:10 AM
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Extra credit should be do this during the day. I find no trouble approaching girls at a bar. I feel as if it's the social norm, whereas daygame require a whole nother set of cajones.
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:06 AM
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I feel like this should go into the sidebar judging by the amount of times this gets posted and upvoted.
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:01 AM
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DC sedditor?
/r/seduction07/11/12 10:38 PM
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Good luck OP. Hopefully you don't end up banging her, and then her pimp comes hunting you down looking for his money.
/r/seduction06/11/12 05:15 PM
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Find another girl
/r/seduction05/11/12 04:01 PM
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If anything, a strip club to real life would be like Mario kart to Indy 500
/r/seduction05/11/12 04:01 PM
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I like to throw in some sexual shit to see how she reacts and if she's afraid of her sexuality or not. Example: Today I was on a date and the girl was telling me how her roommate never leaves her room. I say, "Aw that sucks! You must never get to masturbate!" She laughed and denied it, but she wasn't awkward about the comment and conversation kept flowing naturally. She's a keeper.
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:23 AM
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In November? Alpha as fuck.
/r/seduction04/11/12 06:40 AM
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Last night I was feeling down in a serious funk (seasonal depression here). I was getting so down on myself that I hadn't been able to set up a day-2 in a while. I told myself fuck that. I went outside for a long ass walk around campus. I thought about all the shit I've done in my life, all the mistakes, successes, etc. I thought about all the reasons I'm awesome and I tried to think of all the things I can improve upon in my life (working out, sarging more, studying, etc) Then you know what I f…
/r/seduction04/11/12 03:38 AM
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Interesting. I feel like these two lines right after each other might be conflicting. The first is a typical line she probably hears all night from guys, kind of beta (for lack of a better word) for night game. Then the second is direct and hard hitting. The majority of my instant make outs (2 min or less) usually I don't tell them or ask about making out. Usually I just go for the kill. Note: they haven't shown any IOI's a this point, but being assertive and bold has it's perks. Also success ra…
/r/seduction04/11/12 03:30 AM
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Fair enough. I do realize this, I am merely stating that strip club visits add up. All that money could be put to better use for real applications.
/r/seduction04/11/12 03:19 AM
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It's sad that you're getting down voted for putting in your two cents. Dress well. Even sex workers appreciate a man who has style. Translation: strippers are really good at their job and realize the well dressed man likely has more money.
/r/seduction04/11/12 03:14 AM
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I'm assuming somebody that needs to go to a strip club to approach women, is going to need a lot more than one strip club visit. It's pretty easy to drop $50 at a strip club even if you are being conservative with your money
/r/seduction04/11/12 03:09 AM
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Go out and approach Go out and approach Go out and approach Go out and approach Go out and approach This advice gets beaten to death and mentioned in every single thread, but it's true. I can read the best strategies in the world, know all the things to do, and have all the lines, but if I don't go out, it's pointless. I won't meet girls, it won't ever become natural, and I won't get any better. I don't care if you're fucking 4 years old trying to throw a basketball at a hoop or fucking Lebron J…
/r/seduction04/11/12 03:02 AM
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Am I the only one in the thread that thinks this is a terrible idea? A strip club isn't reality, it's a fantasy world, sure it might help your confidence, but there are much better ways to do that. Also, why the fuck has nobody pointed out how much money you'd waste at the strip club and how much you could do to improve yourself far better with that same money Say you drop $300 dollars at the strip club (this is a vast underestimate probably). Think of all the things you can buy that will better…
/r/seduction04/11/12 02:53 AM
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This is solid advice. I'm going to start doing this to set up day 2's and such. It gets old real fast playing text tag, back and forth trying to schedule a date, not to mention it's easier to lie and make up excuses behind their smart phone. Only thing I'd add to this is try and call her when you think she'll be free. i.e. after most classes are out if you're in college, after work if you have a 9-5, or possibly after you ping her and she responds quickly. If you get a voicemail, it's likely to …
/r/seduction02/11/12 01:02 PM
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I second this. I treat my meals on days I know I'm going out like I'd great my meals the night before a marathon. Nothing kills the mood like stank ass burrito breath of ripping massive farts on the dance floor.
/r/seduction02/11/12 02:45 AM
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I'd disagree with this to some extent. Yes if they are really into you, they will make time. That being said, I've encountered cases where the girl actually is super busy, she will offer up times when she's free, but they will be limited and often conflict with my own schedule. I feel like the answer isn't black or white, but shades of grey. It depends on a case to case basis. In the end though, if she is actually too busy to date you or lying about dating you, in the end it's not worth your tim…
/r/seduction02/11/12 12:43 AM
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I second both their comments. At least black out her face or blur it or something. Also are you the creepy robot the the blurry faced dude in the red?
/r/seduction01/11/12 04:58 AM
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God no, please don't let memes become a thing here.
/r/seduction01/11/12 04:42 AM
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This is a Terrible excuse for a survey. You told them the first guy was more attractive. Your question was "Who would you find more attractive?" DING DING DING OP WE HAVE A WINNER Guy 1:One is very good looking, attractive This thread is useless /thread
/r/seduction01/11/12 02:01 AM
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So simple it's stupid...
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:57 PM
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Dear mother of god. 67 girls befriended in one month? How the fuck do you juggle that? I have a tough time staying in touch with all of my best friends already as it is.
/r/seduction31/10/12 06:57 PM
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Nailed it
/r/seduction30/10/12 03:37 PM
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To be honest, I think I got her number because I forgot her name. Can't tell you how many times that trick has saved me
/r/seduction30/10/12 03:36 PM
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I hope you didn't mean begging
/r/seduction28/10/12 12:01 AM
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Assume attraction though.
/r/seduction27/10/12 06:18 AM
3

