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| 18 | Female redditer only, or just a female issue? | Social Issues | Cablepussy | /r/MensRights | 01/07/23 07:56 AM |
| 8 | Imagine the comments if this was a boyfriend and not a girlfriend | Humour | Cablepussy | /r/MensRights | 02/10/23 04:58 AM |
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| 31 | Men aren't lonely and single because they're toxic, violent and sexist; they're lonely and single because they're unattractive, broke and awkwardBasically when everyday life becomes too convenient for women men need to become exponentially more valuable to secure a mate. Is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenI don't think you actually comprehended what you read or maybe I simply didn't articulate myself properly. This isn't a matter of sympathy, we're now seeing complete apathy in totality, women experiencing it is simply a biproduct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Men have no sympathy towards womenI think men and women experience different difficulties and they're less likely to care about said difficulties that don't affect them, I also think that society(women) have chosen a "we don't owe you anything" approach to life & people are now seeing the unintended consequences of that. People wanted to get rid of the bad parts of a cohesive social society not realizing that it also includes the good parts, everybody has maxed out their "minding my own business" stat and now people are upset no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:13 PM |
| 34 | Most men don't understand what rape is because they think of women as less.I agree with most of your post but I just want to draw attention to something I notice any of these issues are brought up. When women have issues it’s something society needs to fix, men included. When men have issues it’s their problem and they need to fix it themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 10:07 AM |
| – | Women don't have life "Easier" than menI always find this conversation interesting because when men and women talk about it they often do so from a lens of willful ignorance. If a man wants to be reborn a woman he’s usually talking about a ‘girl next door’ kind of girl, nothing crazy but usually hot in some way, your average woman to a degree, they’re most definitely not talking about being reborn an ugly woman. Ugly women are invisible to men, it is the closest thing you’ll get to the average male experience, if you don’t like being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 06:06 PM |
| – | Women don't have life "Easier" than menAverage men are invisible to women, ugly women are invisible to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 05:51 PM |
| – | Guys seem to be very chill about being around people they dont like or generally unlikable people.And Hitler drank water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 03:38 AM |
| -2 | Men (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value tooHonestly it sounds like the opposite. Just because some women don't acknowledge the innate privilege they're born with does not mean it doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 11:41 AM |
| 3 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseWhile I appreciate the good faith argument, not recognizing even in your on analogy that the gap between $1 and $4 is beyond exponential is why this conversation won't make any actual progress. The difference between 0 and 1 is the existence of something vs the existence of nothing, it's all relative but is by no means small if it was you could buy $3 chips for $2, the difference is "small" but the gap is beyond massive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 09:16 PM |
| 13 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually choose"Slightly higher", it's anywhere from 3-4x higher than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 07:04 PM |
| 17 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseIt's because women exhibit such a high in-group bias that men do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male ConcernsSo when women become radicalized it's because they're "observing male behavior" but when men become radicalized for the same reason it's because they're redpilled incels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 04:14 AM |
| 4 | Men should be more radicalised and actively work against women's interests.and? It's okay to beg from people who have "more" but the moment the shoe is on the other foot the ladder comes up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 02:10 AM |
| 7 | Men need to have higher standards.That will never happen because women as a whole do not want to work the required amount to close that gap, let alone work the jobs required to close that gap. Women as a block will always earn less than men unless they're being subsidized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 12:51 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemUnfortunately for men the sin of being average is equivalent to being a conventionally unattractive women, invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:49 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemSo average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 10:42 AM |
| 1 | The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor loadJust going to say the quiet part out loud, this person never denied their point - they will not care regardless, the hypothetical is just there so they can have a justification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 04:34 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucksI always find it funny that if men have a problem men need to change & if women have a problem men need to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.One of god's cruelest jokes is that the easiest way to get a woman isn't to pursue them but to go on with your life as if they didn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.I would go to church, find a single man(good Christian boy), befriend his parents, make them love me more than they love him, marry him & hope I don't have fertility issues. And as long as we like(love) each other, and he isn't abusive, I wouldn't mind being "submissive". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 09:43 AM |
| 14 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?It highlights the complete disconnect between men and women when it comes to social attention. Women will never understand how socially isolating it is to be a man, even one who has friends, has family, and has a social net. The average woman's social experience is what a man can expect to experience if he's at the top end of the bell curve or if he makes his entire job networking. Men are human doings, women are human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do men not support other men, in the same way that women support other women?Men and women play the game of power differently and that manifests differently in the world. The way they play it is advantageous to them at any given time but horrible at specific times. Men are either UP or DOWN. | /r/MensRights | 15/03/25 03:26 AM |
| 2 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Oh shit, good thing I wasn't drinking something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 12:37 PM |
| 2 | what are women made forEyo wrong place for this unfortunately for you. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/25 06:15 AM |
| 0 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?Because women have an easier time initiating the dating process. Men's difficulties are all front-loaded, women's are all back-loaded. Nobody cares about the difficulties women experience AFTER the man had to get his foot in the door. Kind of leaving out the more specific context but that's the gist of it. We as humans celebrate things that are difficult and shame things that are easy. Basically no woman is truly alone, she just had standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 08:31 AM |
| 5 | How come only men complain about loneliness ?Because western women are never truly alone, if they are it is by choice. Women who are not western women or don't live in a 1st world country don't have a voice. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Women and their Disgust for PrenupsMen usually date/marry down. Women usually date/marry up. Anyone with significant assets is usually in favor of prenups. Conclusion? Most women make less than most men therefore most women are less likely to want prenups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 10:44 AM |
| 1 | This video is insane. In essence it’s just taking bad things that a man has done in isolation and implying that every man is inherently like that… If there was inceldom for women, it’d be this video.The type of person to disagree with how a word is spelt because a she didn't like told her. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/25 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Why do women impose their stupid mentality on children?The only time (most)women ever have (authority)power over another being is when they are (children)in their younger years which is why they are more likely to abuse children than men. Because they've never had to learn to control their authority any chance they get to exercise it they use it fully and unabashedly. This is often why women get called bossy or bitchy and don't understand why male bosses aren't met with the same criticism, because to them authority is synonymous with power & violenc… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/25 08:12 AM |
| 0 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyIt more so has to due with the fact only men are competition, less to due with hate; most men are indifferent to other men. Even prisoners don't like child abusers and wife beaters, even if they are those things, no sport to it, cowardly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 01:51 AM |
| 0 | Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffersI think many men don't believe what women say because women don't actually do what they say. Women do want those things but in reality you just have to be the right guy at the right time and that dissonance creates resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 02:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV: "Cooking with Kya" deserves the backlashMen have always liked sex workers more than sex workers who pretend they aren't sex workers, this is no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 03:27 AM |
| 3 | If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3War is violence, violence is the one true currency. To think there is any responsibility bigger than to resolve yourself into unwilling violence either by choice or by force is peak naivety. There is no responsibility greater than violence, everything is a subsidiary of it outside of time. Childbearing and childrearing has many responsibilities but it does not rank even in the same league as war, if a true war is lost there will rearing and childbearing but no childrearing. Women in the military… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 11:40 AM |
| 3 | If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3Men want parity, equal rights = equal responsibilities. There are no feminists around talking about equal rights when war comes and war is a responsibility trumping all other responsibilities going to war is not on the same level of responsibility as people expecting you to take care of the house. Your logic is exactly why the "women most affected" meme exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 04:18 AM |
