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that was a rhetorical question. she is used goods.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:17 PM
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It means they've been pumped and dumped A LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT. She's 34, I'm 27. dude just...no. don't. "it's worth starting at friendship and seeing where things go :)". What would her friendship bring to your life?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:21 PM
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They don't *want* you to be a soyboy, they just have no ability to separate their advice from their own situation. You mom is saying what she would like a guy she is attracted to to do (though what she thinks and what she reacts to are likely very different). She can't even comprehend that you are talking about how to get girls who are not attracted to you. In short, they don't want you to be soyboys, mothers are girls and girls r dumb
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:18 PM
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Girls don't have serious political beliefs unless they were instilled by a strong father, and even then...its pretty flimsy. Girls also tend to adopt the beliefs of the men in their lives. Not a red flag unless she's doing/has done something you abhor (mudshark, abortion, etc.).
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:16 PM
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but I don’t know the right way to convince her. When she's wet you have a lot of leeway. just drop a 'shut up, be a good girl, and do what I say, kitten.' have an entitled demeanor. and she’s submissive (BUT ONLY WHEN SHE’S NOT AWARE!). then she isn't really that submissive, is she?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:15 PM
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I'm not against freedom, I don't blame women for wanting to work and get financial freedom. They get burnt out on work very, very quickly. When you get a little older you'll start to see what I mean. The exception is women who got married/knocked up young and started working once their children got older.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:48 PM
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Great men plant trees in whose shade they'll never sit. sitting poolside and enjoying the decline is a waste of a life.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:47 PM
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Ending women's higher education and careers is a good idea - if you care about civilization. Hypergamy is an unconquerable mountain to women. Women rarely will be willing to date a guy who is in a lesser class than him (not as educated, blue collar while she's white collar, etc.). While exceptions happen, those guys usually have phenomenal game or are much more attractive - not a solution that can be expanded to a whole society. Because of this, you have some nations where the top quintile of iq…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:36 PM
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consistent behavioral change and dread game is a decent strategy. If you aren't already doing serious things to improve your body (diet, working out) start immediately. Do all this without fanfare, just start working on yourself.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:25 PM
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I don't think your game is nearly as tight as you believe it to be.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:21 PM
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Yeah and there won't be USA if the Nazie were not killing jewish, since Einstein and co were jewish descent. Imagine Germany with nukes 3 years prior to USA and talk about history. stop. My penis can only get so erect. No businessman will employ a native for 15 usd/hour when the immigrant wants 12 usd/hour. This is the easiest explanation. end immigration and they'll have to pay 15 an hour ;)
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:19 PM
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my response is shrugging.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:16 PM
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Because the guy stops putting in the effort to get his wife emotionally stimulated and tingly.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:14 PM
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Rookie mistakes all around. So I had some chick who was head over heels for me. At first everything was going well, until I met up and treated her like absolute shit for four hours straight Ok...negging is useful in some instances, harmful in others. Negging and teasing are there to knock a block of a chicks shoulder. Take her down a few pegs (but it can't be obvious that's what you're doing). If the girl is head over heels for you, then there is NO NEED to neg or tease seriously. You're over ga…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:14 PM
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Are women so loose with morals that they will cheat with any guy that has better game? No but its disturbingly prevalent. Though honestly, your brother is likely getting lazy in gaming his wife and that's the only reason this is happening. Just getting married and having kids doesn't mean your girl will magically be faithful. You have to ALWAYS be the man to her. I tried telling him but he refuses to even believe his own wife would do something like that so it ended up in a confrontational argum…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:00 PM
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Am I an orbiter/is this healthy. Without reading anything else but the title I'm going to go ahead and say yes and no to your respective questions. Let's see if I"m right. Her personality just isn't good for me in any other way than as friends and I've known this since the beginning. She's fanatically religious, would suck trumps dick while her whole family cheered her on and is oddly very submissive and red pilled but also very sexually aggressive and kinky - way to kinky for me. She sounds per…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:57 PM
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pussy
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:52 PM
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Is there a fine line between orbiting and being friends lol, there's no line.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:50 PM
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Was going to lay into you for no squats of dead lifts but holy hell man, great progress!
