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Yeah. It was a kind of nuke because she's told me before and I've tried to change but it didn't seem enough and she couldn't take it anymore.
/r/seduction30/09/16 07:29 PM
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Well, we didn't break up. We talked it out. I explained it was my first serious relationship and asked her to be patient with me. Since then things seem to be better but I'm still pretty lost. Thanks for asking though, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:31 PM
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This exact thing is happening to me. We're about to reach 3 months of dating and this monday she told me she wanted to break up because she felt she didn't have a boyfriend... And it's been going on since we first started dating.
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:16 PM
1

Nah, you don't need other people to congratulate you on running a marathon. You know you did it and that's confidence. You don't need external validation if you're truly confident. That confidence you speak of is just feeding your ego, a confident person doesn't need other people to congratulate him on his 2 plate bench, he's confident because he knows he can and most other people can't.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:01 PM
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Enjoy it. But don't make her your world or your mission. Appreciate her femininity. But never lose your own masculinity. Feel happy with her and let her feel happy with you. But always remember that maybe tomorrow, next week, next month, next year or 5 years or even 40 years from now she can and will decide to change. But for now, just enjoy it without compromising yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 11:35 AM
0

Jesus Christ. I don't see you dropping albums or making million dollar contracts. What the fuck are you talking about? Everyone is a consumer.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 12:31 AM
1

Browsing YouTube one day I stumbled upon SimplePickup, then /r/seduction then /r/theredpill. Admittedly, it was like a rabbit hole with no end but I've finally developed true confidence and I'm out of that angry bitter redpill lifestyle. But yeah, each one taught me a lot of things
/r/seduction10/05/16 07:37 PM
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Kind of. Women want their feelings to be validated when they start talking like that. They want someone powerful to listen, so their problems fell realer. Don't give advice unless they explicitly ask for it, because they're generally not looking for it.
/r/seduction04/05/16 11:42 AM
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This thread summed up pretty much.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 11:52 AM
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Well, what everyone says is true. But you feel sad. You cant deny that. You let yourself get attached to her and she did you wrong, these things happen and theyre actually good in the long run because it helps forge you as a man. Just take some time off, give yourself a week or two of loneliness. Lets be honest here, why go out if youre just gonna feel like shit. If you wanna come out ahead in this, you have to accept your emotions, whatever they may be, for whatever reason you have them. Theyre…
/r/askTRP27/03/16 04:22 AM
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Youre talking in fucking meme talk what are you going on about. He doesnt need a degree in psychology for his post to makes sense, which it does. It can be a bunch of bullshit but the point stands and if you cant see the underlying point then I have no idea what youre doing here, commenting or on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 12:35 AM
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Jesus Christ the people in this thread have, like, no social skills. Hes your friend so you want to help him, even if hes not your friend him being in your friend group in this state makes your group look worse, be the reason that it may be you want to help this man, heres what you do: You pull him aside and tell him: Dude, I want to talk to you about something pretty serious. Im not here to make you feel bad or anything like that, I just wanted you to know that your breath has a slight smell to…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 02:53 AM
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Well youre not a broke college student, you just dont have money for one day. Dont worry about it, as the other guy said just have them buy for you today and you get the next days.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:32 AM
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Just tell them, if they seriously drop everything for this 1 thing then they were some very serious gold diggers, not worth your time.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:23 AM
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Exactly this. This is their territory, their home you should help out, be it with helping your aging mom with lifting things or helping out with bills. You sound like a frustrated teen who gets his lol game interrupted.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 05:37 AM
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Yes, it's worth it. It's amazing to have someone you can hold dear and who you know actually cares about you, most of TRP is too stuck in the anger phase to be able to know or acknowledge this but yes it's so worth it. Just don't lose your value over her
/r/askTRP04/02/16 07:35 AM
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From the book of pook. It's definitely worth a read
/r/seduction11/01/16 10:14 AM
0

She already said she's done. It's over
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:36 AM
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Lol don't even be thinking about her looking for a provider in your current state, you don't properly understand redpill theory yet. Work on yourself more then start thinking about girls
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:32 AM
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"can't today, how about tomorrow? " you don't need to imply anything with anyone as the others have said.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 10:10 AM
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Damn. That video was great, thanks!
/r/seduction13/11/15 11:07 PM
1

Jesus christ yes it's all right stop overthinking it
/r/askTRP24/10/15 06:38 PM
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If you're looking into pickup or game just check out the /r/seduction subreddit.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 05:29 PM
2

