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If he moved on and let it go to "steer clear of confrontation" that would just be another silenced victim. It's bullshit that he's been assaulted for sharing his reality but the answer isn't for him to let it go and steer clear. It's for more people to support him and ensure those who assault him for speaking out are prosecuted for their actions.
/r/MensRights08/01/20 07:28 AM
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Isn't it also abusing a position of trust or something similar? No idea what s legal term or even if there is one
/r/MensRights30/09/17 11:15 PM
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Links? Or is this just feelz? Because I have yet to see anything scientific stating women are better suited for childcare.
/r/MensRights04/01/17 08:43 AM
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This is stupidity on the lowest level. Men, especially those that care to pursue that option make excellent caretakers of children. My husband was a sahd for 9 yrs. Now he works and I'm a sah since I retired. I promise you, our kids are all the better for it. Men can be every bit as empathetic and compassionate as women. They are just as capable and just as emotionally involved. Honestly, pissed me off when people say women are better at raising children because nature. It's simply not true.
/r/MensRights04/01/17 07:29 AM
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Iirc he was 16 at the time.
/r/MensRights15/12/16 10:50 PM
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How do they expect you to be able to keep your job when you can't afford basics like gas or bus fare? No one benefits from 5hese kinds of things, it's idiotic.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 09:33 PM
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When I was active duty air force, my husband was a sahd. I'd deploy for 120 days at least every year, or every other year. It was a good solution and it was very important to us to have our kids raised by us, it was worth the loss in income as most of it would have gone to childcare anyway. It took him about two and a half years to find a good paying job that wasn't either soul crushing or physically demanding after being out of the workforce for 9 years. I would also have been fine with paying …
/r/MensRights29/10/16 08:28 PM
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Thanks : ) the intent is understood anyway, that's what matters.
/r/MensRights04/10/16 05:29 AM
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Wtf. That is so bullshit.
/r/MensRights04/10/16 05:28 AM
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That is fantastic! (As long as they help those who do need it)
/r/MensRights04/10/16 05:25 AM
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Some men who report are ignored. I've told this story before but one of my coworkers (around 135lb guy) was hit by his 300lb wife regularly. He told the police, and the Air Force doctors when she left him with black eyes and bruises but no one did a damn thing until she showed up at the squadron one day and started whaling (sp?)on him in front of witnesses. Finally, finally she went to jail. He went through hell first to keep his kids. I was lucky enough to be their babysitter on the day years l…
/r/MensRights04/10/16 04:02 AM
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They tortured 3 boys, killed one.
/r/MensRights01/10/16 11:08 PM
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Kids. They tortured 2 other boys as well.
/r/MensRights01/10/16 11:07 PM
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Awkward. ... I'm a modern woman. While I don't share your distrust for women, I do think having more male role models in education is a good thing for boys to see.
/r/MensRights14/08/16 10:10 PM
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Is that really your take away from the video?
/r/MensRights13/08/16 04:20 AM
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I cried like a baby.
/r/MensRights13/08/16 04:16 AM
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/r/rage is an appropriate place to xpost
/r/MensRights06/07/16 10:05 PM
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Absolutely, she is a terrible partner. It was the pairing of ambition less and no willpower paired with men who stay home that I objected to. (I misread the intent of the comment being aimed at the woman in the article rather than just sahp))
/r/MensRights03/07/16 01:03 AM
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Actually, he was jobless and living with his mother when we met. I didn't care, I love him and had a decent job. We moved to England shortly after marriage and he stayed home without working for about a year then stayed home with our first baby. I was lucky enough to find the perfect man for me and while I was working enough to support us both I didn't care that he wasn't working. And now he takes care of our family, without complaint. Now we know he has a ptsd and major anxiety problem (he's an…
/r/MensRights03/07/16 12:58 AM
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Just because a man stays at home doesn't mean he has no ambition or will power. My husband was a sahd for 9 years while I finished my career in the air force. It was a mutual decision and it worked well for us. When I was deployed or on 12 hour shifts we didn't have childcare issues. I didn't have to worry about grocery shopping or housework. Now I'm retired and partially disabled and he is working full time. He worked his ass off to get into the job he has now (having to make up for years out o…
/r/MensRights02/07/16 08:28 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/4p11ls/accidentally_saw_my_replacements_pay_rate_almost/d4hhe9c While this comment is anecdotal, I found it interesting.
