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False AccusationCYKAblyaddd/r/MensRights10/09/20 12:30 PM
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DiscussionCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:38 PM
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Red Pill TheoryCYKAblyaddd/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 07:12 PM
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DiscussionCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:48 PM
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False AccusationCYKAblyaddd/r/MensRights12/09/20 05:55 PM
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CMVCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:47 AM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/ExRedPill30/10/20 09:23 AM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/ExRedPill12/07/20 08:00 PM
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Men's RightsCYKAblyaddd/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 02:56 PM
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CMVCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:33 AM
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Question For MenCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 07:25 AM
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Question For WomenCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:17 AM
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False AccusationCYKAblyaddd/r/MensRights10/09/20 12:22 PM
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Question For MenCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 10:56 PM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:49 AM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 09:25 PM
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DiscussionCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 02:19 AM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/MGTOW212/11/20 09:11 AM
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DiscussionCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 10:17 PM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 04:40 AM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/ExRedPill29/11/20 12:49 PM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/askTRP08/07/20 10:37 AM
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Question For MenCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 10:57 PM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 07:14 AM
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DiscussionCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:13 AM
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CYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:50 AM
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Hey really solid post. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 09:11 PM
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It’s the way it is now unfortunately
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 09:10 PM
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That’s exactly what happened to me. I made a post on the men’s rights sub and it got lots of popularity. My situation was exactly that. Was very stressful and all I can say is avoid university chicks until you’re done. It’s not worth the risk.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 09:10 PM
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Kurwa
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:18 PM
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“Never get high on your own supply”-ice cube 21 jump street
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:58 AM
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Agreed. So many girls sugar baby during college
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:58 PM
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Fax
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:57 PM
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These girls tend to leave their area and go seek these dudes. Some of them are class A fuck ups in the sense that if it weren’t for daddy’s money they’d be totally fucked in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:52 PM
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Lmfao solid answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 07:00 AM
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Do you have autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 06:03 AM
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That’s at pretty broad statement. Same can be said to us men. It’s a mutual transaction. Both people are looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:30 AM
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Are you a simp ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:19 AM
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To me, that sounds no different than dating an escort. I only date attractive girls who like me for me and not for gifts or money. Otherwise, she’s an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 05:12 AM
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I believe you. I don’t think anyone has been to Albania. Some of my Albanian friends fuck more than anyone I know because they have balls, balls is all they have because they have no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 01:05 AM
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Do you go to Columbia ? Just a random question here it’s off topic. Ibe applied to some private equity funds summer analyst positions in nyc, just wanna know if other ivys are finding that the recruiting has been slow due to covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:33 PM
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Spoils me, gets me nice dinners, and never have to pay for weed. Your relationship sounds extremely transactional, and something out of seeking arrangements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:00 PM
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So basically this dude has the Ivy League attire with some street in him. And id consider myself pretty attractive nice unsolicited self assured statement does it also come with an equinox membership?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:58 PM
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Do you live in Canada? There are dispensaries everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:54 PM
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Lmao exactly. I never heard anyone saying weed guy anymore like wrf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:16 PM
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I agree. I worked at Morgan Stanley during my sophomore year in their investment banking division. Hours were brutal. Moved onto another firm with a bit more balance it’s just a lot better. My friends at the firm were never interested in relationships. The pump and dump kinda bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:16 PM
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My ex’s best friend was like this this is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 05:55 PM
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False. Some of my friends working in finance made 40 grand in their 2 month internships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 07:00 AM
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These girls tend to be in Ivy League schools yet date these guys. I don’t get it...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:46 AM
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Lol nice edit. Can see you had a lot of energy to put in that post. And it’s because some people have standards on the type of jobs their SO has.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:40 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion but they did not take my degree from me. I am out of school for one year. I’m going back next fall.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 01:22 PM
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I was never going to be forced to admit guilt. Under the law, you have a choice to undergo a trial and have due process or take a plea deal. I chose going to trial.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 01:18 PM
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My view is sexual assault should not be handled within universities. They should hand it over to police and let them deal with it. It’s unreasonable to determine whether someone is guilty or innocent under the balance of probabilities.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 01:05 PM
