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Callandoro/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:39 AM
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Callandoro/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:02 AM
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Just to be clear when i say attractive I don’t mean like hot, I just mean like baseline normal attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 08:57 PM
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I don’t understand why you mentioned both of you think it’s a distinction without a difference I mean it might be a little less exciting if she asked for it. I wouldn’t have the whole “am I aren’t I” game running with her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 08:44 PM
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Yeah I mean I feel like most normal women are attractive in youth Like if I look at my high school class I recall that maybe 70-80% were attractive? I come from a UMC background tho so there’s that , idk if it’s the same for the poor people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 08:43 PM
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Not attractive to you or not attractive to men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 08:15 PM
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I like discussion of incel issues , I think it’s fundamental to understanding contemporary gender dynamics. Like how can we have a complete view of what the current smp/RMP looks like if we’re gonna ignore the elephant in the room
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 08:11 PM
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I just said that she’s into it, not that she asks for it Look I’ve also shot unsuspecting friends with a water gun Sometimes you can use your social skills and tell it’ll be ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 07:48 PM
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I think it’s okay to smack women around during sex Why wouldn’t it be I mean so long as she’s into it (most are)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 07:27 PM
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Better than sitting around doing nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:42 PM
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Yeah I don’t have any problem with supporting a partner , that’s fine She can get some kind of job when she looks tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:22 PM
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Yeah idk I guess I fee like Id rather have a partner in fields like business or service or sales or law than in fields like nursing or math or science
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:21 PM
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lol yeah I’m not a big fan of them. I know a couple guys who married nurses tho and they seem to be good fits. They’re all sorta basic tho tbh. I wouldn’t shackle myself to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:52 PM
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Ok first of all I probably wouldn’t marry a nurse, I tend to prefer women whose skills are more in language and arts My work is tied to where I live and she knew this when she married me. Kind of a dick move on her part to now insist on moving across the country isn’t it I probably wouldn’t have married her if this was her plan when I met her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:47 PM
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I disagree I’ve only dated one BPD girl and she told me the first night we met. I didn’t really know what it was so i just downplayed it and said it wasn’t a big deal. Ignored all the other red flags too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:58 PM
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Have you ever worked with wealthy people ? There’s a subset of them who were born into money, they basically just play stupid games with it and don’t care if they lose, and really they can’t help themselves but to make more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 12:47 AM
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90 degree angle for the win (ie sitting at a corner)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:37 PM
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I just don’t want to accidentally lead them on I guess. I’m terribly slow at making up my mind if I want a relationship mostly bc I mean from my perspective what’s the rush
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:19 PM
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The whole philosophy of redpill tho is that you don’t do that, you don’t go on expensive dates, you do cheap stuff and bang
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:18 PM
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What a world we live in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 11:16 PM
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eh yeah idk I don’t want to make it into too much of a relationship vibe with either of these girls. we’ve talked and I’ve said I like them but it’s too early to tell if I want an exclusive relationship with them. One I’m leaning towards no and one I really don’t know yet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:29 PM
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Yeah you’re right. Just trying not to dig myself into a hole
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:21 PM
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I gotta be more careful with this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 10:01 PM
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Ok will do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:53 PM
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There is no dilemma here Men can not pay for dates and also not date career women Why do you think those two things can’t be done together, it doesn’t make sense This is a post challenging your view but I’m being forced to argue this under auto mod for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:34 PM
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LOL no the mod is just saying this view doesn’t challenge OP
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:29 PM
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Prepare to be overzealously modded , I’m getting my comments deleted for arguing the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:12 PM
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I don’t know how you can’t see that’s a challenge to OP , I’m at a loss here It’s challenging the CONJUNCTION of those two statements set forth in OP like if OP said “RPs think the sky is blue but water is wet! What gives?” I would be challenging that position by saying that there is no dilemma, that both sky can be blue and water wet without any problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 06:09 PM
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This is a challenge , I’m saying that he thinks there is a dilemma but there isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:40 PM
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What’s wrong the the solutions you propose (ie Netflix and chill, cheap bars, bang in the car). I don’t really see the dilemma. Red pill guys will do those things rather than seriously date career women Edit for clarity: You said If Red Pillers hate shelling out money for dates so much, then why are they hating on professional women 1) they don’t want to waste money 2) they don’t like professional women 3) they would rather just take lower maintenance girls on cheap dates 4) there are no sour gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:26 PM
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Does anyone else accidentally get sucked into very “dating” activities with their casual relationships I’ve been single for like 3 months and I’ve done it twice already. Sometimes a suggestion just sounds like a good idea and i agree before really thinking it through—“hey let’s go get lunch tomorrow” “wow I would really like some ice cream” I guess all I can really do is be more mindful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:10 PM
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Yeah that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 04:19 PM
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Yeah I agree more or less
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 01:23 AM
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Yeah i know what you mean. I had to cut the emojis out myself a while back and yea it’s been a struggle Anyway I agree, to an extent—it depends on fully fleshing out all the details. Like did he just see her kinda tight and hesitating when she talks about it versus is she full on balling every time? I mean both of those could be a non verbal communication indicating displeasure but the first one—I think you could reasonably think that person is just gonna bear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 01:16 AM
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Hm yeah maybe I’m not communicating well. I am not moralizing this or at least I’m not trying to. Maybe there was a little judgmental tone tho, I’ll see if I can’t keep a better eye for that Anyway, idk I’ve been in this situation where I’m the one bearing something I didn’t like for the other person’s benefit, and it’s obvious that I’m bearing something I didn’t like, and for me—I’ve said something when it got to a point where I couldn’t take it anymore. I didn’t just walk out like “why don’t y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 12:16 AM
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It’s wanting someone generally better than you I’d view it as some weighted function of income, status, education, and other traits. The exact calculus will be personal but typically it weighs income status and education pretty heavily There’s also an element of being unsatisfied and trying to trade up without a generally better partner, and being willing to look no further for other partners when it is satisfied This is closest to how I typically see it used
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 12:03 AM
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Why are you getting defensive about this? That’s unnecessary. I’m explaining this in good faith and it’s not personal to either of us Anyway, I believe she would imply that something’s okay by not saying that it’s not in this sort of situation: Her: I’m hurt, I’m sad Me: well what should we do Her: idk whatever I read that as her saying she’s going to suck it up and deal with it , not that she’s gonna snap and leave without saying she wants it to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 11:56 PM
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Guys do “it sucks (but I’m okay)” all the time, if we get to a breaking point we will generally say that it’s becoming unbearable before we break
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 11:48 PM
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Going from this tell him it’s hard for me and I tell him I am hurting. I don’t want to tell him to stop- it makes him happy and I don’t want him to just cheat. It’s better that I know. I can learn to deal with jealousy!” To “I’m done and I’m leaving” without going to at “you need to stop or I’m leaving” is imo leaving out of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 11:39 PM
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I mean that kinda is out of nowhere, she said “it sucks but I’ll deal with it,” and then instead of saying “it sucks and I can’t deal with it anymore, you need to stop,” she just leaves, that’s out of nowhere in my book
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 11:30 PM
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Not really any way I can dispute your personal experiences but that said other people report women actually not saying anything. It’s just personal story vs personal story at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 11:12 PM
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Would it really be out of nowhere then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 11:00 PM
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I think you’re misapplying that concept, complaining frequently would still be a bad behavior indicative of a problem regardless of the content of the complaint
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:59 PM
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Why wouldn’t they just communicate the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 10:35 PM
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https://warmful.com/canadian-man-legally-changes-gender-to-take-advantage-of-discriminatory-car-insurance-policies/ LOL Idk if fake news but funny if true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 09:46 PM
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Yeah it’s tough , a lot of times I’m get frustrated bc people do not appreciate how much effort goes into it. But that frustration isn’t productive imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:44 PM
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Idk I guess it depends what you’re trying to pass as your N. If you’re trying to say like 2 then yeah no way Anyway I don’t think it’s as dire as you think (“too used for anyone”). A lot of people don’t really care about n count, a lot more only care in broad strokes to assess compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:42 PM
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Just lie about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:31 PM
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I’ll reread and think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:11 PM
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Its a simplification but I thought it held up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:08 PM
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I see what you’re saying. Some people will shy away from an extreme power imbalance bc they see how ripe for abuse it is. Yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:03 PM
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Hm maybe so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:02 PM
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Yeah I agree, it’s a simplification Still id rather be a man even given the dice roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:01 PM
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Maybe I misunderstood your post I thought you were saying “men can’t be hard on women, because then they won’t be able to date and have sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:59 PM
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Ime women like Power imbalance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:18 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:08 AM
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One thing that definitely matters is what generation you identify with I’m 33 yo cusp millennial. It’s way easier for me to date mid 20s women than my HS friends who tended to go more cusp gen x Anyway you should define what a big age gap is. I think 8-10 years is not a big deal all but lots of people here (blues) are outraged by that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:01 AM
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IQ smart or wha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:59 AM
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I really enjoy your posts, you’re super interesting. That said, you’re cut from different cloth, I don’t think most women would have made it out of that ringer like you did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:57 AM
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Men then unlearn their naivity about female lack of attraction to relatively low-status men. Right also those women on their own half find themselves “mysteriously” less attracted to the people they would’ve dated before they had education/status/whatev as a man you need to outperform women who as a group already do better than men in school and academ Right but this is a different problem than pricing yourself out and only realizing it too late. If you’re a guy and you’re a high achiever the sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:40 AM
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Some women like it when you put them in their place , it can work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:13 AM
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My argument is a little different — I think that for a woman, success works against them in the RMP. They price themselves out of relationships. Whereas guys don’t really face that problem. So for us the sky’s the limit But also, I mean as far as the glass ceiling, lots of old school beta dudes are willing to take me under their wing in ways that they generally won’t for women. I live in a conservative area tho so maybe that’s part of it Also I live in a conservative area so I do know female lab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:04 AM
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Women have it easier bc the world caters to them. But this also makes them less likely to develop skills. Men have it better because our ceiling is higher if we really put forth the effort and become our best selves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:03 AM
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Men have it better Women have it easier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:51 AM