What? I have braces AND chippedy two front teeth as a kid so 2 people told me not to eat apples, yet 30 minutes ago I munched on a big sour green apple lime a champ! Not a single complication.
/r/seduction26/08/15 07:53 PM
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Err, op. You're young. I'd say go for it, at this age girls aren't that used to going out as much as like a 20 something year old nor are they as comfortable with strangers. Make sure the friends are opposite sexes though
/r/askTRP10/08/15 04:41 AM
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Well, there are various ways of passing shit tests. Amused Mastery, Ignoring it completely, Agree and Amplify. It really depends on the situation at hand but the general rule is to not give a fuck.
/r/seduction05/08/15 03:02 AM
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Well it hadn't ocurred to me and O hadn't seen it around here so I wanted to share incase anyone hadn't thought of it either. Thanks for the input
/r/seduction03/08/15 05:24 AM
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That was a shit test, you failed. Read more.
/r/seduction03/08/15 05:08 AM
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Why does this even matter? This is completely useless.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 11:13 AM
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Ah, I see. Good to know
/r/askTRP07/07/15 01:40 AM
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Frame isnt standing there like a robot emotionless. Frame is not moving, budging or chaning your ideals just for another person. Frame is strength and confidence in your thoughts and actions. Not acting like James Bond.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:51 AM
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You have to set boundaries. What type of help do they need? Hard labor that consumes most of your time well you can't do that, you have your own business to take care of. Financial? Up to you if you want or how much. The most important thing is to set boundaries. Tell them, no I can't be here all day while you stay at home collecting profits. No, I can't give you money. Don't comprimise either, if you can't give them money then don't let them guilt you into it by saying "Oh if youre not here tha…
/r/askTRP05/07/15 02:30 PM
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Fat and Ugly girls get validation too. Social media has made validation so common that even the bottom of the barrel women need attention. But you know who gives this attention? The bottom of the barrel men. Yes, they need game. Yes, you need a higher SMV than them (shouldn't be too hard). No, you dont need THAT much game.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 02:24 PM
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Colombia here. Can not confirm, society is still a "patriarchy". The extreme American level feminism is actually shunned by women, they still have that "I wanna be a good housewife" mentality although its slowly fading away. Only time will tell for my little country
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:00 PM
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Pretty much describes it. Its a tool to help you become the best you but if you don't know how to use it then you're wasting your time
/r/seduction09/06/15 09:51 PM
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/R/theredpill
/r/seduction09/06/15 10:24 AM
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I might be late to this..but I have a question. How come my friend gets more women than me? I practice TRP, Game (I have inner confidence, I dont go around with canned lines), I dress well (ty mfa), I have a mature haircut, im bilingual, I have the best score on the yearly "SAT" in my grade, top 5 school, im incredibly confident with a strong frame. Im a natural leader reinforced more by trp. I have problems escalating, spanish being my second language means i fuck up my speech sometimes, but i …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 03:58 AM
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Wow. Sometimes TRP forgets women are humans too.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 05:22 AM
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You're looking for the word beta.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 03:39 AM
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Simple, she's giving you a genuine sincere compliment. No need to make a joke or tease her about it just a simple ''Thanks'' with a smile on your face while you look her in the eyes is enough.
/r/seduction14/04/15 12:36 AM
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Alright thanks for the explanation. I was a bit confused
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 05:32 PM
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Am I on fucking /r/SRS or /r/2xc? Did this guy seriously get banned for asking an opinionated question? Or am I misreading this thing.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 05:23 PM
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Kind of like when a mother goes to a school to try and fix whatever bullying problem her son has or something. In the end he gets bullied more because he had to go running to mommy
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:45 PM
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Try to project your voice, speak in a deeper more cool voice. You can search up how to do this online
/r/seduction18/03/15 10:52 AM
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No.
/r/seduction18/03/15 10:30 AM
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I find that, at long as it's not a super beta out-right expressing his love on fb, public. She will turn him down nicely. There's too much anger towards women on this subreddit lately and it's making us look bad.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 10:08 PM
1

What if i just want a fuck toy?
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:39 AM
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Unconscious Incompetence Conscious Incompetence Conscious Competence Unconscious Competence
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 12:00 PM
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You don't sell yourself. You make it so the woman sells herself to you.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 11:24 PM
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Then why be in a committed relationship at all?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 05:30 PM
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This has nothing to do with seduction
/r/seduction13/01/15 11:56 PM
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Of course! Withouth a doubt. I love teaching but I feel most of the stuff I know regarding TRP isn't relevant to the more elder.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 05:41 AM
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I approve of this. I'll try to message the mods. Edit: I messaged the mods telling them about some points in how it would be useful. Let's hope they reply back.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:05 PM
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Number 26 is bullshit. Why not take food from a woman? They're fucking woman not some evil fucking vile creature looking for your food and your dick with a kitch knife ready to stab you and take your sperm for your child support.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:46 PM
1

