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I like being a giving partner. If that will get her off I will do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:52 AM
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I’ll do it, but I’m not having it done too me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:49 AM
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hey beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:29 AM
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I took a reddit post for me to figure out what was wrong. My sight in when shooting guns were always shit because it was blurry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:16 AM
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I just cant see very well, the lights turn into halos and drown out everything else. Need to get my eyes fixed!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:07 AM
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Nope, astigmatism! Raining at night? shit gets rough!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:50 AM
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The two huskies are like kids, does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:45 AM
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Lemme finish this level, then we can talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:37 AM
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not gay if you wear socks and dont make eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:27 AM
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I haven’t gotten a bottle in a while, been drinking Glendale for a little while. It’s rare for me to enjoy alcohol cause it just feels weird doing it at home alone haha. We have a few places around me that have a good selection, thanks Texas. I’ll go find something nice for next weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:00 AM
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Scotch man here too!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:48 AM
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I have a few but I haven’t shot in a little while. Prior military grew up in the sticks too. 2 pistols, my carry is an xDE and I have an XDM/OSP and an ar-15. Ammo is dummy expensive but I just buy some every couple weeks and don’t shoot any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:21 AM
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I’ve been with a few so I don’t mind it. Yes, odorless, but there is pee in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:54 PM
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You mean like a squirter?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:40 PM
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head game stronk. Or they can cook or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:34 AM
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My goodness, you are deluded into thinking women are just lining up to suck cocks. I'm fucking 35 dude, Maybe when you grow out of your woman hating stage you will understand what RP really is for and how it works. Please dont stay a lost soul for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:08 AM
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If an ex called you, hammered drunk…and asked if they could come over cause she was at a bar right up the road…would you let them, or tell them to take that Uber home instead This is an ex on good terms, just wanted different things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:29 AM
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Nope! I even left the call to go to the gym and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:03 AM
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she didn't put mine up there, I had already submitted to her before, but the numbers needed to be even!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:00 AM
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that you gonna be the girl the dudes cheat on their GFs with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:03 AM
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freeze some swimmers, get a vasectomy!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:28 AM
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I'm not a chad, and the last 3 out of 4 didn't ask, didnt confirm, one told me I didn't need one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:28 AM
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I can actually agree, lotta women are cool with raw; even hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:24 AM
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sounds appropriate amount of crazy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:23 AM
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ugh, thats kinda a bad thing here, since constitutional carry is a thing. any numb nuts could shoot somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:23 AM
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I want to go out, take the motorcycle cause its a warm night, but I know the drunkies will be out and try to murder me on my way home.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:58 AM
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No it simply has to be because there is so much more a wife brings! (Tax breaks?)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:56 AM
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Oh don’t worry, some of us men don’t want the women either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:50 AM
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Liar! You’ve never even been to Waco!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:49 AM
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Grooming dressing and going to the gym is how you become sexy. If you are in shape, get clothes that show off your muscles. I.e. looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:52 PM
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Looking good makes you gay now? Grooming habits are a great addition to any man, regardless of sexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:16 PM
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That you are a troll? OK, but not sure what that will accomplish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:02 PM
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Oh, a troll. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:59 PM
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Lol Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:04 PM
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Absolutely. I’ve never hidden my intentions. It backfires sometimes, but I was stil appreciated for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:08 AM
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You might need to up your game somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:55 AM
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Rejection is part of the game. I get rejected a lot too, I just don’t let it bug me and move on. Providing for YOUR woman doesn’t make you a beta or simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:18 AM
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Cost to benefit I suppose. It’s $3 to press each one. Takes me 20 minutes or so for each shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:53 AM
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Ironing she be a norm for most dudes, looking sharp is sexy as fuck...thats why doing it makes you stand out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:28 AM
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The things I do to look sexy. I hate ironing >_>. Time to start just dropping my shirts off at a dry cleaner!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:01 AM
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? You can still feel pleasure and enjoy sex being cut lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:47 AM
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similar story, but was more about taking a girl to cancun. I was like hey, I am going to cancun, if you want to go I will pay for it...but you are mine when you go. She was like 'sure!' and giggled, so I thought she was kidding. She got PISSED I went without her. Straight thought she was joking, but then I was the asshole lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:23 AM
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Getting a steady stream of pussy also helps cure the desperation. I know that even if the one girl tells me no, I can probably call somebody and fill that gap if I really need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:20 AM
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i always wanna play with them, but get in trouble. I date black women a lot and...most dont like it when you touch their hair :( Latinas with perms GO OFF.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:19 AM
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feeling loved is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:18 AM
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sir, I am child free. KILL BABIES I mean, uh....babies are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:16 AM
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Def. The chad dick wasn't enough to get over her guilt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:15 AM
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Wavy long hair is amazing. I love curls, like so so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:15 AM
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B. Cause its travel size. Signals they have it with them a lot. Or at least a flask to fill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:14 AM
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Confidence, honesty and the ability to flirt. Plus like, not giving a fuck if I do get my dick wet or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:24 AM
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No haircut :(. Shoulda done that first. Two new dress shirts, a new silver watch, some new sneakers a pair of blue jeans and a new vest. Not bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:38 PM
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That’s when I usually go. Don’t have competition for the weights or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:02 PM
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thats what we call a pro gamer move But also kinda fucked up haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:36 PM
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I got my prison shank, lets do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:30 PM
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Its a counter to 'believe all women'. Pretty simple, I explained why too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:29 PM
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no it means bob is a bad friend who doesnt like pizza?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:27 PM
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The issue with 'believe all women' is you fucking CASTRATE the man with no evidence other than her word before hes even been convicted. Until the trial is completed, dude is innocent. Same with women that go to trial for anything, shes innocent until convicted. Isn't that like a core tenant of crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:26 PM
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Personal opinion and hot take; Unnatural colors are rarely taken care of properly. They fade super fast, or don't really turn out the color hoped for. Plus like I've never met a woman with bright green hair that wasn't a man hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:23 PM
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everybody has a big d if her hands are small enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:20 PM
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bro, what!? Hes in the good dick club out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:20 PM
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I was saying it to be flirty with you. I am all over the place with my types, but the general women I find myself with; Darker skin, brown/green eyes, brown or black hair, usually curly. (Lotta Latinas, Black women, some darker Asians and Desi) I like thicc. I need curves, super toned women just arent for me, but I can admire them :) I usually lean towards the quieter soft spoken shy ones, with a lot of care for others. (Nurses tickle my fancy a lot, women who volunteer for the benefit of others…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:00 PM
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Concur. I lost a potential because I told her I wanted to go get tested. She asked me when the last time I had sex was and I told her '3 days ago'. This was out second date lol. People be weird about this stuff sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:45 PM
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Good pussy? Commitment, provided the rest of her was tolerable. This is subjective to the man, because I can tell you I will drop good pussy for reasons that are important to me but other guys would be like WHY THO!?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:27 PM
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Him and her were not exclusive and not fucking, whats the issue exactly? She didn't do anything wrong, but that doesn't mean he can't feel bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:25 PM
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isnt that the guy that smashed ariana too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:24 PM
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at least you honest lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:40 PM
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her head game could be that great and what makes him love her so much. People make concessions on their 'wants' if other things outweigh them. Arguing that just because your mom doesn't clean that you aren't going to settle is silly. She has other traits he cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:00 PM
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Sorry, but men are still judged on what they can provide. By trying to make a decision on if hes date worthy using income as a precursor...you are turning him into an object of that success. That why using her sex game as a precursor to relationship is the same thing. The throwing her into a lake thing was more satire than actually you know throwing her into a lake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:58 PM
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...what the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:39 PM
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Read comments from 80% of the women here and realize the are or belong with FDS as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:35 PM
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The jelly bean thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:34 PM
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sir, you screw her first. 'That pussy isnt worth the money I make.' THEN throw her into a lake. She turned you into a success object, you turn her into a sex object.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:33 PM
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she can still be both though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:12 PM
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pink slips
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:02 PM
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True. Still isn't a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:59 PM
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balanced, as all things should be haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:58 PM
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I drank that when I was broke and in high school. PBR is so nasty :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:57 PM
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Girl I met on saturday and had a date with on tuesday just did me a big favor. She thinks all men are dumb, nice girls finish last and the only reason women are mean is because women get treated bad by men. Can this be a 'yikes!' moment please?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:51 PM
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Its in the 'gamer' culture now, a meme on reddit and things like that (referring to chad) It is not the blackpill is main stream though. As far as the 'online nad looks thing'. Its true, IDK why anybody pretends its not. You don't want to fuck a personality first. Its always physical traits first to get the attention, then personality traits to keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:47 PM
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Maybe he settled for her? you never know! Her head game could be on point too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:32 PM
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are you implying it isnt? That shit is way more prevalant than you think!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:18 PM
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Right now? Pentatonix and some Lindsey Stirling. But If I go fro a ride later, As I lay Dying, maybe a little breaking benjamin. A7X, Linkin Park. Had some beach boys and Eagles yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:16 PM
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FRFR, feel the same with RP existing and makin the femmies mad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:39 AM
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Easily the best looking, concur
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:06 AM
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I really feel sorry reading this :(. Dinner dates can be really fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:38 AM
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Should not have clicked that link.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:05 AM
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That’s why the dress blues in a sailors uniform has 13 buttons. 13 chances to decide if the possible dependapotamus is worth the pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:42 AM
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perhaps with a draconian outlook, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:35 PM
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You can be platonic friends after a relationship, we dont have sexual thoughts or needs from each other anymore. That was 4 and 6 years ago as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:25 PM
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Disagree, we dont sleep together anymore, we are just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:47 PM
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Yes, I have a few friends that are women. 1 has been a friend only. 1 is an ex 1 an old FWBs. No, it hasn't changed how I viewed women, because my views on them didn't need to change, I had sisters growing up. What have I learned from them; +Lotta dudes have weak dick game. +Clothing sizes are bullshit, some fit in one place and not another. +Makeup is expensive as fuck +I'm weird because I have extra toothbrushes and tampons/pads in my home, apparently no other guy does that? +dating issues are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:09 PM
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Why would I be somewhere he could catch me ion action? Also, I live in texas. Everybody carries here. Not like I couldn't clap back if he walked into my home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:43 AM
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if he found out, thats part of the 'dont give my name'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:40 AM
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No, I'd just Lie. Since my name isn't dave, and I don't have a tug boat. Cant accuse me if you dont know my name!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:31 AM
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Lul. Or I just start telling women my name is fucking Dave and I drive a Tug Boat for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:09 AM
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Most y’all women think it’s manipulation/asshole/sexist if you don’t get what you hoped for. That doesn’t make it or manipulation or lying. Both y’all decided to fuck. Own it. Lying is not cool. Not in just the context of sex, but everywhere. I don’t think it is any better or worse than doing it for anything else. Gtfo with your preying bullshit. And yes, if somebody DOES lie and seeks forgiveness, that means they realized the mistake. Holy shit! It seems like you have hang ups about sex in gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:08 AM
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...not every man does shady shit to get sex. I tell the girls im just in it for the T&A if thats all I want. Some are cool with it, others are not. And if past mistakes cant be forgiven, I hope you've never made one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:55 AM
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the crusty ones under your bed!?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:11 PM
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Nope. A lot of men don't fear being alone too. I fuck and leave cause that is all I need from women. (Incoming shaming!) If that is the only thing I need, I'm sure most women can be similar. With lower sex drives, even less sex. Which is, plainly speaking, not even a struggle for the majority of women to get to begin with so isn't even as much of an issue. Everybody settles. Thats why it is called settling down. You take the person that you can be/live with. Nobody is perfect, and we all make co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:03 PM
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homies wife is like that. I stuck up for the homie. 'If hes so fucking terrible why are you here eating the food hes fucking paying for?' She didn't like me much after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:00 AM
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erm, not really. do you think you cant be agreeable and voice an opinion or point something out at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:54 AM
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Jokes on you, I hire maids when I don't feel like cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:22 AM
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crotch goblins!? Actually a ton of dudes want kids, just seems like the louder dudes (like me) simply don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:16 AM
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I don't work more than 40 hour weeks, ever. Thats how I maintain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:16 AM
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To an extent I agree. all relationships take a little work, nothing is perfect. But when the struggle is real bad, that relationship is probs over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:14 AM
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Of course, women use different or more terms. I also wouldn't expect to hear a woman ask for a submissive man either (at least not regularly) because, generally speaking, we are also looking for different things in our partners. Friendly, sympathetic/caring, cooperative. Those are all pieces of agreeableness. I'm sure something very similar to those terms have been used at some point in your circle...right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:13 AM
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JP sucks tho :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:58 PM
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Nobody wants to come home to bullshit, why do you think men say they want this? Like come on. This isn't rocket science. Women are the ones that are adding more connotation to the word (see above) calling it some shit it is not, claiming its misogyny based, etc. Nothing in here says women aren't looking for the same thing, so I'm not really sure the point you are trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:53 PM
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Didn't refute women want peace too. I think every sane human being wants that in a relationship. Relationships with lots of turmoil are well...generally not good relationships. (aka Toxic)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:19 PM
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Agreeable women are easier to be around. Think about it, do you want to come home to somebody that wants to fight you on bullshit? Chances are that is a heavy 'No.' For some reason women tend to take agreeableness and submissive as 'cant have a voice and must do everything on command.'
