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Nobody has more power. That's a strange way to look at it. It's like you're taking away agency from one side or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:38 PM
1

Maybe you could be respectful then you might earn a response. Read the rules of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:16 PM
1

Well they do, because anecdotes are the base of the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:15 PM
9

Women can and do pump and dump too. And we get to say yes or no to a marriage proposal. I don't know how in a mutual relationship either side has more power than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:40 PM
1

I don't know where people exist where there are enough singles around for this kind of dynamic to be possible. Where I live it's like 90% married people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:30 PM
1

I thought you said "we're done here"? Maybe you really do have a guilty conscience. That's a lot of paragraphs and defensiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:17 PM
1

LOL where do you live, California?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:15 PM
1

I asked in an attempt to appeal to your empathy and I failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:28 PM
0

"Why is it that women assume that all other women want marriage and that anything less is "wasting her life"?" Because it is wasting her life. And it's disrespectful to her. You don't love or trust this woman otherwise you'd make a vow to be faithful to only her. The fact that she's okay with being treated this way is very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:46 PM
1

People literally consent to having their balls chopped off. That doesn't mean it's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:35 PM
1

The overwhelming majority of women want marriage. He's not committing to her, he's just using her and keeping her around. He is isolating her from other men that could give her what she really wants. Hopefully she wises up and leaves this joker and finds a man who truly values her. That's my hope for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:33 PM
0

No it's an ethical argument. Does she openly and adamantly ssy that she doesn't want marriage? Have you discussed this with her? Do you even care about her wants or is it all about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:28 PM
1

This guy will be back here crying like a bitch when they leave him and marry better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:26 PM
1

He should pay his share of the bills, do his share of house work, initiate intimacy approximately half the time, and do his share of the emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:25 PM
-4

You're wasting this woman's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:28 AM
8

Once we've said "no" that's it. The end. We do not expect, want or condone continued advances. It's not our job to raise men. If you want sex that's 100% your problem and not ours so I don't know what the discussion here is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:14 AM
2

This is how most humans are unfortunately. Both sexes think that the other is worse. I would say that most women make more sacrifices simply because we have to, but that's not universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:21 PM
1

Haven't people posted the stats here showing this not to be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:41 PM
1

In my experience it is also reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:39 PM
2

Then don't complain when you get shot down at best or arrested at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:38 PM
-2

Speak for yourself and the people you hang out with. This hasn't been my experience. It's a trope at this point that the ugly fat guy is the most wholesome sweet character in the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:09 AM
1

I don't necessarily want someone "higher" than myself. It's also not my nature to "submit" so miss me with that misogynistic garbage. I just want a partner who is a good match for me personally-wise and can pull his own weight. That alone rules out most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:20 AM
2

That's rather thin even. Most 6' people are about 200. If she's 5'2" and 170lbs like the average American woman is that's rather portly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:42 PM
1

Excuse me? Are you a bot or something I have no idea what that means or what it has to do with my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:53 PM
1

Work as hard as those immigrants and you will get housing and job opportunities too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:30 AM
1

Okay tell that to all the immigrants who come here with nothing but a backpack full of clothes and still manage to get jobs and apartments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:29 AM
3

It's unfortunate because they end up isolating themselves and those of us who stay free end up losing friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:24 AM
-1

What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:23 AM
1

They can stay single and celibate then. That's fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:22 AM
1

Not always but sometimes they overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:20 AM
1

Women deserve to be treated like human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:20 AM
1

It's not bourgeois. You start at the bottom and work your way up. Lotta these guys refuse to even move out of their parents' place or accept jobs they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:26 AM
0

Any man with a pulse and good hygiene is Chad I guess. Have you seen these zombie-looking mofos on Match?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:23 AM
3

LOL as if ugly dudes are any different. A man either wants to screw around, or get married, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:22 AM
-5

Men choose also. It's ridiculous to think they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:21 AM
-8

If someone wants a dumb partner I guess so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:19 AM
-9

Moral goodness doesn't necessarily mean a good partner though. Lots of morally good people are total jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:07 AM
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I've always just kept a small friend group. When we graduated and everyone got married and had their first kid it was like they dropped off the face of the Earth. They would barely answer texts, would never call, never come to social functions, always had an excuse. Years later I still see them complaining on social media about how lonely and bored they are. Maintaining a social group takes work. If you don't use it, you lose it. And we never really get it back. I don't think late bloomers have …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:50 PM
-4

How is this a good guy? This sounds like a dumb dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:34 PM
-15

Everyone online dating is just shopping. Believe me most women get discarded too. Both sexes have specific things they're looking for, just like employers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:33 PM
0

Those kinds of people will always exist. Men are crude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:24 PM
0

If you have a job it's not hard. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:06 PM
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Young men aren't victims and society isn't crumbling. We live in the most prosperous time in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:56 PM
4

This is why I wouldn't date a rich douchebag. I don't want some guy around me who buys nice things for women in exchange for sex, because we all know that's what they're actually doing. I would feel like a ho LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:26 PM

That's a Stacy complaining about men she doesn't like bothering her. I think you might be confused as to what women's complaints are actually about. To put it simply we want men, especially ones we are not interested in, to leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:51 PM
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I don't know why you thought that was a joke or making light. I wasn't. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:49 PM

They didn't even say that 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:44 PM

No he didn't say that. You zoomers need to work on your listening skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:41 PM
1

Sexual orientation isn't in the past. It's permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:47 AM
-1

No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:41 AM
1

It's in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:40 AM
-1

It depends on how old the child is. If they're still dependent on their parents then obviously it's a matter of survival. If it's an adult and they're still in the closet that's wrong. People who lie by omission are undatable and don't deserve to have friends if that's how they go about it. Now am I talking to a psychopath or are you just playing devil's advocate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:22 PM
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I think it's pretty obvious that by "they" I meant men, given I said "men" in the same sentence. OP and you need to understand that women are not obligated to be okay with bisexuality. We're not a charity. We can reject you for any reason under the sun and that's perfectly okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:00 PM
1

Yeah, it's tricky. That's why the guy has to be up on his pull out game or finish with other forms of sex and treat that stuff like a biohazard LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:57 PM
0

It's the "have(ing) to hide an intrinsic part of yourself out of fear of being a social outcast or dumped by your partner" that I have a problem with. That's manipulative and dishonest behavior and shifting the blame for it onto their partner is abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:55 PM
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I'll respond. I said I'm not debating it. Either respect that or get wrecked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:21 PM
-1

You're full of it and I'm telling you to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:20 PM
1

OP is specifically talking about guys who lie and cheat and then blame women for it. It doesn't even matter a man's sexual orientation, they do this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:18 PM
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Bro don't do anal that's gross and most women hate it. Not to mention it's a short swim from there to her vagina and women have gotten pregnant that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:33 PM
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Negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:32 PM
2

I can't take hormonal birth control so this is what me and my partner do. No pregnancy scares yet and we've been together for years. I think people like to downplay how effective it is so that they don't look as irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:31 PM
-1

That's unsubstantiated bollocks and I'm not willing to debate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:23 PM
1

I don't recall making such a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:22 PM
0

You said "any" woman and that's me so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:21 PM
1

Then don't hide it. You have no right to lie to your partner about something like that and they have absolutely no obligation to accept it either. You know what makes me irrationally mad? Men who hide this part of themselves from their family, cheat and bring HIV and other crap home to their wives. The leading way that women get HIV is from their partner who's either on the down-low or has been to prison. Sorry but I feel for these women more than some scummy man who won't make up his mind where…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:20 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:56 PM
-3