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Like in online dating? I can’t imagine many real life situation where you can’t get a good guesstimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:45 AM
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Idk it’s fun to guess and see how good I am at guessing I like to think I’m good at it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:00 AM
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How to ask her weight: first get her all giggly and having a fun time, and then make a game of it like, “I bet I can guess your weight ha ha” Point blank just asking her cold? Yikes I literally weighed a girl in my scale last night lmfao “to prove that I was right”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:28 PM
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Did you read op? They took a position on the issue That’s like saying A: I believe slavery is a good system B: no way , that’s so abusive of the poor slaves A: welp, I never claimed it was good for the slaves. Critique defeated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 07:18 PM
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This is just more of the feminist motte and Bailey tactic It did claim to be about that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 07:13 PM
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You said that if proponents of an ideology are happy with their ideology, then it’s “disingenuous” for outsiders to criticize that ideology 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 07:04 PM
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So no ideology can ever be criticized?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 07:00 PM
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Seems like a much clearer link than what OP is proposing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:58 PM
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Solid advice I wanna keep them calling because I enjoy their company for now even though I know this isn’t gonna last forever
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:51 PM
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Life is constant effort
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:46 PM
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Solid rebuttal 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:20 AM
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😳😬😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:07 AM
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The MyFitnessPal app is wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:49 AM
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Now that PPD personal advice posts are allowed, I have so many ideas for posts. do women chase harder when they can’t have you? Specifically, does knowing she can’t have you increase a woman’s sex drive? very wholesome looking girl, has an OBVIOUS SO on her Instagram, but she’s still pursuing me? girls being back and forth and waffles and hot-cold. It’s just female game right? my ex is talking to me again how to handle girls that fall in love with me. How to dial it back ideally so that they kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:42 AM
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Yeh I mean I’m not a huge proponent or opponent? I believe in strong safety nets for the unemployed and incentives to get people back on their feet , a little abuse of the system is just the cost of doing business Don’t really agree with benefits for having kids tho , seems like a bad incentive structure to set up. Again tho I’m not super pro or con , mostly indifferent about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 08:33 PM
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I mean a 30 year old woman was born in 1988. And even then I mean we all live here and now , people adapt and change It’s a far cry from picking women up out of some rock bottom situation is what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 07:41 PM
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yeah I agree but so what? I doubt he is talking about his friend getting married in the 1970s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 07:28 PM
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Oh okay. Yeah I’m not familiar with that. I was born in the mid 1980s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:44 PM
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I’ve heard people talk about it this way in my adult life, I was a little kid in 1992. That’s the perception that’s out there today. It may be a holdover from another time but people believe it still
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:38 PM
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There’s still a certain perception that’s out there. Idk if it’s accurate or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:24 PM
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Whenever I’ve heard people talk about welfare abuse it’s always a black lady with a bunch of kids, with a bunch of top of the line toys (eg cell phone, handbags, nice car). Idk if it’s true or not but that’s the stereotype that’s out there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 05:22 PM
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I assumed most guys talking about benefits for women understood this and don’t really care? Stereotypical welfare abuser has like 8 kids, isn’t it obvious what the money is ostensibly for versus what it actually is for? Idk how someone doesn’t put that together
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:39 PM
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It’s not a lie so much as just not caring about the distinction Like ‘single mothers,’ not just ‘women’? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:29 PM
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I’m a lawyer and I know lots and lots of women lawyers married to men with successful careers. I know a couple with husbands they don’t bring around or who aren’t respectable guys. I’m not sure why you think that’s a common thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:17 PM
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What is the connection tho between being dominant in the bedroom and being dominant in life Like just bc I’m on top of my life, bc I’m living an awesome life that people respect and admire, why does that mean I want to abuse my sex partners in the bedroom? I don’t get it. It’s two completely different senses of the word “dominant”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:09 PM
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I don’t like BDSM dominance as a “dominance” concept because it really isn’t the same as social dominance. Social dominance is just being awesome and sharp and witty and being an all around good person who others look up to and want to emulate or defer to; it seems like a lot of people start to read all this “dark dominance” like beatings and domineering and abuse into it once you start to talk about BDSM dominance To me these are two very separate things. One is a sort of social game that we al…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:06 PM
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LOL Korea is not some third world country ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 03:51 PM
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Why are you talking about old married women’s sex drive How is that relevant to a young single woman who is out having casual sex? It’s like you know they’re different yet you’re insisting on equating them, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:32 PM
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Hard working lawyer wife married to eternal kid? You think there’s a lot of those? Like as a percentage?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:02 AM
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Yeah I have a lot of good buddies who are entp too, so i kinda feel like it’s a little buddy buddy sometimes. Idk if I can deal with that sort of relationship with a romantic partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:01 AM
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Idk I don’t really see it as histrionics and I think that’s just a shaming way to refer to guys who don’t agree with “enjoy the decline”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:50 AM
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xNTJ INTJ but I can extro with some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:47 AM
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Extremely rare outlier How can you possibly believe that is commonplace
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:03 AM
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Yeh I mean I usually just tough it out if I get sick, unless I’m really bad or something. Usually it just passes tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:00 AM
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Are you saying there aren’t situations where you would refuse to buy cold medicine due to budget contraints? smh thank you for proving my point I haven’t taken cold medicine in years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:56 PM
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LOL in my experience people are so self interested that the cat litter and cold medicine appear to be absolute necessities when it’s for themselves, and luxuries when it’s for someone else This is when she starts trotting out her lines about how men exaggerate when they’re sick and the man flu etc, your cat, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:50 PM
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I had no idea Phoenix was so cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:47 PM
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How it plays out is like this: Thing that she sorta wants: ABSOLUTE NECESSITY Thing that he sorta wants: WE CAN GO WITHOUT
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:44 PM
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Ok I may be biased bc of where I live and my own experiences as follows: About half my friends have good blue collar labor jobs and make good money, while they date women who do things like work as nail girls and secretaries. These women expect to be pampered. I can see that these guys clearly spend a lot of money with these girls About a quarter of my friends are welll off but frugal nerds. Again generally dating women who expect the nicer things in life. These guys push back on that a lot more…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:35 PM
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Yeah and I’ve watched enough people spend “for the household” to know how that shakes out, and whose desires get indulged in that sort of situation. People look out for #1 first and foremost
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:24 PM
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I’ve been seeing this ENTP girl. She gets so carried away with everything. She’s fun but I think we make better friends than lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:22 PM
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It’s so far from my experience that it’s almost like role reversal trolling, also there are actual stats for this, women are overwhelmingly the spenders
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:16 PM
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I literally can’t believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:11 PM
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I’ve been with a lot of women and like ONE, ONE stands out as being cold and frigid, she wanted sex like once every week or two, the vast majority of them want sex much more than that What are you basing this on? Old married moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 08:44 PM
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Lmfao in my experience women want sex way more than once or twice a fortnight Also an FWB is casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 08:27 PM
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I disagree with that, there are some of us here who are white westerners who were raised in culturally conservative places OP is something like: white america = sexual revolution values if not sexual revolution values then foreign/nonwhite Which is clearly false This is tradcon/MRP versus “enjoy the decline” in TRP, it’s a big divide in TRP sure, but it is crazy to me that someone thinks all of tradcon/MRP is nonwhite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 08:13 PM
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I agree with you but those are also all white American people You can’t just define one subset of white America as being all of white america Clearly they have a significant impact, look how low the average numbers are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 06:58 PM
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OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:35 PM
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? There has never been a single feminist in all of history that said that no single women ever held any power. Literally the OP you’re commenting on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:34 PM
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There is no “feminist” history making claims that women had zero political power or that powerful women did not exist. Uh did you read OP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:33 PM
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sleeps with once every week or two Or has sex drive Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:19 PM
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I don’t date at work personally bc sometimes I want to be able to have space from someone I’m banging or used to bang and at work you’re forced to be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:10 PM
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If this is the case then why is average lifetime N so low?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:46 PM
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I never thought “leave her better than you found her” was about orgasms per se, it’s more meant like “don’t take advantage of her,” or “be mindful of how selfish you are”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 08:13 PM
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Y’all act like having sex with a girl who I would never commit to is a crime or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:53 PM
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Is this really an issue Our fire academies here have way more recruits than they can possibly hire , it’s extremely competitive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:43 PM
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This looks a lot like my journey, solid write up Truth is when you’re at the beginning of this, you have no idea what your life will be like in 2 years or so, you really just have to take it on faith and keep at it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:49 AM
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You’re the one reading something into the numbers that isn’t there, the numbers say what people actually do, they don’t give you any insight into what people could do if they had tried to live differently. frankly I don’t understand how anyone could possibly think that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:09 PM
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Average men aren’t living as long term bachelors Average man doesn’t play around in the singles scene forever, he meets a woman and settles down Doesn’t mean he COULDNT do so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:55 PM
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Yeah that’s what I mean 2 new partners per year is easy peasy , I could do that not even trying. If you are fit and social how would you not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:47 PM
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Lmfao dude if you’re single for a long time 30 lays is nothing , it’s literally only 2 lays a year from 20-35
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:11 PM
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Absolutely I’m a huge nerd and I’ve done it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:46 PM
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lol 3 lays in 3 days is within reach in a way that playing in the nba is not , it’s crazy to me that you’d even compare these things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:35 PM
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Its just not that far out there. Crazy would be more like 3 in 3 hours I would suspect most average guys could do 3 lays in 3 days if they really tried for a year or two
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 07:04 PM
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Sleeping with 3 different women in 3 days isnt that far out there Honestly anything really far out there is going to sound fake to people who haven’t been exposed to that world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:18 PM
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To guys who don’t know better yea
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:52 AM
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They have no idea what women want and they take what women say (eg feminism) at face value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:42 AM
1