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:12 PM
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bzzzzt fucking wrong. But I'm sure a woman speaking for men couldn't possibly be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:01 PM
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Shes the reason why I don't do that with hookups anymore :P
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:29 PM
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ma'am, you told me i wasn't good enough and you told ME you were not my type....and you don't even know my type lol. Yes, I am wild. I'm fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:17 PM
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those are for sailors, and I'm not a sailor anymore...so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:14 PM
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make up, lighting and styling makes so much of a difference Dudes take notes...but dont wear makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:14 PM
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you had your chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:11 PM
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Nope, your views of simping are right on. Don't forget to include twitch thots! Oh, and the fart jar girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:06 PM
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Kinda happened to me. Was eating the box, she told me she wasn't willing to do the same. I said 'OK', stopped doing it and she got upset. When I asked her why I should if she wasn't going to do the same, she called it coersion. I got up and left
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:03 PM
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They aren't completely wrong tho. Some of the shit they are saying is questionable...and I see the common womens defense of 'you just insecureeeeeeee'
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:48 PM
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I have strict rules on women from OLD. I don't fuck around with them. I'd personally not reach out again. Probs just delete the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:44 PM
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Not enough info. How long ago did you text?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:39 PM
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Not sure if being sarcastic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:57 PM
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That...actually is a filter for some women. And sure you could be like 'idc if somebody else blowing her back out' Thats great but that also means you just were not that into her either. If your next point is 'well this is first date stuff'...are you telling me you are taking tinderellas on first dates to somewhere expensive? She hasn't earned that investment, and this is your own damn fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:45 PM
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That isn't a thing in modern dating with any sort of regularity. Why would you entertain a woman that demands that type of thing? Kick her back to the streets. Its a Yellow flag to require expensive shit for first dates for the average man. First few dates always be cheap. Coffee, Ice Cream, Art Gallery, museum, something like that. If you are asking her on third date, you have something there and should be willing to fork out for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:41 PM
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I havent made a woman pay for a date in a very very long time. Sure, you make your own money; but I asked you, why the fuck are you going to pay anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:32 PM
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The second I saw you type out incels, every other argument you had went out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:30 PM
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...how is paying for a date refusing to hold them accountable? Wait, let me guess. They make their own money so they should have to spend it on the date? Please don't tell me that is how you think accountability should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:23 PM
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This isn't common by any means. If you need to worry about it with a guy you are going on a date with, you maybe shouldn't be going on that date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:21 PM
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I agree they should pay, but not the other two shit takes you have behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:16 PM
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Why the fuck do I need to split the check? I make enough money, it also shows as a man that I can provide and that I appreciate the time. No woman should expect you to pay, but that doesn't mean you should not. You are here being RP, but you aren't willing to take the lead in paying for a date? Don't be an idiot and pre-select yourself out over a fucking $5 coffee. its $10 total. If you cant afford that or are making this some type of shit test like a woman would do (oh she didn't offer to pay, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:15 PM
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Yep. Who the fuck needs to split a $10 coffee date? GTFO with this weak shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:11 PM
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shes sounds damaged. send me a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:00 PM
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Nah, bullet probably still the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:59 PM
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You think dudes jumping into DMs are worried about success rates? Besides the way you framed it was more like 'he should value them as a person and not as a vagina'. The vast majority of guys doing this do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:58 PM
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mission accomplished then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:45 PM
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It isn't a tragedy if he is only looking for sex. PNC will clear that up real quick anyway. If was looking for a friend and didnt find one? Sure that sucks. chances are if hes just sliding into DMs, hes not looking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:45 PM
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My choices are two different people that I don't find attractive? I'd probably eat the bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:42 PM
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what can I not do being casual 0o
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:37 PM
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gasp I feel ATTACKED! but also fully understand and dont judge lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:25 PM
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isn't that a form of validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:24 PM
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dont you judge us man hoes. We deserve love and affection too!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:23 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:23 PM
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War booty (hehe, that booty) Weed/other such things. Collapse of cash would only make other things better currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:13 PM
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I am consistent lol. Took the responsibility like I needed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:10 PM
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Probs conservatives. Lotta guns out there, lotta ammo. Most preppers seem to be Conservatives. Seems like a lot of farmers, truck drivers and everything else are. Methheads can fight forever, those people tend to be rural and conservative...idk man be a rough road for the liberal folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:06 PM
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Hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:01 PM
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They are 100% comparable. He found you physically attractive, that is step one. Those dudes only see a walking vagina and nothing else. Now women either see that guy is physically attractive, or isn't and respond accordingly. The whole like bottom half of your response is what will be figured out if a woman responds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:59 PM
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You could have your own apartment on that income back then. (left in 2016) Basic Allowance for Housing and Cost of living adjusts rise based upon where you are living. would probs be closer to 75k now, and I was only mid rank (e5)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:39 PM
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Ya, I did it a lot when I lived in hawaii. Shirt was always off at the beach. Last GF like the taco meat on the chest, so I let it grow out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:07 PM
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wait thats not how it works?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:05 PM
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Well, if you aren't getting pussy, or the pussy is bad and shes not willing to change something...porn is an option. Or breaking up with her. But a lot of people are bitches and won't make the jump unless they have something else lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:04 PM
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I got 'unhorny' with a FWB because she gained like 50 lbs, joined the 'big is beautiful' movement, stopped shaving her pits and didn't trim her pubes anymore. So like...I was still horny, just not for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:03 PM
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shrug not my kid, not really my problem. If the parents cant afford to raise the thing, dont have it. That part of the burden of choice. If you want kids and can't have them for whatever reason, I am truly sorry. No cap, it devastated one of my friends when she found out she was pretty wrecked for a while. Her and the hubby are still together though, so that is a great thing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:57 PM
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I didn't say the government should be picking up the bill, they shouldn't. Especially if the woman knows the guy wont be around, has the choice for abortion and decides not to do so. However, that is kinda the burden of living in a society. We always pay for other peoples shitty mistakes and choices. State taxes/property taxes already pay for kids. (education, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:45 PM
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Not sure why this is some sort of surprise? Its not like women look across the room at that cute guy and decided you want to fuck him for his personality before you know anything about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:40 PM
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Like forced child support amirite? I am pro choice, always have been always will be. For both parents. If the guy doesn't want to be a father, you shouldn't be able to force him to do anything, including pay CS for a kid he didn't want. Likewise, if you do not want to be a mother, you should 100% be able to abort, and he should move on to another woman that wants his kid(s). However, you can't have the sole burden of choice and not be willing to deal with whatever the outcome of that choice is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:37 PM
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Tell her its not mine. But really, if I did actually have a kid that was 100% mine (paternity test done) I'd pay the CS and be somewhat involved, at least until I could sign away rights and responsibilities to said child. After all, every single woman I've been with has known I do not want kids and she still had the kid knowing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:08 PM
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Well, im assuming you don't like dudes sexually, but are into women, so of course they are going to be better looking. Maybe hes not a chad looking guy, but everything else about him is. Especially to that woman. Women can pass on looks for other factors that make him a good mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:02 PM
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Social proofing, especially for the younger guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:36 PM
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No, cause PUA isn't RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:36 PM
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A person should never complete you. That is dangerous territory for any person. What is it you think that a person must 'add' to your life to make them worthy? On your level is where people generally match. Shooting above your paygrade is well...not advised as its probably not going to work in your favor. The spark just means 'clitter twitters'. Its nebulous and nobody can clearly define it. Thats why it is easy to use as a qualifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:17 PM
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This is the same thing women fail to realize. A dude hopping into your DMs or matching on tinder just means you are cute enough to get fucked, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:08 PM
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Who said only cucks join the military though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:47 PM
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I'm sorry, what? Name me one of these men please.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:42 PM
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Thats uh, a pretty bad take my dude. Manual labor jobs makes a lot of money. What makes you believe only low quality women want men who do those jobs? I was making ~65k in hawaii while in the military, I'd hardly call that 'poorly paid'. It above the average in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:41 PM
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All I see is women wanting all the choices but being able to pawn off part of the responsibility for making those choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:27 PM
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Women cant be the ones that can make a choice and not be able to accept responsibility for that choice. This is why RP calls women teenagers. I got a vasectomy. I took responsibility. No woman will decide if I am a father or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:51 PM
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She could still have to pay too. Those are mostly outlier cases. Any lawyer that deals with divorces know women are going to pull this bullshit, and any good lawyer will ask for evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:44 PM
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Court isn't expensive, the lawyers are. 50/50 laws are a thing in like 20 states. Child support may be required even if 50/50, but there are factors to it. Like who is paying for daycare, insurance, and things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:34 PM
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Very unethical for women to choose to have a baby to force a man to pay too, but we don't hear that side. 'Its for the kidsssss!' Well if the dad didn't want to be a fucking dad, he doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:28 PM
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Most men give up custody, even before it gets to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:26 PM
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Only allow the man the same amount of time to decide (or a little less) so the woman still has the choice for abortion. We already have those forms, you just end up filling them out at the hospital (I don't think this is true for every state though)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:24 PM
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All of which have proven to be mistakes!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:21 PM
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I'm supportive of allowing men to not have to pay for a kid they didn't want to begin with. Men should have the same amount of time as women to determine parental status, and have the ability to give up rights and responsibilities. Look, we all know women are going to take the road that is going to provide them the most benefit at the time. Most humans do. Men; take responsibility. Poophole loophole only. Wear a condom. Pull out game on point. never give creampies Or: Freeze some sperm and get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:15 PM
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You didn’t read it well. The fact that they made me come in when she was supposed to, just because she said she wanted to see family was the issue, especially because I was literally there on the last holiday the week before. Poppy asked for examples of that shit happening. These were two of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:45 AM
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Shit, I love picking up after myself. I wash my dishes right when I ma done using them even while cooking! But finding a woman that can actually take criticism for stupid mistakes and correct them without trying to blame something/somebody else? Now THAT is a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:00 AM
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She was my sister and she deserved it though, sibling rivalry
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:55 AM
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This isn't unique to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:51 AM
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'Remember that thing you fucked up on and we put you on report?' The girl that has been here a year did the same thing, help her fix it before anybody else knows so we don't have to put her on report' That came from the guy that literally wrote the report on me. We had a rotation of people that would need to come in for holidays. I had stayed for Xmas eve. Guess whos turn it was for New Years? That same womans! Guess who got to come in for new years? This guy. Because she didn't get to see her f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:47 AM
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Personality wise; Kind and caring, the type that will go volunteer and stuff. Those types always make me melt. Generally sweet and bubbly. Passion for something. IDC if it is fucking Anime. Love it, get excited about it. Even if I don't share that passion, I can still adore you having it :P Intelligence matters, I'd like to be able to have conversations with you....that doesn't mean she has to be college educated. Relaxed, and quiet. Bookworm type! I am that IRL. Submissive. Trusts me to lead. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:40 AM
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and 66% of the consumer debt?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:19 AM
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Early to mid 30s for sure, especially if you took care of yourself. I'm still pulling women ~10 years younger than me. I'm average, don't lead with money. I dress well, carry conversation and have nice toys. I do pretty damn well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:54 AM