| 0 | If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3Pro rape and slavery people outing themselves rn. Bodily autonomy for me & not for you. It's not slavery, you're a serf. It's not rape it's just unwanted touching. If not using the cross walk leads to safety and using the crosswalk leads to a 75% chance of you dying, yeah that was a violation - Literally a 1:1 on your first example and you can't see it, too lost in the sauce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 04:08 AM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Ah yes gamer gate where reality departs and fiction begins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:39 AM |
| 3 | What’s a good way to bridge the gap between men and women?Teaching children that relationships that are worth anything are sacrifice, it's not all sunshine and rainbows you have TO SACRIFICE or if you want a less dramatic term: Compromise. Children and young adults these days pretty much cut and run the moment hardship comes their way, they've had too much of the good times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?That’s just false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Why is Autism basically a contraceptive for men?Women will look past anything to get the D they want, inversely they will find any reason at all to refuse the D they don't. It's kind of like being a cat, you don't like many things but the things you do like you're down bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | I need a trad husbandI'm down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 05:35 AM |
| 180 | If MGTOW was misogynist, the 4B must be misandristI think the issue with 4B in America specifically is that they're kind of already doing that it just looks different because they're supported by society & the government and identity politics where in South Korea it's a lot different than it is here. Like cool, keep doing what you were already doing? You already chose the bear over men so~ | /r/MensRights | 07/11/24 11:13 AM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesPeople are going to ask how trump is going to help men but conveniently forget that kamala couldn't/refused to name a single law that disproportionally affected men during one of the few interviews(call her daddy) she did(relative to trump) which immediately made her worse for some men than trump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 06:59 AM |
| 47 | Do you think women are more bigoted then men?Women’s super power: Social Violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 08:38 PM |
| – | Do you actually only find a tiny fraction of men attractive?Probably a mistake for tingles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Virgin shaming isnt real.Virgin shaming is a subsidiary of sexual shaming and you've already proven that sexual shaming is alive and well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Virgin shaming isnt real.Do you need me to give you examples of slut shaming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Virgin shaming isnt real.Virgin shaming is a subsidiary of sexual shaming, sexual shaming is alive and well for both men and women, it takes different forms depending on if you’re a man or a woman. You trying to deny it as exactly why it’s still a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 09:20 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenIt’s implied, boss babes aren’t boss babes because they’re agreeable, being agreeable doesn’t make you a boss babe, being disagreeable does. Being disagreeable is a highly masculine trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 09:08 PM |
| 17 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenMen in general dislike aggressive behaviors in women because it’s masculine with none of the consequences, generally; it’s also just not generally behavior men want to see in women they’re pursuing so it’s a double whammy. When I say none of the consequences I mean when an aggressive man is talking to another man everyone knows the rules of engagement - we talk it out maybe distance ourselves but if things don’t work out hands get thrown and usually everything works out. Generally though men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 09:01 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenIt really isn’t related to if they’re pursuing you just a general thing. There are definitely men out there who are intimidated by women but in general all they’re saying is they thought you had too much attitude and they’re surprised how much they like you as a person despite their initial perception of you, if they’re telling you they were intimidated by you they’re “dealing” with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:39 AM |
| 31 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenThat’s the nice way of saying “I wasn’t sure if I wanted to deal with your shit.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 08:33 AM |
| 23 | Was close friends with someone who wpuld bash men regularly and I wish I had seen that as a problem earlierShitty but imo a cheap lesson learned about socializing with women when they’re only accountable to themselves. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/24 09:04 PM |
| 50 | Was close friends with someone who wpuld bash men regularly and I wish I had seen that as a problem earlierOne of the worst things about the gender war is people not acknowledging the social power women have and the social violence they create by using it unchecked. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/07/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.Isn't this a repost from like 2 days ago? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 08:51 PM |
| -1 | Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilitiesOne of the reasons it’s a huge issue for women is that they remember the best dicking down they ever got and every time you rank below it they subconsciously compare the two(sometimes grow resentful) and throw it in your face later. Men do not think about sexual partners that way while in a relationship, generally; if they did they would have the same problem as women, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingAspect 1: Men love hoes, they just don't like it when hoes pretend they aren't. Everybody loves an honest prostitute, they own it; nobody likes an of girl saying she doesn't do sex work. Aspect 2: Men will have sex with and date prostitutes, they will not however marry them or allow them to meet their parents; male validation comes during and after the prior and before the later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingThe irony is palpable. You're just describing the consequences of the sexual revolution. The sexual revolution just made it so men could have sex with no commitment while allowing the women to get a "punch" in on the man. A large majority of men will never commit to women they're having sex with unless they wanted to or were willing to commit to that person in the first place, prior to the sexual revolution commitment was largely a requirement, now? Not so much. So unless you're good enough to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:39 AM |
| 2 | If men actually cared about single moms as a “societal issue”, they would be encouraging men to be stepfathers.I'll never forget that one video showing women talking about only dating men who have "capped" at least one person. Haven't killed someone? Not a gangbanger? No putang for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:12 AM |
| 2 | If men actually cared about single moms as a “societal issue”, they would be encouraging men to be stepfathers.I see we saw that other single-mother post earlier today and got a little upset. The feminist response to this would be: Make your own! E.G. fix it yourself. But we're only feminist when it's convenient. This sub wants to talk about tons of societal issues but women don't care unless it benefits them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?This article does a pretty good job touching up on the background noise of why people detest single mothers outside the regular have kids undatable situation. https://thelifeofasinglemom.com/single-mom-statistics-the-truth-about-single-moms/ Another one for a slightly different outlook(?): https://www.legalmomentum.org/women-and-poverty-america#:~:text=70%25%20of%20the%20Nation’s%20Poor,raise%20their%20families%20in%20poverty. Basically single moms are statistically worse than single dads when i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.Money and dreams has never been the true reason women don’t have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:42 PM |
| – | I Dated Straight Men So You Don't Have To: A Straight Mans Guide To Dating Straight MenCrazy af those guys are a 6, 7.5 on a good day. She's literally looksmatch; You need some perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:38 AM |
| – | As a White Man, Black Women get hated for no Reason, and i never understood why this is.This is an issue specifically about black women raised in the USA with that prefaced the issue is multifaceted. One of the biggest issues is the collapse of the black nuclear family in the US. It keeps blacks disproportionally high for everything remotely bad, their women are more likely to be single mothers, their children specifically their boys are more likely to become gang bangers because of not having an actual father figure, the above makes it so any rational successful black family in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do women commit less crimeOne reason but not a total contributing factor is that male criminals exist so female criminals who are alone are relegated largely to non violent crime unless they’re already ready to rock someone with a weapon. Most criminals don’t start out killers or gang bangers so when women think about doing crimes men do one thing they have to think about is if they want to get beaten and raped because honestly that’s what happens. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/24 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Most Beta/BP traits that RP looks down on are beneficial for society or harmlessJesus Christ! Hit the nail on the head, wanking constantly also lowers your T so you end up in an endless loop of worthlessness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:42 AM |
| 23 | Most of the men who have low standards have them low because they aren't desirable enough to have them high.The path of least resistance in pursuit of spreading the male gene is most definitely not rewarded for “being more picky” if it was that’s what men would be doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men should ever show emotion in front of a woman?Crying and having a breakdown is what you do with the bros and dog. Do that with your girl and suddenly you have a ring for each hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 07:56 PM |
| 65 | Why do women's dating frustrations match with what I experience irl?Because men who women aren’t initially attracted to are invisible and men who they are attracted to have options because they’re attractive. It’s a catch-22. They have to recognize their instincts and override them for a better chance at what they’re looking for, most don’t think that deeply and would rather be single with cats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How much is your freedom worth (escaping from Ukraine)A year and some change for freedom from Ukraine? Seems like a no brainer | /r/MensRights | 30/05/24 09:19 PM |
