CalebBrightmore Archive

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3	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Essentially, yes. It's about observing, but not engaging, your environment, body processes, and thoughts. Basically, find a quiet room and stare into space and gently try to empty your thoughts. It helps rest your mind and clear out all of the mental garbage. It sounds nonsensical, but there have been many recent studies showing its benefits … like this one from Harvard from last November. Personally, as an anxiety sufferer it's helped me recognize truly damaging thought patterns, which other me…	/r/seduction	19/02/15 01:32 PM
3	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game That's what I've found. Not to pull this into an anxiety post, but I find when I search for things to say in the moment they never show. But if I just slightly filter the first thing that comes to mind I rarely have any issues. The interior monologue just spirals otherwise.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 08:19 PM
39	How You React To A Woman Effects Your Game Meditation can honestly help with that, and working on generalized anxiety. I've been doing both … quieting my brain overall … and it's really improved my comfort level with this scenario.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 07:44 PM
3	Simple eye contact trick for sexual tension. It's human nature to look away, or scan their entire face every now and then. Staring like this is just … creepy. Hopefully they're only doing this "technique" for 5-10 seconds tops. Anything beyond that will find you alone, waiting for the next set of eyes to freak out.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 02:13 PM
7	anon gives some advise That's literally what I do. I have a binary attraction with women. Attractive & not. Most fall into attractive, but if they don't there's no chance.	/r/seduction	18/02/15 05:23 AM
8	anon gives some advise Of course that's person to person, mixed with your expectations. I think a lot of guys just expect sex to somehow be hotter because a woman is traditionally attractive. With every woman, whether a "1" or a "10", I always put my expectations on the floor with our clothes. Let their skills impress you, not your idea of what they should be.	/r/seduction	17/02/15 10:50 PM
4	anon gives some advise Just referring to general/stereotypical western attractiveness. I've been attracted to 10's and I've been attracted to 4's. It's really whatever works for you. But a lot of what goes on in this sub is nothing but attracting the hottest woman in the room. What the 6/10 saying is referring to is that every woman has worth and needs. Lower your standards just a touch and live up all the attention you'll receive. An old adage I've always lived by, "Leave the 10 for the suckers, go after her friends"…	/r/seduction	17/02/15 10:35 PM
53	anon gives some advise I can't stress enough the 6/10 comment. Who the fuck actually cares how hot the woman/man you're fucking is? The stereotypical 10's have had the world handed to them. They're ridiculously social, have charm oozing from every pore, and they'll let you know it at every single opportunity. Good for them and their 10 counterparts. Never underestimate how good a "sub 7" will make you feel if you give them attention and a good lay. If you put an ounce of care into what you're doing it'll be more than …	/r/seduction	17/02/15 08:33 PM
2	Question about "juggling girls." Don't go completely silent, or ignore her. But don't always write the 500 word response. Don't message back immediately every time. Let it sit in your inbox … just be careful if your phone tells them when you read it. They might see it was read and get upset. I made the mistake of messaging too much with a girl, as I'm naturally very texty. One day it was fine and fun, the next I was overbearing (literally). Too bad, too. Best sex I've ever had.	/r/seduction	05/02/15 10:37 PM
1	Question about "juggling girls." That's probably a good plan. Just don't over text, or get too lovey. I usually text when I get home from a date, with a few back and forths. Then I let it cool for a bit until one of us breaks the silence to plan the next time. It's not wrong to let them know you actually care about them, but make it sound platonic. If you can't see them for awhile it's not bad to break the silence to let them know you're dreaming of them in your lap.	/r/seduction	05/02/15 10:10 PM
2	Question about "juggling girls." Treat them like you would any other female friend … then add sex. Depending on the person feel free to divulge things to them, but yeah definitely don't get too lovey with them. I hang out with my FWB all the time (2-3 hours max). Dinner, wine, sex, chat … maybe throw in an episode of some show now and then. Just make your intentions very clear. They'll definitely let you know if they're moving on.	/r/seduction	05/02/15 10:06 PM
6	I had a huge revelation I wanted to share about just slowing down and taking your time. I play it slow all the time, having a connection other than sex works wonders to keep women interested in you. I practice a very casual Friends With Benefits model that women seem to enjoy (I'm in an open marriage, so I legitimately don't have much outside time). All of my partners are women I can actually hangout and spend time with. Some are more sex focused, others are 50/50, but every one is a potential last minute booty call. I know them, their sexual preferences, and what works to get them…	/r/seduction	05/02/15 06:40 PM