bullshit, lots of blue collar men are simps Source: I live in blue collar America
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:33 AM
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Actually this opinion isn’t even derived from my experience with women which generally isn’t this way, it’s from hearin the hordes and hordes of men who otherwise express it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:25 AM
1

Women have the advantage of not being thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:27 AM
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No, bullshit, there are always men at the margins who could go one way or the other It just depends on the incentives they’re exposed to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:25 AM
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it’s the way our minds work, were primed by evolution to be very very wary of bad stuff bc it could end us forever whereas things that make us happy, I mean it’s great if we get them but it can’t be permanent the way death can So we’re always on the lookout for problems Women are generally more neurotic and worse about this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:22 AM
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Right, yeah I think what I’m doing is the best strategy for men, but very few men do this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:18 AM
2

Kind of a broad statement but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:17 AM
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I’m not sure how I can really challenge your view? Maybe I can modify it— I would argue that women can’t STAY satisfied, they constantly search out reasons to be unhappy I’m sure most men have seen women be sexually satisfied, like when you’re laying there at the end of it and she’s all wiped out and done, looking at you like you’re some kind of god. I think it’s a little disingenuous to say those women aren’t sexually satisfied in that moment, their dissatisfaction comes later when they start l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:50 PM
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Well what I mean is that I want women to wait for my commitment but I won’t wait very long for sex That how I find out who’s invested in me and interested in me, who would really do a lot for me I assume it’s sorta the same with women waiting idk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:27 PM
1

Yeah it does look like we’re on the same page here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:26 PM
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Why are you telling me this, I know this, my line of comments here is not saying “men shouldn’t fight for men’s rights,” it’s saying “feminists who say they’ll fight for men’s rights are full of shit”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:59 PM
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Idk you should be asking women who say “there’s no need for men’s rights groups bc feminism” not me If you take their claim at face value, they don’t view equality through the lens of women’s issues, they just are here to do good for all people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:53 PM
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She’s free to wait as long as she wants, just as I’m free to walk away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:58 PM
1

I’m white american and I’ve experienced it, primarily when talking about my job, some women have a sort of extreme emotional reaction to it, I find it’s better just to downplay it (“what do you do?” “oh I just have a boring office job no big deal.”) and change topics Ive only ever dated white and Hispanic women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 08:06 PM
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It’s a weird argument but to me it’s in the same vein as all the other men and women should be exactly equal arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:49 PM
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I think it’s stupid and won’t work but I’m not surprised to see people try it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:39 PM
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I’d be grossed out if a bunch of gross fat old women were sending me unsolicited pics of their vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:12 PM
3

Feminists themselves argue that there’s no need for men’s rights issues because feminism will take care of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:09 PM
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Feminists are always talking up how they’re fighting for equality, not just for women’s issues but for men too, their arguments are usually set up as gender neutral (ie “body positivity” not explicitly “women’s body positivity”) Now I don’t believe them when they do this, I think it’s more of a tactic than anything, but if they were honest and consistent you’d expect them to stand up for male issues when those male issues fall under the same umbrella
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:08 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:56 PM
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This is exactly why men don’t like dating older women, they’re all jaded and cynical, it’s unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:53 PM
4

Ime most women are absolutely fine splitting the bill or alternating rounds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:49 PM
3

Who cares what she actually subjectively feels? people always feel in whatever way paints themselves in the best light
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:48 PM
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“Tit for tat it has to be fair” was successfully applied by women to almost every situation where men had an advantage over women Is it really that surprising that men want to apply this to situations where women have an advantage over men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:32 PM
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Are you looking for a genuinely soft feminine man, or a masculine man who has like a 1% of his personality softer side
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:31 AM
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Idk that’s how it seems it is with most “random strangers”, basic bitches, etc. you can have fun but once the party talk dries up , goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:24 AM
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Why wouldn’t we It’s night and day between sex with someone we enjoy spending time with and Someone who we have to ask to leave as soon as it’s over bc they’re intolerable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:22 AM
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Agree, business is a million times more interesting than STEM
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 03:04 AM
1

people who have good social skills had to practice too, it’s just that they enjoyed practicing and had early successes so they learned it young. It never felt like a chore to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:08 AM
2