How dare someone be attractive and try to turn their life around and help others! What a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:52 PM
-4

Women don't care. What does Meeks have to do with my life? Absolutely nothing. I wouldn't even know who he was if you guys weren't constantly talking about how jealous heakes you LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:51 PM
0

I wouldn't touch Tiger Woods with a ten foot pole but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:47 PM
12

When men start giving birth and nursing the babies for us only then will this be reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:26 PM
1

I hate to break it to you but often a partner is the source of all or the lion's share of garbage in our lives. You're best off with a couple of really close buddies that always have your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:16 PM
2

Compassion doesn't mean telling you what you want to hear. In fact it's often the opposite. I'm not here to candy any asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:13 PM
0

There's more to it than hormones. You still have the brain structure of whatever sex you were born as. Females have more connections between the left and right hemispheres for example. Hormones can't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:13 PM
1

LOL I get out a lot. I have no desire to keep searching until I find toxic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:43 PM
1

Yes, most men live regular lives and aren't ignorant sexist idiots. In reality most men are having sex and relationships, and eventually marriage and family. That's the script and most people follow it. I'm responding to the alleged 60% of men (no idea where they get this figure) who are in their 20's and perpetually sexless yet somehow know all about women's nature. They're the ones saying AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:19 PM
0

They sure complain a lot for people who have such wonderful lives. Apparently 60%+ of you guys are involuntarily celibate and mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:27 PM
1

Inventing scenarios and characters in your mind, that don't exist in reality, and then holding it against real people is the definition of paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:25 PM
1

Leading, guiding, steering and dictating are all the same things in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:22 PM
1

AWALT and everything associated with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:20 PM
1

IDGAF about either because I concealed carry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:19 PM
1

Women aren't a group. I am not responsible for anything any other woman does by virtue of being the same gender. You guys can take your prejudices and kindly shove them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:34 PM
2

It doesn't bother us, we're just trying to help young misguided men not fall for the bullshit, because it genuinely ruins their lives and creates extremism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:32 PM
0

So he responds with abuse. Typical. Now you're reported and blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:22 PM
1

Eh, to each their own. My last boyfriend looked like a bald caveman with glasses. Some of those ugly dudes know how to make the magic happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:19 PM
1

I can only speak for myself but it really depends on the time of the month. I don't think we're less horny than men necessarily, but it's different. Sex is a high risk endeavor for women and women are already more risk-averse than men in general. So chances are we're not f-ing Chad. We are reading our novels or watching our chick flicks and using our toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:15 PM
0

Perhaps don't open with "That's the dumbest shit I ever heard" if you want people to read the rest of your comment and not just hide you from showing up in their inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:07 PM
15

If the amount of matches you get on dating apps drives you to suicide then you lived a charmed life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:55 PM
1

I seek advice from all kinds of people, living and dead, real and fictional. But my husband isn't my therapist or life coach. If he wants to show me how to change the oil in the car, fantastic. I don't need him dictating the direction of my life like I'm his pet or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:46 PM
1

Newsflash men don't have to settle either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:42 PM
1

That's a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:41 PM
1

LOL insecure much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:41 PM
0

You don't have to accept it but yes, it can and does work that way. Past doesn't matter and it's none if your business. If you're that insecure and paranoid then don't date or have sex. Everyone has had a wild period in their life, even you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:40 PM
1

You can't hold someone "responsible" for something that happened before they even met you and has no bearing on your relationship. That's completely unreasonable. But fine. You do you. Just accept that it's a "you" problem, not a problem with the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:39 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:33 PM
2

I should have just kept it simple and said "Mind one's own business."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:09 PM
4

Because unless I am doing something self-destructive like daytime drinking he doesn't know what's right for me more than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:05 PM
4

Exactly. I would welcome his advice in areas in which I'm less experienced than him and I would hope he would welcome mine. But who needs a guide?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:04 PM
11

Most men in my age group seem to want that. They want the illusion of being the head of the houses without actually having to do the work involved or even take care of themselves as independent adults. Then there are the women who want a forever son. Fir the record I ain't one of 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:59 PM
2

I wish people would stop calling it "geriatric pregnancy" there is nothing "geriatric" on a 35 year old. It's not the paleolithic. We have better nutrition, healthcare and prenatal care now. Women can have children into their 50's in rare cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:36 PM
0

Okay keep being hung up on silly things that have no effect on your life. It is your life after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:26 PM
1

Yes, we do live in a world where the past is behind us and we move on. Unless there's something that affects the present like a child, an STD, a criminal record, alimony or something like that, then the past doesn't even exist. A woman who's had 50 partners before you is no different from one who's had two, by that fact alone. And if you're that dick-phobic it's probably best you stay single and celibate because no woman on Earth is saving herself just for you. No man is that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:02 PM
-4

You can't judge your partner for who they were with before they even met you and then try to hold that against them. That just makes no sense. And if someone is a sex offender that's a current and permanent status, not just a past one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:51 PM
-3

No, I'm telling you that. Try listening instead of mansplaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:34 PM
0

Sex doesn't lower anybody's value LOL these aren't Puritan days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:18 PM
4

That's completely different. When you promise loyalty and it's a lie that's cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:17 PM
5

She might dislike him if she got to know him. That's kindof the whole point of promiscuity. You get what you want without having to deal with theor flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:06 PM
0

Not really. Her past is her business and her's alone. You don't own your partner like property.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:04 PM
4

They'll f guys they don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:03 PM
2

Nobody needs to get over themselves. If you want a 6' guy or a D cup girl that's your prerogative and nobody else's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:02 PM
1

Mist of the women here are in relationships. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Read the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:00 PM
1

Women are promiscuous because they like sex and aren't looking for something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:58 PM
3

The women are right and the men are definitely wrong in this instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:46 PM
1

What gives a man the right to complain about who someone else is sleeping with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:44 PM
4

Yep. Get married or else be treated like Cinderella by your mom and dad, assuming they wouldn't just sell you. Bad times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:51 PM
12

China during that time was patriarchal. Everything women did was to get a husband. Foot binding wasn't a trend. It was a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:48 PM
3

Masturbate I guess. I have platonic intimacy with friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:14 PM
4

Not enough to debase myself to get it. And I have other things to do besides try and date right now. The economy and business is tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:14 PM
2

Because I'm happy and have everything I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:05 PM
3

Yeah. I'm single and content with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:59 PM
1

It probably is just my area. We're kind of a rural city at the base of the mountains and it's mostly families here. It's very hard to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:26 PM
5

It's good that people aren't settling with someone they don't like. Nothing dystopian about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:07 PM
1

I think men are selective. They want young 18-early 20's women with slutty bios and their tits hanging out. Those are the women that get overwhelmed. Otherwise it's slim pickings and it's all just guys who want to hook up or sext, and not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:03 PM
3

I determine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:00 PM
0

You way "women" but you don't say which women. Is it all women? Women in your family? You should clarify instead of making blanket statements because i could easily say "Men are rapists" and it would be true but you guys would still lose your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:59 PM
2

On its fave maybe but it's probably more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:55 PM
0

They have it backwards. In reality men who provide resources are alpha. A player isn't alpha. He's just for fun. The most alpha thing you can do is get married, take care of your family, built generational wealth, and have lots of children. That's the foundation of nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:55 PM
2