/r/MensRights30/06/16 12:24 AM
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How is this even legal?
/r/MensRights29/06/16 12:41 AM
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I thought this comment was very interesting in that line of thinking https://www.reddit.com/r/personalfinance/comments/4p11ls/accidentally_saw_my_replacements_pay_rate_almost/d4hhe9c " a whacky theory that this is part of the "pay gap" people talk about. As a Director, I get an edict that we're not giving raises virtually every year. I send the e-mail out, and suddenly I'm the dickhead that's hording the money. It's part of the job, I guess. Now, when I need to hire someone? I can easily bring t…
/r/MensRights21/06/16 08:20 PM
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I had auditory hallucinations for 2 weeks once, when I was switching medication. I knew it was just withdrawal but if I hadn't read up on it, I would have ended up tearing my house apart trying to find the racoon or squirrels that were constantly scratching at my ceiling. Doctors don't tell you about withdrawal before prescribing, just side effects while on them. They should have to tell you about both, I certainly would not have started taking it if I had known I would lose my mind once I stopp…
/r/MensRights16/06/16 11:17 PM
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Actually, he (warris) claimed her victim exposed himself to their son, which is so fucked up (and a lot of other words)
/r/MensRights15/06/16 09:32 PM
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No offense taken. I think one of the things we had going for us was that he was ex army and i was active duty air force. Actually, what we really had going for us was him. He was and is amazing. I honestly think our kids are so easy and good because he was the sahp through their formative years. The only thing he sucks at is dishes, a very minute thing in life, all things considered. My male coworkers talked more shit about him than the female ones, but I'm pretty sure jealousy was a factor. "If…
/r/MensRights01/06/16 03:56 AM
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Married for 13 years, hubby was sahd for 9, now I've retired and I'm a sahm. Still very happily married. Watching my husband love and nurture our sons has only made my feelings for him stronger. As long as you both have the same expectations everything should be just fine.
/r/MensRights01/06/16 01:24 AM
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Or how about... sperm donors have been a thing for decades. If you want a child, at least attempt to have one, some honest effort could have prevented all this regret. Honestly, 1 in five women being childless has nothing to do with this articles selection size of three women who made horrible relationship choices (well, one who never wanted kids at all but has mild pangs of regret) and everything to do with people choosing to be childfree. Women don't need men in a relationship with them to hav…
/r/MensRights01/06/16 01:20 AM
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There was a case of a minor who was raped, then forced to pay child support for the child his rapist had. That should be illegal. Additionally, Utah allows mothers to give children up for adoption without the father's consent. Current laws are insane.
/r/MensRights29/05/16 07:08 PM
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Not who you are replying to, but birth control other than condoms would be great. It's been in the works but still isn't here yet, while women have hundreds of choices.
/r/MensRights29/05/16 02:33 PM
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It bothers me. Absolute travesty that possible evidence just rots away in storage. There is no excuse for this.
/r/MensRights26/05/16 12:59 AM
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His kid https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/4imijb/people_who_speak_a_second_language_what_have_you/d2zrfx3 But yeah, wishing terrible things on kids is insane.
/r/MensRights23/05/16 07:49 PM
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Hating the subreddit doesn't make this situation unworthy of attention.
/r/MensRights23/05/16 06:59 PM
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Who downvoted this? Seriously, this is exactly what needs to happen, along with lawsuits. Parents need to show their contempt for the situation and exert pressure on the district.
/r/MensRights23/05/16 06:58 PM
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I think it's the default setting.