Mixed signals are a woman’s bread and butter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:13 PM
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I like a woman who knows some sort of art or craft, it doesn’t really matter what tho. Just that she has a creative outlet Same with physical hobbies tbh. She should have one big physical hobby that keeps her active and that she’s at least okay at. Doesn’t really matter what. I do hope that she enjoys nature stuff tho, bc I really like the outdoors and I would like to enjoy some outdoor adventures with her Also generally just open minded and adventurous, I dislike picky people who always poo poo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:09 PM
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Girls give IOIs all the time even when they’re not super interested It really doesn’t tell you much tbh Tbh the whole line of “girls make the first move bc IOI” is just an extension of “girls just have to exist”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 08:44 PM
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Of course , I want a partner with roughly the same experience as me (preferably a bit less than me)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 06:59 PM
1

I’m 33
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:47 PM
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Red-leaning purple Don’t track my n but I’d estimate around 40 piv I have no idea about other kinds of “sex” idc about them I’ve been in 5 serious relationships (6 yrs, 4 yrs, 1 yr, 1 yr, 3 yrs) I’d estimate N for the past year at about 7 I’m not satisfied with my love life right now, my ex that I was in love with dumped my ass and now I’m just banging girls I don’t really even like bc hey at least it’s something. I am probably depressed tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 08:02 PM
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Yeah, really isn’t disavowing the anger phasers more about disavowing how uncool and incel-ish they are, rather than disavowing any specific belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 04:53 PM
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When I want to be validated I want to be told that I personally am awesome, that I personally am doing it right, it’s strange to me to even conceive of being validated by “that other guy who’s sorta like you is doing it right”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:26 AM
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How is your existence not validated when you watch movies, wherein you makeup the vast majority of protagonists? How is your existence not validated when the vast majority of athletes are men? How is your existence not validated when the vast majority of wealthy CEOs are men? How is your existence not validated when the majority of famous artists, writers, and poets are men? How is your existence not validated when you open up a history book to read about the accomplishments of men? Men are vali…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 03:40 AM
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I try to not judge this stuff like hat. Would it be better if sunsets were blue in a red sky? Would it be better if water were dirty and dirt were wet? I don’t know. It’s not better or worse, it’s just what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 09:15 PM
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Yeah I agree with that, stil I don’t feel like we’re seeing eye to eye here, idk what it is. On some leve I feel like TRP hypergamy is pretty distinct from what men do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 09:13 PM
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I don’t think it wholly explains it tho, bc hypergamy also has the aspect of “I only have eyes for you,” which is really more of a female thing than a male thing. Women who’s hypergamy is satisfied usually don’t keep looking, whereas men pretty much always keep looking (although admittedly not looking to commit)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 08:53 PM
2

Things women look for in a partner vs things men look for
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 08:42 PM
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I’m not following tho, I mean men usually marry across or down, women usually marry across or up in terms of status/means/class , do you disagree that is what actually happens in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 08:32 PM
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Hypergamous isn’t just “the best you can get” however It also entails only being happy with “better than me,” and being unwilling to settle by partnering with someone of lower status/means/class
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 07:52 PM
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No. Men are distinctly not hypergamous (“happy when they have one awesome partner who is higher status than them,”) rather men are polygamous (“happy when they have many partners, regardless of those partners status”)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 07:50 PM
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Oh 80% had sex ONCE A MONTH, I guess there’s nothing to worry about /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 12:39 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 12:37 AM
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I don’t like to discuss my N with girls I date. I’ll discuss it in general terms like maybe talking about some past experiences but I will not give a real number. If she wants to tell me her N, I’ll try to dissuade her from that. And yet some of them insist on telling me. This girl told me it was 200. Why did she think I would want to know that? Why did she want so badly to tell me that? I don’t understand some people’s thought process
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 12:10 AM
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If a girl is on the fence about you sometimes she’ll keep hanging out with you, have another drink, go to another bar, go look at this AWESOME FUNNY AMAZING BEST EVER VIDEO you wanna show her at home.. Anyway yeah I mean there’s not a bright line between direct intense hard sexual intent and joking around in a platonic way, it’s shades of gray
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:08 PM
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Yeah! I saw that. That’s the worst side of the left, and there’s more and more of them these days, it’s just an emotional explosive reaction to whatever viewpoint they don’t like,it suggests problems ahead on the left
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:06 PM
4

Tinder works the same on business trips as anywhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:59 AM
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I like this! Thanks for sharing Now that I think about it someone did this to me recently
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:58 AM
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What’s your cutoff for an athlete? Like a guy who plays pickup games for fun and is very fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:52 AM
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Okay that’s fair, I mean I would consider your view partially changed or at least clarified bc we do have a large contingent here who consider FWBs to be casual sex, even though it’s not a complete 100% pure bootycall. I’ve had casual partners who I took along on adventures (that I would be doing anyway) bc I thought it would be nice to have the company. From my perspective that’s a win win but some people do classifythat as beta buxing. I don’t think it is, imo it’s really a minimal sort of inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:35 AM
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I don’t agree that it’s always that dangerous, you just have to have the social skills to deliver it properly Anyway I do agree that humor doesn’t really lead to sexual attraction, but if she’s just meh about you physically then being fun or funny can keep her around long enough to get her back home
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:25 AM
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Fun game, guess people’s ages and ask them to guess yours
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:23 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:14 AM
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Do you really believe that nobody can ever say cocky funny shit and get away with t? That nobody enjoys that kind of humor?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:13 AM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:10 AM
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No I say it because I am one of those sadistic assholes and I know myself, and I’ve seen the guys who do it in BDSM communities and I recognize some weird part of me in them Also I don’t do BDSM or safe words or any of that shit, I’m just fuckin weird AF in the bedroom and women get off on it for some reason that I don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:05 AM
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Reread my comment. What I actually said is that we both get a chance to find out, but that it’s reasonable for me to assume it based on what I know about myself. LOL also your idea of narcissism is like “someone who believes he has a great life,” gtfoh with that self limiting bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:04 AM
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Also sometimes you spend some time in the game, you accumulate a long list of women who you might not hear from for 6 months but then she’s single again and she starts creepin around again and lingering and you know what’s up What might be “that one girl” if you’ve been doing this a few months becomes a bunch of them if you’ve been doing this a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:57 AM
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The only 40+ men who can get casual sex with very young, hot women are I’ll challenge this. What’s your definition of “casual”? I know older guys who date girls in their 20s off and on, like a FWB or FB thing which some people consider casual, there is a bit of beta bux going on there tho, usually in the form of dragging the girls along to do shit with them Also even if we knock that out, id argue that it’s a bit more expansive than your list of like .000001% outliers, I think we could probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:50 AM
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Someone’s opinions on this will go one of two ways: I’m a benefit to those in my life I’m a burden to those in my life I believe the former, based on the responses I get from people in my life, by how many people want to be involved with me, based on the relationships that I maintain. Some people look at their lives and believe the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:39 AM
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Yeah I mean there’s a tactful approach
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:28 AM
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is it? You don’t know me. I’ve got a lot going for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:24 AM
2

