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That's great you don't believe in God. Beliefs are stupid across the board. You either know something or you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:32 AM
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Errrr yes.....yes we still have a tonne of guys chasing modern Western women 😂 even though you know it's the same sort of task as moving a mountain. Go where you're appreciated. Let the degenerates enjoy themselves in their throwaway internet relationships. There's billions of non modern Western women who love boyfriend and want families still... Or try and find a western women who hasn't been exposed to.the brainwashing...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:44 AM
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No. That's not the definition of responsibility... And truly no need to be sorry for those words you just made up...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:04 PM
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Well says no one inparticular. Except it's just a responsibility of adults. Unless you hate life itself and wish it to discontinue.... And no. No matter how many times you repeat it. Doing what you want whenever you want is the OPPOSITE of being an adult. It's for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:51 PM
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Being an adult actually means accepting you cannot do whatever you want whenever you want. That's a child's world view. Adults have things called responsibilities. Obviously nothing is going to apply to every single person's circumstance, but generally speaking, one of the major ones is to procreate. Otherwise we all die here.... I totally agree, no one male or female should live one specific way, nor did anyone suggest females don't have skills or abilities. Nor should you be embarrassed to.be …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:30 PM
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Well part of life and being an adult is accepting what you actually are. I'm sure they're times when the gazelle would prefer to be the lion. Males and females are not the same at all. Have very different natural skillsets and abilities. These should be celebrated. You shouldn't be embarrassed by how you are born or what you are. You're not a child I assume so unfortunately in non clown world, you cannot have what you want whenever you want and do whatever you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:21 PM
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Degeneracy killed the biological clock for modern Western females. In fact many of them have no problem murdering THEIR OWN unborn child coz it might make me phat innit! SO this theory is totally flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:21 PM
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There are many options. The ones being taught to men is you are fricking useless. You need to go to the gym a gazillion times a day, earn a gazillion dollars. Learn game, to this do that..... my God! We're teaching men they're faulty by default. You are not. Society has become degenerate. Yes sure, you can do all those things listed and get with one of these women. But you would have wasted your entire life, because you would have had to change everything you are to something else which degenera…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:14 PM
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Same ol stuff You men are worthless. To even get a chance of a date you have to be tremendously valuable...yadda yadda self improvement stop whining BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:42 PM
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What's even more concerning is that these ladies don't even give second thought to murdering unborn children by taking couple pills - coz it might ruin their chances to have fun and rad experiences.. disturbing. Used to be a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 12:03 PM
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My suggestion is to study politics and inparticular how it swings like a pendulum throughout time from left to right, back again and repeat. As you don't seem to believe me. It's a natural phenomena played out over centuries. Nothing to do with dating or males. Except males have to lead the way in the reverse swing because women want to stay within the popular gp so will vote with whomever the media at the time tells them too. Men are not bound by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:08 PM
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Nothing to do with body parts. There are huge differences between males and females apart from body parts. I'm also not hateful. Please don't put your own ideas onto me because they're contrary to yours. I'm a very happy and peaceful person full of love and joy. I just report the truth, no hate attached
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:00 PM
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Many. One example would be here in UK you can now be jailed for "naughty words" on the internet. Many jailed as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:21 PM
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I love the way you guys are willing to do anything to get with one of these folks 😂 How about teaching women to make some sort of effort rather than it being a male Olympic judgement contest 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:19 AM
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You say if men didn't care about getting laid. Well obviously you do not understand males. Male's sex drive is nature driven. It's like having blue eyes. Not much you can do about it. It is not the same for women who deem a lot of men creepy for this reason. It's the nature of man and needs to be respected. It's the reason why humans have survived so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:21 AM
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No this is not it. Politics is like a pendulum. We have to discount women here, because they will generally vote for whoever the media tells them too. But the west went too far to.the left. As a result caused massive divisions, damaged children with the promotion at early ages of LGBTQ, ruined the economy, got involved in too many wars and started taking people's rights away. When you veer this much to the left and wreck massive damage on people's lives, people start to vote the opposite. So it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:18 AM
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For me the difference bw friendliness and flirtiness is. Former is just asking a series of questions. The latter, you do something to.evoke an emotional response - which could take a gazillion different forms depending on the situation.
/r/seduction09/12/24 12:33 AM
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Don't think it's a great idea to compliment their bodies..... Yes. Confidence is simply, having faith in oneself.
/r/seduction09/12/24 12:28 AM
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Humans are not the same. Men and women are certainly not the same. There isn't one human standard or lifepath. Secondly in the west, women have had equal rights for decades. But it's only since social media that they decided to hate on men, become narcissistic, became promiscuous, don't want children anymore. So nothing to do with rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:37 PM
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I am not a degenerate myself and avoid degenerate folks. My advice was for those wishing to deal with degenerates. So no sex for me with these folks. I only have sex with spirituality attuned people, with morals and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:41 AM
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Yes. Otherwise I wouldn't do it I would do something else if it didn't work..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:54 AM
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I didn't say that if you read what.i wrote. The majority of western modern women have few morals, see men as an experience, lack long term thinking, worship social media and are generally degenerates. So you shouldn't take them as serious human beings and just have fun with.them - not saying be mean. Some modern Western women are not like that and these women deserve protecting at all costs. Note western women make up small percentage of total women, so not talking about all women...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:27 PM
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Yes please let go of idea of soulmate. Modern women women don't believe in it. Men are "an experience" an accessory only. If you want to deal with.them treat accordingly. Very few of these women have morals, long term thinking or want a child ( ruins their insta photos). Sleep with them, have a good time, just don't expect for a long time. Attention spans at all time lows...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:22 PM
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Just go to another country. Women are nicer people and better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 08:03 AM
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The biggest way it changed things in dating is it boosted women's egos. Women who are average or below genuinely think they are gods gift. As such there has been a change a women now look down on men, as social media has become the prize and the ladies are the ones offering up prizes. Embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:31 AM
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In my experience looks for men matter absolutely nothing to women. It's how competent the man is essentially in the game of life. Ive seen the most revolting looking men with stunning women. So yeah agree Men should not be so obsessed with taking pictures of themselves in the gym and moisturizing all day. Need to develop skills.....if you excel in something and are normal, you'll probably get someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:42 PM
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There was no equality under the Biden Harris administration, homelessness was through the roof, as were divisions between peoples. Women's rights is a misnomer. If you believe in women's rights, then you must bow down to a boss granting you these rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:05 PM
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If you think Trump will be bad consider the alternative. Unthinkable.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:58 PM
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I don't think it's just a financial thing. But in those countries people still have morals and traditions. Many religious still. Most cherish the family and understand the compromises necessary to have one. Western women there are no compromises. You have to.do exactly as they say, and there are tonnes of guys willing to bow down and devalue themselves to their selfish desires.