Well, what you do is read and read and read.
/r/seduction23/12/14 06:06 PM
0

Shh, don't say those 2 words. You'll get downvoted.
/r/seduction23/12/14 06:04 PM
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Noob question, but what's RSD?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 08:15 AM
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You have to remember something, everyone has a story, everyone is interesting in their own way.
/r/seduction13/12/14 05:57 AM
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Love you too brah
/r/seduction13/12/14 05:54 AM
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Shh...We'll get downvoted and banned and crucified.
/r/seduction12/12/14 08:06 PM
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Well, as to your first part. We ARE in a seduction subreddit where our aim is to pick up women. And if I tell people interested in picking up women that this can help with picking up woman, than it'll garner more attention. And the fact that i'm bad with english.
/r/seduction12/12/14 06:36 PM
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I don't see the correlation
/r/seduction12/12/14 06:35 PM
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It's not hard...Remember a certain conversation you had with ANYONE that made you like that person a lot more afterwards. It wasn't exactly what you talked about, it's usually more about someone being out there for you in tough times, or someone brightening your day after a shitty day or even realizing someone likes the same thing you like so you spend an hour or so talking about it. What's the common factor here? Compassion, uplifting conversations. Stuff like that. I'm bad with words.
/r/seduction12/12/14 06:31 PM
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Yeah, another redditor happened to know where it's from.
/r/seduction12/12/14 06:27 PM
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Exactly, that first part couldn't be better proof.
/r/seduction12/12/14 06:57 AM
1

Well, good on you. You seem to have your life in check, your comment gave off another vibe.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:43 AM
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This isn't about lifting, it's about finding a productive hobby. Sure you can have your injury, it can happen to ANYBODY and there's no way to prevent it 100%. But you CAN control what you do with your free time. Instead of spending your whole days playing lol (like I used to do until a little bit ago...) or you can find a hobby that's productive and doesn't need physical work. Maybe take up programming or woodworking. ^<sup>Woo</sup> ^<sup>Obama</sup>
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:42 PM
1

well then only play when your ONLINE friends are on. Not when you have to decide between online friends and real life friends.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:07 PM
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A lot of people here are talking about how. "nice guys get the girl in the end" but you have to remember nice =/= pushover
/r/seduction27/11/14 03:28 PM
1

Maybe because this doesn't have much to do with TRP?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 09:48 PM
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I don't see how pawning you're children or accepting to give them away like that is alpha behavior, I get the rest but unless his kids were useless you shouldn't abandon them like that
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:47 AM
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I choose b, the only thing I'm going to learn from winning back a girl is how to win back a girl
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:45 AM
4

Why give her so much value and time if you're nexting either way?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:29 PM
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If you'd actually go and read it instead of spoutting out lies you'd know none of that is true.
/r/seduction06/11/14 11:21 PM
0

Wow...I just realized how I fucked up a bit ago. I'm 16 so I'm not in this yet but I knew of its existence so I want in (planning parties and stuff) and I met 2 girls in this lifestyles, they opened up about it and the next time I saw them she was over me. I left her the same night
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 12:13 AM
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/r/theredpill
/r/seduction29/10/14 04:03 PM
0

Jesus this thread is filled with so many elitist people.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 10:34 AM
1

/r/malehairadvice can help you some more
/r/seduction24/10/14 11:48 AM
2

What's with the mass down voting of the guy? He's confused and angry. Let him be. By the way, I love your attitude! Keep going! Remember, hold frame. I recommend you read a bit more before cold approaching again.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 04:44 AM
1

Masturbation has its down sides and saying it doesn't is just plain ignorance
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 05:05 AM
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I feel this honestly just hamstering a reason to keep masterbating
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:46 AM
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What does that have to do with bring a neck beard?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 11:56 AM
2

I'm 99% sure you're overthinking this.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:48 PM
0

They're retarded either way.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:30 AM
1

Great community, be sure to read up.
/r/seduction27/09/14 09:17 PM
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/r/highseddit
/r/seduction27/09/14 08:23 PM
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Just do it! I'm 16 to and I've been doing it since right before I turned 15. The hardest part is finding people our age. The last 5 girls I've approached have all been 18. I've hit on more 19+ then 19- and by a large margin but its funner because they're not shy. Anyways just do it
/r/seduction25/09/14 11:28 PM
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"The best time to plant a tree was 30 years ago, the second best time is now."
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:16 AM
1