I haven't broken any rules and you have so I guess we'll see. You know, it's not hard to be a good person. You don't have to try and injure others just because you're unhappy. It doesn't help. It only makes you even more isolated and unwanted. Why don't you try being kind or at the very least respectful. Then you might actually find some friends. Edit: oh look he's making alt accounts to circumvent getting blocked and suspended.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:27 AM
2

LOL who are "top men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:51 AM
6

We think we're hot shot because we are. Doesn't matter what men think. We can easily just live without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:50 AM
-5

Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:48 AM
-1

I am not responsible for what other women have done. Their experiences do not trump mine nor vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:47 AM
1

Who gives a shit about votes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:45 AM
13

Not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:45 AM
16

Our relationship value is whatever we decide it is. Either I get the relationship I want with the man I want, or I stay content and single. That's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:39 PM
2

Are you still with any of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:20 PM
0

I don't know how common this actually is. Seems like a sexist stereotype honestly. I've never done it and would never. Sex should be fun for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:18 PM
1

It's okay to be celibate if it makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:12 PM
-6

We're not a hive mind. I don't know why you'd think that. We just don't want you, or any man. We want to be left alone and not be harassed all the time. Many of us are spoken for or simply not interested. Learn to take no for an answer. OP gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:11 PM
1

How do you know what the number is? Can't you just avoid these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:44 PM
1

Don't date people who are like that then. Nobody is forcing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:43 PM
1

I mean there's already a plethora of people doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:42 PM
1

My reply is telling you to stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:41 PM
8

Anybody who says "all men" or "all women" are wrong. I think that's the core issue here. If this sub would just accept that fact, most of these debates would be unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:40 PM
2

Toxic masculinity is just an academic buzzword. It really just means immaturity. Immature men are toxic in a number of ways. In fact most of them are very unmasculine. You can be open about your emotions without being immature about it. And I'm pretty sure feminists have clarified what they mean by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 10:07 PM
0

Yeah people are telling everyone to brush their teeth and take care of their bodies. That's not a gender norm. Nobody cares what gender norms you adhere to I mean hell, you can even identify with a made-up gender if you want and that's your business. And yes I speak for our culture as a whole. This is where we are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:56 PM
3

Did I f-ing say that? No. Go away troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:54 PM
3

No. I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:43 PM
0

Exactly it is complicated. I am talking about the OP saying some women are "bigger". Like, no woman's v is "bigger" than an average male penis. We can hold little bitty tampons in there. It is a flexible stretchy organ designed for babies to fit through. Size queens just want what they want, and they're allowed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:43 PM
1

No we're not. Nobody is trying to enforce anything on you. Do whatever you want just don't hurt anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:40 PM
2

Your comment makes no sense. Did you reply to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:11 PM
1

LOL then don't marry someone who shames you. Nobody is forcing you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:42 PM
0

They might. But what does that specific scenario have to do with anything. And in case this needs saying: don't approach people at the store, okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:36 PM
1

Said man better not complain about not getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:34 PM
0

So you want women to just be rude and say "Sorry you're too ugly"? You guys would f-ing murder us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:27 PM
1

Okay then I'll just reject you and not even say why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:26 PM
-3

People used to literally dance with each other to court their mate. Nowadays guys want to do nothing and have poon delivered to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:24 PM
1

Are you just trying to sabotage people's marriages or what? Good thing they don't appear to be listening to you. Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:18 PM
-1

Then don't. Nobody is forcing you to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:17 PM
4

I have straight male friends. Either guys can be cool or they can't. Of course it helps that they're all spoken for or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:11 PM
4

We have to be on guard because it's a matter of survival or getting assaulted, violated or killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:55 PM
1

Good for those women. Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:33 PM
1

So every woman alive wants to be treated that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:32 PM
1

Okay. I'm talking about something different but you enjoy your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:48 PM
1

That's not really accurate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:46 PM
1

That doesn't mean it's bigger or that it's always like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:45 PM
3

Alone means not dating or doing anything except platonically. I should have said single. I'm not alone. I have friends and people in my life. Just no partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:44 PM
3

I want to see one with the Santa list specifically LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:37 PM
1

To quote Jeff Foxworthy: If you think that some people liking a particular thing means their entire sex likes it, you might be an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:37 PM
0

Proof of what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:34 PM
0

I'll bet there's a porno based on that premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:34 PM
1

I've seen that too. And not on Reddit necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:33 PM
1

The guys who think they are experts are the ones least experienced with actual women. It's always the loner shut-ins who think they know everything. Men who've had a lot of relationships of all sorts with all sorts of women (be they friends, lovers, spouse's, co-workers, acquaintances, bosses, navy buddies, etc.) never claim to know everything about "female nature", because "female nature" is unknowable. People are unique individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:32 PM
1

I really am not into true crime. I don't know why you'd show me this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:55 AM
6

Okay I don't even have to date them or invite them into my life in any fashion in order to have compassion for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:53 AM
1

The thing is we can never really know who's dangerous and who isn't. I don't see why a dangerous person wouldn't go to therapy. Violent people aren't violent all the time. Also sometimes that therapy is court-ordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:52 AM
4

How is it ironic? Compassion doesn't mean giving them my pussy. Don't be entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:16 AM
5

I have compassion for them. Doesn't mean I want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:15 AM
2

I just don't mess with crazy. Lotta people who suddenly snap and kill people are on psych meds. Sudden impulsiveness and inexplicable rage is a listed side effect of some of them. It's scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:13 AM
-1

I don't want to date someone with issues serious enough to require a professional. Like I said, I already have to deal with enough of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:34 AM
3

For telling people to stop fucking with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:33 AM
1

No clue who that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:08 AM
1

I said it's the same. Cut it with the semantics stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:51 PM
1

Possibly. Also depends of what it is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:38 PM
5

Thank you. I just want to make sure OP stays safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:28 PM
5

Yeah I don't understand that at all. No way in hell I'm going out with someone who's mentally ill. I got enough of that sht in my own family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:23 PM
-1

To answer your question, no, a guy needing therapy (depending on what it's for) is a red flag. Men with mental issues are potentially dangerous to women. They're potentially dangerous to everyone, as we've seen with these pew pew incidents that seem to be happening on a weekly basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:17 PM
10

That's actually a medical problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:10 PM
9

It's not desired by most. Not in any civilized culture that views women as people and not property that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:10 PM
3

As long as he and his clothes are clean I guess it's alright. Just don't wear pajamas in public. That's my personal pet peeve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:34 PM
13

I wish you the best and hope you get a good partner that makes you happy, if you want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:38 PM
20

Men who are obsessed with female virginity are creeps, point blank. I would never reveal that status in a male's presence. It turns something on in them and it's real ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:46 PM
51

Being alone sucks but the loneliest I've ever been has always been when I was partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:58 PM
13

I've literally never heard a man say he prefers a certain type of vagina. As long as it's clean and smells good I think most men are just happy to get some. BTW nobody has a big vagina. That's just ignorance about anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:47 PM
1

For the gender that claims to like sex a lot you guys really compare it to awful dirty things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:31 PM
1

You shouldn't be having casual sex. That's not what sex is for. Get married and make love to your wife. Build a heaven with her. Don't be a degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:27 PM
1

I'm holding men responsible for the decisions men make and women responsible for the decisions women make. That is to say, I hold the individual responsible for his or her own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:23 PM
3