/r/seduction24/11/24 10:11 AM
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No I disagree. Not just for man's benefit. For anyones benefit. Women generally do not seek self improvement at all. They assume, (wrongly) they are perfect humans. This is social media delusion. Note: this is different from "working hard"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:46 PM
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The current dating situation is indeed strange. Women have upped their standards. So you need to be offering A LOT to get even with an average female. You will need to learn confidence, have decent job/house, be a great entertainer, be great in bed and lead everything, expected to pay more than 50%, be emotionally available. All the while females don't seem to be raising their standards in anyway shape or form to be better people or partners. They just are. No desire to evolve.... Essentially we…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:33 PM
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Women live by emotions not logic. So little long term thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:21 PM
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I honestly don't understand how a women can look at flesh and think it disgusting. Then the same flesh is suddenly sexy and amazing because of a job change? Doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:08 PM
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I'm taking about men who prior to fame were considered unattractive, then when they are famous a magical transformation takes place...and the same flesh, the same atom arrangements are magically attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:03 PM
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Yeah right.... Men are actually fantastic You would notice it if we suddenly were removed from society and you had to step up. You should be more respectful. Women just always want what they can't have and are never satisfied...not men's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:22 AM
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Hating on anyone is degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:07 AM
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Abortion is literally murder. You cannot twist it otherwise. If you support the murder if children I think there's something seriously wrong with you. Oh sorry did having a baby ruin your Netflix schedule?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:50 AM
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Sounds great. I may get into a relationship for a short while, with someone who doesn't really like me. Where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:38 AM
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No this is incorrect. This wasn't my preconceived notion. My preconceived notion before visiting these forums, was women are attracted to men. But I've been told a gazillion times on here by men and particularly women this is not the case. They dislike the look of most men. So it's kind of the opposite of me going with my preconceived notion and rejecting your answer, I rejected it based on the data I'm receiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:15 PM
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Yes I think this is true. Ty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:09 PM
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I think if you read the forums nearly all women say they find most men unattractive. So I don't think what you're saying is true, maybe for an extreme minority.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:31 PM
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Thanks that makes sense. It also matches the reference I have of my brother's marriage. His wife told me initially she did not find him attractive at all. And even though he was not doing well at the time, the reason she got with him was because she saw he had the potential to.do well. And he has gone on to do very well. But they're in marriage counseling now.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:28 PM
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Not sure why you say I'm sexist? I've been told in here by women they generally are not physically attracted to makes. Leads to conclude, confidence, fame and fortune is what attracts the girls ( as mentioned in this post) Instead of just shouting I'm a sexist, if women are not attracted to looks, fame, confidence or wealth (you label sexist belief) what are they attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:57 PM
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Ok ty. Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:51 PM
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Ty. Very interesting take. Will need to digest. Does make a lot of sense initially
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:49 PM
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Maybe I didn't understand correctly? Because the person said charisma is similar to sales techniques. I have studied NLP and such techniques. Yes I could use it on a women and it may work. But they were seduced by a technique not by me, or anything about me. This is why I don't like to do it. But I fully understand it works. I see guys do it all the time. Just not for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:00 PM
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TY
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:54 PM
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Yes you're probably right. To me it's snake oil, manipulation. You shouldn't try and influence others by NLP or psychology. Your inherent self should be enough. But that is just my opinion and I know it doesn't usually yield results where as sales techniques do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:37 PM
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I think this is a mistake men who can't get women make. They believe somehow down the line women will be missing out for not selecting them. Many western women these days do not want children. And those that do, many happy doing so without long term partner. What I'm saying is they are not missing out. Only average men and below are. They are living the dream life. And folks shouldn't be bitter about it. It's nice that some section of western society is living the dream life. Average men and bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:31 PM
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Yes, but I don't think modern women looking for commitment. Because they can taste caviar anytime they please. I think the whole commitment thing was when women we're economically not independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 10:51 AM
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It's not impossible but you have to be the world's best salesman. These people don't like you, and you have to.manipulate them to likeing you with words. Probably not gonna end well. Just accept if you're normal and male in the west women don't want you. And go where you are wanted ( majority of the world) or forget about. Don't force someone to like you bro..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:09 AM
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Yeah I think naturally all humans are selfish and will take advantage of situations. It's not fair, but life isn't. If you got all these options you're going to take advantage whether you're man or women - rather than it being specifically a female problem. I'm not sure why average and below average men still worship these ladies though - they don't like or want you, what part do they not understand? Go abroad where they still dig average dudes or get a dog. This is the realty of the situation .…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:40 PM
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Women? They will always complain! The only disconcerting thing that strikes me is. It's clear in a fair environment women do not like normal, average and below average men. Because now they have choice they are not selected. So there must be millions of women who got married before this shift, to a normal guy who must be living in agony everyday - to put up with a normal average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:33 PM
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An infinite supply of women whenever I wanted? lolz.... sounds like a tough life indeed!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:10 PM
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Can't disagree with that. I remember pre internet and pre mobiles. The people you dated were who ever was at your local pub! That was it lol. How times have changed......
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:36 PM
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I think this is basically it. Women before in many cases had to date Dave the electrician for survival. No longer the case. And because of social media and apps, women have a tonn of options. Why have chicken nuggets when you can have cavier? Sucks for most men but it is just the way it is. IF roles were reversed we wouldn't be complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:30 PM
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Lets be clear, there is no current left wing in politics. Genuine left wing folks care about freedoms, liberty and the working classes. The Dems in America have attacked all these things. We need a return of genuine left wing to provide natural balance for the right wing. What we witnessed was an overtaking of the Democratic party by some very disturbed individuals who did their upmost to destroy everything important to normal folks - freedoms and their pockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:35 PM
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Yeah. Tough life lolz...good for them. Everyone seems to be going for folks who don't want them. Women chasing chads - chads don't want them Average men chasing average women who don't want them. Everyone wants what they can't have. Probably not gonna end well lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:02 AM
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Sadly this is the case. They want what that can't have and disregard what they can have. And if you're the guy with 1000 women chasing you, no reason to commit. New beautiful women everyday -
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:53 AM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:35 PM
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Why bother trying to date a species that doesn't particularly like you, doesn't find you attractive and will only get with you if you can offer them cool stuff, and the moment you don't, it's over? Do you enjoy pain and torture? Lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:50 AM
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We should STOP trying to invert everything in the world. We don't need to teach women to become men. Let's try and avoid complete clown world please
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:29 PM
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Everyone experience is different and maybe we're in different age groups.. But absolutely I don't know any man who is ok with a women who has slept with a lot of guys. They would absolutely say and think it disgusting and would never entertain a relationship with these people. Maybe times have changed and sleeping with whomever is no longer degenerate but deemed acceptable behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:44 AM
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As for FWB this is just a reflection of the decay of society where degeneracy is normalized and encouraged and good things like family discouraged. It's flavor of the month in degeneracy world. People like to chase what is popular like little lambs, so why folks doing FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:38 PM
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The word has been inverted. Nice guy virtually means idiot and has nothing to do with nice. I would prefer nice to.be used properly again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:00 AM
