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| 36 | “Toxic Masculinity” is bred from women’s hypergamy | CMV | CameronJohns88 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:32 PM |
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| 4 | Who in your life is successful with women?6’1” Handsome Trust fund White Smart (successful in STEM) Blue pill and soy Has done interesting jobs/activities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it true most men are giving up on dating?Women have unlimited options until like age 40 So unfortunately if someone doesn’t want women to treat them as an option they either need to become extremely high value or wait awhile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men have to get their abundance mentality on the same level of women.This is like saying a starving African child just needs to have a good abundance mentality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Red-pill women (hetero or bi), what are your biggest issues with the red pill ideology?What are the “Red Pill Documents”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Being Purple-Pilled Is More Red-Pilled Than Being Red-PilledWhat’s even defined as incel content? The red pill is considered incel content by the main stream. Isnt the point of PPD to debate the truths on intersexual dynamics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Being Purple-Pilled Is More Red-Pilled Than Being Red-PilledNot if you have action paths to improve your attractiveness. And being grounded in reality and your limitations is not defeatist, it’s being a realist and saves you a lot of wasted effort with redpill and bluepill coping mechanisms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Being Purple-Pilled Is More Red-Pilled Than Being Red-PilledThat’s a misconception. It’s aligned very much with red pill, that hypergamy is real and women want AF/BB and a guy needs both to get women It differs in that red pill thinks “AF” is macho behavior, while black pill says “AF” is biological markers like height and face Basically both acknowledge that there is a looks threshold for attracting women, but red pill puts that threshold very low, saying personality can overcome it. Black pill takes dating statistics and proves the threshold is quite hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Being Purple-Pilled Is More Red-Pilled Than Being Red-PilledBlack pill is the ultimate redpill It acknowledges the “nice guy” copes of blue pill, and prevent you from being a simp It acknowledges the “masculinity coping” of the red pill, and prevents you from being a roided out misogynist I know this stance isn’t popular, but it’s the only one with actual data to support it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?Which parts don’t make sense or are irrational? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:55 AM |
| 0 | What is your policy for covid? Can you date an unvaccinated person?This is a false equivalency that left leaning folks love to throw around If you’re pro life, you believe it’s killing a baby. There’s no such thing as “it’s my choice to kill a baby”. It’s about the autonomy of the baby, not the “murderer” If you’re anti vax, the argument is “there is an extremely low mortality rate from this, and you are putting my body at risk by forcing me to take a vaccine that has not gone through full safety validation”. It’s about the precedent of letting the government f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Dating can be harder for women than menLet’s not pretend women also have incredibly high physical standards. A short guy can workout and be rich and be social and never get any female attention Solipsistic. That’s like Simon Cowell saying how hard it is to reject American Idol singers. It’s way harder to be the struggling artist than to be the gate keeper It’s true that older women struggle more than older men. But it’s not like 99.999% of older men could ever get an attractive 20 year old. Even older women can find love easier than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV, Relationships aren't as difficult as so many people make them out to be.Social media and tinder and modern feminism and promiscuity culture didn’t exist until recently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you care about whether the guy has a college degree?Most college educated women want college educated men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other?What are you even talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Not wanting to date a guy that still lives with his mother isn't a hot takeSort of a straw man, nobody red pill would disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other?Because the problem is putting up with womens demands and expectations. Men are easily made happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 09:50 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Dating for hetrosexual men isn't about getting a girl it's about finding someone who you are compatible itThat’s well and good, but men don’t have those options Men don’t WANT a girl who’s pretty, but not at all compatible, but they can barely get a decent looking girl to like them back, let alone a pretty good whose also emotionally compatible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think that women don't like videogames as much as men?Women can have more fun going out and getting hit on and sleeping with chads, so they don’t need video games | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 04:02 AM |