You can be a virgin and have been doing bj's your entire life. Maybe I used a bad example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:13 AM
3

Apparently you've never gotten an inexperienced blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:05 AM

Women aren't fucking frat boys, unless you consider drunken sorority sluts to be women. Which I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:13 AM
3

Okay thanks. Women are not gatekeepers. That's a sexist assertion that strips agency from men. And men's dick-phobia isn't women's problem. A woman who's had a million different dicks isn't any different than a virgin (other than likely being more skilled and better in bed).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:08 AM
2

If you want to look at it that way, sure I guess. And men like the same in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:02 AM
-3

Fix your grammar and maybe I'll respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:54 PM
3

We can and do have both, or neither. Personally I'd choose neither, but of the reo I prefer the 65+ with a successful career because I would have the assets to live a comfortable retirement and maybe have a gentleman friend and some pets, a pretty property and some horses to share it with. But I'm unusual. Your hypothesis is incorrect. Most women sacrifice the best years of their lives for family and end up with little to show for it at the end, besides (hopefully) some kids that might somewhat …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:51 PM
0

I don't hate them. I hate the men who make them. I hate the double-standard. I gate hypocrisy. Sex should be for love and procreation first and foremost. Men want to have their cake and eat it too, then pass the blame onto women for wanting the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:47 PM
-4

If you're with someone for years and years then that's a committed relationship. If you're secretly not committed then you are lying, and by definition violating the other party's consent. You know this. And I ought to report your shitty little comment "women are children". Hateful little POS!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:40 PM
1

My comment was meant to he ironic, not un-ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:37 PM
0

You're about to get reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:36 PM

I underestimated the autism around here I guess. Didn't think it needed an /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:43 PM
1

I don't know anything about the guy but LOL probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:42 PM
-6

If you're sleeping with someone you should be invested in them long-term, regardless of whether you're a male or a female. Sl*ts and the men who sleep with them are equally bad. "Because men will spend 10 years with a woman they consider short term, but just never fully commit." Yeah that's a form of sexual abuse. Those guys deserve castration.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:39 PM
2

Self-preservation is always reasonable and also comes before commission.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:21 AM
0

I don't need to defend it. It was an ironic statement. Your brain should have made a connection and then...ugh, nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:20 AM
0

Or you could grow some brain cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:18 AM
2

Concealed carry is legal where I live and I strongly advocate firearm education for women in particular, as well as self defense training in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:18 AM
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I mean, they both get it on. Between the teo I've seen more autistic guys in long-term relationships and more ADD guys in sporadic failed relationships. But some people can have a combination of both disorders at once, and that probably sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:16 AM
1

Talk to me directly or f off, coward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:13 AM
1

I deleted it because people on this site are too stupid to understand irony and it's frustrating. Only like 2 out of 10+ people got it so I give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:30 PM
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I'll bet you guys both live in lily-white neighborhoods with low crime and no war. You've completely missed the point of the man vs. animal thing. Human beings (mostly males) are the most dangerous animals on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:01 PM
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I had to look up who that is. IDK he's kinda ugly to me and looks like he has ADD or autism or something. He probably is a bit socially awkward and impulsive and rude. Thing is, when you're young that actually works. Anything that gets attention will get you laid when you're young, whether it's good attention or bad. This wears off as people mature and become more discerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:57 PM
-1

Those are all examples of men manipulating women. It's pretty standard abuse. You placate your victim, make it so they'll feel guilty for leaving you because of all the things you do for them, then you can treat them however you want. That's "traditionalism" in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:44 PM
1

Were Gates and Bezos cheating and running around?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:40 PM
1

I deleted the comment. It's obviously beyond most of the minds in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:37 PM
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All but one of you guys missed the point of my comment so STFU please. Know what, never mind. I'll just delete it since you cavemen can't understand a damn piece if sarcasm without an s/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:33 PM
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You guys are really making it hard for me to not break the rules. Please use your thinking caps and understand my comment before I insult all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:32 PM
-2

OMG Redditors are idiots. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:30 PM
-1

Wooosh!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:29 PM
-1

My comment went over most of your heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:29 PM

Maybe he should have picked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:52 PM
1

Personally I'm not a fixer upper so I can't speak on their behalf. Isn't that what all these broke guys want though? They're not even full adults yet and they think they're entitled to a woman's undying love (a hot woman's undying love nonetheless) and they call women all sorts of bad things for not giving them that. LOL as if we are wrong for not wanting them! Like Jordan Peterson says: if women don't want you, they're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:50 PM
1

Most fat women who haven't had kids yet have been fat since they were babies. They're entering the dating market that way. Just like most rich young men are born into money. It's how you were raised. Poor guys and fat girls are entering the market at about the same starting point. I agree with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:12 PM
0

Yet men stay famously married to their sweethearts even after they got made, earn a lot of money they [leave their wives and kids for hot young models].
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:07 PM
1

Why are you replying to a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:02 PM
0

Young men aren't beautiful? You must not live near a college town.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:59 PM
2

So would you love a fat woman or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:58 PM
4

Poor men have no problems getting relationships. Poor people are having the most kids. Even homeless tweakers are getting it on in my town.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:57 PM
-1

It's not true in the US or anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:55 PM

Yes I read it. You're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:50 PM

You guys don't need empathy you need to do some hard work and introspection. Nobody else can fix your problems. Only you can. And don't react by taking it out on women or society please. Frustrated men have a habit of killing or raping people. Don't do that. That's why you're not trusted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:51 AM
1

My proof is I'm an average woman and I know plenty of other average women. 🤷🏼‍♀️ We're not only fans models dude. Maybe you're too pornsick to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:48 AM
1

Nope. I'm going to continue starting my opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:20 AM
1

Who cares about them? We're talking about regular women, not sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:20 AM
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I hate this stereotype that good looking men only use women for sex. ALL men will do that, until they find the one they want to marry. People get married for love and compatibility, not lust. You act like women are stupid and don't even understand their own feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:03 AM
-1

I don't know where people get ideas like this. Is it podcasts? Because this is not how I see things play out in the real world. In the real world people date around until they find someone they are compatible with, then they get married and have kids. This is what 99% of people around the world do. And most people are mediocre looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:02 AM
1

LOL I don't get why men think every woman has an onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:56 PM
1

These guys aren't there yet and they admit it. They want women to accept them for their "potential". That's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:55 PM
1

It's not my job to teach men a single goddamn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:54 PM
1

Look at how they react to men who give them attention for it. That's exhibit A.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:54 AM
1

Well dude if it's during binge drinking, yeah mostly. Have you been to these parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:53 AM
1

Drunken sex/date rape doesn't really count as a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:47 AM
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Yeah not all criminals, just the sadistic ones who hurt people and animals and criminal psychologists are pretty good at identifying those. Chemical castration can actually be pretty permanent. There definitely needs to be more social work so that the kids don't develop the same way. It's a monumental task to fight nature with nurture though. But it can be done. I myself defied a lot of odds. So far anyway and a middle aged adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:52 PM
2

Most people aren't gamer dorks dude. At least I recognized that it's Japanese from the spelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:50 PM
2

Never even heard of it. Sounds like Japanese thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:04 PM
2

Going back to my eugenics argument, maybe criminals shouldn't be allowed to raise children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:03 PM
2

Sure. Or more wild things. Whatever it takes to be cost effective. Currently that's the reason these monsters get released early.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:50 PM
1

