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I’m 38 now, in Sydney Australia I’d say guys in their late 30’s become the celebrities… it’s easier to get laid than ordering an uber eats at this point. I got women from 21 through to 41 happily connecting for fun when it suits us… I have a Filipino girl that comes over and helps me when I’m sick… I’m not paying them… unless getting laid and attention is the payment Fck her like a Viking invading her village and she’ll keep coming back …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:28 AM
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lol get a 6 pack, hobbies, friends and a gym membership… maintain that routine for a year… you’ll have more options than you know what to do with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:53 AM
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lol you wrote a wall of verbal diarrhoea text as a reply to the topic at hand… No single instance of formatting insight in this text wall… Anyway, I’m bored of this convo, we see the world differently ciao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:54 PM
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We weren’t talking about dating… Listen dude, pull up your pants, go outside, slap yourself across the face and say “don’t be a dickhead”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:58 PM
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Most women, most of the time in most situations are clearly not needing to and are not considering murder in their day to day interactions with men… the very premise is absurd. It’s a victim mentality that is commonly seen on these types of subreddit circlejerks; almost a mental illness; near completely disconnected from reality… be proud 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:34 PM
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A woman paying attention must consider if the guy will Kill her? Really? I don’t think the girls in short skirts, heels, boob tubes with full cleavage on display at midnight after 7 drinks, 4 lines in the bathroom; are hyper aware of murder from the advances of men … much to the chagrin of their fathers mayhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:10 PM
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Women are and have always been the selectors for sex… not just for humans but all mammals… and insects and anything that procreates… even in flower and fauna there is a certain type of selection process that must occur… so yea, it’s natural to consider the act of a female selecting the male to be less of an offense… than a man making unwanted moves… as the man isn’t the selector… he’s an applicant who wasn’t wanted for the job… he’s an unsuccessful applicant… When she makes moves she’s the emplo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:48 PM
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Yea no one said human nature was rational… it’s often more about genetic selection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:54 AM
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I think human nature hasn’t changed a great deal in the past 10,000 years let alone the past 100 years. We’re essentially the product of how we survived under harsh conditions where death was around every corner. So … yea, it wouldn’t surprise me that our nature is predictable anywhere along that timeline. There is however a few key variables that have changed such as controlled contraception, and a globalised shift toward equality as it’s good for the global elite to control the populace by ens…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:53 AM
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From about 40 onwards… it’s diminishing returns, especially if they’re not Asian… add 5-6 years for the Asian women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:24 AM
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I think it’s more of a low self esteem combined with a cocktail of other issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:04 AM
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I’ve met women on occasions of horniness somewhat like this on tinder, their photos pushing the filters and angles to essentially catfish, but still clear enough to know you’re being catfished… the kind that are fine with you dropping over at 9pm to fuck and leave… I think that this mindset in a woman shows deep rooted issues… the very habit of not looking after your body and health is clearly a red flag… If they’re still sexy enough to be physically attractive I’d still hit, but always hated my…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:03 AM
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lol you underestimate horniness of man, I’ve banged many a woman who is unattractive in my growth up the ladder… in my twenties, I just wanted to get laid, if a fatty was willing to get freaky on a Tuesday I was down… I would imagine it doesn’t happen in reverse where a woman is so horny that she’s willing to take a fat bastard into her bed on a Tuesday to get freaky… he’s gonna need to pay a lot of money to an escort for that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:07 PM
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Those girls you think barely had boys in the picture, had 1-2 older guys in their sphere. They were happy to play the flirting dance… it just means they didn’t have “a boyfriend” it doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy the attention of boys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:01 PM
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lol if they’re doing that, they’re good for secondsies and thirdsies minutes after
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:18 AM
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Haha there’s at least one guy here furiously jotting down epiphany notes on the importance of making a woman cum before he cums… Protip: if you can’t hold it cause she’s too sexy, pull out and use your tongue and fingers, or at least try to solve complex multiplication in your head…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:56 PM
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It’s cut off … I mean is this an infinite loop convo?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:16 PM
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Face not there, zero risk… good talk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:14 PM
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Hmmmm ok well can’t relate, because the real thing is so much more pleasurable in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:12 PM
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In reality I didn’t even slightly, it’s a private pic from 10 years ago, and her head was cut off… more drama watching grass grow in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:11 PM
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Ok I’m dating a girl atm, sex on the first date, and sex every time we meet… started out as just sex, but it’s becoming something much more lately… I think sex binds me to a woman… all sorts of serotonin type connections firing off… we did a try before you buy … and later realised we might want to buy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:10 PM
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What about horny time of the month? Surely there’s times when personality need not matter for sex for pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:08 PM
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lol well show me a link (that you didn’t upload) that can be accessed publicly… then find a way to tie it to her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:06 PM
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Damn but if you took the time to train, now you got a dude that knows exactly what you want, how you want it, and available on demand? Thats like having a personal masseuse that doesn’t charge and he’s grateful to have been trained up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:01 PM
