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-1

“Ignoring the countries at war” Sorry?
/r/MensRights21/07/26 07:54 PM
1

99% of women are in a constant state of dissatisfaction Our ability to be content infuriates them and holds up a mirror to their inadequacies
/r/MensRights13/07/26 10:14 PM
1

Blackpill is true on a worldwide scale The 12 couples you’ve seen walking around your town is a slightly smaller scale and not a representative sample size
/r/seduction07/07/26 09:07 AM
-5

Irrelevant to OP’s question
/r/MensRights07/07/26 08:25 AM
22

It never fails to disturb me the complete lack of empathy from ‘the more empathetic gender’
/r/MensRights24/06/26 06:52 PM
17

Well done translating his post into Womanese. Not once did he use the word ‘oppression’
/r/MensRights24/06/26 06:48 PM
46

38 here, the older I get the more I realise the ROI is not there with modern women. The amount of time, effort & money I’ve spent on them over the years is horrifying.
/r/MensRights23/06/26 06:52 PM
23

Didn’t think I could love her more And from a woman who has every reason to hate after her pos ex husband
/r/MensRights18/06/26 08:53 PM
34

Before it hatches
/r/seduction18/05/26 09:24 PM
1

Look at the studies of women’s ages that men are attracted to. It plummets off a cliff after 30-35 Unattractive women have all the same life struggles as men
/r/MensRights14/05/26 02:37 PM
4

A reply fitting of an ignorant kid who doesn’t want to learn
/r/MensRights14/05/26 02:20 PM
-1

These sound like the thoughts of a young man without much life experience. It’s said that women are born with their value (looks) whilst men must create their value (provisioning, competency, leadership, confidence, wisdom, experience, strength etc). In my 35 years I’ve found this to be true. It’s in this pursuit to become an attractive man that we find fulfilment. Only attractive women are loved ‘unconditionally’. The vast majority of women are only attractive to men during their fertile years …
/r/MensRights14/05/26 01:25 PM
3

Massive oversimplification. You’re uninformed so I won’t try and debate you
/r/MensRights12/05/26 07:20 PM
5

Few men have the balls to do what he’s doing. I like that he’s bringing awareness to toxic feminism & shitty female behaviour. Fascinating to see behind the curtain of the modern woman.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 08:48 PM
6

95% are too solipsistic to even consider this Until they near the wall and start panicking. They’re gamblers who stay at the table too long
/r/MensRights23/04/26 08:56 PM
2

Deeply rooted in biology Women had far greater to lose if rejected by the tribe
/r/seduction22/04/26 12:30 AM
98

Many actually do. They’re lonely just like us but they’re even more terrified of rejection
/r/seduction22/04/26 12:29 AM
20

It’s not “a part of the red pill” - it’s the foundation of the red pill
/r/MensRights16/04/26 01:53 AM
57

What respected artist has to show her panties every single show
/r/MensRights21/03/26 07:46 PM
3

Get a black belt in Aikido and build your physique like Steven Seagal
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:16 AM
7

Lol still time to delete this little man outburst
/r/seduction19/02/26 01:13 AM
11

Change it to hot and dorky
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:47 PM
0

90% of dudes are terrible at meeting women
/r/seduction18/02/26 07:10 PM
1

3 and it was expensive & stressful. Nowadays I only want 1 part time lol
/r/seduction10/02/26 03:55 AM
3

They absolutely have a sixth sense for guys who can attract other women
/r/seduction19/01/26 04:54 AM
9

Raw or wrapped?
/r/seduction02/01/26 06:02 PM
1

Another myth created by this ridiculously feminised society
/r/MensRights22/12/25 08:05 PM
1

When I was on dating apps last year, eventually the convos move to IG. It was blatantly obvious how much more interested women would get when they’d see other attractive girls have liked my posts
/r/seduction30/11/25 11:12 PM
1

I read between the lines of your “I’m a good listener, very clam and sensitive guy” You have so much to learn about women. At 27 I’d crack on and get learning as time waits for no man
/r/seduction25/11/25 08:34 PM
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‘If I’m nice enough she will want to have sex with me’ Nice guy = doesn’t make a woman horny
/r/seduction24/11/25 07:35 AM
36

Guys don’t have a ‘ho phase’. We’re not giving away dick, we’re acquiring pussy
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:14 AM
7

Big facts Women have ONE guy at the top of their depth chart at all times. If you’re that guy you’ll know it by her level of enthusiasm
/r/seduction11/11/25 07:56 AM
1

I didn’t quite understand. Can you say bro another few times?
/r/seduction21/10/25 07:37 AM
9

Patrice taught me more truth about women than own father did
/r/MensRights09/10/25 08:38 PM
15

The laser eye contact. When you notice women getting lost in your eyes it’s a dead giveaway
/r/seduction08/10/25 09:47 PM
2

💯 Entitlement stinks and can make any girl ugly
/r/seduction22/09/25 05:50 AM
17

My take on this is in that short window she found someone else who piqued her interest more and put you on the back burner Women are overwhelmingly terrible at initiating so if you don’t re-shoot your shot she will never reach out again
/r/seduction16/09/25 08:49 PM
57

Incredibly empathetic of you I’m 36 and I’m grateful every day that my parents left my body as it should be
/r/MensRights13/09/25 03:53 AM
8

Don’t listen to her words. Watch her actions
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:37 PM
5

Baffling. With 10-20 x the testosterone, who would’ve thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:39 AM
15

Perfect summation. I wish we could pin this comment as it’s amazing how many people don’t understand this
/r/seduction02/09/25 08:16 PM
13

The juice is hardly worth the squeeze even for a 7/8 I genuinely don’t understand men who put in effort for these 6s and 5s
/r/MensRights31/08/25 09:59 PM
16

Juice ain’t worth the squeeze
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:39 AM
34

Normal. 8s, 9s & 10s are the most low effort girls you’re gonna meet. It quickly gets tiring being the one who puts in 99% of the effort
/r/seduction24/08/25 08:16 AM
1

Fair enough. I don’t think that men and women are directly comparable in this scenario as we have quite different brains when it comes to attraction.
/r/seduction21/08/25 12:32 AM
0

The ‘spark’ is felt during her interaction with you. You have to make her feel something that no other man can.
/r/seduction21/08/25 12:00 AM
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Not at all true. You can make women feel a ‘spark’ by the way you talk to them. That’s why you often hear them say ‘he’s not my usual type but there’s something about him’. It’s the way you make her feel during the interaction. Women get so hooked on this feeling. If you’re the only one who can make her feel it - you’ll become more physically attractive in her eyes and she’ll overlook many of her typical physical standards.
/r/seduction20/08/25 11:56 PM
1

Classic Trey
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:35 PM
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Yea it’s wild. Like you say risk vs reward ain’t there. Some dudes derive so much self worth from constantly speaking to women, I don’t get it
/r/seduction13/08/25 08:11 PM
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It’s actually biologically hardwired into our brains. We had to ensure the children were ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 09:51 PM
9

Horrible video. Made my ears bleed
/r/MensRights09/08/25 07:46 PM
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2 or 3 is what I wrote. Not exclusively 2. Guys have to be able to tell quickly whether a girl is interested or not. It’s a skill we have to develop otherwise dating gets too expensive.
/r/seduction05/08/25 08:29 PM
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Think about what you just wrote. Why would I keep trying with someone who’s not sure about me?
/r/seduction05/08/25 04:43 PM
2

Yep home cooked dinner or dinner out + a nightcap at mine on the 2nd/3rd is reasonable 80% I’ve dated are keen. 20% are playing hard to get - which make them hard to want
/r/seduction05/08/25 07:39 AM
-3

If she doesn’t want the 2nd/3rd date at my place ✌️
/r/seduction05/08/25 07:10 AM
2

Absolutely it’s so annoying to see on every single thread regarding attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:11 AM
3

This solipsistic mindset is frustratingly common on Reddit. Look at the worldwide data, not your own 3 personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:28 AM
6

Opposite for me. Mum has unconditional love, has proven it time and time again. Dad hates me and tries to hide it, but is a terrible actor.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 10:28 PM
6

Please hire a lawyer and update us on what happens
/r/MensRights24/07/25 09:43 PM
7

Yep, grateful to have learned this at around 27 years old.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 05:53 PM
51

Bang on. It’s very obvious to women when a man is attractive to other women but he’s focused on them. They go crazy for that
/r/seduction16/07/25 08:05 AM
3

Nice use of Chat GPT
/r/seduction03/07/25 03:05 AM
6

Horrendous analogy
/r/seduction03/07/25 03:04 AM
2

Utterly bizarre you used ONE man as an example for your entire theory. He was far from a Calvin Klein model. Looked more like Dracula. Also a drug addict, obsessed with darkness and being a miserable twat. Probably only liked Goth/Post Punk women too who also fantasised about death and being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:12 PM
2

You needed to go into more detail about skin care. Just saying take care of your skin isn’t helpful
/r/seduction06/05/25 12:33 AM
1

It’s about valuing yourself above them. It’s the same reason women go for drug dealers, broke rappers, artists, surfers etc. These guys all have a sense of purpose which they put above women. Women get turned on by attempting to ‘tame the beast’. Once they’ve tamed it they get bored and lose attraction, so the key is to never let them tame you and value yourself higher than her.
/r/seduction21/04/25 08:13 PM
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Sorry, just fucking with you. I was being a sarcastic douche
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:41 AM
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That’s crazy. I can’t imagine what you’re doing wrong. Usually women hear ‘masters degree’ and immediately take their clothes off
/r/seduction16/04/25 02:25 AM
1