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Yes she was. I had some empathy for her since it was very obvious she had some form of mental illness. I am not angry at her. I am mad at the school for not protecting me. And thanks, happy you enjoyed it. It was the hardest thing of my life to go through, but it’s finally over.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 12:57 PM
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I don’t disagree with what you’re saying. You’ve said some decent points and you’ve basically stated what op said in his post. I think what’s turning people off is your red pill terminology and degradation towards women as being lower than him. Other than that, I don’t disagree with you. You’re on the money.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/20 08:27 AM
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I feel you there. 22. Been in two relationships, and had many sexual partners but still have this problem. I feel like what red pill does is lure you in through fear and creating problems that you never really had before to make you believe in their beliefs. It’s really toxic.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/20 08:22 AM
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“What was the thing that caused my epiphany?” —massive heartbreak. Getting burned badly by a girl. How did I get out of this? I took accountability for my own actions and put myself out there again. I cut off bad friends, misogynists, red pillers, etc. Any guy who remotely said anything bad about women, I cut off. I think that helped with the detox. Edit: it’s not normal to be talking about women every single day. What these red pillers do and talk like is out of touch with reality.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/20 03:49 AM
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If you don’t have the confidence to view yourself as “instantly fuckable” or someone’s first option why should they not view you as a second option. Behave like you’re worth it. Believe that you’re worth it, and act on it. If you don’t believe in yourself, love yourself, and believe that you’re worth something; you’ll stay where you are.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/20 02:48 PM
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You gotta learn to love yourself.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/20 09:32 PM
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If she likes you you’ll know. She won’t be cold. You won’t need to put up with so called “tests”. She will invite you into her life.
/r/seduction07/08/20 10:38 AM
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You’ll find yourself self destructing healthy relationships for the sake of being “alpha”. It’s not worth it. Don’t get into it unless you want to be alone.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 05:05 PM
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lmao this. As soon as I was presented with red pill by an ex friend I knew that there was obsession. They’re all losers.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/20 02:24 PM
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Basically
/r/ExRedPill21/07/20 06:25 AM
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I don’t view sex workers as sluts. It’s a necessary service, and history has demonstrated that. It’s the oldest profession. Imo it should be legalized and regulated. I have a very liberal perspective towards it. I just would never date a sex worker. Mostly because my relationships are often built upon shared interests, and upbringings. I don’t know what I would have in common with a sex worker. The same could be said with a woman who works in the music industry, or arts.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 07:35 PM
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I don’t think I’m the right person to ask. I have a degree and planning on going for another one (masters) to amplify my career opportunities. So my expectations are based on my own values and personal achievements. I just want someone on the same level as myself. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 07:03 PM
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As I said before it’s my personal values. I have a standard that the girl i date has a professional job that is similar to mine. If it’s sounds elitist I get it, but it’s just my standard.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 06:57 PM
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It personally has to do with values nothing more. For example, I wouldn’t ever resort to drug dealing if I needed money, so I would place that same standard on a partner.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 06:34 PM
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Personally it would be the thought process, and judgment behind their thinking to go work in that industry. Not the actual work itself, but more so with their judgment.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 06:23 PM
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This is borderline autistic. Go out and behave in the real world it doesn’t work like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:37 PM
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People who are well spoken, educated, and classy. Anything they can ‘look up to’ really. That’s a subconscious level attraction that they often have.
/r/seduction18/07/20 03:55 PM
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Hahahaha you’re not wrong
/r/ExRedPill18/07/20 12:12 PM
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Damn who hurt you 😂
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 03:21 PM
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I’ve thought about that yes. Alpha women are tolerable as my mom is kinda like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:02 AM
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Yeah thanks for not being the one to quickly call me an asshole like some people in the comments. I have been dealing with some things that have caused my avoidance attachment style towards women. It seems like you are doing a good job at taking accountability and acknowledging your own ways to improve. I wish you nothing but the best. Keep moving forward and don’t look behind. Thanks again.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 05:45 AM
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I became more avoidant after I was burned. Before, I was somewhere between secure and anxious. But after getting burned so badly I began to suppress my emotions as a defense mechanism. Eventually I’d like to become more secure and have a healthier relationship. But right now I’m still somewhat finding myself and recovering. I’m in an a lot better place than where I was before and I’ve chosen to stay out of relationships to help me get to that secure attachment style.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 05:25 AM
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I’m sure she is, and that’s why he’s being a complete dumbass.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 03:57 PM
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I like the points you’ve made. They focus on accountability and taking ownership; excluding the negatives that red pill provides.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 03:54 PM
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For some reason these are all the girls I attract. I straight up telL them I’m toxic but they say noo I can fix you and help you blah blah blah. These girls are just really insecure, and delusional. They have some growing up to do and guys like me need therapy lol.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 08:15 AM
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This guy sounds slow. I wouldn’t be too hard on him. Probably from a well off family and just doesn’t get it, so the girl sees him as an easy target to take advantage of. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 08:13 AM
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Yeah that’s why I said to her ‘I don’t get it why you’d want a toxic asshole like me to commit to you’ lol.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 07:50 AM