That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:22 AM
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The people who like to do degrading and mean shit during sex are sadistic assholes, there is a reason they’re good at it and by practicing it they become more that way
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:16 AM
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Right? How extra do you have to be to come up with your own pronouns to refer to yourself Where I live that will absolutely 100% get you ostracized
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 11:22 PM
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I like JP, and the opposition to him really kinda surprises me. A lot of it is poorly reasoned strawmanning. More of it is just outright name calling. I get the impression that most of his haters have not actually read his book
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 11:21 PM
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Jesus, I’m sorry yeah that’s pretty heavy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 11:17 PM
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Hm yeah could be that I’m digesting a lot of garbage-level discourse Idk interjections like that can be funny or fun in an appropriate context. You obvious have to have social skills to know when to and when not to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 11:01 PM
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Because fatness?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 10:54 PM
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I mean if I see an interesting looking girl, and she’s not in an apparent rush or anything, why not try to meet her I bring enough value that it’s reasonable to assume that I’m adding to her life by offering to get to know her. I mean at least, let’s find out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 10:52 PM
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How can you be a feminist and not see how casually it’s used for whatever the speaker doesn’t like? I like casually follow some leftist groups and it’s all over the place, toxic men this, toxic masculinity that. I’ve seen it applied to football ffs. Do you interact with other feminists? I just don’t see how you don’t see how often it’s applied to all things male
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 10:40 PM
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The original definition was the parts of masculinity that are harmful to men, eg being too “tough” to go see a doctor However in practice it has been greatly expanded beyond that, as used it just means “something I dislike about men” eg men are more aggressive and less agreeable than women and I don’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 05:57 PM
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Ah, ok. I misremembered yeah I see a lot of that too but idk there are always edge cases
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 05:04 PM
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That’s more of a qualification than a neg
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 05:01 PM
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It’s really not, ugly average dudes can get away with all sorts of cocky funny type behavior, they just have to be more socially aware of when it will and won’t work, they’ll get less forgiveness for their faux pas
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 04:59 PM
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Wait really I thought you agreed that some guys get put in a “fuck only” box
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 04:55 PM
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do you really not see the inherent contradiction between wanting to be abused and degraded sexually but also railing about toxic masculinity? Trying to separate those out, you’re creating this sort of razor thin distinction that doesn’t exist in the wild
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 04:50 PM
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Oh come on, that was the initial usage of the phrase, please don’t pretend that many feminists don’t now use it to mean “whatever about men I don’t like”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 04:18 PM
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Feminist is such a broad label to have almost no meaning When TRPs say it they are referring to extreme blue haired crazies When TBPs say it they are referring to anyone who believes women should have basic legal rights
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 04:11 PM
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Disagree wholeheartedly Of girls that are into me right away, most of them are into me Of girls who aren’t into me right away, most of them aren’t into me What better method would I have of knowing they’re into me then how they act around me? From my perspective if there is not anything physical going on the first date it’s time to move on Why would I invest a bunch of time and energy into girls who aren’t obviously into me, don’t know what they want, aren’t comfortable in their sexuality, etc. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 03:54 PM
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According to your definition (“would have been better off settling down 10 years earlier”) absolutely not. My dating life MASSIVELY improved in my late 20s and it’s still there today. Not uncommon for this to happen imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 03:19 PM
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Men will not lower their standards? Men will fuck anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 09:30 PM
1

Weird, I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 12:03 AM
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I don’t understand why someone in their 60s would get divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 08:55 PM
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Look, if this were some hot 10/10 dude and he were dragging along stupid naive 3/10 girls to buy him all kinds of shit and then act like “oh my I had no idea I just see you as a friend”, i would bet that all of a sudden everybody would see it as taking advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:59 PM
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I mean I feel like normal guys grow out of this type of behavior by the end of high school—when they reach adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:55 PM
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I mean, men who act like this guy yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:19 PM
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It’s a comparison I don’t think she actually is exploiting children and the handicapped
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:37 PM
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How about a child He certainly doesn’t seem mature
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:19 PM
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Is there any sort of performance requirement Like if I’m not feeling it can I just pump twice and call it good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:18 PM
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It’s like taking advantage of a child or mentally handicapped individual
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:08 PM
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What’s to discuss is how harshly we should judge women who take advantage of dudes like this IMO It’s like takin advantage of a mentally handicapped person it’s pretty low
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:07 PM
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LOL I’ve given this hypothetical woman literally every option from tolerate it all the way to tell him to fuck off, look at some point she just has to gauge it for herself how she wants to play it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:53 PM
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I think flirting will improve tips
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:15 PM
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Being negative all the time, drinking a lot, blaming her for a lot of my stress that i couldn’t handle or getting mad at her when the issue really was that I was stressed out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:14 PM
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Oh so she wants to be tipped for flirting and providing service but she doesn’t want to actually do it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:31 PM
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What kinda details ya looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:47 AM
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lol just give him shitty service then Jesus how is this such a dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:46 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:42 AM
1