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And an economically free woman that lacks the qualities men want are just used for sex, that was my point. Men don’t need to commit to get pussy, so they don’t. What do women add to a man’s life besides pussy? About the same thing a man would add to a woman’s that is economically sound. Absolutely nothing. Men may not be chosen to fuck, but a lot of women are finding they aren’t getting chosen for anything other than a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:50 AM
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I mean, the girl I gave a facial and drove home Friday night would disagree with you. As would the girl that I met last night and talked to today. You are under some weird impression that women are somehow immune to not being wanted by men. They really aren’t. Where are all the good men isn’t just a meme. It’s dudes deciding that a woman isn’t worth it for some reason as well. Fuckbois and pump and dumps are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:54 AM
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I mean it’s the same on the other side. It’s almost like if I don’t have to commit to spread my baby batter around, why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:36 PM
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Of a man wants a child, nope. What else can a woman provide that a man cannot get on his own?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:30 PM
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Sure it can, if you are woke enough. Force people to want something and shame them if they do not want it… The beatings will continue until morale improves. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:20 PM
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Guess I be finding women that don’t fall into the ‘most women’ group. At 35 I’m dating and screwing women in their mid to late 20s. (26-29) Femcel tears 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:09 PM
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The have to want to see it. They don’t want to because that would require them to admit being wrong. (No human likes that) We have the same issue here. Sometimes it’s the dudes fault, not womens, but he still blames them. When you have an attitude of ‘I am better than somebody’ you are blind to your own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:41 PM
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I’m getting like four- five a year right now. Wouldn’t say I’m any type of chad. It’s gotta be more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:17 PM
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Yes. She had been trying to get with me for a while and I wasn’t really into her. She was too round for me. She basically told me she just wanted to fuck around after we had a beer. It had been about three months since I had been laid, so I went for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:04 AM
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As soon as I shifted from the 'nice' chivalrous type of guy and into 'hop on the train with me or get the fuck out the way' with women attitude, I started getting more play, more dates, and more positive reactions. Does that stance make me an asshole? Well kind of. I don't treat women like shit, but I am also not going to coddle or entertain things that are not a benefit to me in some way. That makes me an asshole in a lot of eyes (Side note; this is exactly what modern career women do lol) And …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:51 PM
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This is the bad boy thing RP preaches. There is a difference between being an 'asshole' and being an actual asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:41 PM
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Self proclaimed asshole here; I don't struggle to get laid anymore. I used to when I was the gentleman. There is nuance to the asshole (bad boy) thing that a lot of men (and women) don't actually look at. There is also a difference in the term 'asshole' that men and women use in the dating market. I've found that women will call a man an asshole just for not doing what she expects or wants, without her actually communicating that is what she wanted. (I.e. Pump and dump, she wants more, doesn't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:38 PM
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Yes, this is the type of 'bad boy' archetype that RP gets into...as well as staying in your masculine frame. Nothing about it says 'beat or abuse your woman'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:30 PM
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I don't think men are becoming more sexist, I think the definition of what is sexist is being slid into a way that any type of critique or call out on women's behavior is being called sexist or misogynistic. The fact that women can now call literally anything about a man's identity, thought process or life sexist in some way has made it seem like it is worse than it actually is. I do think men are more vocal about their distaste in the behavior of (some) women and since being called out for shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:14 PM
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Words can be redeemed, violent actions cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:31 AM
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Ya, trans people have it really bad. I’ve seen some of it in action and it’s not great. Had an MTF friend heavily debate presenting as a man again because she was struggling to navigate it and was not really conditioned to understand what was going on. Used to go pick her up and just drive around Oahu while she tried to talk it out. She was still female presenting when I talked to her a few months back, and doing better now!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:43 AM
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That does not change societies stance, which is the core of the problem. Dudes do (generally speaking) help each other out. All of my dude bros call each other when they need to talk. We rib each other but legit still check in. It’s just different than what women do. Cause ya know, we aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:36 AM
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Older? Shit I have friends in their 20s that do similar things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:31 AM
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This is truth. My rule exists to protect myself, and her. If it’s not something she needs to know, she doesn’t know. They only need to know when it is something that will/may mess with our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:23 AM
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For real lol. I get the reasons why they act that way, even if I don’t agree nor accept it. Lotta dudes need some social skills to be honed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:15 AM
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Who knows. Maybe it had happened to her at some point. Knee jerk reaction. Hyper masculine area (military) so we aren’t supposed to talk about things. I do not tell new partners about it. Just set a boundary of no restraints for me ever, and most are just OK with it. If they press it’s just ‘bad experience, didn’t like it.’ I’m not really heavy into that stuff anyway :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:07 AM
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Yeah, some people don’t recover quickly or in a good way. It can be rough. I got lucky and was able to process it without being destructive, mostly. I was a raging asshole for a while, isolated and hit the gym hard. Had a few friends that understood the full extent of what happened and they did their best. Came out better with a lesson learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:03 AM
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Wasn't a big deal when I brought it up, because it was already like 6 years after it had happened. I didn't even cry about it or anything. Just flat out told her 'You will never tie me up completely, last time that happened I was raped.' She seemed to care right then, but we didn't have sex for a few days and when I brought it up she told me its because of what I told her. The end of the relationship was right then. Was a great reminder that the problems of men simply do not matter to women, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:03 AM
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Rape. She couldn't view me as manly anymore because it was a woman that did it. Conversation spawned from wanting to cuff me up and give me a BJ and I absolutely would not allow it. Edit; Was 4 months in, since Mrs_Degree had a thing under auto mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:10 AM
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I'm confused because of your flair, but also deep down think you are totally serious. It is 100% feasible lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:06 PM
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X GF snuggled up right after sex, grabbed onto me and let one rip. Then started dying from laughing and tried to run away lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:37 PM
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Any of women's problems can be solved by one word; Patriarchy. Never fails lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:36 PM
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In a row? Probably a few dozen. If I go downtown I can get 10+ in a night. Both hard or soft rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:34 PM
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Yea, more than one pair of sheets is a must. Solid colors too. One always clean set that you can drop in the dryer with a sheet on short notice and swap them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:53 PM
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so odd to me. Guess the military drilled it into my head. We had to make our beds every day (i still do this and have been called weird for that too!) Clean and warm fresh out the dryer sheets after a shower is the fucking TITS
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:48 PM
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Women arguing with TRP men; It is misogynistic because we don't like it. Good job strawman! Its not like you don't have RP men pushing back on that type of shitpost either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:30 PM
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If its not uplifting women and putting them on a pedestal its misogyny!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:20 PM
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whoa, theres like 5 of us on here in texas lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:10 PM
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We are but simple creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:04 PM
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Guess I better read into it more. I am sure some pushback is founded, but I am not sure that all of it is...nor that it would be healthy for society either way :/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:04 PM
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Respect. Braid that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:58 PM
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Should def go to the doc. Sleep is really important for us humans. I can't do solid 8 hours, I do like 4 and 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:58 PM
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I wanna move there Existence is pain... (kidding for real, I love my life)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:54 PM
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I got called weird cause I wash my sheets every week >_> I even vacuum my mattress. (that I can see is kinda weird)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:53 PM
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Apnea tested? Check if you are on any meds it can cause it. When I got on wellbutrin I slept for 2 hours a night (if that) for 6 months. Was mega productive but it fucked my ADHD pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:52 PM
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Get a lawnmower, itll help with those.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:48 PM
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Foodie dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:46 PM
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Idgaf if you do doubt. Not every man that is red pill is bitter towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:23 PM
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Men typically dont have the ability to. Our social circles are smaller and less influential. That why I said it depends. If its something small, why bother? If it is a big deal, I would do what I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:19 PM
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Would I put in effort to smear a woman's social status if she fucked me over in some way? Depends. Cost/benefit. What would it solve? What would it cost me (emotionally, monetarily, or time) Most of the time I just look at it like I made a mistake in my choice to allow her into my life and move on. Only time of note I 'socially' attacked a girl is when she became a stalker and after the cops refused to do anything about it because she wasn't violent. I just named and shamed her all over facebook…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:16 PM
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I don't really entertain complaints from either side that often. Just point out my views and move along. Dudes complaining about no options means they are not an option for some reason and they need to do better. Women complaining about lack of (attractive) options means they aren't attracting the guys they want, so they need to do better to attract those men. I also am kind of an outlier in that I know women cant really add to my life (other than sex). I do not want kids and everything else is …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:05 PM
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Don't think this is an unpopular or unknown view. People manipulate. RP kind of goes into this stuff. The shaming tactics women use to get men to comply with their imperative is manipulation. What I do not agree with is that it is in their nature completely. I believe it is a learned view. Women (and men) are intuitive enough when socially adept to understand what will and will not work. They figure it out by experimentation or learning from their parents. If mom is a good manipulator, chances a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:56 PM
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Famous last words! Don't jinx it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:22 PM
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Or some did, they got picked up and held onto by the good women :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:19 PM
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Correct. Stop validating the fatties with likes and propositions to fuck. Stop being impressed at the minor adult things women accomplish, like good credit a job a degree a place to live. Don't celebrate single moms as a way to get into their pants. Stop giving attention to those that are not worthy of your attention. Simps need to disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:18 PM
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Wasn't there for long, was in the military at the time, was just landing there for reasons. I wish covid would end so I could travel more!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:56 PM
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Stuttgart didn't have women walking around topless when I was there :(.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:34 PM
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I wouldn't say yes to it being 100% social conditioning...because women would probably be more OK going topless at the beach than say...downtown in a big city. More like...controlled in the areas they want to be topless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:25 PM
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Probably not. I don't think many women actually really want to do so, they just want the option. Oh, neat. We aren't that far apart! Austin isn't that weird anymore lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:08 PM
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I think the shitty ones are just highlighted more. After all we are more likely to leave a bad review than a good one! I get a chuckle out of reading the exchanges on /r/niceguys tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:33 PM
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I've sent DMs that end in sex, i just don't start with 'You cute, lets fuck'. I've also had one woman basically send me 'You are cute, lets fuck' and it worked for her lol They are usually people that I have things in common with though, like a Discord server, or a particular subreddit on different accounts, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:25 PM
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confirmed, women like it when they get treated like shit, makes them stick around!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:05 PM
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Rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:01 PM
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you make me moister than an oyster!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:56 PM
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Is it wet? Probably warm. Missing a core part...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:51 PM
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This hate is rated 'E' for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:51 PM
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Some little boys do not know how to deal with rejection. Eat that rejection like a man should and move the fuck on. You do not 'deserve' a woman for existing (nor a woman a man). Nobody deserves a fucking thing. If you slide into some DMs and she doesn't respond, too bad. That doesn't mean you should be responding to her like a fucking child. If you cant take risks, deal with the outcomes and move along smartly, you will never be a man a woman will want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:38 PM
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Or a wet place to stick a cock, because they see her as a walking fleshlight and nothing more. Dudes always have to shoot their shot, women very rarely do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:29 AM
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No, the 'years' comment isn't about being in general good shape. It literally takes years to get some of those physiques even with a perfect diet and a strong routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:02 AM
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as if women that have jobs and a degree are anything but average lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:24 AM
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This isn't any different than the guy in your DMs that sent a message to 10 women this week just to tell them they are pretty...because you are 'good enough' to stick his dick in, doesn't mean anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:05 AM
