TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

CaladhanBrood Archive

View 1 posts and 58 comments by CaladhanBrood on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

CaladhanBrood/r/askTRP06/12/15 10:07 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
5

Exactly the same. When I started seeing some of the top contributors to this sub start claiming Trump is an alpha, and is worthy of Potus...holy shit. It baffles me how the more logical, masculine men of this Reddit look up to this guy. Listening to him for 10m shows you he has no frame, has no idea what he is talking about and is a child. Honestly. I don't believe people like the EC's actually think this. I believe they would rather vote for Trump who, for all he is not, is someone who is not e…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 02:50 AM
2

I'm a south East Asian living in the West. One culture has this expectation and it's pretty deeply engrained. In our religion, taking care of the parents is heavily ephasised. How you do that is up to you so long as you do it. It happens to be the case that in our culture the eldest son remains with the parents along with his wife and they run the household while looking after his parents. This is the position I will be in if I get married. From my perspective I'm more than happy with the way th…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/16 09:39 PM
1

I may have fucked up here by engaging... I told her, "you are welcome to have whatever feelings you want, anger, frustration, whatever. However, those are your feelings. I have zero interest in sharing those feelings with you". "If you want to come hang out and have fun I encourage you to do that.... I don't see the problem with these two statements (maybe someone will correct me). You set boundaries and let her know you won't accept her crappy behaviour without using butt hurt language. Then yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 09:59 PM
1

Completely agree about forging your own path. My point was though that TRP lacks that...."something"....that can really turn a boy into a man. Or maybe it's there but gets buried in the sea of voices due to its sheer size.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 01:40 PM
2

Super interesting comment. I'm probably the youngest member of MRP at 22, and I relate to members of this sub far more than members of TRP. The lack of maturity has been brought up by a few members here already. Given the forum is full of younger guys that's to be expected, but I find there doesn't seem to be a guiding hand behind them helping them to improve as men (something this sub does well, albeit a bit more brutally). Instead, far too many threads in TRP turn into a circle jerk of validat…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 02:43 AM
1

But he owned his lawn mowing like it was the most natural thing in the world to trim your edges after dark. I have a confession. I have a bit of a man crush on Lawnmower Guy. Sometimes, when I'm alone I play this scene in my head and it makes me smile every time. If I get married, I will try to be like Lawnmower Guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 09:53 PM
3

First, this is a brand new account. My wife has made a habit of going through my 'old' account, and I'd rather not have that happen anymore. I don't care so much about the questions, or occasional shit tests (I'm a child?!?). I care more about the loss of the mystery and mystique that can be laid bare when my wife sees the playbook. I want her to see the product, not the process. It ruins the fun for both of us. Consider using your old account for other subs, and maybe even to post the odd comme…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 08:23 PM
1

Damn, I completely forgot about the less attraction due to losing weight. I can't believe I've been making an effort myself to control my weight. All those pizzas and burgers and double milkshakes I've missed out on! Not to worry, I'll eat more than enough from now to make up for them....
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 08:10 PM
8

I've literally just woken up, but here goes: 330 x 0.3 = 99lb of fat that's currently on you. If you knock off 65lb of fat you now weight 265lb with 34lb of that being fat. 34/265 x 100 = 12.83% body fat. If you want 15% you need algebra. X is the amount of fat to lose: (99-x)/(330-x) = 0.15 Multiply both sides by your new weight 99 - x = (330-x) * 0.15 Multiply out the bracket 99-x = 330 * 0.15 - 0.15x Add x and subtract 330 * 0.15 to both sides to keep it balanced and get like terms on one sid…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 10:44 AM
1

It seems to be a common theme. Marriages seem really take a hit once kids come on the scene (as expected). I'll have to try and plan for this if I reach this stage. Good luck man, though it seems you're well on your way to pulling things together.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 03:35 PM
7

Don't forget that you belong to me. Eesh! Missed opp. The first thing that came in my mind here was me coming up to meet her, connect foreheads together, push back with mine for a bit of dominance followed by an ass slap and a, "No baby. You belong to me." Regarding the pill. The pill is known to fiddle with a woman's hormones and her hormones are already changed due to having given birth two months ago. Make sure you've done your research properly here. In your shoes I'd consider going natural …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 02:20 PM
6