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:49 PM
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I know that forgiving her is not an option but I also don't want to break up. Could i demote her to a plate and find a better girl Honestly, you're coming off as waaaaaay too much of a pussy to be able to pull that off. Just separate from her entirely. Plus, if a girl cheats on you it means she has no respect for you, and you're unlikely to get it back. So you couldn't get her to be a plate.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:47 PM
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She flipped and completely shut him down and destroyed his manhood. Wife material in the middle of her berating him I did go over and asked him if he wanted to touch it for good luck lmao. looool My question is what does it mean when a woman defends you? That you should start a family with her. Literally old school Southern Chivalry tier woman.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:41 PM
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If you don't have any masculine influences in your life, you can find them on youtube. ...no...no you can't. There may be some tidbits of knowledge there but nothing can or will ever replace actual male comradarie.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:36 PM
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There are always low status jobs. Are you familiar with H1-B's in America? It is not always the case. And even if it were the case, why do you not want native born people's having those jobs? Diversity always causes a lack of trust and cohesion in a community. Why invite that? he is a valuable asset and as long he pays the local taxes and contributes with the social politics by paying that there is nothing wrong. ...yeah....I, too, remember all those muslim and african immigrants welcomed hearti…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:34 PM
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There's a time for isolation, but you *need* men as examples around you if you didn't have them when growing up. Edit: What makes a good man is the same thing that makes a good friend: loyalty, courage, willingness to sacrifice, competence. What would make you fellow band of men respect you when you all went out to kill some megafauna would be the same thing that makes you a good man now. You'll likely need male friends to learn those things as you didn't have a father to teach you.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:26 PM
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lifting + boxing gym (or bjj or mui thai)
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:24 PM
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It may come with brown people, but so what? well...Europe will stop being Europe if you replace the religion and genetics that made it Europe. I guess that's so what.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:18 PM
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I hope the immigrate some of them women. Increase the diversity in the pool ;) Enjoy your low iq, low impulse control kids, I guess
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:17 PM
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Nothing wrong with refugees that have jobs and education and would be a valuable asset to any country and its economy Actually, yes there is. There's plenty wrong with them. Why can't your native people do those jobs? Why do you want to lower the wages of everyone in your country by allowing non natives in en masse? What are the odds they will take that some of the money they are paid here and send it 'back home', taking it out of your economy?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:15 PM
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>thinking Jordan Peterson and Ben Shapiro are masculine defenders of the west What's it like to be this bluepilled. Do you have actual thoughts or just images?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:11 PM
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What are the long run problems this could cause and what's the solution? Civil and ethnic war. The solution is...well...civil and ethnic war or, if you want to avoid that, mass repatriations. The number of European women marrying Muslims and converting to Islam is appalling. It's not as high as you think, tbh, but it is eyeroll inducing. Women are idiots and they go with whatever gives them tingles. But they'd much rather their own men give them tingles than mudppl. People will refuse to acknowl…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:09 PM
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Are you both religious? AA is the best tbh "you're right, sex is just gross and totally icky! BARF!@' Another thing to say if you want to plant a seed of reason in her is this: 'obviously sex is important, God thought it was so important that it was to be the centerpiece of marriage. it's God who gives us lust to come together as one flesh. it's the differentiating factor between Christian marriage and every other relationship out there.' Now granted, using logic on a woman is like using a bicyc…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 04:02 PM
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What should my frame be? Mockery. And try to get her to get them to buy things she'll give to you. Get her thinking of them as worms who are there to provide and receive, not potential suitors. Was banging a girl in college who had some orbiters. We met at a bar unplanned one night and one of her orbiters bought her an expensive bouquet of flowers. I mocked it and said 'looks like you're getting lucky tonight.' She groaned and rolled her eyes. When leaving in my car I told her to throw them out …
/r/askTRP05/03/19 03:51 PM
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My advice in all things in life is this: fail faster. Put yourself at risk, put yourself in those tipping point situations. If it fails, at least you know. You can learn what you did wrong or learn what about that specific situation made it unwinnable. Regret is worse that rejection. Go for it. Sooner rather than later because with girls you HAVE to strike when the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:30 PM
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Sex and seduction is important. But if you chase after it as if its a holy grail, which it isn't, you'll end up in just another place where you don't want to be. Here's a next level red pill, enjoying the decline from poolside with a cutie du jour on your arm isn't going to satisfy most men. Game should be used to bring real fulfillment, which for most men will only come from a loving, nurturing, obedient wife who helps you raise half a dozen of your pretty, demure daughters and cocky, lovable a…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:45 AM
