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Do you appear poor? It could be your presentation gives them the thought they are either rescuing her or getting her to swing branches. Somethjng to think about?
/r/askTRP04/05/15 03:32 AM
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She probably did it to "show" you she has options or how "good" she is by not cheating. Not realizing that what she should have done is burned that friendship right there and then and said nothing. Let alone how she even g9t itno the conversation in the first place.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 04:32 PM
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I would suggest you have missed something, I don't believe being Alpha is leaving your children and legitimate responsibilities, that is just being weak.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:48 PM
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www.headspace.com This guy makes it pretty easy to understand without all the spirtual side of things.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:21 PM
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Here is something to think of; Kids are the new commitment gold standard. I have heard people say, "I don't want kids" and what they really meant was "I don't want kids with this person". Personally so take this with a grain of salt, I have heard at least 10 or so people say "they don't want kids" only to have them change partners and then have kids.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 03:43 PM
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Don't be a passenger in your life. Be a driver. Well said, this applies to all areas of your life, not just wives.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 04:24 PM
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Sounds good, I will say this though, specializing too early in a IT Infrastructure career causes a lot of problems later on (architecture, project work) because they don't know how the total "stack" fits together. So it is better to get that broad knowledge and then hone in what your passion + value is. (meaning you may love linux but if the money isn't there it is a hobby not a career path). Always get certs for stuff you know. Don't worry about being a "paper tiger", it won't hurt you with rec…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 03:37 PM
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Competence is a huge turn on, and face it you need to above board in the other areas of "being a man", because physically you have what you have. So be good at something, you will need to work harder. Devops, is essentially the bridge between programming world and infrastructure world, you need to know how the technology but also the processes between them. Generally this is not a starter position. As for you, get your usual certs, comptia, mcse, ccna's etc, then work on your process/management/…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 02:42 PM
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Go into cloud devops, noc, server side ops. Hit the books hard, learnt to script, and you will have no problems. Look for a touchy feely company and your handicap could be bonus
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:54 PM
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She probably thinks that this is how she should relate to you, probably sees her husband do it and thinks "this is how he wants me to act to" if she is solid in all the rest (loyalty to husband, etc) and doesn't dislike you as above, then that is probably it. Teach her in a positive way how you want her to interact with you as your buddy's wife. In other words: She has no idea how to interact with you so is "just one of the guys".
/r/askTRP26/03/15 04:06 PM
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Your instincts are correct, in the social situation you describe she will be under enormous pressure. 1) The leader doesn't like you, so will be a voice of "just do it". 2) The other girls who are "having fun" will pressure her to partake, as it gives their actions validation. 3) Alcohol 4) Environment, expectations, norms are all hook up focused at spring break. Basically the only way she isn't going to cheat on you is if she willfully seperates herself from the herd, and then gets shit on for …
/r/askTRP26/03/15 03:49 PM
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even making fun of him in front of you and/or dumping him in the process It seems like they think this is a plus for them, like "look at me treating him like shit for you" when all I ever thought was "that could be me someday, nope."
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 02:35 PM
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So downvote because? Have a look then, what is it?
/r/MensRights23/02/15 01:02 AM
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Are you fat? Have a "look"? r/redpillwomen will probably help you if your open minded enough.
/r/MensRights23/02/15 12:56 AM
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"I just ended up becoming someone they didn't take seriously (looking back), someone who was in idiot and always there for everyone. I herniated a disc and was in bed for 3 weeks, no one even called to check up on me, not even a fucking SMS or IM." Congrats on realizing this and working through it, i would caution not to be bitter about it. Understand that for many people they are just focused on their own stuff to the exclusion of everything else, not great friend material but not something tha…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:23 PM
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Salary negotiations should be like marriage proposals, you should be very certain that it is going to be successful before you ask formally. Use your certification as a way to broach the subject unofficially, mention that you have some more in mind and what ones would be most useful. Use that to segue into a discussion about compensation, and watch for the reaction. Never threaten to leave, just discuss your compensation or leave. The worst case scenario is that you threaten, they bump you by so…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 04:10 PM
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Vancouver, Calgary, are nice places when you are young and single but you really have to immerse yourself in the downtown life. For raising children to maturity though.. I would take PG over Vancouver any day. Calgary is better if you are more business orientated, Vancouver if you are more artsy.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 03:36 PM
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Meditation/mindfulness certainly helps me, and days or periods that I don't take the time I certainly see the outcome. I was watching youtube and Andy Puddicombe had a short TED talk about it. I like their his version of it as it removes most of the mumbo jumbo. Youtube Introduction https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qzR62JJCMBQ Website: https://www.headspace.com/
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:37 PM
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