I'm a bit confused. You've only found MRP for a couple of months, and you already want to start the Main Event? You have not given yourself enough time to improve or your wife enough time to catch up with the program and see that new you is here to stay. How long had you let yourself go for? Years? If so a few months is not long enough to get her used to New Improved You. Also, your narrative didn't sound bad at all. Your wife didn't sound anywhere near as bad as some of the other stories I've r…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 12:03 PM
2

I didn't understand why someone would improve themselves consistently while their woman is the way she is and still keep her around. Your comment about the sparring partner made complete sense though. I'd read it before but had forgotten it. That's a mentality I can get behind. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/16 01:09 PM
1

As a Muslim I had to look up what that phrase meant. Not a story I've heard but interesting the phrase exists. *sigh* damn infidels. Am I going to have to start breaking legs again? Getting serious now though. Did she become like this before or after kids? I have a really difficult time putting myself in some of the shoes of the guys here. I don't know how you all handle it. I would have mentally checked out long ago. That's not meant as a brag, the total opposite in fact. It takes strength to k…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/16 12:41 AM
2

I'll leave the RP stuff to those with more experience. I find the rest of your post quite fascinating. I've seen quite a few people talk about certain psychedelics and how it has had a profound effect on them, giving them clarity on things that were affecting them under the surface allowing them to come up with solutions and free themselves from whatever was holding them back. If psyc's give you mental clarity (and you know what you're doing), and help you to be the man you wanna be, you do you …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 12:00 AM
1

Good to hear from you again! Yep I've done some reading, and I've started a couple of days ago (I couldn't start earlier due to exams). Right now, my workouts are not intensive. Due to the fasting hours, I have a pretty small window to eat. So I'm working out more to get into the routine at the moment. I'm only slightly sore the next day as opposed to pretty damn sore like I should be given my current strength (or lack thereof). I like your linking. I could say a handstand press-up, or a human f…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/16 02:55 AM
1

So many things to do in so little time. Once this month is over and life becomes more normal again I will. I think I'm aware of which principles you're talking about, however, I'm not sure how I can practice those tenets without them conflicting with my faith. It seems impossible. Take game for instance. Who do we practice game on? Women. Yet my faith has a pretty strict code of conduct when it comes to gender interactions outside family/your own spouse. Flirting is definitely out of the questio…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 09:46 PM
0

Your father sounds like every young teenagers dream. Him giving you that certainly helps explain why you are a sexual degenerate. Hah! My father on the other hand never even brought it up. Maybe he thought I was born with the knowledge? Or maybe he looked at my A* Math Grades and thought, "Smart boy, I'm sure he can figure it out himself." And here I am, asking some stranger to draw me diagrams...
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 02:32 PM
1

Your first paragraph. I don't know what to say. No, it doesn’t. I never said I would give up, just that the task is incredibly overwhelming. Take this scene from the movie World War Z: https://youtu.be/ZpJoMuuE3Eg?t=155 It’s not that nobody should try. It’s just that the only way to effectively change the church is to take cover, hunker down and pick off whomever you can. It’s all about the long game. Some men are fortunate enough to be surrounded by good, but unworked soil. Some, like me are in…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 02:24 PM
2

Thank you. I was unsure if it was worth writing about them as I didn't know how well other people would relate/care. In the end I decided to write it for my own accountability. My goal is something like this. He looks a beast, his size is just right since I'm not interested in getting huge. I love the athleticism, speed, flexibility and strength. Also you were on the money about me not starting from much. I'm completely new to lifting anything and am pretty weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 03:59 PM
1

I will definitely start off with bw exercises. I'm so new to lifting that right now it likely won't matter. More so than that though, the conversations on bw vs lifting has ignited quite the curiosity in me. Seeing as bw seems to be the underdog, I'd like to dedicate some time to see just how far I can go on bw alone and experience it for myself. If nothing else, it'll get me in a routine of working out and prepare my body for heavier lifting later. As for the bigger, I don't share the love for …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 03:41 PM
3

Wait what do you mean about different anatomy? Can you draw me a diagram?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/16 03:26 PM
1

Thanks for your reply, I've thought about it quite often since reading it. I'll continue with the bw training for a few months and if it doesn't work I will shift to the free weights. I realise I might be wasting time with this experiment, but I am genuinely curious to see what happens. Ok, it is hard. You're still not doing it. I'm doing it! So far so good. Suppressing your sexuality sounds like the opposite of being alpha. Agreed. More on this later. A masculine man can have no code and be a r…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 04:42 PM
1