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lol that photo would never trace back to her (and her face was cut off to make it nigh on impossible…but ok I’ve removed it so you can take a breather, and the world can unpause and continue spinning
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:56 PM
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I think it takes training for a man to learn to be good at it, women assume they should just know, and what works for one woman can be too rough or too soft on another…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:54 PM
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Here it is:
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:45 PM
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If it makes you feel any better she has a lot sexier pics publicly on her insta
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:43 PM
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Sadly no shame, I should though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:42 PM
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Yea I got a legal document signed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:42 PM
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Thx
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:15 PM
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If you replace physical connection with emotional connection I 100% get that … I remember taking a Hungarian barbie doll of a woman home, perfect tits, but her personality was near embarrassing, cliche barbie doll with shaky English…my friends rebuked at her… especially the other women… my inner gut knew I’d be laughed at if I took her to a family bbq, my sisters would be disappointed in me… But after all these years, I wish I kept hitting that and just influenced her to fit in… she was a natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:13 PM
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Doesn’t an emotional connection in a sense really actually mean it’s something that would have a likelihood of not being short term? Emotional connection is a fairly strong pull toward a particular person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:01 PM
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What if it was a guy that you found a deep connection with but you knew something about him would lead nowhere, for example he says for certain that he doesn’t want to have kids (or more kids), but you know in your life goal you would ideally have 2-3 children (for example only)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:00 PM
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I’m curious by this mind set, perhaps as a man I value sex too highly, but the idea of completely being prepared to refrain from sex entirely unless it has some higher / greater purpose seems strange to me… sex is so pleasurable and relaxing… why would you want to go through life denying that for presumably marriage material? Surely you have a guy you know or knew where the purpose was sex for pleasure and not a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:57 PM
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What’s your top 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:33 PM
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It’s pretty wild that you can call a sexual encounter where she messages and says she has the best night of her life the next day…. As rape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:22 PM
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Oh God you’re dense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 08:18 PM
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Bdsm is real and grey area in nature… Being a little dominant with what you want as a man has been by far the biggest turn on and I’ll be remembered by every woman I ever bedded for taking the lead and fucking her properly… I’m guessing you’re a woman but the concept of a shittest, and last minute resistance are fairly widely understood. It’s pretty wild that you can call a sexual encounter where she messages and says she has the best night of her life the next day…. As rape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:21 PM
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lol tell that to every woman that enjoyed “50 shades of grey”… few copies got sold I heard… every mother at my sons school got a copy including the lady teachers lol If guys took the feminine idea of Consent, they’d be living in their mother’s basement and give women the “ick”… if I took that advise, there would be 100+ less texts in my sms history of women praising me for fucking them properly and understanding what really turns her on… complaining about the soy boy ex boyfriends … the kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:18 PM
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Rape is when you fuck someone against their will. Ignoring resistance, not only turns a woman on, it drives her wild for you, you have amazing sex, and she leaves after coffee the next day with a text: “last night was amazing”. If she’s texting that her mind was blown and looking to arrange the next liaison… I dunno I reckon you might have a very different definition of rape than I do… Only on reddit could being dominant as a sexual partner could be translated into rape lol… What are you 12? Or …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 01:48 PM
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After all these years when women complain about sex and commitment, the idea that it’s somehow bad that men want to fuck on the first date has never seemed more absurd to me… even if the sex is only for fun with no greater intention, what’s the problem with that? I commit to a woman that is good in bed, we fuck then we see if there’s a relationship potential… why wait? It’s like I’m only gonna pretend to be what she wants to get into her pants anyway… But once I’ve slept with her, contrary to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:34 PM
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Fair enough, it’s just in comparison to say conscription it’s like a drop in the ocean… I guess we could argue that without conscription the western world would be controlled by a different group of wealthy elite set of families/shareholders… I guess anti abortion groups argue the western world would be less holy as their fairy bearded god idol would be mad… both cases result in suffering due to human nature having flaws … but in the genders-being-oppressed scales women win historically but also…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:46 PM
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Ok so I repeated it 3-4 times, you answered a question, which is what I replied to “what rights do men have that women don’t?” Anyway I feel like you’re being illusive uninterested in using logical and rational discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:44 PM
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🤣 I don’t know how else to frame this for you here, it as it stands looking to me like you’re grasping at straws… I mean I don’t know how you can take that example but then ignore say conscription which is far more widespread and applies to every single able bodied man directly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:31 PM
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The question we’ve been discussing back and forth that you answered was “what rights are there that men have that women don’t have” … Are you answering in good faith here ? Is there a reason you choose the 13 states in a different country, that which is the USA but choose not to highlight women’s rights in Saudi Arabia? Is it because the USA culture is western?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:56 AM