| 4 | The real thing hurting mens ability to get women is pornPorn is harmful, but it’s not the root cause of mens ability to get women Every single man would chose real sex over porn if they could get both roughly as easily But most men either can’t get a decently attractive woman, or need to put in way too much work to maintain a relationship with one. The real root cause of mens struggles with women is female hypergamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 03:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You can't get an LTR if you can't get casual sexYou can’t get a LTR without sex But plenty of guys play the beta waiting game, and over time develop a comfort rapport with women that can then become sexual attraction It’s a terrible ROI but most men don’t have a better option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Every pill fails at properly addressing the biggest issue guys face when dating. Anxiety.Anxiety isn’t the biggest issue guys face while dating. Especially when it’s OLD It’s womens hypergamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Why Won’t You Pay For Sex?-Doesn’t actually fulfill needs (validation and to be genuinely desired sexually) -Illegal -Most prostitutes in America are hideous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Red pill guides men towards transactional relationships with women. Reciprocal attraction requires a different approach.Yeah I’d agree But I don’t think actual red pill says that looks and personality don’t matter. Rollo or Rossi or Roosh never said that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:10 PM |
| 35 | Red pill guides men towards transactional relationships with women. Reciprocal attraction requires a different approach.*Red pill guides men towards realizing the truth that relationships are transactional, and men must build their SMV to get the desired outcomes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?Great list, adding those | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:20 AM |
| 0 | Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy?What’s the point about talking on behalf of exceptions to the rule | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:59 AM |
| 0 | Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy?“Some men” isn’t the majority of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:47 AM |
| 28 | Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men?Dick Dickhead Knob Bell end Wanker Incel Neckbeard Nice Guy Cuck Beta Broke Boi Fuck Boy Little dick Manlet Manchild Asshole (nobody calls women that) Douchebag (nobody calls women that) Cocksucker (nobody calls women that) Edit: Thanks u/usamabinladenpill • Motherfucker • Jerk • Gay • Faggot • Prick • Pansy • Coward • Sissy • Bastard • Cad • Soy boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:43 AM |
| 8 | Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy?It’s honestly harder for men to get sex than love When men say that sex will make them happy, it’s more so because if you’re charming enough to women to get sex, youre charming enough for a relationship. Very rare for a man to be deemed sex worthy but not relationship worthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | The most important x Factor when it comes to looks, money, status that men should strive for is status.“If you get it to work for you” Yeah and lottery tickets are a great investment strategy if you get it to work for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 05:56 PM |
| 13 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themWomen rated the men on tinder as 80% being below average in looks Even if tinder is mostly men, that wouldn’t dismiss the data | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 05:55 PM |
| 0 | The most important x Factor when it comes to looks, money, status that men should strive for is status.Aight you’re a lost cause You think anyone can just be in a band or be a chef and become famous…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | The most important x Factor when it comes to looks, money, status that men should strive for is status.How does one deliberately get famous without luck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | The most important x Factor when it comes to looks, money, status that men should strive for is status.Domain dominance used to be a big thing, but now thanks to tinder your sexual marketplace competition is your entire city In the past if the guy was a 4/10 but the best rock climber at the gym you could get the cute girl who showed up. Now she’ll use you for advice and friendship and fuck the hot guy on tinder That’s why OLD has made it so much more difficult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The most important x Factor when it comes to looks, money, status that men should strive for is status.I agree that status is the best way for average men to be appealing, but it takes pure luck. At least striving for money or fitness or game is reliable, and if you don’t meet your target 100% you’ll still be fine at like 60% your target. Fame is all or nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | The most important x Factor when it comes to looks, money, status that men should strive for is status.If rocket science was easier than dating then the nerds would have a harem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 04:19 AM |
| 3 | will cosmetic plastic surgery lose popularity?Absolutely not. Bad, fake looking cosmetic surgery will be out of style. Good, attractive, indistinguishable plastic surgery will explode in popularity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | “Masculinity” and “Femininity” are a myth!Red pill and Tradcon are not the same thing Please read Rollos work before you consider yourself red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 01:52 PM |
| 0 | “Masculinity” and “Femininity” are a myth!Then you don’t know what red pill means You’re so far in your camp it’ll be too much work to change your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 01:07 PM |
| -1 | “Masculinity” and “Femininity” are a myth!Wow, haven’t seen such a naive blue pill take here in awhile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 12:58 PM |