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It's not painting women in any light. It's a reflection of reality. Generally a women's word doesn't mean much where as a man's word does. Therefore to access a women you need to look at actions not words. This is not to put women down, but the only way to access them As for last point. Most men are not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:50 PM
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To conceptualize this Think of a women like an immature child. They want what they can't have a ND what they see others enjoying. This is the only reason pretty much they pick you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:48 PM
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Yip, status means little. Looks mean little too. Reason why men go on about it is because it gives them an excuse as to why they were not chosen. A women will pick you if you can make them believe you are mysterious, leader of men, protector, wanted by other women, have emotional control... You could look like an alien and work.in McDonalds and still fulfill the above and get with nearly any women you encounter, using " the code"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:44 PM
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Top tip "cum tasting nasty" get them to drink pineapple juice beforehand. Thank me later ( top tip from a gay friend)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:15 PM
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Men are far more picky than women I have found. For example men will exclude all "fatties" by default generally and that's a huge % . Women pretend to be picky. This is for protection. It's like a first line of defense because there are more serious consequences for women in relationships. But when it actually comes down to actions - getting with a guy for romance, women do not even make a decision - although they believe they are. If the female attraction triggers are activated, then they get w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:47 AM
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Yes completely correct. No point chasing women. Majority not worth it to be honest. And generally speaking I have found if you're the chaser you're gonna be on trial and have to lower yourself to the level of a dog and jump through hoops just to please. Much better if they chase you. It's also very costly for a man, especially the opportunity costs, you could be doing something else that is actually worthwhile and productive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:39 AM
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Yes I would agree with this. When I look back at my relationships, my very very first intuitive gut feeling about the person and how the relationship will go has always been 100% correct. Normally I ignored it because of lust in the past. Always trust your gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:35 AM
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You guys really need to look at the definition of nice and the anotym of nice. If you don't want to be with a nice person there is something sadistic or wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:16 AM
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You're real world is a microscopic one, probably because you have been brought up in a peaceful time in the west. Go outside the west, rewind western history 70 years, or fast forward it. Women were/are very eager to get with a man for protection. It does matter. Don't let a brief outlier period in history in a small.slice if the world fool you otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:12 PM
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No need to be sorry about faux assumptions in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:01 PM
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Exceptions is those wanting a family. But check the forums here, Western women hate children similar level to how much they hate normal men. So would go abroad if family is required
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:59 PM
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Exceptions is those wanting a family. But check the forums here, Western women hate children similar level to how much they hate normal men. So would go abroad if family is required
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:59 PM
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Exceptions is those wanting a family. But check the forums here, Western women hate children similar level to how much they hate normal men. So would go abroad if family is required
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:59 PM
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Non escorts the same just not honest about it. Women cannot love men, they love what men can do for them. All women are essentially prostitutes, just some are more honest about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:55 PM
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Not to ever date. Not worth it. You get nothing of any value in return. Get a dog and a high class prostitute instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:13 PM
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Women are much less picky than men in my experience. In fact they don't pick anyone at all. There is a program if triggered they just sleep with you regardless 99% of the time. They just pretend to be picky and in their conscious mind they may also believe it, but subconscious rules and if you trigger the program it's a done deal. The program is Display you're a leader of men Wanted by other women You have emotional control You can protect You're mysterious So yes if you for some reason actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:07 PM
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Just about sums up problem with Western culture. You put Saints who should be admired at the bottom, and dopamine hits or interesting folks above saints. Why the western world is gone to the dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:21 PM
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This kinda goes with OP point. You say you were attracted to hookups but not in same way as ltr. And your actions were to give them sex. So you were sexually attracted to them and gave them sex. The one you had a different attraction to you describe as ltr attraction you didn't give the sex to. Or not straight away. You also say it was the mood and vibes that leads to hookups which paints a hedonistic scene, where as the ltr you didn't behave like that and went all choir girl. From the man's pov…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:35 PM
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Would like to hear what you will be saying 10 years into the marriage,. Absolutely everyone I know long term married has sexual problems in the relationship. Particularly common complaint from men, "we ain't getting any"....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:25 PM
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No one cares how much a women earns or what they studied. It's just about their looks essentially and whether they can bring peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:05 AM
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It really depends on what the goal is here... If you want a wife and family. Then manipulating, or being a bad boy is not going to make for a happy marriage. IF you just want sex, then yeah. Just trigger their attraction triggers etc. But would be easier and less damage to women if you just paid for it, rather than becoming a manipulative bad boy yourself.....just creates more bad men and crazy women... Or just leave them the hell alone if you cannot deal with their nature. Complaining about it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:02 PM
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If your aim is to get a women this strategy is not gonna work to well. If you're doing it for some kind of revenge, that's pretty sad and waste of a life... Just forget about them ( my suggestion) or accept and deal with their actual nature Don't be a dik
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:38 PM
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If you want a women it's extremely easy. Just press the female attraction triggers. Display you're a leader of men A protector You have emotional control That you are desired by other women You are mysterious You don't pine for her body Unless you want children I'm not sure why you would want a relationship with a women because women cannot love a man. The word and feeling of love for a women is inextricably linked to your utility to her and if you can keep up the frame set above. Once a better …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:26 PM
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I truly wish it was like the Hollywood movies, sadly it is what it is. Just look at the actions. Unless you want family, it's really not worth chasing these beings at all. No good can come from it. I know their bodies look nice and stuff but that's there to suck you in. Need to get over worshipping their bodies (just keep a few photos if you must look at them) and see them how they act in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 01:40 PM
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Look. Animals have needs. Not wants but needs. For males a need is sex. And it's a dam good thing too otherwise we wouldn't be here. But this desire is frowned upon in modern society. Men are supposed to repress it. Not allowed to approach women - can get arrested if you don't look like Chad. We're supposed to mask our desires, pretend it's not there, pretend it's the same for males and females, it's all labelled toxic, or you only want the women for sex.... So the no 1 thing that drives men in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:29 AM
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Just in my personal experience. Nearly all female I know have cheated. Even the ones you think are like fairies. I Know men that have cheated too. But those seem to be when they were younger or with alcohol involved. More careless - women far more calculating and of course never their thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:03 AM
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I think the whole number thing is nonsense. I mean I had my best success with women and I mean getting with some real good 8s and 9s when I was at my absolute worst. Like, slightly overweight, addict, broke, no job, mingling with wrong crowds etc... When I sorted myself out and had good job, money in bank, got great body back I could only get with 5s and below, lolz. Maybe women just like losers? Or I just got lucky. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:16 PM
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It is strange. The male sexual urge is not respected by women or new society. It is shamed and frowned upon. We're meant to conceal our nature and be dishonest about intentions. Yet it is this desire that makes the world function. Women should be pleased they are wanted for sex. What's wrong with it? It's the truth. Sure it's not the only thing but THE MAIN THING AND THE ONLY UNIQUE THING if importance. People need to be ok with reality. Why pretend? Lie? Manipulate? Crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:50 PM
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I don't think any man spends every second planning sex. But sex is the main reason why a man interacts romantically with a women. For a man to hide that is to deny masculinity and reality. We can pretend we're not, many do but these people are being manipulative. Better to be honest imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:10 PM
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I would say cheating is different for men. Sex for most men is a must not a want. Like water to fish. Doesn't matter what the water looks like, filthy, muddy water ever as long as we get to swim all good. There are no attachment job done. Not the same for women where sex is more nice to have and based on emotions..... In terms of right or wrong that's subjective always. But in my personal moral compass cheating is cheating no matter who.does it, it's degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:46 PM