Ultimately all it's done is make women long deeper for the validation from that #1 man she wants Validation from men she sees as low value is extraordinarily fleeting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:46 PM
3

That having options is the biggest aphrodisiac
/r/seduction27/03/25 06:44 PM
-5

Lol the self awareness is strong in this one. Go derp at some more women in tight clothes, it’s clearly doing wonders for your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:00 PM
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Great job completely missing OP’s point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:56 PM
3

Proof you can be rich, famous, tall, handsome, and yet still a complete simp
/r/MensRights25/03/25 07:44 PM
8

“Talking to 6-8 girls” isn’t the flex you think it is If you can build a rotation of 6 girls and keep them all physically satisfied whilst NOT having to txt/call them all the time. That’s flexing
/r/seduction23/03/25 08:12 PM
6

Imagine if “fat girl energy” was socially acceptable
/r/MensRights22/03/25 08:30 PM
3

I have to be so careful with my views. I never directly point out double standards. Talking about feminism and misogyny with women is a losing game
/r/MensRights19/03/25 09:51 PM
22

100%. Marriage rates are still plummeting because we see these aren’t the feminine women of our mothers and grandmothers generation.
/r/MensRights14/03/25 08:44 PM
2

A pat on the head. There’s a good girl
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:30 PM
3

Co-dependency is the word your looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:15 PM
2

Fun game! Thanks 80% confidence 70% frame control 60% emotional detachment Pretty happy with that. I will say in my 36 years I’ve never dated a woman who was as openly bitchy and sassy as these questions. But it’s good to get tested on the extreme hypothetical scenarios, makes the tamer shit tests far easier to pass.
/r/seduction12/02/25 02:16 AM
3

Because she’s a woman and hates that men know this
/r/seduction31/01/25 10:29 PM
1

From my experience those numbers aren’t quite as extreme. Most women I meet for dates are as exhausted by dating as I am. Around half are dating more than one guy. The large majority want monogamy and to only focus on one guy they develop feelings for. Dating has actually opened my eyes much more. Most women hate the dating process and want to get past it and into the relationship phase as soon as they like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:13 PM
1

This is amazing. I’m definitely being too safe and ask question after question because women never ask them back and I get annoyed. Thank you, I feel like I should’ve paid for this
/r/seduction16/01/25 07:47 PM
2

You have so much to learn about women
/r/seduction15/01/25 08:09 PM
13

Really black and white take. Women like money up until a certain point. Then they want a man who’s attractive, pre selected, has game, has masculine energy, allows her to be completely in her feminine. You don’t need private yacht money to be this guy.
/r/seduction14/01/25 03:03 PM
17

Exactly my experience. They want a man who’s pre selected by other attractive women but chooses to be with them
/r/seduction14/01/25 02:52 PM
9

36M, I only have 1k followers. But having 10-20 attractive women like my posts gets women I’m talking to/seeing way more interested in me. They noticeably step up their game once they see who else is keen. How do I know this? They ask “who’s Sarah?” “Oh I just saw she always likes your posts”
/r/seduction14/01/25 02:48 PM
7

I went hard on steroids in my early 20’s, developed body dysmorphia where I couldn’t take my shirt off in front of anyone. Grew unsightly gynocemastia which required a 10k surgery (my entire savings) to remove. Horrid acne which needed accutane for a year and laser treatments. Lucky to escape without any permanent organ damage (that I know of). Taking that shit is one of the biggest mistakes of my entire life.
/r/MensRights14/01/25 06:02 AM
2

If we kiss on that second date and I can tell she wants to go further but the 3 date rule is holding her back - I’ll still go for the 3rd. It’s really about developing that skill of ascertaining how interested she is and if she’s worth pursuing. I dated one recently who had just come out of a 10 year marriage and I could tell instantly that she was super keen but just feeling held back by nerves/inexperience with dating. Lots of passionate kissing and touching but it took until the 5th date befo…
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:57 PM
2

Yea I always suggest my place but ultimately give her the choice. Another indicator of her interest level. Around 70-80% want drinks & dinner at my place. Some still play by that silly ‘sex only on the third date’ rule they’ve been taught by other women.
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:38 PM
7

I pay on the first date (drinks), second (dinner out or at my place), third (dinner at my place). If she doesn't want to kiss or sleep together on that third date I'm out. You have to ascertain quickly how interested a woman is in you
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:30 PM
6

Lol nice loaded question. I can tell by your response you’re about 14 and don’t understand the origins and true meaning of the Red Pill. You probably think it means trying to be like Andrew Tate. Have a look at RP founders such as Tom Leykis, Rollo Tomassi, Patrice O’Neal. It will give you a better understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:15 AM
7

RP is the raw, brutal truth about what really attracts women that they will never admit to. That’s why they hate it. Their secrets have been spilled
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:03 PM
162

Inappropriate touching
/r/MensRights16/12/24 06:23 PM
2

There’s really no way around this one. She would have to like you a lot to go against her own wishes of exclusivity It definitely does happen though, some women would prefer to share a top 20% man than be with a bottom 80% one
/r/seduction16/12/24 04:42 PM
5

We already assume this. Think of how many people you actually care about in your life. I probably have about 15. Indifferent to the other 7.9999999999999999 billion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:30 AM
6

36 and single. Always take this sub with a pinch of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:46 AM
0

Good. It’ll remove the militant feminists from the dating pool. Any attractive, well balanced woman knows a loving & fulfilling relationship enhances their quality of life
/r/MensRights03/12/24 04:14 PM
6

36, This has rung true for 90% that I've dated (around 40 women) It was very obvious to see where I placed on their roster based on how much 'proving' they required. Looking back I can't believe how naive I was
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:54 PM
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I have and it certainly improves my motivation and ability to charm a woman. Sex is also more amazing and I feel way more present
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:08 AM
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Many people don't realise that horrible breath smell is coming from their tongue. I don't understand why tongue scrapers aren't taught to us by dentists as kids. It took me til my mid 20's to start using one and it's life changing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:34 PM
2

This has to be a piss take. So the trust fund baby has the hardest life because they have to choose wisely how to invest the money given to them at birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:04 PM
1

Fuck I was waiting for you to go into more detail. Left us hanging there pal
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:58 PM
1

I fake being into Kanye, Taylor Swift, Love Island, Harry Potter to get laid 😂
/r/seduction24/11/24 08:52 PM
11

“So based purely on hourly rate, is there a gender pay gap?” frustrated sigh “We don’t collect the relevant data that’s required. Stop mansplaining, sexist pig”
/r/MensRights22/11/24 05:15 PM
1

Wow I just reread your original comment and it’s 100% wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:13 PM
1

You can absolutely have that without marriage
/r/MensRights21/11/24 07:01 PM
5

Brilliantly written. Unfortunately that type of woman whose personality doesn’t change over time and doesn’t constantly pressure you to change - is a unicorn.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 06:59 PM
15

Shit or get off the pot. A better analogy I heard Patrice O’Neal use was that women look at men like an unscratched lottery ticket. They need to scratch you (which can take years) to see if you’re a winner, if not - they’re gone.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 06:48 PM
8

I’m 36 and feel blessed to live in a time where women show their true nature on social media. It makes my natural desire to provide for and protect them almost disappear. I still enjoy connecting emotionally and physically every week or two. Their nurturing side is absolutely magnificent. But 95% of my focus is on my own life - happiness & fulfilment, close family, friends, businesses, hobbies I all put above a relationship with a woman. It wouldn’t improve my quality of life. I enjoy peace, qui…
/r/MensRights21/11/24 06:43 PM
1

Agree, I’m 36 and never even knew it existed. Not one person in my life mentioned it
/r/MensRights20/11/24 05:29 AM
2

And across. You’re oversimplifying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:20 AM
1

They’re loyal only to their emotions. You can learn to leverage that fact
/r/seduction20/11/24 02:31 AM
3

Stay blessed beautiful lady, we appreciate you
/r/MensRights19/11/24 06:14 PM
23

Women date up and across Men date down and across This trend has only been exacerbated by online dating and social media
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:07 PM
1

Oh literal salutcemoi. It’s a joke
/r/seduction18/11/24 11:48 PM
4

Decent instagram, under 1k followers. Even though I hate using it, it really does serve a purpose for vetting and social proofing Still meet most girls through dating apps and then they always ask for IG. Once I run through the dating apps (small city) I'll have to start DMing girls
/r/seduction18/11/24 08:01 PM
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They're all on their phones
/r/seduction18/11/24 07:58 PM
3

On profile prompts I’ve seen ‘pay for my flights to Bali’, ‘agree that women run the world’, ‘fuck the patriarchy’ I’ve even given chances to these women thinking there’s no way they’re really like that & I can charm them in person. Nope, they’re exactly like that in person. You come to know what type you’re gonna get from a woman’s profile
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:43 PM
7

Lol thanks for the fortune cookie level psychoanalysis Jesse Ventura
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:21 AM
9

Show me where in my comment I said women can’t have standards too. I’m replying to OP, this isn’t about you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:44 AM
17