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You ain’t wrong chief. We’re all clowns who don’t wanna just say hey I dealt with a dick, but hey doesn’t mean I wanna be a dick head to others.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 07:21 AM
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I just made an edit, I tend to attract girls with daddy issues as my mom has some growing up, even though her parents were never split. But yeah I agree we are all in the same boat. We gotta take accountability and work on ourselves which I’ve been doing for over a year.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 05:39 AM
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I have bad problems with my dad. My relationship with my mom though is great. With my dad, him and I are decent when we’re not always interacting with each other but we have gotten into scraps that have lead to physical altercations, and a huge arguments but we have gotten a bit better. I’m 21 and I have heard that it’s common for men to have some difficulty connecting with their dads. We although do connect over business and help each other as I’m studying a simile field as him. Some context he…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 05:36 AM
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I behaved the same with girls without daddy issues. It’s just my attachment style. So I didn’t actively abuse it. I think she was probably more vulnerable than the rest.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 05:21 AM
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Yeah, Idk if I’ve mentioned but the degree of being burned by my previous ex put me into therapy for over a year. It burned me. So it was hard to know how she felt bc I myself was terrified of remotely feeling a thing for a woman again. That’s where I’m coming from.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 05:19 AM
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Yeah I agree with you. She may have wanted commitment from me, but it is also worth mentioning that she has daddy issues, and unfortunately I attract a ton of girls with those issues. Idk if you already know but usually girls with daddy issues end up desiring guys who are emotionally unavailable, so they They end up desiring me because I have a dismissive attachment style; while they’re anxious, needy, and clingy. So that could be part of it, which was why I was dismissive with her in the beginn…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 05:10 AM
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Based bro
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 12:29 AM
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Yeah that is true. Good points you’ve made here.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 10:04 PM
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I guess there has gotta be a certain balance.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 07:25 PM
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And by the way great response.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 07:25 PM
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What about someone who’s taken accountability for your failures? Like myself. I know I lost framed and did some things to make her lose attraction for me. I’ve worked on them and and taken the time to acknowledge them. Yes I agree RP kinda blames women for everything. Men are just as hypergamous. It’s just easier for an attractive girl to be exposed to it if she’s getting a lot of dms.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 07:12 PM
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Probably the best response and most relatable I’ve gotten. Thank you for putting the time to write this. The toxic femininity—ultra feminine girl was the one I got burned by. It was horrible.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 07:49 AM
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I’ve dated Russian girls and can confirm. You need to be a real man with them and very aggressive. Slip up and you’re fucked. They’ll rip you a new asshole. As my father would say it russian women are like barracudas. Man eaters. They’ve been trained to attract men and know how to press buttons our buttons. They want a beta to manipulate and use and tuck a vlad. They’re no joke. Imo you need to be a lot tougher and more experienced to deal with them.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 06:31 AM
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Can totally relate with this. I’ve learned my lesson from asking before, as it just completely fucks up your ability to have a healthy connection because you’re always trying to catch her in a lie. It’s better just listen and allow her to slip and if she does assume that she’s hiding way more, and then demote to plate. This guy is obviously a noob and probably LTr’d her after a week of knowing her. He should’ve plated her first and then LTR’d her after he’s seen all of her.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 10:59 PM
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Yeah you’re right. I just meant that my preference should be accepted as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:51 PM
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That does sound like insecurity. It’s just sex. They’re with you now it doesn’t matter. If my girlfriend had a higher N count I wouldn’t care because she’s with me now. I’m with her for personality and love, not because she has a low n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:13 PM
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I’m a business student and I’m working towards a a career in private equity. So no I didn’t just party...I have my goals in mind. I am no model or anything, but in college the younger generations are in encouraging promiscuity. So 18 body count may seem like a lot to you but there are tons of men and women who have a higher count at school. I think it’s common and should be accepted that men and women should have their fun and experience sexually before they settle down so they’ve gotten it out …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:08 PM
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Yeah; she manipulated me, gaslighted me, and used me at that time. Really difficult break up on my end. The other girls after def suffered bc I got cold but yeah I do agree it’s a nice idea
/r/ExRedPill13/07/20 01:01 AM
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She also kinda burned me which lead to my behavior in TRP. So it wasn’t like I did much wrong. I was manipulated and burned from her.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/20 12:57 AM
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With this ex it’s a little more complicated. We both said terrible things that I don’t think we can come back from. It was very passionate but idk if it’s even worth it bc even when I tried to reach out it ended badly.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/20 12:53 AM
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Think so?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/20 12:46 AM
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Everyone has their personality flaws. I’m certainly not the perfect cookie there. Wishing you the best as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:56 PM
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Yeah not gonna “forgive” you as it sounds like you’re asking for a pass to be rude. I’m happy things have worked out for you and your husband. That’s something that I’m looking for. My fears are clearly valid as shown from some of the responses in the comments. As I’ve stated that I am seeking for genuine love and connection, and methods to avoid attracting the opposite of that, so your comments are more ridiculing than helpful. I value the hard work that my immigrant parents have gone through t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:00 PM
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Just out of curiosity, why does it sound off putting to be 21 and sleeping with 18 girls? It happens to a lot of men throughout college?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:20 AM
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καταλαβαίνεις καλά
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:51 AM
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New
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:22 AM