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Like I’m gonna say it with as open mind here, to me, it really presents that you have a victim mentality, and you’re really grasping at straws here as you’re not even American in of of the 13 aforementioned states… I do completely agree that women should at all times hold full autonomy over their bodies though… one of the few things I strongly disagree with on the “right” to be honest … it comes down to religion… and the idea of when a human life is a human… I believe of the abortion is safe to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:57 AM
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Well if it’s a yes, then your concept of bodily dignity being a right women don’t have… is a bit silly right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:45 PM
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She’s a victim by proxy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:23 PM
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She’s a victim by proxy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:22 PM
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😅😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:17 PM
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I’m not really asking if you’re against conscription, I’m exploring the idea that conscription actually does apply to all men in contrast if we define your example as clearly as possible, it applies to 13 states, it includes exceptions. (Such as incest or rape) and the woman needs to be not waking up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:47 PM
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Ohhh ok so being unconscious is a part of the scenario required for your reasoning that she’s being violated and therefore losing a right to bodily integrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:43 PM
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Ok we’re getting somewhere… so you answered a question “what rights do men have that women don’t have”… and my summary above is essentially what you meant by “bodily integrity” being a right women don’t have… Perhaps we can agree that that’s not a great example and also a bit of a stretch, in the sense that you could use the same line of thinking to pick the countries with the worst human rights violations with respect to women such as Saudi Arabia… Or at the least perhaps we agree that it’s kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:35 PM
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Out of interest if a woman chooses to have a baby and holds the man up for child support for 18 years against his wishes to keep it… do you feel that any of his rights are in any way hindered in a similar fashion to your example?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:12 PM
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I think Reddit has a lot of mods on a anti - trump payroll tbh, I believe George Soros types that seem to really believe in the China model of total control and silencing of all opposition is the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:55 PM
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I believe you although I’m unclear what you’re saying when you speak of touching with her permission… it’s not like she’s dragged into the hospital kicking and screaming? What do you mean by that? You must surely see my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:54 PM
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Oh ok I believe I see what you’re saying here, you’re saying that because it could happen to any woman it applies to all women… (in the 13 states of the USA where women were sexually assaulted resulting in a pregnancy but didn’t take the morning after)… is that a accurate summary of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:50 PM
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Oh I know all about it, I joined the trump subreddit and got banned automatically from a swaith of non political subreddits like r/interestingasfuck … the mod messages said the same thing… they’d had too much trouble with people from that subreddit and the only way to get unbanned was to unfollow it and delete any comments before requesting a lift on the ban
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:40 PM
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So it doesn’t apply in your country and it applies to 0.00001% of women in 13 states where they were sexually assaulted resulting in a pregnancy, and not taking emergency contraceptives the morning after… You may as well highlight Saudi Arabian laws using this logic… or is there something missing in the logical thought process here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:32 PM
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Ok so you’re speaking to sexual assault where pregnancy occurs specifically right? Even then (to my knowledge) a sexual assault victim has no enforcement to deliver in a hospital… correct me if I’m wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:25 PM
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Ok so back to the original question, what rights do men have that women don’t… Is there any rights that would apply to an entire gender such as conscription? I think that would be in good faith the intention of the question… or at least with regard to the country you reside in
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:20 PM
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Ok hold on, I’m a dad, I was there when my son was born… are you saying that what happens is not medical practice but rather wholesale violating the woman against her will? I’m not trying to be dense here, I just don’t know what you mean as it seemed the medical practitioners were safely delivering a baby … and I also don’t believe we were there against free will … is anyone in the hospital delivering a baby forced to have it there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:17 PM
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Rugby clubs have more young people than old, 35+ is the oldest bracket in the club… were the dads for the younger members of the club… we play touch rugby now as our bones and cardio are not what they were at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:12 PM
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Ok well I’m gonna say right now that if it’s safe to do so, the woman should have that right. With that said, only 13 states have laws in place severely limiting abortions with exceptions in place for scenarios such as rape, incest or to save the life of the mother … The 13 states this applies to are • Alabama • Arkansas • Idaho • Kentucky • Louisiana  • Mississippi • Missouri • Oklahoma  • South Dakota • Tennessee • Texas • West Virginia • Wisconsin I disagree with their policies, and I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:06 PM
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I believe you but what does that mean in practice? Are you saying that’s women try to have self made abortions and then the medical staff prevent the abortion from happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:59 PM
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How do medical staff violate them? Is this a widespread issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:56 PM
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Oh ok so by bodily integrity that’s code for they can’t get an abortion in some states?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:56 PM
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So you’re saying that’s a right men have but women don’t? I might have heard of an incident or two where men are assaulted… or is that different?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:53 PM
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Is that like a government enforced right? What about conscription? Body integrity lol A lot of strong boss babes rising up now … just not jumping into the burning building to save the grandmas and children… women got overly righteous the second we stopped world wars… it’s like equality only when it suits is the game
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:50 PM
