CalebEWrites Archive

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-4	The tricks to make yourself effortlessly charming If you have to use a trick, you're not "effortlessly" charming. Edit: I know it's easier on your ego to downvote. But try challenging the logic. You may actually find the answers you're looking for.	/r/seduction	02/07/17 04:50 PM
4	Want to ask a girl out, but you're don't know if she'll say yes? Here's the secret... ... I don't see any scenarios outside of school or work where this advice can't be applied.	/r/seduction	16/02/17 02:46 AM
2	Advice for building an attractive lifestyle after moving cities... Like this?	/r/seduction	08/02/17 02:46 PM
1	Anyone else good looking but bad socially? I think a lot of your problems are evident in this post. By what standards are your friends having "better" hook-ups or relationship? You claim to be getting a lot of girls. What exactly constitutes success for you? I've gone through a lot of this as well. Unfortunately, it's a battle that requires you to change your entire view about yourself and the world. I talk about how I got through it in-depth here, but I'll give you a quick summary: Right now, your self-image is largely based on the way …	/r/seduction	21/12/16 08:11 AM
2	My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop it The first step is to recognize all of these things you are feeling and accept them. You're pissed that your buddies are befriending the dude who your ex cheated on you with? Good. You're aware of that. Feel it. Accept it. Now, ask yourself what the source of these feeling are. I.e., what is it specifically that's making you feel miserable? Is it the fact that this man made you feel inadequate in the past, and your friends' acceptance of him is reinforcing that belief? Again, become aware of thes…	/r/seduction	04/08/16 05:58 PM
6	How do you deal with constant rejection from girls? Have any of you come from having no ability to getting girls? If you're getting a lot of negative feedback, that's an indication that you need to improve some aspect of yourself. How's your lifestyle? How's your diet and exercise routine? What are your goals? What do you have to offer a girl? Essentially, the one who cares the least has the most control in dating. You need to be more invested in your goals and opinion of yourself before quality women start investing in you. Now, this isn't an excuse to become a selfish, egotistical asshole. You just need t…	/r/seduction	16/06/16 01:17 PM
2	F*ck I'm such an awkward mess. There's a plus side to this; at least you realized your mistake. Don't beat yourself up over it. We all screw up from time to time. And it's in your past now. You've recognized that your social skills need work, so the next step is to make a conscious choice to start improving them.	/r/seduction	15/06/16 07:22 PM
1	If you approach and make even the most basic small talk with 1k girls over one year, a few are bound to say yes. There you go, PUA solved. Hey man, I feel this completely. We all have certain limitations. I've also had to battle depression as well, so I know where you're coming from. If you haven't already, I would strongly consider therapy. It helped me a ton. The biggest, most fundamental, breakthrough for me was realizing that we have to take responsibility for our lives. Yeah. Shit happens. Sometimes we're born with conditions that make it harder to interact with others. Sometimes our faces aren't that pretty. Sometimes we're a…	/r/seduction	02/05/16 04:46 AM
1	If you approach and make even the most basic small talk with 1k girls over one year, a few are bound to say yes. There you go, PUA solved. thats why you have to do all that shit to have some success with them if you are not above average naturally. I think the point that you're missing is that you're not supposed to "do all that shit" to get laid. You're supposed to do it because it makes you a better person. And that, in turn, will get you laid. Think about it. If you're a hot girl, guys are probably going to hit on you several times per week. Of those guys, would you prefer the ones who live with their parents, work jobs they hat…	/r/seduction	01/05/16 09:06 PM
1	If you approach and make even the most basic small talk with 1k girls over one year, a few are bound to say yes. There you go, PUA solved. Maybe. But chicks have their own problems in the dating game too. Think of all the time they have to spend primping themselves up just so people can accept them for their appearance. All guys have to do is throw on some fitted clothing and cologne, whereas girls have to spend up to an hour doing their hair, putting on their makeup, choosing the right outfit, etc., just so someone will notice them. It's all pretty superficial, and this is why even the hottest girls tend to have lower self-esteem.…	/r/seduction	01/05/16 07:20 PM
3	If you approach and make even the most basic small talk with 1k girls over one year, a few are bound to say yes. There you go, PUA solved. Not exactly. The statement's pretty direct. Personally, I find the whole concept of an "alpha" misguided - and I kinda think it comes from a place of insecurity. I tried to "be alpha" the first few years I got into this, but I really just ended up acting like a needy douchebag. So, I think it would help if you got it out of your head that you need to act like an alpha or "be high value". Those are just dumb labels we use to describe confidence. But you don't have to "neg," "AMOG," or "DHV" to be…	/r/seduction	30/04/16 01:27 PM
59	If you approach and make even the most basic small talk with 1k girls over one year, a few are bound to say yes. There you go, PUA solved. I see that you're getting some negative comments, but it really is this simple. First, the more chicks you talk to, the better you will get. It's like a video game. Even if you know the rules, you'll probably suck at first. Repetition is the only way to improve. If you suffer blowout after blowout, that's probably an indication that you need to change your strategy. You need upgrades. Get a haircut. Get some fashionable clothes. Go to the gym. Read more books. Improve your body language, etc. Se…	/r/seduction	30/04/16 02:58 AM