98% of women on dating apps - 4/10 or lower, land whales, have kids, clearly narcissistic, entitled, militant feminists. I sometimes am swiping left for 5 minutes thinking is there anyone attractive who is just nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:31 AM
1

I’m far from rich but have enough money for my own place, car, dinners etc. That’s enough for the women I’m trying to attract. Anyone who wants me to buy them $500 shoes can fuck right off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:53 AM
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'It's so embarrassing' - I'm sure she's thinking the exact same thing This is a perfect example of the 'nice guy' that women talk about. Hides his true intentions behind a fake nice persona
/r/MensRights13/11/24 10:33 PM
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We are expendable. And women cry bloody murder when we don’t vote for someone who tells us our job is to support women
/r/MensRights07/11/24 08:27 PM
6

Great idea
/r/MensRights07/11/24 08:25 PM
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Makes me laugh to imagine the 3s and 4s posting this stuff Attractive women are happy and enjoying life regardless of the current president
/r/MensRights07/11/24 06:27 PM
2

My life’s purpose is not simply to ‘support women’, as these ads would have us believe They fumbled our vote so badly
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:57 PM
6

This was the latest Gillette ad all over again
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:43 PM
3

Hilarious that 40% of them still voted Trump
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:40 PM
2

Thank you for your detailed explanation of a vasectomy, Dr
/r/MensRights06/11/24 02:39 PM
9

This is the incredibly harsh lesson you have to go through as a guy Women love like cats - one minute they’re snuggled perfectly into your arms, you’re thinking I want this every day for the rest of my life. The next, they want nothing to do with you It’s absolutely brutal but the lesson is to make yourself and your life a beautiful unique place they want to keep returning to
/r/seduction06/11/24 06:19 AM
1

Might not be that simple. Even gorgeous women don’t just jump from guy to guy. Life gets in the way sometimes
/r/seduction06/11/24 06:11 AM
5

Fantastic points. Took me 32 years to learn this
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:56 AM
13

No evidence for any of this. Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:02 AM
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This is great man. Took me way too long to understand this. I was either asking for the date way too early or talking about boring shit like her job, her hobbies, pets etc with no flirting.
/r/seduction24/10/24 04:12 PM
11

It's Schrödinger's Feminism A lot of woman want to be seen as strong independant boss babes, whilst simultaneously pushing for diversity hiring quotas, refusing to work manual labour, bleeding men dry for alimony, complaining about the pay gap whilst working lower income industries, fewer hours & safer jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:22 PM
10

Totally understand. Took me about 29 years of my life to, but it’s a lesson you never forget as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:20 AM
11

Exactly why I put both Bumble and Hinge on pause for a while. I was checking them every hour
/r/seduction16/10/24 07:58 PM
1

Wrong end of the stick. It’s the male equivalent we’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:54 PM
2

The world is bigger than just America
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:38 PM
3

Anti abortion laws are disgustingly archaic. If I had a decrepit female politician banning me from getting a vasectomy I’d be furious Sanitary products should be publicly funded
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:31 PM
2

Point successfully missed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:27 AM
6

Ehh this story doesn’t hold much weight. Flirty, tipsy woman at bar attempts to find sugar daddy. This is a very specific demographic of woman. Most men would do well to avoid this type
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:12 PM
9

Even if I had, I'd never tell her. Mainly because I can't envision a situation where my partner would ever disclose her entire sexual history with 100% honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:00 AM
1

17 years of seducing women (I’m 35)
/r/seduction08/10/24 05:06 PM
13

Men really need to understand that time, attention, validation are a woman’s currency. Remove all 3 if she’s not giving you anything
/r/seduction08/10/24 03:24 PM
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Also, throw in the occasional philosophical question such as ‘do we have free will?’ to keep her on her toes
/r/seduction08/10/24 03:21 PM
2

Fantastic point. It’s incredible how many men go through life not knowing this ‘My wife won’t give me a BJ. Do I have to take her on more date nights? Do more housework?’
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:34 AM
3

Nope there’s no ‘one rule’ for everybody. This reads like a projection
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:56 PM
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Nailed it. The number of times a guy posts a profile review and he’s baffled at receiving no likes or matches, yet completely unaware of how unattractive he looks Some dudes just don’t ’get it’ or as you say understand the female gaze. It’s natural selection though and a good thing they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:26 PM
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Love your realistic dialogue. Aaron Sorkin ova hea
/r/seduction25/09/24 05:17 PM
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Natural abundance is one of the most attractive qualities to women. They’ll never admit this but they will happily share a top 20% man Don’t get to know them over txt. Use txting to set up the in person meeting
/r/seduction25/09/24 05:15 PM
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That’s irrelevant. Women don’t care if you remember which college they went to. They care about how you make them feel
/r/seduction25/09/24 05:10 PM
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I don't think the average man expects 'unconditional love'. These posts you are seeing are most likely from men who have lost women in the past because of their inability to provide anything of substance for her. I also don't think women are loved unconditionally. If I'm dating a woman and she doesn't want to provide enthusiasm, affection, support etc I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:10 PM
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What exactly is your understanding of the Red Pill mindset? I'm getting so tired of reading these uninformed posts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:24 PM
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Red Pill is not about how much money you have. It’s an understanding of women. You could be dirt poor in a 3rd world country and still attract women, have them respect you, want to be loyal to you I hate how people think you have to become Andrew Tate in order to be a RP man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:07 AM
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By that logic the vagina is the blood hole. And the mouth is the bacteria hole. See how limited that thinking is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:50 PM
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These are amazing. Thank you
/r/seduction19/08/24 08:09 PM
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We do not have the exact same sexual fantasies. Stop trying to compare the genders like for like. Many women love to be dominated, but most do not get off on dominating their man. We are different Anal is hot because it’s a woman submitting her most intimate part of her body to you. It’s not hard to understand when you look at it from a male perspective Yes I have left women who are a hard no to trying even a finger up there. Life is way to short for boring sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:31 PM
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The Six Pillars of Self Esteem - Daniel Branden
/r/seduction16/08/24 05:54 PM
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I researched self esteem and how to build it. Once you do, no-one can take it away from you. I now understand my value and that is something women are extremely attracted to
/r/seduction16/08/24 06:54 AM
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Women are empathetic to their children. That’s it. Makes sense biologically Men are hardwired to be protectors and providers in every sense. It’s no wonder we’re the more empathetic gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:02 PM
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Employer Men are the gatekeepers of marriage Women are the gatekeepers of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:18 AM
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The happy medium
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:54 PM
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Tom Brady was a perfect example of a blue pill Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:27 PM
7

Not true. Stubble/short beard takes 2 minutes to buzz once or twice a week. Clean shave is a daily task
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:50 PM
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This is too dumb to even reply to. I started writing then realised how pointless it is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:50 AM
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He really stood on the shoulders of Tom Leykis, Rollo Tommasi & Patrice O’Neal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:19 AM
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Accurate. Based
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:10 PM
10

The thing with Tren is you can’t come off it. I’d much rather grow naturally and keep what I build
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:42 AM
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Once again, Red Pill does not mean being Andrew Tate It means being awakened exactly like the scene in the Matrix. Understanding the true nature of women, what they are attracted to, and learning how to act accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:47 PM
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In no particular order: Lack of options Lack of ability to generate other options Lack of perceived options (she doesn’t think you could get another her or better) Comfort/Familiarity Laziness Low self esteem Take your pick. The overwhelming majority of men never figure out how to maintain attraction once they get into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 07:48 PM
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Desensitised yourself to women’s bullshit. I think every man needs to have this stage in his life
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:34 AM
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She’s Miss right now, not Miss right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:34 AM
1

The Six Pillars of Self Esteem - Nathaniel Branden
/r/MensRights06/05/24 08:37 AM
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After the first ‘hypothetical man’ & ‘hypothetical woman’ we understood. You don’t have to keep saying it every single time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:04 PM
31