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I did experiment a little in online dating. I found it a completely different world to real life. Much more difficult to get a catch and I found most women just wanted either sex or a hot meal. I had some encounters but most of the time was rejected or ghosted. I consider myself desirable. Nearly 6 ft 6 , 6 figs in bank, own business, athletic, post grad, spiritual, lots of hobbies and friends ranging from outdoor activities to art. If it sucks for me. Then yeah can imagine sucks donkey balls fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:34 PM
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From my experience women do not get to choose who they sleep with. If attraction program is activated she will sleep with that person even if they are not trustworthy or attractive such as criminals and homeless people - or drug addicts. How often do you see a doctor a computer programmer being overlooked by some bum? So we are not dealing with logical thinking here, because anyone logical would get with a Dr rather than a criminal. In the situation you describe the man who persues for a month. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:25 PM
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I think for most people especially women, a long term relationship means family 9/10. Very few people would bother with long term relationship without kids. Even in rare cases they don't want kids. In most cases I see women do not pay equal amounts over the duration of the relationship. Not saying it don't happen. But long term relationship, no kids where women pay 50/50 is something I have rarely seen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:22 AM
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Being single is far far cheaper than having female partner especially if children are involved. My brother earns loads more than me has two kids, but cannot afford what I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:39 AM
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If man had lower sexual energy not much in the world would get done. It is the primary driving force that leads to massive action - also used for sex too. In my experience women do not have this massive drive to action innately like men do because they have less sexual energy. So a lot of stuff would just collapse as men relax and take back seat. And new creations and inventions would slow dramatically. In terms of dating. Women would benefit quite a lot as they would be harassed a lot less . Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:01 AM
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That makes sense to me now, ty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:24 PM
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Sorry one other question has popped up. When you see women, go ga ga for celebrity males, or even just really high status males. Like I have seen it. They can start to act a bit like men do. In that the attraction seems to be instantaneous. There is no getting to know the traits, or whether they would be a good match. What is this about? I have even witnessed it in happily married women before. They will be in the presence of a high status male and will start going weak at the knees.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:56 PM
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Thank you for the sharing. Definitely learning a lot, particularly that many of my assumptions held have been quite incorrect. What you describes helps explains many situations I have been in, in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:46 PM
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Would you mind explaining this? In my brain physical attraction means, being attracted to the physical body via the senses, the dominant one being visual sense in most... But obviously I am not understanding correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:37 PM
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No appreciate it. The more input the better us men can understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:21 PM
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Thank you for your sharing. From what you are saying, it makes me realize that attraction periods are very different for men and women. For us men, normally it is instant attraction. Like it could be in 1 second! And then the emotional connection and bonding come later. Where as what I am understanding, for women, it could take some time to create attraction and at the start, it is the bonding that is more important. So we're kinda doing things in reverse, which is interesting and kinda cool als…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:15 PM
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That's interesting ty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:11 PM
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Not me personally as I am a man lolz. I was just sharing my experience. It's not really the fact they are wanted by other women. But being wanted or in demand means you are a high value item. Just like it works in commerce. If something is in high demand it is perceived as higher value. That is my understanding on that point, it's like reassurance they picked a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:36 PM
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And one other question! :) Because it is really REALLY difficult for us men to understand that the attraction isn't physical. But if the attraction isn't physical, why not just be friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:32 PM
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This is very interesting. I would like to ask a qu if I may on this... Once they move into attraction territory for you, how does that manifest inside of you? Once those boxes are ticked... Is it then a physical attraction? Or would you describe the attraction a women has for a man (once character boxes ticked) more as an emotional attraction? or something else
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:23 PM
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But I let the ladies judge if my experience is correct or not...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:19 PM
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YEs was going to say similar. The issue here I see is the OP assumes attraction is same for males and females and thus puts emphasis on looks. Important for males yes, less so for females. From what I have experienced females focus more on the character -whether the man is competent -can take care of a family -is desired by others -is interesting and entertaining and has a bit of mystery to him -is firm but fair and appropriately nice -understands the female body parts and how they work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:17 PM
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Yes. Not giving a flying fk about sex removes all demented power attempts. Just don't give a fk or get it elsewhere. But I'm not even sure why you would want to date a person who uses sex as control. Should be dumped ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:23 PM
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Don't get me wrong Iove women. But generally speaking, in terms of entertainment and having fun, they are just not at all. Like you have to.instigate EVERYTHING to get an ounce of life and fun out of them. That's why I don't spend much time with women except for practical purposes because I prefer male company myself. Each to there own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:28 PM
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I would say generally this is true for most men. Sex is the deal breaker For me personally it's probably near the bottom of my list. Out of all the time I spend with partners, sexual activity only makes up a small percentage of time taken. Much more important things to focus on and I can always jack myself off as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:55 PM
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My general observations and if course not always the case. Men are just looking for sex Women looking for a vehicle to navigate life and have great experiences off of. Or they are looking to start a family+rarer these days) These wants are bundled up to say I want "love" or a relationship. To me except the want to start a family, the others are slightly parasitic in nature. The person involved is not actually wanted or desired just what they can provide sex or great experiences or safety. All st…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:46 PM
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The reason why you put them on pedestal is because that's what society dictates. Females are glamourised and encouraged to wear exotic clothing and show off body parts. It's a very new thing with the advent of television and a way to sell you stuff. In previous civilization female bodies were considered ",whale like and blubbery" it was rare to show off the female form. No one wanted to see it. Instead statues and paintings of naked men was the norm as the male form was deemed attractive and str…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:42 AM
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And if you genuinely are desperate for sex I suggest going out and asking a few hundred women if one wants to with you. Pretty sure one will say yes. Or pay for it. No need to moan or make up lies only Supermen are having sex. All sorts men are having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:40 PM
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I am not sure why you need sex so bad? If you concentrated in having connection with people and not focus on sex you may have different results. Out of choice. I don't have sex anymore. I would do if I met the right person with same beliefs as me, sex is union with source, a reminder we are one being, and healthy energy exchange. I don't need any dopamine fixes or anything. There's enough already I get from society in other forms. Does it bother me? Absolutely not. It means I have tonnes of ener…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:35 PM
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No. Men are driven by sexual desire. Sex is what they what they want, the goal. Porn gives them the illusion of a sexual encounter and the seeing of naked flesh. It's far easier than having to go out and speak and communicate with women. So Men CHOOSE this option to fulfill their NEED.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:59 PM
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Mature people verbalize sexual desires to the other sex. Immature folks who enjoy living in fantasy worlds expect their partners to be the King at "Guess what?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:54 PM
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No one else can ever make you happy. Only you can. This is why you are told to be happy single first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:47 AM
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Morality is subjective. So only you can answer really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:09 PM
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I wouldn't base my attractiveness on what one or two people think. I would base it on what I think. If you must base it on other opinions then you would have to be scientific about it and get a proper sample size of several thousand opinions to form any realistic conclusion. However you only need to find one person that likes you. Thinking logically it should not be difficult to find 1 person in billions if you make an effort. Problem is people have unrealistic standards and most people are comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:56 PM
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What does that mean? How was it compiled? Is that different to at other times? My personal experience is not to read too much into statistics they are easily bent to fit a narrative. Real life is the test.........