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - gretzky
/r/seduction26/10/12 03:44 PM
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My nigga got a coffee date on his first cold approach ever? MY MAN. Sky is the limit.
/r/seduction25/10/12 12:41 AM
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Good fucking job dude. Love to hear the success. Don't over analyze whether or not she is into you. Use the texts to organize a date if possible, hopefully not too long from now so the memory is still fresh. Keep soldiering on.
/r/seduction24/10/12 10:05 PM
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Thanks dude. Keep killin it
/r/seduction23/10/12 10:11 PM
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Can you elaborate on rapport breaking tonality? Love the action items, definitely need to revise this list so it's attainable from last week
/r/seduction23/10/12 07:51 PM
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Hardly anything unbelievable about this post. It's fucking college, I've had insanely wild stories that nobody would believe if I didn't have friends to witness them. Even if it was fake, still has good helpful tips. Fuck the haters man. You got 59 upvotes, clearly people appreciate your posts still.
/r/seduction23/10/12 05:11 AM
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Smooth as fuck. Would read again
/r/seduction23/10/12 02:17 AM
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If you just say no. That usually stops it. That being said, no and "I'm not having sex with you tonight" have two very different connotations. If a girl says no, it's a red light. If a girl says "I'm not having sex with you tonight" that could mean any number of things based on how she said it
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:54 PM
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Lol AFC club owner. Can't even AMOG you. Has to use bouncers instead. I'd count that as a win
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:34 PM
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95% of guys are always trying to have sex with you ASAP. It's just human nature. Don't understand why that scares you.
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:27 PM
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The dude is probably thinking the sane thing as you. Just isolate, get her to go somewhere with you alone. If she isn't ok with that by this late into the night. On to the next one or head to bed. Staying around a beat party to hook up with the last untaken chick is an AFC move.
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:24 PM
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It scares you that they had consensual sex? God forbid.
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:19 PM
2

This mother fucker knows how to use the power if emotions
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:35 PM
1

yeee
/r/seduction21/10/12 09:15 PM
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Word of advice. Next time don't ask if you can come in. Just be like "Do you mind if I use your bathroom before I leave?" Getting the foot through the door is the hardest part.
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:39 PM
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Your little sister lets you hit on her friends? And they are all smoking hot? Holy fuck dude, your little sister is the best wing ever.
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:28 PM
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Interesting video. Not top quality stuff though. This girl was clearly hammered so K-close isn't super impressive. Then he spends most of the rest of the video yelling trying to get her number while her mom is yelling at her trying to get her away from this dude hitting on her drunk daughter. Not super useful stuff here, but interesting.
/r/seduction19/10/12 06:10 AM
1

Wut did I just read? This is the laziest, most artificial pick-up I've ever seen. This sounds like a recipe for finding slutty, clingy, desperate girls
/r/seduction19/10/12 01:21 AM
5

What if I told you, you don't have to go to college, to go to college parties?
/r/seduction18/10/12 10:59 PM
3

Brb going somewhere relaxing to get my life in check. This is some potent shit man. Can't wait for the rest.
/r/seduction18/10/12 10:57 PM
2

If you aren't in the states, isn't drinking age 18? So you shouldn't have an issue. Find a bar that college age kids frequent, usually by campuses or such.
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:45 PM
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Did you come here to make a bunch of excuses? Or to get shit done? Have you heard of college bars? Girls get in that are like 17 there.
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:40 PM
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Well don't hold out on us OP, did she wear a skirt or jeans?!
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:29 PM
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But they are objects. Objects of our affection.
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:26 PM
1

Good shit dude. Would love to hear how you diffused some of those shit tests. I'm assuming by your edits at the bottom that you didn't get any #-close's? Sounds like a success though regardless.
/r/seduction18/10/12 02:26 PM
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Upvote for effort. Talk about bitch...
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:27 PM
6

Tofutofu, not the hero seddit deserves, but the hero seddit needs
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:23 PM
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I was going to comment and say how high risk this was, given that if anyone tried it they'd probably just lose out on a shit ton of cash. Then I realized you probably had a fucking blast taking shots out of their tits and having them take them out of your pants. Not only that but you gained serious social proof. Even if you didn't get laid or even a K-close, seems well worth the price for the night you had at the bar slow clap
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:27 AM
2

This is from one of my comments: Dance in my room before going out. Get the body moving. Do some pushups, curl some jugs of water so you get that pump feeling before you go out. I go through a routine. Showering, soap, shampoo, brush, floss, mouth wash, deodorant, cologne, do the hair, iron the clothes, eye fuck myself in the mirror. Makes you feel like a million bucks. If you look at yourself in the mirror and you think you wouldn't fuck yourself, well guess what? Nobody else is going to want t…
/r/seduction16/10/12 10:58 PM
4

He's dressed well, hair done well, and is fit. All things you can do. Honestly his face isn't that attractive at all.
/r/seduction16/10/12 10:54 PM
10