Bad for your wallet, good for your prostate health
/r/seduction01/05/24 08:15 PM
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Both ways yes. Probably 80-90% of couples I know and observe are together out of fear of being alone. Solitude is a skill that not many people have learned and I think that’s really unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:15 PM
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You have to constantly show her (indirectly) that she’s replaceable. She must always believe this. It’s a respect thing, women only respect men who can get other women. That doesn’t mean you’ll actually do it, but that you have the ability to Patrice O’Neal - “as soon as she knows you’ll righteously leave, she’ll righteously stay”
/r/MensRights23/04/24 07:29 PM
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Every guy is different. I look too intimidating/intense with a full beard. I can only rock stubble or a short goatee to come across as sexy and approachable
/r/seduction23/04/24 08:44 AM
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So you ask for examples and then deny and criticise the responses. Productive discussion you’ve facilitated here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:39 AM
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‘Happy wife, happy life’ is a classic example Believing that you can negotiate desire by doing chores, buying flowers, opening doors etc Believing that women are pure, sweet, innocent, loyal, honest, princesses Believing the ‘wage gap’ exists because of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:03 AM
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Have only had this happen once in my 35 years. But it’s why I never end on bad terms with a woman. I always thank her and wish her the best, regardless of how cold or mean she was during the breakup
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:16 AM
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Tell her Taylor Swift is jealous of Lana Del Rey’s artistic credibility
/r/MensRights21/04/24 07:16 AM
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It ain’t that deep. Work mates are fun to practice flirting with, that’s where it ends. Personally I don’t shit where I eat
/r/seduction18/04/24 11:34 PM
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My extremely specific personal situation is all I know and all I can comprehend In summary: Women accept being alone better than men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:01 PM
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Agree, I’d rather jack off than fuck 90% of women I see on a day to day The ‘I would fuck anything’ crowd are men who’ve never developed any standards because they lack experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:04 PM
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I bet her kids are proud of her. Home wrecking slut and a complete clown
/r/MensRights16/04/24 03:47 PM
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None of us can give you ACTUAL pointers because we weren’t there to see how the interactions went. You’re also way too vague with your descriptions, which tells me you’re not reading these women well enough and actually analysing what’s happening with the depth that you need to be
/r/seduction12/04/24 11:34 PM
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Ugh can we stop with that lazy catchphrase already
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:33 PM
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It’s refreshing to read the posts on here from women saying they’re not always having casual sex or using fwbs. I have often wondered if these ideas are just projections from angry, starving men. I’m 37 and extremely selective now with who I date as I’ve learned it’s not good for my self esteem to get with women I’m not attracted to. I imagine this is what it feels like for most women. There are hordes of low quality, unattractive men out there who have absolutely no ability to pull and in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:19 PM
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There’s 4 billion men on this planet and you’ve already written them all off because of the 10-20 you’ve been with?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:11 PM
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How long did you spend writing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:16 PM
5

Learn about it, it works very well
/r/seduction05/04/24 01:49 PM
2

Ok but that’s just one person. Why are you so dismissive of drugs that help millions of men enjoy a better quality of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:33 PM
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Of course. But pale in comparison to the side effects of NOT taking them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:22 PM
4

Cialis and TRT. Look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:22 PM
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I always make a detailed list of every reason why the relationship ended. Then during that moment I’m feeling nostalgic for her I can sit down and read through it. It immediately snaps me back to seeing her as she really is, rather than the fantasy version I’ve created in my head
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:54 PM
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This is true and it's virtually impossible to ascertain what type of treatment they want. They make decisions based solely on how they feel in that exact moment. All you can do is a calculated guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:38 PM
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That's a huge reach. Eliot Rodger has nothing to do with OP's post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:34 PM
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Pull back This is a game women play to test how needy you are. Pulling back subconsciously tells her you have other options. They are extremely attracted to this
/r/seduction01/04/24 09:19 PM
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How about some statistics to back up your nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:38 AM
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I think I’m top 10-15% 6’3, athletic, good face, regularly get compliments on my eyes and hair. Attractive women messaging first and keen to meet up. The super attractive ones (models, TV presenters) match but make me do all the work On Hinge around 12 likes per day and have a rotation of 3 women currently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 07:05 PM
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36 here, I checked out of this world of expectations years ago. I’m living for my own happiness, my business and my sister and her family. Anyone who expects anything else from me can go fuck themselves with the business end of a shotgun
/r/MensRights20/03/24 03:17 AM
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There’s a clear distinction between an orbiter and a creep/pest. Women don’t keep creeps/pests in the friend-zone, they block them Women absolutely benefit from friend-zoning men otherwise it wouldn’t be such common practice in western society
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 07:36 PM
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Disgusting. Glad I don't live in that dystopian nightmare of a country
/r/MensRights19/03/24 06:55 PM
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My first paragraph is clearly just talking about the man’s perspective. Nice little attempt to try and victimise yourself, but it didn’t work in this context Very disingenuous of you to say women don’t benefit from time, attention and validation from orbiters
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:50 PM
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Because men’s initial attraction to women is so overwhelmingly based on her looks. Once we’re physically attracted to a woman we want her and can’t backtrack to just being friends With women they can initially find a guy attractive but later find out he’s not the complete package. So she’ll friend-zone because he might still be useful for time, attention & validation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 05:14 PM
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Nope. Pre-selection has a powerful biological effect on a woman. More powerful than even the greatest shirt or hairstyle
/r/MensRights18/03/24 03:39 PM
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Read my comment again. Nowhere did I say men want a woman who is bad at all those things. I said they’re not required for her to be attractive A woman can learn all those things from her man. No woman is going to want a man she has to teach all those things to. That’s the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:16 AM
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I'd say there's more low quality women than men Men have to be attractive, intelligent, funny, tall, strong, confident, not boring, have purpose, some level of status, have enough money to pay for dates, ask her out, organise each date, escalate, hold frame, communicate perfectly, be great in bed Women have to be somewhat attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 12:28 AM
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Not one bit. They can never understand the male experience. I’d always rather get life advice and feedback from a man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:21 PM
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No. It’s blue pilled thinking You can’t negotiate desire
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:14 AM
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It has nothing to do with “building it themselves” The Wall refers to the age at which women are no longer considered an option for their dream man They still get attention. But it’s not from the guys they want it from
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:09 AM
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Patrice O’Neal had the best analogy for this. He said he’s like a Karate teacher and his girl is a white belt. Every time she learns something from him she goes HII-YAH! and tries a kick. He has to block it, retaliate and put her firmly on her ass so she remembers he’s the master of the dojo Women never stop testing your masculinity. It’s relentless. They are hardwired to constantly check that today you are still the masculine, dominant, confident leader. You don’t get credit for yesterday. So m…
/r/MensRights11/03/24 01:57 AM
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Thank you for correcting this bumbling fool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:42 PM
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They don’t have any. Because they’ve never needed to learn it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:56 PM
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Single and happy, single and miserable or having casual stuff with the top 20% guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:52 PM
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Here we go again. I'm getting tired of reading posts from people who don't understand what the Red Pill means. It doesn't mean becoming Andrew Tate. It doesn't mean becoming hateful and an incel. It doesn't mean becoming a pick up artist who uses techniques such as 'negging' It's literally the scene in the Matrix. Opening your eyes for the first time to how the world really works. Accepting truths about what it means to be a man, how to value yourself, command respect, understand your powers and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:00 PM
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People who use the term ‘incel’ lack empathy These are simply men who don’t understand how to attract women
/r/MensRights04/03/24 06:17 PM
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You don’t understand men as well as you think you do. Sex is not the most important thing. Achievement is. We are still hunter gatherers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:43 PM
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I used to be miserable when I was getting walked over by my partners. Not now I understand that men are loved on the condition that we provide
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:43 PM
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I believe women have their own version of love that's different to ours. When my girl says 'I love you' I take it with a grain of salt. Because I know how conditional that is. I'm her best option right now - but that could change in the blink of an eye
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 05:50 PM
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Classic hypergamy. A woman looking for the best possible option for herself is like a Ring Wraith looking for the one ring - endless and relentless
/r/MensRights29/02/24 09:11 PM
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Jesus. How many more years?
/r/MensRights29/02/24 09:06 PM
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Strange that you’re asking for opinions, then dismissing them. Try learning from the replies you get Women absolutely have a hive mind - 80% of them want a tall, attractive, confident, educated, wealthy, masculine man that their friends and family approve of
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:31 PM
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Without question. Blue pill is the default conditioning that your grandma, mum, aunt, sister taught you Be a nice guy, sweet, kind, romantic, open up, buy flowers, put a ring on it, happy wife happy life etc Do all of that and watch her lose passion and attraction, cheat on you, divorce you. Then take note of how emasculated you feel and how miserable you are with your life Red pill is the way women want us to be, but they will never admit to it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:49 PM
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Absolutely agree. Instagram is like LinkedIn for dating. An Instagram page that shows you: Are not a catfish Are physically attractive Have some money Have some level of social proof Have interests and are not boring At 35 I get so much more genuine interest from women who can see all this stuff. It amazes me how dismissive men are of having some level of social media when it can definitely improve your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:30 PM
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Shit for brains comment. This is a men's rights issue
/r/MensRights22/02/24 08:19 PM
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Excellent points. I'm grateful to my beautiful, intelligent, rational parents that they didn't have me mutilated
/r/MensRights22/02/24 08:13 PM
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Asshole means always put yourself above her. Men who do this keep her attracted because she understands that your smv is higher than hers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:05 PM
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Clever technology but it’s not going to replace the human experience. These women will still have the feelings of ‘aw fuck I’m so lonely I have to resort to an AI boyfriend’. Same feeling as a guy after the porn video ends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:54 PM
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So you don't think the age of social media and dating apps has increased women's standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:12 AM
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Where in my comment did I say this is a newfangled phenomena? Saying ‘it’s 2024’ doesn’t mean this has just suddenly started happening. And saying women are more reciprocal is absolute bullshit. I’d guess you’re a man who’s been in 1 relationship for the last 15 years, before all of this ramped up to what it is now. Probably has a partner who is invested and reciprocates quite a bit. Kudos. But that’s not the norm anymore. Women are more selfish, entitled, demanding, and unappreciative than they…
/r/MensRights13/02/24 12:36 AM
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Because it’s 2024 and women now pick and choose when traditional values suit them I don’t buy flowers, cards or expensive restaurant meals on Valentines Day. I take my girl to do something I want to do like surfing, horse riding, hiking, getting high and watching a sunset
/r/MensRights11/02/24 10:28 PM
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I don’t even do that anymore. I have in the past and learned they don’t respect sentimentality, emotional thoughts, loving words etc. They see it as a feminine trait and it gives an ick
/r/MensRights11/02/24 10:25 PM
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That's enough Reddit for me today
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:07 PM
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Women for the first 30 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:45 PM
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I can guarantee those lads are not the men they desire. It’s no flex for a woman to have loads of men after her. The flex is if she can get the man she truly desires to commit to her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:19 PM
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This is a nice opinion, but it's not how the world works. Women have always dated up or across. Roughly 80% of men are invisible to women. The wall is the reality that hits a woman when sees that the men she is attracted to are no longer attracted to her because of her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:50 PM
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Exactly the same here. All of my relationships have come from dating apps. I find women to be so unapproachable in public. Most are hurrying, look stressed, buried in their phones, creeped out by attention in public. On dating apps it ironically feels more natural. It's understood that you're both looking to meet someone. You know you're attracted to each other. So I have no problem asking out a woman and escalating in person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:41 PM
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It's a toxic cocktail of entitlement, abundance, zero self awareness. Luckily, the trash takes itself out most of the time. These women get to 34 and wonder why the men they're attracted to don't want them anymore and they've exhausted all their options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:22 PM
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I re read this several times and still don’t understand the question
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:43 PM
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‘If men could, they would sleep with as many women as possible’ This is written by a woman who doesn’t understand men. We also have standards, same as you do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:55 PM
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Self employed making between 60-80k a year. No I couldn't support a wife and child (I'm childfree and don't want to get married). My Red Pill knowledge is for understanding women and how to build and maintain attraction. Not because I want to be the patriarch of a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:01 PM
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Holy fuck balls. This makes me want to get a vasectomy today
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:44 PM
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Easier said than done. We’re hardwired to lose our minds over pussy
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:43 PM
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Understanding hypergamy should be a class taught to every man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:25 AM
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Women stop seeing you as their best option when you give them too much certainty. She needs to keep chasing your time, attention, and validation for her to remain attracted. You give them too much of those, she’ll run to go chase it from another guy. Money, status, looks don’t matter. That’s why you see such high profile cases of breakups, cheating, divorces. Hypergamy is ruthless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:21 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:25 PM
0