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There is one main distinction. Psychopaths are born that way. Sociopaths are bread from their environments. Hence why he’s aspiring to become one. It’s impossible to become a ‘psychopath’ if you’re not genetically wired that way. Source: psychology 101 from university.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:22 AM
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Ah i see that makes sense. Yeah I agree. I mean you’re gonna get your piece of cake at some point that is a very good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:16 AM
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Wait so you’re a gold digger now because you’re married? Secondly the watch I have isn’t a submariner gold plated watch. It looks nice and isn’t too flashy. Yes it’s a Rolex but you’d have to look to see what kind of watch it is. That being said yeah finance is like that, but I mean in your case being a “former non gold digger” still trying to figure out what that means. Does that mean you’re a gold digger now? Wouldn’t it be more attractive for you to date a finance guy? Just trying to put the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 10:12 AM
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Very sorry to hear that. Hopefully things have become better for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:32 AM
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I respect that. Happy to see that you’re a genuine person who has standards for yourself. Glad to see that people like that exist and don’t limit them for money. Keep being you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:24 AM
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Good on you for not allowing yourself to be put in a bad position again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:22 AM
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That is high in Canada. Unfortunately communist Canada likes to tax you 54% when you reach that much. But other than that. You’re doing very very well in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:13 AM
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Both married Russian women? Oh lord. Poor guys. Feel so sorry for them. So bad for them. When you marry a russian girl they become so demanding and controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:10 AM
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Bratan, it’s because I don’t want to get divorce raped and to seek advice you must be honest. I’ve dated gold diggers who were krasivayas but screwed me. Seeking advice here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:06 AM
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Lmfso russian, ukranian, and Belarusian women. They’re all trained gold diggers man. Trained, and don’t blame them. Their countries are politically corrupt, with tons of oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:06 AM
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And yes it did make the sex better. It unfortunately felt like I was dating a personal pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:04 AM
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I’m not from the USA, Canada. I’ve dated Russian women before and I can honestly say that I haven’t had a positive experience with them. I don’t like to racially stereotype, but they’re very materialistic and value looking wealthy rather than having money in the bank. Never thought about that with Germans as it is an economic powerhouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:01 AM
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Spotting a gold digger isn’t as hard as you think it is. It’s kinda like how a hot chick hears from a man “I’m not in it just for the sex” and their eyes just roll after. It becomes second nature when u get burned enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:55 AM
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When you say eastern hemisphere do you mean Eastern Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:53 AM
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I don’t really wear a lot of flashy clothing it’s just not my taste. I like things understated that’s just me though so being flashy ain’t the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:53 AM
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Holy shit everyone relax. Don’t call the girl a whore bro she just stated her thoughts, and no I’m not a beta bux, whatever that is. There are dudes out there who will marry a rich girl just to fuck her family out of money during divorce, what do we call her, a beta bux girl? I didn’t intend for this to become toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:49 AM
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Great point. Never thought of that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:46 AM
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I’ll try that, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:45 AM
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You’re not wrong at all on this. But the problem is I’ve already done this, scroll down and you’ll see and it ended badly. I don’t wanna date a girl who feels the need to act in such a submissive manor just because she’s attracted to wealth. That’s not genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:42 AM
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Ya exactly. I’m not gonna go to a poorer neighborhood to date someone just because that’s how hypergamy works. I’m not gonna date a hair dresser because that’s how hypergamy works. I wouldn’t have anything in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:41 AM
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I was also 16 when I cheated. People change. I never cheated again after.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:42 AM
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It was very easy for me to say the least. Looked at friend group, they were all gold diggers, and very bait about it(sugar daddy sites etc), looked at how her mom raised her(huge emphasis on making her look more beautiful”make your boobs show more” would be something she said to her), and she would tell me that russian girls were gold diggers but whores for their man. It was easy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:32 AM
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Fucked her on the second date and it got better as her hopes in her head believed that I was going to buy her stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:55 AM
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I agree with everything you’ve said but what do you mean by rich people don’t have game?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:20 AM
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I wear a Rolex gmt master II red and Pepsi dial, will that be a problem? It’s not a gold submariner but yeah. Also I tend to blend in because I mostly hang out with my friends who work in banking at the moment. The problem is when I’m downtown in a suit and tie. It’s easy to attract them at certain restaurants when I’m out with the partners and what not. Also sir you seem like you understand what I’m dealing with hence you feeling worried for your son. Could we speak over the messager?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:41 AM
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Well how would you feel if you felt afraid to bring a girl over to your house bc the first thing she says is how big and nice it is. You feel inherently afraid to attract disingenuous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:28 AM
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Yes someone understands. My previous ex was a very hot russian girl but my parents were terrified because she was a gold digger. My dad would say things like don’t date russian girls they’re trained gold diggers etc. She did everything to make me happy but when we ended I realized she was just in it for the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:12 AM
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I think if you’re a wealthy guy and going to poorer Neighbourhoods to get laid it really says something about you. Insecure comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:24 AM
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I have found that one of my last girlfriends was more forgiving when I cheated. I don’t now if having money had anything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 12:22 AM
4