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:45 PM
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People need to switch off the scam influencers on youtube who tell you BS what you want to hear lies, so you have an excuse not to give proper care and effort into finding a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:15 AM
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Shall we test your theory? Not sure where you read it. There are 4 births every second of every day. There are a mllion times more people having sex each second of every day. You think that all of these are from rich or attractive men? Or go walk in a busy city street. Look how many couple there are. Are all the men wealthy and attractive? Nope. This is just a REALLY REALLY weak excuse, with no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:09 AM
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Works for millions....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 09:01 AM
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I think you're over thinking things... Just ask a few girls out who share your interests and you'll be good as gold 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:05 AM
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I will try and write it a different way as it maybe understandable... Women have an innate desire to have children. It doesn't always work out like this of course because of cultural influences, need for cash etc. But generally speaking, every women has a program inside her to want to have a child. I can never ever understand this as a man. Men also have a program that women can NEVER understand either. And that is a program to have sex with as many women as many times as possible. It doesn't wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:05 AM
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Yes many men develop weakness once n relationships and may display acts of dependency. But this is not we are talking about. We are talking about every man's deep down real desire, if they could have it as they wanted. As I said before it rarely actually happens, men get into relationships because they don't have options, or they got emotionally dragged in or kids - then they start to change their tune a bit from the outside at least.....not in the inside though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:59 AM
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Well I think the last part "unloving sex" I did not mention. But, practically ALL men I know's ideal situation would be, to live ALONE. Have 1 or 2 different girls who they see occasionally for sex, and maybe the odd dinner. I will also say that men I know are logical and realistic and know that ideal isn't likely to happen, so settle for relationships, or whatever they can get basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:36 AM
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Sadly I would say it never reverses. Even married men have to constrain themselves for their families good. Sex is for most men, honestly like a kryptonite that they cannot control, unless you really are aware of it, and see it and understand what sexual energy was intended for, creative purposes, not just to spray around willy nilly - but that is not taught. The locker room, bang as many as you can is engrained in nearly all men I would say, as a man myself... You do see increasingly on here me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:14 PM
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No it's always like this for most. Men want the sex, and put up with the relationship in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:45 PM
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I think the OP doesn't understand most male behaviour or desire. "if men actually had standards other than a women's looks," men generally speaking only want sex, so it is almost 100% about the looks. I think you misunderstand the goal of men, which is to have sex. For women they not so bothered about that and want a relationship. Men unless it's family, can take or leave relationships but not sex. Two different things the sexes in current consciousness wants.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:40 PM
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I think one of the main issues rarely talked about is "The big lie". This was a propaganda method successfully used by Goebbels in WW2. It goes, if you tell a big enough lie, and repeat it loud and often enough, people start to believe it, even if it is nonsense. And the men guiding younger men are feeding them nonsense so they can make money. They have actually convinced young men, perfectly intelligent and handsome young men That if they even want a slight chance with women, then they are not …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:12 AM
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Firstly it is not the top males only sleeping with the women. Unless you consider my post man, the guy at my garage, and the guy at the supermarket as top guys. You have basically regurgitated a theory which is purported over the internet, so you give creators money via courses and likes and subs, because they tell you what you want to hear. It's not your fault, these women only like these extraordinary men. Just go outside to see it isn't true even remotely. Secondly. Men do not give up on wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:53 PM
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Looks are subjective. The op said physical prime. I dunno how it is for women, but for men, a lot of the physical stuff comes quite late on -obvs different for every man. But some men don't physically stop growing until very late. especially in the shoulder areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:30 AM
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I don't think anyone finds it creepy except for some women, and I guess that's because they don't want you going for the younger girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:28 AM
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Women get approached men have to approach. Always been like this. So if you are scared as a man to approach or get rejected you're kinda screwed. So in terms of having to do something to get a date, then yes women have it easier. But I think once on the date it's more of a combined effort but the women has a safety net knowing it's likely someone else will ask them out, where as the guy will have to go through the rejection process again if it fails. It is what it is I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 10:39 AM
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Yip. If sex only is what you're after, I notice men with most success are those that ask the most and are a bit forceful........ Prolly cheaper and get hotter girl just paying for it to be honest rather than dealing with all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:28 PM
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No of course the girl wouldn't do it. Men base everything on looks only. So women respond and put their efforts into looks only. If men had other requirements women would have to up.their game but until then, why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:29 AM
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No of course the girl wouldn't do it. Men base everything on looks only. So women respond and put their efforts into looks only. If men had other requirements women would have to up.their game but until then, why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 10:29 AM
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Anyone ask you on these surveys? Your surveys data and " facts" are bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:39 AM
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Normal men are not struggling at all. Look outside . Those complaining don't make appropriate effort. They don't talk to women or have interests. They just go online, swipe, get rejected online, which is not even anything like real life. Then complain and consign themselves to a life of singledom and misery. Fact is if these "normal" guys got out there, got a few friends and mingled with women IN REAL LIFE , they wouldn't have any problems
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:37 AM
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"the data" lolz...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:33 AM
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Yes when you understand what you imagined real love was doesn't exist, and it's purely transactional, not sure in most instances why people strive for something that isn't that beneficial to them, and can get what you need from other sources...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:11 AM
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Interesting points. I'm not sure if true or not. But I guess if women are ending up lonely then so are men. Seems like lose lose situation if true....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:08 AM
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Useless. One who is miserable, unhealthy with no intention of working.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:06 PM
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Indeed. And fiction sells and provides many excuses....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:15 AM
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I couldn't read it all due to the volume of inaccuracies. But things generally swing like a pendulum. Like Democrats come in, then people get bored, then we get republican then we get bored rinse and repeat. We had a pretty much male dominated society last while and things started getting bit out of hand now. Now we see the swing to feminine side. You shouldn't view it as them and us. Every human has masculine and feminine aspects. As a whole we're swinging to the feminine side and we can witnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:51 AM
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Some truth to what you say. But also oversimplified things into attraction and status. I think a lot more comes with status - protection, money, social circle status etc... Yes if course it's logical and intelligent if you have a choice of two things to opt for the best. Men do it too but with beauty. I haven't really heard a women denying this to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:46 AM
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I don't think they would for average man. I see women with average men every day. My milkman is married, the guy at the grocery store married heck even the guy at McDonalds was married. I do agree that women will not settle for a useless man. And I guess if no other options and desperate will then start to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:28 AM
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Just an observation. I see a lot of men bashing women. Saying ones with morals and standards are rare. They're all horrible etc etc. Whilst on the male side. All I witness is thousands of posts on here, from men who pretty much want to get with women just for sex basically when you question them a bit. I'm kinda wondering which sex has really been operating at low moralistic standards? From what I have witnessed. It is the men who have lowered their game, become a bunch of whiney sissies who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:47 AM
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Man here. Can confirm never been jealous of someone else's body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:00 PM