/r/socialengineering /r/socialskills Those while help you more
/r/seduction15/09/14 02:23 PM
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She doesn't exist, no fb, no video chat. Just a fat woman looking for validation.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 11:04 PM
0

I don't like this mentality. I hate when people flake, why book 3 meetings knowing I'm likely to flake on 2 people. Seems really hypocritical
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 08:44 AM
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1.Reading Core Red Pill books. 2.Recently started Lifting Seriously. Feels good breaking PR's in a matter of weeks of being serious. 3.Got a REAL social life, surrounded by new women and men nearly every day instead of the same old guy friends doing nothing. One thing I fail on is having a passion, a hobby. Fuck my passion used to be CoD, then Chess, then LoL. Then I realized how pathetic that was and have been looking for something, anything that can take up my free time but I can't find anythi…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:00 AM
1

So? You don't have to get on your knees, cry and beg. That shows a ton of weakness and it'll likely get you killed. Challenging the guy is fucking stupid.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 11:52 PM
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This is stupid. What if he got killed? We would NOT be saying "At least he looked Alpha before he got his brains blown out". What if you're dealing with a really fucked up individual and you try to act tough and get shot. Was it worth it?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:51 AM
1

After painfully reading through this. IMO, it's nonsense. NoFap is useless and has even less impact on game
/r/seduction11/08/14 10:28 AM
1

How in the world is Facebook beta?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 02:32 AM
1

Hey man, you should stop by /r/highseddit we specialize in these types of things over there. Mostly highschool game
/r/seduction12/04/14 11:09 PM
1

I'd text a bit (very little) and then set plans BUT make it a group plan, especially bring your mutual friend along so she doesn't feel so "in with strangers". From then on if you like her then ask her out on a date.
/r/seduction02/04/14 12:33 AM
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Just go when you're feeling good. You said you'd go out but slept 5 hours last night? Don't go. Works got you bummed out? Don't go. Something didn't work with a girl and you want to get back on track? Don't go. The thing here is that you can go whenever YOU want, this doesn't mean "only go at 100%" because you'll just bullshit yourself out of it.
/r/seduction27/03/14 09:47 PM
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Damn, I love you, I admire you. Honestly, you're doing great! This is a post im glad to see, a post which demonstrates just how cruel (so much rejection) the game can have. I severely underestimated this and it was kinda a blow to my confidence when I finally went out and got rejected a week straight. Keep at it! You're almost there!
/r/seduction25/03/14 10:14 AM
1

Is this real? Or is this a joke? Because some of the things in there are borderline cringy.
/r/seduction21/03/14 10:09 PM
1

Well, you hace to understand. Most of the people there are addicted to masturbation, they need that anti-propaganda. You cant expect someone to break an addiction while you tell them its great for you, its good, kta amazing.
/r/seduction17/03/14 11:20 PM
0

Are you kidding me? Exercising is the way to get fat!
/r/seduction26/12/13 08:04 AM
1

Exactly, making conversation with people makes them like you more, which can only be a benefit in any given situation.
/r/seduction15/12/13 08:30 AM
1

Dude, she's interested.
/r/seduction15/12/13 05:26 AM
3

My god, formatting fucked up.
/r/seduction15/12/13 03:47 AM
3

I haven't had a woman tell me "go away" never. And if I feel like i'm getting rejected I push harder but increase the jokes and attitude by about 2 just so I can have extra fun instead while getting rejected.
/r/seduction10/12/13 11:29 AM
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Stop hanging with this dude, prove your worth. Tell him "X, i'm not cool with the way you treat me, how you always call me fatso or nerd, shit's not cool. Stop. It. If you want to seek his validation like your post implies then just look him into the eye and tell him "Fuck You, atleast i'm trying to change something in my life, all you do is try to make others feel bad so you can feel "superior", is it working?" That will make him think about himself and reevaliate himself, but you will get what…
/r/seduction10/12/13 11:24 AM
1

Be confident and be yourself. She's with you for a reason.
/r/seduction04/12/13 11:16 AM
1

Ah, I don't get this, is there a visual representation of this anyehwere?
/r/seduction04/12/13 06:11 AM
0

It wasn't just that...
/r/seduction27/11/13 01:24 AM
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This...This makes me want to cry.
/r/seduction27/11/13 01:24 AM
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