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instructions unclear, spent money on a hooker, robbed her after and left. (Thanks GTA)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:09 AM
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I don't weep for them. I weep for the simps spending money on here, and the poor soul who wifes her up...plus her kids that will get clowned on. Edit; sure hope the lady below me doesn't get married or have kids. Phew.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:56 AM
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You know what RP advocates for? Doing all the shit you just said needs to happen. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:47 AM
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I wouldn't either, I am a man. Fuck your debt. Take care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:45 AM
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shit take #1 of the day. 'Dudes only want one thing and its fucking disgusting!' Right, I'm sure women just look at a dude and decide they want to fuck his personality before they actually meet him. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:13 PM
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Until you see the spreadsheets and 15 page long emails that I type up to form that policy >_< Shit is boring to a lot of people!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:08 PM
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whoa wait, you think policy makers are cool jobs? shit I have a cool job then!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:18 PM
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The vast majority of RP dudes are not running to attract early 20s women in their 40s. That isn't common, it isn't some epidemic within RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:56 PM
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Correct. You are settling for the one you currently have and have decided not to pursue others. Could there be somebody better? Yes! But that doesn't mean your current partner isn't amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:11 PM
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I'm telling you this as a 35 year old man who makes more than 100k a year in a low cost of living area. My SMV isn't better than a woman making even 90k here. The thirst is fucking real. Women do have the pick of the litter at least when it comes to sex. Dudes will simp for these women, and they choose who fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:48 PM
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For the right type of woman, absolutely. I'm sure there are some that will see me that way too. Doesn't mean I do not have faults though. Also does not mean I can't see a woman as a prize too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:23 PM
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You do understand women can and do exercise that same thought process correct? You didn't really make a point other than 'RP bad'. The 'man bad' rhetoric doesn't really work here my dude. I'm glad you have a good relationship, but everybody settles. That is why its called 'settling down'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:14 PM
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Irrelevant. The fact that they EXIST, disproved your obviously 'man bad' argument when it came to sex toys. Sure, there are half torsos with vaginas and assholes that dudes can fuck. Its not like those do not also exist for women. Or even dildos that simulate a dick by pulsating and shooting 'cum'. Your comment was a terrible take. Not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:39 AM
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You mean like...half the toys you think are mainstream to men? Most dudes aren't buying these huge dolls or torsos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:17 AM
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'You buy this toy it'll grip/suck your dick really well' No different than clit buzzers hombre. Did you not just read the entire thing or understand the 'Bad Dragon' thing? As if that isn't a fucking fantasy? Lol. You are saying that it is 'fine' for a woman to buy a toy that simulates something a human can't do...but then trying to shame men for the same thing? My guy, that is not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:18 PM
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Your misandry is showing, honey. You only come in here and spew hate about men...which is fine if that is how you want to live. But I suggest you get some help, and step away from reddit for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:13 PM
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you are dense. Women like men that other women want to fuck. Being a man slut is the opposite of being LVM, because hes slaying it. Hes doing something right to get his dick wet from those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:07 PM
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Jesus the fucking HOOPS this other person is jumping through to try and make a point. It is not even giggle worthy, its just shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:00 PM
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this is why the military needed to change their standards. Swole dudes were failing PT tests because of weight. Then they tried to do 'taping' and that didn't work well because if you were not wide in the right places, you could fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:25 PM
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Did...did i just read this right? Bad dragon? Those are all toys for women that are beyond depraved. Penises that lay eggs in vaginas, horse and dog cocks, entire male torsos are a thing for women as well. You have your damn eyes closed if you think that men's toys are all depraved and disgusting compared to the shit the sex industry makes for women. Rather the sex toys simulate realism than fake fantasies to further pollute the mind even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:29 PM
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Its not exactly what I want therefore it is abuse! -some women on reddit, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:50 PM
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I wouldn't have said anything either. Talk shit, get hit. I'm not 'defending her honor' if she is being dishonorable. Shes instigating fights with people that may or may not retaliate. Tough lesson to learn, one that you find out as a boy when you mouth off to somebody bigger than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:07 PM
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It is also stupid to have the thought process that coffee is anything more than the same screening you are trying to do via text. I'm not going to invest in a couple weeks of talking before getting the first meet up, its a hard pass. Especially knowing most women are talking with more than one dude at a time. To behave as if it is only men as the problem is also stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:00 PM
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could it be confirmation bias possibly? I get pretty fucking short with my answers. Long as I don't personally attack people I don't get messed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:35 PM
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I don't even have a basement, checkmate!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:32 PM
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IDK man, I've had some ladies get a little out there with me and the comments get removed. I think the mods are pretty fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:31 PM
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We are pretty similar in numbers I think, I have to be somewhere in the 40-50s. I think we are also in the 'older' crew here, you may even be older than me. (35) I care more about if she was screwing multiple people at the same time than if she was just doing casual. Even FWB with me means I am not screwing anybody else...but I think I am really weird compared to a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:10 PM
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I'm somewhere in the 40-50s. Which isn't that high, considering my age (35) and doing the math Lost my virginity at 20, have had a few 1+ years LTRs and been engaged for a total of about ~6-7 years worth. Basically 4-5 a year over those last 10 (some years more than others for sure!) Once you are in it, you see how very easy it is to rack up numbers, and knowing how much easier it is for women I just don't get shocked by high numbers. Men can get into the 'good dick' club and having other women …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:58 PM
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I mean, I clearly don't think womens profiles are an accurate representation of them either, thank you filters and using clever angles. You see the same tired things on women's profiles too, so not sure the point you were trying to make. Your argument works if you go from matching to 'here's my number'. You probably do not do that, there has to be some exchanges in the app before that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:28 PM
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ya, thats kinda why i put the comparatively in there. A high N dude with 100 partners? probs not going to care about a woman with 100. dude with 50 partners? probs going to care if she has 100 or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:24 PM
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Well, presumably youd already have the information from the OLD platform, since you probably already did some vetting before giving out your number. Or only swiped right on dudes you wanted to meet. I'm not one to invest time into somebody that I do not know, nor a girl that can simply say 'no spark' even after two weeks of texting regularly. Get out, meet the person interact to find the 'vibe'. Call it from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:04 PM
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I can't do reality shows, at all...cause they aren't reality feels like a lie from the get go haha It actually wasn't bad, not many plot tolhes, pretty standard zombie show. The walking dead lite, with school kids instead of adults. I generally don't block people either, only ones that have caused me legit harm, like on purpose. Hey, at least you are self aware, bonus points!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:01 PM
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The SBs get to dictate the boundaries.(I.e. preemptively consent). IF there is no agreement, there is no SB/SD. If agreeing to something isn't your definition of consent...idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:37 PM
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Q4W...why don't you want to be a bangmaid? /s They aren't debate topics most of the time. Its a preference thing. I thought this place was to debate the RP talking points, not hear women and men bemoan how shit the other is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:34 PM
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This is the answer. Most High N men really don't care about the amount of partners a woman has, especially when comparatively speaking. I only bat an eye when I hear some really high numbers. Like 300+
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:26 PM
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So are you not giving consent to work at your job for money? I mean if you wanted to do it, you'd do it for free, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:20 PM
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lol, I had that problem with 'They are all dead' or whatever on Netflix. Watched the whole damn series. Why is your ex blowing up your phone? No contact means block that fucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:18 PM
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Ya, but if you take the advice on those subs, you are just going to see literally anything the opposite sex does as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:17 PM
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She is consenting you discuss the terms of the agreement before it becomes a thing. It is like you don't think SBs can determine who their SDs are gonna be, or what the SD is going to be able to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:04 PM
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too much boozin last night?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:01 PM
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Yes! (Spinning plates) But not all dudes can do this they simply don't have the women to do that with. If you have to split your time between three women, then each one only has to deal with 33% of you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:59 PM
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My .2c on this being prior military...and seeing a lot of dudes marrying Thai and Phillipina women; They are just built different than American women, and they do have an allure you just cannot generally find here. Especially if you want a more traditional household. They are less combative, more willing to compromise, they are supportive, and kind. They value (or pretend to) things that are important to the men that find/want those types women. Most of them were happy/kissy/loving couples. Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:55 PM
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The cutesy thing would def come out, way more often than not. There would be some women that were cool with being in the war. After all we already have some in the military :P Long as they can meet the same standards as men in the combat roles (I.e. all physical fitness requirements) they should be in there!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:46 PM
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They tell you to keep less text going so you do not get one itis or simp for one woman. It makes sense in most cases because a significant portion of dudes get too invested too quickly. Remember ladies; you may have 10 dudes sliding into your DMs that you are talking with. The vast majority of men have maybe one woman they are talking to at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:33 PM
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In some cases, sure. I'd agree with her. Just like most men would take a younger slightly chubby 25 year old over a 40 year old mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:57 AM
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I just told you what it meant, and you want to argue it with me and be like 'well acktualy' Did you read TRP? Or are you like one of the other women that come in here and try to tell the guys that have read it, what the terms mean and how they make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:33 AM
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Then you really don't understand the hyperbole, or why i even used the analogy. I really didnt read the rest, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:12 AM
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I mean...thats like the men's response to a woman with a job and a degree. 'Good job Jenny, you met the bare minimum of an adult in 2022.'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:26 PM
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shrug was just an easy one to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:13 PM
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Do not disagree at all. In the case of AWALT; Not every man is a rapist. But he could be one. So in order to protect themselves, women treat men as if they could rape them at any time. (obvious hyperbole is obvious, but you get the gist) Same concept with AWALT. Not all women will do this one thing, but all women could do it, so protect yourself like they will do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:04 PM
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In the great words of some of the fucking clowns on twox 'If it doesn't apply to you, the obviously it doesn't mean you, but jeez, if you are angry about it, maybe it does apply to you and you need to self reflect.' Or some other shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:41 PM
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Yep. I know the type of women I do not attract because of who I am and how I carry/present myself. I learned that by the rejections when I did try to initiate on those types. Goth girls do not like me, so I can't really be a 'Chad' in that space. I am generally clean shaven, keep my hair short, wear glasses/contacts, fitted clothes, no tats, no piercings. I dont drink or smoke. I appear as a straight edge. The more...'classy' types usually like that. If I take the motorcycle out and have my gear…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:33 PM
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Heyyyyyy. somebody else that gets the 'chad' thing. For some reason people want to define exactly what chad looks like, when it isn't that simple. Chad has some traits (charisma, confidence, success socially or monetarily, well spoken, fashionable, fitness, etc) and those traits influence the type of woman he will attract. The chad is just the dude that woman finds attractive enough to fuck based upon those traits. Height does matter a little, but not enough to never get a ONS. That is silly. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:05 PM
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I'm sorry, but that is a deluded thought process. The orgasm gap didn't magically happen because porn became a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:48 PM
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The fuck are you on about? Women are significantly more varied in what they need. Its not just rub clit, jack hammer, get orgasm. You should be teaching your partner what you like and enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:42 PM
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bro, doesnt matter, had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:16 PM
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I would agree with this, but only if the wives are from well…not from the US. Lots of dysfunctional marriages in the military. Dudes did do a lot for their wives, but most of them were not great wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:44 AM
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Of course we are talking about the same thing, I probably could have written more but didn't want to make a novel. Why do you think it was men that were doing this? You can't believe men did the fighting and hunting for social reasons, and not because they were stronger and faster and thus naturally suited to do it. We are even less likely to even experience fear or anxiousness. Our natural proclivities influenced/created the social structures and the attraction in the lizard brain. All of the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:45 AM
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It most def is a matter of biology. Men have always had to be the go forth and maybe die. As much as we'd like to think that it has changed and the wirey/emotional type of dude is in demand; its not. Was there more emotions men were expressing before? Absolutely, there were more expressions of love and that type of positive emotion. Cowardice and faltering under pressure, not being confident or other masculine traits as those were still more 'manly' and expected to be controlled. That is why I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:47 PM
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I was joking too tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:34 PM