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It's exactly like this. Basically success will come down to how much effort u put in, and how much you don't care about rejection. Let the others cry they not tall enough etc. If you ask enough people enough times, you get laid. It's simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:36 AM
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It's only wrong for those who like to cry and complain. IF they spent less time crying and complaining they may find that they suddenly become attractive to women. Just a thought! Who the fk are we to say who a women sleeps with? We're hardly ones to talk when most men would sleep with a rat if they got the chance. Modern young men entitlement 101
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:01 PM
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Well not an extreme story I'm afraid. But just my experience. I dated a really hot women once who earned loads and I had at the time a loser admin job, was depressed and a compulsive gambler. And we went out for quite some time. I'm not sure I would be deemed to be across or up from her! Think the simple truth is. Whether you are a man or a women, it's natural to want to date the best you can get. At the moment there is slight advantage for the ladies because many men are no longer datable becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:55 PM
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Every intelligent human is a wanna be hypergamist. Who in their right mind wouldn't in an ideal world, want to date the very best of the best? It's normal for both men and women. Just because men have lost their way and are behaving like crying little girls on the internet - and therefore, have had many choices removed - doesn't mean, that in an ideal world, they would still want to date the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:20 PM
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Oh my god, another guy who has spent too many hours on the interwebs on dating "theory". Poor me......poor me.......pour me a drink! this young fellow cries! As he digests the online lies! Get out and about mate. It's not like this in reality. I assure you. Humans are simple creatures. They tend to get with someone else who they know and get along with. You do not need a PHD in rocket science to know this. No elaborate theories required.......no need for you to boo hoo hoo...Just get out there, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:01 PM
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Kind of weird you frame it that men don't care about the waiting for sex, implying they don't take it seriously. Then complain about women not taking it seriously.... Think you just enjoy whining and complaining. You should get a girlfriend!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:51 PM
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No such thing as love as per movies. More a commitment to another human being. Commitment comes with conditions. Always has and always will, nothing changed. You wouldn't commit to something with zero benefit to you would you? unless you're a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:08 PM
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Only men who are too sacred to go outside are changing themselves and remolding their behaviours, because they watch youtube videos that are telling them to do so. Women don't care about any of that stuff taught on youtube. Just look outside, plenty of average, below average men with loving girlfriends, wives and families. Go outside for a bit. It's nice and friendly!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:06 PM
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There is no gender divide, except on the online world. Thjat world is entirely fake. Men and women still getting along in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:00 PM
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I think you been listening to YouTubers bro and not been living in real world. YouTubers will tell you anything to get money. Even create problems and theories that don't exist only for the reason, you want to hear them Admit it. You want someone to give you an excuse as to why you suck at dating. Voila you got it. Prehistoric man and women theory, the 666 gal. Don't be so fking gullible. Look around who. Do you see just about every type of guy imaginable with a girl. Short, fat, Stinky, good lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:51 AM
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Most men will go gay I suspect. Happens in prison when men get desperate........why not...........hole is a hole right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:36 PM
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To understand this is to understand the universe. Everything is duality. In terms of energetic forces there is electricity an outward motion (masculine) and magnetism, attraction, (feminine). It is the male's job to go out into the world (electric force) and do his stuff. It is the female job to attract the appropriate electric force via their magnetism (their looks essentially). A lot of men get this wrong and do silly stuff to try and improve their atrractiveness lolz! doesn't work like dat. y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:12 PM
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Generally people just go out with people they get along with. Those that are attracted to careers. Is because women have limited eggs and sex to give. Do they have to be more selective in the selection process than males. Not rocket science. Not because evil or illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:29 AM
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I think you're at home over thinking things. In real life people just go out with people they get along with . Simple stuff really
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:47 PM
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Things that should change in the dating scene Men need to stop being babies Men need to start valuing themselves more Men need to stop seeing women as objects
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:26 PM
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It is 100% culturally influenced. Or rather corporate and finance led. Men actually don't naturally want to fuck women all the time. Can you imagine the drama! Time, money, energy wasted! Lolz. Who wants that? Men create a huge amount of sexual energy. But because of many reasons....direct it at women basically because they've been programmed to. Those who manage to deprogram realize they have been had these years. Told many lies and fantasies to get my money, time and energy.... Rather, sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:58 AM
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I've been to a few of these Tantra events where women feel safe to express. My god. It opened up my eyes!!! Women are VERY sex crazed. I would say much more perverted than men, much more. The difference is time and place. Men seem to think about sex all the time. Women seem to be able to control it for more appropriate times. The other thing I noticed is that males are pretty much only interested in the body and physical bang bang sex. Females are not that excited by the body, but more the whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:57 AM
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Well you can see what happens. More failed marriages, more single mothers, more men being virgins, birth rates dropping to extreme levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:07 PM
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There isn't really any sexual need unless you want a baby. Sexual energy is creative energy. But culture dictates man express this by ejaculation rather than creating something. Sexual need = desire to create something.. Not saying anything wrong with sex, it's great. But it's definitely not a real need.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:04 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about. But FYI. Saying you prefer to spend time with a bear than a black person, errr is not racism. Someone's preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:08 PM
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Orgasm ends sexual enjoyment for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:14 AM
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Interesting question. I would say 20 years back and before most men would intervene without hesitation. Now I think very few men would intervene. For a number of reasons. Men are whimps today. Less morality and values today. Less feel of there being a society or community to identify with. Generally people just don't care too much about others today. I certainly wouldn't rely on it if I were a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:19 AM
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Sex and sexual enjoyment is not really about orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:49 AM
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I don't think modern day women give a hootz about commitment lolz... Yes you're right. Women literally having the times of their lives in dating market today. Enjoy ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:43 AM
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Would disagree. If you look at actions women are loving being passed around. Days of starting a family for them, long distant memory. Cultural programming telling them to get as much sex and cheap life thrill experience as possible coz that's what men did. That's what women are doing and seems like they enjoying themselves and the men they don't want to sleep with are suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:04 AM
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Exactly this. Men like peace and pussy. Two don't usually come together. So at times we sacrifice one to get the other then return back to peace again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:55 PM
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The absolute hard truth from male perspective is. The only reason males have to interact with women except for practical purposes is for sex ONLY. Men are crazy for sex and pussy. Unless you are a man you will never understand. Man will put up with many things just to get the pussy, relationship, marriage, they will change jobs their bodies everything just to get pussy. So once they finally get it. Then they can get back to the stuff they enjoy and not have to continue with the silly nonsense of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:53 PM
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seems to be like this entitlement that everything has to be fair. Nothing is fair. Things are just the way it is and you have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:04 PM
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I don't think women are unrealistic at all. Just look at the tens of desperate posts by men on here every SINGLE fricking day, all would get with any type of women. Women have more options today because of social media and dating apps. They are just enjoying these options, which means a typically not very attractive girl can get with someone generally consdidered quite attractive. If guys were in the same position none would complain! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:02 PM
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I suspect was difficult too in the 1800s...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:38 PM
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What you say seems bit contradictory. Because you say women have all control. Then say men don't get approached and have to approach and women don't. So it seems from your writing that men have quite a bit of control if they are the only ones in pursuit. They get to choose who to pursue. By your writing women don't and have to rely on offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:51 AM
