Calemsonn Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
605	“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT	Conversation	Calemsonn	/r/seduction	19/04/26 11:57 PM
12	Those experienced, do you ever just know how the interaction is going to go based on her looks alone?	Outer Game	Calemsonn	/r/seduction	06/06/26 05:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	How tf do you actually build sexual tension ? If you’ve ever read the back of a woman’s romance novel, you’ll know that’s not true. The “safe” you’re talking about is just “being a nice-guy”. The best sexual tension is built when she’s feeling comfortable/safe with you. It opens the door for more flirting and fun.	/r/seduction	18/06/26 10:21 AM
40	How tf do you actually build sexual tension ? In my experience, that tension also has a lot to do with chemistry. I can flirt with a woman on a night out and she can give it back to me but the tension is still a bit.. flat. So while you can generate that energy, the tension sits in how she responds too. Another thing that intensifies that tension is comfortability. It’s now become rarer for women to give in and be safe with a stranger she just met (which is fair). Most prefer the slow and steady burn with someone they’re unsure of, meaning …	/r/seduction	18/06/26 01:10 AM
1	Is making a girl jealous a net positive? Sounds like this is more likely to go in your favour. Pre-selection plus not much attachment for you there. Gauge her reaction then follow her up.	/r/seduction	12/06/26 09:41 AM
5	Is making a girl jealous a net positive? It’s a risky move. Some girls will cut you off immediately but if you’ve been entangled with this girl for a while it could work in your favour. Does she seem more bound by her standards and values or does she just go with the vibe? That can tell you a bit.	/r/seduction	12/06/26 09:25 AM
1	Just feel absolutely shit… I get it, it’s really tough out there. Not to be reductive, but I like to look at it like fishing. Sometimes (maybe for a while) you’re just not gonna hook anything, but then there will be a period of time where it feels like you just can’t miss. It’s not something you can always control but the mission is to always increase the chances and likelihood of you scoring. So when the opportunity does bite you’re ready to reel it in.	/r/seduction	17/05/26 08:47 AM
1	I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that? Depends how long you’ve known this friend. A long time friend, no. This will feel out of the blue for her and random, she will think you’ve been harbouring feelings for her for ages. But with someone who you’ve known within a year or two, yes. It really depends on your dynamic with that person. Are you both warm and comfortable with each other? Or are things just mutual and friendly?	/r/seduction	02/05/26 02:11 PM
1	I feel like there’s no way shape or form that I can ever show that I think of a girl in a sexual/romantic way, how am I supposed to do that? Use insinuation. Flirting without being direct is usually layered. Saying “I wonder what we’d get up to if … happened” or if she says something that could be interpreted as sexual/romantic say “oh really? is that so?”. It spikes an emotion and insists it’s deeper than just casual conversation. You want the other person to think that there is something under the surface to what you’re inferring.	/r/seduction	02/05/26 04:25 AM
9	Women Act Very Goofy When They Like You…. It can range too! Some women will do their best to act like they’re unfazed, unaffected or show little emotion in order to keep their position of power in the relationship. Don’t be fooled just because they’re not showing obvious enthusiasm. Excitement can be bubbling under the surface if your eyes are trained to see it!	/r/seduction	29/04/26 08:12 AM
2	“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT If you’re 19 currently, looking for love is a very deep goal to have in mind. It won’t come easy and it’s a much rarer gem to find than just short-term relationships or hookups. Don’t give up, this is very early days for you considering what you want. It will take some time before finding your soulmate, but just enjoy college life for now while you look! Good luck!	/r/seduction	21/04/26 01:13 AM
28	“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT So true. The dating pool gets smaller and smaller unless you’re willing to settle. The saying “early bird gets the worm” rings true in my experience. Definitely teenager to mid 20’s is a great time to blunder and make your mistakes. Even if they can be painful.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 06:00 AM
13	“You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT I strongly agree. I think for those at the beginning of their journey, it’s better to take the risk than to be left wondering. Those with more to lose or more to sacrifice, well, each situation is different and should be handled accordingly.	/r/seduction	20/04/26 12:34 AM
30	is it just me or is malevolence way more rewarding for a guy I think how you’re feeling is pretty common. I had the same conflict going on inside myself back in the day. The benefit to being benevolent or just being yourself, sticking to your values and what you believe in, is that, theoretically, you should find others who are benevolent like yourself. A fisherman is only as good as his bait. If you’re acting like a pos, you’re only gonna get girls who love pos. That’s what they’re used to. The quality of women I met changed when I stopped putting on tha…	/r/seduction	31/01/26 12:53 PM
128	is it just me or is malevolence way more rewarding for a guy Guys like this are uninhibited due to the fact that they see women as inferior to them anyway, nothing that women say or think matters to them because they don’t care. It gives them an unfiltered way of behaving that many women find attractive as it insinuates confidence. But their intentions are malevolent.. To be aware about what women think is a good thing, but it becomes a problem when you let those thoughts and opinions affect who you are and what you think of yourself. Try your hardest not…	/r/seduction	31/01/26 10:22 AM