/r/MensRights20/05/16 11:58 PM
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He was probably out of his mind terrified. A strange adult woman drags him into the woods and starts doing things adults are not supposed to do with kids. Now she's blaming him, WTF.
/r/MensRights20/05/16 11:03 PM
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/x/post to /r/veterans if you haven't already. Thanks for posting this.
/r/MensRights20/05/16 04:28 PM
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FTFY *anti-hypocrite
/r/MensRights20/05/16 02:14 AM
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That's fucking depressing
/r/MensRights19/05/16 08:08 PM
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I really hope the trials for male birth control go well and my sons will have more options than just condoms. I'm fine with aborting without father's consent. I do believe there should be a "financial abortion" option for unwilling fathers. *deleted repeat thought
/r/MensRights17/05/16 09:46 PM
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http://www.parenting.com/news-break/dad-fights-baby-given-adoption-without-his-consent Thankfully, the adoptive parents reunited father and daughter they have more sense and compassion than the law. ☆holy crap. Nope, they gave the child back to the mother who gave her away. Father still has to go through courts for custody. WTF. I mean, I get that the adoptive parents probably couldn't give the child to anyone other than the person who signed her over, but damn.
/r/MensRights17/05/16 05:03 PM
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When you join the military voluntarily there are several tests to take to determine which job your skillset will best fit, according to the needs of the military at the time. The same thing occurs during drafts, although the job openings will be different. Women (and men) who are completely unsuited for combat roles will be weeded out by this, before ever getting to combat units. You should be drafting both sexes for whatever roles need filling. If infantry is all.that is left they should still …
/r/MensRights13/05/16 12:35 AM
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The draft doesn't only apply to combat roles, they don't only throw the draftees into the infantry, there are thousands of support positions that will also need to be filled. Women and men can fill those roles. Additionally, not all man are stronger than all women.
/r/MensRights12/05/16 11:25 PM
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Yes, and it irritates the hell out of me. Whichever wave of feminists made it.possible for me to join the Air Force, which allowed me my career, I'm grateful to. They enabled the life I have now being a SAHM with a retirement check. It allowed my family to always have a sahp (husband was SAHD while I was in). I met two women in the service who wanted combat roles. Both were weight lifters and one was also a boxer. They would not look favorably on someone who has no interest in such things denyin…
/r/MensRights12/05/16 09:51 PM
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Holy hell that pissed me off. I'm retired Air Force and I've worked aircraft maintenance with guys who couldn't lift a tool box. Being a man does not magically imbue all men with strength. Just a majority. I could lift my tool box and various other things just fine and I'm a female. You had to be capable of lifting something like 60 pounds above your shoulders to even qualify for the career field. Which is exactly what needs to happen with combat positions, only those who meet existing standards…
/r/MensRights12/05/16 08:12 PM
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How about a reply to the first half of my comment instead of focusing only on the second. Seeing as it was my first comment in this thread, I think "fight" is a bit absurd. What I did want you to recognize is that posting here isn't limited to the male gender, and your interpretation of one comment as women hate is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights30/04/16 11:19 PM
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Rational would be looking at why the statement was made, with understanding of the /s, and getting the point being made is either valid or invalid. Also, not a guy. You aren't even close to being the only woman who pays attention to men's rights issues.
/r/MensRights30/04/16 11:04 PM
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This had nothing to do with the normal stress of being a father and everything to do with trauma the father experienced that was horrific. To me, comparing this situation to normal parenting stress is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights26/04/16 08:14 PM
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NZ
/r/MensRights07/04/16 09:58 PM
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Absolutely. This was a ridiculous sentence.
/r/MensRights29/03/16 11:41 PM
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The way they kept referring to her as a grandmother, instead of a homicidal maniac, ridiculous.
/r/MensRights23/03/16 06:05 PM
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I'm heartened to know there are teachers like you out there.
