Calpis01 Archive

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2	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men Yea, so now you can see it's a human thing, not a gender thing. The thing is, is that males usually have a more solid grasp on this reality than most young women, which is where their rancor comes from. In the end though, it all balances out around 60 y.o. men have their time to shine around 30-40 and can have access to younger women. The younger women have their peak around 20-30 years old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 03:00 PM
1	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men I think... It's because we all think we have time. There's a reason people settle. I would say realistically, try your best to attract the best mate possible until 40, then look to start to settle by 60. That's different if you want kids of course. But then if you can't make it work, you might also have to deal with divorce later. And sexual attractiveness is a huge component of having a good marriage. So attraction ties into it there. Basic chemistry, hormones, pheromones. Are they attractive i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 01:37 AM
1	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men It's not unusual for someone to complain that they can't get what they want. He's just not attracted to those that are chasing after him. It's the same for women right? Do they HAVE to return feelings for every single man that lists after them? Of course not, it's not realistic. You can't change your base human instinct. But you can use your prefrontal cortex and use logical thinking to override it, as you're doing it right now. You're both right. But it's his choice, not yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 01:14 AM
1	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men No one wants to die alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 01:06 AM
2	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men You are underestimating the level of desperation that most men have in the dating market. Even a tiny bit of mud-filled infested water will seem amazing when stuck In a desert for your entire life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:55 AM
7	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men Women (usually) date up. Men (usually) date down. Would you sleep with a fugly and unattractive man? No, right? But men will (sleep with girl, I mean). This is why a lot of unattractive girls have an inflated ego relative to their actual desirability, because they still get attention from men regardless. However, they will probably not find a LTR. In this case, the girls he finds attractive are above him, and are chasing some other dude. That leaves those "below" him chasing him, which puts him …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:52 AM
3	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men Men sleep down, women sleep up. Pretty much spot on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 10:56 PM
12	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men Another is that they want perfection. A common complaint I hear is, "what about the next guy? We might be more compatible! Wouldn't it be better to have someone more compatible." These are usually from women who've had options and the pick of the litter their entire lives. Analysis paralysis. Just pick ONE and create together. But then that's hard of course and they're too used to the world catering to them, so why would they choose that route? It's just how the human brain is wired. Why walk to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 10:54 PM
3	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men What he's saying is that all the women into him are fugly and he's not sexually attracted to them	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 10:46 PM
1	Coming from money has spoiled me and ruined my drive. You need balance. Your just living off someone else's (your dad's hard work). You don't appreciate it because you never had to fight or sacrifice for it. Our brain works in contrasts. That piece of bread will taste ever so sweet if you've been hungry for a few days. The vegetables you grow taste that much richer rather than just having someone bring them to you. Life is about the journey, not that destination, and you've already reached the endgame without going through the process. Well, how is…	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/23 09:04 AM
1	What is the end goal for you? You should take a look at Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. I've been banging my head on this, but for me personally, I think it's shifting from being a consumer to a producer. I don't want money to just endlessly consume other people's passion and efforts. I want to use my position, wealth, soft power to build something meaningful that will impact those around me and last even after I die.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/23 08:57 AM
0	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? In my own experience, I have met so many women who come with checklists like this. It’s almost like they’re going grocery shopping. I am angry, because I have seen so many instances where the gf/wife abandons their partner when something doesn’t meet their checklist. When the partners goes through tough times, when they lose their job, fall into depression, have mental breakdowns or issues, the person they think they can rely on leaves them like a tossed handbag. They come crying to me and becom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 07:24 PM
1	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? It starts off reasonable... then starts to get ridiculous as it goes in. You lost me at: “is both supportive and patient to my quirk”. Financially and emotionally stable? I literally don’t know any female that meets this. Why do you take this for granted in the opposite sex? Men are generally bad at communicating, but you also want one that can and also can bend to your needs (compromise with you, while this list isn’t even compromising at all) He also has to be physically attractive and find yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 05:38 PM
6	On Romantic Love and Heartbreak Damn, I love the way you write. The only thing I can say write is "ditto" :/	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/20 07:47 PM
2	Woman on AskMen isn't attracted to her loving/doting beta provider husband, and is planning to kick his ass to the curb. Happy Thanksgiving. This. I was with my gf for three years. I wasn't realllyy sexually attracted to her compared to my previous gfs, but she was sweet, caring, if very introverted. The sex sucked (dead fish, no willingness to really do anything), but I felt very comfortable in the relationship. Only when the topic of marriage came up did I balk and seriously consider whether I can stay with a girl I wasn’t really physically attracted to for the rest of my life. So…yea I ran. I did the exact same thing as this woman…	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/16 06:40 AM