Why not get a round each? I find it super attractive when a woman says “I’ll get the next round”. It shows appreciation and generosity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:16 AM
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Hey man, if you can’t fry it I don’t eat it
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:49 AM
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Haha except you’ve got that backwards. Top tier men don’t give their best to masculine women in the hope they will one day become feminine. Feminine women attract the top tier men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:25 AM
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The incentive is finding the type of man who allows you to feel safe and secure in your feminine energy. I'd argue that most women are happiest when they can do this. The word submissive doesn't have to mean controlling or abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:27 PM
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You sound like a dream wife. If only more women thought like you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:19 PM
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The crazy thing is, the way women emasculate men slowly over the course of a marriage is not malicious - it's biological. It's a way to constantly check to see if that man is still the best bet for her & her children's survival and provisioning. I don't blame them at all for doing it. Knowing this has allowed me to understand why my partners have always treated me the way they have. It's taught me how to maintain attraction in a long term relationship. I strongly believe if more men knew this, t…
/r/MensRights12/01/24 03:38 AM
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Yes I’ve absolutely experienced this. Women who wouldn’t give me the time of day at 21 (no money, status, house, body, confidence) are now chasing me at 31 90% of profiles want kids. Baby rabies is a real thing for the majority of women in their 30’s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:15 PM
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It’s called a discussion, using anecdotal evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:12 PM
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Yes the source is the entire recorded human history. Rulers/Kings/Leaders of the world have always valued a woman's youth, beauty, fertility and purity Tell me how my previous comment doesn't make perfect sense as to why men overwhelmingly prefer women who are virgins or have a low body count
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:05 PM
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Men have a biological desire for woman to be a virgin or have very few sexual partners. It's to ensure she carries his child and not some other man's
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:46 PM
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She isn’t even mid. She’s a 3
/r/MensRights02/01/24 07:45 PM
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Why do men even admit this? Just fake it til you make it. I remember being a complete noob with no confidence. Years of trial and error later stumbling my way into some of the greatest experiences of my life. I imagine it’s the same men who think being completely open and honest with women is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:42 PM
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‘when he can easily get commitment from a girl he seems as an 8-10.’ That is about as far from easy as you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:14 PM
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So many women have a problem with this word. I don’t understand why. If you love and trust your man, why wouldn’t you be comfortable submitting to him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:49 AM
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Encompasses many traits: empathy, kindness, compassion, nurturing, affectionate, submissive, understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:21 AM
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Peace, femininity, care, loyalty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:58 PM
2

I would suggest reading Nathaniel Branden’s ‘The Six Pillars of Self Esteem’. He explains self esteem and self worth perfectly, better than I or anyone on here could. It’s fascinating to understand why some rich/famous/good looking people destroy or take their own lives because they feel empty despite the outside world perceiving them as extremely valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:23 PM
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You’re confusing self worth with perceived value. They’re different things. There are people with 500k a year jobs who still have no self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:35 PM
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The juice ain’t worth the squeeze Today’s women are nothing like those of our grandmothers generation. The overwhelming majority don’t want to be dedicated mothers, housewives, cook & clean, feminine, submissive, loyal They are militant feminist boss babes who constantly test your masculinity and authority. They’re narcissistic, drastically overvalue their sexual market value, selfish, fickle, entitled, zero accountability, zero empathy. With social media and dating apps, the grass is always gre…
/r/MensRights12/12/23 09:06 PM
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Hilarious how you blame gyms for your lack of success with women. Change the title of this post to: Manlet wastes time at the gym on his phone
/r/MensRights12/12/23 08:37 PM
2

The ‘bad boy’ thing is so misunderstood. It’s the confidence and status behind it - not the fact that he sells drugs, fights, has tats, socially connected, raps etc. Women want a man who’s masculine, taller than her, confident, preselected, has any kind of status, acts superior to her. You don’t even have to have all of the above. One or two of these could be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:37 PM
1

Rust Cohle philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:18 AM
1

Every intelligent man knows you can't just work on your career and hobbies and land an incredible woman. It requires social skills & calibration which is the main thing guys don't work on because it's uncomfortable as fuck. If she feels feminine, comfortable, safe in your presence that's 80% of the battle. If you have your most basic shit together (even to the smallest degree) that's the other 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:17 AM
1

Men on Reddit are not your average men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:32 PM
1

I don't think any intelligent man wants to be loved solely for 'who he is'. You've created that narrative to suit this argument. He wants to be loved for both who he is and what he can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:15 PM
1