Going to have to agree with his post. You didn't do anything to game her, this doesn't really help out seddit
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:45 PM
1

Sorry not sure what you're asking?
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:38 PM
1

try the edited link
/r/seduction16/10/12 01:53 AM
2

Like this: http://www.flickr.com/photos/morning_justice/6071558295/ Without the awkward faces.
/r/seduction16/10/12 01:49 AM
1

This is great stuff. I've always wondered how to communicate the logistics of the situation infront of the girls w/o them knowing
/r/seduction16/10/12 01:44 AM
6

Solid [FR]. I tell her that I used to watch my older brother play games all the time, Don't know if this was intentional, but it seems like a slight disqualifier which seemed to work out well. Also nice save when she pulled the friends line. You kept cool, calm, and collected. Pulled back, established more comfort, and got the kill shot later. This fucking guy knows what he's doing
/r/seduction16/10/12 12:47 AM
1

Sorry didn't mean to shit on your [FR] But maybe in the future it would have been better to just elaborate on one of the nights, versus a very vague overly general view of all of them?
/r/seduction16/10/12 12:09 AM
12

This was painful to read. I feel like you are shooting yourself in the foot man. Note: Just because a girl invites you over to a movie, doesn't mean she >wants to have sex. Or even want anything. I strongly disagree with this point. Yes she may not be trying to fuck you, but chances are 99% of these girls are coming over for more than to just watch a movie if you play your cards right. To be honest, I don't see the point of your post. You don't really break down any of the interactions into spec…
/r/seduction15/10/12 08:00 PM
3

Good shit. I hat reading comments of FR's where you see guys going, "Yeah this probably worked for you because you're probably super attractive". It's pathetic.
/r/seduction15/10/12 07:53 PM
1

It's pretty sick. You should definitely check it out. It's a massive club with multiple floors.
/r/seduction12/10/12 06:12 AM
3

Was at Dagobert for new years eve. Place was wild. Going to be tough if you don't speak french as you know how french canadians can be. But good luck
/r/seduction12/10/12 05:33 AM
12

Dance in my room before going out. Get the body moving. Do some pushups, curl some jugs of water so you get that pump feeling before you go out. I go through a routine. Showering, soap, shampoo, brush, floss, mouth wash, deodorant, cologne, do the hair, iron the clothes, eye fuck myself in the mirror. Makes you feel like a million bucks. If you look at yourself in the mirror and you think you wouldn't fuck yourself, well guess what? Nobody else is going to want to fuck you with that kind of conf…
/r/seduction10/10/12 10:26 PM
1

I agree you should never walk alone in college. Not for the reasons you post, but because think of all the opportunities you miss to talk to new people? Think of all the people rushing by with headphones in ignoring the world, most of them would love to have an interesting conversation to keep them busy instead. I've never understood why social norms say it's "weird" to talk to the stranger that you've been walking to for about a minute now. If anything it's fucking weird you are ignoring each o…
/r/seduction10/10/12 10:21 PM
1

Personally I would throw some inside jokes in the texts or something. Just texting to set up dates for me feels cold and calculated. You can show personality while setting up a date. Example: "Hey (name), I know of the coolest little hidden coffee place. You've probably never heard of it. I don't know how it's pronounced, I think it's Italian. I think it's called Starbucks off the top of my head. Let's meet up (insert date here) for coffee, I can let you in on some of my other secrets if you're …
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:08 AM
1

sorry was just responding in my inbox.
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:39 AM
2

Oh never mind. My definition of flaking is telling them I'll go but canceling later that week or something. Are you saying you get stood up 50% of the time?
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:18 AM
1

Specific questions about specific girls belong in AskSeddit. Also see the side bar about shit tests.
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:06 AM
1

This has been stated already many times in this post. FIT is the most important thing I can not tell you how many compliments I have gotten after changing the fit of my clothing. Girls ask me if I've been working out or lost weight. All I did was wear better fitting clothing. I swear I look 10 times better wearing a great fitting slim plain colored v-neck than I ever have in any of my baggy shirts with awesome graphics.
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:02 AM
1

Not to be that guy. But advice for specific situations belongs in askseddit
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:56 AM
7

I would say this. I feel like this isn't that bad. I honestly flake on some of my best friends sometimes just because of logistics and schedule conflicts. Building more attraction and comfort would help I'm sure. But I think you're reading into the numbers too much. And also how are you pulling off 14 dates a week? jesus christ dude. that has to be a logistical nightmare. Maybe try and focus more of your efforts on fewer girls? I have trouble juggling a handful of girls, let alone 14. My two cen…
/r/seduction10/10/12 12:50 AM
5

I don't act drunk. Everyone just assumes I'm drunk because I'm drinking vodka to the face and am being super social and carrying myself with an idgaf attitude. Also correct me if I'm wrong but the thread is about things you are not proud of. Nothing to be ashamed of however. Nothing wrong with a white lie. It's not like I'm pretending to be drunk so I can hook up with chicks that are tanked. That would be sleazy.
/r/seduction09/10/12 09:04 PM
44