| -4 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.More agreeable indeed but to men? Western women? I think not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 03:07 AM |
| 7 | Women dominated spaces are heavily thought policedThe irony is lost on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Many women don't realize that emotions are not reality.True balance is important for a person in general. People have to understand that other people do not care if you are factually correct, people care about how they feel at the time; your job is to identify if you value said person enough to acknowledge and accept the way they feel about something regardless of if it is true or not. (E.g. religion ) Their job is to educate themselves and understand that despite how they feel it might not have a basis in reality. Easy example is how people felt fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 10:20 PM |
| – | The brouhaha over the bear is not about misandry or risk. It’s about who is allowed to criticize male behavior or have a negative reaction to it (hint: not women)Those pesky Jews 🤢🤮 I would rather be in a forest with a 🐻. That’s you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Being a traditional woman doesn’t mean you don’t have standards.It was a lot easier to imagine when a single family could live happily and well off with a single income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Being a traditional woman doesn’t mean you don’t have standards.You are correct about “traditional women” having higher standards than regular women; there are a few key differences however. The thing about “traditional women” is that they’re consistent; relative to “modern women “. The government, economy, and society for a while now have made it near impossible for the average man to become a “traditional man” in the full sense of the term. Sure you can have the same beliefs and live the life but few men can actually afford to happily live & support a “tra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you think this "gender war" is going to end?We’ll do what China does when it gets bad enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 09:30 PM |
| – | I’m losing a lot of the bitterness I had as teen / young adult because I’m realizing that most women actually do desire masculinity and enforce gender normsExcept it does, what you don’t hear because you’re a woman or a man doesn’t mean it wasn’t said vice versa. Just because Mrs. Finch is nice to the girls doesn’t mean when they aren’t there she isn’t filling the boys heads with lies. You can’t experience a lived experience unless you are that person, just like not all racism is apparent neither is all sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?That’s nice, people aren’t monoliths and there are definitely people who can find true love that works for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?That’s a good point that I agree with but doesn’t have anything to do with the post I was responding to so I didn’t include it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?Except it does exactly that. You see this in the trend of women having issue dating down/marrying down while men do not care. It’s such an obvious connection between your man essentially being the difference between if the village sacrifices you and your child to the rain god or if you get to eat through the seasons while you’re pregnant. Hypergamy has been around for a long time. You also don’t respect part of being a provider Is being a protector and men are the protectors 99% of the time. Whi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts?Same reason men don’t compare pussies but women compare dick size, different brains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itI'm saying that sexual evolution for men and women is not equal and pretending it is, is why we have so much dissatisfaction in the dating market. Men and women haven't changed, society has just advanced to the point that men need to be in the top % to be successful, where as before they merely needed to be well adjusted. Like... women of today... Women have not had to face the same evolutionary push back from society because their value to society at large does not come from what they do but fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itYou're very clearly biased and honestly I hope this is an ironic post because if not you need to do some self-reflection if you think even half of your post is true. Men just love going to war and dying for their country it's so much fun, I do it every Friday. Definitely why those men in Ukraine were blocked from leaving their country while the women were let go to go make tiktoks and send thots and prayers. I hope you're not older than 18 because your last point is so poorly constructed that wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itIt's about environment, survival, society, and current time period. Some restrictions were artificial, but it was mostly just nature, do this or you die. Repost: Female attraction is largely decided by what society values. Back in the good ol' days when life expectancy was 20 years to 30 years old if you could get fish and hunt as a man women loved that shit, man of the year, pussy for days. Fishing and hunting now? Sure that's cool but I can just go to the store, thanks though. Sometimes it's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itWomen can do everything a man can do except physically beat a man, and most hard jobs are worked under the impression that you are physically as strong as a man, which most women are not. Intellectually? Sure. You would also be missing half the world's population which is already a big issue to the economy and the work force. Women are just as violent as men, if not more so proven by the fact they start wars more often when they are in power. If you wanted to get down to the semantics you could … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itNot even for a day, the world would be in immediate chaos and things would start to fall apart within the week because no one is driving the garbage trucks. The reason men are literally the top of all those statistics is because they're better at it than women. In nature the sex who dominates is the bigger sex, this is true across all species, and if they run into a bigger species? Who do you think comes out on top? Sometimes the female sex dominates, usually the male sex dominates. Men are bett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itFemale attraction is largely decided by what society values. Back in the good ol' days when life expectancy was 20 years to 30 years old if you could get fish and hunt as a man women loved that shit, man of the year, pussy for days. Fishing and hunting now? Sure that's cool but I can just go to the store, thanks though. Sometimes it's not even appreciated and might be frowned upon for hurting animals. Over the many different years the things men can do that are valuable and as such given them re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itThat's a big no. If it was true it's because men exist so bad women know what they can and can't do. It's why female criminals don't prowl the streets at night without a male escort, because male criminals exist. Your argument taken to its end conclusion is that if men didn't exist the world would be a better place, it wouldn't, it would still be the same just with no men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 12:30 AM |
| 8 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itIrony is lost on people that deep in the sauce. Not even context can save them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 12:28 AM |
| 2 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?Depends how attractive is your potential girlfriends stuff to you? Not really attractive because it’s her stuff. Men and women feel attraction the same way but the way it’s created in each of us is different. Outside the general beautiful person everything else is valued differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Disregarding appearance, modern dating dynamics naturally select for emotionally unavailable menExcept! They’re the only people in the system(98%), they made the system and now complain about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 06:46 PM |
| 7 | Disregarding appearance, modern dating dynamics naturally select for emotionally unavailable menThe person who perpetuates the system has no right to complain about said system unironically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 11:31 PM |
| 23 | Why does it seem like every girl I’ve ever dated is trying to compete with me?Eh. Men and women largely do compete differently though… They’re polar opposite in fact, men compete physically and usually bury the hatchet. Women compete mentally & socially using gorilla tactics to character assassinate their rivals, they never truly bury the hatchet. It’s so prevalent that there are memes about men fighting and then becoming best buds while the opposite is women crying to get their way. The delivery might be sexist but the message is true. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/24 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Yeah I see those a lot as well and it checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 08:16 PM |
| 0 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Most articles I see are about how women are more unhappy than ever compared to previous studies/the past. I can’t say I’ve honestly seen a single article talking about women being happier. I’ve seen plenty talking about how they have more opportunities, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 06:31 PM |
| – | Media is not brainwashing young people with blue pilled ideas.That kind proves the point though, that isn’t red pill media that’s women-approved media. Men weren’t the ones who made 50-shades of grey a best seller, that was women. What you’re describing is media directed towards and dedicated to women, not men, not the red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 09:34 AM |
| 1 | That Time Someone Asked "What Makes a Female Creepy?"Had a girl in grade school who wanted to know how to spell “blood”, I told her and she simply stared at me and said something along the lines of “nobody asked you.” And then went to the teacher to be told the exact same answer and then pretended that whole situation didn’t happen. I don’t remember her exact words as it was long ago but that particular “female” behavior is something that I see as a fairly constant thing even as women age into adulthood, the possibility of you being correct at som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 12:02 AM |
| 6 | It seems for the average guy every woman is suddenly "demisexual"That’s a perfectly fine way to handle it if the average western woman wasn’t immediately offended by asking about her body count as a prerequisite and if women didn’t lie about their body count to stay in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 10:27 PM |
