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And that's just sad for the actual genuinely nice guys, who now get confused and think there's something wrong with them. as a woman this couldn't be more true. Women LOVE Nice (confident) Guys. Women fucking hate "nice guys". Sad when the former get lumped in.
/r/seduction20/02/19 05:49 PM
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not sure why you are being downvoted either. if someone is wanting something for nothing from you it's pretty reasonable to at a MINIMUM expect to be sure they're interested.
/r/seduction28/11/18 08:57 PM
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"I am not sure she'd agree to drive 30 miles to tag along to a total stranger's plans..." I am trying to build interest via snap to get her to agree to these things to begin with... She has no reason to do so rn. I am just another Tinder match.
/r/seduction26/07/18 08:18 PM
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example? she's a total stranger. I am not sure she'd agree to drive 30 miles to tag along to a total stranger's plans...
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:43 PM
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Not enough previous convo to tie anything in/reference. Basically went straight from Tinder To Snap. Want to send her a pic rather than just another text/question, also, or what was the point of escalating to Snap at all? sigh
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:32 PM
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Agreed. I really like the "can I kiss you?" question and have gotten very positive results!
/r/seduction25/07/18 12:44 PM
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"I was the first person she had ever been on a online date with and she was aware that I had been on many online dates and she could have thought I was too aggressive by going for a kiss? I don’t know." Same situation with mine, was her 1st online date, except I even asked "So can I kiss you?" (in a playful way) when I walked her to the car, got the go ahead from her, and we had a good, not overly-passionate but SOLID first kiss. This after a very enjoyable date. But then ghost. It doesn't knock…
/r/seduction24/07/18 08:47 PM
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Just had the great date - kiss - ghost happen. Ever figure out what happened with yours?
/r/seduction24/07/18 07:31 PM
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reference and try to get verbal confirmation for a second date while still on the first if you can. if not send a "make it home safe" ish text and play out plans for 2nd in it also "strike while the iron is hot" type thing
/r/seduction24/07/18 07:30 PM
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100% normal. Cultural thing for sure. If you don't like it don't date girls from those cultures, basically. They will always expect this. It is how they were raised. It is a simple matter of manners to them. A man who doesn't pay is the same as a man who chews with his mouth open, curses in front of children, ect. It is low class.
/r/seduction16/07/18 02:31 PM
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Bahahaha I wanted it to be a surprise at the end since I know this sub is probably mostly the fellas!
/r/seduction13/06/18 06:32 PM
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1) Trim don't shave 2) oh man, I'll try. Okay, take it SLOW. This will be your best bet. Just take everything slow and make it passionate (if that makes sense to you) and she might not notice. Only real way you can play this, imo. So start off by kissing slow. I like to rest one hand on the small of her back, and use the other to hold her cheek/face lightly. You are correct that your face will be at an incline. Don't open your mouth too much, just enough to let a tongue slip inside should she wa…
/r/seduction13/06/18 01:37 PM
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"sad girl" is better than "depressed girl" imo but same idea
/r/seduction26/04/18 01:13 PM
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Thanks for this, not OP but needed some of that "The whole idea of a seducer's conversation is that she's being lead to something, not just discussing your lives." was particularly helpful to me
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:34 PM
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Ignore the semi-rapey reasoning and responses here, okay? All you need to do: Say "Do you want me as bad as I want you?" during a particularly hot and heavy moment in your makeout, go from there. She'll let you know. As you said yourself, she has had sex. She knows when she wants it and when she doesn't. If she gives you the green light after you ask this, THEN start slowly*** (DO NOT RUSH> BIGGEST MISTAKE VIRGINS MAKE. SEX IS NOT A RACE. Take your time. It is your first time. Remember that. Enj…
/r/seduction25/01/18 05:58 PM
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This. My only addition is I usually play it so that whoever picked the spot, pays. This is considerate of people who make less $ than you do but still want to treat you. Say "Next time YOU can take me somewhere YOU like" or ect along those lines
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:19 PM
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GOOD HAIRCUT is by far number 1. Go to a professional. Spend the money.
/r/seduction24/01/18 09:17 PM
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Last part is super real and a sense of humor doesn't ever hurt. They like dark humor, typically.
/r/seduction24/01/18 09:15 PM
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This is actually really really accurate and comprehensive. I'd particularly highlight how important demonstrating value and social status can be. They also like negging (more than avg) and respond to it-- a tie in to the hot/cold mentioned.
/r/seduction24/01/18 09:14 PM
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Just be like "oh man I'm glad we're on the same page then!" and move on dude. Don't overthink.
/r/seduction24/01/18 09:12 PM
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Flowers + don't over think it
/r/seduction23/01/18 02:57 PM
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You could neg and be like "is that the best you got ;)?" but I guess it depends what your endgame is
/r/seduction23/01/18 02:53 PM
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I'm not sure what to tell you about what happened there, as I am a shit closer myself. But I can get dates like a mf, lol. Basically, all you have to do to open yourself up to see her again is this: Hit her up and be like, "It was fun to chill with you the other day. You should come over to my place next time so I can smoke YOU up and return the favor!" That makes you seem reciprocal and amiable. She should take the bait, and at that point you will be in your own domain.
/r/seduction23/01/18 02:51 PM
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Only 4 and 6 ... Saved you some embarrassment
/r/seduction09/01/18 06:13 PM
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Ask a lot of questions. People love to talk about themselves, even when they say they don't. Escalate intimacy of the questions as convo progresses. Example: Question 1: about an interest. Not personal. Easy to answer. Helps you guage what kind of person they are. What is your favorite book/movie/tv show/kind of music? Those are good, easy tier 1 questions. Question 2: about them personally, but surface level. Where are you from/where did you grow up? What do you do for work? What do you do for …
/r/seduction25/12/17 10:32 PM
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Like this: when they compliment you, if you are also attracted to them, say: Thank you. I think you're beautiful (have a nice smile/have great style/pick your compliment but reciprocate)! Would you want to grab coffee/a drink (coffee if you want to date, a drink if you want to smash) sometime and get to know one another a little better? Now that we've established everyone is attractive, haha (be playful). Ta dah. That's. It. Being direct works best 85% of the time.
/r/seduction25/11/17 12:31 PM
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