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I've gotten to the point that I prefer girls without college degrees, but I also am looking for marriage material so it's a bit different. I prefer young, as low-n as possible, and sweet. Girls who went to college almost invariably rode the carousel with glee, wasted the last of their prime years on education, are more likely to want a 'lol career', will more likely have some serious debt, etc. I'm also completely unimpressed with what passes for an education and universities so it really doesn'…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:20 AM
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So to summarize: I don't feel good enough to get hot girls because I'm "ugly" which probably sounds stupid but it's my truth. I started thinking that maybe this girl gave me the gift because she wants to be "friends". Hot girls don't give gifts to friends. You got her dripping when you manhandled her and she wants you to scratch the itch you started in her. You may not feel you're good enough for yadda yadda, but this girl does so who cares what you feel. Honestly, if you really are ugly and she…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:58 PM
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I don't want to slip back into my old ways - I notice woman trying to make me more beta and trying to get me to opt into a more beta frame as well. Will always, always happen. St. Patrice talks about this at length. You know to resist it and I know you will. As far as getting your own place, up to you. Honestly, renting is a fool's game and spend as little money doing it as you can. Save what you can until you can own. I'd stay put personally. The only thing you really, really need to keep in mi…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:54 PM
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Ready for your next step? No, your perfect girl doesn't exist unless some other guy made her (i.e. her father). If you want your perfect girl, you have to make her. Then you have to manage her literally for the rest of your lives. If you ever stop gaming her you might loser her. Have fun!
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:42 PM
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Being successful with women makes you more cynical than failure with women. Welcome to the otherside of casual sex. You've completely reduced their entire goofy sex to nothing more than probabilistic puzzles, a series of if-then contingencies for their cookie cutter responses, and have gained the ability to quickly intuit a frightening amount of information from increasingly small clues. There's no mystery about women and nothing seems authentic or worthwhile when dealing with them. Sex has prov…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:37 PM
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Did I do the right thing or miss out on opportunities? maybe. one wrong accusation can fuck your shit up. buuuuuuut on the otherhand....
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:28 PM
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gotta start somewhere/sometime.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:26 PM
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She responded with an incredibly lengthy text about made her feel slutty. if you want to get back with her you have to alleviate that. be nonjudgemental, don't play into her frame. outright ignoring her drama is probably a good idea. ​
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:23 PM
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we hugged gross. sounds like you are too harmless. I tried to kiss her and she said "what are you doing?" should've responded with something ballsy. but I couldn't, I got shocked. It happens. Practice in that situation is the only thing that will get you past it. Today one of my friends told me some of my nags REALLY hurt her, and he saw that on her, I didn't notice it, so I don't know. Negs are only to be used on a girl who has a chip on her shoulder. If you're negging a girl who doesn't need i…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 09:14 PM
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Not not all girls go through it. But virtually all do.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 08:59 PM
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Im overthinking this because this girl was a 9/10, No. She wasn't. Look up Abbey Lee Kershaw or Claudia Cardinale. That's what a 9/10 looks like. Your girl was likely just a high 6 who wasn't fat. Here's a scenario that's possible, next time I see her and ask about the text, and she replies in manner that implies "I saw it, but I lost interest, you weren't exciting enough". Why ask her about it? You'll just come off as clingy and try hard. And no girl is every going to be up front about why they…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 02:26 PM
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Read it yourself and find out. JP has fooled a lot of people into thinking he's masculine, he's traditional, he's rp, he's wise. He's none of those things. I didn't realize something was up until I heard him asked if he believed in God and he said 'ummm....well...you know that's a good question but um...I...I-I like to live as if God existed.' The interviewer was like '...is that a yes or a no.' and he just repeated what he said. No man who is a thinker or a teacher would ever answer such a stra…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 01:48 PM
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Clothes: You don't need to spend money to look great (though it is handy). Grab plain colored tees, decent jeans, and some boots. Save up a hundred or so bucks and buy a decent jacket now that winter is over. Voila, you're set. Frugality: this is a gift, treat it as such. Food: eat well, if you can't afford organic yadda yadda, that's fine. if you can't afford beef and have to get chicken thighs that's fine, but don't sacrifice your food. Travel: travel is for thots. Just get a job. Look to see …
/r/askTRP03/03/19 06:13 AM
