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| 1 | Wife threatens suicide if I leaveHonestly, life will be easier if shes follows thru. Figure out the balance between limiting your liability and detaching yourself. However, its probably its a bluff, you leave the house and 3 days later she enters a hoe phase 😆 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Newlywed of 1 year and contemplating divorce. Hard time seeing a futureI have the mirror image of this story. Once you serve her divorce papers she might fall off the rocker mentally. These are the sorts of girls that kill you in your sleep 😅 Plan ahead | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/23 04:13 AM |
| 0 | My ex-wife has a date tonight, and while it's killing me to know, it also reminded me of how fake she really isIn her phone after several years? Are you still having sex with her occasionally? If not, maybe you should if everything is finalized. Get a sitter and pound her at an empty movie theatre. Life is too short to be bitter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/23 03:13 AM |
| 0 | I messed upSomething is off. What sorta porn are you watching? It must be niche. Softer or harder than Two girls one cup? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/23 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Is hiring a lawyer worth it?Mediation op. You will otherwise scare her into finding her own attorney. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/23 11:36 PM |
| 4 | In a weird spot regarding relationships, does anyone relate?I’m assuming you have the permanent bachelor vibe. So realistically I wouldn’t expect anything longer than a year or two tops. Ladies want to try a biker guy and some biker cock and they are done; onto a safe guy. Doesn’t matter how old young handsome or ugly, bike and no kids, without any other context, is someone living for the moment, theres just no future with a guy like that. So that’s my take on why you can’t keep a gf. There’s no point in being your girlfriend because there’s no point in … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Ex left her jobWhat a horrible idea. For a short marriage, divorce court and alimony are temporary financial blemishes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Paternity test or notI just looked up Promissory Estoppel. I feel like its misapplied in false paternity. Makes sense in a business setting. Of course what I think doesn’t matter 😆 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/23 04:06 AM |
| 5 | Paternity test or notThis is interesting mental gameplay. Get the test but don’t mention it if the children are yours. Should test all the children. Actually, if they aren’t yours I wouldn’t mention it. I would discuss with attorney and come up with a strategy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/23 10:39 PM |
| 7 | Handling rich new guyHopefully she’s just an easy lay in his rotation. Another angle, he’s a groomer. Educate your kids without alienating them from the guy. I’ve heard a hand full of confessions. The mom’s are aware but they get desperate from being lonely and broke. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/23 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Feeling dead. Is it too late to be worth it?I just thought about something.. figure out how to determine if you are the sole beneficiary to her assets and possessions. If it’s something complicated or fishy, you already know she planned to burn you. I just remembered because I had a sibling that died and she established a trust which essentially was too expensive and complex for her partner to litigate his way into. Everything went to her kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/23 09:21 PM |
| 6 | Feeling dead. Is it too late to be worth it?30-40 years is a long time to be miserable. Just keep living your life. Make friends, travel, enjoy your hobbies, visit family, date discreetly on the side. I do know a woman whose husband bought a 2nd home and lives separate from her. Its been like that for decades. They have zero intention of divorcing and they attend family events and important functions together. Recently, I threw a party at my home, she ended up screwing one of the guests. So you’re scenario of staying married and living se… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Stbxw want to see my apartmentDon’t be stupid. You are asking for trouble. I ended up in a short marriage(1.5 yr), long divorce scenario with a combative miserable entitled broke bitch; didn’t even have kids or entangled property. As another person mentioned, don’t even let her knock on the door.. Rent an suv and pick the kids up or meet in a neutral spot. Too far, fly out. If ur broke, FaceTime Fathers day, try again during the holidays. She’s going to bring the drama, video record your place, and in a few weeks you’ll be r… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/23 06:29 AM |
| 1 | A little story.Isolating a girl from her friends, then escalating is game 101 bro. Literally one of the first lessons. Most common is hot girl with ugly friend. Use a wing man to isolate her. 101 bro, don’t take my word for it, read on it and practice. It’s keeping you from scoring an easy lay. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/23 01:36 AM |
| 1 | A little story.Few people? Isolate her. You work together, she’s not going to be all over you in-front of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/23 01:02 AM |
| -4 | A little story.Literally free pussy man. She’s waving her tits in your face every time. If you want to fuck her, take charge. Go on date directly after work or pick her up. It’s like those music clubs from the 90s. The cds are free, but you have to cover the shipping. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/23 12:51 AM |
| 16 | How I Reached God ModeThis is all about approaching. Did the virginity get lost yet? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/23 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Don't lie to women, spend your time learning to be clever and ambiguous with your words rather than telling lies. You'll simultaneously create more mystery while maintaining your integrity.Fabric of reality, that’s deep.. Lying influences decisions and outcomes. Our reality is now framed within a lie. I’ll think about it more. You are on to something interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Don't lie to women, spend your time learning to be clever and ambiguous with your words rather than telling lies. You'll simultaneously create more mystery while maintaining your integrity.I’m suggesting the wife’s hypothesis is aligned with pattern matching. The music is an example. Ultimately, people do whatever they need to do to get laid. There are enough people to enjoy sex, its just a numbers game. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/23 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Don't lie to women, spend your time learning to be clever and ambiguous with your words rather than telling lies. You'll simultaneously create more mystery while maintaining your integrity.Not sure how that’s any different than pattern matching or dream selling? It doesn’t need to be a wtf moment as most girls are pretty boring. The girls says expresses an interest or desire, you just feed it back to her. She like rock music, you magically like rock music. She’s wishes she could travel the world, you’re magically a world traveler, she’s invited to the next adventure. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/23 08:20 AM |