| 0 | How ''matched'' are most couples?Seems to me the most long lasting relationships are where the guys are better looking than the girls. Or maybe the guy is only slightly less attractive But in both cases the guy is infinitely more wealthy and interesting and fun. Generally guys put in more work in relationships imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?I personally think it’s delusional when people say they don’t need an attractive partner You need both love AND physical attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | I actually have no idea how attractive I am.The only real answer is to date and see what kind of quality and quantity of women you get Sexual market value is like auctioning off an antique online. It can be speculated based on looks and status and such, but at the end of the day its value is based on what people are willing to pay for it. In this case, it’s your market demand to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:23 PM |
| 3 | There is now way to flirt without sounding crigneThere is, you just don’t know how | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Can a man truly give up on sex and be happy ?I think men truly need a loving, affectionate relationship with a pretty partner to be happy You can go long enough without that to numb it out, but I don’t see this MGTOW life as being fulfilling Attractive women are an extraordinary amount of effort to keep and retain, but there really isn’t a better use of that time and money and energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | A Pew Research Center study shows that 62% of single women in the U.S. are not open to casual dating or a committed relationship, compared to 39% of single menAre you really in good faith trying to argue that almost all straight men don’t want sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 08:19 PM |
| 9 | What is a "bad personality," and how do women automatically know you have one before you even talk to them?Well said Halo effect is real, but personality is very much dependent on one’s body language, speech patterns, and of course the actual conversation skills and emotional intelligence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 5 | A Pew Research Center study shows that 62% of single women in the U.S. are not open to casual dating or a committed relationship, compared to 39% of single men99.99% of men want sex no matter what as a baseline But men also want relationships. Precisely 61% based on the article | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:23 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women's opinions don't matterI think men should get advice from everyone, and then use critical thinking and logic to compartamentalize what advice makes sense and what doesnt Women typically don’t give good advice to men on this topic because they don’t know what it’s like to be men seducing women. Also the advice they give will be colored by what they assign to their prototypical ideal man rather than you. It’s why women in public will say they want a nice, sweet man. To their girlfriends they’ll talk about wanting a domi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:18 PM |
| 2 | A Pew Research Center study shows that 62% of single women in the U.S. are not open to casual dating or a committed relationship, compared to 39% of single menDispels the myth that men just want sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:15 PM |
| 2 | How are women finding dates in 2022?You’re right the math doesn’t check out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:50 PM |
| 6 | How are women finding dates in 2022?Just as most women are bombarded with offers for sex, they also get plenty of offers for dates They find dates in 2022 just by dressing nice and walking outside their house | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How are women finding dates in 2022?There’s a theory that OLD apps are actually closer to 50/50 But women who want relationships use OLD and very quickly can get into relationships. So there’s survivorship bias where most guys cannot get easy relationships so they keep activity using the apps So to answer your question, they find dates everywhere. Online, at bars, at the grocery store, at the gym… women need to work to NOT get a date if they’re reasonably attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Are you <26M?In what ways are college experiences with women a pseudo reality? My college and post college experiences have been largely the same. Tinder coffee dates or a bar, then hook ups or more relationshipy stuff like museums or exploring the city. If anything college was significantly easier for relationships. More free time and more access to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | (Q4A) "men peak in their mid 30's."It’s about the balance of men still having some good looks, while also having money, personality, and status. I’d say developing the full profile that makes a man attractive takes at least 5 years. So depending on when the man starts self improvement, late 20s to late 30s is probably the sweet spot for a guy Not saying a late thirties dude can get a 20 year old, but the best version of himself will get the best woman counterpart that he can get, whatever that may be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | (Q4A) "men peak in their mid 30's."To add to this, these are men who wouldn’t have been able to get a pretty 20 year old in their youth anyway So while his raw looks went down, he developed other skills that make him overall the most attractive version of himself, and he’s getting the best looking women he has ever gotten at this age range, if he’s put in the work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | (Q4A) "men peak in their mid 30's."The point is that men require a lot of things to be desirable. Looks, muscles, status, charisma, money, interesting stories, life experiences. These things take time to develop The red pill never said men peak in their thirties. It says that women want the whole package in a man, and acquiring all those skills takes time. So a man who puts in the work to develop these skills in his youth will reap the rewards and be the most attractive version of himself to women by the time he’s in his thirties… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:10 PM |