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was married for about 3.5 years, divorced before kids due to moral differences. painfree amicable divorce. got a high n count. done everything sexually i could dream of doing (within reason). casual sex is 100% hollow. You'll feel it pretty soon. There's no real satisfaction to it. The chase is fun, catching it is fun, but when you're done it's just....eh. You'll never be fulfilled doing it. Which is why you keep doing it like an addict trying to recreate the exceptional times that weren't that …
/r/askTRP03/03/19 06:06 AM
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" Immediately the whole “women only reach up, not down” I shut down. " Kinda true, but the key is to keep in mind all the 'successful amazing fabulous women' who are getting plowed by absolute lowlifes. yes women are hypergamous. but the point of game is to recreate the absolute surrender inducing tingles that alphas can bring out in women. the reason she'd let you take a sledgehammer to the sugar walls is b/c you say and do things that make her little girly parts get all a flutter with tingles.…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:57 AM
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Reading self-help books are seriously the most bluepilled thing you can do. Make a schedule you lazy ho. Stick to it. If you fall off one day or one week say 'fuck it' and get back on it. The only good resources for building discipline are supportive friends who will make fun of you none stop for not doing what you said you would and you saying 'k i'm not gonna be a loser I'm going to actually get up and do this right now'. there's no magic or secret knowledge. sorry.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:50 AM
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" Action action action action action. This word gets thrown around massively in business, entrepreneurship, and of course sexual strategy. We all KNOW the word, yet it feels like it’s as misunderstood as the word “god”" I feel like you're about to sell me a time share. " Honestly, I really want to start taking more action. Lifting, waking up early, meditating, journaling, reading and studying are MY DEFAULT already... but I want to take more action to get the sexual life I want, and to create so…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:46 AM
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She's your mother and is in a tough spot. Visit her when you can, talk to her when you can. Be a good son for the woman that gave birth to you. But you do have to move on with your life and develop as a man.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:43 AM
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I wouldn't say it's 100% totally done for, but it's legit 94% totally done for. Refiring can be done but its always a long shot. If you try it, you need to keep in mind that you have to always be outcome independent. Remember that nothing about this girl is magical or special, she's just a girl. Don't waste your time dreaming about how great she is or how great you'd be together. You don't know her, she's just a girl. You can't sound a tiny bit butthurt about her ghosting. You always have to hav…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:41 AM
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" Well, I eighter forgot or I do not understand what it means "perfect boy" but rejected, explain to me this please. " Harmless. Good on paper but no actual spirit to what she feels about you. her comment on you being spontaneous is pretty good, though. sounds like you weren't completely clueless. " Realistically, did not wanted to make it out with her (LTR) because fuck man, she 16 and me 24? That's kinda f up because where is my pride? Where is my value? I view it as a dude that is unable to d…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:22 AM
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'busy working on new songs and stuff. dunno when i'm free. feel free to come over if you want' you're welcome.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:17 AM
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literally the best response and downvoted to oblivion. reddit never fails to impress.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:16 AM
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will turn her off not because you were an ass, but because it sounds like you are easily butthurt.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:15 AM
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deny expectations, refuse to play by her frame.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:14 AM
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You'll just have to wait and see. You CAN improve yourself greatly. But we never truly change who we are. If you get everything in gear you'll do great for a long time. But the second you get lazy or let your guard down or get blindsided by something heavy in life, those old instincts will creep back very quickly and can resurface if you don't stay on top of them. The older you get and the more discipline you can have in your life, the more successful you'll be in sublimating those bad instincts…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:09 AM
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JP is an intellectual fraud with an iq so low he couldn't get into Alberta Law School (was mentioned in maps of meaning, if you read it). He's been propped up by the media for 10 years. He fantasizes about being a politician above all things (gross). He is 100% an actor. He gets on stage, is asked a question, and then puts his head in his hands and stammers 'w-w-well this is something I've never been asked before and I have to think about it more' ...it's a question he's been asked literally hun…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:03 AM
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" My strengths are that im smart,clever " Random girls on the street, however, are not smart and clever. And your totally smart and clever banter is likely going to strike them as odd and nerdy if you aren't careful. Develop being CHARMING more than clever. The difference is that you make her feel clever, not show off how clever you are. The normie intro to charm is Craig Fergeson. " I looked up at her, we exchanged name and shook hands and she said "I hope to see you around" (maybe should of as…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:52 AM
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blue pilled as fug
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:35 AM
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" This girl I was friends with " this is starting poorly. kissing doesn't mean shit to girls, especially the kind of girl you're 'friends with'. move on and be more exciting next time.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:34 AM