| – | I feel like women cannot understand the male experienceThere’s this theory that the current dating market issues are a silent perpetuated deal between high value men and low value women. The high value men get to have sex with their pick of the lot and have a perfect excuse to deny or hold leverage over high value women, “are you better than these other 5 women i’m seeing at the same time?” While the low value women get to get their chance at chad, drag down women of higher status and ignore men of same or lower status. I think there’s a little trut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 11:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.Hitting the gym at least 2 times a week, controlling your diet even harder than you go to the gym if you have bad genetics, skin care routine, having good genetics, braces for straight teeth, no obvious deformities, no obvious mental deficiencies. The above and some form or variation is how you get all the way up to 10. It’s all the little bits in between that decide where you fall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:05 AM |
| 2 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.To be a 7 requires a man be above average in about 80% of all facets of his life. An average man(5) would be a lot less even or spread out equally, they’re probably really good at something but not good enough at said something for them to make the cut. A 7 for a woman has different requirements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 02:59 AM |
| 2 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.Hitting the gym is good advice on general, hard work on yourself never betrays you as long as you’re doing it for yourself. I just wanted to make it clear that the difference between being a 6 and a 7 to random girls is not 1, but the difference between 0 and 7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 10:34 PM |
| 5 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.Bruh mans a 7-7.5 “I’m just a normal guy.” When it comes to dating as a guy looking for a girl you have to understand until you have a relationship of any kind with said girl unless you’re above average (7) you’re invisible to her. That’s why the dating experience for cis-men who only look or are slightly worse than you can be so different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men?We’re symbiotic. The confusion about this comes from the fact all currency is a derivative of the one true currency: violence, which men are superior at. All rules, laws, and regulations are currently enforced with legalized violence, which means the moment men stop enforcing a law, rule, or right it no longer exists. Where the above paragraph fits into this whole conversation I do not know but there it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 11:08 AM |
| – | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingMy god you are out of touch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Men feel that women will not allow them to have preferences but where do they get this idea?Kind of ironic in a debate post about how men can’t have standards/preferences people are actively proving the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:41 PM |
| 3 | i’ve seen this idea tossed around that women are more susceptible than men to social trends - both genders are very susceptible to trends, let’s stop pretending its one sidedThey definitely are more susceptible, if not they choose to be. The weak find strength in numbers, the strong find it in dominance. You don't get to erase the monkey brain simply because 100 years of progress says it's wrong. On average men are stronger than women, everything being 50/50 women did what they were told because in caveman days you either got bonked over the head or you came willingly. I think the biggest example of this being true is the wage gap. So many women believe it despite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 05:19 AM |
| 17 | How many men here would agree to be homemakers, caregivers AND breadwinners as many married women are?The breadwinner of the house is whichever spouse makes more money, generally the spouse that keeps their full time job too. That’s why there’s “winner” in the term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 10:20 PM |
| – | Women will sabotage you talking to their friends without hesitation, and regardless of what anyone says it is usually against their will50% jealous their friends attention is being taken away from them, 35% The girl asked her friends to stop her from being a hoe, 15% jealous she’s getting male attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Men say they want one thing in women yet their actions say something else entirelyThe hypocrisy comes from pretending it isn’t happening, which men do not do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Men say they want one thing in women yet their actions say something else entirelyThat title sounds exactly like what women do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 01:41 AM |
| 7 | are women doing okay?The reason it’s a conversation is because women advocating for work place equality are only advocating for equality in positions of power which are a low % of jobs. They don’t want true equality they want privileged equality, until women as a whole start working as hard and as much as men as a whole there will never be equality. And to be clear the above won’t happen because only one sex gives birth so until that’s fixed women will always earn less as a whole than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Women don’t hate men being vulnerable. These men claiming so just don’t know how to act like adults or date emotionally unavailable women.As yes another post where you are shown evidence, dismiss it, pivot, tell ‘em “ha gotcha”, and then don’t reply to them again after they debunk your reply. My favorite posts to read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.That video proves a single masculine women likes one particular feminine man. If that was your goal you’ve achieved it. The Korean stuff I’m not sure about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 01:12 AM |
| 1 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.What definition do they use? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 01:03 AM |
| 2 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.That feel when a single outlier on the 00.01% debunks the generalized claim, crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | If men and women were so fundamentally different, they wouldn’t behave the same 90% of the time. It’s just guys here are more in denial of the similarities.I mean there is an actual definition for hypergamy but 👌…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:38 AM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onWomen do not have ownership over the achievements that their spawn create. Only one sex pretends that both men and women aren’t important for society, and it isn’t men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:35 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onThat’s cool and all but the only reason you can do any of that was off the backs of men creating the society that enables you to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:08 PM |
| 12 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?As long as a woman is not fat and above a 4 in looks she can get a man to take care of her. Unless you’re a unicorn 10, rich, or famous no one will ever take care of a man. That’s why people say the only homeless women are ones with high standards. For a man there are only 2 possible places to get unconditional love from: Your mother(maybe) Your dog For most men the first time they’ll receive flowers is their funeral. So everything outside of the woman simply existing and choosing to follow said… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:49 PM |
| 3 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Because at the end of the day it’s women choosing to partake in the sex. The logic seems backwards because you’re trying to shift blame. The goal posts for women and men are not the same, kicking into your own goal doesn’t get you points it gets the other team points. And if they’re usually more selective and they still partake that’s even more reason to judge them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:40 PM |
| 9 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Literally everything outside of you simply existing and deciding to follow the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Being monogamous and wanting children should guarantee every man getting a female partner. Our current dating environment is just an anomaly before population collapse.If we come anywhere near actual population collapse everyone will start doing what rural Chinese villages are doing. Kidnapping urban women to use as broodmares. Women only have a choice until actual consequences come. Then you either wish you were dead or you do it yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:13 AM |
| 5 | How Is VAW Systemic?So because violence can and is committed by every race on earth it’s “systemic “. Wild. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/10/23 01:22 AM |
| 2 | You can't say you we're lied to.People from the day they are able to recognize that they exist know that there are beautiful and ugly people, it’s why children are so cruel, they have no filter. The lie is that society told boys, who became men, “just be yourself, there’s someone out there for you. Just be yourself.” While that might’ve been true in the past 100 years, the internet didn’t exist 100 years ago and while that advice might still work for girls and women it certainly doesn’t work for the everyday unconventionally a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there a crossover “place”between intersectional feminism and the men’s rights movement?Mask off. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/23 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Imagine the comments if this was a boyfriend and not a girlfriendTrue, I still see a distinct lack of: “Creep”, and “red flag” | /r/MensRights | 02/10/23 08:04 AM |
| 2 | The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is…It’s not a double standard, it’s just sexual shaming. Men are shamed for not having enough/access to sex while women are shamed for having too much of it. The reason being is the process is more important than the result I.e. women get sex easier so they’re shamed for partaking in it, men require vastly more work to acquire sex so they’re applauded for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:52 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseBirthing a human does not give you ownership over their conquests. It is also hypocritical because you’re not denying that women don’t respect what men give them but merely saying that it wouldn’t happen if women didn’t exist, men agree; it’s women that don’t acknowledge the society that men created for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:54 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseIronic. You only say that because the government replaces what a man can and will do for women. It’s very intentional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)So you see the issue here is when men make support groups/safe spaces you know what happens? They’re called sexist and shut down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 09:25 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.It was implied the moment you phrased the title as "Guys" instead of "Some guys" A lot of hateful people will say what they actually mean/think when talking about certain things and then when confronted about it will pivot to "Not all men." or "Not all women." If you actually meant that you would've said it that way the first time instead of needing to be corrected, but you did mean it that way, that's why you said/typed it that way. If English wasn't your first langue you might be forgiven but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 03:17 AM |