/r/MensRights17/03/16 11:39 PM
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My DH was a SAHD for 9 years. Now he works and I stay home (90% disabled vet). He was/is a fantastic parent and I believe that a society that values SAHD'S as much as mothers would be better than one that forces men into just the worker bee mold. He is very much a manly man, btw. Manly men can be just as nurturing as women, and many men even better than many women. I hope my son's aren't pressured by people who think like you to believe that men must be stereotypical men, but that they have the …
/r/MensRights17/03/16 07:57 PM
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I wish it were only compassion, but generally it's fear and anger. Fear of my son's being robbed of due process, being second class citizens. Anger when obvious misjustice is ignored or applauded. A lot of both emotions, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights17/03/16 01:38 AM
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Brings to mind the idea that teaching these boys at an older age how to change diapers/care for kids would be better for changing the next generation than teaching them to tie a tie. Teaching young men to be good parents and that they have value as such would be a bigger influence of change in my opinion, than how to shake hands.
/r/MensRights09/03/16 07:23 PM
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Seemed like textbook grooming of the victim. She ruined his most socially active school years and possibly all his future relationships. She caused mental torment, and held him hostage with threats and guilt. For two long years, and it will affect him for many more. One count is way too low. She abused a position of trust and abused a child. /r/rage
/r/MensRights06/03/16 12:36 AM
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The parents should do this immediately, possibly op too. No way in hell I'd ever let that woman near my kids again.
/r/MensRights20/12/15 07:28 PM
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perhaps also put some pressure on the City of Mississauga to rehire him
/r/MensRights01/12/15 02:44 AM
5

And sure, let's release the psycho who uses a baseball bat instead of her words back out into the world. WTF.
/r/MensRights14/04/15 05:46 PM
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Holy fucking amazing bullshit. If my son was tortured like this and the people responsible were basically slapped on the wrist and given community service I would lose my fucking mind. Unbelievable aalnd a complete lack of justice. Infuriating.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 05:10 AM
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This type of thing is the reason I read mra and try to be a men's rights activist. I'm a mother of two boys and feminism doesn't do anything to protect them from this . How can anyone love their father, brother, sons, or lover and not want a future where male victims of abuse are safe to seek help or defend themselves without the fear of being labled an abuser themself?
/r/MensRights25/02/15 03:56 PM
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/r/mractivism exists as well for any wanting to get more involved.
/r/MensRights17/02/15 08:13 PM
1

Maybe my perspective is skewed coming from a family without traditional gender roles... how is that last paragraph anything but furthering a stereotype through confirmation bias that casts all men in the light of neglectful and selfish fathers?
/r/MensRights30/01/15 12:55 PM
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I found this on domestic assault in Nebraska http://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/resources/criminal-defense/domestic-violence/nebraska-domestic-violence-laws-charges-penalt So, 1-20 years possible sentencing for that. As IANAL, does anyone with legal knowledge know whether the DA / prosecutor has to charge for domestic violence vs attempted murder?
/r/MensRights29/01/15 01:08 PM
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I've never heard of this... any sources?
/r/MensRights21/01/15 08:40 PM
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Any further updates?
/r/MensRights19/01/15 03:06 PM
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If you haven't already, a xpost to /r/veterans might be helpful. As a USAF retiree who is female and had a civilian (at the time, he is prior service Army) husband the stories I could tell about women with no consciences are numerous. The stories I could tell about the active duty men are also numerous ... what goes TDY stays TDY is a way of life for many men. I don't really get what it is about the military that attracts so many unprincipled folks but it must be something. On the other hand, my…
/r/MensRights18/01/15 10:38 PM
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It's because of outdated cultural stereotypes that women's lives are more important than men's lives. The thing is, all the possibly logical reasons those stereotypes exist became null and void with the passing of time. Women's lives are no more or less valuable to men's lives in today's cultures. Both can support families, both genders can raise children, and both genders can protect their nations. The only thing men can't do is carry a child but even that doesn't matter with today's population…
/r/MensRights14/01/15 03:20 PM
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On the other hand, my problem with it is that it's never applied equally.