| 6 | Rich Western Countries are Extremely IncelliousHarsh living environments require people to default to their natural gender roles, as it’s the best chance of survival It also has women appreciating men more for their roles. Meanwhile is a rich country the women are masculine, the men are pussies, and there’s no appreciation for what men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:08 PM |
| -1 | How would you go about dating if you were a successful, handsome man ?Yeah that’s the bluepilled conditioning that soy men live by, and what women say because they don’t like the truth about male nature All men want a young woman, maybe it’s gross to a woman to fuck an old dude, but that’s why the old dude needs to bring an astronomical amount to the table | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagementI heard somewhere that it’s skewed because women instantly can get relationships, and then delete their accounts So there’s survivorship bias of men or casual sex women on the apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:59 PM |
| -2 | How would you go about dating if you were a successful, handsome man ?Fuck a harem, have a couple loyal girlfriends Marry none of them, have kids when I’m like 50 with a loyal, smart, kind, hard working, beautiful 25 year old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Are short (for) athletes able to have casual sex?Status and fitness is attractive. An average guy who’s a pro athlete will do just fine An average guy who isn’t famous will struggle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:54 PM |
| 2 | How much of a deal breaker is yelling/shouting to you? Do you think it's abusive behavior?High value men work there ass off in their careers. No way in hell they’d get home after a 14 hour day to deal with a woman shouting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Men 30+, is it true that you prefer not to date 30 year old womanAny man with options would chose a women in her twenties, unless the man is over 50 But you’ll be fine because 99% of men can’t pull a younger woman, and 30 is a lot different than 35 or 40 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Men 30+, is it true that you prefer not to date 30 year old womanHe can’t do better Dudes pretending they prefer middle aged women only say it because they can’t get a 25 year old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 01:48 PM |
| 6 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?Wrong yourself babe https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1469672/ It’s an issue that’s only recently starting to get attention, with a growing number of research articles pointing a towards xenoestrogens as the issue. The only reason you call it “weak evidence” is because it’s still being collected, but all the signs are pointing towards environmental factors | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | If women prefer high testosterone men why have male testosterone levels consistently dropped?Because of phytoestrogens in our food and water systems, and even in the air. Food is all wrapped in plastics or highly processed in a way that leeches xenoestrogens in the body. You spent all this effort writing nonsense when the answer is very simple and scientifically documented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenWhile it is true that unattractive men have more of a chance than unattractive women, it’s important to note two things: Most women are considered attractive, while most men are considered unattractive Women can wear makeup or workout to become attractive, while the features that make men attractive (height, jaw, bone structure) cannot be changed naturally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How would genetic engineering and advanced cosmetic surgery change the dating scene?Lmao this guys got jokes No it would just be that any guy under 6’ 5” would be ignored | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How would genetic engineering and advanced cosmetic surgery change the dating scene?Wouldn’t make a difference for women. Women are hypergamous and that is because they are wired to find the best man to have children with. So cosmetic surgery for men would turn off women, and at the same time if every man used surgery to go up +5 in smv the goalposts would just shift and women would still only want the top 10% guys For men it would be great since every women would be hot, but even to a certain extent men’s standards would all shift as well. Notice how in like 1700s paintings th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe women's body count number?What age are the women when they say the number is 7? Seems plausible for women under 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Why are they trying to stop usBecause anything that goes against the gynocentric narrative is considered evil and must be eliminated. They don’t care about the nuances of red pill, mgtow, incels, blackpills, bluepilled alphas, etc. It’s as simple as anything that does optimize their alpha fucks beta bucks hypergamy is considered misogyny and must be wiped out | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/07/21 02:58 PM |