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I'm a little red, little blue :P. Absolutely. As much as younger women are arguing that men need to be more vulnerable and how much they hate 'toxic masculinity' they certainly don't show it for anything that doesn't directly benefit their (women's) imperative. The strong, stoic man is still heavily in demand by most women; social justice doesn't trump biology evolved over 1000s of years. I can agree, working through shit with your bros is good. I am trying to help my homie through his divorce. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:29 PM
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I thought all TRP guys were incels, how can they have kids? Yall can't keep it together sometimes...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:18 PM
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who hurt you today?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:15 PM
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thanks for the giggle!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:44 PM
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Well my username has matt in it, so don't think I can be Ben. I don't like him either, if that is the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:43 PM
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Ya, I've found that only pieces of RP actually did anything for me Same with Blue Pill. I most certainly ignore a lot of the 'nice guy' bullshit my mother taught me growing up. Soon as I decided women were not worth the time or effort, the amount of attention I got rose, like through the roof. I maintain the 'take it or leave it' attitude until we have become exclusive, then I give more. Small things like that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:24 PM
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Not sure how I feel about these numbers lmao. Guess im a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:04 PM
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lucky for me im childfree and snipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:02 PM
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Heres the thing; the type of shit you need to open up about to women...is only the things they want to hear, the things that make them feel special. Admitting you aren't perfect or you made a mistake isn't showing any emotion so how can that label you as strong or weak in this context? I will NEVER advocate for a man to open up about legit issues he has, unless she is the cause of them. (You do X and I don't like it, heres why, lets figure this out) Keep your past under wraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:54 PM
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It is just all other emotions lead to anger. Dog gets hit by a car? Grief -> Anger Get your pants pulled down? Embarrassed/humiliated -> anger as a response
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:51 PM
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Its not just the physical aspects. Many women are placing value on things that men simply dont care about. I.e. Your Job, your degree. A woman that is a 5, shoots for men that are 6s and 7s. Thats the core of Hypergamy. Men have standards they need to live up to as well. The same thirst traps men fall into through insta-thots are happening to women at greater rates why do you think women rate nearly 80% of men as unattractive? Do women truly just find that many men unattractive, or are the tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:37 PM
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Some equate only having anger as an emotion as being less emotional lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:10 PM
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Facts dont care about feelings only deals in provable things...like science or math, you know...absolutes. (as we know with that information) Getting knocked the fuck out doesn't make a statement untrue. It just makes the person you said that thing to upset enough to lay you out. If you really think that you don't have to deal with men and women differently, I hope you are not in a management position.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:07 PM
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You should always expect that the most attractive of either sex is getting the most attention. Men swipe right on something like half of all profiles on tinder, with a woman swiping right on sub 20%. They are still getting very little matches If a dude is willing to swipe right on nearly half the profiles he comes across, you cant honestly believe he is being picky or overlooking 'average' women. You can even look at the second to last graph and see even the most attractive of men are getting mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:34 PM
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You got it backwards. Women rated men below average, but still considered those men (swipe right, may entertain talking) Whereas men had more of a bell curve as you would expect to see on a rating scale. They have a more 'realistic' view on what is attractive to men. Of course women would rank each other more attractive, that is what they do. Women are significantly more uplifting to those in their friends group and view women as better than men. (Women are Wonderful effect) You may take one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:59 PM
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I think you are overgeneralizing what TRP is. You probably think its just all 'hate women'. TRP doesn't advocate for treating women like shit, the definition of the bad boy/asshole doesnt say anything like that. It's more, make your choice and follow through, dont buckle under pressure from her, maintain your IDGAF attitude, etc. I don't consider most men 'chads', in fact very few men are chads. Your dudes are probably just mediocre, as are you...and there isn't anything wrong with that, cause m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:18 PM
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Maybe I am misunderstanding... but who in TRP is advocating for steroid use? You def should not be using those without doctors orders and lots of oversight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:08 PM
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Oh, she for the streets then. Dunno what the convo entailed between the man and his ex, but he might be a douche canoe. Maybe not!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:06 PM
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Because its an overlap of females and not males. It is proving 'the walls' existence. It brings up 'Where are all the good men' meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:49 PM
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Thats the entitlement side lol. Although if they haven't had the define the relationship talk, I don't see a problem with either of them talking to others. Canhe trust her? Shes talking marriage, but the man needs to propose lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:47 PM
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Didn't say it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:22 PM
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Gonna agree with some of what you say here. Spinning plate thing: That is modern dating. Both men and women do this. IF you are talking to more than one person at a time, you are spinning plates. The FDS girls are seeking the guys that have implemented TRP (and are relationship minded), mostly. They just...don't see it that way. The majority of both TRP and FDS seem to even be tradcons. They are really damn similar, and I'm tired of people trying to pretend they are not. TRP; High N-count women …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:17 PM
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Like the 30% overlap between Datingoverthirty and FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:58 PM
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Lotta purple guys (and some girls) in here. I fall into that category I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:29 PM
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Women dont even know what they want for dinner, why would I listen to what you want in a partner? We as men have been fed bullshit about what women want from the time we were born. 'Just be nice, women love nice guys, just do x, y, z. None of that works on any sort of regular basis. TRP wasn't a big change for me, but it did open my eyes as to why certain things worked for me, and why the things I was taught did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:28 PM
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Shooting for the stars huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:57 AM
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Requirement; Don't be morbidly obese. Preferences; Non-White skin...dunno just like darker skin Long dark brown or black hair, curly (Shoulder length or more!) Brown or green eyes Curves (not an oval shape), but more attracted to breasts and some cuddle cushion! No height preference, just not a legit Dwarf, I'm 6 foot tall. A mouth full of teeth...hopefully all real, but fake ones are good to. Cheek Dimples and a smirk Even with those preferences, I've dated Red heads, women with short hair and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:52 AM
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IF you want one of those, or have time for one in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:13 AM
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how many inches of dick was that? Damn y’all don’t even know movie quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:05 AM
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The chads stilll put in effort. Either going to the gym, being socially active, or some other way. Thinking pussy pussy just lands in his fucking lap for literally no reason like dick does for women is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:00 AM
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Divorce because of Q-anon?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:25 PM
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I've NEVER heard of needing a virgin that from anybody that is over the age of fucking 20. Stop using hyperbole. You women also consistently blow out of proportion the amount of 30-40 year old men who are here (or other spaces) and talking about 'chasing women in their 20s'. It never helps your arguments. With that said, I dont have a # where it becomes a problem, cause mine is rather high for a dude. I am not under some illusion that you haven't been blasted with baby batter. However ladies: Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:34 PM
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This is why women use it. Dudes that give zero fucks what a women says or thinks about him is probably a lot happier...and ends up being more chad than one who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:23 PM
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It is that '7' thing we see a lot when people are asked to rate themselves (See that a lot with women on KS) Nobody wants to admit they are less than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:52 PM
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None. It doesn't advocate for abuse of any type. It does talk about and encourage healthy competition. Because that is what dating and mating is. So be better than other men if you want better selection of women. Putting other men down doesn't make you better than them, full stop. A violent Chad, isn't a chad. Confident men do not feel the need to put somebody else down to raise themselves. Guess you could argue that some women do respond to this bullying stuff positively but I'd personally not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:39 PM
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Not currently, am chatting up somebody. We are a month in, so we might do the whole exclusive thing soon. Might have to call the FWB and cut off the benes. I am RP, with some disagreements on how they present arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:06 PM
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I think I'm agreeing with ya here, mostly. He picker be not doing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:22 PM
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We always splitting that bill. Use that stronk indapendant woman pay. This beta fucks and doesn't give alpha fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:18 PM
0

A year!? Holy shit, what the fuck? I could see a few months for recovery, but a whole damn year? Thankfully...kids will not be an issue in my life!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:29 AM
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Most of those ad hoc problems are not an issue on the regular. Scared of Kids? Wrap it up, get a vasectomy, she is probably on BC (of course verify) And sure, relationships form; if that is what you are looking for. That is how some of mine went. What do you mean 'not good enough?' Not all of those relationships were ended by me. Fiance? She cheated while I was deployed in the military. Two of the longer term ones decided they wanted kids later on. One of them literally chose to do cocaine over …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:53 AM
2

It makes perfect sense. Women have always been the gatekeepers to sex. You choose the men that are to reproduce and chose the standards they must meet. Now that there are many options to prevent and even abort pregnancies, women have relaxed the standards (i.e. not needing commitment) so dudes are going to also ride that wave (if they can) No kids, want none, even sterile! I have dated one single mom, ever. Just not my thing. I have had a few LTRs. One fiance. Had a few that lasted a year+. I mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:22 AM
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Lol. I actually liked being the guy that was 'fun to fuck and nothing else'. That means all I had to do was show up showered and wed both get off, then I could leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:55 AM
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I'm 35, so like, we probs close to the same age. Women have always controlled the access to sex. Open up access, and bam, more guys pop in to say hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:51 AM
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I'm sorry but did you think there were standards other than she has a vagina and wants to fuck in the history of ever? Sexual revolution happens, commitment isn't needed to get a dick wet, of course men are going to take advantage of the same thing women are. Dunno why you think its hamstering
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:36 AM
1

Ya, can see how that makes it lose meaning. Different strokes for different folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:06 AM
2

So....you think telling somebody you feel a certain way when you don't is a good idea? That is ill advised. IDK I put weight on the 'Love' word. I say it when I mean it, never before. If somebody cant handle me not saying it at my pace...well goodbye then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:43 AM
3

good thing i make more than 100k a year IM A REAL MAN
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:07 AM
5

well if you dont love somebody...why say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:06 AM
5

Neckbeards arguing with legbeards!? No wonder we cant agree on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:34 PM
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Ma'am, dont look at me that way, and please cover up. YOU ARE LEADING ME ON (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:02 AM
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think maybe, just maybe...this might be the first time we have actually agreed lmao. (Little victories?)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:01 AM
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Kinda like RP says avoid modern women at all costs. Pretty easy to see those too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:54 AM
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Hypergamy is true. RP knows this. Thats why they tell you to improve. Women think hypergamy is some sort of hate or resentment towards them, or find it insulting that they would find a partner they feel to be AT LEAST as good as them in status/money/looks. The thing is, women can have all their standards and wants. It doesn't mean the men that meet these standards will select said woman, hence them having to compete with other women for that man. This is why they 'share' the attention of said ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:55 PM
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The only thing I really disagree with is your undesirable men statement. Undesirable men didn't rise simply because women can look further away. It just highlighted that they existed. Social media has given more people a platform to be well...people. The only thing that distance has done is create some weird dynamic that women thinking the dudes willing to fly them out and fuck them somehow view them as any different than the thot they smashed last weekend. By and large; people are fucking avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:55 PM
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Not going to disagree. Just found that personally, the type of woman that jumps on and goes with me have been better partners than the ones that are still trying to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:09 PM
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Hookup culture isn't for everybody, which is fine. People can make their own choices, so I don't think its 'bad'. Hookups aren't really supposed to be fulfilling like a relationship is. Its to scratch an itch (or cause one...lol) Personal opinion; its a byproduct of the 'get fast results' type of bullshit that is so common nowadays. Instant gratification. I think it is causing intimacy issues, personally. People are placing less value on sex and thus the partners they are choosing. Its easier to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:37 AM
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If the primary motivation for a man is sex, your choice to have sex or not is 'leverage' because you can lead them to what YOU want by leveraging the promise (or implied promise) of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:45 AM
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Wanting to isn't the same as able to spread the seed. A significant portion of men will fuck any low value woman; but wont commit to anything other than that. The fuck does your GF wanting you to fuck other women have to do with the AF/BB? I think you are out of touch with the terminology and basic teachings of RP. Or maybe I just cant understand a damn thing you are trying to say with all the typos, run on sentences and lack of paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:43 AM
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I think this is the part that gets past them. Its funny that other women are the barriers to that unrestrained sexuality from men, but when left to their own choices, these women literally allow fuck bois to exist. Sexual revolution took the commitment requirement away from men, so they just do the thing and move on. insert cow and milk analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:28 AM