Such a great answer. You’ve touched up on everything wrong with these rpillers. All they do is talk about women. Women are the focus of their lives. They will sometimes talk about self improvement to make it seem like women aren’t the main focus but in actuality they are. These guys are honestly losers. All of them. Not to say that some of what they say isn’t correct but if all they do is talk about women all day it’s clear theie priorities aren’t predominantly on “self improvement” as they say …
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 04:18 PM
1

Take control of your life and just stop talking to her. Simple.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:37 AM
2

Agreed. A lot of these red pillers kinda put it on a pedestal meanwhile it’s just common knowledge.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 10:12 PM
2

If you weren’t leading her on then you didn’t do anything wrong. If you were honest with your intentions then it’s fine. It doesn’t sound like you needed to make a post about this. It’s common sense bud. You were honest about what you wanted and she didn’t like it so she got emotional. What’s there to talk about?
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:28 PM
1

That’s exactly what happened to him. He was a lonely sucker, vulnerable, and went through a ton of shit. Unfortunately that red pill group changed him and he’s not a nice person to be around anymore, so I had to cut him off.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 07:38 PM
13

That if a girl cheats on you it’s not “female nature” or because you weren’t “high value enough”. It’s because that girl is trash and a cheater. They normalize cheating as “female nature” when there are girls out there that don’t do that.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 06:07 PM
2

Anyone else know the signs for them? For me I’ve noticed that they rush things right away and want you right away(marriage, relationship etc).
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:31 AM
1

This is a great answer
/r/ExRedPill04/07/20 09:21 PM
1

She cooked for me, cleaned for me, spent money on me, travelled for me, did absolutely everything for me and it made me fall for her. I used everything she did to look past those same lies and little hoe tendencies that she did(in the past and the present) and that’s what eventually got me burned. I’m not saying don’t be forgiving and look past that the past but if she is still lying to you in the present you’ll get burned. It took me a year tops to get over that relationship, and I wish I looke…
/r/askTRP04/07/20 09:20 PM
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Im sorry if that offended you. You’re right it is not right to use that. I’ll find a better way to describe him.
/r/ExRedPill04/07/20 09:17 PM
1

Look up BPD. She sounds like she fits the picture.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 02:53 PM
1

I had a girl exactly like this in the past. Cooked for me, spent money on me, cleaned for me, etc. Got burned still.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:29 AM
1