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danger will robinson, danger! She may not be 100% an alcoholic, but she is 100% stupid thot. She's likely doing things you would really, really disapprove of when she's out with her shitty friends. Talk to her. Not some mewling soyboy talk. But a real 'listen, I don't like this behavior, I think it's poisonous. I don't want you doing it' talk. Tell her why its bad, why you don't like it. If she isn't willing to break it off, break her off.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:30 AM
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There is no easy way to stop a girl from getting bored. You have to game her until you're both in your 80s, and even then its not safe to stop. Women simply need emotional stimulation like we need visual and sexual stimulation. You have to be predictably unpredictable. You have to drain her emotionally like she has to drain you sexually. Take that bitch to a movie that will make her cry. Tell her to dress up then take her to an amateur back-county wrasslin' match. Your work is never, ever done. …
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:27 AM
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First off, you recognize that this is really petty, bitchy behavior. That's good. Unfortunately, pettiness and jealousy are a part of you. And no matter how much you work on yourself, no matter how much you improve yourself, it will always be a part of you. You'll struggle with it forever. That having been said, you realize what's going on and you can attack it. The first thing to realize is that you have low self-esteem and a sense of hopelessness. Otherwise you wouldn't feel so negatively abou…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:22 AM
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95% chance you got flaked on. her emotions cooled and when you texted you were and obligation and not an exciting opportunity. deflaking is a tough tactic. I usually tell a girl 'flakey mcflakesalot'. it's worked before, but deflaking is always a longshot. the important thing is to never, EVER seem butt hurt by her flaking. you want to keep a smirking, nonplussed attitude about anything she does.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:57 AM
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"whatre u lookin for' is among the most dusty, ancient beta bait out there. the most important rule of avoiding beta bait is to never play into her frame. avoid any and all serious answers - ESPECIALLY ones that lead to you sounding sappy and romantic and betamax. Go with non-sequiturs or things that will steer the conversation away from her bait. e.g. 'I need someone to help rob a bank, you better at driving or shooting?' then disagree with her answer. if she says driving say 'no, you're feet c…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:52 AM
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How old are you and what are your goals for monk mode? But yes, just deal with it is probably going to be the answer.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:44 AM
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Youth is more than just a lack of sagging and wrinkles, although that's a part of it. It's a je ne sais quoi kind of thing. It's an inner sweetness and joy and naivete and innocence that quickly fades. That kind of inner spirit radiates and accentuates the physical beauty a younger gal can have. A girl who is 28 can easily be beautiful, but she will have been working for the better part of a decade and dating (unsuccessfully) for a decade or so. That kind of experience wears out fragile youth an…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 02:42 AM
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Female advice: Put on weight, be confident. Male advice: well...it sounds like you are slender, that's fine. A lot of guys like that (I do). Most of the 'you need curves' advice is reflexively sabotaging behavior/coping so take it with a grain of salt. One of the prettiest girl I dated was tiny with a young body like yours. Everyone thought she was gorgeous, so don't worry too much about your body type at all - guys dig it. Keep going to the gym, get toned, eat healthy. You having small hips/tit…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 02:24 AM
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" So I don’t get sleep, our son screams and screams and screams and tonight I lost it, started sobbing because I felt like a failure, felt like I can’t even do the one this I’m on the planet to do. My fiancé lashes out at me while he’s playing his game " It's rare I suggest leaving when a kid is involved. But leave.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 02:03 AM
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"Conclusions Male microchimerism was not infrequent in women without sons. Besides known pregnancies, other possible sources of male microchimerism include unrecognized spontaneous abortion, vanished male twin, an older brother transferred by the maternal circulation, or sexual intercourse." " Science isn't really a case of 'personal beliefs'. Does the evidence say that intercourse causes microchimerism?" It's listed as a possibility in the conclusions, yes. " No," ...ok " and it suggests a bunc…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 01:32 AM
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Men finding you attractive has a lot to do with your confidence. Not true at all. Men finding a gal attractive has to do with her looks and her looks alone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 01:00 AM
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sounds like forever but "youth" lasts til you're about 27 or 28. Very bluepilled. Youth lasts until about 22.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 12:58 AM
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I did read it. And while it is much higher in women with abortions and who have previously had sons, male dna *is* still present in women who have no had sons or abortions. So that dna had to get there somehow. While there are other possibilities, sexual intercourse *is* one of the possibilities of how it occurred. My personal belief is that intercourse can cause microchimerism, though not always. And it may be the case that telegony can occur from it as well.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 12:45 AM
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https://www.amjmed.com/article/S0002-9343(05)00270-6/abstract00270-6/abstract) ummmmm....