The game developers who make these sexualized characters are males. It's a product designed for males by males. I think it's gross and drives women gamers away but hey whatever. Women who dress sexually aren't doing so because of a man. To put it bluntly men need to mind their own business when it comes to real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:39 PM
-1

Not to a man who's also flawless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:49 PM
0

Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:45 PM
0

A flaw is a serious defect that affects the functionality of the product. It's not like, a big nose or something like that. So yeah, before getting married I would fix my flaws so that an innocent human being doesn't have to deal with them. Most men lie about their flaws, or try to lay on the guilt like you are doing. FYI the customer isn't wrong for not wanting to buy your product!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:47 PM
-1

It's not seen as more attractive in general. It's juvenile. Thrill-seeking and substance abuse are juvenile and heavily stigmatized. It's not my opinion. Personally I don't even care. I'm telling you how society views it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:28 PM
3

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:17 PM
-2

LOL it's a universally held opinion that binge drinking is disgusting and unhealthy. Nobody finds drunkenness attractive. I don't know if you're a teenager or what but don't binge drink please. It won't get you laid or anything good at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:16 PM
1

Virtually all women work outside the home too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:00 PM
-1

It's not attractive at all. It's juvenile behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:58 PM
13

Don't approach them. If you already have chemistry that's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:55 PM
2

You don't know anything about my morality and I didn't even mention it. You need to stop speaking for other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:39 PM
2

Unless you're in one of those tall European countries where even the women are 6' I doubt that very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:38 PM
-2

Binge drinking? What? Women don't generally pick drunken frat boys to be their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:26 PM
1

Most women don't live in the Netherlands or Greece so who cares? House chores and childcare fall on women's shoulders throughout the world and all of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:23 PM
1

What have women done to you? Be specific. I'll bet they don't do anything and you take it as a personal slight that they don't fall down and worship you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:22 PM
0

Who? Which women specifically and what are their names? Enough of this generalization BS I want to know where/when you saw this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:20 PM
0

Yeah and these men are generally not empathetic towards losers. OP's mentality is loser mentality. Strong men despise that. If they're kind they might try to give him some advice for self-improvement but he won't listen to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:19 PM
0

Why would/should anyone fall in love with a flawed individual who's not self-actualized yet? I'm pretty sure most women want to date adult men and not boys who are still growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:17 PM
1

Way to out yourself as less than alpha, LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:16 PM
1

You just have to be taller than her in most cases, and that's not a lot to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:12 PM
3

Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:10 PM
1

Men can not coach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:08 PM
-2

You've never respected women. Look at how you view them and the words that you're using.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:03 PM
2

Eugenics and not letting them back into the population if they've done these crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:00 PM
1

I don't think very many men are doing that at all, at least not the ones near me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:49 PM
4

I wouldn't even care if a guy did have stretch marks 😂 I think it's a moral failing in a man to have children with a woman he's not married to. Period. Again, I'd give some leeway if the kids were over 18 and out of the house after he did his job as a father. Empty-nesters get divorced a lot. It's a human thing, I get it. And honey no, vaginas don't get stretched out from childbirth. They go back to normal. Those things are so resilient LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:49 PM
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Even with child free guys I ask them specifically. The truth will come out eventually. I emphasize that it is a very big deal to me and if they're enough of a sociopath to continue lying then there will be signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:02 PM
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Some people find single parenthood a deal-breaker and some don't. It's not a gendered issue. Personally I'm not cool with dating a man who has ever had kids, unless maybe the kids are grown and have flown the nest. I mostly see women echoing a similar sentiment. We don't want the baby momma drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:11 PM
-1

People should be able to walk around completely nude and not get harassed or leered at. It should be the norm to accept human bodies. We all have one. As for the filming, it's up to the gym to decide whether or not to allow that. If you don't want to ever be filmed, better not ever go in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:42 PM
2

I couldn't care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:11 AM
1

30's isn't even close to middle age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:26 AM
4

Don't those reasons prove that younger women aren't "superior"? I don't think any age is superior necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:56 PM
8

Speaking of biology, doesn't lack of stamina usually start affecting men in their late 40's-50's? Women in their 30's who want marathon sex can still get it from men their own age. Maybe the issue is that most people in their 30's are married and not available. That could why single women that age are getting with young men. It's a choice of either young single men or older divorced men who don't have the stamina to match their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:42 PM
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I've never dated a man that age but I have friends that are. "Settle" isn't the right word here. "Prefer" is. Not all men prefer younger women. From what they tell me it's mostly because they don't have compatibility with girls their own age and like women who know what they want (which 20-year old's typically don't yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:34 PM

Seeking hedonistic pleasure over family and continuing your legacy, all while being bitter and hateful of happily married people because you know that you will never achieve what they have is absolutely loser behavior. I would never let a friend sink to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:24 PM

I've been with an abusive shithead. He wasn't like that at first and it's not why I picked him, but it is why I left him. My current partner is nothing like that. Now you're going to tell me that my husband is a beta provider or some shit and that I really want to be treated like trash. Go ahead and say it like you guys always do. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:08 PM

You admitted that you don't know dude. You're just being bitter and immature about it. About something that doesn't really matter anyway. People who take Reddits too seriously are the ones who drive vans through crowds of people, or blow their own hands off trying to make bombs. Don't be like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:58 PM

Okay then your full of s. So stop talking about it and get over it. Why would you want to be part of any of those subs anyway? This one is bad enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:54 PM

Well that's silly otherwise all of our house pets would be sick LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:51 PM

Instead of making assumptions why don't you ask an admin?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:50 PM

It's the only proof you're going to get. I don't know why you think someone would lie about it either. What's your proof to the contrary?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:49 PM

How do you know "Bitches started complaining" is what got the sub shut down? I suspect you don't know, but maybe I'm wrong so that's why I'm asking. As for the incest thing I don't think that breaks any TOS, as long as there are no minors. And if you see someone say "All blank should die" report them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:45 PM

Dude, a woman telling you what she likes in a partner is the proof!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:40 PM

I can be a diva if I decide I'm one. I can be happy single and be as picky as I want. Men don't decide these things for us because we basically don't need them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:36 PM

Sex without love, intimacy and commitment (and eventually reproduction) is just masturbation with extra steps. Loser behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:34 PM

LOL did women quarantine the Redpill sub? Or was it the result of content being posted that broke Reddit's TOS? Men hate accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:24 PM

Being single isn't equivalent to being homeless or poor. Good grief people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:21 PM

Every now and then women here post and comment what they want. Then men tell them they're wrong LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:19 PM
3

It would be a lot more understandable of men didn't constantly hyper analyze and insult women on their looks, or talk about women's body parts constantly. And no it's not equal for both genders. Women are less visual than men, by a very wide margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:16 AM
2

What if the woman is ugly or obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:42 AM
5

Please re-read my comment. I said looks are all that matters to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:55 AM
9

I like how "be attractive" is always first on men's lists, and we all know what they mean by that. You judge women's character based entirely based on their looks so the rest doesn't even matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:55 PM
4

I'm too old to be bothered with it. Are these teenage boys we're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:57 PM
1

I encourage all women to take self-defense lessons and to have a CC permit and know how to use it. And also keep one in your home in a safe location that not everyone knows about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:14 PM
0

I'm not saying it's easy. I'm saying do it. There's no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:02 PM
0