Jesus can we stop using Andrew Twat as the poster boy for the Red Pill? It’s Tom Leykis, Rollo Tommasi, Patrice O’Neal etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:06 PM
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No one should ‘need’ a partner. That’s co-dependency which is super unhealthy for a relationship. Your partner should be an addition to your life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:33 PM
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So rather than put forward your own story that guys can learn from, you simply disagree. Constructive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:05 AM
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‘kope’? Regardless of whether you like it or not, this is exactly how women feel. They have zero desire or respect for the orbiters. Being an invisible man is infinitely better than being an invisible woman. A man can always increase his value by making more money and improving social skills. Those are two things you could start doing right now, but you’d rather spend your time playing victim. Woe is me. Women don’t care about men who don’t help themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:17 PM
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Our mothers, aunts, sisters, tv/movies. It’s drilled into us as boys. Then we each have to go through that horrible late teenage/early 20’s stage of having our hearts ripped out by a hot girl after adoring her like a princess and always putting her first. Then begins the search to understand why that happened. We then realise this entire time we should’ve been putting ourselves first and becoming the guy who doesn’t need her. ‘Only when she knows you’ll righteously leave, she’ll righteously stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:07 PM
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Doesn’t prove anything. Women want a high quality man. She’s dreaming of that one man who she looks up to as the best she can get. Not the hundreds of orbiters DM’ing or commenting love hearts on her posts. That does nothing for her except fleeting validation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:55 PM
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Your reading comprehension needs work. You’ve missed my point by some distance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:22 AM
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The key word in my comment was tenfold. As a man I can’t just slightly improve my partner’s life anymore (as men 50 years ago could)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:42 PM
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Women only want a man who is going to improve their lives tenfold. Otherwise, they'd rather be single. It wasn't this way 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:31 PM
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More conspiracy theory type nonsense, not backed up by any studies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:03 PM
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Does Becky fishing really tell you anything though? Every man on the planet wants to sleep with a Becky. So them matching with you and sending you sweet messages is most likely just for that reason alone. Becky's struggle is trying to find a man who loves her for her. Very difficult to ascertain between the two types of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:36 PM
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Of course. That's like saying 'should a man who was once poor give women a chance who did not want him now after earning good money'?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:36 PM
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It is great. But at the same time we have the meteoric rise of Only Fans, online pron and more fellas simping than ever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:31 PM
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Apps have been the best for me. I know you have to be in the top 20% to get interest, but if you are the benefits are clear. Women are interested in you, it’s mutually understood you’re both looking for someone. I’ve rarely found this to be the case with cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:32 PM
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It really is true. Hence where the expression ‘the juice ain’t worth the squeeze’ comes from. We literally do everything, the woman just turns up with the treasure between her legs. I spent my entire 20’s being frustrated, angry, resentful of this fact. I’m 35 now and have a woman who loves me. But I had to find a way of having a woman in my life without compromising my own happiness and sanity. To sum it up it’s about satisfying her hypergamy - that ever present beast that keeps her searching f…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 07:19 PM
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Agree I also work in a number of gyms and female members get the ‘ick’ from muscular men who aren’t tall. They purr after the handsome faced, tall, athletic looking men (above average muscle, wide shoulders)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:07 PM
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What do we want? To understand women. You’re another one of these people overcomplicating what the Red Pill actually means
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:09 AM
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Misandry. This would be removed if the genders were reversed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:00 AM
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Blue pilled mahfuckas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:45 AM
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Being single for a woman is like being with a 6.9 man, it's fine and can be fun but ultimately unsatisfying. Realistically a man needs to be a 7 or above for her to keep dating him instead of choosing to be single
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:06 PM
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The reality is that the juice ain’t worth the squeeze anymore. Men are having to work much harder to get a woman who is so far from the traditional type that his grandmother was. That’s what I see most complaints about, it’s entirely fair and true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:34 PM
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For me RP knowledge came from being heartbroken by my ‘love’ of 7 years. I genuinely thought I was gonna be with this woman for the rest of my life and that my love for her was enough. Discovering RP origins came from a desperation to understand why women act the way they do. How their attraction really works, how to elicit a woman’s deepest desire and ongoing love for you. Also what turns them off, why they cheat, test you, abuse you. Looking back it was crazy my father or grandfather never tau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:19 PM
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Lol these comments. I might be the only person who understands what OP is getting at. If a man can’t cum it’s normally because he’s watched too much porn recently = totally his own fault If a woman can’t cum it’s normally because she’s feeling uncomfortable / self conscious / stressed / distracted / bloated / there’s too much light in the room / I haven’t showered in the last 30 minutes / my feet are cold / I want fingers not tongue / I want tongue not fingers / rub my clit don’t go side to side…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:02 PM
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They are all wildly different. I’ve had women reject me for kissing them after the first date - to rejecting me because I didn’t try to sleep with them after a first date. It’s crazy how hard dating can be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:58 PM
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Close. Blue Pill is being ignorant of the true nature of women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:27 AM
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Ridiculously untrue. Red Pill is about seeing the true nature of women, how attraction really works and learning how to become the kind of man who can reap the rewards of this knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:41 PM
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That makes zero sense. Men have been paying for s3x since the beginning of time. We go in expecting to pay either with our money, time, validation, attention or all of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:30 PM
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Wow! It’s almost as though being a feminine, kind, generous, sweet, wholesome woman is the way to find a high value man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:40 AM
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Source: trust me bro I’ve seen things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:20 PM
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Bottom left and middle = fire. Perfect hourglasses. My god I’ve had a few in my life and remember them well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:15 AM
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Having passionate, emotionally connected, unprotected sex with a woman who loves you is like being in another dimension. It’s spiritual. Once you’ve experienced this you can’t go back to passionless, starfish, transactional sex with a condom on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:33 AM
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Another dummy who thinks Tate represents the Red Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:10 AM
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The modern woman never ceases to amaze
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:50 PM
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Could never do a 3, I’d be so disgusted with myself the entire time. Once you’ve had a passionate 10 it sets the bar for the rest of your life. My 10 ex would stop me as I came out of the shower to suck me dry. She also liked it up the bum. Every woman is now measured against that standard and it’s ridiculously hard to replace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:26 PM
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Yea it's bizarre. I've always wondered that about Leo. But maybe if I was able to live a dream life of money, women, food, drugs, alcohol because of my face and acting talent, I too wouldn't put time and effort into my physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:05 PM
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Definitely saving money. As a single man I can live on a pittance and my savings account is healthy. But having a girl that I can share an emotional and physical connection with is worth more than $ in the bank to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:10 PM
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Hence why I said ‘move on’. Meaning emotionally, not just sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:57 PM
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35M, I don’t think there’s any truth to it. Women move on shockingly quick from men because of their sheer abundance. I’ve never heard of a woman being hung up on one guy she dated previously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:25 PM
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Have heard this take countless times, by now it’s just lazy and shows a complete lack of self awareness. Women are attracted to confidence, leadership, intelligence and strength in men. So to attract a woman I need to improve all those areas of my life. Men are attracted to youth, beauty, femininity, agreeableness in women. The vast majority of ‘career women’ are none of the above. It’s not a matter of being intimidated, it’s a lack of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:20 PM
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In a modern relationship where both partners are earning around the same amount of money, each person should WANT to pay for things. I'm currently in a relationship like this and it's amazing. I feel proud to treat her to dinners and getaways/experiences and she does the exact same. This to me is how the modern relationship should be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:05 PM
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Flaccid as a piece of string after looking at this walking corpse
/r/MensRights08/06/23 05:22 PM
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Also women are generally not satisfied with casual sex. They crave an emotional connection to their sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:31 AM
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How many ‘chads’ are there in the world? Out of the top 10% of men, lots are married with one wife. I would guess less than 5% of chads worldwide have a steady rotation of 4-5 women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:30 AM
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Hopefully this scares Facebook. I can’t believe they don’t already have anti doxing rules in place
/r/MensRights05/06/23 08:13 PM
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This is PHENOMENAL news! Please tell us how we can help get the rest of them taken down
/r/MensRights30/05/23 04:15 AM
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From my experience (35m), it's men who want the multiple options. Because it's so much harder for us to get. Women want ONE guy who they respect and admire to submit to. They don't want a roster of 7 guys they are 'meh' about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:30 PM
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A beautiful butthole. I've had so many exes who were extremely self conscious about me doing anything to their butt (not even talking about anal). It drives me wild and is one of the most incredibly beautiful parts of a woman's body. During 69 especially when my nose is right there. The delicious musky scent from her pussy and ass makes me hard as a fucking rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:23 PM
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Rejecting a woman who doesn't know whether she likes you or not yet is one thing. Yes she will most likely dislike you and never speak to you again out of loss of face. Breaking up with a woman who cares for you is one of the most powerful ways to command respect from her. She will most likely never forget you for the rest of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:25 AM
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It is possible, Johnny Depp being the first man in history to win an argument against a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:18 AM
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Having money doesn’t raise a woman’s market value. Men care about beauty, femininity, and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:15 AM
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Exactly. He's a simp, regardless of wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:32 PM
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ONE rich simp doesn't change anything. The exception doesn't make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:29 PM
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Please don’t. It’s his decision that he can make once he becomes an adult
/r/MensRights17/05/23 02:51 AM
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When I met my girlfriend she had a bookcase filled with feminist titles and I thought - holy shit this is gonna be a nightmare. But with me she’s sweet, affectionate, feminine, submissive, lets me lead and make decisions for us both. The Red Pill to me has never been about degrading or hating women. It’s about understanding as a man how to maintain the masculine and feminine dynamic in a relationship. Recognising things like shit tests that my girl doesn’t even know she’s doing because they’re i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:18 AM
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I had this happen on Saturday. A woman I wasn't into was asking me inappropriate questions and touching my stomach. Made me feel disgusted. I finally understand what it must be like for women to get hit on by guys they aren't attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:07 PM
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The orange flag thing is so true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:34 AM
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Can you give any evidence of the 'pay gap'? I haven't seen one study which corroborates this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 11:30 PM
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How the fuck are these groups not breaching libel laws?
/r/MensRights09/05/23 11:04 AM
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The ‘Orgasm Gap’ is so fucking stupid. A woman will starfish, not communicate, be stressed/tired, mind a million miles away, desensitised due to vibrator use, and still expect her man to give her an earth shattering orgasm. If a man can only last 1 minute, I get the complaints. But if you can’t cum during 20-30 mins of penetration - it’s your own dumb fault.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 02:33 AM
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Source: Trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:41 AM
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RP specifically says you never lead with your money. You should learn this stuff before spouting off about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:50 AM
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The sheer number of dummies who don’t understand the origins of the Red Pill. It’s staggering
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:09 PM
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Because accountability is a woman’s kryptonite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:18 PM
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The exception doesn’t make the rule. The overwhelming majority of women want a man 6’0 or over
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:16 PM
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Or they’ve been heartbroken by a woman they loved. Then found the Red Pill in an exhaustive search to understand why a woman would suddenly treat them in such a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:12 PM
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Fucking barbaric genital mutilation. I’m grateful every day to my parents that they didn’t do this to me
/r/MensRights26/04/23 05:56 AM
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Good work fellas. If a woman likes you for you, she won’t require a diamond ring
/r/MensRights26/04/23 05:17 AM
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What’s your definition of unconditional love between human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:35 PM
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I notice you’re happy to criticise but not smart enough to offer a more accurate analogy of unconditional love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:34 PM
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Do you understand what an analogy is? Please keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:09 PM
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You’re intentionally missing the point of this conversation. I’m clearly not talking about the extreme circumstances you have listed. I’m saying if your mother no longer remembered who you were, and therefore could no longer support or help you. Would you still love her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:08 PM
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Most mothers love their children unconditionally. It's biological hardwiring
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:46 PM
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Would you stop loving your mother if she developed dementia? No, because that’s unconditional love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:59 PM
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Good job intentionally missing the point. No, it’s not just him. Millions of men are waking up to the fact that our girlfriends/wives don’t love us unconditionally. This is the foundation of the Red Pill philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:55 PM
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Dummy, this is not Red Pill. Educate yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:21 PM
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Because it’s blatantly obvious when a woman isn’t fucking you out of genuine passion
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:51 AM
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Once again another person who doesn’t understand the core philosophy of the Red Pill. It’s not saying ‘women should all be uneducated housewives’. It’s about men being fully aware of female hypergamy and acting accordingly. Red Pill coaches sending their daughters to college has absolutely nothing to do with educating men on the fact that women will walk all over you if you let them. These coaches don’t deny that their wives and daughters are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:49 AM
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Because they’ve never needed to develop them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:49 AM
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Knew some half wit would respond with that. Dogs will always be a man’s best friend. You fantasise about whatever you like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:21 AM
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Get a dog. They’ll do both without the drama
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:16 AM
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Stop attaching emotion to biological hardwiring. We care about a woman’s promiscuity because we want to ensure a potential child with this woman is ours. Knowing the mother of our children is loyal plays a huge role in attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:18 PM
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Ugh more untrue bullshit from a militant feminist. “Men won’t allow women to work in these fields” - how many women are lining up to work down a mine or on an oil rig? When they have every opportunity in the world to. You’re spouting pure lies. As bitter as you are plain wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:09 AM
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Or a guest hand towel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:18 PM
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Women are the guardians of sex, men are the guardians of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:34 AM
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Understand this: their ability to easily have sex with any man is a blessing and a curse. It comes with a huge drawback - women don’t want that. They crave an emotional connection during sex with ONE dream man. Us men on the other hand want new pussy with as many attractive women as we can. The day I learned this about women I stopped worrying about my partner wanting sex with other men. It’s become very easy to tell if I’m at the top of my girl’s list or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:42 PM
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Typical shaming “weak men”, because we have standards and refuse to let a woman just show up with her makeup and entitlement. We’re expected to provide money, leadership, confidence, experience, competency, excitement, humour, protection, stability etc. The very minimum is she’s not a single mom or been run through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:54 PM
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Aw I bet that almost made sense in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:54 PM
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Missed the point again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:05 PM
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Best comment on this thread. Doctors don’t spend 7 years learning how to qualify women for healthy long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:04 PM
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Why only the two extreme ends of the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:00 PM
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Great logic. Because every top tier man wants a single mom or a town bicycle
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:57 PM
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Getting my heart broken by a woman I loved for 7 years was what led me to TRP. Boys are not raised with any true understanding of hypergamy. We have to experience it first hand in order to actually seek out this information and burn it into our brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:47 AM
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I believe most women realise that a man who is rich often comes with drawbacks (arrogance, entitlement, too busy, divorced/single dad, cheating). As long as you are financially stable, then looks and personality are by far more attractive than being rich
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:59 PM
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The exception doesn’t make the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:08 AM
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The key part you're missing is that no HIGH VALUE MEN are interested in your granny. These men are dating 18-24 year old beautiful, submissive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:37 PM
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Incredibly well put. A healthy relationship takes effort from two people. Women showing up to a first date with the “well? I’m here...” attitude is just ludicrous. You have the same plumbing as 4 billion other people on this planet. Congratulations, that’s fantastic but not rare or special. What else do you have?
/r/MensRights24/02/23 08:31 PM
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Another person who doesn’t understand the Red Pill. This is getting tiring
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:52 PM
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So because of your single, isolated experience you struggle to believe the overwhelming number of men who confirmed this to be true?
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:10 PM
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Yea he tried too hard to prove his point with that example
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:26 PM
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That didn't even make sense. You need a better understanding of what 'Red Pill' actually means
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:44 PM
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Another lazy uninformed person labelling incels as Red Pill. Go and read The Rational Male
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:46 AM
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Submissive and impossibly beautiful. Men have fought wars over these types of women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:46 PM
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Being redpilled has nothing to do with being attractive or not. Brad Pitt has had women treat him poorly and leave him. Red pill knowledge comes from a desperate search to understand why women are the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:33 PM
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Except Marilyn was actually talented and didn't need ass implants or an actual porn video to get famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:09 AM
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This is my reason. It's too hard to maintain attraction when in a relationship. My partners have always gotten tired and bored of me. I resent the responsibilities that come with being in a relationship (gifts/her friend's events/extended family events etc) and that resentment just bleeds into everything. My partners also develop this entitlement which is one of the most ugly traits in a woman. There's an expectation of me to always do more, more, more. Nothing is ever enough. There doesn't reac…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:46 PM
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8 billion! (as of November 2022)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:15 PM
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30M here, for me the biggest issue is the 'grass is always greener' syndrome. I get matches on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble & feel pretty confident at being able to stand out from other men as an attractive option. Tall, handsome, good job, house, car, body, confident, funny. I'm an 8/10. But sometimes I get the 'you're an amazing guy but you're just not the guy for me' txt after 5-10 dates having established a real connection and great intimacy. It's the most frustrating thing because I know some othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:28 PM
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A man's loyalty to his woman is tested when he has everything. A woman's loyalty to her man is tested when he has nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:36 PM
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Your understanding of the red pill philosophy is completely wrong. It's about waking up to female nature and learning to act accordingly. Exactly like Neo in the Matrix seeing the world for what it really is. It's a perfect analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:58 PM
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That because I'm tall and strong I don't need emotional support, nurturing, affection, and to be loved unconditionally.
/r/MensRights30/10/22 08:15 PM
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It's timing my dude. Women love like cats, men love like dogs. Don't try to understand their emotional decisions by using logic.
/r/seduction26/10/22 07:14 PM
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A beautiful face. Something every straight man on the planet is attracted to. Whereas men can get away with an average looking face if they have good height
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:20 PM
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Nice face (yes) Over 6'0 (yes) Emotionally available (no) Mine are: Nice face and body Good sense of humour Independant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:57 PM
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Very true but that's not the point she was trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:50 AM
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Men have 'come together to obtain resources and positive outcomes for the whole of the group' since the dawn of human beings. Woman have only accomplished this in the last 60 years. Sounds like you need a history lesson or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:46 PM
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Nice job cherry picking from my comment. You're one of these people who'd rather be 'right' than try to understand someone else's opinion. If he wanted to, he would - is completely gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:16 PM
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It's a bullshit female-dating-strategy type rhetorical. Modern dating is too complex to break down into such a black and white belief. Most men are putting their mental health, business and family first. As a woman, you're not the centre of any man's world. It takes an incredible level of entitlement to not understand this. Both parties should be putting in a certain level of effort, that's all you should expect from dating in today's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 09:53 PM
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The ability to make her feel something she doesn't feel with anyone else.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:17 AM
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Careful dude you can get girls pregnant via osmosis if they work out too close to you.
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:41 AM
1