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lol so like the previous generations? Or is this new desire for a bang maid a recent thing like the internet? Push pause there for a second. These guys that say they’ve been bullied… would they happen to be in a subreddit where a small fraction of a fraction of men broadcast their personal frustrations? Go down to my rugby club, not one of the men are lonely, not one of the men even use reddit… it can be easy to gain a circle jerk bubble type view if you allow yourself to sort of lose your persp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:42 PM
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I don’t know, I’m just saying that commenter had a reasonable comment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:18 AM
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I dunno if I had to choose between Believe all men or believe all women… I’m choosing the men. Chris brown and Roman Polanski except for trump got shredded pretty much forever… Trump, I don’t know what the truth is there… I wouldn’t believe the ladies as truth that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:47 AM
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Damaging her reputation? If it was a man, its life with out parole or even the death penalty… they don’t compare (I’m joking but my point is guys get shredded 10:1 times more than women for this stuff. Reputation? That’s the least of a man’s worries when they go through it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:08 AM
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Yea submissive women love it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:03 AM
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It’s usually not just the dick that keeps the ladies returning… a normal size dick is fine… as long as he can dominate her and use her while also making her orgasm properly she’s likely to consider him good for a fun time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:29 AM
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Given her position, if the genders were reversed society would at a minimum crucify her. OP seems pretty clear to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:02 PM
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Ok that’s fair; I think the gap is smaller for genuine life partners and marriages, but from a dating and just for fun perspective, women enjoy older guys for the fun in the bedroom… and older guys enjoy younger women for the same reason. In both cases everyone settles for something meaningful down the line
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:22 AM
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I’m 38, the oldest I’ve dated lately is 33… and honestly I’d say in terms of maturity and SMV we’re on par. Any woman my age is simply not even on the radar. Good luck to them, but they’re so far past their prime that I only think of them as friends… I was matching with girls on tinder as young as 26 in my recent dating phase… never had a better age to date than now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:18 AM
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40 year old guys from a maturity and physical perspective are often much more appealing to younger women… they have the experience in bed, they’re fitter than they’ve ever been, they’ve settled down so they live healthy, their careers are set, and they have the money to fund a fun lifestyle… they absolute will choose a 40yo with his shit together
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:57 AM
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At 40 you can date approx. a 30 year old woman assuming you made good financial decisions allowing her to see good family making opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:39 AM
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Hahaha well it’s the absolute truth… that’s a harsh one for women I get that… there’s equally if not harsher truths for men... And I’d say a large amount of men don’t want to accept the harsh truth that applies to them too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:27 AM
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Heyyy we agree on something. Self accountability is of paramount importance, guys need to rise up and own their success… all these other groups are symptoms of men too weak to achieve their god given ability for greatness. Sad to contemplate… But my point still stands, hypergamy is real as is The Wall for women as is the fact that men at age 38 are still rising in the sexual marketplace while women at 38 are already well past their prime for dating options. This pisses women off, for many reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:20 AM
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I think the lamest saddest “manosphere” groups are the MGTOW and Pickup artist groups because they essentially allow men to have excuses for their own shitty behaviour… there is only one type of attitude for a man which is complete total self accountability in all areas, with no room for being lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:12 AM
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Ah ok well the “manosphere” sounds stupid lol, incel energy from my brief interactions and understanding of the term… Im into thinking for myself and if it aligns with something that’s great… TRP has some great ideas which have really proven to be true and advantageous to me, so I guess that makes me a red pill man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:10 AM
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I can see stormy rain clouds out the window, I predict it will storm soon… isn’t reality… yet… does it need to be to make the prediction?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:01 AM
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Yea true I can’t predict the future, and I did illustrate where I suspect it will go even if I could be wrong… but it’s at a point where I’m very likely correct
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:59 AM
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In your screenshot are you implying TRP and manosphere content are the same thing? I don’t get what the bruh is referencing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:57 AM
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She’s 42, and they’ve spent 3 years and a lot of money trying with IVF… I go for drinks with the guy, we talk… we talk women, we talk the rugby, and we talk money… Their relationship is the titanic… and it’s sinking, i have enough experience in life to know how things go
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:55 AM
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There’s nothing imaginative about my example, and I know the dynamic with them well, I also can see where she’s heading and he’s heading… he’s heading up and up. She’s hitting the wall… I don’t really subscribe to manosphere stuff, but the red pill term “the wall” isn’t some imagined made up thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:48 AM
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But you can at the very least see where the relationship in my example is headed right? She focussed on career, now the relationship will end, and she will be just another boss babe sharing memes about girl power and celebrating international women’s day talking about the gender pay gap and getting angry on reddit at people talking the truth … with her growing collection of cats asking where all the good men are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:41 AM
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lol I’m not sure where In my line of reasoning you’re not getting it… is it possible you can’t handle the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:36 AM
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They are, it doesn’t have to apply to you personally, you’re taking offence as if it’s aimed at you personally, but I’m speaking generally. I even provided a clear example of a couple I know in my own life. When she’s left with out my mate, she’s never gonna find a guy that comes close in terms of value and status … her bar will be set light years out of her league… and she’ll become just another woman in a sea of them with her cats and a bitter disdain for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:32 AM