I better understand your issues with my post. Fitness - the bar, while defective worked. It hung onto the door frame and I used it, 3 times a week. The defect was in the part which hangs above the door frame in that it wasn't angled at 90 degrees, but less which I didn't realise until I noticed the damage to the door frame over time. I should have replaced it by now, so from that aspect I guess it would be fair to say I've half assed it. Regarding the body weight, I'm genuinely curious as to why…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 12:59 AM
1

I lol'd at the feet comment. It's less look at your feet and more don't stare at that nice ass walking by. But my fault for not explaining that clearer. I disagree with the rest. I don't think RP, and MRP in particular, is mainly about sexual strategy. MRP is about making boys into men, a byproduct of which is that sexual strategy improves. Lifting, frame, OI, these are all qualities of men which happen to positively affect SS too. I realise most men want to improve themselves for the purpose of…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 07:00 PM
1

In the happy wife scenario you gave, I wouldn't be annoyed at the guy. He needs to vent, ok. If I need to calculate my calories I'd be ok with excusing myself politely and go do my own thing. No anger issue. The things I get annoyed over are far more insignificant. I am noticing however that this issue creeps up more whenever I start a major plan to change and improve myself. I believe this annoyance is simply a way of deflecting and channelling my own disgust at my weaknesses rather than anythi…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 06:36 PM
5

It's been a few weeks since my last post. There hasn't been much to say since I've been mainly focusing on my exams, trying to salvage what I could given I had fallen into the entertainment junkie lifestyle for quite some time. During this time I had met and maintained some of my spiritual goals, mainly the goal of performing 2/5 prayers every day with some days hitting 3. Now it's the second day of Ramadhan which is probably the most important month in the Islamic calendar. It's the spiritual e…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 02:14 PM
2

Would you be attracted to your wife if she became morbidly obese? Would you happily have sex with her when you need to lift a roll of fat just to find her vagina? If not, then don't feel bad about RP working on your wife. Just like a nice figure works on you, that's how masculinity works on women.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/16 12:01 PM
1

I'd appreciate if you could offer your thoughts to my reply to Westernhagen above. That bit about the woman being a victim, man that is repulsive and the guy some sort of predator, I can't even process that. But, there's no way others don't feel the same too. Especially the women, you know how catty women can be. Do you really think they all believe she is a victim? I think the case is more people are too afraid to say what they think and fear going against the religious leaders. But if they are…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 02:55 PM
1

But surely that shouldn't stop you from trying to effect a change, however small and however long it takes? Given Jesus (PBUH) was a Prophet, his crowd was a tougher crowd than any we will face. Shouldn't we follow their example and make an effort to try to change those around us, while maintaining OI? Yes it's difficult and yes it'll take some tact to make sure you don't rock the boat so much your ostracized before you start. Wolverine has done it and is finding success, there is no reason you …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 02:51 PM
2

I thought it would be easier not more difficult because you guys have scripture backing you up, unlike in the normal blue pill society where there is no authoritative text to refer to, just people's own subjective thoughts. I understand it's difficult for someone who may not be well known to challenge a priest's/pastor's interpretation of the Bible, but if done in a non-bull-in-a-china-shop way you should get some success? I guess I'm just wondering how RP Christians reconcile religion with TRP …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 01:42 AM
2

Is it not possible for you MRP Christians to challenge your church leaders regarding things like this and start changing the narrative, however slow the process may be? I see sometimes Christians say they've stopped going to church so they don't have to listen to this but as an outsider looking in, that seems counterproductive.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 12:26 AM
4

My regards to your father. I'm stealing this if (when?) I have children. I will tell them this, often.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 12:21 AM
1

Remember that attraction is non-negotiable, for both genders. Also remember that there is such a thing as a male hamster. Before understanding women you need to understand yourself. Once you realise that in the 20 stone scenario above you would react the same as your wife, that should free you, rationally if not emotionally, from your inability to understand your wife's reaction to you. Also think about your children. Religions preach in an afterlife which is eternal. If you're not religious, th…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 12:12 AM
1