| 33 | I feel for you guys this school still… this is a general sentiment with female teachersWhen I was an engineer in college, one of the female teachers literally joked about how male engineering students smelled bad It’s not that big a deal and a harmless joke, but the double standard is incredible. If a male teacher joked about how the female engineers were catty he would be crucified It’s best to just accept that society doesn’t respect men, and to just live your life and ignore the dissenters… … but do wear deodorant haha | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/07/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Podcasts like "Fresh and Fit" profit from the female sexuality they shame/criticize, and prove men's actions also contradict what they say they want.I like them but you are 100% right. Good analysis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Would you enjoy reading a book which contains a MGTOW protagonist?No. This is just woke identity politics from the other side. Just make interesting characters and stories | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/07/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Marriage looks like a blast! Don't know why ya'll aren't simpin', ya LOSERS!“You can’t negotiate genuine desire” - Rollo | /r/MGTOW2 | 29/07/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | What women wantWomen need competition anxiety to be aroused by their man. So yes he’s gotta get fit and have his status, but also has to make the women not entirely sure he’ll never cheat. Not saying he should but he should be attractive to women. Preselection is absolutely huge when it comes to women’s attraction to men, there’s plenty of scholarly evidence for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | What the OKCupid data really saysYeah there’s no way I’m gonna read all of this so apologize if this was explained later in your post But just because women are messaging less attractive guys more isn’t a good thing. Maybe women use tinder for validation or to get entertainment, so the data showed seems to indicate that women find most men ugly, but will allow these unattractive men to talk to her to entertain her. Many times these women take the fun convo and then never meet the guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 02:14 PM |
| 11 | If Chad is so desirable to the vast majority of women, why is he fucking average looking and below average women? Either "Chad" isn't a Chad or women aren't impressed by male beauty.Women lower in SMV are easier to lay and will have less attitude Also men have higher sex drives so they’ll fuck their SMV match as well as women below it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 02:09 PM |
| 0 | I often see that women here say that being a “bad boy” is not what attracts them? So then what are the qualities of these men that attracted/ are attractive then?Plenty of articles proving that women like dark triad traits. Women aren’t gonna be honest and admit it but reality speaks for itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Women what made you have a one night standThat’s not really an answer. The question is what about the guy made you want to have casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 01:04 AM |
| 3 | New research: College women value physical attractiveness in their sexual partners just as much as men do.I mean, blue pilled men think that it’s all about personality, and most women will say that too so they don’t look shallow. A good chunk of society is delusional about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 04:28 PM |
| 0 | When high value men date women less attractive then them, why does this anger people?It’s because blue pilled alphas are disgusting because they normalize simping and giving in to women’s ridiculous standards. Men like Keanu could have a harem of young attractive women, but when he settles on someone who looks like his mother it normalizes the behavior of men sacrificing their potential for mediocre women All men want a harem of young models, but a gynocentric society conditions men to be monogamous and date women in their age range. Top status men are the only ones who can get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withWhat guy ever thinks he’s the most attractive partner his girl has had? This is a nonissue The bigger issue is that when women sleep up and with men +3 points higher in smv, she thinks the is at that new higher level. So when she gets older and gets into an LTR with a guy at her level she thinks she is settling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | I think women prefer younger and/or more feminine men. Society just has outdated standards and hasn't caught up.You clearly have a blinding bias based on your username and post details Stepping back in to reality, the “pretty boy” asthetic only attracts girls under the age of like 22. Women want masculine men, especially in the western countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 03:39 PM |
| 5 | “Toxic Masculinity” is bred from women’s hypergamyThe point is that tens of thousands of years of hypergamy have shaped men to naturally have these aggressive and competitive tendencies. Actually this goes beyond humans and is found in many other animal species | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.You think they didn’t also enjoy and often fuck? And also why would a random ass tribe be comparable to general society at large? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:42 PM |
| -1 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.Yes and maybe Plenty of guys joke that their girl is horny and they don’t feel like it but they do it anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.Yes and maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.I’m not sure what your last sentence is saying, the punctuation is confusing. Animals said nothing about sex? Animals can’t talk silly goose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:39 PM |
| -2 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.From an instinctual level I get that sex carries more risk. But in the modern era but the control mitigates that almost entirely. Condoms and the pill are like 99.99% effective. So just stack one of those with pulling out and there’s like trillion to one odds of getting a girl pregnant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:38 PM |
| 4 | What's with PPD's obsession with sex, and not the other wonderful parts in a relationship?It’s easy to enjoy those parts of a relationship when you already are getting sex. For men it’s incredibly hard to get consistent sex unless you’re a top 10% guy. Patrice o neal had a joke where it’s easier for men to find love than to find sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:26 PM |