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Dunno, don't think I am a HVM, but I fit a 100% of your criteria above. Being high value is subjective. Cause like I don't want kids and that makes me LV to a lot of women. I don't really use OLD that much because it feels so...shit. Even when I do get matches, a lot of the women expect me to 'dance monkey' to keep them entertained in some form before they grace me with the choosing signals (hints about dates). When they have 25 other matches to sort through from that day alone it is the only wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:16 AM
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I don't think you need to be extremely careful, but yes you do need to be careful. Women generally have an abundance of men willing to replace you very quickly. These could either be her 'orbiters' or any number of the dudes she matched with on Tinder she hasn't messaged back yet (or at all) Also; stop giving a fuck what women think of you, even if you are trying to date them. It shows a lack of confidence. Live your damn life. A good/great woman will jump on your moving train, not derail it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:04 AM
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Hey this is me as a dude. I do not want kids, I do not desire to spend loads of time around them. But kids I interact with adore me, and I can spend time with them...as long as I can go away when I feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:32 AM
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Nu-uhhhhhh Kids always take care of their parents! (/s) Personally I hope assisted suicide becomes a thing. Then I can just cleanly end myself on my terms lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:29 AM
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I read that and was like...WTF lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:41 AM
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Exactly; like I said, women are going to support women more. I'm not sure we disagree, but maybe you are trying to downplay it? I'm not saying its impossible to see because you are a woman yourself...but looking from the outside in; this is def the case. What survey? Everything I've seen is more than 50% of women identify as feminists, or even support the agenda of it (some from 2019 are showing 2/3rds of women!) And if the amount of feminist women are falling...then its just further proof that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:43 AM
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Well, its either death or divorce, so like...whatever. Divorce rates are actually somewhere around 40-50%, and that can be explained by the fact that the rates are also dropping. People are getting married later, and probably making better choices in partners. You could argue both sides of this; Women are not getting married fur survival, and less men are willing to even pop the question. Its likely a combination of both. Marriages can end for any number of reasons, and its not always women's fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:07 AM
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Yep. I see a lot of AFCs here, who aren't doing anything to make themselves better. Women do not want some shit tier level man, they want a man better than them in some way. It doesn't always have to be money, either. Once you actually get to a good point, women do fall over themselves for you and you CAN pick from a bigger pool. RP isn't about hating women, its about understanding and making yourself more like what they want to up your chances of success. You don't have to have read the RP book…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:58 PM
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That still doesnt refute societal decline. From an economics standpoint two incomes are better than one. Splitting bills is more effective for the people not making much money. (I.e. Roommates.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:43 PM
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Absolutely. You women will always support another woman before you support any man. (With the exception of men close to you such as family or significant other). I.e. Woman does something to man 'Wonder what he did to deserve that?' Did you really just try to say that most women aren't feminists? Lol. I've never heard of the populism movement. So I guess that means its not popular! /s Feminism is main stream. It isn't blocked by the YT algorithm, it isn't as likely to be removed from Twitter or …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:38 PM
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Ah, I see what you were getting at. I think we agree, but how we worded it is different. I was just looking to make a parallel that gets thrown at us. Yes, 100% truth. How we handle things in here is way different. It comes off as very crass and uncaring. Well the world doesn't fucking care about your feelings as a man, get over it and rise the fuck to the occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:44 PM
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Or maybe you guys don't actually read RP, and you generalize the entire thing, or try to define the whole by the actions of a few?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:32 PM
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average frustrated chump. He's mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:31 PM
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You mean like...the things that are supported by women...who can do no wrong? (Women are Wonderful effect, once again) You can be a literal rapist and cut a mans dick off and you will STILL get support as a woman. Or how about knowing companies support women exponentially more than they do men? Because women are the primary consumers. They will literally abandon men because women make them more money. (Women hold 66% of consumer debt btw.) Antivaxx isn't that huge. Its blown out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:30 PM
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No, it really isn't 'thriving' you just look to social media and the news and think that the entire world is that based upon it. I live in fucking Texas, and you know how many legit anti vaxx people I've met in person? Three.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:24 PM
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Marriage rates are declining, like a lot. What makes you believe societal decline is false because dudes are marrying still? I do not follow that logic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:36 AM
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This is more of a statement, is this supposed to be a CMV? A group cannot grow exponentially if it is being bombarded with negativity and hate. Some of that negativity is warranted, yes. We DO have dickheads in our ranks...much as does feminism with their wonderful outbursts of misandry and all the Tok Toks/Tumblr/Twitter posts filled with well...not the best specimens of Feminism. YouTube de-monitizes, shadowbans and hides content around RP, unless you are specifically looking for it (See above…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:29 AM
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It really isn't all that common. 'Cant find a job bro' every time you go see the judge. They enroll you into the help programs the state offers and send you out. They actually have to prove you are dodging the payments and shit to get any sort of footing on making you serve time. Plus a lot of judges wont send you to jail, because the counter doesn't stop, you cant work and the cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:32 AM
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Yes, you are an AFC. And you out here trying to roost on fucking reddit. You literally had a woman you were fucking call you ugly, and I am supposed to believe that you are better looking than me? PLUS 2 cheaters? My dude, the problem isn't women; it is you. Get your shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:04 AM
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Guess you gotta define 'right away'. I don't keep anybody in my queue longer than a week or so. I either get them digits, set up a date or it fizzles. OLD isn't much of huge deal for me, I still cold approach. I also only keep my profile for like 2-3 weeks at a time before deleting it so no reason to keep the matches any longer. Less for the girls to filter through later, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:59 AM
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Yo, if your mom is telling you that shit...its probably true. And as a fellow RP...work on that shit, now. You are repelling women with bad attitude. You sound like an AFC. Get therapy, take up a physical sport and do shit that does NOT focus on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:45 AM
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No, it means you aren't having sex. Morons just added more meanings to the term because they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:43 AM
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I've heard the term 'duty sex' once. I'm sorry but if you see having sex with your partner to make them happy is a 'duty'....well you have a very very bad outlook on relationships. Guess men can start calling it 'duty romance' or...'duty laundry' or whatever. TAKE CARE OF YOUR FUCKING PARTNER. Can you say no? Of course. Should they respect that? Of course. If you make it a habit to say no, and often; do not be fucking surprised when a partner seeks attention elsewhere. If the only reason you say…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:50 AM
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Nope. Because again. The woman has full choice on carrying the child full stop. If she doesn't want the kid, too bad father. If she does want the kid too bad father? Nah man. Its either A) paternity test every child or Allow men to 'abort' the child all rights AND responsibilities. Then a woman can decide if she wants to abort or not, especially knowing she will be dealing with it alone. Oh, and its not daddy governments job to support the kid either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:50 AM
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wwomen get let off of significantly more crimes, how many times do you think crocodile tears got them out of issues? Or how about domestic disputes where the man gets taken away? men are ARRESTED for 90% of the crime. Women are wonderful effect in action again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:46 AM
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took me four different docs as a man so like...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:44 AM
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Difference between reduce and prevent. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9141163/ HSV/Herpes can be spread with no active sores via 'viral shedding.' regardless of condom or not, again just reduces the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:14 PM
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Depends on the conversation. But like I find MOST people regardless of political view to be even keel. IRL isn't like the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:38 PM
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'pretend' fucking speeding tickets. kidding...or am I?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:08 PM
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Like real talk (maybe a thread to start) but do you think that if you know you are 'out of somebodies league' you rate them lower than normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:06 PM
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same shit with height.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:05 PM
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Ouch, damn. I didn't get them until I was in my 30s. Mom couldn't afford them, military wouldn't let me have them cause I always deployed...then I moved around a lot so it wasn't smart to do so. I was so happy to be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:58 PM
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bro, I must be an asshole, shes like a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:52 PM
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simps fuck everything up. Can we seriously stop doing this, guys. Glad she was held accountable though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:51 PM
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ouch, but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:49 PM
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Oof. I had them remove those two days after putting them in. 12k and two years later my teeth are awesome tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:48 PM
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powepoint in presentation mode keeps it gree forever, or pressing the control key down, i use a screwdriver sometimes :P
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:40 PM
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Ya, If i stay on track I will have bought, remodeled and paid for a home in 6 years. if nothing else breaks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:10 PM
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im...not hip anymore. I must be old. I may sell it, might keep it to rent out to military families for cheap(er) than average around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:09 PM
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Gotta make an original one for me tho, so i can be a cool kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:05 PM
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ya, kinda have to with the people I work for...Fraud waste and abuse type of issue :P
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:01 PM
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the fuck is a femwagie? Accountant? Either way, grats on new house. Bought mine, no longer want it. Gotta finish the remodel though :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:31 PM
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I live dangerously. Always a contractor lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:28 PM
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hey bby, you want sum fock?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:22 PM
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WTF, is there somewhere on this planet where dudes cannot friend zone women? If they just started dating and shes asking to stay at your place...shes probs not dating him, more like using him maybe you are her one true chad that she 'wants to change' Or maybe she just actually wants to be your friend still.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:20 PM
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Follow me so I can follow you, then unfollow you later. Just because...im jelly of your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:17 PM
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instructions unclear, fucking my friends because we have a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:12 PM
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Ugh, thats gotta be stressful. Sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:10 PM
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Thats great honestly. A lot of stuff is going into AWS...that is their money maker after all. I tried to learn Python, couldn't get into it. Have some EXP with Unix scripting and some ESXi/WMWare things. CLI and I do not get along! I mess around with things like Splunk in my free time. Have a home 'server' (my old 2700x and GTX 1080 PC) Only a bachelors here, but I do have my CISSP. Been studying for the CCISO, but man I REALLY don't wanna pay for the class and the test. I have to take the cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:09 PM
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I've had 4 meetings in the almost 3 weeks I've been here. I wiggle the mouse to get the Laptop unlocked every 5 minutes or so lol. Damn Teams bubble gotta stay green so I cant go to the gym :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:03 PM
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IDK, i just left a shitty tech job We just get to WFH more than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:02 PM
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Ya, not much interesting going on in the world if everybody is at home lol. What do you do with the free time then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:01 PM
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Oh, nice! What part of Tech? I have done a lot of things, but I stick with Compliance, like NIST and HIPAA mostly. Have a lot of experience doing Enterprise management. New job was a 50% pay bump. Well into that six figures!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:59 PM
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Tech industry, Compliance/Cybersecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:52 PM
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Ah, I'm a Tech Bro. They hired a bunch of new people in prep for upcoming workload. Just really dont have anything for me to do :/. What do you write?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:50 PM
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Get a new job...they dont give me work to do. So I sit here on reddit, play Destiny 2 or do house work while getting paid stupid money. Can I really complain? Nah. But I really dont wanna scrub these baseboards >_>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:38 PM
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lol, babyface reporting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:23 PM
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Ya was gonna say. 3-8% is body builder level shredded 13% is like pro athlete levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:22 PM
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'(Wo)Men are not a monolith' A lot of that shit is overblown. Men say 'we want this' women take it to the extreme and offense to it. (this actually goes both damn ways!)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:11 PM
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You can do both. Having 4 or 5 dates on a weekend is kind of where i see the issue. If you had 4 or 5 dates spread out during the week? View that as different. Gives you time to actually reflect on what went right or wrong. I always kinda chuckle with the 'eggs in a basket' thing. Cause that just feeds into the 'I can do better, maybe. So I wont invest into this person because a better one exists.' Like I get wanting the best possible for yourself, but do you REALLY think that you will find the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:07 PM
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TBF, not any different than what women are competing for. Most dudes REALLY dont care about the extra weight, really. We fucking dont. Morbidly Obese? Yes, that is an issue. Women don't really like Single dads, dudes in a relationship or married either, lol. IIRC there are actually more Step dads than Step moms. I've seen more single moms be like 'don't want a dude with kids', than I have Dads being unwilling to date Mothers too The wall just means you get 'less attraction', not zero. Plenty of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:00 PM
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I used to date only one at a time. But I found investment from them was...lacking compared to mine. Chicks don't like clingy dudes, and if your attention is spread across multiples you are less likely to be over invested into somebody new (this is why spinning plates is a thing in RP) Several dates in one weekend...idk I personally think thats kinda scummy, but not because you are like...using men or anything, but more like you don't even get to marinate on one person before spending time with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:48 PM
