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This is the real problem: Another issue is that he says I talk to him disrespectfully and that I’m “too masculine.” I can't say how you've spoken to him but that doesn't sound very nice...
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/25 06:25 PM
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I’m saying the consequences of a wrong career are not nearly as catastrophic as the wrong person. But both do have consequences for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/25 02:27 PM
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Nothing is guaranteed, that is true but it will certainly be less of a risk than potentially the wrong person.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/25 02:25 PM
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Not at all. The thing is 50% of relationships end in divorce. Maybe slightly more or less but the odds aren't great. A career wiIl support you for LIFE.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/25 02:18 AM
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This doesn't sound healthy. Going no contact as a form of conflict resolution is not healthy. I can't imagine how this would turn out in marriage and kids.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/25 06:04 PM
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I hate to say it but I would not pursue this type of lifestyle actively. It sets you up to be in a risky situation where a man has full control over you financially. And in this economy it's especially risky.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/25 11:01 PM
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The age gap alone at your age would have me saying no.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/25 03:37 PM
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A lot of things I wish I didn't ignore was their lifestyles. Don't get me wrong, different things work for everybody, but things like their diet, exercise, daily activities say a lot about a person and their level of ambition. If they can't take care of themselves, I question how much they would be able to support a partner and a potential child.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/25 03:03 PM
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I don’t think any man has asked me my body count
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/25 10:01 AM
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Sounds like some level of interest but not enough.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 04:45 PM
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Unfortunately it’s hard for me not to self sabotage, and even recognize what’s going on in a relationship with all the mental noise. Maybe one day it’ll get better but I’m not sure how
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/25 03:14 AM
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What about with a difficult attachment style? I'm disorganized, I know improvement is necessary obviously through dating itself but it's like hell for my anxiety. Like can't eat, can't sleep at least in the beginning.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/25 08:57 PM
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I agree it’s hard when age, someone’s career, etc can all be legitimate factors. That’s why I would say if there isn’t an active timeline at least to some extent then there’s a problem. Especially when you’re older and most other factors like career and schooling are not an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 08:31 PM
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I don't know that I would be insisting by month 6 about marriage, but if by a year in he can't see marriage as even a possibility with you then I would see an issue. I mean, I don't think it takes years and years to know if you could see it as a possibility. My current boyfriend, who is 26, says he wants to be married and have a child by 30 (I am also 26). I did not bring up marriage by that point (it was only a month in), and it's only been a few months total, but this has felt promising to me.…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/25 08:13 PM
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So are you saying your main issue is them being boring? Maybe see if there's any patterns in either where you're meeting these men or who you're matching with. It was I think 6 dates before my boyfriend asked me to be exclusive. But after 2 he said he could see himself in a relationship with me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/25 05:33 PM
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Someone who has been single that long, it’s usually for a bad reason. Either they’re self sabotaging, they don’t value relationships or they have a personality trait/some other trait that makes them undesirable for a relationship. It’s unlikely you would’ve gotten him to change anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/25 01:08 PM
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I saw on another post you said he's been single for 8 years, sound like a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/25 11:38 PM
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I would say if he asks directly about any given point, then don't lie, but you don't necessarily have to disclose anything that you don't want to. But if it makes you feel guilty in any sense, then perhaps its a good time to evaluate why you feel that way and how you can best resolve it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 09:09 PM
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