/r/MensRights11/01/15 08:22 PM
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Actually, he was told specifically that the girl could not consent if she were drunk. This is imo more alarming. The boy had eleven beers himself, there is no evidence of any coercion, but he is automatically cast as rapist. I can tell my sons when they are a bit older to never ever ever have sex with a drunk person or while drunk themselves, until my throat is hoarse and face turns blue but the problem with drinking is that until they mature enough to do it responsibly nothing I say will matter…
/r/MensRights11/01/15 04:07 PM
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http://www.np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/2rzdow/this_subreddit_is_intended_for_womens/ I just happened on this thread a few minutes ago which sort of illustrates one of my last points. (Original post was too long for me to properly edit the link in on my tablet, apologies)
/r/MensRights10/01/15 08:04 PM
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Thank you, that's exactly what I was looking for.
/r/MensRights10/01/15 07:53 PM
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It's very true. After reading here for a few months I can understand that a lot of what is said simply doesn't apply to me so I don't take blanket comments about women personally. At the beginning though, it definitely was easy to see why subs like against men's rights exist. I even subscribed to against men's rights for a little while, trying to see both sides. That sub is ridiculous, though. They put up post after post decrying men's rights as a mysoginistic playground for twerpers, citing a f…
/r/MensRights10/01/15 07:52 PM
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Just to clarify... I am a woman. I'm particularly interested in furthering men's rights in the areas of divorce, reproductive rights, and abuse/rape issues. I have a husband i love as well as two sons and I want them to have equal rights to those afforded women. I've witnessed female on male spousal abuse and biased divorce proceedings, that's an area of particular interest to me also.
/r/MensRights10/01/15 01:14 AM
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Well, not quite what I had in mind. Already married to a wonderful man, it will be 12 years in a month or so.
/r/MensRights10/01/15 01:04 AM
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It is a men's rights issue because (at least in the US) there is a hive disparity between the number of available women's shelters and those available to men. Some cities neglect men's shelters entirely, ignoring statistics for actual need.
/r/MensRights07/01/15 03:06 AM
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Is there any way to support more shelters for men? Any letter writing campaigns or groups to volunteer with who are actively trying to make a difference? I'm on a fixed income with no disposable funds so I can't just donate but I would be willing to help in other ways I just don't know where to start. My sons' are off school tomorrow because the weather here in the Midwest just dipped below freezing so I really hope there aren't more preventable deaths. Anything productive would be great!
/r/MensRights07/01/15 01:31 AM
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I'm fed up too. I'm a woman and a feminist. I also consider myself an mra. As someone who retired from a male majority career field in the military I have a few pet issues that I champion. I forced my squadron to follow the AFI for breastfeeding when I birthed my sons because I wanted to provide them with the best start in life. I forced them to create a nursing/pumping room. I also battled a great deal of sexism in aircraft maintenance by properly taking issues up the chain of command. But Beyo…
/r/MensRights03/01/15 02:59 AM
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That's horrible.
/r/MensRights02/01/15 11:41 PM
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Why was she not prosecuted for child abuse?
/r/MensRights02/01/15 05:06 PM
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Can this be reported to the police for attempted fraud? Edit: or is there a health issue / law for selling items bodily fluids have been in contact with that they could prosecute for? Edit 2: I found this http://www.kctv5.com/story/23327775/alarming-trend-positive-pregnancy-tests-being-sold-on-craigslist it basically says the only way to charge the seller is if they knew the purchased test was used in a fraud or blackmail.
/r/MensRights19/12/14 12:53 PM
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It doesn't matter whether he was truthful. The fact is that until/unless that was proven he should have been given the same rights and protections a female would be given and they failed.
/r/MensRights13/12/14 01:06 AM
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The case was dropped even though the police had a confession on tape. What the hell?
/r/MensRights12/12/14 06:47 PM
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That last paragraph is frighteningly unrealistic and surprising to me, that it comes from him.