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Rewind back to my original comment, my point remains… I believe a lot of women don’t realise how much the chances conception (with the right man) drop off after 30 and they don’t realise how valuable it is to have a family of your own
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:23 AM
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Not my experience but let’s assume most men here are single and not getting sex… same issue, the woman or women they want to fuck need to view him as her best option, the only way is to level up their career, health and social life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:06 AM
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Well there’s a lot of men here who don’t satisfy her hypergamy asking why they’re not getting laid by their wives or significant other… the answer is they need to be more successful, so that she doesn’t feel like she can do better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:03 AM
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I think it’s generally about relationships more than just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:00 AM
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What do you mean they fear finding someone else for sex? We have apps these days, and escorts, and hook up culture… sex is as easy as ordering uber eats
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:46 AM
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I don’t know what you want me to say here… yes unconditional love has its limits for both parties when there is a non negotiable incompatibility… but there really is no doubt at all that women have a much more cut throat ability to dump a guy when the going gets tough. A guy can love a woman that lost her job going through tough times… but a woman can’t in reverse… if he loses his job, the clock is ticking because hypergamy applies here and she will go fuck her boss or colleague while you’re job…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:40 AM
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Because women have a powerful self preservation genetic inclination known as “Hypergamy”, it’s only in very recent years that we can even talk about it. Although I think it mainly applies to women before they have children and settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:29 AM
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I already did elaborate and you replied “yes or no”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:24 AM
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You’re being argumentative though, and to what end? 🤷‍♂️ it’s easy to trap a response into yes or no questions… you get that right? You get why it’s not a yes or no question right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:22 AM
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lol an oversimplification on your answer isn’t the win you think it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:19 AM
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Ok then… No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:03 AM
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Ok I’ll try to be even more direct: Generally speaking, Women divorcing their partners and breaking up with boyfriends does not necessarily reflect equally with the example of a guy choosing a younger hotter woman to start a family with as his intentions are clearly thought out and not made on the whim.. Does that answer you directly? Or can you restate the question to remove the confusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:00 AM
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Correct me if I’m getting you wrong, but you’re really raising debate around the concept of hypergamy. I think in the example of the guy here, he’s not thinking, oh there’s an upgrade and since I can upgrade I will… He’s thinking, I’d like a family and a partner… so it’s not an immature or flippant decision based on a feeling in a moment… which is often the hypergamous decision making process we see in women that leave their husbands/partners for a new dude they deem to be of a higher status/val…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:51 PM
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I thought I did. Unconditional love doesn’t mean you ruin your hopes and dreams and life goals to be with someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:39 PM
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People like to have families… many consider it a non negotiable… it’s just the way this life goes… sometimes we adjust for the people we love, sometimes the people we love adjust for us, and sometimes relationships end
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:37 PM
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I’m 38, In my friends circle I’m the only one with a son. Every one of the women 38-42, have no children, they’ve been trying, IVF, everything, none of them can conceive. I know at least one of the couples, the guy is going to leave her, hes complained multiple times that because she won’t get her weight down she’s made it mich less likely she can have a baby… amongst other issues in their relationship…. he’s now one of the directors of the company, $450K a year not including bonuses… women in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:33 PM
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Test
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:37 PM
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Well as women age they get more offended by more stuff 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:23 AM
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I’m not shocked at all, I just harbour a different view on the world… one which is probably more shocking in return as it’s the kind of view many men harbour, but keep secret as we just don’t want the stress
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:22 AM
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Because what I deem as reasonable to ignore you deem as reasonable to ban/censor/control. I personally believe we should be able to (as adults) just ignore stuff we find offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:42 AM
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Look I’m old and wise enough to always keep the truth in my own head… if I was him I would have told her what she wanted to hear and kept the friendship… I only express the truth anonymously in career and in life… a lot of women ultimately don’t want the truth, and as a man, I’ve found telling them what they want to hear has vastly improved my ability in leadership roles in career but also in friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:34 AM
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What you just suggested is how he wrote it in his original post… maybe a little rougher but the same idea
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:25 AM
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It kind of is, it’s like let the guy make his case, you don’t have to control, censor and silence all dissenting opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:22 AM
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What he wrote in his post, to me… as i interpret it, even now, sounds like a common emotional reaction where an entitled woman gets upset that men are making choices that don’t suit her … ultimately she needs to grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:06 AM
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Offended sure; but that’s just his opinion, and a lot of people colloquially and anecdotally understand a lot of women do have the hypergamy nature to leave if a better option presents itself… so some of what he’s saying although perhaps offensive does ring true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:49 PM