Often I will go out to a house party with a bottle of "vodka". Really I'll just fill it with water and pretend like I'm drinking from it all night. Then nobody asks you why you aren't drinking and plus lots of girls come up asking for some if it's a nice bottle. I'll pour some water into their drink for them and they are happy as can be. Some get pissy when I won't give them a "shot" though for obvious reasons. lol. I've found it's easier to be in-state when everyone else thinks you're drunk. It…
/r/seduction09/10/12 02:06 AM
1

This is the kind of shit I was looking for. Much love
/r/seduction08/10/12 09:02 PM
1

Looks like it's an issue of calibration. She was talking to you for two hours. She's clearly into you. Some people are touchy feely others aren't. Touching her hand seemed a bit much if she wasn't into the rest. Sounds like you had a good night though.
/r/seduction08/10/12 06:04 PM
12

Not masturbating isn't always a magic bullet. I know for myself, I'll just have significantly lower standards and will bang everything that moves. That being said, glad your night went well dude. Sounds like you were pretty wasted though as you don't remember most of the details. Try to not use it as a crutch even though it's easy to
/r/seduction08/10/12 03:44 PM
2

Can you link me some resources?
/r/seduction08/10/12 02:14 PM
1

I think this post is seriously over analyzing field of vision and eye contact. Look wherever the fuck you want.
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:24 AM
4

Obviously this advice given by the OP isn't the magic pill. You need to have better game, dress well, be fit, and be attractive. Sure you can get away without all the above. But if you have all the pieces you'll be fucking golden.
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:18 AM
-2

I disagree. Worst that happens is she says no and doesn't dance.
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:13 AM
6

Don't worry about what other dudes are doing. Judging people just makes you a dick. Nothing "Alpha" about that. You just do you. Keep on keepin' on.
/r/seduction04/10/12 11:45 PM
2

Just because you read The Game OP, doesn't mean we're all like that.
/r/seduction04/10/12 11:12 PM
3

I think you've got it all wrong. Sure there are some PUA's that go out seeking lays to get validation. Every girl I meet/talk to/hookup with is another potential girl that will be right for me. And the better I am at my game, the more quality girls I will be able to pick up. The more quality girls I can pick up the odds are the better chance I'll have at finding an awesome girl to have a serious relationship one day. My two cents.
/r/seduction04/10/12 11:08 PM
3

Every person you talk to, every person you meet, could be the start to one of the most awesome adventures of your life. No cool story ever started with, "So I saw this person I thought was interesting, but I decided not to do anything about it"
/r/seduction03/10/12 07:45 PM
2

It's all up to you man. Sometimes I'll invite two or more of any prospects out. That requires a bit of juggling though, but it makes them all jealous. Sometimes I'll invite just one out, but only give her attention here and there, it's not like she's my date. And then sometimes I don't invite any of them because I'm looking to meet new options.
/r/seduction03/10/12 07:41 PM
1

I like to drop compliments after I've been teasing them for a bit. Push/pull if you will. Of course I only drop genuine compliments and usually they are specifics. Examples: -I love your green eyes -That's a cool ass top, I like your style -Loving those pants, you must have a ton of confidence to rock those (said to a girl in bright yellow pants) Bad examples: -You're hot -You're cute
/r/seduction03/10/12 07:38 PM
1

Solid FR as always. I really need to get to know the bouncers/bartenders better at my go to spots. Really want to check our McFadden's too at some point soon, I always here so much about it. Would be nice to hit up another bar full of new faces. Still looking for a place to fill the void thirsty turtle left. How on earth do you manage to grab girls on the way home though at last call? How the fuck do you pull that off without looking creepy/desperate?
/r/seduction03/10/12 07:34 PM
2

I really like that your videos are short, quick, and to the point. Unlike many of Tyler's videos. You think you could throw a summary in the description of your video for an even quicker way to get the information?
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:14 AM
2

Is there a reason you don't lift and try to get bigger? Obviously it will make you at least the slightest bit more successful? I just ask because usually the two of the biggest and easiest fixes people recommend for pickup are working out and dressing well.
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:12 AM
3

Sorry must have misread that. Sounds much more effective now.
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:42 PM
3

If she says no you can make a gentle joking remark about it being a >good choice and saying you're fat enough as it is (laugh heartily at this). This seems like it would have a very low success rate. Usually you don't want to start off calling her fat, even if it's a joke.
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:18 PM
5

In your analysis you left out one important part: She has to qualify herself to you You're making her jump through the hoops saying she's only worth __ days. Great stuff. I do a similar type thing only I use my hat. Usually girls love to rip off your hat at parties and wear it. I tell them they don't deserve it yet (playfully). Then the rest of the party they are trying to win my affection.
/r/seduction01/10/12 04:47 PM
3

An easy move is to be holding one hand. You turn around, in the >direction of that hand. Now your back is to her, her hand is over your >shoulder. Keep turning, holding on to her hand. Now when you get back >around. Her hand is around the back of your neck. Fucking smooth dude. I've taken their hands and put them around my neck before, but this shit you just described is so damn smooth and simple. Will be using that in the future.
/r/seduction01/10/12 04:41 PM
1

Did this at Dayglow as well. Hope it works out for you as well
/r/seduction01/10/12 01:41 PM
5

Ah yep that makes sense now as I read that book.
/r/seduction01/10/12 12:45 AM
1

Because it wasn't any of the girls I was dancing with on the table. I found it irrelevant to the point I was making so I omitted it.
/r/seduction01/10/12 12:35 AM
5