| 5 | My (M30) Girlfriend (F37) questioned wether I am a 'real man' or notIf she wants to behave like it’s china then she is going to behave as if she is in china. That means respecting her man or getting the hand, the house is spotless, she cooks every meal, etc. Or she can get with the program. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/23 03:08 AM |
| 6 | The Left and FeminismTrans.Exclusionary.Radical.Feminist. I would say it’s an appropriate tag considering the name. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/09/23 03:17 AM |
| 0 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.I would say all arguments presented by this person are going to be in bad faith. They clearly have a chip on their shoulder after having checked their post history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | 85% of Chinese are not marrying and 60% are not procreatingThe “house of cards” is child birth, if the only people who can procreate don’t that’s what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?I’ve seen some really good looking 50s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:22 PM |
| – | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?Going out of your way to do something nice for someone is nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 10:23 PM |
| 6 | young boys swinging to the right. let’s talk about it.That whole movement thing won’t work because males have an out bias. Don’t know if you’ve paid attention but feminism was built on the backs of women from both sides of the isle, even if that isn’t necessarily true anymore. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/23 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Women who had pre marital sex are more likely to get divorced because of lack of religious belief, not because of broken pair boding abilities or whatever RP says.It started with biology, cave man days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 04:06 AM |
| 11 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?That’s the entire point. /whoosh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?It is a good way the problem is other women don’t do that so you’re competing against that. The other issue which is related but separate is if you let chad mcblow in on the first date and then you make Christian mcperfect wait you better hope he doesn’t find out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 03:39 AM |
| -1 | Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance?INFO: How many years has she been rejecting any forms of intimacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 05:45 AM |
| 3 | What are the actual reasons some in the manosphere is suspicious of women without fathers, or with poor relationships with their fathers?In the words of whichever feminist responds to a mans concerns about being divorced: Should've vetted them better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 08:59 PM |
| 10 | What are the actual reasons some in the manosphere is suspicious of women without fathers, or with poor relationships with their fathers?Women raise children, men make adults. There’s a reason so many children without a father figure end up as criminals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Modern men offer nothing to relationshipsA woman who refuses to submit to her man will never tap into her “feminine energy “ It has nothing to do with men and is exactly why high value men don’t ring a 304, because if the only reason she’s a 304 is because she doesn’t have a masculine man then that masculine man doesn’t want her. You’re either wife material or you aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Modern men offer nothing to relationshipsThis is an extremely ironic post. Though I already knew it would be before I clicked it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipNo because the analogy hinges on the fact of comparing the biological desire for commitment being akin to the biological desire to be opened up by a surgeon for the sake of being opened up. Same issue with the tiger analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipAll men are tigers though? They are biologically designed as such. Some have just been domesticated over the years by society. We didn’t get where we are today through peace. So once again, bad analogy. Whether you want to get ate by a domesticated tiger or a wild one you still want to get ate by a tiger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:24 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipBad analogy. The person getting ate is worse than the tigers because they’re so Loko in the head they want a SPECIFIC tiger to eat them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Would you share location with your partner? Why or why not?Life 360. My entire family and some extended family uses this willingly. We each know where we are at all times, the only time it’s brought up is in passing “I saw you at our grocery store did you pick up????” Or “you went and saw your sister did you tell her about???” If these types of comments bother you, you definitely don’t want to be sharing your location. It can definitely cause you to be paranoid and many other things but to my family it’s just a cool little safety thing that keeps us all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Women have total control of the dating marketThe average relationship for an American in 2023 maybe. What is more likely to be true of these two statements: When you have sex with someone you are now in a relationship(committed or not). When you are in a committed relationship you will have sex with them. Women want commitment and they get it through sex if the men allow it. Most “normal” relationships don’t begin from sex. They begin from relationships or the perceived notion of one. In your post you acknowledge that the sex came after th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Women have total control of the dating marketNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Women have total control of the dating marketWomen are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to relationships. High-value men sleep with whoever they want because women allow them to because they want commitment(relationship) from said men. Women are tempted by what could be(eve and the Apple). What you’re talking about is famously quoted by Donald Trump as: When you’re famous they’ll let you grab them by the pussy. And if we were to take their reaction to that statement as a valid response to what you’re proposing I could end th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Mating Crisis: What has actually happened?The prior obviously but the later can evolve into the prior and vice versa, more so the later. The issue is that if women don’t respect men when the times are good men won’t respect women when the times are bad. It’s a vicious cycle devoid of empathy and emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 10:04 PM |
| 4 | Mating Crisis: What has actually happened?The reason they can be happier alone is a byproduct created by men building and maintaining society. Ironic I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Mating Crisis: What has actually happened?Exactly. Women and men are not equal, we’re different and that’s okay because we each fill a particular necessary role in society. Which is why it’s so frustrating when people ignore one side of the equation and don’t acknowledge all the good that comes with the bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:26 PM |
| 5 | Mating Crisis: What has actually happened?Women use to need men. Now they don’t. Simple as that. That’s a misconception a lot of people hold. It’s not that women no longer need men it’s that the society, and mainly the government (that men created) has allowed women to ignore and benefit off the sacrifices men still make to this day, to society that make it go round. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:12 PM |
| 7 | For those women that believe they deserve rich, high value men, where do you go that you think you'll meet them? What are you doing to attract them?Comes from every woman who does a video online chronically saying the man needs to make 6 figures at least. And the fact women on dating apps chronically put 6’ or bust in a much more mean way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityI’ll make a new post about this specific issue of the discussion, see if it helps your thought process. Was going to do it anyway since I haven’t seen anyone talk about what I’m thinking specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Women are most valued for their beauty. What do you think men are most valued for?Women are actually most valued for their ability to create other humans though it is less pronounced when we live in good times, we’re in good times. Men’s most valuable trait like women changes depending on what stage our society is in, if we’re in the good times most of what everyone said in this thread is correct. When we’re in the bad times the most valuable trait is strength & the ability to protect women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls?Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:26 AM |
| 21 | Are average men really "struggling" to get relationships with girls?Where did you find the report for most men being sexually active? Looking for one right now in relation to another topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 06:12 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about the draft?The draft represents the reality of the world and used to come with a privilege of realistically signing your life away. Now it’s a sexist reminder of the privilege women have simply from being born women and also a tool of oppression used against men who don’t “voluntarily” sign. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Why is “incel” and “neckbeard” the go insult in any argument about men’s rights?Because when women are wrong they start attacking your insecurities, it’s one of their main forms of aggression. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/23 08:18 PM |
| 0 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?If she isn’t ugly and offers something genuine. Undying loyalty being near the top of the list for some men. There’s very little materialistically women offer men in general, it’s only recently that two income households have become a thing and even then most men won’t go into a relationship expecting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegePurposefully misrepresenting a person’s sexual identity to propagate a straw man is pretty sad. There’s a difference between asking a man if he’s willing to get pegged and asking a man: “If you were born a woman but still remembered you were a guy from your past life would you allow another man to have sex with you?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?Simply for clarification: The process is why the “double standard” exists. E.g. when you see a person walking down the street with a bag of candy you don’t think anything of it but if you knew that person stole that bag of candy, from a child no less , and then pushed said child, you would think some kind of way about it. The process you use is often times more important than the result you gain. Men hold the keys to relationships and women hold the keys to sex. The reason women are judged for h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Are we dating the same guy (screenshots)Because this is the internet where everyone is basically anonymous and they're resentful they were born women. More specifically they're resentful men exist; even more specifically the caricature they have of men. Imagine thinking about all of your problems and then "realizing" you wouldn't have them if you were born a man. Even more extreme, if men simply didn't exist. Then you have the fact they have a more in-bias so they create these huge echo chambers which just feeds into the psychosis and… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/23 05:16 AM |
