Cailyus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I love books! However more than that I love PRACTICING books!		Cailyus	/r/seduction	31/10/15 05:21 PM

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1	Three Books for Better Sex Seems like it. But I'm legit interested the first book O.o	/r/seduction	06/11/15 08:56 AM
3	Today I hit rock bottom: Seduction will not save you. My mantra, that I adopted from someone else is "Stay on the Rise" If the woman doesn't want to let me take the time to improve myself I'll let her fall by the wayside.	/r/seduction	06/11/15 08:55 AM
1	Today I hit rock bottom: Seduction will not save you. Thanks for sharing. I'm gonna hold on to that one! :)	/r/seduction	06/11/15 08:53 AM
1	Some sound yet inspiring advice please Wow man that is a rough decision to make. I'll tell you what, though. I don't know you or your life very well, so to make this decision for you would be a fairly hard thing to do. There's a balance to everything. Magic is a risky business to be in and be good enough to make money off of (You could totally check out the Magic Castle if you haven't already) but the reward and the payoff COULD be huge, for you. At the same time, business and psychology are safer routes but still have some risk to t…	/r/seduction	06/11/15 08:48 AM
1	Do guys not approach because I am black; I am jealous of my roommate getting more male suitors and approachers Great question! I browsed your post history and I saw your pictures. In neither of them are you smiling! But not just any regular smile but your eyes also look sad. You have to remember that the first phase of most interaction is a lighthearted banter kind of small talk. If you're amused with the guy you need to show you are. Most guys won't follow a lead on someone who doesn't show they're interested. I know that I would bail if I did not get a girl to smile in 30 seconds or less.	/r/seduction	31/10/15 04:57 PM
4	Hey, Seddit lets talk about energy. Paul Ekman says that as much as your mood creates your body language your body language can also create your mood. When I'm feeling down and I need to pump up (I wait tables so I have to have positive energy) I reframe my self into the more confident self. I smile. Not just any smile but the biggest goofiest smile I can do and I take my problems in my mind and move them aside. It's helped me alot. See if it helps you too! :) stay on the rise! Edit: spelling error	/r/seduction	03/10/15 11:25 PM
1	Kind of new to the game, getting back into the swing of things. What could I have done better? The message cut off. Weird. What should I improve on aND what are the next steps for me? Getting the girl isn't important to me, but I'd like to make it happen next time but I can't evaluate what I did wrong.	/r/seduction	03/10/15 10:05 PM
2	Tinder Game and why you may want to avoid it. I feel like there's a way to go about texting. But you can't be serious. It has to all be playful banter. I don't know about you guys? I've not tried Tinder but I get lots of texts a day and I feel like, objectively, it's the same, right?	/r/seduction	27/09/15 06:57 PM
1	Went out last night and have some questions on things I need to improve on. Sounds like you already know what you need to improve on. Don't try too hard. Read strategy. Don't wait. As Mystery says, "Learn and go. Learn and go. Don't stop too long to learn. Learn and go." For the second bullet. I made a cheat sheet. I followed Neil Strauss's model and made a Cheat Sheet of things that have worked time in time out, and 2 pages of openers I want to try and banter lines that i think would work awesome. Third bullet, looks don't matter too much. How much you take care of you…	/r/seduction	27/09/15 06:54 PM
1	Terrible time going out solo - mindset and/or do I need to do something differently? If I were to do it I would google Models .pdf	/r/seduction	27/09/15 06:50 PM
1	Terrible time going out solo - mindset and/or do I need to do something differently? My understanding is there's 2 different approaches to this one. The first is the Mystery approach. Flood yourself in the experience. Sensory overload almost. For a month. The second is Mark Manson's method. Starting now go out and progressively ease your way into approaching. Like, take a walk, and say "Hello" to 10 people on the road as you pass by. Smile. Make eye contact. That's it. Next day ask some people about the weather, next day as about directions and time, next day ask 10 cute girls a…	/r/seduction	27/09/15 04:43 PM
1	How do I start? Additionally, if you see a book you like and would like to read, first go on google and add .pdf to the file name. See if that works	/r/seduction	26/09/15 07:28 AM
1	How do I start? A valid point here. Don't get in your head too much. Paul Ekman (Body language specialist from back in the day) discovered that body language creates your mood just as much as your mood creates your body language. Go to the bathroom and SMILE THE BIGGEST FKING SMILE YOUVE EVER SMILED EVER IN THE HISTORY OF EVER. Roll your shoulders back. Put them down. Relax a bit. Head up, chin in. "I got this"	/r/seduction	26/09/15 07:27 AM
3	How do I start? I used to be like you, trejo. Kissless virgin until I was 22 years old. I 'got lucky' after a while. I couldn't do it again for a while. I had decided it's time to fix that. Here's EXACTLY how you start. You arm yourself, learn the phases of attraction, learn some banter or some openers, have a trick or 2 ready. And open. Open. Open. Open. It takes a lot of practice to get over the crippling fear of anxiety. Once you learn how to open, study body language. Study your body. Look at the mirror. Do…	/r/seduction	26/09/15 07:25 AM