/r/MensRights11/12/14 04:22 PM
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"You know why titanic is the best love story of all time? Because they met, fucked for three days, and then Jack died" Nasty.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 12:00 PM
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We did just fine with that. Husband was sahd until I retired now he works and I look after the kids. We chose to have a sahp because the cost of childcare was prohibitive and we both felt the stability was important.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 09:06 PM
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Perhaps a restraining order for a stop gap until something legally gets accomplished? (Strangely, this is the second time I've recommended this today)
/r/MensRights08/12/14 02:26 AM
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I'm not sure... maybe /r/legaladvice might know?
/r/MensRights08/12/14 01:21 AM
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Can an adult file for a restraining order on behalf of their child?
/r/MensRights08/12/14 12:39 AM
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Is there any possibility of a civil suit for emotional damage to his family and repayment of the money they spent? How bad would she have to screw up to have to serve the 32 week suspended sentence? If her friend was aware of the fraud (honestly,who lets someone borrow a baby?) is she being charged as an accessory?
/r/MensRights02/12/14 03:10 PM
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She looks more like seventy.
/r/MensRights01/12/14 08:21 PM
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I thought it was going to be something published in the seventies ... 2003 wtf.
/r/MensRights01/12/14 02:35 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to reply. I laughed so much about the coasters. For me it was potholders on a little loom. Sooo many potholders. I think I might start with some fingerknitting and move on/up from there. I made my boys quilts when they were a bit younger and they enjoyed helping. They both got into the rainbow loom phase last year. All the cool kids were trading bracelets. They enjoyed that. My main problem is wanting to make/do everything myself. It's too easy for me to take over i…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 12:24 AM
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(Not a redpillwoman) I agree for some families a stay at home parent is essential. My husband and I want our kids to be raised by us not strangers. It's a personal parenting decision that works very well for us. He was SAHD for ten years until I retired from the Air Force, now he works full time and I'm SAHM. Knowing he was there with the boys through deployments and 12hour shifts was the best. Now that I'm SAHM I really enjoy being available for anything... not having to take a sick day or worr…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 11:43 PM
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Do you have any suggestion for what ages would be best for those lessons?
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 11:36 PM
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/r/legaladvice might be a good place to xpost. I hope things work out for him.
/r/MensRights26/11/14 05:44 PM
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Any updates so far today?
/r/MensRights25/11/14 02:13 PM
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I did in the past but it always derailed the conversation into definitions of feminism /egalitarianidm/men's rights so I kinda gave up on the term just to avoid that. *egalitarianism
/r/MensRights24/11/14 11:24 PM
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I've seen a coworker abused by his wife struggle for months to get help. Two emergency rooim visits, multiple police reports... finally she came into work and punched him in the face and then they finally took him seriously. (She went to jail two years I think) I babysat for him a lot after she went to jail. Edit: for clarity he never hit her back or defended himself in any way because society being the way it is he was afraid he'd go to jail and lose his kids. Which is what would have happened.…
/r/MensRights24/11/14 11:14 PM
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I'm a feminist. I'm not third wave or tmblrina feminist but I do believe there are some inequalities that still face women. I'm also interested in men's rights because there are many inequalities facing men that should be fixed. I'm not trying to get you to change your post, I just wanted to let you know there are some feminists who aren't blind to reality.
/r/MensRights24/11/14 09:05 PM
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Might be good to start it's own thread if there is enough for discussion . People are interested.
/r/MensRights24/11/14 08:59 PM
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That's ridiculous. Perhaps alerting the media might put some pressure on the school to change their policies. Have you checked actual written policies yet, though? Make sure she was telling the truth and the schools written policies back her claim before doing anything else. Edit: no, you are not wrong. This is the kind of thing I don't want my sons to deal with when they get older, it's people like you getting angry and fixing inequalities that will shape their future. Stay angry until somethin…
/r/MensRights24/11/14 06:08 PM
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Id say father's day and mother's day should both be excluded because they only apply to those with children. Just a thought.
/r/MensRights19/11/14 06:48 PM
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