Brilliant post. Pussy is not rare, special, or valuable. When there are women in the top 1% whose videos you can watch for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:25 AM
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That's really silly logic. He can pay a 20 year old hooker $250 for an hour of her time if he wants to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:37 PM
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The mistake guys make again and again is thinking that women are satisfied with these 'hundreds of options' - they're not. They want ONE who ticks all the boxes. They'll keep searching until they find one who does, or has the potential to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:25 AM
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Tinder fucking SUCKS. I've had good success with Bumble and Hinge. But Tinder is 99% validation and attention seekers with no desire to ever meet up.
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:10 AM
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For me it's: would I be proud to introduce them to my parents? With most FWB it's a clear no because I'm dating them solely for their looks or bedroom skills. My parents are incredible at reading people, and would see through that immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:53 PM
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As a guy who is pretty average downstairs, I don't think it's that important. Face, height, some money, good conversationalist, confidence, decent teeth - in that order. I date and have dated some 8s, 9s, 10s with equally impressive personalities and those are the priorities I've noticed. My face isn't even that nice, I had my face permanently disfigured during an assault as a teenager that was never fixed so I hate being clean shaven. Having a very well shaped and groomed short beard is like 24…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:59 PM
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Perfectly put. I hate it when I think I'm one of the lucky easy jumpers and she moves the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:27 PM
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One thing the article doesn't mention is the COMBINATION of all these top traits is required. Kindness from an obese slob with a neckbeard full of doritos crumbs means nothing to a woman.
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:28 PM
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Funny how every woman thinks a red pilled man is angry or bitter. It's about being AWARE of women's true nature and acting accordingly. It's that scene in The Matrix - "why do my eyes hurt?" "You've never used them before"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:10 AM
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It's not a 'shit test', it's a 'sizing up'.
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:00 PM
3

Knitting. Now go back to Female Dating Strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:26 AM
5

Thanks for the amateur psychoanalysis. I like women with experience, not sure how you drew your ridiculously long bow from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:12 AM
1

Height has to be more than 5'6 or I'd feel like I'm fucking a child (I'm 6'3). Some semblance of an hourglass figure - waist needs to be smaller than her hips, round arse I can really squeeze. Booty big or small I don't care but it's the shape that matters. Tits anything will do I don't care. I don't mind a bit of a tummy. Legs anything but not stumpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:56 AM
7

I think about it like this. I'm getting all the benefits of what her past sexual experiences have taught her. And she's getting all the benefits of what my past sexual experiences have taught me. I don't want a virgin who's scared to express herself and has no idea what she's doing. That would be a massive turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:05 AM
1