| 2 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.Sex is a core driver is the male species. Obviously a life purpose is more important but to just say that male sex drive is due to lack of purpose is unfathomably ignorant. Other animals are just as sex obsessed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:22 PM |
| 7 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.Sex is a core driver is the male species. Obviously a life purpose is more important but to just say that male sex drive is due to lack of purpose is unfathomably ignorant. Other animals are just as sex obsessed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.Sex is a core driver is the male species. Obviously a life purpose is more important but to just say that male sex drive is due to lack of purpose is unfathomably ignorant. Other animals are just as sex obsessed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:21 PM |
| 0 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.Why can’t women just have sex with their man even when they don’t feel like it? Why can’t women ever do anything for the express pleasure of their man? People clutch their pearls at that, but as a guy you’re expected to take her on dates and listen to her long winded stories for her express pleasure. The double standard is ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.Why can’t women just have sex with their man even when they don’t feel like it? Why can’t women ever do anything for the express pleasure of their man? People clutch their pearls at that, but as a guy you’re expected to take her on dates and listen to her long winded stories for her express pleasure. The double standard is ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:20 PM |
| -4 | The same way women shouldn’t settle for bums. Men shouldn’t settle for women who don’t give them regular enthusiastic sex.Why can’t women just have sex with their man even when they don’t feel like it? Why can’t women ever do anything for the express pleasure of their man? People clutch their pearls at that, but as a guy you’re expected to take her on dates and listen to her long winded stories for her express pleasure. The double standard is ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:20 PM |
| 6 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Where in your post do you think you countered the first point? Quote the section | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 05:58 PM |
| 6 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.No you actually didn’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 05:44 PM |
| 3 | The communication gap between men and womenI wouldn’t say men’s relationships are less deep, just different. Men bond through activities, the more difficult the stronger the bond. That’s why so many marines form tight bonds; the simple act of doing shitty activities together with teamwork forms strong bonds for men. Direct communication about emotions isn’t needed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 4 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.If you’re trying to use logic in the realm of both women and the wage gap, you’re gonna have a bad time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 03:40 PM |
| 13 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Fuckboys can wait, and just fuck other women on the side while you make them wait “Fuckboy” is a meaningless term coined by women who are upset a high value man won’t commit to them. All guys want sex like that, but many wait because they can’t afford not to Rather than play those silly games women would be better off just having sex if they want to, and then actually cultivating a personality or value added if they want to keep a guy around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 03:38 PM |
| 28 | Contrary to blind men, blind women place as much value on physical attractiveness in a mate as their sighted peers.Women are attracted to men who are relative winners. That’s why a 5’0” women still wants a 6’+ man, not because of any logistics related to height but because he is taller than most men and therefore stands out | /r/BlackPillScience | 29/06/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | "Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott AdamsI don’t think it’s true. Blue pulled rich guys pay for sex. But red pill rich guys only need their implied status and success to get sex. I like Scott, but he’s clearly blue pulled. He’s like 65 and married an Instagram model who has no interest in him sexually, based on looking at Scott and her instagrams | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | So is dating (and hookups) similar to fishing or is it similar to a business and a marketplace?They help to conceptualize ideas. These two metaphors are used to help you conceptualize two separate ideas. One about how to chose the approach strategy towards women and one to understand the value exchange in a relationship. Like if I were to say “an apple a day keeps the doctor away” and “that is apples and oranges”, you wouldn’t say, “sO oRaNgeS aTtrAct DoCtoRs ThaT dOesNt MaKe seNse” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 11:49 PM |
| 0 | So is dating (and hookups) similar to fishing or is it similar to a business and a marketplace?It’s a little autistic to be taking metaphors literally. They are separate metaphors used to convey different ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what percentage of men do you think have “anger or addiction issues” (excluding porn)?Keep in mind that women are going to “stretch the truth” about these things. If he yells at her once for being annoying and unpleasant she’ll call that “anger issues”. If he had trouble getting it up once she’ll call that “porn addiction”. In reality it’s probably no more than 10% of men who have these. It’s also dependent on age and socioeconomic status probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.It’s lillthofbabylon posting, so you know it’s going to make no sense and contradict itself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 05:33 PM |
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