I'm really not sure why this surprises you. We all have things which attract us to someone. For your wife, part of that attraction was your faith. You lost your faith, and with it that part of your attraction. Sure you might still have other parts which attract you to her, but they probably aren't as important. ~ Let's flip the script. Your wife's humour, submissiveness, nurturing skills are probably all things which attract you. If in a years time she became 20 stone, how would you react? If sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 02:44 PM
2

Are you doing this? I'd love to know how it goes. I find it fascinating that bogey's wife never complimented the the oral he gave. I get her wanting to please him, but the silence on her own pleasure I don't get.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/16 02:37 PM
1

That's a nice verse. Difficult to live by for many religious people. Religious people often want to preach their faith to others as they want to spread that light and knowledge to those around them. Most religions also make a point of proselytizing. As a result, people of all faiths struggle to find that balance between letting others know what they believe and not saying anything at all. A lot become unbearable and people of faith have a stereotype of being holier-than-thou and just a general p…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 09:12 PM
2

I'm religious myself (not Christian) so I was interested in this thread. That said, I found it to be haphazardly written and wasn't sure what the entire take away was supposed to be. What was the main point of this thread? Was it aimed at religious people only? If not I struggle even more to see what non-religious people could take away from the thread. The problem with morality is who decides what is or isn't moral? Morality is subjective, and therein lies the greatest problem for modern societ…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 07:01 PM
1

The fact that you think Islam has been trying to take over the world since antiquity, for 3000 years does show your lack of knowledge. Especially since Islam hasn't been around for even half that time.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 05:33 AM
3

Well done on recognising the problem with your anger. Now, what steps are you going to take to deal with it? Anger is like fire. It can be useful in the right amounts, in the right situations. Most of the time though, it's a bloody destructive force. Anger directed at others is a way of entering hamster mode and blaming everyone else for your problems. Your anger from the list seems more self-directed which can really do a number on your self-esteem crippling your self improvement. I picked the …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 12:09 PM
1

You're not wrong on that. I'm trying to gradually increase my productivity lest I burn myself out like I did many years ago trying to do everything at once. I've since bought a book which I've started reading on bodyweight exercises. Bodyweight training from what I've seen so far seems something I'm more likely to enjoy and follow through with than the gym. I intend to get the toughest exam out of the way this week, then start to apply what I've read so far.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/16 08:00 PM
1

You bring up an interesting point, one which I (admittedly) hadn't thought about since polygyny is quite rare in SE Muslim countries, and extremely rare amongst Muslims living in the west. It's practiced more frequently in Arab and African countries. I imagine it could be made into a useful extra layer of dread, but can also end up going nuclear if the guy screws up how he applies it just like any other form of dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/16 07:57 PM
2

No worries at all. Until I have self discipline down I won't consider marriage. Might as well shoot my self in the foot Unfortunately, the problem of appointing the worst men as leaders is a human problem. Christianity, Islam, politics, nothing is immune. It's too easy for people to take advantage of events and situations to provoke an emotional and reactionary response from the people in order to gain power. The more powerful the emotion, the more effective the power grab. It all ties back to d…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 02:29 AM
1

You bring up a super interesting point. I can't comment on Judeo-Christians but they seem to be, in general, less strict. You even have the major split in Christianity of Protestants from Catholicism and its main cause was over marriage unions being immutable or not, with the Catholics considering it unbreakable. Regarding Islam, it is the most different of the three faiths so it will take some time to explain. Hopefully, it will give you a better understanding of how things work and at the end …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 02:07 AM
1

Thank you for the kind words. While I'm not a Christian (I'm Muslim), it's always nice to see other people of faith on here, as sometimes due to our faith we have to do things slightly differently than others. I know there are some Christian guys like Dalrock who do a super job of writing about TRP from the perspective of Christianity. I've read much of MRP and TRP forums over the last few months and have picked up many of the concepts just from threads alone. I intend to read the sidebar someti…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 07:24 PM
3

So here we go. How was the first week of improvement? Background thoughts The comments of u/CinnaMagister and u/Persaeus kept repeating over and over in my head all week. The first about how if you don't nail self discipline during college, you never will and the second about how I had a lot of 'I wills' and 'I shoulds' in my comment and to make sure I actually follow through. Another way of saying talk is cheap. Both of these comments worked as a kick up the backside as I recognise their truth.…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 10:05 AM
3