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Ya, and you paid nothing for it, best part! With a lot of WFH, people cant really complain about meals either, cause its cheaper to eat healthy(ier) than fast food...and you are home all day so you can do some prep throughout the day instead of after work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:09 PM
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Dr. Pepper was made in Waco, Texas (That place is weird, btw) Texans LOVE Dr. Pepper. Burger joints have Dr. Pepper shakes and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:42 PM
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so like, your username...are you a texan? Cause that shit is like a cult following here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:39 PM
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ratio'd? Fuck I must be old. I assume that it means 10:1 say fuck you?...or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:38 PM
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dont even have to do that, you can do body resistance workouts and home and do pretty fucking well for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:35 PM
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Video games are fine. Addiction to video games is not. If 40% of your free time is video games, id probs call it an issue. If you don't clean your house and instead play video games, its a problem. If you have ever turned down sex because of video games, its a problem. Video games are quite literally designed to hit that reward center in your brain to make you want to play them. Thats how they make money. Of course you would want to spend a bunch of time doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:30 PM
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Not sure where the wires are crossed...but if I wore them in LTRs with people I trust, why wouldn't I wear them with some chick I picked up in a bar/on Tinder? Its not a 'trust' issue. Its a responsibility issue. IDC if she was on the pill or not, I'd still wrap up. I am not going to put myself into a situation I cannot control. Her body, her choice. She can choose to abort, but if I don't put a baby in her...its not my worry. Thats not how it works in America. Woman can declare me as a father o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:11 PM
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Condoms actually do not prevent the ones that aren't curable, like herpes. They reduce. Even when I was in LTRs, I still wore condoms, because why leave the choice of being a parent to the whims of a woman. If a woman gets pregnant and I do not want a kid it does not matter she can still choose to have it, and label me the father, and guess who is on the hook for child support? Men cannot abort parental duties, only rights if a woman doesn't want him to. Yes, that is still a massive issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:32 PM
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It makes perfect sense when you dont want a condom in an LTR or the whims of a woman to determine your parental status. Freeze sperm. If you decide to have a child TOGETHER, artificial insemination it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:40 PM
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I HEAVILY recommend freezing some swimmers and getting a vasectomy. Like hands down, scream to the heavens. Do NOT leave the parental choice to a woman. As long as women can decide on a whim if you will be a father or not it is a bad idea as a man. So to clear things up. Vasectomies dont cut your balls off. They cut the tube that transports your sperm to the semen. Your balls still produce sperm. You still produce test. You still cum normally. However; it is not always reversible (like 30% chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:09 PM
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In a lot of cases, yes. Smart/good women see a man that will be something early (drive/motivation/decent physical tratis) and they pair off. Smart/good men see a good woman and keep her. Its why I always tell people to reflect on themselves before trying to blame the opposite sex. (You know RP teaches self improvement...right guys?) If dudes just keep fucking you and leaving; you aren't the type of women most men are looking for. If women are ghosting you/friend zoning you; you are not the type …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:01 PM
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The joke of 'cum, close 15 tabs, shudder and question your thought process' isn't a joke for some people. In most cases the dudes that get this ED stuff are not ones getting laid. After all, if you have a partner, why would porn be such a huge part of your life? To be clear; im not blaming women for some men's porn habits; but I also not going to just blame men alone. Women's 'standards' have gone up, some of it IS warranted, some is not. Some men are meeting them, some are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:48 AM
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Almost nobody really thinks a woman should not work...53% of households are dual income. Mostly cause they need to be. Actually, in 2020; more than 50% of workers were women. If big city living a man would need to be like 85%+ (125k+) earner to live a decent life with a wife an kid where she didn't work. If you cant make that as a man, you better get used to your woman having to work, and fast. I am in a place where 40% of my income covers literally all my expenses. Mortgage, car payment, travel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:56 PM
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Meanwhile in the mens corner; Literally dont be morbidly obese and be approachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:18 PM
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Ya, thats why I said risk/reward. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:39 PM
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I have a friend that used to do it, know a little about it. Kinda miss hawaii now. You did it in the past (men for money) and that is usually enough for guys to label you as not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:30 PM
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Oh damn, so its just the colleges then? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:26 PM
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Are you implying they haven't already? Can you tell them to please improve sex ed!?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:22 PM
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Not often, still a risk/reward thing. Some guys dont take risks or minimize it as much as possible. I ride a crotch rocket, go to a racetrack, move to another state without a job, leave jobs at will, jump out of planes...a lot of people would have a fucking stroke hanging around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:15 PM
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Which if you aren't getting that orgasm from the person you are supposed to only give it to, its a problem. If the relationship was already to shit (i mean yall aint fucking, something is up) its easier to justify. Condoms, vasectomy, her on the pill. All lower the risk Drama happens in all relationships but...what are the chances of your GF/WF finding out? It really depends on who what when where. IS there a paper trail? Money trail? Interaction via cell phone? Is it just a woman you met random…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:46 PM
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You can be disciplined in many areas of life and not in others. I am disciplined by making my bed every morning, I study every night for new IT certs, I work when I need to. But sometimes, that discipline doesn't translate to me going to the Gym every day (every other day instead). HVM still have faults, as do HVW. Cheaters are shit, but its a Risk/Reward. What is the risk of being caught? What are the rewards if you do this thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:38 PM
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Do you think most men only us women for sex, are are you trying to draw conclusions from nothing? I not only agreed with you, but added to it. Here... Exactly women will move on from men they don't like and if men are not buying what you are selling you are not what they are looking for and they just move on. But then the argument from women becomes 'he just used me for sex!'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:31 PM
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Ya, gonna say this is pretty frowned upon by all. We may have dudes come up with something like she wasn't fucking him enough... But that isn't any different than the idiots on Tik Tok talking about women cheat because a man isn't doing X.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:27 PM
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No, im responding to you saying 'but we have options.' If was responding to the actual original comment, I wouldn't have replied to the one above.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:23 PM
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Not get married? RP does say you can get married, but also has areas set to help you improve your marriage to help prevent this from happening. Like not getting complacent or letting yourself go. Kinda the same things we try to tell women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:21 PM
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Worthless? I mean maybe for a serious relationship given that you fuck other men for cash and that is not going to work for most relationships. But dudes being able to get laid provides some value to society. Happy men are productive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:16 PM
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Exactly, and if men aren't buying what you are selling, they just move on. But then the argument becomes 'he just used me for sex !!!111'.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:10 PM
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IDK viagara chad is running them halls. Plus old people and STD are actually pretty high....ewwww
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:03 PM
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You either didn't read it or have a weird interpretation of what it is then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:03 PM
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Ya, I know and agree. Was trying to make a point is all. There are a lot of terms just thrown around a lot...to the point that they are losing meaning and are more of a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:39 AM
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I used to be that way, until me sis only started using me for drug money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:17 AM
1

God Tier OK tier Shit Tier BOOM!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:15 AM
1

fucking jock chad strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:10 AM
3

never underestimate the dependa.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:04 AM
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Looks? Women, every time. Biased though as I am a man. Financially? Even in the tech sector the senior (paid more not age) guys are with the cute younger ones. Socially? honestly its 50/50 I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:03 AM
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Male fertility drops as they age, much like women. Also creates a higher risk for birth issues (autism and the like). https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3253726/ The difference is, womens takes a nose dive whereas mens is a gradual decline
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:59 AM
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Jail is the drunk tank, prison is for when you drove a tank, drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:53 AM
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Part of this is because men really are not the ones driving a lot of the beauty trends. Women are. Are there men on social media that love lip fillers, lots of contoured make-up and fake asses? Absolutely. Its not the norm though. Kinda like that whole instat-thot wanting a guy with at least a 6 digit income. Its out there, its seen and its always used as a 'this is what is wanted!' (it pretty much is not, by and large) Spot on with the values thing. Lotta traditional values, got some 50/50, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:59 PM
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Little bit of hyperbole, but yes. Its called 'women are wonderful' effect. We consistently see women as better people than they really are, and its being reinforced by media/tv shows/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:38 PM
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Sorry took my pups to the park Huskies can be destructive! Thats why I said it is a language barrier. There are people that know literally nothing about it, trying to make claims as to what it is; that does not help. That makes it frustrating to talk about (much like feminism has to suffer through). When the media tells you so many demonizing things about a group...of course that is what you will believe. It isn't just Fox news that does this shit, either (damn degenerates) Can you clarify why y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:23 PM
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Any sort of group of people following one set of principles can be defined as a cult. Like Feminism! -PUA is not Red Pill, it is PUA. Actually some of the RP guys don't like PUA. -Who wouldn't want to make money off of education? They are selling a product, and it does help people. -Questioning Red Pill isn't punished. Red Pill encourages questions and better understanding. It is more data to break down. It doesn't like stupid questions akin to womens' why are RP guys incels!? and things like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:20 PM
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Absolutely not. The bitching comes when a woman takes on a job doing things she cant physically keep up with or cause her failing to make more work for other men. I.e. a brick layer. If you cant carry the mortar/bricks at a decent place, you slow everybody down. You essentially are causing issues. You shouldn't be there. Neither should a man that couldn't keep up. Its just more likely a woman couldn't. Bonus; there are plenty of women that think men shouldn't be doing certain jobs. Like child ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:52 PM
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Well I guess occasionally some dudes marry the crazy ones because of the hot/crazy scale. Much like how women will put up with more shit from a man that makes her tingle. Mostly you just fuck the crazy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:30 PM
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Red Pill doesn't 'hate' on men that cant be Chad. It tells you how to be more like Chad (improvements) and explains why women like the Chads. Truthfully any man that gives a flying fuck about another mans relationship in anything other than a positive light...is no true chad. Unless of course said relationship is SHIT, like its just a bad one overall. Then bro code dictates you help a homie out. Relationships can last for any number of reasons. Maybe the man is Blue Pilled, and maybe the woman l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:09 PM
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Boys are more inclined to violence. It is a fact...as we know it with current data. Can you call that misandry? If the answer is 'Yes' then sure, I can see why you think RP is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:58 PM
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Yes, but socially we are heavily frowning upon that. So the instinct is to go do it, but your 'training' by a feminist centered society is that makes you look like a creep/asshole. I believe this is why the apps are going up in popularity. It requires mutual yes to even start a conversation...but boy does that fuck with confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:42 PM
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Well of course, its an easy way to shift blame away. One of the mantras of RP is women dont accept responsibility, right? Its not like being feminine was perfected by a female who knew how to use her femininity to get what she wanted/influence things by using what nature gave her. Its not like it was evolved over centuries. Nope, men taught women that too. (/s just in case)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:31 PM
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Shes a troll lmao, dont feed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:03 PM
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Yes, but that is because it is ingrained into little boys heads to 'protect women' and be these specific ways (leading to the forming of more simps...sigh) As more women want to be treated like men with each generation, less of that will be a thing. Chivalry is dying. There are a lack of 'feminine' women that deserve it or see it as special. They think its a bare minimum for their existence, but don't act like the type of women that it was used for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:56 PM
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Eh, to an extent yes. I don’t think silencing is the right answer. Guidance is. Not a shrink but I believe You cannot fix a thought process without knowing why they think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:38 AM
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Somebody else brought that up in another thread to me earlier today. (Women are wonderful stuff) Tbh I would find it very difficult for that to hit home with the women that come here. 95% of them are convinced we just hate women…on top of believing they are oppressed at every level. I was thinking on it, maybe I’ll mod mail tomorrow to try and work something out and see if I can do something for the side bar. Don’t really wanna maintain that shit tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:29 AM
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Go ahead and expand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:58 AM
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Its kind of hyperbole. (I expanded some more in a comment below) No, we do not think yall are literal saints, but we are conditioned to believe you are better people than women actually are. Edit: also dunno where you got that whole fault question from. The vast majority don’t ‘blame’ women for being women. That’s the whole ‘female nature’ part of the RP It’s actually part of it to not blame women…because some of these things are just part of who they are. Kinda like how men do specific things j…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:56 AM
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Like I said, cant win. So I will continue to cold approach in public areas. I really do not get bugged by rejection. Cause you know dudes that approach women get rejected...a lot. Maybe in the next few years, as women become more masculine...more will start to approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:28 AM
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dont worry, women have confused themselves by saying the patriarchy exists but also that women rule the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:41 AM
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OK,now this got a good giggle outta me!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:24 AM