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There actually is NO 80/20 Gp. Sorry to break it to yer.... YouTube guff to make you click their videos and buy their courses so you too can get into the imaginary 80/20 Gp....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:37 PM
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In Greek and Roman culture male bodies were revered rather than women's. The whole sell women's body thing came in when corporations got involved and realized it's a better sell
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:15 PM
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Do you know what misogynist means? It's a hatred of women No hatred cited in above post. You just didn't like it!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:02 PM
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I'm not sure why you wish to spend so much of your energy on a species that gives their sex to scumbags (your words). Why do you want sex with these people so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:47 AM
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Yeah have similar experience. You realize how easy it is to get with girls. They fool for this bs every time. But having to act to get it is at the end of the day too stressful for me personally and not in spiritual alignment. And I find more joy in other interests other than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:20 AM
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I see these things like a pendulum. I guess man had the best of it all for quite some time. That rubber band got overstretched, and it has twang too much to the other side. And we will have to wait a while for a medium balance of things. Yes ATM males are one of the most hated on the planet, white males inparticular. Is it fair? Nooo But it is what it is. We're currently living in a women's world. Let's see how it goes....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:16 AM
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Its because they are frustrated they can't get with a women so "justify" their behaviors, by telling themselves, these women will end up lonely because they didn't choose me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:21 PM
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Yes I noticed the increase. Definitely considered normal now. Not for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:31 PM
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The reason why men find dating difficult. Is because they only try online. Few have made much effort to ask single women out in real life.... Like what do you expect? I will make a bet . There is no man on here complaining and whining who has actually bothered to ask out 100 single women. Just hide behind their phones crying that some women on a dating app who might not even be a real person swiped the wrong way on me. What happened to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:23 AM
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All sex, all relationships are transactional...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:13 AM
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I would say that you got it the wrong way around. Men have all the options women very few. For the reasons you stated. Men are the pursuers. They get to decide who to go for, who to date. They choose. Yeah it may not work every time. But you are liberated to choose who you chase. Women do not pursue. And they therefore have limited options, can only select from the men brave enough to ask, men have unlimited selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:01 AM
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Women actually have little power in the dating market at any time. It's a facade backed up by a load of simps. Men have the majority of power in dating - just most young men have been brainwashed that the opposite is true and treat women like they are some sort of alien breed - hence these weird studies - like they are an alien creature - we must hack into their system and find out how they work ! lolz ​ Get some ballz, get off the internet, be fun, don't be weird - you will get a tonne of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:10 AM
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My thoughts are.......it seems like some sort of game you are playing. If they say x term does that mean they are y? And they no good? ​ I mean where on earth did you get some of these terms from? Must be youtube. I never heard them....... ​ If you like the girl, and you want to be with her, then why care? ​ Forget about these gaming terms....."situationships", "pump and dump"....it's not a playground dude! Relationships are meant to be joyous and serious.......not kindergaten.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:58 AM
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I've never heard this statement brought up in my life.... ​ I would say no. I would say children are the most happiest demographic. ​ What I have heard about 10000000 times is that single women will be miserable cat ladies in their old age if they don't get with a man. But this is just silly talk from strange red pill content creators trying to scare women into a relationship they probably don't want.... ​ I expect if you really wanted a truthful answer to, "are old single women really happy" th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:45 AM
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Not sure how this is related to modern dating dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:34 AM
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You are very mistaken. I am part of the healing community. The amount of women having therapy because of relationships and it really fking up their lives is, well a LOT! Maybe they just don't display it to you. Make no mistake women feel this shizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:43 AM
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I know a homeless guy who never washes who sleeps with lots women. Appearance means virtually nothing. Just your essence or character.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:04 AM
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Completely agree and aligns with my experience. What you are on paper means nearly nothing. Maybe you get small percentage initial attention that is all. Homeless people and criminals do plenty good with women who on paper are terrible. It's simply about how you make and can manage the other's, emotions, feelings, and situations......why it's pointless people turning their backs on dating to "work on themselves" no one cares, unless you're working to be more interesting, charismatic, funny, genu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:02 AM
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Well all these qualities and inequalities you state, errrr.... who decided em? ​ Like a cultural thing that person a is attrractive or feature b........people in this mindset are unlikely ever to find happiness. If you mean by not playing a fair game to be dishonest or misleading. Then I can't agree with this. No excuse for dishonesty, especially not your own personal happiness which you can generate for yourself at anytime, no need to manipulate others to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:12 AM
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In normal relations penis size doesn't matter much. ​ Nearly everyone has similar size penis give a couple of inches. With small outliers either side where it may cause an issue - but nothing a chat won't solve........ ​ Penis size is a male concern not a female one............
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:55 PM
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Women are just different. Rare for one to have logic over time. They run on emotions and are super easy to manipulate. If I want to sleep with a women I just have to pretend to be a bad boy and make her emotions go up and down like a dumb toy. I don't do that because I'm not an asshole....why women should never be allowed to vote because they are vulnerable to propergander They are not adult in same way men are and also.vus versa in some other aspects
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:10 AM
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Maybe I'm an outlier. I would hate to have lots of new pussy all the time. Sexual organs have a lot of emotional baggage, trauma, and energy stored up which I don't wish to reecive particularly.... ​ And for me it gets better as you get to know someone and their body......connection is deeper.... ​ 1 decent women to live by for happily ever after, shouldn't be so difficult should it? lolz.... well in the movies they educated us on, it wasn't.... ​ No we just have a shit show where most of the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:59 AM
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Unless you are a conscious human, all relationships are transactional, because the majority of people are living in their ego. Therefore they only care what is best for them. They will not get with another human unless that human does something for them. Someone's apparent care about you is indeed transactional and is a form of prostitution. Unless you have a relationship with a conscious human, who doesn't need to take from others to be fulfilled, entertained or happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:05 PM
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In a non sex work encounter the women doesn't like you either, only how you appear to others or what you can do for them . Always transactional, foolish to believe otherwise...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:49 PM
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Not relationships, they generally on the dating apps looking for sexual experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:45 PM
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Women don't need men at all on a day to day personal level. Only need them at societal level to do the jobs they not prepared to do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:43 PM
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Did you ask every American?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:25 PM
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There is zero evidence fk boys are sleeping with majority of women. Maybe someone trying to sell you something, clicks and like, told you this Go outside and see if it's true. It's not. Most people have their own partner they are sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:24 PM
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Who actually cares who has it tougher? Is it a competition. Should we rejoice we have it tougher? What is this? seriously.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:14 PM
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Seems like you don't like men. You say you have so many options then go on to say they all suck... I know a heck of a lot of men. Couple are complete buffoons (usually get all the girls!). The rest are very decent human beings who I can't believe are all undatable unless you just don't like us men? Or you have a fantasy version of a datable man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:58 AM
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This is opposite to my experience. The occasions I have been with modern ladies, it was me that wanted intimacy and they who wanted me to choke them and pull their hair. I had to ask the young lady if she had mistaken this for a wrestling match? Apparently not......