| 1 | From Andrew Tate to Sneako to JustPearlyThings to Fresh&Fit, virtually every major Red Pill creator is right-wing or leans that way. Meanwhile young men, their target audience, continue to vote overwhelmingly for the left. This shows that TRP isn't working and will never be mainstreamGive it a few more generations, the brainwashing started 20-30 years ago. TRP at least as an actual community is very very new. Not to mention even if you lean right it doesn't mean you like the political party members in your group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 12:12 AM |
| 3 | CMV: You cannot stop sexismSexism by definition: Discrimination based on sex. You can stop sexism but it starts with separating the acts from the sex. People like to say women and men are equal but those very same people treat men and women differently. It's an oxymoron. To stop sexism people have to stop being sexist. Which is impossible because discrimination is not inherently bad, it's largely logical. It makes sense that a majority of the army are men because they are objectively stronger than women on average, but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you?A: Above Average B: Slightly below average C: Slightly below average This thread was a very good insight into the irreparable differences men and women experience either through social engineering and propaganda or simply because of biology. A lot of people seem to be mistaking what an average is in this context. Average on a scale from 0-10 is 5, that's it. There's no 80% of the population, there's no scientific study, there's no random mathematical nonsense. It doesn't matter how unrealistic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you?Most people are not objectively beautiful. The ratings were fine whether it's a realistic goal or not is irrelevant. You're correct you have to work on yourself and your body to keep yourself 7+, you also have to be lucky. That doesn't mean there's any negative connotation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you?More like it shows an irreparable disparity between the sexes when it comes to what we each value. Men round down, women round up. It's exactly why you'll see tons upon tons of women rating each other and their friends as 10/10 unironically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?Your logic is sound enough that it almost looks like a psyop. The issue men have with women isn't that they engage in sexual activity to earlier with a man or that they do it to late with a man it's that they have different standards for who they open their legs up to and pretend they don't when they want to settle down. Just tell whoever you're talking to straight up: "I don't have sex with people unless I know we're going to be having a serious relationship." This will filter out a lot of pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 03:12 AM |
| 2 | How would you react if your partner wanted to try non-monogamy?Exceptions don’t make the rule. He was probably already fucking someone else and wanted your “permission”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they themGetting dating advice from women on how to get with women is like getting dating advice from your enemies the mere act of giving it is a ploy. It’s much better to give none at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.I wouldn’t call it a subset. It’s a quite frequent phrase peddled though not word for word from between 2010-now. We can agree to disagree on this however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:22 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.Double edged sword. Needing to prove yourself makes you look weak/unworthy. The whole: “Any man who has to say I am the king is no true king.” Shtick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:19 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.So we’ve established that one sex is indeed forgetting whether intentionally or not. Good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:16 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.Yet women are more likely to wage war while in power? It most definitely has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.Society is safe and comfortable because there are masculine men willing to fight wars nobody sees. What do you think the military is? Good times create weak men, weak men create bad times, bad times create strong men, strong men create good times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.Context is indeed important, women are still saying that phrase in 2022. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 08:36 AM |
| 2 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?They’re not supposed to solve it they’re supposed to take responsibility for their emotions and actions . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.Which one goes around saying: I’m a strong independent fill in the blank that don’t need no fill in the blank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 06:30 PM |
| 0 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.Yet only one sex forgets these two truths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.If people cannot be held responsible for what they say when asked a question then there’s nothing that can be measured unless you’re able to physically see or touch it. Is that what you’re proposing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.Because governments are artificial. They have nothing to do with us biologically as humans and in fact for the most part are put in place to prevent the human species from caving in to our baser instincts via their monopoly on violence. A government will never be the next step of human evolution unless we stop being human. If it cannot happen naturally then it is not evolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 07:57 AM |
| 0 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.By asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 05:36 AM |
| 2 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.When you build an entire society to protect women but hundreds of years later they forget who paved the ground they walk on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | The decline in quality relationships is just a reflection of an increase in human freedom. Not necessarily a negative.If it requires or is affected by government involvement it is not the next step in our evolution. Women divorcing is what has become common. Because the government has replaced the husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Men and Women are fundamentally different, and the only way for true reconciliation is if we understand and embrace these differencesYou’re probably too lost in the sauce if you’re extrapolating all of that from : They select the male with the most money and power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Men and Women are fundamentally different, and the only way for true reconciliation is if we understand and embrace these differencesWas that what the person you responded to said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Men and Women are fundamentally different, and the only way for true reconciliation is if we understand and embrace these differencesYou’re being facetious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:42 AM |
| 0 | CMV: the N count double standard is unfair, but so is being rejected for reasons beyond your control.There’s no double standards for N-count. Women and men both have sex true but largely/generally women and men aren’t doing the same thing to acquire said sex. If there was an alternate universe where gender roles were reversed men would be getting judged just as hardly as women are today. It might not be fair but it isn’t a double standard. To think that would be over simplifying the issue to just the result, not the process. A hypothetical if you will: If someone is eating candy in front of you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 09:32 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......I feel like what you described is not a gendered issue. Women don’t police women who act out against men, in fact from what I’ve seen they actively encourage said women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?Definitely, because banning abortion country wide isn’t as bad as sending men to go die in war. But that’s not what my hypothetical said. Banning abortion nation wide was just one part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?They also have the option to pay rent using more unsavory methods and from what I’ve seen on r/confessions it doesn’t seem to be that uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:18 AM |
| 65 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Defined by income: There’s a reason there are jokes about men living in their parent’s basement but not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?You mean you deflect because they lead you to water you don’t want to drink. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.Be born on a farm in a 2 parent household and get raised well adjusted. Don’t sleep around during high school and save yourself for marriage. Go to church. Find someone with a good personality and a good family. Settle on looks they’ll fade, just don’t be repulsed by them. Make the family love you more than the son so even if you get divorced you’re still in the family. Never work a day in your life again outside home making. Or hobby jobs. Have kids from 26-30. You’re already better off than a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?If you’re unwilling to answer truthfully and would prefer to just deflect to avoid introspection I can see why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?I’ll read that later. If it’s true: Jesus Christ Couldn’t just be happy with it being a state issue. Give ‘em an inch they take a mile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?If you don’t want to answer questions with your own words why are you on a debate forum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?You didn’t. All you did was insinuate something and Use hyperbole at the same time. Comparing the hypothetical situation I gave you to states banning abortion is one of the most disingenuous things I’ve seen in awhile. What part of being forcefully inseminated and being physically forced to carry the baby to term or face prison time or worse with a mandate across an entire nation for all child bearing people above 18 made you think: “Wow not being able to get an abortion in particular states is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?Hyperbole. There’s a difference between not being able to abort in some states and a country wide mandate. Stop being disingenuous. Answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?If there was a law that said when in times of need you must surrender your body to birth children and you had to sign a paper when you turned 18 agreeing or potentially face prison time but it wasn’t used in current day and people actively partook in it because of benefits would you be okay with it? Because it’s not likely going to happen? You seem to be unable to understand that the possibility is the injustice. The probability of something happening does not take away from the fact it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?You’re unsympathetic to the human male species as a whole. From the dawn of time males have been the expendable sex and that hasn’t changed. Every man at some point in his life was put under threat of voluntary service unless they were disabled. Whether you’re too old or not eligible is irrelevant it is an act of injustice carried against every male that comes of age and they just have to hope it isn’t their generation of suffering. I bring up Ukraine because just like the U.S. they didn’t use t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?When you rebutted: Doomed to an expendable life. In this case, to be sent to war, to kill or be killed. With: Not if you’re in the US or most other countries on earth. And when I brought up Ukraine you didn’t rebuttal the point you just deflected. Does Ukraine not count? And don’t use the credentials fallacy this time. Ukraine is a perfect example of what actually happens when shit hits the fan. And why “voluntary” service is a very real problem, for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?So you’re denying the fact men were stopped from leaving Ukraine? And women & children could leave. If you are that’s not very historical of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?Does your definition of “most other countries on 🌍 “ change depending on if they’re currently in war? You’re also trying to partake in credentials fallacy so that’s cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Shouldn't men get extra benefits and privileges since only they bear the responsibility and obligation of having to defend the country during an invasion? If you have to do more you should get more right?I’m guessing Ukraine isn’t included in “most other countries on earth.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Opinion: Andrew Tate was a net positive overallBecause they say it from a place of disdain. It’s the same reason corporal punishment while angry is just abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:23 PM |
| 0 | Sexual ignorance is better for long-term partnershipsNotice how they said women aren’t whores but not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Would Short Men (Under 5 ft 5) Have More Dating Opportunities In A Country Where The Average Woman Is Shorter?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?The point is just because you don’t like your options doesn’t mean they disappear. If you would rather starve to death than eat a pile of shit then don’t go blaming the person who survived because they did it while you’re in the afterworld. Once again does privilege go away because the people who benefit from it dislike it? Privilege is a statistic it doesn’t care about how you feel about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?There’s a distinction being getting anything (1) and getting nothing (0) and it has nothing to do with whether you like it or not. Does privilege stop existing because the people who have it don’t like it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Because opportunity is still opportunity. Just because you don’t like any of the choices you have does not mean you don’t have choices. There’s a distinction being getting anything (1) and getting nothing (0) and it has nothing to do with whether you like it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think gay men and lesbians don't need to use red pill, fds and debate on subs like this?Because dating the same sex allows for a greater general understanding of whether the disputes your having with a person are sex related or person related. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?That’s great. I hope you guys live a long fulfilling life. One of the worst things that can happen to you is doing things alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?That is unfortunate. Hopefully you end up with a partner and live a long happy life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?We’re not discussing your morals right now but a subset of particular people. Why? Do you subscribe to the moral subset my previous post talked about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 08:12 PM |
| 2 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?It’s not being perceived as a weapon they will literally call it their weapon. It’s a matter of use not perception you can call it anything you want but if you use a car to kill someone you still used it as a weapon. And no one is saying you need to have sex equally with everyone, you should have sex with people you’re comfortable having sex with but you don’t get to participate in cognitive dissonance and then pretend it makes logical sense. Call it what it is and own up to it. People who only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?The difference being that men do not use sex as a weapon and do not actively think about withholding it for the specific sake of it when looking for a relationship. They are logically consistent across the board on this particular issue. The only comparison being some men want virgins to have the experience of someone whose been with 20+ people . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?You may be filtering them out but you are also giving them sex. There are two separate things happening. This cognitive dissonance is exactly why pua tell people to get “filtered out” in your words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?It’s not easier actually because if women don’t have access to birth control they have to actually take responsibility for having sex. Why do you think when roe happened there were talks of sex bans? Women are actually easier to control when they have birth control because they can shirk responsibility and you can neg them more easily because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:43 AM |
| 2 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?That being the case why does the person you want to be together with have to wait? Why can the person you “care” about more not get an equal level of treatment at least as the casual sex-person. Since sex can be casual why can’t you have it with the person you want intimate sex with as well? Considering the versa is also true. Actions speak louder than words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:36 AM |
| 2 | The Man She Casually Sleeps With Versus The Man She Wants Kids With?This disconnect women have between casual sex and responsibility will never be addressed regardless of how utter haunting and illogical their justifications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:26 AM |
| -1 | Does unconditional love truly exist?The worst realization a man will ever have is realizing they will never be loved the same way they love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men or women are more open minded?Women are as open minded as the times they grow up in. Because they’re largely avoid confrontation they will shut down debate more often because it will lead to disagreements. Disagreement leads to confrontation, confrontation leads to violence. Men prefer to avoid violence, they do not avoid confrontation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him?Men suffer during divorce because their money is being taken by the woman. Women suffer during divorce because they’re no longer married. 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him?Can’t trust husbands to not be violent. Can trust women to not cheat on their husbands. 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:11 AM |
| 3 | What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him?If the solution to male rapists is “teach boys not to rape.” Then the solution to paternity fraud is to teach “birthing people” not to be cheating hoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | When saying women are “promiscuous”, where are you getting that info?I wish they replied for that chef’s kiss at least then they would’ve been living their best life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?There is only one thing. The pains of their biology and that specifically only. It sucks to be in pain perpetually for 30-50 years simply because of the sex you were born even if you don’t plan on having children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:38 AM |
| 13 | The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrongCommenter: you’re wrong op insert study OP: so what? insert irrelevant anecdotal bias 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?I have the feeling you intentionally misappropriated my argument but I also share some responsibility for not being iron-clad and even allowing the chance for you to do so. It doesn't matter what your job or occupation is if you aren't willing to admit to what it is you do then no one respects you. Because if you can't admit to what you do then you don't even respect yourself. Cardi B struggled with judgement because she admitted to date raping men and stealing from them and nothing was done abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?Women can and will do whatever they want with their bodies(until recently). The issue has and always will be the cognitive dissonance. Men respect a prostitute who says she's a prostitute, they don't respect the girl on onlyfans/twitch who says she's an entertainer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?I think the disconnect comes from most women not acknowledging/ perceiving the privilege they‘re born with when it comes to casual sex. In general: It’s harder for women to not have casual sex than it is to have casual sex. The opposite is true for men. It’s harder for men to have casual sex than it is to not have casual sex. Because of this they don’t value casual sex at all and don’t understand why they would/should be judged for doing something that to them has minimal to no value. This clear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?Did she do it with others? If so then we might have a deal breaker on our hands and not owning up to it is deceptive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:27 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?This thread is an amazing display of why the dating market is so fucked because things that don’t make any logical sense are peddled because people don’t want to believe their actions have consequences . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:25 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?1 + 0 = 1 The guy you don’t care about has 1. The guy you do care about has 0. You’re treating the guy you “care” about worse than the guy you don’t care about. I would usually say it’s because you want to have your cake and eat it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?You understand though that by treating someone you don’t care about better than someone you do care about and being upset that people are upset about it is wanting to have your cake and eat it too though right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?Attractive people get paid for selling sex, not relationships. Lets not pretend we don’t understand what is being said here just so we can deny fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:54 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?It’s a little disingenuous to not recognize that the phrasing is a blanket statement not directed at you specifically, plenty of women phrase it exactly the same way and do exactly that for one reason or another. This conversation is also more so talking about the “double standard” men perceive/believe women who do have casual sex have between flings and actual relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 03:51 AM |