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His post is a little bit rough and silly… but what specifically do you object to about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:05 PM
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lol if I read you correctly… you’re theorising what he said ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:27 PM
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For the people saying “No one is obligated to date anyone”….. it’s like no shit Sherlock…. I’m going to try and frame the girls position in this post, in a way that likely shines light on where her head is really at. It’s not a simple “single men are obligated to date them”, ok here we go, she’s likely upset because she has lived her whole life to some degree with entitlement, with privilege and with the general reinforcing experience that a woman’s value has no underpinning to biological nature…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:19 PM
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They do want that … and I ain’t complainin about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:47 PM
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Men don’t have that problem. Their bonding is from a very different dynamic. Edit: down vote the concept all you like, doesn’t change the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:39 AM
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I think men want a loyal wife… so they don’t want a woman with a high body count, as smart men understand that pair bonding ability breaks the higher up the body count she travels
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:00 PM
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lol does he really love you? Sorry the whole situation sounds insecure and precarious, especially the fact you’re proclaiming your “win” with such a fantastic man 🤣 It sounds like you have a cheater, or at least a polygamous situation if that’s your thang
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:52 PM
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Why do you call me sweetie lol what are you 80yo?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:07 AM
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Take your Karen vibes elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:00 AM
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I’m not reading this lol go away
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:54 AM
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I spoke correctly, there isn’t a word I’d change. Not one. I can’t help it if you’re at an exceptional level of stupid 🤷‍♂️ you must be noticing a trend on line and reddit by now that you’re the problem and not the world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:47 AM
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No women know how to act when they see a man they want to reproduce with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:13 AM
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Well each situation is different, that is for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:06 AM
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You have to also remember the positive reception ladies ain’t on reddit having a whinge… they’re getting on with life… and what will really blow your mind is, that’s most women…. Most women are not reddit whining cat ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:56 AM
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Bro…. Next level dumb. You got a reference to your theory? Hahahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:55 AM
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Bahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahaha that’s the dumbest thing I have ever ever ever EVER EVER HEARD …. EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:50 AM
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Every situation is different, people are unique
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:46 AM
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Red pill men know that we should never listen to what they say but act on what they do :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:45 AM
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Women don’t get horny!!!????? Bahahahahahahhahahahahahshahhahahahahhahaahhahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:45 AM
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Please tell that to the dudes lecturing me that no woman wants any man under any circumstance to approach them 99% of the time below in this thread lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:26 AM
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Every woman in this thread isn’t every woman, and also Reddit does attract the cat ladies, feminist boss ladies and all their variations… you’re living in a bubble…outside of it, there’s tons of beautiful, friendly receptive lovely feminine women who embrace life and all of it while shining their bright light into the world…. The opposite of your vibe essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:20 AM
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Lolll nah, that’s an enormous amount of misalign with reality, perhaps some personal trauma projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:14 AM
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Mall, gym, the girl serving me coffee at my fav cafe, the bar, the pub, and at the beach
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:10 AM
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You speak for all women? I’ve had incredibly well received feedback from approaching ending in incredible sex, absolutely fantastic! They loved me being bold and communicating what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:06 AM
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I was talking about current western society, where the dating scene sucks for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:03 AM
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Of course, unless she’s horny and specifically looking to cheat or a fling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:58 AM
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Yea it’s not perfectly worded to cover all possible exceptions, you’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:43 AM
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Beautiful, friendly, smiling, makes nice eye contact and smiles at me… there’s a chemistry that occurs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:41 AM
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Not all, but usually you can tell the ones that do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:39 AM
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Women want men to approach, just as long as the man is tall enough, well dressed enough and good looking enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:26 AM
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You’re too stupid to realise you’re stupid 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:27 PM
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I just looked through your recent history… are you a Karen Bot designed to start meaningless arguments and see how long you can drag them out? You’re a AI argument bot experiment aren’t you? I’ve been trolled 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:08 PM
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Who cares I asked for the differences… and examples… honestly … you seem like hard work x1000
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:26 PM
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No I didn’t need the word “Non”. The original question was intended. A negation isn’t required
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:17 PM
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I wrote this question “Can you give me an example of the differences between conventionally attractive and very attractive?”and wanted the answer, not an emotional train wreck of a response that you gave… I genuinely do not know what the fck you’re talking about and I read it carefully