| 8 | Don't lie to women, spend your time learning to be clever and ambiguous with your words rather than telling lies. You'll simultaneously create more mystery while maintaining your integrity.I did this over and over and over when I was first starting out. I did it recently for the first time in years and struggled to pull off between the holidays. I got flamed on reddit for asking for advice , and honestly all the advice was bad. I figured out a few lies to make it all work, plus I one nighted an additional girl, granted she a 6 (low hanging fruit ) 😈. But this lifestyle involves keeping many lies held together and hiding receipts and phone messages, etc. The only truth is when you … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?There’s a guy, Tom Leykis, advocating young guys date old pussy for experience and when you get older and established, date young pussy. Well, nothing worse than dating some 40yrF . Their body count is so high, they can fuk and dump in the same breath, it’s s such a cheap experience. So I don’t blame Leo one bit. Anyway 18 is the perfect age. Youthful, energetic, curious, firm.. by 25 some girls already have too much baggage, tattoos everywhere, fake body parts, no way man ☠️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you think a man wanting his woman to remain physically fit in a relationship is a reasonable thing to want?Or confident or funny or has social clout. You can have those without money. A fat bartender, meets this criteria and probably gets laid regularly. Probably fuks 0-6.5 level girls np. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a man wanting his woman to remain physically fit in a relationship is a reasonable thing to want?dependapotamus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What do the two genders gain from even engaging with each other?I don’t understand why people always bitch about formatting, for clout. Who gives a fuk.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Hidden copies?!?5 detoxes, well I commend your patience and dedication to the marriage process. Don’t underestimate her and end up injured or worse. You can get new account numbers and have policy numbers reassigned, that’s easy. Go paperless with statements. Set up two factor authentication. The meds, order new prescriptions and keep them at work. It’s too easy to poison you. I’d consider the existing batch comprised. Gun is tricky, what’s the motive here. Hopefully its collectable and she wants it appraised. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/23 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.One of the best responses I’ve read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 07:09 PM |
| -1 | Divorced now for 1 month, been separated for a year. 3 kids under age 8. Just found out my ex has a new boyfriend and the kids have met him. I have had a girlfriend but for some reason I’m really struggling with hatred right now. Suggestions?Women are dumb and careless, its in the bible. stupid meme instagram | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/23 04:32 AM |
| 9 | Divorced now for 1 month, been separated for a year. 3 kids under age 8. Just found out my ex has a new boyfriend and the kids have met him. I have had a girlfriend but for some reason I’m really struggling with hatred right now. Suggestions?Are you concerned the ex is going to parade different guys in front of the kids? I notice the single moms with out child care want to go all in after a month or two. Quick intro to the kids. Next thing we are playing house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/23 08:04 AM |
| 3 | ED after Divorce?When I started dating again I found myself drinking alcohol and caffeine or smoking way more than usual or necessary. Also wasn’t getting much sleep talking to girls or going out. Even now, especially with younger girls. Ed prescriptions are easy to get , def try it, but they don’t work for anxiety and don’t work with the above activities. Don’t wait until 2am to finally get it on. Testosterone is higher earlier in the day. Try to have sex first, before the rest of the date. If I haven’t seen he… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/23 06:54 AM |
| 1 | How to protect myself in the future (wife is low income)Why get married, there’s obviously nothing great about this woman if you’re willing to sabotage your own income potential. Why go thru all this trouble to import some young hot pussy that you’re afraid of… I mean she’s atleat a 9/10 right? California is supposed to be the land of hot young blonds? Walk away b4 its too late. You can find it here 🇺🇸 I used to date girls into marketing, real estate, law. They earn nice salaries; typically more than yours. They have their own pros and cons, namely t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/23 11:53 PM |
| 0 | How to protect myself in the future (wife is low income)The standard is pretty high. Hes fawked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/23 11:03 PM |
| 6 | The Luckiest man alivePro! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/23 08:19 AM |
| 1 | My wife realizes she is going to lose the divorce she filed for. Can she withdraw it?This is the move. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | My wife realizes she is going to lose the divorce she filed for. Can she withdraw it?Once you file a response to her divorce petition, its a done deal. She does technically have the right to appeal basically anything until the divorce is final. Try to wrap it up. Maybe a divorce trial is in your favor at this juncture, idk… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Ex shows up for no reason during my timeI doubt it. Her showing up with a bf validates she’s living a better life without the husband. It doesn’t confirm shes an evil cheating whore. She arrived and the kid ran to her. People respond to that. Him sitting alone, might confirm that other parents or other children are not interested in interacting with him. Reminds me of the term, good looking loser | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/22 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Ex shows up for no reason during my timeIdk, one way to avoid conflict is to prevent it. She seems content to flaunt her bf and her affection for your son, in your face. Many people have been in this situation. There is a consensus you need to man up. I would interpret that as setting clear boundaries. I personally don’t know how to react to “we shall see.." are you in a mood? Are you going or not brah? So she brought backup and her attitude as a defense. And she’s playing to win so you got doubly humiliated. Anyhow, I’m having a dece… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/22 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Ex shows up for no reason during my timeHe’s probably using her for pussy 🐇🐇 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/22 03:22 AM |
