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| 1 | Crippling approach anxietyA cold approach is, at its core, just striking up a conversation with a stranger. The more comfortable you get with talking to strangers, the better you get at it (and conversing with strangers is a good skillset to have, regardless) and the less anxiety. If you want to practice talking with strangers, the easiest way is with old people. If you want to practice flirting, learn to compliment and chat up old women (they haven't had attention in years, and it'll just make their day, so think of it … | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | approach anxietyIf you are generally shy, starting off with cold approaching women is probably too much of a step-up. Having been there myself at your age, just throwing yourself in the deep end may lead to things getting awkward and uncomfortable for someone else and to you. Either way, your lack of confidence will turn people off most of the time, regardless of whether everything else goes fine. Don't put too much pressure on yourself to cold-approach women. You can take baby steps to it. It's really just the… | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 12:03 PM |
| 6 | Should i just get tinder?I mean, my first date was from a dating app. I was in a similar situation, but i wasn't even allowed to meet new people because of Covid. I would say, unless you're pretty lucky, you're going to be disappointed. Dating apps are just a way to meet people. No matter what you're looking for, the skills, personality, and experience you need have to be developed IRL first. Dating apps won't change who you are, so it'll still be you trying to strike up a conversation with basically a stranger who you … | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 11:08 AM |
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