Cad42988 Archive

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2	How do I approach this girl? just hit her up on the way in, if she is signing you in make small talk like asking if it was busy or something, then depending on how long youve been at this gym i would transition with something like "im kind of new to the city and i was hoping you could suggest a cool bar. then when she suggests one ask for her number and suggest you two go sometime. then if it feels awkward you can immediately say you just dont know anyone in town yet and completely act like you were never interested	/r/seduction	13/07/15 06:29 PM
6	Is it a bad idea to ask a girl out by text? You forgot 5. stalk her facebook, find out where she is going to be at a given time and then plan your entire day around "randomly" running into her, not to ask her out obviously, that comes after the years of "friendship" youre about to enjoy. Of course she says no, "because she values your friendship too much" and of course this rejection will inevitably lead to you two not being friends anymore. which of course free's you up to be her divorce rebound ten years later when you have a quicky on …	/r/seduction	30/06/15 08:54 PM
6	Is it a bad idea to ask a girl out by text? Im surprised everyone is saying in person is better! While I've done a decent amount of both, I very much prefer the text option and often have better luck with it. Asking in person can be super awkward, not only for you, but also for the chick. As a result you'll likely end up buying things for, and going on dates with, a lot of girls who are only there because they were too much of a coward to say no in person. If someone's interested, it really wont matter how you ask them. I just find it's e…	/r/seduction	30/06/15 12:08 PM
2	Is it a bad idea to ask a girl out by text? haha- my game 9 years ago^	/r/seduction	30/06/15 12:05 PM
5	How to get friendzoned by a girl? I've come across this a few times. Unless you already know a few of her friends this is likely to be a worthless endeavor. Also If her friends are hotter than her, then they probably wont want to sleep with you (not always but usually). Here's why, Think of yourself and your friends. theres a decent looking chick who already got boned by your uglier friend, after hearing that, would you not be much less likely to try and bone her? now on top of that, youre a dude, who likely has to put in some g…	/r/seduction	30/06/15 12:03 PM
9	How to get friendzoned by a girl? ahhh the Ted Mosby	/r/seduction	30/06/15 11:58 AM
5	"The biggest mistake you can make at a party is following your girl around like a puppy dog" Haha so When I was in undergrad my move was to always immediately ditch whatever girl you're with and make friends with the current alpha male in the room, that way if your girl goes to hit on him youre already there and friends with him. then you both just can talk some light heartted shit to her, and the moment she walks away slyly Warn your new buddy about her, out of concern for him ofc. chick now for some reason respects you more for being mean to her and is super ready to hookup with you a…	/r/seduction	30/06/15 11:34 AM
1	Catch 22 of Pickup??? haha who told you that you wouldnt start getting girls until you do 100 approaches? I've had like a 75% success rate from the get go. here is my answer to your question in great detail. so many guys fail at cold approaches and it it usually happens by making one or more of the following 4 mistakes. the guy screws up the timing. so many guys fail so hard on this it is unbelievable. they walk up to a girl with a group of her friends or a girl alone at a bar who has just ordered more than 1 drink. …	/r/seduction	19/06/15 12:23 PM
15	Sedditors, did you ever make a move on your high school crush? If not, how do you feel now? haha so in highschool i was a fat kid obsessed with starcraft, but I was also obsessed with this girl, we'll call her Lauren. like all through highschool i crushed so hard on this girl, went to football games with her sat by her every chance i could you know the usual nonsense. at some point i even called her on the phone and sung a song by 3 doors down called "here without you". anyways senior year at the beginning of the last semester, I finally worked up the courage to ask her out. after 3 ye…	/r/seduction	19/06/15 11:22 AM
1	I did the right thing right? that was my guess	/r/seduction	12/05/15 10:07 PM
1	Would it be weird to text a girl out of the blue who has not communicated with you in a while? do you have any mutual friends? who are the ppl who told you to move on? just anyone person you both know added to a group of others will take the pressure off you.	/r/seduction	09/05/15 12:32 PM
4	Would it be weird to text a girl out of the blue who has not communicated with you in a while? These people are giving you horrible advice lol. if she's told you she's too busy it usually means that she's made up her mind and is not interested. even if you've changed in the last 3 weeks, her opinion of you likely hasnt, and you hitting her up just to ask her to hang out again is going to come across as desperate and a bit clingy. if you like this girl, and i mean really like her, then there's a few things you can do but it's going to take a while and your odds of success are meager at bes…	/r/seduction	07/05/15 05:09 PM
2	I did the right thing right? Wow, is this girl 20?	/r/seduction	07/05/15 03:43 PM
13	[Inner Game] What is being needy - and how to cure it ? I dont think that is the point that OP was trying to make. what he's saying is that, ignoring your self and your own wants in order to appear more attractive to women actually makes you less attractive. It's a good philosophy, and I think there is a lot of truth to what he's said. I think the point he was trying to make is that by focusing too much on finding an SO or lay youre actually making it harder on yourself, and even if you do find someone willing to accept your desperateness, you will l…	/r/seduction	30/04/15 04:46 PM
4	How to not appear or come across as intimidating, stoic, scary, or creepy. (AKA: How to look relaxed and approachable) I feel like i give off the same vibe, out of curiosity do you live in a larger city, and if so do you feel like homeless people fuck with you more than average? In my experience the same look that might scare normal people away, somehow draws in crazy ppl like a magnet!	/r/seduction	30/04/15 04:32 PM
8	Pro Tip for getting girls to come back to your place And I have a really big hookah	/r/seduction	30/04/15 01:57 AM
12	Pro Tip for getting girls to come back to your place Op are you in college by any chance? This trick used to work for me so well in undergrad, but now that im in the real world I feel like chicks in their mid 20's dont really go for this.	/r/seduction	30/04/15 01:56 AM
1	29 Year old virgin - 4 questions i actually have a similar story to yours, only i lost the weight around age 20, and i actually consider myself to be attractive now. i think the real issue here is that you are putting too much value on attractiveness, your own, and likely that of others. imagine you have a huge pimple and youre going out for the night, the pimple only becomes more obvious the more you stress out about it. the same thing goes with attractiveness, if youre stressed about your lack of attractiveness it will only m…	/r/seduction	06/02/15 09:29 PM
1	How do I deal with this type of women? tell her shes a noob and invite her over for a 1v1, noobs cant resist 1v1's	/r/seduction	11/01/15 02:43 AM
1	Why are really pretty women (8's 9's 10's) attracted to me more often then less attractive women aren't ? you probably give off a nice guy vibe. not in the "nice guy" whos too insecure to talk to chicks, but just a generally nice outgoing dude. by the time they are 21 most hot chicks have already dated a lot of 8-10's of their own, and honestly most of the guys i know who are super conventionally attractive are dicks to women. most guys need to put in a lot of time at the gym to be considered a 10, and imo the only way a person can be that committed to their appearance is if they have some serious s…	/r/seduction	08/01/15 10:13 AM