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None of the shit in red pill is really 'new'. The nerds just figured out the patterns that 'chad' already knew and followed naturally. Its new to people that don't know. I was simply giving examples as to why young men do not know these things. They were simply not taught. and while yes its been beaten to death that 2 parent households are better, we still continue to celebrate single motherhood while painting men as unfit parents/deadbeats at a significant rate. We still have nearly half the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:05 AM
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Women; Literally dont approach me anywhere. Also women; Men dont approach me anymore. Again women; This guy approached me, ewwwww. Cant he see I'm trying to do something. Don't forget the ever so present; Men don't have social lives or are lacking social skills. Men trying to be social and interact with a woman like shes human EWWWW STOP. Can't win dudes. Protiip; pretty much always do the opposite of what women tell you on reddit. Continue to cold approach like this guy is doing. No need to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:41 AM
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You need help homeslice. Being that negative towards half the population is pretty shit, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:22 AM
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It is not that men aren't taught people are assholes. It is more that we are taught that women don't have the proclivity to be assholes, and we aren't exposed to it as much as we are men. (imho at least) Social Media. Pro women movement for everything (Accept women how they are no matter what). They are constantly celebrated as amazing for the smallest of things now. A woman volunteering at a local schools is seen as amazing, may get news time or other things. Women that do the same crimes as me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:46 AM
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straight up came across this while hitting 'random'. I am here now to try and clear things up and advocate for better communication. My damn sailor mouth though, it has a mind of its own!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:24 AM
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Perhaps. If it reaches some, its better than none. Dropping a pointed insult at women in general like that...isn't going to get them to take it seriously though, just create more divide and give them ammo to say RP men are dickheads
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:01 AM
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pls daddy no, I dont wanna do a big one :( But thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:49 AM
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I see your side of it, but it wasn't meant as a bang super hot women/physical attractiveness/trade up type of thing. RP really isn't that. Honestly that falls more in line with PUA in my opinion. Can edit that part for a re-word if really needed, it wasn't intended to come off as shallow like that. If it does, sorry! More like...kids, marriage, perpetual bachelorhood, etc. Whatever your 'goal' is I would consider the best possible outcome. You want kids? Date women that are younger and that want…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:48 AM
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I'm glad its reaching people. I am tired of seeing so much hate for an entire movement based upon the actions (or reactions) of a few. I don't think every damn thing about RP is good or right, nor do I think a lot of guys actually understand what it is getting at, but its very very clear that women have demonized it a ton. 9/10 times they come in here already hating RP men and thinking being RP means you hate women. If we can clear the language barrier a bit...I think women would honestly agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:56 PM
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I can 100% agree. Men are not vetting correctly. (women aren't either!). Trying to give appropriate vetting techniques will never really work; because people not only have preferences, but are volatile and it will never be 100% right. There are absolutely uncomfortable things about RP and it causes some backlash; some of it is needed. It can help a lot with the right mindset, but if you go in already hating women...you gonna have a bad time!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:45 PM
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Incel was actually a term created by a fucking woman. It didn't start on 4chan, nor is it a spin off of red pill. Shit was started back in the 90s at some point, before RP was really a thing. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-45284455 Incels are Black Pill btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:36 PM
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Because chivalry, and women deserve special treatment for 'reasons'. Now that men are starting to not be chivalrous (because that is not equal) we are hearing the complaints about it being dead. Damn right it is ladies, YOU killed it. You cant scream for equality, then be surprised pikachu face when it happens. We call those 'unintended consequences'. Ya, I don't sub to everything red pill spits either. I can draw my own conclusions from stuff they say, and tailor things to my needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:24 PM
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That second to last paragraph NAILS it. IT seems like a 'waste of time' to the nice guys to keep being nice, and doing the things momma taught them to do...only to find that the women they pursue are not responding to what momma taught them. Its either mom is a liar, or this girl is a bitch. (hyperbole, for effect) What is going to be chosen in most cases?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:00 PM
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thats rough. 125 in a 45 and the cop gave me a ticket after throwing my key lmao. Wasn't even my last one >_>.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:26 PM
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those damn camera angles man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:20 PM
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Nowhere is safe from thottery dude. Its in our culture now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:17 PM
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There is a common misconception among women when it comes to Red Pill. You think anybody that is RP hates women or looks down on them, or whatever negative thing. In some cases; yes some of these men do grow to resent women. Its a phase called 'red pill rage'. Its a beginners problem. When they finally found out women can be shitty people just like any man...despite being told their entire lives that women are not capable of evil, they are angels and perfect creatures. Its a shock, it explains a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:08 PM
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Of course there isn't a solid '20%' line because each person has preferences. I was trying to argue this point with a guy just a few days ago, he was trying to make If/than statements about attraction, and since you cannot draw clear lines he was trying to disprove hypergamy existed because he couldn't create a model around it... I am positive there are some commonalities though. Like confidence. Style, Drive/motivation, etc. (all of which a significant portion of men do not have nowadays...) Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:17 PM
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There was also the fact that women aim for the top 20% or whatever, but not all get it, or will even have a chance. (Much like randos hitting up insta-thots) That is why its called settling down. You get the best you can with what you got. As men (on average anyway) find women the most attractive in their early 20s (IIRC 21-26)...the women are taking advantage of it (the party phase) and getting with those top guys that they can, or settling in and realizing they CANT have that 20% for whatever …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:47 PM
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You are misrepresenting the 80/20 thing like the RP guys did before. DESPITE the fact women found 80% of men unattractive from those photos, they still swiped right on a subset of them. Because spoiler alert...looks aren't AS important to women...as most of you Women so adamantly scream into the heavens. that means those subset of guys the swiped right on met at least the bare minimum requirements for looks which would be whatever was defined above.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:55 AM
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Book called the 'Boy Crisis' you might like! Points out a LOT of ways We are failing young men in America...written by a guy who used to be an avid feminist supporter. Nearly 75% of college dropouts are now men as well. (https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/todaysdebate/2021/09/15/college-fewer-men-hurts-america/8278887002/) I would like to point out that +50% of households have dual income families so the employment rate for women has to at least some degree gone up because it simply has to (…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:58 AM
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No you don't, you literally only bitch about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:07 AM
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You are a misandrist man. You need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:44 AM
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There is no way you are a man. Or you might be, a fem boy maybe? Or you drank the kool aid that women are saints WAY too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:27 AM
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Little different for me cause i was in my later 20s when i went to college (military out of high school!) 1) Yes and no. A lot of the younger women were more willing to 'study at my place' than I had imagined. But not as many as a lot would think. Believe it was because I had a home in Hawaii, and was not a dorm :P. Some were even more forward about having sex before studying. 2) Probably. There has already been a heavy shift in virginity, as in way more men are staying virgins until later than …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:04 AM
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6 foot 185 lbs...so not really. Got a little extra, but not that much! It is simply the other side of the coin. Physical attraction is needed. Women will shame men for not wanting big girls often, but simply do not bat an eye when women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:16 AM
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Goes both ways. We doint need to 'get to know' the big girls, cause beauty is not only on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:28 AM
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Last one was me. I knew I wouldn't love her because she had a kid. I tried. I really really did. She knew it to. I did the right things. Showed her proper love and care, treated her well. We are still good friends. Talked to her this week actually! She is moving in with her new BF soon. I am legit happy for her. One before that was her. She decided to move to Colorado for a job, knew I wouldn't come with her so she left me...then told me why after. Another one was me. I wanted to move off Oahu, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:35 AM
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because not all people can be happy alone using their own tears as lube to rub one out. Some people want companionship and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:06 AM
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Probably the biggest thing; I do not want kids; at all. I wont date mothers. Even have a vasectomy. At 35...its kind of a problem :P.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:47 AM
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Dunno if i agree about the comfort seeing you sexually part. It is not a comfort issue, it is a sexuality issue by whatever measurement they want to use. Also think the last sentence may be a typo if not; Women decided what a HVM is, but it is a preference thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:40 PM
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I agree, mostly. If you struggle to date its for a reason. Some of it is within your control, some is not. There is a SHITLOAD of a lack of personal reflection and responsibility on both sides of this. I've tried to explain many time; you as a person do not assign your SMV, the person(s) assessing you as a partner do. I can claim to be a HVM all I want. The proof is in the pudding. How often do I get laid, How many women have approached me, tried to keep me around, have made themselves available…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:19 PM
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Isn't that what they are trying to get to be the 'improvement'?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:33 PM
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Some do Dave Ramsey type shit Make a budget, track it, etc...but I've never heard of them pushing stocks or crypto...honestly i never hear that shit outside of reddit or youtube ads lol It's more 'general' financial advice than it is tailored to every situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:08 PM
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women fuck men other women want to fuck :P
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:03 PM
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Only the ones in 'red pill rage' think that women are not worthy of relationships. Usually the beginners. Its described as the reaction to knowing that they have been lied to about women being sugar and spice and everything nice because they are fed that women can 'do no wrong', and men are the perpetrators of all evil. Red Pill is more about understanding how women ARE, and making yourself into something more likely to be what women want. (either just to have sex, or get a family.) It talks at …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:53 PM
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Its a values thing, and you just probably don't have the same value system, and that is maybe why you think its odd That is not me saying that low N or High N is the right answer. I don't ask cause it doesn't matter too me. I've never hidden that I was a manhoe but don't even really know my actual # anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:54 AM
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this is why I do not discuss it with new partners. also why I understand why women say 'it doesn't matter'...even though it DOES matter...to some men, they just know itll cause problems with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:42 AM
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I thought emotions ruled over logic. So if she loves chad thundercock, wouldn't she stay with him? Then there is the other side of 'chad gets away with more'. 'Good dick keeps women around' etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:40 AM
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We are men, the patriarchy means we always win, duh. (/s just in case)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:35 AM
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Concur with this. It is really not the 'average' woman that believes it is 'needed' to be a man worth dating. Hell the fact that I am well into 6 figures doesn't even register on most women because I do not flaunt it nor brag about it. Flashing money is going to get a certain type of woman (gold digger) or the insta-thots that want to be flown out, let you bang them, and then move onto the next guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:29 PM
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Firmly disagree. Hypergamy is just picking a person most suited to what you want. 'Leagues' are determined by the person doing the assessment, which is based upon their preference for what they want in a partner. If you are an outside entity judging a couple and determining that the super fit chick shouldn't be with the fat guy wearing an anime t-shirt, you are kind of an asshole. Dunno if I am wording this in a way that makes sense...but if you are trying to make that judgement call, you are tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:46 PM
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Sorry for late response, took dogs to the park. Dating not being 'fair' =/= hypergamy not existing. Not sure how you jumped to that. Are you somehow trying to use this transactional attractiveness to disprove Hypergamy? Hypergamy is real. It is not a woman only thing, nor is it a singular thing. EVERYBODY wants the best possible partner they can get that aligns with their preferences. If I got a list of 10 things I want and I have somebody that meets 5 and another that meets 7, who should I choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:28 PM
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There is no such thing as 'fair' because of preferences and the weight of those preferences on that individuals scale of important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:28 PM
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You are still making it transactional. 'if i want big titties what do i need to have to get it?' It is still preference and taste based. Fat girls can have big titties and want a fit man. A fit man may like a fat girl with big titties. Is she shooting out of her league? No, its just rare to find what she wants that ALSO wants her. Is he batting below where he should be? Not really. Hes choosing to chase something he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:11 PM
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There isn't some scale that can be defined, because it is based on person to person and what they are willing to put up with. Basically, too many variables to come up with some actual data. A man could want big breasts on a woman, but what two different big breasted women will want will vary. People weigh different things as more important. Dunno man its almost like you are trying to make attraction as transactional. If I have this I should get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:46 PM
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Men are significantly more willing to date 'down' in the economics side. Sometimes for nefarious power reasons, others for good reasons like wanting to be a provider....but by and large most are of similar age and economic backgrounds. The 6 digits thing isn't really a major issue, and the type of woman wanting that is likely never going to look at a guy who has a problem with it to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:41 PM
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Men are seeing what women are defining as crap and also deciding to check out. (See things like MGTOW becoming more common) So yes, women are getting more divorces and happy with careers/being single...but a lot of men are taking that exact same route, mostly by just becoming 'fuckbois' and never committing. It is a cycle where (IMHO) both parties are causing the other party to be the way they are. A lot of women believe they are of quality based on self assessment. You can believe you are a qua…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:27 PM
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