Well said.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:41 AM
1

This. Vet the girl out. Why is she already your gf. Too soon wtf is wrong with you man. Also, lying is break up worthy. You already know what you’re gonna be dealing with later so why deal w her now? Be a man and get rid of her. Jeez you’re already developing oneitis.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:40 AM
1

It’s not a compliment so if you think it is it isn’t. When they say psychopath they’re not saying you’re charming and good with people, they’re saying you’re bat shit crazy.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:36 AM
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It’s very easy to tell. Just by how they talk, especially to their friends. My way of sniffing them out is checking to see if their personality drastically changes around her friends. If she acts like she’s single with her friends, she’s a hoe. If her personality is consistent with you along with her friends then she’s a bit more trustworthy. Think about it, if she has a frame around you that she doesn’t show her friends she has a lot to hide. If she is the same person that she shows with her fr…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:29 AM
1

People aren’t really like that though. People make up their minds when they lose interest, can’t do much about it. This is too black and white. If she’s ghosting you she doesn’t like you. She isn’t gonna come back bc you’re pulling back.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 08:22 AM
1

Money
/r/seduction03/07/20 08:19 AM
2

I usually just wait and let the women chase me so she can see me as the highest value. But I need to do better on being assertive over text. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:00 AM
1

What are some examples of leadership and being assertive with women over text without being needy?
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:58 AM
1

I am not bullshitting here. I am here for feedback. Most of the time, I just let girls come to me. I dont chase, and most of the time never put in effort. About 80% of the girls I’ve hooked up with chased me. But I always fuck up during the relationship from being beta. I am in school, I am doing an internship, working out, on my mission etc, but I still feel like I need to improve. My last relationship really brought me down since i was dumped for the first time in my life. I thought I was bein…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:55 AM
6

This. Rp’ers are just jaded dudes who suppress their emotions on a daily but in reality find themselves in the same situation as their beta days. They just don’t care so they don’t feel anything. They haven’t actually improved.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/20 05:07 PM
1

nice guys are guys who are not really nice but act nice to get something. This does not just pertain to sex, this could be getting a job interview from a mutual friend, etc. I think they should really be called users, manipulateurs, and disingenuous. Nice people are people who are kind and nice to you without expectations. They don’t expect you to reciprocate because to them being kind and nice is about being a good person. These people work on themselves and believe that you should be a nice pe…
/r/seduction30/06/20 11:44 PM
1

Not into blue pill, purple pill or red pill crap because it just sounds inherently made for autistic people, but you just torched TRP a new one nice XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 08:25 AM
1

That’s not trp, If she’s not showing effort to meet up why should he keep carrying the relationship?
/r/ExRedPill28/06/20 05:50 PM
3

That sounds really autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 06:17 AM
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Not at all, I think you shouldn’t of responded though. Trust your gut. She was trying to string you along and you caught onto her game. Don’t msg if she tries anything, even if she tries to get you to meet up don’t fall in bc she’ll just find an excuse. For her it’s about validation, and unfortunately you just gave it to her again.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/20 06:43 AM
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Hahah I’m not sure. For me it was a couple of days ago when I for high and realized that I had to take personal accountability for my failed relationships. depends how long you guys ended, and how long he’s already been talking about this. I’d say he’s probably been burned by a girl in his past and is still raging against women due to his hurt. Give it a year tops and he’ll forget about it.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 11:43 PM
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I know someone similar like this. My best friend from high school. This dude was spitting out red pill facts on a daily. Cc and a bunch of other bs. Couldn’t handle it and told him that what he was saying made him sound insane. Straight up said it made him sound autistic. Wouldn’t listen to me, and wouldn’t listen to anyone. Right now he’s in his own world and brainwashed by that cult, and won’t listen to anyone but those incels was who spend 8 hours a day on reddit. Your best bet is to let him …
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 11:41 PM
1

How it starts is how it’ll end. She’ll do the exact same thing to you when things go bad.
/r/seduction19/06/20 03:00 AM
1

I don’t think this is just girls I think it’s everyone. Getting dumped kinda inflates your existing insecurities so it’s kinda an ego smash all it once which confuses the girl and makes her look at you from the lens of a bruised ego. It’s not real though. It fizzled out. you’re guy for not letting it drag on longer than it should. Side note, it does sound like you’re coming off a little vindictive here, like you feel a bit proud that you ended it on your terms before she did. Yeah I get it, it m…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:05 PM
2

No, I’ve met some pretty hot feminists in college. It probably has to do with the west and the education that they’ve been taught under.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:22 PM
11