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 11:28 PM
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...so has multidating allowed you to find your husband? honestly, multidating seems like a sure fire way to throw gasoline on the grease fire of your hypergamy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 11:15 PM
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" Albeit my N-count being 3, I feel I sleep very soon with the men I have been intimate with and hence the men do not want anything serious with me. I slept with my 1st BF within a month of meeting(Dated 8 month) , 2nd BF on 2nd date(dated 3 months), 3rd man turned into a ONS. " You're rapidly descending into a path you won't find it easy to get out of. Be careful. " I don’t know what to do. I can’t stop sex from happening because I like being touched by a man especially the one who says he is l…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 11:02 PM
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"...he just doesn't want to dance with women." is the honest analysis of what is going on in this guy's head. It could be that his wife is a terrible dancer, it could be that it brings up a past he doesn't want to indulge in, it could be a ton of things - but at the end of the day the result is the same, he doesn't want to dance with women. The woman in question feels entitled to change her husband's preference about dancing as opposed to accepting it as a fact - and she's even hurt or anxious b…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 10:47 PM
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I've been in relationships with girls with trauma in their past. There's a time and a place to tell it. Some girls hold it in a long time, some have an eagerness to confess to anyone who will listen. Do what's right for you. But it is something that has to be communicated clearly in any serious relationship. There are things about you that will likely be 'damaged'. Guys need to know that going in. If it's something they can't work around, then its best for both of you if you never get together. …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:36 AM
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You are your own worst enemy. You're already caught in a hypergamy cycle, weighing these two men in your mind, biding your time to see which one will be the absolute best. There's vetting, which is useful and necessary, and then there's is hypergamy, which will just waste your time and cost you real opportunities for love and fulfillment. Women love a good ol' 'omg who should I chose' love triangle more than anything else in the world. I don't think you're serious about either one and are just e…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:27 AM
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Here's an interesting note after reading this thread. All the male posters are saying "Yes, virginal/low count is best. This is especially true if you want a high value or rp guy. Many of the female posters are saying "It's not a big deal, you go girl!" The thread's title was: So what do men think of a woman’s past and hook up? ​
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:17 AM
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Are you married?
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:10 AM
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" I have been on multiple dates with many guys. " Why are you dating these guys if you don't want a relationship immediately? " Due to my work, I do not want to be in a relationship immediately. So I want to explore more, maybe be have causal relationship, fling or hook up and see what all is out there. " I'm getting the same feeling I get when I'm watching the opening scenes in a Final Destination movie. All the dangerous objects and events are slowly converging together, tension is building st…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 08:41 PM
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" ...is this normal " No. " Is this man worthy of being a captain ?" No.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 08:24 PM
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" he looks so bored and annoyed with me. Sometimes I feel like maybe he thinks I suck compared to other girls he used to dance with. " ...he just doesn't want to dance with women. It has nothing to do with you. Leave him a lone about it. " I tried talking to him about it he just told me dancing is silly for guys. But he does dance with his friends sometimes at the military parties they have. (not with women) " Completely different. Leave him alone about it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 08:00 PM
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" How can I maximize my looks, " Keep your body fat down. Develop some (But not too much lean muscle). Go to the gym. Watch videos on form if you can't afford a trainer. And if you are there, there will likely be people who will offer you advice - though not all of it right. Dress femininely. Put serious effort into appearing feminine. Grow and style your hair as long as possible. A female's SMV or RMV is overwhelmingly about looks. That's simply how it is. " I want to become the physical embodi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 07:44 PM
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" which leads to greater success as women generally aren’t attracted to men who try too hard to get them or please them. I’d argue that women also benefit from some level of abundance mentality, albeit not nearly on the same level as men do. " Little boys and little girls are different. We *want* you to try too hard to please us. We do NOT want you to have an abundance mentality. Guys who try too hard communicate weakness and a lack of options. Girls who feel no need to try hard communicate enti…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 07:16 PM
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