It must be kids saying that. Don't listen to them. Most women don't do hookups when they're at a place in life where they waya serious partner. They do them post-traumatic break-up. You don't want to be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:57 PM
0

I didn't say that or anything close. You guys claiming to be autistic are just using it as an excuse to never try. You're lazy. You'll never ever win in life. And it's all your fault. Fix it or hush.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:38 PM
0

Broaden it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:35 PM
0

It's not compassionate to listen to excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:34 PM
0

How do guys make friends then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:33 PM
1

Go where the single women are and talk to them. Get a better social life. Make a better dating profile based on what statistically works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:39 AM
1

The way to get invited is to host some yourself and invite others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:05 AM
1

I literally do this. I introduce myself and say "Hey I know whatever blah blah blah you guys are talking about, have you heard about blah blah blah?". Some people take kindly to it and others don't. You can also introduce yourself to people who aren't talking. There's usually a few wallflowers who are there by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:04 AM
1

I go to shows in dive bars and clubs all the time and I don't think I've ever even seen a bouncer in real life. Security, yes, but they don't bother you if you behave yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:00 AM
2

They're right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:56 AM
1

Get over it or else don't complain about being alone. Sometimes we all have to do things we don't like because the reward is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:55 AM
2

This is a normal mentally healthy person's perspective. Don't expect it to get much traction on Reddit LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:53 AM
1

They're in love so obviously they're attractive enough for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:50 AM
1

It's very simple. They're bothering us when we don't want to be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:49 AM
1

Most average men are in relationships, usually several over a lifetime. Obviously whatever they're doing is working.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:40 AM
1

Not the ones I've known.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:34 AM
2

What's the point of comparing apples to oranges? It's not going to accomplish anything and there's nothing you can do about it even if it were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:32 AM
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That already exists and it's mostly extreme and weird. I think we need to detox from porn for awhile and recalibrate. Too many people are addicted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:57 PM
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Only ones I've seen get away with that were overweight and you honestly couldn't tell what age they were. Or they smoke/vape and that ahes them too. IDK it's usually very apparent as soon as they start talking with their speech, mannerisms and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:35 PM
5

That's like a zen riddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:28 AM
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Thank you for leaving women in peace. We appreciate it. ✌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:28 AM

Men can't do whatever they want to do. Not without life-threatening repercussions. Humans are a social species.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:07 AM

Women sacrifice for society through motherhood. Men sacrifice by being providers. If you don't want to do that or are unable to, then you should become useful in other ways. Be a writer, an artist, a warrior, a mystic. Contribute something great, to the greatest of your ability. Barring that, there's always hermitude. Oh trust me, sometimes I feel so useless that I'd like to go live in a cave in peace and just survive alone but speaking as someone who's tried that I can confidently say that Pete…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:01 AM
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Forgot to proofread, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:23 AM
1

Yes that's valid. It does not matter why someone rejects. It's their choice. They're the one who stands to lose if they reject too often and end up missing out on good people. But that's just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:08 AM
1

Well the reality is that ANY reason is equally valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:57 AM
1

You might have a case if every un-partnered person were on the market for a relationship. Many are busy with life and work or simply aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:22 AM
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Many shut-ins have been horrifically abused. But self-isolating like that is no way to live. We need other people in our lives. I've actually been SA'd by both sexes. It's scarier when it's a man due to the fact that males are bigger, stronger and more prone to violence compared to females.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:52 AM
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We never needed the media to tell us men are predators. Every woman knows that, basically from birth. We are living this experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:34 AM

Yes. It would be better for everyone if they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:46 AM
1

LOL what a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:22 PM

Compassion doesn't equal pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:22 PM

I would advise against anyone dating them. It's pointless. How can you love something that doesn't have theory of mind? Might as well love a plant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:21 PM

True. I'm not even around children very much. Maybe that's the problem. I'm not used to immaturity because I haven't had to be around it since I was about 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:20 PM

What sense does it make to hate on something you crave? That sounds like self-loathing externalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:17 PM
1

Yeah it did. Learn to read please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:14 PM
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I didn't stay. Learn to read. Also go f yourself you dirty creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:14 PM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:41 AM
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Your projecting male mentality onto women. I promise you we really don't care about opposite sex attention like you guys do. Having sex with hot men is meaningless to us and most of us don't do it. Also if we want to have a baby we can have one, we don't need to wait for a man's permission. Hell we don't even need to like men. Lesbians and asexuals have kids all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:41 AM
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Everything you've just described is delusional and toxic thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:26 AM
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I've never used Instagram but i believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:23 AM
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"Top % men" aren't the ones attacking us and making our cities unsafe. I'm pretty sure women's problems come from all men top to bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:19 AM
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I don't know a single woman in history who didn't have a relationship and marriage if she wanted that. It's the women who have had experience with men that hate them. Men do horrible things to women over the course of our lives, starting with our fathers and make relatives. That's where the hate comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:04 AM
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What on Earth brought you to these conclusions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:01 AM
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I don't think that's normal. That sounds like a little b*tch. I mean I REALLY suck at sports but I still watch them for entertainment sometimes. Most of the time I don't even think about them. Investing enough attention into something to actively hate it is pathetic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:59 AM
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Imagine having the mindset where you're obsessively jealous about what other people are doing with their lives instead of just living your own life. Geez. No wonder these guys are consumed with negative feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:57 AM
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Anti-feminism is about bashing women for doing anything besides being obedient housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:51 AM
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We do detect it. I had an abusive ex who was also a misogynistic dickbag and I called him out on it numerous times. When we first met I just thought it was his sense of humor so I tolerated it. He showed no signs of changing so now he's someone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:37 AM
0

Whatever, Warren Farrell. Nobody asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:19 AM
0

Most lack emotional creativity and empathy. They think only about their own needs, are inflexible, and are self-centered. If you have kids with them they'll inherit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:18 AM
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LOL what does the algebra say about ugly people falling in love and having ugly kids? Enlighten us please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:16 AM
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I would spend $50,000 to save my child. I would spend any amount, even if it meant I was in debt the rest of my life. It's my child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:48 PM

No it shows that I don't care about your hypothetical situation and I have a proposition that you're not comfortable with because you would stand to suffer if society got rid of all the perverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:46 PM

Not hardly. There are other options. The nonces at Reddit will ban my account if I say what really should be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:26 PM
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My English major friend is an editor. I majored in engineering and make less than half her salary. I work in manufacturing and barely make more than the people on the floor pushing buttons with their high school degrees and GEDs. I might have more upward mobility than them, maybe, depending on the job market. I don't regret my degree and life isn't all about work, but I understand how a lot of people screwed themselves pursuing education that's not helping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:00 PM
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Female comedians aren't rare at all. But my point is comedians don't get celebrity status or money, even if they're famous. If you're funny you will have friends and get a partner if you want one though, it's pretty much guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:54 PM
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They go, get into debt, and don't even have a degree to show for it. It probably would be best if most people didn't go to university. Community college is a great place to find what you're interested in and then go to trade school from there. Uni used to be an elite thing but now it's marketed as being for everyone. All my friends from highschool (female) went into the medical field, animal sciences or English and they all have better jobs than I have right now. I'd argue that those degrees are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:48 PM
1

Hm, no, I'd argue that most do. Every time I've noped a guy was because he said or did something repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:45 PM
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LOL as a sloppy drunk, I can confidently say that's not true. Never in my life have I wanted to steal a traffic cone, cut eye holes in it and walk around the bad side of town pretending to be a Klansman. And yet it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:07 PM
2