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:14 AM
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How? Why? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:57 AM
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There isn’t a word missing, triple checked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:51 AM
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You said use your words so I said use your brain, same line of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:46 AM
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lol you’re the one saying “use your words”… with your broken English 🤣 you were rude first
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:13 AM
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Yea this^ pretty obvious if you “use your brain”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:22 PM
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You tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:36 PM
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Can you give me an example of the differences between conventionally attractive and very attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:05 AM
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Yea the whole myth about guys not being able to get girls locally is really for the most part a feminist narrative. They can get local women, but they can get nicer more feminine women elsewhere… that’s the real truth… and the overweight feminist western women are pissed that their pushing their 30-40’s and they never found Mr right… while preaching their boss babe, don’t need no man mantra that is nearly a mass hysteria in the west. Every woman raised to proudly take on masculine traits, suppre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:46 AM
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Because western women are a pain the ass. They have feminist woke idealogy crammed down their throats 24/7 and they buy into it. Utah? What for a Mormon woman? Get the f out of here. And go to church for a western woman? lol no. Sure it helps, and shows they’re perhaps somewhat grounded in judeo Christian values…. But in the west They’re gonna be more likely to be overweight, they’re gonna be unattractive… there will be exceptions of course… but go to Asia, and it’s inversed… it’s like why play …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:13 AM
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Full disclosure I’m dating a Filipino girl as of recently from a very poor background, she immigrated to my country though, so I guess that makes her a passport sis? Anyway she’s beautiful inside and out… goes to church, looks after her family and friends and really just emanates a genuine happy vibe into the world, she works hard at a low pay job, but she’s happy, and really ticks all the boxes… we can go for a cheap meal out on a date night and have an amazing time… my Aussie ex wife however w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:35 AM
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Did you interview them? I think the reality of human beings is we value connection and intimacy with the opposite sex that we find attractive… the notion of control, isolation and financial abuse sounds utterly absurd… sure there may be horror stories out there, but no way near is it the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:18 AM
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In my experience, women from poorer countries are still human, and still want a loyal husband, or at least a relationship that is real… they’re also very feminine and hold a high regard of respect for the man they date… so I would say 99.9% of cases you don’t hear about are the success stories, and that 0.1% bubbles up into news stories and things of how she left him the day after her citizenship was granted. 3rd world women tend to have the best values, the easiest to enjoy time with, sexy as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:17 AM
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That’s likely the truth, I think the reasons simps like him get so uppity is simply as a coping mechanism to avoid facing the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:19 PM
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Lollll that’s great that you’re happily married, and I do actually get your side of the argument very clearly, and I tend to agree, but these people are actually much more pleasant when you truly understand them better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:34 AM
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Your sperge insults are creative I’ll give you that my simpy keyboard warrior
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:02 AM
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I’m guessing he’s has some reinforcing feedback that he holds onto for a shot at some online pussy every now and then… god simping is a seriously gross trait amongst modern men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:30 AM
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You sound like a simp honestly, the way you go all in on the insults and make assertions of how perfect women are while showing no actual good thought process behind your beliefs, unlike OP. Does the simping work out for you? Or is it that you’re just so good looking that you’ve never needed to see the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:42 AM
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The bad boy persona can also have women come back to them when needs are needing to be met. If she just needs a good fuck, purely because the nice guy that took her out for dinner the night before doesn’t get her excited… I think the fact that the bad boy doesn’t get attached is a big reason for the returning ladies… she can also see him as a project, a guy to fix, to turn good… and if she succeeds she gets bored of him too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:04 PM
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If I was the richest guy on earth it wouldn’t change my desire for the girl I’m currently dating even in the slightest bit… but before you commend me… if she lost her sexiness… like let herself become fat or something … then yea I’d maybe start considering or reconsidering
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:46 PM
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I’m dating a woman who is from very poor beginnings, I love this because I’m only average at best in terms of finances… I do ok but I’ve been stupid with money all and all. I’m not dating her for control, or some kind of predatory nature, but because she’s very happy to get a cheap burger at the beach for date night… and watch the sunset… she’s impressed by my tent for camping trips in the cheap camping reserves… I don’t have money for hotels and shit… I save my little spare money… everything an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:44 PM
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lol you could swap the gender and it would at least be equally true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:27 AM
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Get friendly with women … learn to flirt… like anything, the more you practice the better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:39 AM
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Dunno what to tell ya, I’m not making it up…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:59 AM
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Oh well you have to put yourself in situations that maximise the outcomes you want… a daily group fitness weights/cardio routine will increase general appearance, sex appeal, testosterone and confidence … amongst other benefits such as lower blood pressure and ability to hold yourself with pride … Then you make your diet a body builder diet, sleep well, and do other things that have long lasting benefits such as meditation and you’re well on the way to getting the ladies… Now, add social sport o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:33 PM