| 0 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?Because they don’t view things from a case by case basis only a zero sum. E.G. Men have more privilege therefore any privilege I could possibly have is justified regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan?American will collapse before this issue comes to pass but in shit holes ran by people like the CCP what will happen, what is already happening is women get kidnapped, taken to rural areas and turned into baby factories while the government turns a blind eye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beCrime or no crime those people would’ve been fine if they just mitigated their chances of being raped and then everything would be fine, no? I mean since everything can be solved by people simply being smarter and making better decisions in who and where they interact with people. I mean if we think about it what you said basically came down to “it’s your fault that they’re doing this to you because you didn’t pick wisely.” In the business we call that victim blaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:46 AM |
| 0 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beDivorce isn’t voluntary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:25 AM |
| 0 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beIs that not what you said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:24 AM |
| 4 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beDo you actually just not read what you reply to? Read the comment you initially replied to in this thread carefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:22 AM |
| 2 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beI like how the unironic solution to everything this OPhas to say is: “Don’t like it don’t buy it.” “Quality is shit? Should’ve vetted it better.” Except it’s in relation to having children, picking shitty partners and anything else they feel like applying it too. But it’s a okay because none of it is a crime. Really shows where their moral compass is. Not a crime? No problemo be as nasty and vile and legally dubious as you want. Just image how much worse the world would be if not already is with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to be90k a month per child. “Merely the cost of having a child.” You don’t actually read what you type do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:05 AM |
| 0 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beThose women should’ve vetted their rapists harder, smh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:03 AM |
| 0 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beFlawless logic. No problem if you don’t allow there to be a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | the divorce rate isn't as scary as men here make it out to beAmazing logic, only in marriage. Don’t support anyone who can’t support themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingI don’t think it is or you have selective vision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:20 PM |
| 8 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingI’ll pretend to be the person you were replying to. Oh wow I didn’t know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:12 PM |
| 2 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesI think one of the reasons men are so unsympathetic to solutions like this is because of how proactive the government is for female issues. Women are the only ones with any rights in relation to children, the government will force you to pay child support but won’t force a woman to keep the baby let alone enforce child support against women even if it’s granted. But are perfectly willing to enslave a man to perpetual consistent prison time due to backed child support. When divorcing women will a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are divorced and widowed men more likely to remarry than divorced and widowed women?Women socialize differently. It’s very common to see women of all ages to be in constant contact with their friends through emails, texting, FaceTime, voice chats, and even calling. Men rarely do any of the above especially men from older generations. They’re much more likely to socialize in person or during a physical activity and as men get older and life continues the chances for them to do this gets less and less. With a wife or partner they are the people the men are going to socialize with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Mental health issues between men and womenMany people don’t like this particular section of the argument because if it isn’t a cry for help then they’re simply incompetent at committing suicide on a general scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameAs everyone always likes to say, it takes two to tango. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 09:00 AM |
| 13 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the same“If young women kept their legs closed and took dating more seriously, dating and marriage wouldn’t be such a shit show.” Is what you just said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameA tool or person being good at something is debatable and usually ends in the grey area. Something is sometimes worse than nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:18 AM |
| 0 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Hey now we're still alive today so the chances of you dying in child birth aren't that high. You'll probably just live on in suffering for the rest of your days though >.> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:23 AM |
| 3 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Have you considered getting an IUD? Vaginal Ring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:16 AM |
| 2 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......As if the men had to go over the dead bodies of women as they were "setting it up", Please. Women in general saw a convenient system where things worked and didn't do anything about it. They had a choice, they chose to do nothing. Women don't go into physical labor or stem because they don't want to. Women born in less economically well off countries have higher rates going into those fields because they pay more and give them opportunity to leave said country. Where as women born in a well off … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 09:05 AM |
| 7 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......Since it was hard for them to admit let me say it for them. Oh wow I didn't see that, you're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty?No he doesn’t. You just like everyone else are only human and all humans have the capacity to cheat, lie, and murder. You are no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty?He doesn’t know it’s his child though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty?The lack of sympathy for your partners mental health is honestly disturbing. Humans do cheat, everyone can cheat, even people who say they will or don’t cheat no amount of trust will change that fact. The only person in the relationship who knows with 100% certainty whose child they’re bearing is the mother and sometimes they don’t even know and they’re the ones getting inseminated. You’re having a child with this person, you presumably trust and love this person but you can’t see past your own … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 10:20 AM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Submissive women know what they want, to be submissive. You’re talking about opinionated women. Being submissive does not make you intrinsically less than, it is you choosing(1st world country) to defer to someone just like how people defer to religion, experts, media, family, friends, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:46 AM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of submission in women?Never seen someone so bent on not agreeing to disagree only to finally at the end pull a “I win, you lose. Lalalalalala.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:40 AM |
| 0 | How will the increasingly large education between the sexes affect dating in the future?A sentence that speaks for itself. I wish you well in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 11:50 PM |
| 0 | How will the increasingly large education between the sexes affect dating in the future?Whatever helps you sleep at night. Hopefully in the future you'll be more willing to detach yourself emotionally from subjects and are able to talk about things objectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How will the increasingly large education between the sexes affect dating in the future?By your logic if women didn't need men then men simply wouldn't exist because they're not biologically necessary to reproduce. This is clearly not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:27 AM |
| 0 | How will the increasingly large education between the sexes affect dating in the future?Nature. But you don't have to worry about that too much anymore since everything has already been built and fought for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | How will the increasingly large education between the sexes affect dating in the future?Yes. You are wrong. Society as a whole(including other men) depends on men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:25 AM |
| 2 | How will the increasingly large education between the sexes affect dating in the future?Build a society to protect your women, thousands of years later. "Women are less dependent on men than men are on women." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised.Only people who can solve a market problem are the target demographic which in this case I’m willing to bet is 98% women. If it’s being normalized it’s because of women. While people can make fun of you for not wearing it, it’s up to you to make the change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 08:17 AM |
| 7 | Many women are perpetuating rape "culture" by being into aggressive menRape culture is when somebody is raped instead of the people being worried about the victim society and a large amount of the same sex says stuff like: “Did it feel good though?” “I wish that was me.” “Where was this teacher when I was in school?” And “You liked it though.” We have a rape culture it’s just not the one people want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4All. Do you really believe there's a link between women having casual sex and societal decline?You ever heard the saying “the juice isn’t worth the squeeze”? Yeah it’s not a male only thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 12:12 AM |
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