This is a great opener man. Thanks for sharing. So as they're talking—and neither of them are aware of it—they're doing >a little dance around the room. Have to ask though, this sounds really familiar. Did you make this opener off of something you've read before? Because I swear I've heard something like this before, maybe it was in a book I read? Idk. Great fucking opener though.
/r/seduction01/10/12 12:31 AM
1

But I did get laid. And I left with her before they did.
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:33 PM
1

I would like to second this man's post word for word. I don't measure my success by F-closes. But if we're counting SNL's : 1 since starting a few months ago and countless hookups.
/r/seduction30/09/12 10:22 PM
1

God damn this is fucking gold.
/r/seduction30/09/12 10:15 PM
1

I did get laid that night, but did not add to the point of my story so I removed it. Also you can go out, have a good time and not get laid without being "beta". There's nothing "alpha" about basing your success on whether or not you got laid that night.
/r/seduction30/09/12 06:56 PM
3

Props on trying out the apocalypse opener dude. "I feel like you come on very strong but you don't give anything >back." Maybe you didn't build enough comfort? Sounds like maybe she wanted to know more about you before going home with a stranger. But I'm no expert
/r/seduction30/09/12 05:02 PM
2

Good advice. Unfortunately for me though, when I find a cool girl, usually I want to be more than just her friend. (If I think she's attractive at least). I should really work on that. I don't think you mentioned this, but girl friends in college is great because people love to invite you to parties if you're the guy that rolls in with 5 chicks and you're the only guy.
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:55 PM
9

Reflect on the childhood events and conditions that influence how you >act today Care to elaborate on that point OP?
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:51 PM
3

Finally, we went for a walk together in the park, while we were >walking I found it odd (but good?) that she walked really close to me >and kept bumping into me while we walked. I feel like this would have been the perfect moment for that K-close. The sexual tension seemed really high. Should have stopped her, triangle gaze her in silence for like 2 seconds, and the gone for the kill. Sounds like you used kino really well. I like how you called her out on the hug. I can't tell how much you were …
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:44 PM
1

This is pretty much what I was trying to say in my post, only you said it way more eloquently.
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:21 PM
1

Thanks for the criticism. Will delete that section.
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:10 PM
2

You're right, drinking games sometimes are a good way to meet girls. But I'm sure you know the parties I'm talking about where it's just a bunch of AFC's sitting around waiting to play beer pong because they don't know what else to do. Thanks for the dancing advice.
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:09 PM
5

You gave them an opportunity to have fun and be the center of >attention, but if you had more desire, you could have gotten any one of >them easily, which they were probably secretly begging you to do. I understand what your saying. I think the message of my post might have been missed or I'm a shitty writer. If you go out with the sole purpose of getting laid, your intentions are obvious. However if you go out with the intent to have fun: 1. You'll have fun 2. Girls will see you're having fun a…
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:07 PM
1

Great post. I understand the message you are trying to get across. It seems more so that remaining cool, calm, collected, and unfazed was also critical to your success (a part of which is being patient).
/r/seduction29/09/12 09:35 PM
1

Yes I'm white and tall. But I'm really not attractive at all dude. Honestly confidence and how you carry yourself goes a long way dude. That and clothing. Jesus christ I wished I learned how to dress myself better sooner.
/r/seduction29/09/12 09:28 PM
21

Generally speaking, inviting yourself over to her place for a movie isn't a good idea.
/r/seduction29/09/12 09:26 PM
-1

I'm white, but sure as hell not attractive by most standards. About 20/30 pounds over weight with no muscle and an average face at best.
/r/seduction29/09/12 09:10 PM
8

Its funny how when you really want a girl and game her like hell, that a >lot of the time you don't get her, but when you don't game her and >express no interest when all the other guys are begging at her feet, >they come running to you. This my friend is no strange coincidence. Also I don't know why your friend was being such a mother hen. He probably wanted to bang both of them I'd imagine. The only other thing I could think of is if they were two of his really close friends and didn't want yo…
/r/seduction29/09/12 08:43 PM
1

I definitely try and keep the first date as cheap as possible. I'm not a cheap ass, but going on a lot of dates gets expensive. Also I hardly know this girl, why is she worth my money?
/r/seduction29/09/12 08:37 PM
1

Walks, coffee, baking/cooking together if you are into that, happy hour at a bar.
/r/seduction29/09/12 08:36 PM
40

Some girls aren't comfortable coming over to your place for a movie. Also movies don't allow for easy conversation or kino. And if she's coming over to "watch a movie", I feel like now a days, "watching a movie" is a euphemism for sex
/r/seduction29/09/12 08:34 PM
1

Yea they all suck. Barking dog reopened and is almost like turtle again but only on Tuesdays. Cstone and bents still suck, but they are full of drunk college girls and drinks are cheap. Feel is reopening soon I hear. And Looney's is a great bar but the crowd is usually too old or has weird locals. Hardly go elsewhere as getting places when drunk is a bitch and metro closes way too early.
/r/seduction28/09/12 06:28 PM
1

Haha thanks OP, you must have read my post. This is fucking clever. Such a good way to get her to qualify herself without it being obvious that's what you're doing at all. I like how it's all part of the "routine". Also this is fucking great because you can totally just make up some other bs testing method (one not about how many siblings you have) pretty easily and direct the conversation. God damn OP, you clever bastard.
/r/seduction28/09/12 03:23 AM
8