1	Texting after first date troubles / failures. And the fact that what takes you days to setup she can do in 5 minutes. It is what it is, just move on to the next one.	/r/seduction	30/01/15 04:33 PM
1	Why you should keep pushing, getting rejected, and feeling awkward I like that. I did this to myself for far too long.	/r/seduction	28/01/15 04:30 PM
5	Creating sexual tension Yeah, I feel the same. I know a lot of guys have with trouble this stuff (me too sometimes) and are looking for a quick fix. Just be casual, don't be needy, be genuine. Any woman worth your time can spot game tactics immediately… they have the internet too ;)	/r/seduction	27/01/15 06:21 PM
1	Can't speak for all women, but for me, and many other women I know, this is how you keep seducing a woman throughout a relationship. The maintenance is just as important, IMHO. Very good. Honest question … like most men I do have occasional P.E. issues, especially when really excited. It always passes, and the jack hammering can begin in earnest. As a woman, how would you suggest I handle my handle when it comes up? I wonder if that's the cake batter swirl you mentioned? Disengaging and cooling a touch so you can reengage.	/r/seduction	22/01/15 10:23 PM
1	Can't speak for all women, but for me, and many other women I know, this is how you keep seducing a woman throughout a relationship. The maintenance is just as important, IMHO. Not bad at all. Obviously, your results will vary. But being a little aggressive is hot for all involved.	/r/seduction	22/01/15 10:18 PM
2	How should I respond to "You're too old for me"? I've been with two 18-19 y.o. in the last few years. One was fairly sexually active in high school, and loved being with older guys … she was trained well. Honestly, it's not hard for a woman to please a man with just the basics, lol. The other has only been with 2 guys her own age. It's been my pleasure to show her the joys of a skilled lover. To anyone reading … everything is above board. Everyone involved is aware of the entire situation, there's no misleading. It's my hope that when she move…	/r/seduction	22/01/15 06:04 PM
3	How should I respond to "You're too old for me"? It's all about how much you're willing to deal with. Are they immature? Fuck yes. Is the sex hotter than anything you remember when you were that age? Beyond all reason. She has the insatiable libido, and I have the skills only a man with experience can have. I set expectations, don't let her get away with too much immature shit, and do my best to be a genuinely good human being to her. My wife has complete trust in me, and I honor that by being a good man. Win/Win/Win.	/r/seduction	22/01/15 01:21 AM
4	How should I respond to "You're too old for me"? Exactly. 31 here, open marriage, occasionally see a cute 18yo. Zero fucks given.	/r/seduction	21/01/15 10:38 PM
1	A Paradigm Shift (Are We in The Community Emotionally Unstable?) Me too. We just view it as not OWNING each others affections. I earned those, and as long as I keep being best friend material I'll have them for life. Takes a lot of work, but every good long term relationship should. "Ethical Slut" and "Opening Up" are pretty good primers on the subject, if you're looking for where many freshly non-monogamous couples get their info.	/r/seduction	07/01/15 09:11 PM
2	A Paradigm Shift (Are We in The Community Emotionally Unstable?) That's exactly how we see it. Getting all sappy, we do truly feel that if we spread good sexual feelings around we'd all be happier. Think about it … if every man "let" their woman step out for the purpose of sex, every man would have more available sex. AND, if they're not looking for Mr. Perfect, a woman is more likely to sleep with men she normally wouldn't. Yes, studies show women currently looking for casual sex can be very demanding (batting higher), but that's because they're a rare commo…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 01:08 PM
3	A Paradigm Shift (Are We in The Community Emotionally Unstable?) I can definitely see your point. Currently in an open marriage, living and breathing my wife, and spicing things up with women on the side. For me at least, it's an amazing mix. The only nights I don't have my woman to come to is when she's with another guy. But I'm usually out with another woman those nights anyway. And when we're stressed out with one another we go have angry sex with someone else, then talk it over in the morning. Also, I have various relationship styles with the others. Some…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 12:04 AM
1	One n00b's New Years Resolutions The eye contact point is a little iffy, but a good point overall. It's a fine line between staring and eye contact … you might be risking the creepy label, even when you're just across the room. With talking I learned that the speaker usually looks away some to gather their thoughts or emphasize something. The listener should be looking at them, but not necessarily directly in their eyes. Watch their mouth, check out that cute nose … just scan their face. Don't jump from point to point, just smo…	/r/seduction	06/01/15 05:07 PM