1	It's easy but there's an overwhelming sense of despair that comes from it Might be that you’re a lover boy at heart bro. Nothing wrong with that ofc, the womanizer life just ain’t for you.	/r/seduction	29/01/26 12:13 AM
1	I'm devastated and hopeless Sounds like you’re not over your ex at all bro. Other women can notice this drop in aura/presence as soon as you speak.	/r/seduction	04/12/25 09:10 PM
3	How to become a good talker That’s okay, most of the time you’ll never be able to find out exactly what you did wrong. You pick out what you think you could’ve improved upon within that interaction. This way you concern yourself less with what they think and more with what you think you need to improve on.	/r/seduction	15/11/25 03:09 AM
4	Have virtually 0 success with night game i don’t know what i’m doing wrong For a start, that’s pretty plain and straightforward. While it does work for some it doesn’t incite any excitement or showcase any of your personality. If you can’t think of something authentic on the spot, find canned lines to use next time you go out. A pickup line or a joke you find unique is better than just asking a question.	/r/seduction	06/10/25 03:08 PM
1	I want to learn how to flirt with my boss. like subtle, ya know. Not obvious shit that screams flirting. what do i say. She always gives me this look. She gives me this really sexy smily eyes look when she looks at me Some good advice here about having a secure identity first and knowing who you are. If you’re already familiar with this foundation, you can try flirting subtly at a sub-conscious level: - Hold strong eye contact - Tonality should be sultry/slow rate of speech - Initiate touch in neutral areas (arm/elbow) If she likes you, she should begin to mirror your behaviours or at least be open to your energy. If she remains professional or doesn’t return your vibe back to you then it’s a no-go.	/r/seduction	09/09/25 08:53 AM
5	How do you deal with ghosting? You don’t. You just have to have other things going on in your life more important than women, my friend. Unfortunately ghosting is big in modern dating. It happens a lot to women as well. Just think of it as them losing out on you instead of you losing them. You don’t want to be led on by someone who was only 50/50 about you. Better to be ghosted, move on and find women who actually like you.	/r/seduction	08/07/25 04:21 AM
2	Do any other men feel like it's impossible to make the first move? This piece of advice might go amiss but, leading her or getting her to follow you is an easy and smooth transition into hand holding. Simply say “let’s go this way, I want to show you something” and opening your hand for her to take is the most natural. Going in for the kiss at the end of the date can easily be done as well. Before she goes, say something like “are you not going to say goodbye?” Works like a charm.	/r/seduction	30/06/25 01:58 AM
7	You Can't Build Attraction By Texting Women This makes no sense. There’s plenty of online relationships being created with messages and texts alone. It can definitely spark new attraction. I would say that it’s not to be relied on though, it just has its own time and uses.	/r/seduction	26/05/25 02:44 PM
4	The feeling after your first approach is so freeing You will start to flow with enough repetition but having some lines memorised beforehand will help stop you from freezing up. It will be a mental checklist in your mind to tick off during your interactions so that you know what to say next.	/r/seduction	23/05/25 11:36 AM
2	Are clubs tough or do I just suck ? How do I improve my game ? No worries! I’m unsure what it would be like in Europe but I bet it would have its challenges being ethnic as I deal with that myself here in Australia. Best of luck to you, my friend!	/r/seduction	13/05/25 10:57 AM
8	Are clubs tough or do I just suck ? How do I improve my game ? In your particular situation, the turban could be a hinderance to the club scene in the US where looks take priority over personality due to the loud music. Maybe try approaching in quieter places first such as smoking areas, seating areas or even before you enter the club. It’ll be a lot easier to dance with girls if there’s some set up and personality shown beforehand.	/r/seduction	13/05/25 09:39 AM
23	What “just be yourself” really means “Just be yourself” advice is supposed to go hand-in-hand with the idea that you are emotionally and mentally okay with yourself too. If you’re getting told to be yourself but you’re depressed, out of shape, broke and you’re projecting that outward, then it’s not great advice to follow.	/r/seduction	12/05/25 02:18 AM
16	It is better to be rejected than to regret. Even if it seems inconsequential, the fact is that every new approach stacks upon the last one. As long as you’re mindful about it and trying to improve, even your rejections will move you forward. Better to live with the consequences than live with regret, my friend.	/r/seduction	09/05/25 07:15 AM
2	How to stop telling myself I’ll approach today then I end up walking around for 2-3 hours ? Go out with the intention to fail and get rejected. The objective is to get experience, not to pull off the perfect result but to make the attempt. Your skill and style will develop over time.	/r/seduction	25/04/25 12:03 AM
2	I had a perfect night without even noticing Good on you dude! It’s all about that confidence and forgetting about that self-doubt.	/r/seduction	01/04/25 08:14 AM
1	Boldly sexualizing WHILE calibrating accordingly Sounds like you need to be MORE direct imo. Get comfortable with expressing your sexual desires and intent with women you talk to.	/r/seduction	02/11/24 11:05 AM
5	Boldly sexualizing WHILE calibrating accordingly If you’re sounding immature or childish about sexual topics that’s a YOU problem and you should look at why you can’t take the topic more seriously without giggling through it. If you’re wanting to show more sexual energy through conversation without being overtly direct, the use of insinuation and misinterpretation go a long way.	/r/seduction	02/11/24 10:36 AM