Been in an experience like this before and it doesn’t end well. She’s probably a little immature and insecure so is gravitating to you because of the attention you’re giving her. Tell her that you want to take things slow.
/r/seduction03/05/20 07:52 AM
2

Dishonesty is the problem not the count. If she’s honest about and direct idc. If she’s lying and trying to play herself as some good girl imma next her quicker than I met her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:53 PM
1

Piece of advice on how to make men happy. Be honest. Don’t lie about your past. Set it straight on day one. Be honest about how you feel and articulate that. We’ll be very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:05 PM
1

The indicators are not usually physical but it’s more of the vibe that she gives off, her friend group and what they’re doing. The friend group is the key indicator though. “Show me your friends and I'll show you your future.”-Aristotle
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:36 PM
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They’re equally as bad(male here). Why would a trad girl tolerate this if you wouldn’t even tolerate this yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:33 PM
3

This... pls keep this up. This is the perspective coming from every high value male I know. Thanks brother for speaking what everyone is thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:31 PM
1

I’m not says my I would be shocked about my future wife’s n count. Quite frankly I wouldnt care at all. I would only care if she lied. Why? Because lying is lying, and I don’t like being lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:07 PM
1

You’re not really understanding the point that it’s kind awkard to flat out reject a classmate, especially when you wither spend a whole year with them or a semester with them. People want to avoid bad energy.
/r/seduction14/02/20 04:09 AM
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Tbh I get that vibe as well. It seems like he didn’t go into details about how the conversation went with her(if he even had one at all). So yeah OP will obviously learn, but can’t really roast him bc as a beginner I did the same thing when I was learning.
/r/seduction13/02/20 10:14 PM
1

That type of girl will clearly be ever change. She’s passive aggressive, doesn’t like confrontation. Not op’s fault as she lead him on. But what I’m saying is he could’ve avoided being let down by reading her body language.
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:30 PM
0

Maybe op should learn to read social interactions better so he’ll know what to expect out of her??
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:24 PM
1

The biggest way to save time is to hear the girls mood before perusing. Does she look happy. Does she look pissed off? Does she have inviting posture? Like these things also matter.
/r/seduction13/02/20 07:30 PM
1

The biggest way to save time is to hear the girls mood before perusing. Does she look happy. Does she look pissed off? Does she have inviting posture? Like these things also matter.
/r/seduction13/02/20 07:30 PM
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Exactly. When interacting with girls it’s best to believe only their actions and none of what they say to you. They could say they like you and wanna hang out but then ghost you. If they want to hang out they’ll make an initiative. If they want to have sex with you they’ll come to you for it. Seriously they will. If they wanna be in a relationship with you they’ll bring up the idea of commitment. List goes on... from every successful experience I’ve had with girls, they didn’t even tell me they …
/r/seduction13/02/20 02:45 PM
1

That guy was me. I had 9 before I turned 20 and then another 9 before I turned 21. And I didn’t say women don’t. I said they most likely have the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:36 PM
1

Are we talking male or female here? When I said 15 that was pertaining to males. Females? I wouldn’t know. But I’d say If the men at this school are getting that many girls, then they must be participating in this to help them with that n count... And as for the majority yeah I can see that. It depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:24 PM
1

Alright. This isn’t my school but it’s identical. Look up Laurier University or University of Western Ontario, and search for their parties on google. That will help you understand where I’m coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:18 PM
1

Look it’s obviously different when you go to a school in nyc vs going to a school like Ohio state. Each school has a culture there. Some schools have hook up culture, and mine is just that. There are guys who look like the biggest incels getting laid often. People just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:13 PM
1

Well like you said I’m just taking my sample size from my university plus friend group. My university is considered like the ASU of Canada if that gives you some perspective. And I’m also turning 22 so I’m at an age where a lot of this stuff kinda happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:08 PM
1

And to be honest Canadians are very liberated when it comes to sex. Girls rack up like 6-8 guys on average in the first year of college and by second year they usually have close to 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:46 PM
1

When I say N count I mean hook ups. I’ve only had 3 girlfriends(monogamous relationships). Is that what you’re pertaining to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:45 PM
1