Dude to be honest, if she's coming over for a movie and drinks, it's yours too lose. Just kino and escalate. Don't pick a movie that needs to be watched intently, because you don't want to actually be watching the movie for all 2 hours. That would be incredibly boring.
/r/seduction28/09/12 02:17 AM
2

I don't see how this applies to pickup or seduction? Someone else posted a thread about a drinking game earlier, but it at least seemed relevant as the game involved trying to make people laugh. This just seems like your typical drinking game.
/r/seduction28/09/12 01:51 AM
1

Yup, that's the joke.
/r/seduction27/09/12 10:27 PM
1

For sure dude.
/r/seduction27/09/12 06:59 PM
1

Probably over thinking it, like I used to over think opening...
/r/seduction27/09/12 04:15 PM
2

College park.
/r/seduction27/09/12 04:14 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:21 PM
1

Not sure I entirely understand all of the rules. Care to elaborate more or find a link? Sounds fun and social though.
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:45 PM
2

This. A little more detail would be nice as to why you thought you were successful.
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:42 PM
1

You're right, even though they aren't the most interesting questions, eventually she will want to know more about me. I should probably just cold read her to get her to talk about herself.
/r/seduction27/09/12 05:52 AM
2

I definitely need to work on hooking them. Opening used to be the battle but not anymore. On to the next challenge
/r/seduction27/09/12 05:50 AM
2

knowing this a while ago would have saved me countless pointless back and forth texts. Simple and effective video. Thanks.
/r/seduction27/09/12 01:46 AM
2

I understand what you are saying with conversation threading and stuff, but usually during opening I'm the one that has to do most of the conversation. Maybe I should work on some new openers that get them to do most of the talking.
/r/seduction26/09/12 11:19 PM
5

Can't believe I forgot about #1 I see that posted all the time. #2 is decent but I feel like that might be getting into the boring question territory.
/r/seduction26/09/12 11:17 PM
4

Already throwing in lots of kino. Thanks though.
/r/seduction26/09/12 11:15 PM
1

You shouldn't be hitting on girls you don't find attractive. They can tell you aren't interested at all Why would you want her number if she isn't attractive?
/r/seduction26/09/12 12:13 AM
4

You need no game. Literally just start dancing, escalate. No words need to be said.
/r/seduction25/09/12 07:01 PM
1

I thought this girl stood me up. Turns out she went to the wrong Starbucks. But if you actually got stood up, not worth it.
/r/seduction25/09/12 06:59 PM
4

Abundance mentality and escalation my friend. So simple, yet so god damn effective
/r/seduction25/09/12 03:59 PM
23

Me and my best friends don't do this shit. It's fucking catty. We go out and help each other get laid. One time one of my best friends tried to steal this girl from me. He was unsuccessful, but I'll be damned if I ever go out with him again with the intent of picking up girls. Also dude, don't place so much value on this girl. She's just a girl. Drop the oneitis dude. Girls can sense neediness. tl;dr - get new best friends and stop hanging out with your "friend" when you are with girls you want …
/r/seduction24/09/12 03:16 AM
8

If I read this right, you blew it with the girl you were preparing for right? It's pretty obvious as to why. You placed too much value on her. Basically oneitis bro. If she was being cold you should have just left it at that and said IDGAF and had fun with other people. Girls notice this shit. Bitches love it. And if they don't, who gives a fuck. You're now having fun without them anyways.
/r/seduction24/09/12 03:09 AM
5

"Do you know the time" - means she wants to fuck bro.
/r/seduction24/09/12 01:54 AM
4

I like this idea. Requires no thinking and it's free kino. The popular "hi" opener doesn't really work that well in clubs or bars with the bitch shields up.
/r/seduction24/09/12 01:43 AM
34

This. Sometimes people just have busy schedules. Some girls are hard to get in touch with.
/r/seduction23/09/12 06:56 PM
3

Windex bottle.
/r/seduction20/09/12 08:11 PM
1

Great write up dude. Wish I could write my [FR]'s this well. I like how you seem cool and collected the whole time. OP is fucking Rico Suave.
/r/seduction19/09/12 12:45 AM
1

I just don't seem to get what you are trying to do other than brag. You being handsome and good looking and born with natural talent is of little help to those who need to work at it.
/r/seduction18/09/12 09:04 PM
5

Redditor for 12 minutes. Seems legit. So how many midgets have you banged Tucker Max?
/r/seduction18/09/12 08:51 PM
1

Lol this shit is funny as hell. But again, you also get a down vote as it doesn't contribute much to this sub reddit.
/r/seduction18/09/12 08:47 PM
2

I mean how many times has this happened? If it's just a hand full of times, could just be luck. If it's been happening for a year, probably not chance. Gelled hair tends to come off as douchey. You can still style your hair without getting that 'gelled' look.
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:55 PM
11

Also if I'm at the bar and I see a girl whip out a bunch of ones to pay for her drink. I'll open asking her if she's a stripper. Working on that one, definitely needs refinement. Apparently girls don't like random guys calling them strippers right off the bat. Who'd have thunk it?
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:19 PM
5

