Callanovo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls? Well, it’s a precedent set by centuries of culture, for one thing. I also think that men tend to be frozen psychologically in their younger years for various reasons. Women tend to be jolted out of childish mindsets by adult responsibilities, but men are often coddled and simply do not grow.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/21 12:23 AM
3	The Power of ✨Allowing Men To Feel Needed✨ I agree and it’s a bit controversial from the libfem standpoint and took me a long time to realize. I tried to embody so much androgyny. Over time and studying some of the same things you’re talking about, I realized how wonderful it is to lean into this dynamic in heterosexual relationships, how warm and exciting and romantic and sexy. In my experience, it is THE source of erotic energy in a relationship. But it’s also easy to take it too far and too seriously. In a healthy relationship, the ra…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 12:16 AM
3	Twitter finds an FDS post and scrotes are mad That post was like a glass of cold water in my face. Holy shit man… that guy should not be in the dating pool, telling women to lower their expectations because he’s wounded. He should be out fixing himself. No one had ever told him that before. Could I tell men that? I think maybe I could. I mean he was essentially telling her he was going to have her waste her time and go into emotional debt for him. That’s not attractive because it’s not okay. If you’re dating to improve your life, you want s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/21 05:00 PM
45	Things that are definitely NOT queen energy and why FDS must remain blunt and focused on priorities / real life strategies rather than blind following ideologies and people pleasing everyone Coddling is toxic femininity and FDS is the first megaphone blaring that that I ever heard and I want to hear it over and over and over and LOUD	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/21 10:50 PM
7	My name change was influenced by this sub I love this story!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/21 12:36 AM
6	If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDS Soooo true! FDS is like a master class in throwing back the curtain in all the ways we give up the power we have, and showing us that we don’t have to. We are conditioned to give it up, but FDS is for people who are ready to wake up out of their conditioning	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/21 12:32 AM
32	I am done with trying to make pickmes see the light How is you trying to help pickmes “see the light” any different from what they do with their male projects? Live your own life. Don’t worry about pickmes unless they are you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 07:54 PM
2	Daily reminder on how to be a HVW This is so insightful and important; unconscious self-sabotage is such a prevalent dynamic in so many peoples lives. I noticed it so much since I’ve started therapy. For instance my dad is LV and was basically absent in fatherly roles, so I create these situations where I feel or appear helpless and shoot myself in the foot so that some father figure has to come in and rescue and protect me. I’ve begun to take more ownership of areas where I have a really strong inclination to just act helpless …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 04:54 AM
43	FDS is not just about man bashing - it’s looking at your own pick me behaviour too. Yes! I love how on FDS, when a poster talks about how she was with a horrible guy for a long period, she will often throw in a clown emoji. The ability to self-roast is hilarious and great. I’ll be honest - I’ve never had a fully-fledged pickme phase. I’ve had unrequited crushes and felt sad and lonely, and vindictive towards more attractive women, but I don’t waste my time with scrotes, I’ve always been repulsed and astonished by the way most men behave. So the majority of the posts on here don…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/21 09:49 PM
3	SHIT LIST 💩 a "get the fuck over him" strategy for breakups. I had a long-term situationship with a narcissist who would occasionally send me really vicious, toxic, haughty emails if I ever exhibited a sign of independent behavior. It was an on and off relationship for far longer than it needed to be - I took him back many times after I knew better. One of the last breakups, he sent me one of his windbaggy emails and I just saw how small and nasty he was, how desperately he was trying to pull me down to his level. I forwarded the email to a friend and sai…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 05:27 PM
1	It Never Ends What a fucking idiot. How clueless can people be?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 05:20 PM
1	I’m reading “Life and Death” by Andrea Dworkin. She’s telling it like it is! As society evolves to be more equitable and women don’t need to marry men, the birth rate will drop and overpopulation will solve itself! That’s my fantasy... FDS gives me hope that it is viable 🙏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 05:12 PM