“Hey actually hold on a sec I’ll brb”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:40 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:38 AM
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Yup I agree. I’m workin on it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:09 AM
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Male reddish purple I’m going though it right now Girlfriend who I really loved dumped me bc I am an asshole But, i don’t dwell on it, I say “oh yeah there’s that feeling”, I feel the feeling and let it pass, and I move on with my life. I do what I can to be a better man and I have faith that life will get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:01 AM
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Yeah I mean maybe it’s one of those things like you broke up and now she’s like “well i was never attracted to you anyway” which doesn’t paint her in the best light but it also is intended to REALLY hurt you, some people fee like being hurtful to an ex like that puts them in the better position. Anyway idk it was just a guess, sorry to hear about it man, sounds shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:58 AM
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In that context then she could just make up an excuse and leave Still tho I think the eye roll is fine, unless people in this hypothetical world are super heavy about everything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:54 AM
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In my experience at bars generally after serving me a drink the bartender may stay and chat they may not. If they don’t nobody would think that’s rude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:16 AM
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You said he’s flirting, here’s how I envisioned it All their business is done so any further interaction isn’t really required. He lays on his best line and shows obvious intent, she rolls her eyes and walks away
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:13 AM
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It’s a polite rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:10 AM
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How is rolling eyes and walking away not a polite rejection Maybe to the softest person on earth lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 11:52 PM
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Why are they challenging me on that I’m not disputing it Obviously it would be best if they didn’t have to have anything unpleasant happen ever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 11:45 PM
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I responded to a post asking for ways in which the girl could reject a politely flirting guy, and everybody had a million criticisms for what i said “Roll eyes” was too harsh and gonna get her fired (hmmm) “Give ‘nice try’ look” was too soft Also just stay and talk to him doesn’t work for some reason So since apparently this girl can’t figure it out my recommendation at that point is to get a different job
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 11:21 PM
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, when you held her under the blankets and gave her a Dutch oven you made her stop seeing you as an alpha and start seeing you as an immature little twat. I’m not following your logic, I do this sorta stuff with girls I just met and I laugh in their face while i do it, they’re still down to bang I’m fit tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:46 PM
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Who cares anyway? Like is it so uncomfortable to sit and talk to someone? If this girl is so socially inept that she can’t figure this out, I don’t know what to tell her, maybe get a different job that she’s better suited to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:10 PM
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Haha yea exactly, that girl from the purge planet I’d rather have the soft no of a ghosting than that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:21 PM
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Yeah I know hence why I disclaimed it Idk tho maybe if you say it with a biiiig smile
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:14 PM
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Ok then idk one step gentler, she can give the “nice try” look and walk away , what am i the arbiter of every social encounter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:13 PM
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Roll her eyes and walk away Or tell him to fuck off, might be a little harsh tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 07:02 PM
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I don’t think it would be possible in this situation, like the picture was pretty ridiculous, But truthfully t was just dumb fun, certainly not enough to show he’s mentally unstable or unsafe or of bad moral character or whatever, but hey stodgy old people in the court system don’t see it that way, to them it’s a real concern Also easy to order a psych exam when you do it all the time, you don’t pay the bill, you sorta just see it as a cost of doing business and don’t really consider the expense…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 06:10 PM
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Right? I feel like ghosting someone you actually know is pretty fucked up. Ghosting someone you barely know, who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:16 PM
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Bad bot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:10 PM
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Could be that she really felt that way then and now she’s just saving face
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:56 PM
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Yeah I mean if she won’t bang by the third date I generally consider her not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:54 PM
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How do you date someone for a few weeks and not have sex with them , that’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:48 PM
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It depends, if she thought I’m an ugly monster but I was just so aggressive and commanding that she couldn’t help herself around me, I’d be great with that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:36 PM
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eh, I like ghosting. I prefer ghosting. Here’s an anecdote: I went out with a girl the other day, she didn’t text back, I figure it’s over and move on. Then, like 2 days later she texts me to say she’s sorry she didn’t respond and she doesn’t wanna see me any more. Tbh I’d already sorta forgotten her at that point and moved on, for her to send me that, it was like salt in the wound and I wish she’d have just ghosted More generally I just don’t see what good comes out of telling someone you don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:25 PM
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Yeah I mean I haven’t done much crim but what i have has involved motion practice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:05 PM
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Wow I really disagree about that, I feel like older women are more likely to ask harder questions, test more, and just generally be less fun and free flowing than younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:55 PM
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Oh okay. Yeah I’m sure reducing CS is a big part of it as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:45 PM
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Probably jurisdictional difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:24 PM
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Yup take these stories with a grain of salt, but in my observations of these guys they aren’t doing great
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:23 PM
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Why do you say it’s a novel crusade to fight for custody To me it seems normal, who doesn’t want to ever see their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:22 PM
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Right what I’m saying is that there are some lawyers who violate the professional standards of conduct routinely
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 02:37 PM
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Yes , the wife was claiming he wasn’t safe around the kids based on this picture
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 02:36 PM
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No I agree totally not ethical I’m lucky tho, in my practice I’m not asked to push that line. I could see it being a real dilemma when you’re constantly asked to, constantly able to make the big money from doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:53 AM
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You can’t be serious I mean there’s even a sort of understanding about the shit they write in declarations to the court, it’s understood that often times it’s the client’s story and it’s not really believable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:51 AM
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My estimate would be that about 25% of lawyers I deal with are that reliable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:13 AM
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lol please yes It’s obviously subtle and there’s always a degree of deniability but of course yes. Some lawyers have that reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:47 AM
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Child support plus alimony? Again like I said these are friends not clients , I don’t see their actual finances
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:14 AM
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Idk I know lots and lots of lawyers who are shady af Not all of them but enough to go around
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:14 AM
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CA
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:45 AM
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CA TBF I don’t actually see these guys assets so I’m going off what they tel me and what their lives look like before and after
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:45 AM
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lol you act like lawyers don’t do unethical shit all day long , so long as they can get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:31 AM
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I’ve seen that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:27 AM
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Not even just physical abuse I know a guy whose ex used a single picture of him at another friends bachelor party to argue that he was mentally unstable and needed a $5000 psych evaluation. The court ordered it. He didn’t have $5000 so he stopped fighting and walked away (or more correctly he had $5000 but it would have sunk him and he thought it was bullshit)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:16 AM
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I was talking to a guy last night who has to pay his ex wife 75% of his take home pay. He is living in poverty to support them. I can’t imagine Britney is facing anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:09 AM
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I have options and I’m disgusted by fat people but I mean I’d still probably fuck an obese woman if the situation is right (I’m thinking like, it’s the end of the night, we’re drunk, I’ve got nothing else to do, she’s a fun girl)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:52 PM
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a 5'5" woman weighing 190 pounds would be at a BMI of 31.9 God I can’t express how disgusting this is to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:17 PM
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True but that sounds different from being proud of fucking her, wanting to be seen with her, wanting to actually be involved with her OP is asking about the RMP too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:15 PM
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idk it sounds like you sorta make sex into more of a production, I don’t do safe words or bdsm, all that sounds very structured I just sorta do what I want and pay attention to how she feels and reacts Anyway my point is it sounds like you would be surprised if some dude just started doin new things in the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 01:36 AM
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Your n is 3 and you’re so blown away by new things that you discuss it before hand I’ve banged my share of huge sluts and very few of them ever discussed sex with me in any way whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 01:21 AM
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LOL okay I think you just proved my point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 01:17 AM
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All things equal, do you think you’d be more or less likely to see something you didn’t expect than a woman with an N of 100
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 01:01 AM
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To “have seen it all” is an American idiomatic expression meaning that you think you have experienced everything that could be experienced. In reality you likely have not seen it all. The fact that you think you’ve seen it all belies your own lack of experience and/or imagination. Truly experienced people realize that they haven’t seen it all and won’t ever see it all, that there are infinite new novel experiences out there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:18 PM
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I could just as easily say it’s your lack of imagination, you apparently think you’ve seen it all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:11 PM
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It’s unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:03 PM
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Yes theoretically that could happen but it is not likely to, because each person has all their own little peculiarities and it’s not likely that one person will have all the peculiarities of 100 different people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:02 PM
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😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:01 PM
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No, I’m not saying that at all I’m saying that it’s not hard to recognize the look of “oh, I’ve never seen that before wow” in others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:41 PM
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How am I conflating two separate things I’m pretty experienced and every now and then I still see some kind of new move or new act, it surprises me I don’t know what you think I’m conflating that with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:40 PM
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See my other replies in this thread I just don’t think you can get the same breadth of experience with a couple of people as you can with a few dozen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:27 PM
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You could be right? I’m not saying this is an iron law, it’s jusf a trend I’ve sorta observed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:24 PM
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Yeah I mean it’s a general guidepost not a magic N Counter
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:46 PM
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I’m not talking about what’s necessary to be a decent partner, I’m talking about having seen everything under the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:45 PM
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Idk I take “not blown away by variety of sex moves” or “shows me moves I’ve not seen before” to mean very experienced It’s literally just a measure of experience , almost true by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:20 PM
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Breadth and depth , from STRs and LTRs respectively
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:16 PM
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Yeah I mean like 50 vs 2. Or 50 vs 10 I consider 10 low N
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:12 PM
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How can I explain this stuff? It’s so innately physical the only way I could show you is to do it to you. That’s literally how I’ve leadned is just having it happen as a result of natural reactions with various people. How can i explain it? The way I “feel” a particular look that I give is just a combination of facial muscles in my face? I could call it (for example) demanding or hard or evil or powerful but what does that even tell you? Really not much I’m sure it just leaves you with more ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:09 PM
