| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 41 | Being a confident male and a good guy | Red Pill Theory | Calculus_Lord | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 07:06 PM |
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| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingThat sounds like a personal problem. And you just said that other men don’t get it for free: “he’d probably have to wine and dine her for multiple dates to get a scrap of sex.” All things considered, the prostitute is probably cheaper if this is the way you are looking at things my dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingNo you don’t dude. If sex is all you want any man can easily hire a prostitute. It’s not hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingOkay but you’re making this argument at the wrong person buddy. I’m also a man and it’s been years since I fucked. Get over it. It happens. It also happens to women. I guarantee you there are women that want to fuck twice a day and I guarantee you that there are women that want to fuck way more than twice a day but don’t get to. There are lots of women who want sex a lot and haven’t had any for years as well, you just haven’t talked and listened to enough people which is what I said original: yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingEveryone is a potential abuser. A surprisingly high number of men are abused by their female partners. That being said, I do think when it comes to daily interactions that women tend to have more bad experiences with men than the other way around so I agree with you that women being guarded is not irrational. However, I think the sentiment being expressed (or at least the most charitable version of it I can give) is that you shouldn’t treat people like they are a potential predator/abuser if you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingIf you think men’s sex drives are higher than women then I don’t think you have very much social experience with very many men or women. It’s incredibly varied for both men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Any tips to get into 'best-self' mode?Find whatever interests you and let your freak flag fly. Treat other people how you would want them to treat you. Make other people feel important and genuinely listen to them. Be generous with your time and with your money. Talk to others about what is interesting to them, not what is interesting to you. Weave your knowledge and interests into the conversation in ways that would interest them. Know when to keep your mouth shut and deliver up the real you, not come fake construct that you invent… | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 11:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.Spot on. Wish I had this figured out at 19 | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Being a confident male and a good guyOkay now I understand where you are coming from. I asked this for a reason Are you suggesting that in order to be alpha you have to be mean to other people? You make a lot of assumptions about me which aren't entirely accurate. But you did answer this question and I understand what you are getting at better now. You seem to have trouble grasping the notion that you can occasionally do nice things (and enjoy doing so) while simultaneously doing it for personal gain. Your premise that doing a nice… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/15 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Being a confident male and a good guyAlright. A lot to say here. You realize that fundamentally this is no different from what Beta males do? Whether or not they want to do it is irrelevant. There is no nuance here. They aren't all running around doing nice things for girls because they plan to get pussy out of it though that may be their hope, subconscious or otherwise) The subtle intimation here is a contradiction. You said betas don't always do nice things to get pussy but actually they do nice things hoping to get pussy. I'm sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/15 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Being a confident male and a good guycoming from a person who used to do nice things because i'd actually feel bad if I didn't Stop right there. That was your mistake. I don't do nice things for others because I'll feel bad if I don't I do nice things because I genuinely want to do nice things for them and enjoy seeing other people happy. It makes me feel good. I don't feel bad if I choose not to be generous at a particular point in time, I don't feel like its something I have to do. Its something I want to do. Thats the difference | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Being a confident male and a good guyIf you do this you will never be described as a "nice guy" you'll be described as a chill dude which is what you want. But lets face it, you're a nice person who is a guy; a nice guy. The term has been tainted though so I can see where you are coming from but people wont refer to you as a "nice guy" in this case | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 11:51 PM |
| 5 | Being a confident male and a good guyYou get it, except I don't seek retribution as I'm not vengeful. I just straight up leave and have nothing to do with that person anymore. I don't have time for ingrates | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 11:49 PM |
| 0 | Being a confident male and a good guyGenerosity is its own reward, however benevolence without temperance is simple foolishness and naïveté. This was addressed in the original post. Like Robert Greene said Of course you must keep generosity under control. Giving too much can be a sign of desperation, as if you were trying to buy someone. I'm not talking about unconditionally bending over backward for someone else. I'm talking about being generous and amicable so long as your generosity is not being taken advantage of. As soon as so… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 11:48 PM |
| 3 | You can distill all Red Pill knowledge down to one word: VALUE.Maybe I should post something about it. I think I will when I have the time | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 06:05 PM |
| 1 | You can distill all Red Pill knowledge down to one word: VALUE.The reason I said that was because OP was talking about how he realized he was more valuable than his ex. This is still measuring your value in relation to others. I have a similar story to tell about my ex. I don't think I'm more valuable than her but I don't think I am less valuable, in fact I don't think about that at all. I have no animosity toward her, she is a good person but she has issues like everyone else does. I don't measure myself in relation to others. I consider myself valuable, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 06:03 PM |
| -2 | Feminism: It's not about equality, its about inequality that favors women.I live in the United States. The issue with feminism is that its a loaded word right now and some of that is not entirely undeserved. Feminism is still a useful thing particularly in relation to people of color. Women of color for example have unique problems that are separate from white women. In fact, white feminism is often looked down upon right now because it tends to marginalize experiences of women of color. This is my point though, there is a lot of internal debate in feminism going on r… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 05:54 PM |
| 22 | You can distill all Red Pill knowledge down to one word: VALUE.In general a good post. Only thing I have to say is if you are still measuring your value in relation to others you're still fucking up. Self-actualization is attained when you realize, what other people think doesn't really matter. What matters is what you think of yourself. Do you like yourself? Are you happy with yourself? Do you enjoy being around you? Do you think you are doing cool things with your life? If the answer is yes to these questions who cares what others think. Oh one more thing… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 09:28 AM |
| -1 | To the "victor" goes the spoiled vaginaI was thinking about this for a while because I have an issue with the girl saying "So what if I’m sleeping around with thirsty dudes right now? I’m enjoying the single life… But I’d never marry any of the guys I’m having one-night stands with lol. Like I said, I’d only marry a feminist guy… But most of the guys I sleep with are definitely NOT husband material! They’re sexist jerks lol…" I think I've figured out what exactly I don't like about this. She comes off as fake as fuck. I agree with th… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 09:13 AM |
| -11 | Feminism: It's not about equality, its about inequality that favors women.I'm going to be the dissenting opinion here and say this whole thing is full of shit. As someone who has many friends who identify as feminists and as someone who identifies as a feminist and as someone who also supports the seduction community; I'm going to say feminism is not about inequality or female supremacy. Feminism is a complicated topic with a lot of different viewpoints in it and yes there are people that identify as feminists who are over the top but there are also a lot of people wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 08:30 AM |
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