Are you serious? I’m shook rn. Where I go to school If you don’t have atleast 15 by junior year as a man you’re considered a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:31 PM
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No no no you gotta it all wrong. Show them interest. It’s just that you gotta learn when you should back off if things aren’t going well. If you’re feeling like you’re a creep around her that’s a cue to back off. But if you feel like she’s actively reciprocating you and making you feel “wanted” then it’s all good. You can't force someone to be into you. They either are or they're not. And when they are you will know.
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:29 PM
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Exactly. Put yourselves in their shoes for once. Women are subconsciously afraid that men will beat them or get angry at them. Just like how you, a man, is subconsciously afraid of rejection and being laughed at. Think about it.
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:21 PM
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A girl who is afraid of confrontation, and can’t speak up for herself. Yes they exist, and when you get better with females you learn that when a girl likes you it doesn’t take too much effort to get with them because she will reciprocate and flirt back with you, which will thus make you feel more confortable in her presence.
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:12 PM
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He walked in with the mindset that he was going to be rejected anyways, so he asked her out. It’s better walk in knowing that you’re gonna get the girl rather than just doing it bc you know you’re going to fail anyways.
/r/seduction13/02/20 12:39 PM
1

The only guys who even talk about carousel rides are the ones that don’t attract girls. Go ask any normal man at a local college or university about red pill purple pill, carousel rides and he wouldn’t know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:55 AM
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Girls are not confrontational beings. Their body language and actions will let you know if they’re interested. I’d say reflect on how she behaved around you, and ask yourself if she was really interested in you. You’ll be a lot more successful with girls if you give girls who are interested in you a chance. That way you can learn to read girls better! Edit here: since women let you know that they’re interested and care through actions and behaviour they expect the same as you, hence why they get…
/r/seduction13/02/20 11:40 AM
1

Wow I’m actually really shocked. I go to a Canadian university where this stuff is super common. Average male at this school has around 15 N before 20 years old. I’m really surprised by your response honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:19 AM
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Male perspective here. Let’s try and rationalize both sides here. For starters, I do agree with what you’re saying. The “man’s” perspective, and I put man in quotes because the men you describe are ones I usually don’t become friends with. They’re usually the ones who have struggled to get women, probably have a notch count of around 1-5 in total. Probably attune themselves to the trad culture because of their limited options. It’s easier to live like a victim and resort to red pill than work on…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 06:37 PM
2

Yea the men who judge women are usually the ones who have had difficulty getting laid, and don’t want to feel inferior to their partners...pathetic. I’m a guy and judging girls for their N count is just insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:23 AM
1

Been the victim of this. It sucks but an experience w/e.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:56 AM
1

I’ve been with 18 girls and I’ve told every partner exactly this. Is it the answer they really wanna hear? Fuck no. Are they entitled to leave because they don’t like my past? Yeah they are. Its better to be honest than hide who you really are. I fucked around, and I did what I did. That doesn’t make me less of a person. Nor does it make females less of a person. It’s just the lying about it makes you look bad...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:04 AM
1

They’re just scumbags then. Regardless of gender lying to someone and misleading them makes you a scumbag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:01 AM
2

Tbh with you I agree with this. At the end of the day a woman who was manipulated, or lead on shouldn’t be called a whore or whatever for fucking that guy. Id feel bad for her. I guess what people are mostly mad about is the lying, and the deception that comes with the N count. A past ex has told me that she slept with 14 guys. Not the answer I obviously wanted to hear, but I respected the fuck out of her for being honest with me. I didn’t care. Broke up over other reasons, but point is no one l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:29 AM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:11 AM
2

Hey, I obviously knew that. However, but since you wanna completely dodge what I’ve said through devaluing my point due to a small grammar error(which many people do on a daily when typing) it really seems like I’ve made a clear point here...thanks for verifying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:52 PM
1

Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:47 PM
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I’m 21 and had around 18 girls in my life. Unless you’re going out with losers, or inexperienced men, any rational guy like myself would read you like a book. Girls think that as long as the guy isn’t asking about your N count, or thinks that your friends aren’t hoes he thinks that you’re a saint. No. We’re fooling you at your own game. Our intuition never lies. I’ve met girls from good family’s, and try to do exactly what you’re doing. A high value guy is not stupid. A low value man will buy th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:47 PM
1

Good point. I dated an alpha women, as what I’d say an alpha male and tbh it didn’t work out. Our personalities clashed a lot. Opposites attract imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:34 PM
2

Most guys? I’m in university/college and most of my friends are at 20 N count at 20. I’m turning 22 and I’m at 18 rn..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:40 AM
1

I have sex with on average 6 girls a year. You’re projecting...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:36 AM
2

That’s a very good perspective here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:27 AM
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