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Ime girls are often blown away by things they hadn’t thought of before , they get addicted to it in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:04 PM
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ou can't tell the difference between a girl who has fucked 50 dudes and a girl who has fucked 60 dudes, but you can easily see a difference between those girls and a girl who has only fucked 3 dudes. Great point. I should have prefaced my comment below with this. You can tell GENERALLY not PRECISELY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:58 PM
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Yeah I’m more of a 5 night stand guy myself but imo i can tell the difference between a girl who’s near Virgin-ish and a girl who’s got similar experience to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:56 PM
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Right and not just with kink either but with random little sex moves , ways to touch a person, ways to look at a person, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:54 PM
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Omg you know better than that. GTFOH with “if you didn’t already think of it, you don’t want it.” Aren’t you a salesman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:54 PM
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Yeah maybe. It’s not just “kink” per se tho, it’s also knowing a variety of different sex moved. Like for me I’ve got a pretty high N, I’ve picked up one thing here one thing there from a lot of women, no way could I have figured all that stuff out if I had sex with just one woman, it doesn’t matter how freaky she was. All the different combinations of personalities over time gives me a breadth of experience that I couldn’t have with just one person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:53 PM
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I mean that if I’m dating Sarah in an LTR, I can do all the kink that Sarah can possibly imagine (depth of experience), but it will likely still be less variety than I’d get by having STRs with Stacy, Maria, Quinn, Camielle, and Kaleigh (breadth of experience)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:41 PM
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I just think there’s no substitute for the range of experiences you will get from many different partners. One person can’t conpete with the variety of many people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:38 PM
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When couples get into kink it’s generally depth rather than breadth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:24 PM
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You can tell by the way that they have sex, I mean at least in broad strokes I would say that experienced women are way better in bed, they have a lot of interesting moves, but on the other hand when you try freaky shit they’re less likely to be blown away by it, they’re kinda jaded. And on the other side of it, less experienced women are generally more like a cold fish and also they’re often blown away by even slightly kinky things There’s something distinct about the sort of reaction that a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:15 PM
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lol what? So you believe that all people have equal traits for earning potential
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 05:24 PM
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Yup idk what these people are talking about. We want a woman brained feminine woman. We don’t want an absolute raging bitch. Idk why these people act like the one entails the other
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 05:11 PM
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I have no idea, to me that isn’t really advice, it’s a non-statement. If you’re asking what I do would before I learned how to flirt with women it would be something like: I would ramble more and talk about hobbies, I wouldn’t be as direct, I wouldn’t make the interaction about “us” in a playful way, I wouldn’t show intent clearly. I would probably just interact with her as I would with a friend and then hope something happened somehow If you’re asking what comes naturally to me now that I’ve le…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 04:08 PM
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Yes, that is helpful, thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 04:01 PM
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One is slim but not active , one is a little chubby but very active. Probably like BMI 20 and 25 if that helps paint a picture Personality wise we do not connect for a long term relationship. But it works for now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:20 PM
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That they do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:13 PM
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If you can fit an archetype who is successful with women and just be “that guy” in your local scene you can kill it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 04:21 AM
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🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 04:09 AM
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guys by and large are so lazy, being the top 10% or 20% or whatever isn’t that hard. Seriously eat healthy and work out 3x a week, BAM top 20% So it’s tougher when you’re older? Okay? Take TRT then? Hire a trainer and a chef? Use your old man dollars to have a super cool “at a world class place every weekend” lifestyle? Idk do something that makes you stand out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:53 AM
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Loud in bed or wha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:39 AM
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Yup, my ex’s brothers were like 5’4-5’6 they absolutely killed it bc they had a DGAF attitude, it really does make a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:36 AM
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5’10 checking in, it’s only ever held me back with women 5’11 and above
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:33 AM
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Aw is that real Does TRP have conferences Those guys gotta be in their 50s Edit and 60s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:30 AM
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Welp I’ve got 2 steady plates now and working on a third Guess I’m adjusting to the single life again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:21 AM
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Psh no NTJ-ENFP is a great relationship. It’s more like the SFJ woman that’s gonna cause NTJ problems
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:18 AM
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Most NT anything types can absolutely kill it if they’re willi to expose themselves to enough trial and error in the real world to figure it out. That said if they don’t, they generally struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:15 AM
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INTJ can kill it with women once they figure out a system
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:08 AM
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Can you please elucidate the difference between CMV and “critique my theory”? I believe that would be helpful to aspiring posters
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:04 AM
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No the feminine personality can be enjoyable too, like being whimsical, playful, wonderous, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:55 PM
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Also have boatloads of money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 08:37 PM
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Ok? Yeah true and
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 04:47 PM
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lol no I mean I use my money to purchase equipment for hobbies and clothes and festivals
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 02:16 AM
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Of course I care about my own feelings more than the feelings of others, are you for real right now? What honest person can say they don’t Look, I’m responsible for me. Other people are responsible for themselves. We all look out for ourselves and we all make sure we are taken care of. If someone needs help or assistance beyond that they can ask for it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:52 PM
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I’m a lawyer, I have a great life AMA Money is useful to me only as a tool, it allows me to purchase a lifestyle I also have some status from being a lawyer, some women look up to it. Some don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:42 PM
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There are a few women I can think of that I respect in a professional context. They do good work and I look up to what they’ve achieved during their careers. Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:07 PM
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I do care about their feelings. I don’t assume responsibility for them tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:01 PM
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Y’all really do believe women are children don’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:57 PM
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She’s not a child, lmfao she can decide for herself if she wants to stay or go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:36 PM
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I mean, let’s not get carried away, I want enough intimacy that we can sleep together or watch a movie on the couch some times, I’m not saying I want to gaze lovingly into her eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:05 PM
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I think it’s still a nurse tho There are lesser nursers than RNs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:03 AM
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Hey bro I need someone to listen to my ramblings and tell me I’m brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:02 AM
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Ugh yea I can relate to this even tho I’m not a natural. I need an outlet for my softer side. Usually I’ll just pick one plate that is going to get a sort of semi-girlfriend treatment, and the rest will get the sex object treatment. It’s tough tho bc the semi-girlfriend always wants exclusivity or some shit eventually, or she just wants to go back to being fucked without any intimacy whatsoever which for me is a deal killer, once I’ve crossed that line there’s no going back
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 01:25 AM
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From a guys perspective it’s surprising af when that happens bc usually most girls want more and like, I just say the word and they’re all about it. When they’re just like “nah,” it’s a little jarring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 01:18 AM
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I’ve been in that situation, it’s not that I’m super hot or anything, we just were not compatible for a relationship. The sex was hot but in the end I liked her a lot more than she liked me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 01:13 AM
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Hmm yeah I can see it that way, I would change my view to accommodate that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 11:12 PM
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It’s a basket of traits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:54 PM
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I believe some types of nursing only require the associates degree, I could be wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:53 PM
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Not too far off, though my family steered me away from the military when I was considering it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:51 PM
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Ive thrown girls I wasn’t particularly attracted to a bang because they wanted it, it’s not a big deal, it happens, sometimes you’re just there together at the end of the night and why not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 09:07 PM
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yeah I don’t agree with that, some women are much more feminine than others
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:32 PM
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All females have female nature to greater or lesser degrees would be a more complete statement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:14 PM
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women have a hypergamous, machiavellian, manipulative, childlike, solipsistic, immature, blame shifting, impulsive nature that some just hold back on. I think you’re misstating TRP belief, they don’t believe that some women hold back on it, they believe that “female nature” is a common thread of traits that all women have to greater or lesser degrees, this is subtly different from what you’re saying. I think most RP people would agree that some women barely present any of the “female nature” tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:04 PM
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Then how can you know you’re ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:59 PM
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I am ugly, I’m a skinny nerd, I have a big crooked nose and a thick caveman browline, one of my cheeks is misshapen from fighting as a kid, my jaw is weakish and my beard has unappealing patches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:55 PM
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Idk I kinda have mixed feelings about it, I mean for me I feel like bc I have a great job I have the resources to pursue my dreams and to bring a partner along as I see fit A lot of my friends basically can maybe come do something fun like once a month , kinda sucks for them tbh. Same with my sister, she barely can afford to do anything she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:54 PM
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I’m glad they did, I have a great job now, they steered me in a good direction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:33 PM
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Nope I’m the youngest Only male child tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:31 PM
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Yeah that sounds very familiar to where I live, but I went to private school so I was sorta sheltered from all that. Didn’t really realize the economic reality of it til later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:30 PM
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Field test it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:18 PM
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This was really a night and day thing for me, when I grew up, basically for me and all the people I went to high school with, college was not optional, we were going. I think over 90% of my high school class went to college, maybe 95 even. Then when i met people of other backgrounds later in life, for them it really wasn’t that way growing up. To me I couldn’t even imagine that like, not going to college? How would I get a good job
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:14 PM
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Ah okay gotcha , yeah ime working class women don’t do this , it’s a middle class and UMC thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:07 PM
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Idk I’m upper middle class and my parents impressed it on me that I needed to study something sensible and have a plan to get a good job. My sister was told to pursue her dreams and get an art degree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:05 PM
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Yeah that’s true. I believe this guy was more just reaching for any rationalization he could as to why he didn’t have to actually go out and do anything to solve his problems, he just wanted to gripe and have a magical fix somehow I mean that said, I do think he really believeed that approaching was creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:03 PM
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The only incels I’ve ever know irl have been like this One guy, I told him he should come out to the bar with me to meet women, he launched into this huge rant about how creepy it was to approach women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 05:48 PM
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why would I need to explain that, it’s still less economically viable than other degrees Why does an artist even need an art degree lmfao, most artists I’ve ever known just made shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:57 PM