Geez this is depressing because men treat their wives like utter garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:03 PM
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I wasn't ignoring them. I haven't met one that I would marry yet. The hook-up stage is just practice for finding a husband, or it was for me at least. Yes it's immature and not practical but we're only young once so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:52 PM
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It's not even the gender quotas, fewer men graduate too. They get screwed and also screw themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:09 PM
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I'm not shooting anything, much less my foot. Keep being mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:03 PM

I did answer it. I said "No".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:02 PM
1

Not if it's unappealing to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:02 PM

No. I would ask God why he created pedophiles in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:23 PM
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Compassion doesn't mean giving someone whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:22 PM

This is like saying legalizing CP helps pedophiles. It's technically true I guess but, just no!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:35 PM
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Don't. Don't try to date. Stay single or marry your body pillow. Any relationship an ASD person gets is just going to f up their partner's life and waste their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:33 PM
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I don't know any women living the lifestyle who don't regret it actually. It's generally something we do at the lowest point in our lives, when we're bored, lonely and have broken hearts and poor self-esteem. "Lowering your standards" and sleeping with people you're not really attracted to feels degrading and shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:30 PM
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I don't understand how people can be this delusional. There's at least twenty races and ethnicities that are not white. How come they're not going extinct if the women only want white guys? And how come short ugly people are living their lives and having short ugly babies all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:20 PM
1

Exactly. Most comedians are married. When was the last time you saw a really good-looking comedian of either sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:16 PM
1

That's not reality though, and is reflective of the real problem: an unappealing mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:14 PM
1

I'll bet you're a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:35 PM
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Oh your precious time and money! It's only your flesh and blood child that you're fighting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:34 PM
0

Only from immature idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:33 PM
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Yeah well giving up isn't an option. The child will grow up knowing their father doesn't give a crap about them and failed them, and that will stay with them their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:04 PM
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Maybe you got some on you and that's why you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:02 PM
2

Some people try to get conservatives to say things that are borderlands then report them and get their accounts banned. Or they try and start arguments with them so they can insult them. You know, typical Reddit stuff. I'm glad you're just respectfully asking and in good faith. That's refreshing around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:01 PM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:43 PM
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It's not a lost cause. A lot of fathers don't try simply because they don't care. It sounds like you are taking steps though and are actually trying. The courts are watching. Men fight wars over stupid stuff so there's no reason for you to give up fighting for what's important. I hope you're able to lawyer up and get this sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:42 PM
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Doing people's homework for free thinking it will make them like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:37 PM
1

I'm getting that way. Why can't you guys come up with something smart and original?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:36 PM
1

No offense I just see a lot of people ask questions like that as a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:27 PM
-1

Yeah that line is old and tired too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:25 PM
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Oh spare me we've all heard that tired narrative and it's been refuted a million times. You're just trying to minimize and delegitimize women's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:14 PM
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I'm 40. If I was going to frat parties in a short skirt where everyone is completely wasted that would be a dumb and immature thing to do. I'd still be a victim but people wouldn't feel sorry for me because I'm old enough to know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:10 PM
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"There are many men out there willing to take you on nice dates, but you're just not into them." I don't think any woman has ever claimed this not to be the case. Do you expect women to suddenly start going out with men they're not interested in? Why would/should they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:06 PM

Most stories on Reddit are completely made up and the comment are trolls. Don't take it seriously and don't use this site for that. Don't even look at that brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:40 PM
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I can't get with younger guys. They look and act like kids to me. Just doesn't work. But I'm not about to judge other people's relationships if they work. Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:32 PM
1

He's not trying to date you so why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:57 PM
1

That user is probably way younger. I was relentlessly bullied as a kid, like to the point that my life was in danger at some points. But by 16 I was over it because I had stuff to do like get my driver's license and find a college to apply for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:45 PM
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None of your bullet points are anything extreme or unusual. Looks like typical bullying to me. Most of us face that at points in our lives, so I don't really see why you'd think women don't know how it feels. Many women are socially awkward too and struggle to overcome it negative self-talk. It looks like you're not actively working to overcome it at all. Maybe this is something to ponder and talk to a professional about. They might give you some tips on building self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:41 PM
-1

Autism or not an adult should be smarter than that. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:35 PM
1

You're in college and still doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:34 PM
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Well, why IS the son with an abusive alcoholic and not you? Did you go to the custody hearings? I ask this because a lot of dads don't even show up to fight for their kid, then try to claim the courts are biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:32 PM
0

That's men's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:18 AM
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Why I should I be salty? I'm not the ones who's lives you ruined. Poor kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:58 PM
1

It was a joke in response to your joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:23 PM
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It's not up to women to make men act right. And we can have as much sex as we want. So can you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:22 PM
1

"Hey baby, put your undies in the hamper!" "You're so handy, you could fix my refrigerator all day long!" "Nice pants mister, why don't you let me patch up the crotch for you?" ~ Wife catcalling
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:08 PM

Bring eccentric, creative and different doesn't mean autistic. Autism advocates have sold people a lie that Einstein was autistic. Those who actually knew him say that's ludicrous. Just face it, you're desperate for validation. The reality is you're all, well, literal cretins. Instead of thinking you're better than everybody else try having some humility and gratitude, because people weren't always as patient with your nonsense as they are now!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:18 PM

Oh yeah, definitely not openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:14 PM

So you haven't raised one. Okay then. You have no idea how hellish it can be, dealing with the behavior and the despair of not being able to understand your child, and knowing that their life is going to be difficult if not downright terrible. You have no clue. And you're selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:13 PM

I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:41 PM

If your life is in peril, be as racist as you want. Sensitivity is phony and harmful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:35 PM

You didn't even answer the question. Have you raised a kid with autism or ADHD or not? What is your experience to make you think that a mental disability is no big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:19 PM

You are beyond clueless about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:09 PM

That's a complete myth. There are no successful people with autism or ADHD, anywhere. Unless you count insane artists who's work only got famous after their died. Their lives were living hell though. The mind not working right isn't a gift. It's the worst curse imaginable. There's nothing worse than insanity. And no offense friend but I think you've had a lot of educators and counselors blowing smoke up your ass because they didn't want you to grow up with low self-esteem. And I really despise t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:05 PM
1

Those poor babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:57 PM

Oh my God. Just no. Have you ever raised a child with one of these issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:18 PM

It's better to not have children with autism, ADHD and other disabilities is the point. Would you choose to be disabled or healthy if it was a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:14 PM

The people in that sub are living off their boomer parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:13 PM

There are humans, and our pollution and garbage, literally everywhere. They're finding microplastics in polar ice caps and the bottom of the ocean. Not to mention, there's only so much arable land that we can use, and we're currently using all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:10 PM

Um what? ADHD and autism are literal living Hell. We shouldn't make people mentally disabled on purpose. I can't believe I have to say this, wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:08 PM
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By all means of you're a bitch-made male stay single and celibate. Don't marry or have children. Kids deserve a real man as a dad and women are tired of being let down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:45 PM
1

You screwed the pooch when you called me racist and insulted me. Now get the hell out of my inbox. Consider this your only warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:05 AM
1

I didn't start anything. You replied to my comment, remember? I've already told you to f off so why don't you do it? Should I just report your misogyny directly to Reddit since the mods of this sub don't give a damn?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:59 PM
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No these days it's written by historians of all nationalities and is accessible worldwide for free. Use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:50 PM