I like to go up to a group of girls who are clearly celebrating a friend's bday. I'll ask them if it's their birthday (clearly it is). Then I congratulate them on their 17th birthday and tell them they must have a really good fake and I ask to see it. Works well at college bars of course. Then I look at their fake id's and pretend to be a bouncer, tell them this is clearly fake after quizzing them about their info for a while. Then I put it in my pocket and walk away. Great for many reasons: -sh…
/r/seduction18/09/12 05:18 PM
-1

All of this coming from a sedditor with no [FR]s or helpful posts as described in your rant? You can't bitch about something if you aren't going to try and fix it. Be the change man, be the fucking change.
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:55 PM
0

OP not sure about you, but if I want to date a chick, then I definitely want to bang her. Even IF you bang her say the first night you meet her, that in no way shape or form makes it so you won't date her. As long as you escalate you'll be fine. If she doesn't want to bang on the first date, she's going to let you know. She's not going to write you off for it as being a bad guy.
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:24 AM
2

Jesus christ OP. I've read all your responses. I hope this poor dude sees this thread and decides not to take you out. You're battling for power with him. "in control of how long the date is at all times" Really? How OP. You can leave whenever you want, you're a free woman. "I don't want to be played/don't want to be a cheap hook up" So then don't hook up with him? Don't let yourself get played. "Cheap coffee" Cheap coffee? Really? Does it matter how much it costs? It's coffee, he's in college, …
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:18 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat dude. Only keep doing this if you are 100% willing to lose that friend of yours. There are always attractive girls to be found, but good friends are harder to come by.
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:58 AM
2

Am I the only one that doesn't like his videos? It's like a 30 min video every time, with maybe 4 minutes at best of actual content. Who has time to watch this? You'd be better off learning by going out for 30 minutes than sitting infront of your screen watching youtube.
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:53 AM
2

God this was painful to read at times. Try to shorten these frs. Only put in relevant stuff. We don't really need to know about what you were doing when you got home. Nice job going out alone though my dood. What happened to that girl in line behind you? You were killing it with that opener. Was expecting you to pick up the ball and run with it. Coffee at two am? Probably not the best suggestion. I know where I am there are late night places everyone goes to and grabs food when they are drunk. W…
/r/seduction17/09/12 06:25 PM
1

Second this comment. It's pretty clear as to why the last girl was so receptive to you talking to her, you were talking about interesting shit, not about the weather or where you lived or major. Keep on keeping on man.
/r/seduction17/09/12 03:40 AM
1

Solid FR as always
/r/seduction17/09/12 02:43 AM
3

Imagining this in my head was quite entertaining. Fucking confidence through the roof dude. Love it.
/r/seduction09/09/12 12:32 AM
3

Downside with dinner is if it goes south, you are committed to dinner. coffee date or such you can end anytime.
/r/seduction05/09/12 03:55 PM
46

Jesus christ dude. You just called your "buddy" pathetic looking. No wonder girls aren't instantly into you. You sound like a terrible friend.
/r/seduction01/09/12 11:35 PM
3

It's really hard to say if they were indirectly inviting you or not with such little context. Probably if they were talking to each other and you weren't including in the conversation of them going out, I doubt it was an invite. Nice start though, the first step is the hardest.
/r/seduction01/09/12 12:48 AM
7

This is silly. 1) she already has a drink in her hand, most girls don't double fist 2) why the hell would I buy a silly drink if I was a beer guy? 3)this seems pretty transparent and obvious Usually if a girl asks me to buy her a drink, I ask her to buy me one instead. She usually will say no, to which I call her sexist and banter about that for a bit.
/r/seduction30/08/12 04:55 AM
1

Lol this is great. But honestly OP, she probably would have came over with a non-bullshit excuse anyways.
/r/seduction26/08/12 09:18 PM
38

That I am powerful beyond measure
/r/seduction17/08/12 01:59 PM
8

R/sex is much better suited to answer your question
/r/seduction17/08/12 01:58 PM
1

Why is this here? R/sex /thread
/r/seduction17/08/12 01:04 PM
1

Just break it up. Easier to read than a wall of text. Doesn't really matter where as long as you aren't breaking it into paragraphs in the middle of thoughts.
/r/seduction16/08/12 01:53 AM
2

Please edit this. Paragraphs man. Paragraphs
/r/seduction16/08/12 12:45 AM
10

One more thing to mention. Make sure you befriend these people and give value . There is nothing worse than being "that guy" in college that mass texts everyone you barely know looking for things to do on a friday night. I fucking hate those guys.
/r/seduction15/08/12 03:23 PM
3

Agreed, nothing strange about wanting to meet new people. How else do people make friends and find dates?
/r/seduction15/08/12 03:18 PM
10

You seem to be focusing a lot on # closes. Instead of trying to get every girls number which you appear to have no trouble with, make a better connection with fewer girls. Otherwise id imagine most of the numbers being flakes. Don't show up as early to a party, you won't drink as much. Also if you're drinking out of solo cups fill it with water every now and then. As for contacting that guy, just invite him out to a party you are going to or something. Hanging out with him in that situation woul…
/r/seduction15/08/12 03:15 PM
2

Was only out with my one friend. The hb7 was chatting him up and super receptive, but he was passive and didn't make any moves unfortunately. At which point she left him to spill het drink on me. He could use some work, but you know the old adage. You can lead a horse to water ...
/r/seduction14/08/12 07:10 PM
3

Thanks for the advice, will give it a try
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:31 PM
2

It was a quick text I sent after leaving the bars as to avoid the awkward text later when she is like who is this when I text her. Keeps me fresh in her mind? I done goofed with the seating. There were many ways I could have dealt with that
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:24 PM
1

This is gold. Never thought of trying this strategy out
/r/seduction13/08/12 05:33 PM
4

"Girls, this is the perfect opportunity for shameless looks at my ass, enjoy accordingly" Cocky as fuck. God damn. Respect OP. If you left out the last two paragraphs it would have made a better FR and less "Fuck yea I banged this chick". But in all honesty, if I were in your shoes I'd be bragging too.
/r/seduction09/08/12 08:13 PM
2

This guy knows what's up
/r/seduction09/08/12 03:05 PM
1

I'm going to say Bitch. Mormons know how to say thank you
/r/seduction09/08/12 02:57 PM
2

I mean that tends to happen with FWB's. eventually one of the person's usually moves on at some point. If you aren't trying to date her and she's no longer interested, on to the next one right?
/r/seduction08/08/12 02:06 AM
2

I second this. Has she stopped hooking up with you? Seems as if she's just making sure it doesn't progress into a relationship.
/r/seduction08/08/12 01:41 AM
2

At first I thought this was going to big a huge FR on you saying hey to this random girl on the bus and then fb creeping. Was pleasantly surprised OP
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:47 PM
8

From my experience I concur. For girls sex usually tends to be more emotional and they appreciate knowing more about who they just banged
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:38 PM
2

Second this. I've only kicked girls out if I have somewhere to be after and they can't stay. But i'll tell them before we do the dirty so she isn't feeling used. Courtesy man.
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:35 PM
2

I think most of this post is garbage and doesn't belong here. This isn't really seduction related. The only useful part here is how you frame the relationship. If you don't frame it sexually it won't be sexual.
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:32 PM
2

Nope. Just your standard white boy dance moves you'd see at a bar/club. Confidence is key. If you give zero fucks how bad you dance it and just own it, it works. Looks a lot better than the guy that doesn't know how to dance but is trying way too hard to fit in
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:07 PM
1

http://www.diamondbackonline.com/mobile/2.2795/city-cuddler-assaults-two-women-1.282385
/r/seduction07/08/12 01:15 PM
2

Using DP for dance party is a nice trick I use. Always throws people for a loop. "You ready for the DP?"
/r/seduction07/08/12 01:04 PM
1

She was distant and unreceptive during most of the interaction. I made some comment about how I liked her dress but I remember I phrased it super awkwardly. I think that put me in the hole haha.
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:30 PM
1

Yes basically, read about it on the side bar
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:37 PM
2

Thanks, was planning on wearing glitter but I think I read into it too much and was afraid it was some sort of shit test haha
/r/seduction05/08/12 12:51 AM
20

Jesus OP. Your friend wins wingman of the year
/r/seduction03/08/12 05:21 PM
14

Definitely always wrap it up. I wouldn't go down on strangers ever. Look for std symptoms or weird smells. But honestly, asking is the second smartest thing to do. The first is to not bang randos, but let's be real, that's not going to happen
/r/seduction03/08/12 01:06 AM
19

Respect OP. Real fucking bold, glad it paid off. Did you actually set a timer for your conversation on fb though?
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:09 PM
-1

Downvote. He didn't do anything wrong. He wasn't leading her on or giving false hope. His game was excellent. Not his fault if she chose to cheat
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:37 PM
2

Yes they are very basic principles. The thing is this book reminds you of all of them. Most people don't remember how important smiling is or how much people hate to be wrong. I think it's a great book to keep you welcoming and friendly. It can probably be summarized in a page total, but the book is a great read and the examples are nice to see.
/r/seduction28/07/12 10:09 PM
3

Not sure if you read a lot. But this book, moonwalking with einstein has, is about this journalist who learns to become really awesome at memorizing things. Think "the game " meets memory competions and such. Really great read. Not a step by step manual by any means, so it's like the game. Only I'm pretty sure it's all non fiction. Check it out. Not only would it help with names, but it'd give you a ton of impressive tricks once you get good at it.
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:40 PM
10

I agree 100% . You miss all of the shots you don't take. I love it when other guys laugh at my failed pick up attempts when they are too chicken shit to even try in the first place. Zero fucks given edit: zero ducks given.
/r/seduction27/07/12 05:39 PM
6

"Courage is not the absence of fear, rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear" Get after it men
/r/seduction27/07/12 05:21 PM
3

How is this a field report? This is just keyboard jockeying. At least the Okc posts are relevant because you meet up in person. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction25/07/12 04:10 PM
2

Hit me up if you want to go out in cp or dc anytime. I'm no expert but it always helps to be pushed
/r/seduction24/07/12 04:56 PM
1

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/r/seduction23/07/12 03:24 AM
1

I was trying to banter with them about their majors. They were comm or pol sci majors so I said something about them working as baristas at starbucks if they were lucky haha. I don't have any "games" in my arsenal yet, might be good to have at some point, but I feel like getting over AA and opening a ton of sets is my first priority. I need to figure out how to transition the conversation better after opening. Set 2 idk how well the triangle gaze would have worked, she was full of energy moving …
/r/seduction19/07/12 12:13 PM
1

Thanks that's a good tip
/r/seduction19/07/12 12:06 PM
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