| 3 | If you have any thoughts of divorce, do it quickly. It is better to be wrong about ending a good relationship, than to be wrong about trying to save a bad one.I disagree, What I’m going thru now is the same experience, but with different women, same shit-different day, if you will. I find it so unfulfilling. This month I dated and bedded two 30yr olds and a 20yr old and also nailed my ex (haha). All very beautiful women. Actually the 20yr old was not really my type , short and petite polynesian. Everyone is different but even though I’m horny, I really didn’t enjoy these experiences. From a cost standpoint, I felt being married was priceless. The brea… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/22 01:23 AM |
| -1 | Decree prohibits kids from being left alone with significant others, ex-wife leaving our young girls with her bf alone.He could be ok. From what I’ve experienced, men don’t have the capacity to raise another man’s children. Adult women choose their partners over their children all the time. Mom didn’t want to listen to me, when I finally got the courage to tell her. Mom said I was lying. He told me not to tell anyone. Mom told me not to tell anyone. He said if I told, he would hurt my younger sister. Mom promised it would never happen again, but he kept hurting me You can try to solve it outside of court; pay fo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/22 01:59 PM |
| 0 | anyone got experience winning a share of spouse's inherited propertyWhat a douche move, trying to take her family land. Just lower than dirt. However, I do think its fair that you get a valuation for this business venture and be bought out of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/22 01:10 AM |
| 5 | I’m 59 and about to be single for the first time in 30 years. When looking for single women my age how do you know when women want to be approached? What are some tell tale signs?This is such a good point. On 🔥I’ve had success but it’s also a time suck with all the swiping and slow motion chats, or layer of communication (inapp texts> out app texts> phone> web chat> date > stop dating and start from square one with another person . Whereas irl, the women that approached me first were all very interested and ready for immediate dating. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | told my wife the truth yesterdayThis is the best response to me. You still have not reached the issue. However, the communication channel is opened. Try to keep the conversation away from insults and get to the root. For example: When she works ot, I take advantage of the downtime to game. How do you feel about it? And she might respond, its lonely working ot and wants a checkin from you wearing a chewbacca mask bringing her coffee and snacks, or maybe she wants you working on shit around the house. When she’s not working and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/22 09:26 PM |
| 2 | told me she wants to be with other people a year ago, and now is divorcing me and blaming it on my attitude.Buy some more salt man! I know all that was painful, challenging, confusing and probably frustrating to go thru. I would recommend being quick and efficient with the divorce or else you might be exposed to a darker deeper version of her behavior. I’m not saying let her walk all over you. Decide what you want and get it done quickly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | There really is no logic in this, is there?You could also get a deposition from your child. You might need to hire or request a court appointed minors counsel first; an attorney that represents your child interests, independent of your own or spouses interests. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | There really is no logic in this, is there?The goal of my response is to empower the poser, not bury him with excuses. The time and money spent investigating this, probably outweighs the time and money wasted paying the mortgage. Several states have default restraining orders related to spending marital assets on other romantic partners, and if proven, can impact asset division and spousal support, and child custody. Relevant to this scenario, the mortgage payments are bundled into the support package. He could reduce or eliminate those … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | There really is no logic in this, is there?Think what would David Goggins do? Make excuses or get it done. It’s your house. March up there and take a few pictures or hire someone to take pictures. You need some proof he lives there. Is his car there several times a week? Does he get mail there? Does he bring groceries there? Does he drop the kids off or pick them up? If yes to any one of those , he probably lives there. Unless you are restrained, you can set up surveillance, a bee hive camera or whatever.They also have drones and even dr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/22 11:13 AM |
| 2 | STBX Wife already deleting our pictures on her Social MediaI agree with this! Ask for the picture files. Maybe send her a few she doesn’t have as a good faith gesture. My gut is, something like this needs to happen early in the divorce process. Once people move on, they don’t want to return to these relationships mentally | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/22 05:50 PM |
| 4 | There really is no logic in this, is there?Yep, gather some evidence she is cohabiting. You are not longer required to pay her living expenses if this is true. You may need an order, really depends on the state. I’ve learned if you want something to stick you need some basic evidence and to file an order. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/22 05:29 PM |
| 3 | There really is no logic in this, is there?You can have an attorney request a financial order for this. You will need detailed expenses to form a budget from your child. Don’t omit anything(gas money, food, self care, ), no stone unturned.You will also need to rehash your current income and expenses. Really form a story that she is a true dependent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/22 05:25 PM |
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