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:54 AM
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I think it's fantastic that women have so many options in the modern dating scene. Personally I wouldn't complain and be careful what you wish for... Having to.do a bit of admin to get unlimited sex from hot guys whenever you want doesn't sound like the worst deal ever....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:50 AM
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I'm not really sure why anyone would care about other people's opinion? Especially as the majority of the public are complete morons... Do whatever you want though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:43 AM
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And if you don't believe me that real word dating is different, then go out into the real world and open your eyes. There are men dating very fine women who are 5ft tall, who work in supermarkets or are delivery men etc..... ​ It is also dumb to call them illogical for having high standards online. It's like you think they should select the worst people for some reason... some how that would be more logical? It doesn't make sense. To use an analogy, if you put a job ad out, and you got 10000 app…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:13 AM
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Not biologically. But mentally yes, because men are very desperate for sex in this modern age because it's thrust in front of them from most angles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:04 PM
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Maybe. But who gives a fk what other people get up to? Find out what you want and find someone who can give you it... Don't worry about all this statistical bs or what other people get up to in their spare time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:56 PM
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And I think you know this. You just wanted to set this up to have a bash at women... "They're all liars" "they only sleep with hot men not me, boo hoo me" Did you really get every female opinion or been watching too many YouTube vids?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:21 PM
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Obviously some do otherwise it wouldn't be physically possible. Aan can't have sex with a woman by himself.... Little bit of a silly question dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:15 PM
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99% control online IRL far far less....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:43 PM
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Men are desperate today. They get treated like dirty pigs in the online dating world. Personally I would never lower my standards.... Waste of life spending it with someone who disrespects you just so you can get some intimacy. You can get it in other ways. Never let anyone disrespect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:16 AM
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Real education is not taught at schools or universities. In fact the longer you are in the state education system the more stupid you become.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:33 PM
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There are no such things as leagues. It is made up. If you believe in leagues you are limiting yourself. And if you think some humans are better or more valuable than others you're delusional..... Go out with whom ever you like and get on with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:07 AM
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Absolutely never... On the occasion an impressive male crosses paths. Usually what happens is other males show appreciation and respect and often enquire how they became that way, often reciprocated with advice. Men like to see other men do well generally. Unless you are like directly competing for something like in a sports match.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:44 PM
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I think it's also false notion YouTubers put out there. "If women don't change their ways they gonna be a lonely cat lady, so listen to us"... I think these people likely have been choosing the dating lives they wanted. And if at the end it's a cat for some, then that's their choice. I doubt they're sobbing their hearts out wishing they had listened to the wise wisdom of manosphere YouTubers. Expect they're enjoying themselves on the sofa, cuppa tea, biscuit, cat and a good film in their old age…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:09 PM
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Yes I think most are happy. Otherwise they would choose to do something else..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:04 PM
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Just curious as to why extrovert are attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:45 PM
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You have to define what these problems are with modern dating before anyone can answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:58 PM
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You have to simp and change every aspect of your being, only to get the western women because of how much western society has fallen. You can still be nice and normal if you do not desire a western women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:02 AM
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The main reason is because modern folks know of internet. This is their life. So they also try meeting folks on the internet not in real life. So men don't have real social skills, dont know real life rejection, don't know real life women and are not hard boned and take it to heart when they get rejected online.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:03 AM
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You are looking from male perspective which is visual. From women perspective attraction is mental, a fantasy of the man in front and what they might be and do. Not physical body parts like us men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:31 AM
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It's really to do with confidence, putting yourself on the chopping block, being able to deal with rejection..... That is about it. Money, height etc mean virtually nothing. It may get initial attention. Girls leave these types all the time. They don't leave the cocky arrogant, competent go getter types who don't care about rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:29 AM
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the protector is more an archetype energy to uphold ​ in reality, in today's day and age, you will rarely find anyone protecting a stranger getting attacked in the street sadly....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:25 AM
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I think women no matter what age have lots of options. The cat thing is always a choice.....and is said to try and frighten the women into getting into a relationship - because the sterotype of the cat lady, is kinda like that oddball down the road vibe........
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:23 AM
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When you play video games, do you want a game that is easy and you complete it in a day after buying it? ​ Or do you like a game that takes time to master a real challenge? ​ Embrace the challenge of being a man, don't complain about it............
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:09 AM
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This is not the real problem. ​ This scoring people out of 5 is childish...... ​ The problem is that no one knows happiness or love, and they expect happiness and love from another person, people are wounded; and if they stop making them feel happiness and love they will replace you with someone that can make you feel that way... ​ Newsflash, no one can ever make you happy. Only you can make you happy. ​ So we have a bunch of unhappy, with unresolved child trauma going around trying to meet with…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:06 AM
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Well you're not going to like them romantically. Why not just have them as a friend? Sounds like they would be a great friend...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:02 AM
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I also think there is no disadvantage for women to have a hoe phase. ​ MAnoshere pretends these ladies will end up with cats...... ​ But at the same time the same influencers talk about how thirsty modern men are and how women have a gazillion DMs or whatever - so they will still get plenty of options
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:08 AM
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I don't think folks think it out like this at such a young age, we're talking generally late teens early 20s.... ​ These young ladies are young, care free, don't need money off a man, think they will live forever, probably haven't thought about kids yet...and are at their most attractive and get lots of attention - and will be in those sorts of environments more due to age - clubs etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:05 AM
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Unless you have no morals, you will feel terrible cheating and lying to someone you care about.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:05 PM
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This is interesting, because from what you are saying it seems to me like more men are being produced. Why,? Because men fight and die in wars. So if after all that we are at 1:1, we must be producing more men..........
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:04 PM
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Girls will pursue if they are really into you. ​ I am slightly above average. On 3 occasions in my life I have had hot girls chase after me quite obsessively. ​ Reviewing why this happenned, the common theme was, that in each case I wasn't interested and didn't want these ladies. Drove them crazy... ​ Anyone who I have ever pursued, has never been crazy or obsessive about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:02 PM
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Another qu on the topic. Is, if men want a women to please them in bed, how do they expect this if they don't have any experience? ​ As a male, I don't actually think it's the body count that matters, it's more the reputation. If someone has reputation as being x, it is offputting, just the same way a women doesn't like being called those names. ​ But if the women has had a lot of experience, but it isn't publicly known - i.e. they don't have this reputation, I think it's kind of a plus........ …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:50 PM
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Look in the mirror and that is it. ​ We are all average really....prior to cultural judgements.......
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:06 AM
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Most awesome post... ​ I would just say there are two types of self improvement. The one you do with no effort, and is just a natural linear, logical progression of you through life - which you do out of love for yourself. ​ Then self improvement to be liked by girls or other people - which is really just a form of simping....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:41 PM
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If we really want to do a deep dive on this, what you posted is the root of where we are today. ​ When the money lenders decided to go off the gold standard and create fiat fake money and devalue that money over time to effectively zero.............this meant that costs went up from the 1970s (money printing = inflation). ​ So it became unaffordable to maintain a family with 1 bread winner... ​ so the psy op of modern fake feminism was born. Convince women to go to work under the guise of "you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:25 PM
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Well, I am 6ft 5, better than average looking, have had above average career and education have normal social skills. And I still have the same issues everyone else is talking about on here. Sometimes being very tall is a hindarence as you can come across as a bit intimidating or other cases awkward because of body size.... very tall people typically look a little more awkward or different to normal folks ​ I think it's men who are more concerned about height than women, some sort of inferiority…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:10 PM
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Well I don't think marriage is a pre requisite for a society to function. It was functioning before religion invented marriage. I think this belief as well as the belief we need a partner is programming from religion and media. Not really natural at all when you think about it. I don't even think sex is that important. Again society has made folks sex crazed because it sells. Sex is really for making babies that's the point. The rest has been culturally imposed upon us. Not saying sex ain't nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:24 PM
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I think the pendulum has swung too far in favour of women in recent history in dating so there will be a natural tendency to veer towards balance. The steps towards that I see are men generally going out of the dating scene altogether and working on themselves. Women won't be able to find men and men will be improved people. This will help swing the pendulum back towards neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:07 PM
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Yeah a lot of the high female execs do for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:44 AM
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