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Ain’t that the truth, woman chase you while you’re just living life and having fun
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:34 PM
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I let the pain become fuel to be a better man… and eventually I broke through many level ups to a point where I have too many women to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:33 PM
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Mmmmmmm do we? I guess Ashton Kutcher went for Demi Moore… but I don’t know of men thirsting over older celebs… maybe salma Hayek with those Latina genes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:34 PM
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It’s different, in reverse order 20 years is a lot but you can be Leo DiCaprio and pull it off
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:58 PM
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Ohh, yea wishful thinking, men needed accountability to survive for millions of evolutionary years, women never did. So guys make the mistake of thinking that women can easily just become accountable for their actions instinctively… impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:31 AM
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I have no idea what the fck point you’re trying to make is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:29 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:27 AM
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Ah yes, what you’re suggesting is women would need to be accountable by nature, unfortunately just like children, it’s not a common occurrence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:26 AM
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Women don’t get to choose what gives them the tingles… it’s built in to our human DNA
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:18 AM
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Haha the idea of accountability scared you off, Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:00 AM
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Yep you have to think for yourself, try it, see how you get on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:56 AM
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The argument is there, the truth is out there, only you must be willing to view it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:55 AM
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lol look it up, see if your assumptions are true, women aren’t happy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:03 AM
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You’re desirable to desperate men, men with options still don’t desire you as you age. Only young men with issues, baggage and desperation for intimacy will be considering you… depending also on how much your put yourself out there too…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:43 AM
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Yea those studies are very reliable, look into it, nothing wrong with pursuing the truth wherever it may take you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:47 AM
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Meh let’s catch up in 20 years time… feminism fades away as times get tough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:07 AM
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There’s a lot of very reliable data out there showing women have never been less happy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:06 AM
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Nope I mean broken homes on face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:06 AM
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Of course you are, bury that head back deep and deeper into the sand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:19 AM
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As feminism continues to push, we see direct outcomes, including but not limited to: Increased broken homes, which leads to increased crime, especially in single mother households, which leads to a myriad of social issues. We see unhappy women, and unhappy men, so we see increased depression. We see men and women now pitted against each other, divorces and divorce rape is now the standard across the western world… families and lives get destroyed and fractured in a thousand different ways in way…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:19 AM
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The collapse of the west does though, and implicitly economic collapse is a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:09 AM
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It doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:07 AM
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Economically Maybe not so much, but other traditional gender roles can apply, like the man being the head of the house
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:05 AM
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They’re in economic crisis because of feminism… it can always get worse… and btw traditional gender roles are much more prevalent in poorer nations…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:04 AM
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lol your ignorance is marvellous… it’s not like the 50’s. Things are going to get rapidly worse, and when we’re old and grey we’ll leave behind a hellscape never seen in human history (for most people except the rich)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:03 AM
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Ok if we take inflation, the average wage, and the cost of living we can easily see the standard of living decreases each year… it’s not rocket science and it’s soo trivially easy to see he numbers and proof both personally and generally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:37 PM
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That’s because ignorance is bliss my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:34 PM
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Lmao send me some of your privilege and I’ll be set!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:31 PM
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You must live in a very very sheltered lifestyle… as some one on a good wage paying rent in the west… I can assure you each year gets worse than the year before in every metric I’d consider important for happiness, health and optimism for the future. Congrats on being so well off that you can afford to live with your head in the sand!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:28 PM
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If we analyse the current metrics of western “democratic” nations we can fairly safely assume that they’re currently collapsing… as we regress economically I think we’ll see a ever increasing level of crime, extreme violence… and as that occurs I suspect traditional gender roles naturally emerge out of necessity… so yes I would expect as we see in third world nations, the nature of gender roles and patriachical structures will reemerge… as it’s ultimately advantageous to work as a team under the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:19 PM
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The best sex I’ve had is from my long term relationships, but I also could have sex with any cute woman on the street with more or less no questions asked… if she’s cute/sexy, I’m getting hard, I could fuck her. Do I want hookups? Yes, but I also know that I catch the feels and enjoy having a woman around a lot … aka a girlfriend or a partner… Love the feminine energy around me, the yang to my yin… But it goes way more than that, we want someone to share a family with, to share key life events w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:04 PM
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