Believe what you want. That's exactly what happened. BJ on second date and passionate sex on 3rd. 'Wholesome' txt a week later. Hence why I said the mind boggles
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:30 AM
3

Ugh. Any excuse to use the term incel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:31 AM
1

Stuck at a 9-5 job they hate because it's a million miles away from what they are truly passionate about, drinking wine, treating their dog like a child, desperately spending time with friends to stave off any terrifying feelings of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:23 AM
38

I got rejected for being too 'wholesome' after 3 incredible dates and passionate intimacy on 2 of them. The mind boggles.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:57 AM
4

Never ask the question you don't want the answer to
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:18 PM
4

Yes I've found this too. Women have an initial 'testing' phase to see what kind of man you are. Once you pass that test their attraction for you grows exponentially.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:07 AM
3

So much wrong with this post. First of all, women don’t respect orbiters. So that constant validation from guys she doesn’t care about does not fulfil her. Also, giving away sex easily doesn’t fulfil her. All that validation serves as only a very temporary purpose. You need to listen to some Patrice O’Neal to better understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:30 AM
1

Early 30's guy here. I'm a predictable, boring fucker who plays guitar and Football Manager in his free time. Basically I use scarcity and abundance mindset to maintain attraction with the girls I date. Anything else I can do to appear unpredictable and exciting?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:26 AM
1

You can't negotiate desire. I have similar stories but where the girl has kissed me or slept with me and a few days later the dreaded txt 'hey I had fun but you're just not the one for me'. There's literally nothing more I could've done besides be someone else. Which is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:10 AM
3

Not entirely true. They're also afraid of getting their inflated egos bruised, and losing face in any kind of social situation. You make it out like it's some kind of fight or flight response.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:59 AM
5

This is absolutely the truth. Even better - passing enough shit tests will boost her attraction to that point where she can't get enough. With enough practise it becomes second nature to pass them, and it becomes funny how obvious they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:55 AM
5

I love the back and forth dynamic. It's so fulfilling to be a leader - to treat a woman to dinner or an experience, to have her submit her body to you. But then, I love being taken care of too. Having a woman buy me a drink, cook for me, lay in her lap while she runs her hands through my hair etc. It's beautiful to be in a relationship where a woman wants this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:46 PM
1

This absolutely just happened to me. Incredible date with a 9/10, she even bought us the second round of drinks, was laughing, we had fun, flowing conversations, she was giving me the eyes throughout. I walked her back to her car and she purposely kept on walking "oh my car's way back there but I'm just really enjoying this". She initiated the kiss and was touching my face, using tongue gently. I asked her back to my house for more wine and to hear some guitar - "I'd love to but that's just not …
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:02 PM
1

It's amazing how many overly literal dummies there are on here. And you're having to wade through them all explaining what social hierarchy and status is. I admire your patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:39 PM
3

Absolutely. To me, Mark Manson is ugly. His looks are about 3/10. But to women, he's exactly the type of man they dream of. A confident, highly intelligent, outgoing, leader, rich, has status, is an amazing provider. Almost none of these qualities would make a woman more attractive in a man's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:32 PM
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This 'nit-picky nature' is pure biology. It's a survival mechanism. Women were made to survive and protect their children. Men were made to spread their genes. The same reason we can't help but check out other women. You're attaching blame to something that a woman's brain does instinctively.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:49 PM
7

Well done completely missing the point of my comment.
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:23 AM
1

I'm a guy but I'm gonna answer anyway. What I've noticed in my 32 years are the most attractive qualities: Attractive face, confidence, good height, nice teeth, hair she can run her fingers through + short beard that frames your jawline, funny, emotionally and financially stable, interesting conversations, have your own place, have a passion or a skill, V-taper physique, not putting her on a pedestal. Most of these things you can work on to improve. Having all of these pays massive dividends wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:31 PM
4

Patrice is the godfather when it comes to dealing with women. His advice is timeless, and it's a good thing that modern women don't know who he is.
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:57 PM
4

Good question. I don’t think I’m particularly interesting. I rent a house near a beach which is amazing for first dates. I play guitar and sing as a hobby, which women love. I meditate a lot which brings me so much fulfilment and keeps me emotionally stable. These things are what I prioritise in my life. I feel like women are more attracted to me when they can see I don’t need them. Because I have other things going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:31 PM
4

That’s a dismissive response. Not very astute at learning from people with different views to yours huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:13 PM
8

Dating is a crapshoot and a numbers game. I’ve had flaky women who destroyed my faith in the dating market. I’ve experienced the ‘emotional tank’ type women. On the other hand I’ve had women blow me on the second date to make sure I didn’t want to keep looking elsewhere. I would say each man’s sample size is too small to make a generalisation about the market. Each woman I meet is such an individual and that’s what makes it exciting. I’ve had some great luck but I also have a code which works fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:17 PM
1

I don’t remember sorry it’s been about 15 years. I’ll just say lots of lube and stretch it a little bit further every day. I think I used to watch porn at the same time to distract + incentivise myself
/r/MensRights17/05/22 04:10 PM
9

So grateful to my parents for not permanently altering my future sexual pleasure. I struggled with phimosis during my teenage years and had to teach myself how to stretch it out. I even contemplated getting cut because the stretching was so slow and painful. But once it was fully stretched my oh my what a wonderful decision to keep it.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 02:27 AM
0

Nice! Is this online or in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:11 AM
12

This is a hard pill to swallow. But once you do, life makes so much more sense.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 01:25 AM
2

Try meditation instead
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:04 AM
2

She’s not big, she’s THICC
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 09:36 PM
5

This is super inaccurate. You’re dating the wrong type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:20 AM
4

Try it. Report back
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:43 AM
16

Agreed. That’s the first date. Then it becomes progressively more expensive once she’s regularly giving you what you want.
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:41 AM
7

Totally feel this. I'm the same way, I recently had a woman back to my place and was unable to escalate because I'm being too 'respectful'. Unless a woman makes it completely obvious she wants to have sex, I'm pretty hopeless. My way has always been to friend zone them and hope that makes them want more. Not sure why I do this because the success rate is terrible.
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:06 PM
96

It's fucking exhausting and expensive dating multiple women.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:41 PM
19

Gahd damn this is some Patrice O'Neal/AMS hybrid type advice. Brilliant
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:35 PM
2

He never pedestalises women. Even if he gives lavish praise, it's a push pull and he'll quickly follow it up with "this is as good as it's gonna get, it's all downhill from here love" or similar. He truly doesn't care about the outcome because of his abundance mindset. He masterfully puts the ball in the women's court every time. There's never any pressure on her, he remains the centre of attention. His advances are merely an offer of a good time, she just has to follow his lead. He makes it app…
/r/seduction12/10/21 11:38 PM
6

The whole 'women have lower sex drives than men' thing is a myth. It varies so much from person to person, you can't compare genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:57 AM
2

How long do they keep it for? Does this cost extra?
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:49 PM
2

This is absolutely true but don’t expect it to go down well on reddit. The only times in my life I’ve ever been walked over by women, disrespected, not appreciated, cheated on are when I’ve committed 100% to them. It’s a massive turn off when your woman knows she’s your only option. I’ll never make this mistake again as long as I live.
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:31 AM
8

‘Do not marry them’ - Yes because the commitment-phobic bad boy who gives you a facial and has a rotation of 7 women is also going to suddenly drop to one knee and beg for your hand in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:54 PM
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Please stop pining for a fairytale ending, where you find the ‘perfect girl’ to settle down with. That shit is a gigantic lie and I guarantee will not fulfil your biological desires as a man. Having multiple attractive girlfriends and deciding when you want to see them is the pinnacle of happiness for men. Once you know the true nature of women you view the game very differently and act accordingly. Not a fan of your real estate analogy. If someone doesn’t want to sell their house, there’s liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:32 PM
2

Great post. I bought a classic looking silver watch with a white face & fake black leather strap from Kmart for $6. I must've had 100+ people comment on it. A few asking 'is that Calvin Klein?' I'm a cheap fucker who completely resents spending money on fashion. Jeans, shoes and a leather jacket are the only items you need to spend more than $50 on. People don't know brands. If you wear shit with confidence they'll think it's an expensive brand name. Also work out, you can look amazing in a $5 t…
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:06 PM
3

Jesus, this is the stuff of nightmares
/r/MGTOW229/07/21 09:10 PM
3

Just downloaded the audiobook and gonna give it a listen thanks to your review.
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:26 PM
2

Listen to the Black Phillip show by Patrice O'Neal. For a 300lb guy, he was a genius at seducing beautiful women. He knew women value their beauty above all else - so he immediately disqualified it. Look for a mole or freckle on her face and say "what's that little bump there on your face?" The key is to ask with genuine interest, not maliciousness. She will initially be a bit insulted - then she will be dumbfounded. No guy has ever even dared to make her feel self conscious. This is the key. Yo…
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:49 PM
0

This is priceless advice
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:45 AM
3

This! I'm extremely self conscious and shy IRL, would never approach a woman but on an app like Bumble I get 30+ matches and multiple dates which are successful nights/short/medium term relationships. My insecurities fade fast once I know someone finds me the least bit attractive and Bumble is amazing for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:45 AM
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