I used to be passionate about science and religion in my late teens. Then I lost it. I'm now starting to return to it. Contrary to what most non-Muslims believe, the majority of what's going on in the Middle East has less to do with religion and more to do with politics. Of course, religion does play a part. But when your child got blown up by a drone strike it's pretty easy to twist the religious teachings on war to get your revenge. Islam isn't a pacifist religion. Allahu Akbar - God is the Gr…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 08:59 AM
1

Background First time MRP poster. I've lurked on TRP for a few months and have picked up much of the concepts from threads by EC's. I'm not married, but expect to be married. I'm Muslim so my faith is very strict on relations outside marriage. I'm 22. Things I own Finally made myself write on here so I could be held accountable for my progress. Things I need to own Studies I'm in my last year at uni. I'm a pretty clever student but suffer from the disease plaguing many of my generation, procrast…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/16 08:55 PM
1

Hi. TRP lurker here. I almost never comment unless something like this comes up. I am a Muslim myself (and pretty serious). I'd like to copy and paste a reply I gave in another TRP thread about this idea that Islam promotes world domination: Muslim here. Hopefully I can clarify some things. Islam does not call for world domination. What it does call for is the freedom to practice Islam. If this is not possible due to hostility from those already ruling, then Muslims are required to emigrate away…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 11:58 PM
1

Muslim here. Hopefully I can clarify some things. Islam does not call for world domination. What it does call for is the freedom to practice Islam. If this is not possible due to hostility from those already ruling, then Muslims are required to emigrate away from their homes and settle in a place where they are free to practice their religion. This is what happened in Arabia with Muhammed. He along with his followers emigrated to Medina where the inhabitants were already majority Muslim. As the …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 11:12 PM
1

This is what I mean about taking a basic view of things. Isis didn't pop out of nowhere. They popped out of US intervention against communism whereby they supported the radical Wahhabi sect of Islam (same sect Bin Laden was from btw while the CIA trained him). Iraq has a major part to play in it. The shitstorm that ensued over the false (and illegal) war created a power vacuum which ISIS exploited. The enormous civilian casualties created beautiful propaganda against the US and the west in gener…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 12:32 AM
2

I agree completely. Threads like these scare me. This forum is supposed to be about RP men making rational, informed decisions. All these threads seem to do is bring out the male hamsters. I guess in some respects APALT sigh
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 07:27 PM
2

Funny. I don't think the hundreds of thousands of civilians didn't want to die either. Didn't stop the US from going into Iraq. I don't think those that are left still don't want to die. Doesn't stop the deliberate target of civilians still. But you keep making emotional rather than rational decisions. I hope for both our sakes we're never in a similar situation.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 06:49 PM
1

It always pains me to read threads like these. As a Muslim myself, it always pains me to see psychopaths like ISIS shitting all over my faith. It also pains me to read stuff from non-Muslims (like I'm assuming yourself). TRP is a superb sub full of excellent, well thought out and intelligent posts. To see a sub full of such high calibre thread produce threads/comments like these makes me lose hope in humanity, that people so clued on and open minded about one aspect of society can be so clue-les…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 02:27 AM
1

We have two campuses. One main one which has most of the facilities like computers, lecture halls, canteens etc. And a second one more sports orientated (hence where the gym is)....but it's not within walking distance. ~ Will do with the food. It's mostly rice and meat for me being Asian.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 11:42 PM
1

Thanks for the replies man. After lectures is definitely a no due to the gym location from uni, and the commute. It's a real bummer which is the reason I've been looking at home workouts. Do you think the chin up bar plan is a good idea? Any experience with them? I've heard nothing but positive things about them so it gave me some hope and motivation that hope exists.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 11:24 PM
1

Pretty much 5 days. It's a solid degree needing a lot of work outside lectures too. It makes it difficult to have a life outside. Luckily it's my final year, but I don't want to have to wait till I finish before starting to work out. I've heard about P90X. It's something I was thinking of doing in the summer holidays when I've finished uni because I'll have a straight 90 days of doing it properly.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 11:11 PM
1

Because of the commute. It takes 2h to get there, 2h to come back so every day 4 hours goes up in smoke just travelling. With lectures plus work I need to do outside lectures I have little time to go gym either at uni or in my home town. Weekends I work. Working out at home however, I can do it while listening to podcasts of some lectures that I missed (so I can get a full days worth of sleep) killing two birds at the same time.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 10:49 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter