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| 2 | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely menBut they didn't say you should lie to yourself, nor did they say "something about you." They said in your quote "something you did wrong" and they're entirely right that its not always something you did. It's not lying to yourself to accept that there are immutable things about yourself that will disqualify you in the eyes of many potential partners, in fact that's the opposite of lying to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 08:22 PM |
| 6 | A Swedish NGO released a dating manual aimed at lonely men"remember: If you don't get a response or get rejected, it doesn't have to be about you or something you did wrong" This objectively true and good advice tho, isn't it? Sometimes you can do everything right but she just finds you unnatractive for some random physical characteristic. It isn't gaslighting yourself to recognise that not everyone is going to like you and that its not always your fault or something you have control over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlI mean I've definitely talked to my friends and coworkers about the massive societal problems that will will be caused by the ever shifting age demographics resulting from birthrate collapse, but I'm a little autistic so maybe most men who worry about it are as you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do red pillers try to use the "force doctrine"?I can't show you that because we've never experienced a situation where every single male has died in any given society, and if that ever did happen it would be immediately overrun by surrounding societies with males. But we're discussing a hypothetical scenario wherein every male is going to disappear on a preset date, meaning there will be no men to fall back on. It doesn't matter if "modern women do anything but the work itself" whatever that means, because they WILL either do it, or they WIL… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:53 AM |
| -2 | Why do red pillers try to use the "force doctrine"?I don't think women are magically wonderful, I just recognize the fact that women are biologically more docile and empathetic than men. I would assume that leads to a more peaceful but less energetic and innovative society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Why do red pillers try to use the "force doctrine"?It's not fantasy that humans are the most adaptive species on the planet, women included. As I said, civilization would be nowhere near as inventive or vigorous as before, but the foundational aspects of industrial society can be upheld by relative simpletons. Whether or not women prefer to be electricians and construction workers and factory workers isn't really relevant; in my scenario their choice is either do those jobs or die in collapse. You're right that female intelligence creates nowher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Why do red pillers try to use the "force doctrine"?To say that women CAN'T maintain modern civilization is a bit of a stretch. If we were given like a 5 year warning that all the men were going to dissapear and women could somehow self reproduce only girls from then on out I'm certain they could make the transition fairly smoothly. It would probably be a much more peaceful global society, if less vigorous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenI agree but Schopenhauer wasn't "some nobody." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.Yeah I know exactly what you mean. Maybe it's just immaturity but I've always felt both drawn to and in a weird way deeply troubled/scared/repulsed by beauty and attraction, by the sort of primal and chaotic and arbitrary nature of it. Then again I'm a virgin, so maybe I just need to get laid and stop being so neurotic lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:00 AM |
| 11 | Women should compete for the Provider Position If they feel Men Have It Easier.I feel like you've put into words what I've felt for a long time, thank you. I've always felt uneasy with the ultra competitive vibes of the so called "sexual marketplace." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 10:13 PM |
| – | Some men never have a sexual primeI mean heroin is a better feeling chemical reaction than sex but I see your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:07 PM |
| 11 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.You're missing the point. You said that essentially introverted men are not attractive to women. Introverted women are attractive to men. Attraction leads to both "getting fucked" and loving LTRs. Therefore, introverted women get to be loved and lusted over while introverted men are disqualified from both those things for an innate personality characteristic. Eg. Introverted women get to be loved for what they are and introverted men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:45 PM |
| 18 | How a man interacts appears to be wayyyy more important to female arousal than how a woman interacts is to male arousal.Why are women not expected to be these things? Why are introverted women worthy of love but not introverted men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | We are going back to our uncivilized days in dating and it isn't great for societyI find it hard to believe that the vast majority of men were simply barred from sex and relationships by a small group of "chads" in early human society. Wouldn't this group of men easily have a monopoly of violence to simply group up, kill that "chad" and pair up with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Tinder and Instagram have the same results as PornWtf are you talking about? My friend group is mostly normie men and none of them think slapping and choking are normal parts of sex lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Dating is prostitution.I like to believe so. What's your take? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Dating is prostitution.It's a huge mass of rock and metal, in what way is it alive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Dating is prostitution.Inflicted? Cracka mother earth is an inanimate object, that's like saying I've been "inflicted" on a rock in the forest by stepping on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men use sex workers if their main goal is simply sex?Presumably because they get tested often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:31 PM |
| 6 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.Every possible economic system on the range from Anarchist to Communist to Capitalist requires a sustainable population rate. It's not an economic problem, it's a mathematical problem. If you have a sub replacement birth rate then each year the ratio of old to young become ever more skewed. I'm sure you can extrapolate that on you own and see why it's a big problem regardless of whether property is privately owned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:11 AM |
| 11 | We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates.I think you misunderstand. A lot of the people in this thread are misidentifying the problem. It isn't population declining - you're right that that's happened countless times throughout history and we're still here. The problem is demographic change, and that is unprecedented in history. We've never had a society where more than 50% of the people are elderly, that's just never happened before. The more skewed the age ratios become the harder and harder it becomes to sustain the economy as more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:04 AM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.What is the solution then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Men's strong impersonal attraction to women is more than just wanting sex.I guess so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Men's strong impersonal attraction to women is more than just wanting sex.What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Men's strong impersonal attraction to women is more than just wanting sex.Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:45 AM |
| 1 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostDamn. In that case idk, I'm just a 20yo with no dating experience so you should probably go looking elsewhere for advice. What I do know is that there are plenty of ugly women out there who also want love, so you're not hopeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Men's strong impersonal attraction to women is more than just wanting sex.Why not? We preserve all sorts of species, especially the intelligent ones. I don't see why aliens wouldn't do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Men's strong impersonal attraction to women is more than just wanting sex.Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostI'm curious what you look like then. Not to be rude but are you really ugly? Cause if so then yeah you'll probably have to stick to a long-term looks match for sex, or maybe some polycule or something. If you're of average attractiveness then there must be something else that you're doing wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:21 AM |
| 1 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostWhy don't you ask this guy to "train you in his arts" so to speak? It seems like you're already giving him more than a fair deal by letting stay at your house, this can be his way to repay you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:09 AM |
| 6 | Men's strong impersonal attraction to women is more than just wanting sex.It's not dumb, it's a biological drive to help preserve the species. We're a social animal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:06 AM |
| 2 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayWasn't the sex offender registry already public? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Our understanding of traditional gender roles is entirely based off 50s nostalgia"Men competed and died, women bore life" and "Let's rebuild TOGETHER" don't seem to mesh very well together imo. Men seem to be getting the much shorter stick. Besides, that framing is weird; you don't think women compete with other women, sometimes to an even larger extent than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Women are the privileged gender in the modern WestI think that OPs post is silly but to think that women were some bastion of rationality against the draft is revisionism. In fact, social pressure from women has always been a massive informal enforcement mechanism for the draft whenever it's been used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about being friendzoned mostly just find women boring and annoyingThis may be true for the majority of male/female friendships, but to claim it true for all would be a bit silly imo. There are very clearly cases of male/female friends who do not want sex. I'm friends with women who I don't want to have sex with, and who certainly don't want to have sex with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 09:26 PM |
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