What are you talking about? You must be a bot account.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:47 PM
1

Boohoo history and science are racist white inventions of patriarchal colonization! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:38 PM
0

At times there is but the beauty of academic rigor is it weeds out bias eventually. Facts stand on their own merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:37 PM
1

Oh no, are you one of those people who think Africans are the original Native Americans? I think we're done here LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:36 PM
0

Correct, and abroad in college and uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:40 PM
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I read a lot of historical autobiographies, especially from the wild west and early American history. I also have a passion for anthropology. No, they're getting SA'd, trafficked and beaten up by their own men. Women on the reservations in the Southwestern United States also risk ex exploitation and trafficking, mostly at the hands of Mexican cartels. Dozens of women go missing each year. It's kinda offensive... actually really f'ing offensive that you feel entitled to talk about this issue but …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:40 PM
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They don't make it into serious discussion unless they're substantiated though. No offense but you kinda sound like a creationist. They say what you said but about evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:34 PM
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It's the sorry state of so many men today. They weren't raised to be part of society. Their fathers were weak and uncaring, and probably treated their mothers like sh*t. They're antisocial robots. I saw and old guy fall down at the grocery store. It was a busy aisle with lots of people. I, a 118lb woman, stopped to help him up. The old guy was overweight and it was hard keeping him steady so he could get back on his feet. You know what all the strong young men in the immediate vicinity did? Comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:08 PM
1

It's what we all learned in school. Maybe you shouldn't have dropped out so soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:57 PM
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Well not really. My 98 year old granny can fire a pistol. She's a sure shot too. Dude, just stop please. You're being ridiculous. Are you a kid by chance? Please stay in school until you've completed health class.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:56 PM
-1

Aztecs literally thought the sun wouldn't come up in the morning unless they carved people's hearts out. Northern tribes thought the stars were holes in a large blanket covering the Earth. These people would still be believing these things if Europeans hadn't introduced science.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:53 PM
1

That's all very nice but maybe you should read my whole comment and not just knee-jerk reply to the first sentence like everyone here seems to be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:47 PM
3

Oh for sure they did. It's possible that they went north and raided, and are responsible for the extinction, enslavement and cannibalization of populations in the Southwest. Anthropologists haven't yet agreed who did what to whom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:42 AM
2

Um no, I didn't do that. I'm kinda amazed at all the triggered little zoomers or whatever you are. How did you survive history class in school without the top of your head blowing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:40 AM
4

What support do you want? Whitewashed history?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:37 AM
9

Oral history is folklore. It can be useful in studying anthropology, if there is hard evidence to go with it. I don't know what you're talking about in the rest of your comment but it has nothing to do with mine so have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:13 AM
1

Maybe the problem is you combined the two and probably went to a liberal arts school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:01 AM
3

We're a tool-using species dude. If women wanted to overpower men they could. But they don't. Females are less violent than males across almost the entire animal kingdom, and especially in mammals. Off hand I can think of spotted hyenas and ring tailed lemurs as the exceptions. We are apes though. Our closest relatives are chimps. And throughout all of human history since before we even came down from the trees, males have been going to war and brutalizing their own as well. I don't know how you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:53 AM
1

Maybe actually study the subject instead of calling everything "revisionism". People of all types had contact with Native Americans before, during and after European colonization. Also the patterns echo across time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:47 AM
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Actually it is the only history. Those before it never recorded anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:44 AM
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Racist huh? Takes one to know one I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:38 AM
3

Brides were traded like horses, or simply not valued at all. The pre-colonial Americas had a surplus of women due to so many men being killed in warfare. The women were treated even worse after colonization and it persists to this day. Native American women are the most likely to be trafficked, SA'd and murdered of any population.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:14 AM
1

Okay. Glad you admit it was a joke. It's not a good one BTW. But then Redditors are better known for autism than comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:53 AM
3

LOL you can't be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:08 AM
-1

Dude I understand. Your lizard brain tricks you into thinking you're gonna die if you don't have sex. Doesn't excuse anything. As humans we have the ability to turn that off. Monks do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:36 PM
4

Don't be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:32 PM
2

Then don't bring it up. The truth is men are worse than women when it comes to hatred, violence and perversion. Anyone with a brain knows it. The worst thing a man has to worry about from a man-hater is what, she won't date him? Women have to fear woman-haters doing horrific violence. Men should worry about these guys too because when they flip out they often kill indiscriminately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:11 PM
2

Maybe stop being disgusting and people will leave you alone. You're probably 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:07 PM
2

No, it's that talk is cheap online.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:00 PM
2

I don't believe a word of that, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:22 PM
1

Okay well sounds like you're prejudiced and probably shouldn't have that job. What's the name and information for this business?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:40 PM
2

I don't know where you got that from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:37 PM
2

Your company sounds kinda sexist and dumb. You should hire the most qualified person and totally ignore their immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:36 PM
3

Yes it's supposed to be an equal partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:35 PM
2

Far as I know there are zero female serial killers who derive pleasure from killing men. I'm pretty sure men's hatred is offensive and women's is defensive, based on what they say AND do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:34 PM
4

Are you in HR?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:32 PM
1

IDK it's pretty normal for people of both sexes to go long periods without and be just fine. It's not like it's going to fall off if you don't use it dude. And I don't think I've ever heard a woman say she'll drop a man for minor issues. Maybe you are the one who doesn't comprehend what major vs. minor issues are for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:32 PM
0

I haven't seen that and I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:28 PM
1

Keeping the guy's genes from going extinct, taking care of his family and him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:28 PM
4

Even in hiring it's about finding the best fit. Everyone who's equally qualified is supposed to get an equal chance but not everyone is equally qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:23 PM
2

LOL yeah, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:21 PM
3

Men already constantly disappoint us, in all ways. Eventually it adds up and we divorce you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:53 PM
3

Women comprehend horny. We just don't think it's a valid excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:49 PM
8

Okay but what's the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:47 PM
2

Maybe not quite in love yet. I've only ever approached men that I had a crush on or thought something might develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:31 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:36 PM
1

There isn't one. It's just a thing that happens sometimes. I've probably been deeply in love with three men in my life. Didn't work out and it's been a few years since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:34 PM
1

When people don't know something they often don't say anything. You're not a puppet master who gets to control their behavior. Learn to work with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:27 PM
1

Speaking personally and I think many women would agree with me: I'm not interested in dating most men. I'm not interested in dating any men, most of the time. I've got other stuff to do. And also, if we approach too many men, even if we're kinda interested in them, it gives us a nasty reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:25 PM
14

Um, hello. Your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:11 AM
2

Women make smart and decisive choices. They're not always in line with a man's agenda though. Golly gee, it's almost like women are people with their own desires, goals and plans!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:10 AM
1

It doesn't mean that they're wrong. "I don't know" is an acceptable answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:08 AM
1

That's not what ghosting is. That'll you asking people stuff online and them not knowing the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:05 AM
10

You should be asking men this question. Why DO you guys lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:04 AM
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The reality is they won't ask you because they aren't even looking at you and aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:51 AM
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What are you even saying dude? Men and women qre both allowed to be sluts. Just because your needs aren't met doesn't mean that you get to restrict other people's. Maybe get out there and make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:45 AM
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I have, do, and will continue to approach guys. I see other women do so all the time. We approach men we are interested in. That's what we do. We don't however, approach guys that we're not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:29 AM
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