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"Well, I'll be a teacher because it's muh passion and it doesn't matter anyway because a man will be able to support me." I don’t think people are saying this is how it works, it’s more that because on some level they know they’ll always be taken care of, they just “pursue their dreams” and “be themselves” and “know it’ll all work out” etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:33 PM
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I mean maybe they don’t “plan” to mooch, but they do pursue degrees that are less economically viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:31 PM
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Submissive isn’t the same as passive tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:19 PM
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I had an ex who said it was basically like, if I made a fist, and you inserted your index finger into it forcefully. She said for girls that it felt like that, that it was more “no feeling” than a bad or painful feeling. Is that a fair representation? I appreciate your explanation by the way, that goes along way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:58 PM
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Yeah I’m kinda of two minds on this idk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:53 PM
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Not particularly pleasurable physically but it’s still fun Nope. You know what. It’s too intertwined. It’s all pleasure. Just because it’s not the intense physical pleasure of orgasm doesn’t mean it isn’t physically pleasurable. If you mean no orgasm just say that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:45 PM
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I have not. I’ve had either both, or just the physical. I’ve also had sex that was neither. But never emotionally pleasurable and physically unpleasurable. I don’t think the mechanics of it work like that for a guy. It has to be pleasurable physically or it’s not going anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:44 PM
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Women do like it tho? I figured it’s just our different biology that somehow women like getting penetrated
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:41 PM
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I can, to me getting penetrated sounds like the worst thing ever, I don’t understand how women like it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:36 PM
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My argument would be that they’re so intertwined that even if you can separate them in the lab, that’s a situation that only happens in the lab, it’s not useful for understanding what happens irl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:15 PM
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I didn’t report it FYI Someone else Nor am I the downvoter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:02 PM
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To say, “it wasn’t pleasurable, it was only emotionally pleasurable” to me that’s nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:47 PM
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Still feels pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:46 PM
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first of all, I like to argue But also, I mean I read what you said not to post and tbh it was sorta confusing to me, I wasn’t at all clear on whether you’d want something like what he posted, or what I posted, or if you were strictly trying to rule out the lowest of the low “hell yeah I like sluts”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:09 PM
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But he isn’t saying that he’d have casual sex with them, he’s saying that he judges them as suitable for casual sex and not relationships I mean those are similar but not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:48 PM
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That isn’t what you said not to post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:34 PM
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I do notice, I don’t judge If I make any kind of judgment at all, it’s emotional/prerational, and converted into words it’s something like “oh, she’s broadcasting sex appeal, lets go find out if she’s receptive”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:32 PM
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Now we are separating out physical feelings and emotional feelings as if one is pleasure and the other isn’t? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:12 PM
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Yeah idk in my experience they enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 06:43 PM
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I’m not following, most women enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 06:15 PM
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So you believe women are generally submissive as a means of self sacrifice? That they’d prefer to be dominant but they give that up for their men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 06:09 PM
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So women are just overwhelmingly lazy and/or not driven ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 06:06 PM
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How research funding works 101
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:24 PM
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how do you make this consistent with the fact that women overwhelmingly choose a submissive sexual role
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:11 PM
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Yes it does generally increase sex drive No it is not that simple as “more T more sex drive,” for example many people have problems with side effects on T or excess estrogen problems as a result of increased T
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:37 PM
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Idk man my skin looks way better since I started washing daily and using facial lotion everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 02:06 PM
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Dude in the US it’s all fat sized H&M is okay but it’s starting to get a little young for me I really enjoy buying clothes when I’m able to visit the EU, the cuts are so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:45 PM
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I’ll check it out thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:44 PM
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Hm yeah good call, I’ll give those places another look
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 09:42 PM
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I’m oily I’m 34 so I’ve got some wrinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 09:07 PM
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Can you elaborate on skincare I currently wash my face and use facial spf lotion every day Anything else that you’d recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 06:58 PM
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Yea, I wear tailored ones at my job, now that you mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 05:20 PM
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Where on earth do people find button down shirts that aren’t cut for obese men Basically all I can find that fits are v-necks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 04:59 PM
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focus on trying to get the myriad unique-individual to behave in pre-determined boiler plate exchanges, Maybe that’s all you can see of RP theory right now? Really once you internalize this stuff you will realize you can employ it successfully in a million different ways. What parts of it do you see as cookie cutter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 04:36 PM
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I’m not talking about edge cases or exceptions I’m talkung about general trends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 05:14 AM
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You think disease is attractive ? As a general rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 02:35 AM
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So qualitative as to be meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:33 AM
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That girl isn’t butch imo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:29 AM
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they prefer women with “more chiseled faces and masculine undertones” than the dainty, feminine beauties of bridal catalogues. What does this even mean Sure that could mean butch women, it could also mean sluts / athletic women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:12 AM
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I’ll debate this. Of course they can be Disease, disfunction, etc is objectively not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:06 AM
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Right? It’s depends how you define value If you use a market theory of valuation, then high value men absolutely do cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:03 AM
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Toxic" masculinity is where masculine norms start damaging men. This is what it originally meant however in recent usage it’s jusf a callout for whatever the speaker doesn’t like about masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:00 AM
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Can’t tell if ppd-angel is low key throwing shade
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 09:19 PM
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Idk sometimes it’s easier to flesh out ideas by proposinf them and trying to defend them (ie cmv)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 08:03 PM
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I mean we have to work with a degree of uncertainty always, when I’m spitballin I’m not going for perfect, I’m just working out the ideas Propose - revise/refine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:23 PM
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lol what no You can start an argument with a proposed or assumed or hypothetical premise, why wouldn’t you be able to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:47 PM
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No why would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 04:55 PM
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Do you think your boyfriend is the ideal human male
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 04:28 PM
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How is this gold digging She very obviously selected him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 03:11 AM
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I’m just speculating. I don’t actually know which is right or to what degree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:00 PM
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🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 05:12 AM
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Yeah it’s not a reward but it is choosing the best according to some standard
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 11:02 PM
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do you just want to fuck? Indiscriminately?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 10:29 PM
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Maybe her internal state and external signaling are not congruent (ie she is signaling that she’s receptive and giving a green light, even though her internal state doesn’t reflect that)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 10:26 PM
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Oh neat! I’m gonna do one of these with a friend in a couple weeks I have a daily meditation practice tho like 20-30 minutes a day, I mean, is it really much different from meditating? I’m not really scared of it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 10:12 PM
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Howdy folks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 10:11 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 07:58 PM
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For further reading in this subject, I’d recommend Malcolm gladwell’s Outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 07:17 PM
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Talent, charm, charisma, whatever variable you cite, it doesn’t matter. Lots and lots of others have it just as much, but they just didn’t have the same luck. I agree with you that charisma matters and that it’s attractive but it’s not what really gets all those fans I have a personal anecdote—I had some minor local celebrity (name recognition, not even anything specia) when I was younger and it was crazy. I was the same person I’d been six months before, but now women sorta lingered, the way th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 07:12 PM
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y "Women love rockstars because of their fame," without giving any consideration to why they acquired that fame in the first place. But with any superstar, sure they’re talented but they’re also lucky. There are probably a bunch of equally talented people who didn’t make it big, and big surprise these people don’t get anywhere near the same amount of fans. On some level, it really is the celebrity and power and status that lots of people fall for
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:52 PM
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Duh authorial intent doesn’t matter, once the words are out in the world it’s the interpretation that matters Also that could be read as “would it be consistent”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:01 PM
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My older sister was a big “be yourself” person, she would always offer that to me as genuine advice, when I was trying to improve myself as a kid, she’d often criticize attempts to do so as inauthentic, basically it took me a lot of my teenage years to be able to realize she was full of shit and not a great source of advice I dunno why y’all act like this isn’t a common thing, I know lots of people who have similar experiences with this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:59 PM
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I dunno man, if I want something serious with a girl she better be damn good at listening to me talk about all my random shit for hours on end. Bonus points if she can contribute but I mean just sitting there and listening and at least understanding and appreciating what I’m saying is a baseline
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:44 PM
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What I was saying is that when a guy can't take a "covert" no, you have to make it more overt. Some guys just learn to persist through or ignore soft no’s, because women often use soft no’s to mean, “not yet,” or “maybe” or “we’ll see” This is sort of a classic example— if a girl says “we’re not having sex tonight,” it usually means that she’s considering it and you probably will
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:12 PM
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One other source of error could be that the women don’t realize how forward they’re acting and what signals they are giving. The men could be reading the signals properly, it’s just she’s sending signals which are incongruent with her feelings. So rather than men overestimating 30% of the time, we could have something like women not being aware of their signaling 30% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:01 PM
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A Becky is a basic white girl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 04:14 PM
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The perfect TRP “relationship” is more like a hot girl that you call for sex when you want it, and tell her to leave when you want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 03:17 AM
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Hypergamy isn’t “the best you can get,” it’s “better than you”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 02:47 AM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:52 PM
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Why’d you get your flair revoked?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:50 PM
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Thanks for the explanation! Appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:48 PM
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Can you explain? Is it just discussing race at all that’s a problem? My position here is that no race has a monopoly on racism. In-group out-group thinking applies to all people. I didn’t think i was saying that in a particularly inciting way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:12 PM
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Lmfao have you ever known any nonwhite people , you can’t be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 07:53 PM
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Right? Literally what attraction is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:59 PM
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